Leslie Ludy Talks about Letting a Guy Take the Initiative

[Redeemed1Eternity]

wait. so is she saying it is not appropriate for a girl to initiate a conversation with a guy about what his intentions are? or maybe where is he seeing the relationship / friendship to be going? etc... what if he's misleading her? wouldn't she end up avoiding a lot of pain if upfront she asks that he tell her his intentions ?

[EmmaOnTheSpot]

@Redeemed1Eternity I LOVE Leslie Ludy, but I have the same questions. Recently, I went through a very confusing relationship with one of my guy friends. I was unsure of where we stood, and I thought that maybe he was leading me on, but at the same time I wasn't sure. So, I asked him what was up. He completely cleared the air and told me that he wasn't at a point in life where he wanted to be with a woman. I totally understood, and now we're back to a healthy friendship without confusion & pain!

[amybeth105]

This helps so much!!

[TheMissionaryGirl]

Wow, This Is SOOOO Amazing!

This Is Like My Very Thought Right Now. Letting My Best Friend Lead The Relationship to Where We Both See It Going. The Next Level.

It's SOOO Hard Though!!

But God Is Good! =)

[aSetApartHeartforHim]

@TheMissionaryGirl Glad to hear it was encouraging to you :)