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  • 2:52 who is that i have a name in my mind but i dont wanna sound stupid so can anyone tell me

  •  y is this Video not on her VEVO

  • Ladies getting beat down like a rag doll is not love.If you are in an abusive relationship leave immediately.Theres good people in world who can love you and treat you right.

  • This song is so old but I never saw the video before now. Kinda makes me wanna go run a guy over or something

  • i was in the same situation 2 but i was 4 or 5 months preg w/ my son and he didnt believe that he was the father and he threw me down the stairs after chokin me i was lucky to have some1 helpin me even after my miscarriage get out ladies its not worth it no1 has the right to hurt u idc the situation me and a few others were lucky..seek help we women r stronger than what those immature asses that like to beat on women to compinsate for somethin, EVE ur #1!

  • like if you are wattcing in 2012

  • It's not always that black and white. You can't pick who you love. Sometimes the one you love just needs some time and understanding to get to that place where he needs to be to love you the way that he should.

  • @AproposOfNothing86 Are u trying to say that you should put up with a man hitting you until he grows up? I hope i'm mis reading what you wrote

  • As old school as it gets.

  • its like a story some women go thru everyday.. like if u agree

  • i love this song this true shit

  • Real Shit..

    Beware Girl Sometimes Love Is Not What You "Think" It Is.

  • How do people even dislike this song??

  • love is blind it'll take over your mind. What you think is love is really bullshit.

  • #UNDERRATED!!

  • nicki minaj blinds fembots and others with her sweet yet tasteless and tacky image from the truth while eve and queen latifah told the RAW i give them all the credit.foxy brown(and khia) gives nothing but drama to other female mcs while lil kim(and dabbrat)is trying to paint her own picture on who she is and how she wants to be treated.

  • this song gives me chills. So true

  • love this song :D

    

  • this song is da truth.i dealt wit dis shit for 2 n ah half years.lost 2 kids n ended up in ICU before i realized that either he was gonna end up killin me or i was gone kill him.i gave up my life,my family,my friends.the only people tht actually gave ah fuck.tht nigga put me thru alotta shit.i dont regret bein wit him cuz he taught me life lesson but to all da broads out dere;get the fuck out before is too late.

    chic9811

  • love is blind has been my fav song since i was either 3or4 an thats young but im 16 no n i have always remebered this song n 2 the ladies that went thru this im glad you survived n for those who didnt r.i.p. i hope i dont end up n those situtation cuz the one i with now hes jealous a lil bit,sometimes control,an sometimes inscure an i jus hope god send me a sign before its to late but im very n love with him...I PRAY TO GOD every nite hopein that jus him being immature cuz i really do love him

  • I love love love this song :))

  • i am 14 years old, when i have a woman, i will never lay a bad thing-er On her, i think i already found this woman, Loves he her loads <3

  • ladys pick your man wisley

    

  • My friend was shot & killed senselessly by her abusive, jackass, loser husband. I hope the asshole rots in prison!!!!! R.I.P. Rosa. Gone but not forgotten :*(

  • great

  • :'(

    

  • i was in a domestic violence situation before. i got out and that is the best thign i ever did

  • Maybe now these Girls will understand what love is! When people hurt you really bad sorry wont work. Get out of that relationship if you know in your heart it's bad.

  • The song is the real deal...and Faith topped it off.

  • I want my friend back, she is so unhappy, just alone and far to home, i HATE her boyfriend! FUCK IT =,(

  • Wow. he made her come back to him just so he could kill her. really sad story. i guess no one can save you unless you want to be saved.

  • This video is really sad but true. it was based on a friend of her's. i've never had a man hit me before, but if it would ever, the FIRST time it happened it would never happen again because out the door i go. if feel really sorry for those people commenting that's going through a situation like this and stays with the person. your basically letting them know it's ok to abuse u if u never leave. some think staying is what makes you strong. but it's actually leaving.

  • EVE WAS ONE ONE THE FEW FEMALE EMCEES I LIKED IN THE 2000s.

  • i lov3 D!s song, !ts so REAl what can i say. I was in this siTuation with my 3X glad and thankin GOD dem dayz !Z ov3r.

  • shit quality

  • in my opinion her BEST song EVER!! come back eve!!!

  • love aint blind

  • @MacThugTupac yes it is

  • Eve destroyed dis hoe..truss

  • One of my favorite songs ever!!!!! IDK what idiots disliked this song!!!!!

  • Yaaaaaaaaaahooooo!!!!!!!

  • I don't feel sorry for women who get hit and don't leave. It's their own damn fault for staying, quit celebrating a pity party with these bitches and put your thumbs up for REAL women who left after the first hit!

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  • Thank you, Eve.

    Someone had to fucking say it.

  • this situation happen to me not to long ago. I swear i was in love with him but i really wasnit. I learnt my lesson thoough...

  • I was trying to think of a way to say this;

    But I couldn't, my boyfriend hit me a little while ago..

    and my 20mo. old son was sitting in his bed and saw everything. It made

    me feel horrible, and I just feel like I did everything wrong.. And I remembered

    this song, and it's exactly how I feel about my situation..

    But in a lot of ways I feel like I deserved it :/

  • @xxMissy13 Hey hey NOT ONE FEMALE DESERVE'S TO GET HIT BY THERE MEN. NOT ONE!!!! AND BEING SERIOUS NO MATTER IF IT IS YOUR FAULT YOU NEVER DESERVED HIT TO LAY HIS HANDS ON YOU NO MATTER WHAT!!!!. THAT AINT LOVE AT ALL.... GET RID OF THE BITCH NIGGA!! I DEFINITELY KNOW WHAT EVE IS TALKING ABOUT AND GUY'S THAT DO THAT SHIT MAN MAY YOU REST IN PEACE. LAYDE'S GET OUT IF THEY DO IT TO YOU AND KICK THEM RIGHT IN THE @#$! WHERE IT HURTS THEM SEE HOW THEY LIKE IT... THERE ARE WAY BETTER GUYS OUT THERE

  • THIS SONG IS SO SAD, SHOULDNT NO WOMAN HAVE TO GO THRU THIS BULLSHIT AND NO CHILD SHOULD WITNESS THEIR MOTHER BEING ABUSED AND IT ALSO KILLS ME THAT HIS 2 FRIENDS SAT THERE AND SAW WAT WAS GOIN ON AND DIDNT EVEN TRY TO STOP HIM, I DONT CARE IF THOSE WERE HIS FRIENDS THEY SHOULD HAVE BEEN MEN AND STEPPED UP SMH !! LADIES THIS IS NOT LOVE ITS BULLSHIT!!

  • that is so FUCKEN SAD OMG he should of been exacuted and killed

  • lmao

  • @hardlawd how is the video funny to you dumbass?!

  • i love this song when i was going through it i had a friend like this and i thank god for her!!!

  • my best friend is pregnet and her baby daddy dont let her go to school. shes 15 hes 23 he hits her and dont let her go to church. he dont let her go home four longer than 3 or 4 hours. he brings his gurls around her an dont let her leave or talk..

  • @deaydeay72 ...damn. now's the time to call the police. She's a minor and that is no environment for a baby.

  • "Even better you got up you heard my gun cock praying to me now I ain't God but I'll pretend....I ain't give you life but imma bring it to an end" <3

  • jeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!

  • domectic violence is a serious cycle get up and leave is not worth staying in a relationship true story i been threw it and iam still here...

  • This is one of my all time favorite anti domestic violence songs! Thanks Eve, for keeping it real! A true survivor,an author/poetess just spreading the message. Break the Silence, End The Violence

    Call THE National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)

    U.S. 24/7 HELP IS AVAILABLE

  • luve dis song also its true

  • There is no such thing as a female rap video on youtube in 2011 that doesn't have NICKI MINAJ all up in the comments. That alone shows how much she has your minds. She ain't did shit to nobody.

  • I know a few people who need to listen to this song. Like my mom, her husband, my step dad, has already threatened to put a bullet in her head 3 times because he won't let her go or 'be with anyone else'. But yet she doesn't think he'll do anything

    A friend of mine is also knocked up. The father has threatened to hurt her. He's already hit her and raped her. Also told her to get rid of the baby, yet she's in denial.

  • Eve where you at baby girl we miss that thug lady attitude :)MISSISSIPPI WANT YOU BACK>>>>>

  • This is HQ?? Hmmmm...

  • i was in this situation... crazy boyfriend and he shot me at point blank range twice wit a 12 gadge shot gun... He was so obsessive and would not let me go anywhere because he was insecure. He really had me doing everything stated in this song and i still let him stay... I didnt listen to anybody... i seriously thought it was love and it almost caused me my life... im lucky to be here... ladies if you in a situation GET THE FUCK OUT because i survived, but everybody is not that lucky.

  • @kiantee1 god bless you sweet heart thats painful so painful i hate it  happene d to you that god keep you covered we all want love in this mean cold world i have three daughers and its fearful this would go on i watch my mother get hurt and no one would help her back then the 70's i vow to never through it if i can help it tell your story always witness .

  • @kiantee1 : I am so glad you were able to get out of there! You are so incredibly brave and strong! Thank you for putting your story out there and being an inspiration to others! Thank you! Blessed Be! :) <3

  • this aint the song you need to listen to EVE-LOVE IS BLIND now that song is sooo true

  • @kiantee1 i feel yu mama!!! i was 1 of the lucky onesz also!!

  • @kiantee1 Damn you a strong woman and my sister was in this same situation and she didn't make it out, I wish i could just rewind time right now

  • @kiantee1....AMEN AND THANK GOD YOU ARE, LOVE IS NOT SUPPOSE TO HURT LIKE THAT....IVE BEEN THERE TOO, BEEN GONE 6 YRS BUT THERE IS A CHILD IN THE FACTOR, THAT WAS MY BLESSING, I HAD TO LIVE FOR MY CHILDREN....GOD BLESS

  • @kiantee1 damn that was deep, and god bless you that you're still here

  • No women any where in the world should go through this pain.. and if youre goin through this pain keep yur head up and have faith in GOD!Be strong dont let a nigga get to you aiiite!!!

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  • As soon as he hit me, i would've been out the door. Fts. Jewelry aint worth abuse

  • I really love eve and I think that she is a great rapper. I would love to see some more from her. But this is a serious situation that is going on everywhere. And I dont think that no one should go through that type of abuse. Like I tell everyone its not going to get any better and next time it could be the end of your life. So please if this is happening to you just get out.

  • Powerful song. I played this song for my Marriage and Family class, to which this obnoxious girl made a comment about signing up to learn something in school, not listen to rap songs; she thought we were in a "rap music class". I cussed her out and she ended up dropping the class a few weeks after I played this. My professor loved the song and gave me extra credit points.

  • love eve

  • Rishitna and eminem ripped the video and song off!!!

  • :')

  • FAITH EVANS SUNG THE SHIT OUT THIS CHORUS :)

  • love this song

    I would have put a gun in his mouth

  • i rather take physical abuse than the emotional abuse i'm going through..

  • @et3rnity69 You shouldn't take any abuse.

  • @Aaliyah0109 if only it was that easy..

  • @et3rnity69 Its not easy but there is help. Never let someone demean/harm you physically, mentally, verbally, or even socially, especially in the name of love. Your well-being is worth way more than their ego.

  • @Aaliyah0109 i'm built like a quarter back.. i can take physical abuse... *sigh*

  • @et3rnity69 Then knock their ass out the next time they verbally assault you!!!

  • @Aaliyah0109 i wish... but that won't help my situation..

  • @et3rnity69 Fortunately, I've never been in your position. The only thing I can tell you is to get out while you still can. Oneday that verbal abuse will turn into physical abuse. Do what is best for you, but at the same time remember your worth. IDK if it is a significant other who is treating you like that or a parent, but my heart goes out to you.

  • @et3rnity69 no honey....I watched my mother be beaten and raped my whole life and i pray another woman never goes through that. she was a big woman and she would hit back but she still didn't deserve that pain and neither do you

  • @ButterflyGuilded i surpassed pain when i was 6 years old..

  • @ButterflyGuilded all my life has shown me is............ i was just saying that

    i'd rather take the physicall..

  • seriously how does this song have any dislikes. Eve goes as hard as any man in the rap game.

  • Ligit !

  • Thumbs upp if this is ya shitttt :))))))))))))))

  • Classic, I'd listen to this song when my parents fought when I was little, Real talk If I was big enough back then I would've kicked the shit outta my dad for layin his hands on my mom..still think about it when I hear this song.

  • this video is out there to show people that violence is not the way, thanks to people that dont do anything, the men keep doing it, so whoever knows of someone in a violent position should tell someone or call the cops, too much violence in this world.

  • I love this song and Eve,... Every time I listen to this I cry /:

  • FUCKN COCK SUCKERS , WHO JST STOOD THERE AND WATCHED HER GET A HIDING THEY SHOULD GET A BULLET TOO THERE HEADS! BOYS WARNING YOUS NEVER TOUCH A GIRL ITS NOT WORTH IT , IF I WAS HER I WOULD OF KILLED THE BASTARD BUT ALWEST ITS JUST A VIDEO CLIP SO YAH.......

    THIS SONG IS THE SHIT , IT JST REMINDS ME OF WHEN I WAS YOUNGER!

    I LISTEN TO IT EVERYDAY ALLfucknDAY

    CHSH!!!!!!!!!!

  • @maharanora im hearing you girl im a man an if i eva saw a man boy or even a fucking an old man beat up on a woman i would cut der cock off an make em fucking eat it in front of me ohh an i aint gay by da way lol i jus no where u r cuming from hun trust life can b a bitch 2 da best of us xx :(

  • I hate people comparing everyone to everyone else its retarded just give all the artist credit for wat they doin cuz everyone doin things in there own way and if u dont like that artist well then dont listen or comment on there music.....

  • HQ, are you shitting me?  It looks and sounds fucking awful. And what's with the dicks just typing the lyrics. Piece of shit, wasted 30 seconds of my life on this dogshit.

  • * Eve Killed This Song , Eve Did Her Thing ! I Love Eve , She to Sexy !

  • song gives me goose bumps

  • I SOOOOOOOO REMEMBER THIS SONG LIKE YESTERDAY. ME AND SOMEONE WHO USED TO BE MY FRIEND USED TO ALWAYS LISTEN TO THIS SONG EVERY FUCKIN DAY. WE USED TO ALWAYS BLAST EVE CD. EVERY FUCKIN DAY. I MISS THESE DAYS. IT WAS IN THE BEGINNING OF MY 9TH GRADE HIGH SCHOOL YEAR.

  • if u dont watch out love will drive you crazy crazy song en lie love is blind

  • Its 2011 Nd Im Still Watcvhin This.. This Song Is Too Fuckin Real.. But Whoever Beats A Damn Girl Need To Have A Few Shells Bust Inside Of Demm ! Real Talk

  • Its 2011 Nd Im Still Watcvhin This.. This Song Is Too Fuckin Real.. But Whoever Beats A Damn Girl Need To Have A Few Shells Bust Inside Of Demm ! Real Talk

  • Its 2011 Nd Im Still Watcvhin This.. This Song Is Too Fuckin Real.. But Whoever Beats A Damn Girl Need To Have A Few Shells Bust Inside Of Demm ! Real Talk

    

  • 4u ill keep a clip ready.

  • I wish I was her brother Ill beat the shit out dude ass

  • Eve just whooped some ass!!!

  • Chilling.

  • man dhiz manisnt a man he a pussy for beating on her i hate pussy

  • @DaddyGurl702....I AGREE & @bubrooske10....If a real man sees anotha man beatn on a woman, he gone step in(FRIEND OR NO FRIEND) I wudnt want a pussy ass nigga to be my friend anyway!!!!!!!!!

  • i love this song. my last boyfriend beat me, and everyone told me not to be with him because they knew he would beat me really bad.... ididnt listen to anyone and yesterday, he beat me very badly.... i should have listened. but this song helps me through.

  • Yall dont get it , the reason people be comparing every female mc to Nicki is because this generation always proclaim she the best, but Nicki has no song that you can relate to really actually relate to, and it express how you feel inside. Thats something thats missing from her. She talking bout Ken and Barbies thats not reality, thats not the real world. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN GIRLS GO THROUGH THIS, music is an outlaw for some including me, i come to eve not nicki. Cause Eve is real when she spits.

  • -How would you feel if I held you down & raped you..tried & tried but I don't ever think I'm going to escape you.....

  • did faith film her bits for this during her NEVER GONNA LET YOU GO video? both are from 1999

  • did faith film her bits for this during her NEVER GONNA LET YOU GO video?

  • No woman in the world should ever go through this type of situation..We should treat our women like the Queens that they are...

  • tis song old jammm l0ve it thouggh eve 0b=ne 0f the first real woman artist

  • R.I.P. My beautiful C.S.R.C. Tha fucka that did this 2 you, is gunna burn. 2 all tha lost souls

  • 40 men like to abuse there woman.. im descusted..

  • @DaddyGurl702 and lose a friend over a girl you don't know he aint his daddy

  • this is for all the girl that like thugz and gangsta

  • I Love You Kandace Rose....R.i.p you where sooooo young icant get over this it hurts sooo bad whyy you<3 your cousin Kimberly Marie 6-6-91-7-20-11 Smh :'/

  • the 40 people that disliked this song are blinded by all that barbie bullshit that nicki minaj is selling

  • @algsmoove yo this is one of my fav, I've been getting into more and more old school rap that my parents wouldn't let me lsiten to as a kid, and i've got a bunch of favs including eve, but please don't diss on Nicki Minaj, I mean Her music just as good as a bunch of these singers, sure her's have different morals and stuff but it's still whats comming from her heart. Like I honestly don't get why so many people bash on her.

  • Wow.

    I can't watch this without crying.

    Let alone listen to it.

    This song is so true..I usually avoid music with too much vulgar language

    but I just love this song so much.

    I understand your anger and sorrow Eve ♥

    It reminds me of someone </3

  • did song is so real man, it's a tru definition of why i am howi am

  • damn i cant belive she died

    EVE IS ONE HOOD ASS GIRL!!

  • i jus got in a big fight wit my man 3 days ago and he blacked my eye and beat da shit outta me jus cuz i smacked him and for 1 second i was gonna go back to him dis vedio jus changed my mind fuck him i leaving thanks eve for dis song im stronger now

  • @SOBADCOCAINA:

    You go girl! :)

  • @wackyweirdochic thank u mama

  • @SOBADCOCAINA:

    My pleasure ♥

  • somtimes a girl thinks thats all she deserves so hard to see ur worth more after years of being told ur nothing wat a head fuck thanks eve for this song made me a lil stronger even if it is just in my mind for a couple of minutes listenin to ur song so much love to you women goin through shit love u all x

  • HQ? lol

  • real talk you never know what your in until you get out of it....hmmmmm

  • Shit this video goes to my mom. I see this shit happen to her too believe it. I worry everytime

  • daddygurl702 stop being racist you have a point though

  • this goes out to ever woman thats blind ill keep you all in my praiers

  • So Sad but So Beautiful, she raps with such passion, this song must have been about one of her friends

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  • that little girl did more to try to stop it then ole dude in the beginning. . . smdh

  • Eve didn't have to steal another's looks to be famous. She didn't have to lash out at other female rappers just to get more attention. She didn't have to fuck and marry anyone in Ruff Ryders to be famous. so Eve is the better rapper. hell, even Gangsta Boo would mop the floor with her, as well as Trina. Oh, and who the hell lets a guy smack her with a suitcase or whatever that was? lol

  • fuck nicki minaj eve will destroy nicki minaj

  • from where im standin, anybody who saw it happen and didnt do nothin is just as guilty, wat u gon say when shes dead : "...im sorry" smh they Jus gon watch her get beat NIGGAs GET OFF YO ASSes!

  • love it

    

  • you assholes nicki minaj don't need to take notes cause she does her own thing and its beyond amazing, so go stuff your faces cause thats all u guys can do. both are truly amazing artist

  • Keep lettin a nigga tell u he hit u cause he love u,that's just a Bitch ass nigga. Keep u a hot pot of grits to throw on his ass any time of the day.

  • @sexyfagan like in madeas family reunion xD

  • she was a fuckin stripper. and she doesnt need rick ross to write her rhymes you fucking whore.

  • When I wake up Everyday and listen to EVE

    And when I wanna fight someone I listen to D O Double G

    When I wanna feel the pride I listen to big pac and easy E

    And when I wanna sleep I listen To D,R,E

  • this song is the Truth !! But Why i see Nicki's name on Here !! #Smh !!! Eve nd Nicki shouldn't be in the same sentence !!

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  • barbie trick please take note ....this is how the real pees put it down , not all ur shit that u come up with.

  • I luv dis video cuz its real. Eve is da shit real talk. She inspires me nd she will always b an inspiration. ily Eve nd wish u da best lyf. Love Dria

  • At the end it says, "For Andrea" anyone know who that is?

  • listen:love is Blind

    I dont even know you and i hate you <------bcuz u disliked:(

    o well its ur opinion tho

  • there shouldnt be any dislikes to this video.i know im young but its true and this true so y dislike dislikes r fir haterz and haterz shuldnt hate this and plus some or most or all might or may go threw this

    #ppl needa understand

  • how he gon beat her for puttin on make up to cover the bruise HE LEFT on her face? and the two niggas sittin there not doin a damn thing but they wanna stand up then sit dwn and shake their heads???? How bout u get ur big asses off the fuckin couch and help her daughter and Eve did more than they did if i was Eve after i broke it up I would have whopped his big ass for touchin her and cursed them two negros the fuck out sittin there like cnt do a damn thing to help smfh so sad

  • Eve NEVER topped this first album.. luv u Eve

  • Do You Know How Much This Song Means To Me?

  • I luv Eve ...real talk

  • How did the girl in the video die

  • @TheFaye1994 he beat her black ass lol

  • @TheFaye1994

    From the lyrics I would only assume her boyfriend beat her to death. =/

  • @sweetnlovin this song was written for her friend who was having alot of problems

  • 37 ppl r women beaters......

  • i liked eve better with the blond short curls (tambourine video) but i love this song

  • How you just going to stand there and watch him take her into the room and beat on her and then sit your black ass back down smh you really ain't no real man if you stand by and watch your friend beat on his girl

  • @DaddyGurl702 thats the same shit i said lol yo they jus sat there aint break up nothin but gon sit dwn and shake they heads wtf?

  • @DaddyGurl702 :l any bitch who stays! deserve it!

  • @antdez1 are you stupid or something? no one deserves to be hit, whether i