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  • Also heres another tip personal hygine is big. Washing your hair, cleaning under your fingernails and just showering is a big plus. Wearing clean socks and deordorant helps. Brushing your teeth and a small piece of gum or breath mint helps big time. Oh and get a pedicure or clip your toenails. Once you master being clean maybe you can move on to the next step. Thanks

  • No one likes a needy man bothering them 24-7 Calling a women 2 or 3 times a day is annoying. However,to make her feel important is to bring her flowers one day.. maybe another time give her a foot rub... Make her a favorite dinner or breakfast.Plan a road trip. Plan a trip to a romantic get a way. I use to give a guy my number to get rid of him. Then when he calls I dont answer; its maybe a cowardly thing to do in a way but it works like a charm.

  • Any tips on dating women who are married???

  • they want what they CANT have;they want what is a challenge UNTIL they have it;they want to chase until they have caught THEN move on and chase again and again;they want to reel a man in doing "seemingly anything that works for him" then gradually take over and control almost every aspect of his life;they want ONLY one man unless they break up..then THEY can move on BUT the man better not DARE;they want to run your life and be sure THEY are in control.WOMEN WANT IT ALL WHILE PRETENDING NOT TO.

  • she was not interested period. women compare men like habit and it's ok for them to do it, when a man calls all the time, if she was interested it meant, it's a good sign, but because she is not into him it's not good. you should be coaching women not men.

  • I keep typing "How to reject WOMEN nicely" and all i get is "Why women rejected men" videos....

  • @whyeff21 There are plenty of nice ways, but because women are so used to getting what they want, they'll probably respond with whining and demonizing you. Just get straight to the point and it will work out fine enough. :>

  • I'M LATINO, AND CHECK WHAT SHES SAYING, SHE SAYS THAT SHE HATES OVER ATTENTIVE MEN, OK, BUT THEN SHE SAYS THAT SHE HATES MEN THAT MAKES HER FEEL UNIMPORTANT, SO THAT MEANS THAT SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS, IT HAPPENS WITH MILLIONS OF GIRLS, IN MY OPINION, WOMAN SHOULD BE RESPECTED, BUT NOT TAKEN SO SERIOUSLY, IF I WANT TO GO OUT WITH A GIRL, AND SHES NOT INTERESTED, I JUST TURN AWAY AND MOVE ON, THERES ALWAYS A BETTER GIRLS EVERYWHERE, INSTEAD OF WASTING TIME WITH ONLY 1!

  • many guys think look have much to say, but confidence have maybe more to say!! we like crazy happy , confident men- THATs sexy!:)

  • Jessica can I take you out on a date or more to the point can I take you in the date?

  • Why do women reject men? Because they can.

  • The third reason. What? I'd say, at least have an Idea on what you want to do. If she doesn't go for it ask her what she wants to do. Give her a say man.

    Also, the guys on here need to start looking in a different place for their women. Not ALL women are like you guys say. Some of us are lesbians.

  • @ZexionFangirl42 i didn't think a straight man could go on a date with a lesbien

  • @4pointsWest And that's where the problems lay. The best ones are almost always gay or taken.

  • If you really want to pick up girls, I recommend that you read both of the following guides:

    - "The Game" by Neil Strauss

    - "Pandora's Box" on MackMethods. com (highly recommend this)

    GENERAL GUIDELINES

    1) Be Confident (Posture, Eye Contact, Speak With Authority etc).

    2) Act like you don't need them and make them prove themselves to YOU!

    3) Make them feel comfortable (comfort comes before intimacy)

    4) Demonstrate that you're a good provider & protector (easy ways to do this).

  • @MrMaclover09 I excpect you are not a woman so do not think that you know why women reject men, sexist!

  • Respond to this video...  If u r nice u are consider a whimp not a alpha male.

  • I agree with you on some things. Some women have told me that I should have consulted with them before the date. Seems that all people have unique personalities.

  • Well well well, Miss Hitch huh?

  • @MrMaclover09 Unga bunga

  • @XSYGUNX Sorry but the wording of your answer suggests otherwise...

  • @joimko2 yeah whatever

  • So first they reject a guy for caring too much, then they will reject a care for caring too little.

    I'm confused.

  • @fatmanreturns Of course you are. Because this video is not reflecting the simple fact that some women will like being called everyday while others will not. One size fits if not nonsense, is at least restrictive. These videos from J are nice to make you think & reflect on people you have around you not to offer solutions on a plate.

    Now for all the people blindly insulting women, I think you have a serious problem to solve before even thinking about approaching one! Many women are wonderful.

  • is that a neckles, or a bottle opener?

  • @MrMaclover09 Why are you upset then? You must be getting women in droves, asshole.

  • @MrMaclover09, @rockstoneish & @rb20ind: Where is the love ay?

  • women change their mind like they change their knickers.not even another woman understands another woman,so what chance does a man have?

  • You can't be spontaneous and just take some bitch somewhere bcz they don't appreciate the gesture. Also, you say bullshit like "well he didn't have anything to talk about when he was trying to talk to me". Bitch, you try striking up some conversation as well. It's a two way street whore gagger.

  • @MrMaclover09 amen

  • @MrMaclover09 Thanks for making me laugh... SRA

  • @MrMaclover09 Ahhhh, reminds me of Forrest Gump.

  • how 'bout he's broke???? My last girlfriend's favorite position was facing Bloomingdale's!

  • they just dont like you! Duh!!

  • @MrMaclover09 dumb you gotta make your move its like chess not checkers everything goes in love and war

  • Dude the reason is because women want assholes until i would say on average the age of 26 or 27. some never grow up though.

  • @MrMaclover09 I'm a nice guy, Im slim, good looking - unfortunately I am nice... I'm not the dominant type, hence why I am still single.

    Can anyone explain that?

  • @Blake198 You're nice guy or shy guy ? Because it is a big difference. It is better to be a nice guy , but sometimes you have to be very strongly with women, which means not to be so nice.

  • how about SHE have something planned or in mind once in awhile? Are we just always expected to constantly entertain them? Is it not supposed to be a two-way street?

  • @JunkyardKid If you want to get laid, expect to work for it.

  • @LoreleiCarlsonTV That does nothing to answer the question.

  • @MrMaclover09 You're dead on, man!!!

  • @MrMaclover09 totaly bro

  • They reject you cause the last guy they were with rejected them. You cant move on till you let the last one go...!

  • This is why I go overseas to date. It's not worth being a nice guy to women here in America or in Canada, UK, and Australia.

    Nice guys, pick up another language and visit another country. You won't regret it!!!

  • Wow? My ex said I didnt give her enough attention, and didnt call enough.. and she just wanted a day with me. And? She said she said I didnt talk about my past relationships enough to let her in on my past lfe..ThEN? She said.. "How come you always PLAN everything?! And dont let me pick where we can go, and what we can do?" So? I dont know.. maybe shes not your "typical" girl,..huh? Haha.. Im just kidding.. All that was a joke ;) Did you smile ;) ?

  • GUYS! Don't try to analyse everything about, women don't waste time trying to understand them,You won't! WE ARE DIFFERENT.Use your humor and always be a little bit cocky with them, and you'll see!It's a killing combination,trust me!

  • WOMEN REJECT MEN FOR AAAANY REASON , FOR EXAMPLE the best contraceptive women use is: "Oh I have this headache again!!...

    POOR MEN ALL THOSE WHO SUFFER FOR BEING ACCEPTED BY WOMEN...THEY´LL GO NUTS...

    THE BEST COMPANION IS A BEER OR A DRINK WITH FRIENDS....

  • @rockstoneish you sure got that right.

  • @rockstoneish UR MOM USED IT BT HW DID U CUM OUT OF HER ****???

  • @rockstoneish i agree

  • @rockstoneish Ro smoking ...maibe a prostitute or 2.They help^_^

  • Women act like nonsense. They seem interested they give their number but when you call her she doesn't answer. So contradictory..

  • to be honest.. all those eHow stuff is really art for art.. there's only a lot of talking without anything solid said..

    Q: how to hit on girl?

    A: there are many ways.. you have to find your own.

    waste of time!!

  • Sexy rock stasr and movie stars never have to worry about being rejected, because they're famous and rich. I mean, imagine Bruce Sptingsteen being rejected by a woman. It would never happen.

  • @DimebagVision Yes, but if you're doing the asking it's helpful to just have an idea. Find out what she likes to do and do that, just ask her what she likes to do . If it's something you have in common then great, if not, then try to open your horrizons. even if you initially are just feigning interest, you might actually end up enjoying yourself. If you don't then you probably wouldn't want to date her anyway, but if you are attracted to each other maybe you will do something else next time.

  • Yes these are all true. It's funny the first two contradict each other. The third one is important. You have to have a plan, It's best if it's new and exciting, don't get routine, but it's better to go somewhere routine then nowhere at all. If you're bored, she will be too. I'm working on these, but if somebody makes you happy it's not too hard, I'm usually afraid to show it though, Or I'm too worried about rejection. It aint easy.

  • The fact Is, women claim that they want it as much as we do,but they love to be chased and not replaced..(Most American women),Most Foreign women on the other hand,they want it more than men,true story,I went to Australia and Japan and I got laid the same night.. so the stuff this woman is saying goes out the window,bcuz in aussi country,the women hit on the men(American Men)..

  • LOL. Ok, these are the REAL reasons why women reject men.

    A. They're too shallow for their own good.

    B. They have a blueprint for a 'perfect' guy which will never come true. And if it does come true, she will just be heartbroken. (which is funny, because this is commonly used against guys which is ultimately false.)

    C. They dress up like a sexual object to present themselves to men only to get angry at how many men hit on them

  • @DimebagVision your second point is definitely true though. It depends on the women. It may be you tend to be attracted to women who are just more vain. I've been there, It's easy to fall for someone you can't have, they're hot and they know it and if they are obsessed about it, they may be narcissistic and not really even interested in men (as much as themselves). But this is not all women. Don't become misogynistic over it, just try to find that one that is different then all the rest.

  • @MrMaclover09 Amem brother

  • Those that unfairly reject others are abusers and make no mistake about it. Those who reject others for STUPIDFICIAL reasons (looks/height/non macho or non ultra feminine appearance) are abusers. Those who lie to others looking for another to flatter he or she before rejecting the duped person is an abuser too. We must recognize the abuser no matter how physically "attractive" the abuser may be.............We must shine the light on the abuser. We must call them on their abuse.

  • yes .. what does it mean REALLY when she says .. "yer too nice"...

  • Here is how to keep a woman attracted to you: first borrow her car,, then go out and take another woman out and boink that girl in the FIRST girl's car,, and leave the condom wrappers in the car! And take the girl out to eat using money you borrowed from the first girl! Hey this works! A girl I liked had this happen to her and she couldn't get enough of that guy who did that to her. Also call her names and treat her like she is something you picked up on your shoe!

  • @MrMaclover09 Amen

  • you're kidding. dating coach!!??? that's actually a thing????!!!!

  • Mr. Maclover is hilarious! HAHAHAHAHA

  • things to do bowling, pool, skinny dipping,

  • so its Leave me alone and He doesnt talk that much>>>huh

  • this all sounds more complicated than rocket science

  • girls don't like bad boys.. they like nice boys with bad boy attitude

  • @KangarooBird121 It's kinda sad that you don't understand the metaphor in my statement. In short, the bad boy is the one who has the "swag" (looks, charm, ect) while his personality is just corrosive on the inside (just like fool's gold) and the nice guy is the one who USUALLY tends to be sincere, direct, honest, and integrity (like a diamond, you can see through him).

    However, if I were you, I'd travel to Russia, SE Asia, and Latin America (learn a language first) to meet some beautiful gals

  • @ApollosInsight It's kind of sad that you pegged all guys into those two very polar opposites and that you have pegged all women to be going after 'bad boys'. It's also sad that you assumed I am a man and that I do not speak multiple languages. *sigh*

  • @KangarooBird121 No, I didn't split men into 2 categories. Notice my statement again: "Here's MY comparison of the dating scene" not, "Here's HOW the dating scene is".

  • If it's your first date. Ask her if she will run to down to Mickey D's for the fish fillet special because your car is broken down. Chicks love frugal guys. Especially on the first date. Tell her you think she is special and because of that to go ahead and pick up a small coke for herself while she's there.

  • @cycober Dam right!

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  • I so agree with NattHafn. Women dating coaches are useless. They'll give you the feminist crap about treating her as an equal. They overemphasize "respect" and "caring". Only Gloria Steinham revealed the truth once: "every woman loves a fascist."

  • Thank u very much for the advice.I like a girl and i m willing to ask her to become my girlfriend i m sure this helps a lot :D!!

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  • Young men, listen. DO NOT tell a broad she is beautiful until you're serious with her.(even then, it's questionable). Always give her back handed compliments....."I don't care what other people say, I think your mole is cute" or "thats a really nice shirt" (then proceed to pick lint off of it). or "your eyebrows have a great retro style to them". Also, use the 3 week rule for calling her. And don't be so quick to give up your meat. I make a broad wait 7 to 8 dates.

    You'll learn whippersnappers

  • haha i misread the title.i thought it said respect men.

  • he called too often? lol, that's something I'd expect out of a girl, but not vice versa..oh well, at least now i can use this fact against a girl when i just wanna be left alone for a day.

  • Be catholic, and do it well. Don't mess it like your life till now. Just do it. You don't like it? Very well, do it! Be your own fighter and conqueror, with the help of Jesus.

    Fr. Corapi

  • lol, I love it. The first complain is he pays too much attention to me and the second is that he's not attentive enough.

  • @ChokeslamToHell It's not really that hypocritical. It's like adding sugar to a cake. Too little and you'll be disgusted and too much and you'll be nauseated. It's the right balance that makes it perfect :)

  • Rejection, as I saw it as a young teenager, was a very disturbing thing. But I'm 25 years old now and I understand this concept perfectly. In full completion, I will remain steadfast in my identity as a man, always. I will never compromise.

    What you see is what you get! Take it or leave it, ladies. I can pass you the ball, but it'll be in MY court. >: /

  • @Agent1W this is the right attitude to have. more often time than not, women are going to be interested in a man who has a healthy income, and is at the very least ok looking. modern society has dictated this switch; if it werent for how our society has become, the naturally more important characteristics would apply. but anyway, it is important to not let women get away with BS; call them out, and keep a take it or leave it attitude; be secure about who and what you are.

  • @jw11432 In the right place, I can be earning over $100K a year tax free. That's in the context of an overseas contracting job but I'm still going through college right now. My career options, nonetheless, are not going to appeal to women, but they will be after my money. God willing, I'll learn to have charitable goals with my money than to live a life of excess.

    If I become wealthy, no woman will respect me. They will only respect the money. That's going to hurt my chances big-time.

  • @JesusManson323 similar experience: I hooked up with a lonely women in her early 40's that I met when I was cleaning office blocks to pay my way through college. The point is I came accross many women such as her who have been working the same boring office job for a couple of decades and never married who would appreciate a young man taking an interest in them unlike the mean spirited girls I see in night clubs and college.

  • Ok, wait...does she ever point out some of the wrong things that women do when guys approach them? Her perspective seems to be soley critical of men...so typical. :P

  • Her advice actually works

  • In Stuart, FL, rejecting men should be an olympic event! I once got shot down 8 times in one night! Ouch!

  • I attracted a lot of women. they say I am cute. they check me out all the time. I talk to them like a regular guy, but I cant take it any further than that. whats the deal.

  • Good advice. Helps to be decisive - if you're from the area. You can suggest two or three places and let her decide which one.

  • Guys always make it clear that you are seeing other women and let these women know that you don't owe them anything. How is a woman going to get upset that I'm seeing other women and we just met and haven't even established anything yet. If you ladies like being lied to then we can do that but if you say you want honesty and man gives it to you don't get mad

  • You know what? Im starting to think that different women like different things, and that there probably aren't set rules to dating. P.S. Im in high school and I haven't dated yet. Is this wrong? sometimes i feel like a freak (I know im not though) because im not getting blown or anything. I guess it might be because high school sucks and i dont want to make freinds there, but im not the most sociable guy in high school. So tell me. Will things get better?

  • @MostDefinate no you're a loser. most males are. deal with it and don't blame women for your problems (most males do this since males are allergic to personal responsibility)

  • @karlsmith00 ouch. point taken, but im pretty sure i didn't mention anything about women being the problem

  • @karlsmith00 you preach personal responsibility yet you go around on youtube calling people losers and telling them they should kill themselves. You may respect women, but do you have any respect for life? or dignity? Im a women, and I'm able to find respectable men who are mature. I don't know what you've been through but you need to get a grip and maybe let your guard down

  • @1968DodgePolara Look at mystery method. women dont want a man that they believe is "less" than they are, so a guy who is doing everything he can to please her is a sign that he believes shes more "important" than he is

  • they have video's on this stuff?

  • @jasonmhc I was thinking the exact same thing! she contradicts herself right away. providing the perfect example that women don't know what they want. When you ask them it's a programed response. Just like when you walk through the electronics store and the clerk says, "how can I help you" and you respond, "just looking."

  • @jasonmhc yeah, women are as logical as the weekly weather forecast. -To keep em going you just gotta play their game, "just be yourself", "I wan't a guy that's nice and sweet". Well most guys I know who were sweet all the time basically got used and walked over.

  • Here's my comparison of the dating scene:

    Women=miners

    Bad boys=fool's gold

    Nice guys=diamonds

    Only after some time when the miners realizes that the fool's gold isn't worth anything do they try to look for the diamonds, but they are nowhere to be found.

  • @ApollosInsight Maybe they're too scared to dig so deep that they'll get burned by molten lava, so the irony is women are more scared to take risks then men are when it comes to relationships. That OR maybe all they can afford is fools gold, because diamonds are to expensive.

  • @ApollosInsight Well said, well said

  • @ApollosInsight you said it brother.

  • is there a way to tell someone something like "i just need a little space" without completely breaking up with them?

    and why is asking a girls what she would like to do a bad thing?

  • @shadowsa2b Because it's none of your business thats why it's not cool to ask.

  • @xhemexx ok first of all my comment is like 4 months old...and second of all, if you are planning to go on a date with a girl, knowing what she likes to do for fun is your business if you want to impress her. granted just asking might not be the "cool"est way of doing it, but its the most straight forward

  • @shadowsa2b lol hey, you relax I was only kidding with that silly comment I made. It was meant to be alittle funny and so I made it sound silly. As for the truth, I totally agree that there is nothing wrong with asking the other person. I am always one to ask my girlfriend what she would like to do, so I got no problem with it!!!!!. So cool down!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

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  • I'm in the "i dunno" category...LOL!

    So i need some ideas on where to take her on a first date...please help!?!

  • @musikdog Maybe you've talked a little bit before a first date or maybe you haven't. If you have then go somewhere that you think both of you would be comfortable, like a park, play, art exhibition, bookstore, coffee shop..all good places and all should be fairly comfortable. Quiet enough to converse a little, or at least give you something to talk about afterwards if you choose the play option. And all are fairly public places so you'll both feel relaxed.

  • jessica go away.

  • Women are such princesses! They don't want attention. They want attention. They 'need' to feel special, unlike blokes, who are quite happy feeling like an idiot. They want their own way, but they don't want to be asked what they want. Men, listen up - you have to read their minds and tread carefully through the middle ground. Geez...

  • And one more year down the road she craves the badboy again, and end up cheating on him because the good bf isn't entertaining or thrilling enough haha.

  • jessica are you angry,it helps not to crack him when he takes you out and eyeing up other men doesnt help.jessy sometimes men like to ask women where they ;like to go,one they fund out aboit previous lovers and what they done and if there a threat,secondly no one wants to take you where you dont to go .got it.smell the bull.but really your rather angry arent you whats up setting you ,jessy need a cuddle!

  • And about the "huge douchebag" comment. No I'm not saying that you should be a complete douchebag. women want a NICE guy "not a nice guy" A badboy isn't always mean with women, he loves women but knows how to attract em. Women crave badboys because the "nice guy" is often a wussie.

    All I am saying is: Be a leader, being "selfish" isn't selfish to a woman. It's being a leader, a real man guides the woman. He knows where to take her. Not changing for a woman isnt being a jerk.

  • @NattHrafn but u r changing... your basically lying to her if your not like that. often the best guys r NOT selfish, they are shy, they are caring, and thats what women SAY they want. Telling a guy like this to be selfish is the same as telling them to lie to the women. And the fact is, women dont want a badboy, thats why they complain about crappy b/fs all the time, the problem is, when their single, all they care about is looks, and "badboys" then reality sets in and they break up.

  • They complain about the badboys to the wussies. And Don't get me wrong when i say badboy. It's more about how the "badboy" hit her emotional hotspots. I'm not saying go beat up, abuse women or be chaotic evil. But girls return to a badboy in much more cases than she does with a nice guy. Look up david DeAngelo, carlos xuma or Nico Simon princely. Are they jerks? no. But they are badboys. Badboy vs evil is not the same. does a badboy lie? no. He just know how to keep the gals interested.

  • @NattHrafn then theres the good badboys the ones who dont look for trouble and have a good heart and who are quiet and keep to themselves. but when trouble finds them mister evil gets a beatdown. always remember you could be sitting next to a guy who is or isnt that big, completely unassuming, and could break your jaw, wreck you into a million pieces in 10 seconds when provoked. thats the kind of guy a woman wants.

  • Women suck at dating, lol. women say they want a smart, funny, caring man with good parental skills. then, the second they r single they only care about the mans looks and pocket book well it doesnt work that way.

    WHY?

    because attractive men, dont care about the relationship, they get oogled all day, so they know if it goes sour, they can get another one anytime. Until women realize this they will fail at relationships. want a good guy? find a nerd, overweight, or shy guy, if not, its ur fault

  • A dating coach! What! I see a lot of women only want Mr Credit Card

  • Female dating coaches are useless, because women dont even know what they want. What women SAY and what they RESPOND to is two different things.

  • @NattHrafn i can account for that

  • Fellas gotta stop using this all women want is money as an excuse not to be getting girls, wake up call women have jobs now-a-days they dont need our money like that, so the problem isnt lack of money, its either lack of interest or lack of confidence on your part. GET IT TOGETHER FELLAS.

  • @srg200669 errhh?

  • @freakedout93 errhh?

  • Women reject me after they find out I don't make a 6 figure salary. Some reject me up front because I'm not attractive enough. :-(

  • I'm a little bit in love with you Jessica. That's right. Oh yeah...

  • @prosandkhans Nah because if cash was the case then i wouldn't be having a girl right now. Game my friend.

  • true true

  • Well she left out " He is to fat" and "He didnt make enough money"

  • Don't forget the most important one of all ladies. "He didn't make enough money"

  • In few words

    Take control

  • 24/m/CA

    "Boys, just be a man and let your natural personalities flow out. Don't take this or what any other woman says seriously"

    -Gwhanos

    For reals...I'm watching for curiosity (and I think she's kinda cute). I'm not SERIOUSLY considering anything that comes out of her mouth.

    My motto w. advice from women (about anything) is...don't listen to what women say; watch what women do.

  • Come on you guys, you don't need a video to explain this to you, i'll give you the answer, why women reject men? Answer= simply because THEY DON'T FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE! Simple as that, attraction goes a longgggg way. With women if they find you attractive, even if you have the dullest, most narcisistic personality they'll put up with it and ALOT of other b.s., cheating ect. I've seen it millions of times. Know who you are and how society views you and play the cards you're dealt best you can.

  • co-sign@brickman, freekin idiots they are. I've seen it millionssss of times. You hit the nail on the head

  • @srg200669 i think most people have to learn this the hard way, myself included