@casagar30 Not even close I don't even get why ppl tend to think that the idea behind a hostess is If your drinking with a pretty girl your most likely to come back to our bar nothing sexual about it
from what i saw on another documentary.. a lot of Hostesses also go to Host clubs (where men are the hosts) and waste their hard earned cash on "fake" boys, alcohol etc...
it's pretty ironic..and pretty much like some eternal circle or something =/
That girl who became rich, and whatnot, at around 4:00 seriously needs to wear earrings that aren't very heavy. It looked like her lobes were about to snap off!
paying to talk to women LMAO!!! I laugh at Japanese man that do this and give out an excuse that it is to release stress. 22% of high schools girls wanting to become a hostess...... yeh because they are lazy ass losers who don't want to work hard for their money. They all look so fake and ugly, seriously the hostesses on this video look plastic and fake, why would want to talk to someone who is lying to your face?!?!
But mostly geisha's, hosts, and hostesses are for entertainment purposes and for getting attention from the opposite sex they flirt with you, geisha means artist in Japanese after all. So they are really no different, when I first heard about hosts my Japanese teacher was telling me about them, she called them "male geisha's" and said they are beautiful! Actually you can develop a relationship with them. But that's where they get ya, only go if you can afford to spend a lot of money.
well actually in somecases with Geisha's sex was involved, historically the geisha woman would do kind of a "coming out" dance for many men and they would bid on her. The highest bidder was the one who got to sleep with her, she was even more valuable as a virgin. They'd pay for her "mizuage" as for hosts and hostesses, in some cases there's s sex but it really depends on what kind of relationship the client has with the host or hostess or if they pay a large ammount of money but it's rare
@idontfkinknow1234 It's the japanese culture. Kinda stems from geisha, but a modern version of it. They entertain guests, laugh, sing...etc for money. Just like traditional geisha, sex is not involved.
@idontfkinknow1234 It seems to me that the people that go there usually are aware that the flirting is fake, but sadly some of them can become delusional and think they are in a relationship. But they don't care because they like it.The only aspects I don't like about it is that the hosts/hostesses are paid to lie to you and the ammount of alchohol they intake is harmful. BTW I didn't mean they all lie, because alot of them mean it. I've never been to one but I've studied them. I want to go :)
And a sad thing is that some women in particular, become so addicted to going to Host clubs, or a certain guy in there that they spend all their money, where they don't have enough to survive on and they turn to prostitution. It's sad, but true...the hosts are aware, and from what I've heard many of them wish it wasn't that way and they feel bad for it. But seriously lol what guy WOULDN'T want to get paid for flirting with women?
Usually hostesses do not engage in prostitution, if they are in a decent club (if they are normally getting paid for sex, then it's not really a hostess club, it's a brothel). Most men who frequent them are there to see and be seen, and to treat their employees after a stressful day at work.
However, any type of "flirting" that the guy wants to do, the girl has to accept, and this can be pretty brutal sometimes. It's definitely not all glamour.
the crazy thing is sometimes they dont even have to sleep with the guy its all about courting ,the fantasy being sold.... making him come back which is quite the opposite here in the west idk seems really smart in my opinion
@Warsie true but its very rare..the majority do sleep with their clients which in my opinion lowers the appeal of the fantasy even her value. These asian escorts have a similar business standerd..if i cant "get some" from her and i go to another escort i can assure u i wont get any from her either i have to court her just as hard as the 1st earning, ironically, my respect ,for her,her job. But here if an American escort said no i can easily find 10 that would say yes on the 1st night
@aveehay Yes, a hostess has to know how to drink because their main role is to sell alcohol to their customer and to keep them entertained through conversations. They also need to know how to properly hold a lighter for customers that want to smoke, and how to mix drinks.
Well the whole system is this, depends where. Basically hostess are fucking their customers and bring them to the club, it's called "dohan". However not every customer is Yakuza, and not in every club the hostess has to fuck the guy. In good, safe clubs she's only asked to give her "job phone number" and required to speak, and invite her customer to club. I was a singer in Japanese club so I know how they worked. They are kinda servants and they have to drink alcohol to keep their % from drinks.
@BarbraKing It's kinda stressful job, but well paid job. But If I were them I wouldn't do that. It's rather dangerous and degrading. When I had 4 sets of my singing and I could go back home. They sat whole night there, at the day they slept. Kinda unhealthy.
though having liver issues from all the drinking and exhaustion from the light nights,hostessing is like an art.
you look beautiful and charm people, and give them something else to escape to. like the video said, prostitution is illegal in japan, these girls are just talking and giving lonely business men female company.
@doublenono88 but seriously is that really all?? isnt that all bull and in reality hostesses are just like prostitutes?? i mean i can believe you cant fuck em if you pay for em...
@IBOUGHTYAMOM Actually hostesses are companions. o.o I dunno if they will engage in sexual intercourse if you pay them more. I suppose it's up to each of them if they want to or not. o.o People usually think they are whores because they sell their companionship. o.o
@IBOUGHTYAMOM Because that's not our society. XPP In their society companionship is a bit more valued than sex, anybody can have sex with anybody. o.o But having a good conversation is something else. ^^ Hostesses are like Geisha, just... of the informal sort. ^^ And they can choose to have sex or not. ^^ That's as far as I've read ad been told by other Japanese. ^^
@akissy seems crazy to me.. i mean talk is cheap... i mean japanese culture had pretty good ideas like yakuza and samurai and stuff.. but this i just dont get its seems like crazy..
@IBOUGHTYAMOM omg XDDD you are the kind of people that think yakuza are cool? XDD You don't know much about Japan do you? They value the art of a good cultured conversation (Geisha), or the company of a pretty woman after a hard work's day (hostesses). Even Tayuu, when they ere legal, knew everything from singing to politics... even though they were prostitutes... The world needs more culture and less crude instincts. ^^
@akissy yakuza came from samurai.. i read about it.. they formed i think in the 16th century when an explosion of ronin occured.. yea they might know much but they dont know everything they are basically just jacks of all trades i guess... besides if they dont do it fullheartedly what is it good for?? i mean dont get me wrong i love conversating with women... but were is the fun if you have to pay for it and you know its fake and she doesnt care, i mean if you do sex you at least have pleasure
@IBOUGHTYAMOM Yeah, I know that, I love Japanese culture because I have friends there. But Yakuza aren't cool, no matter if they came from Samurai. They are gangsters, they traffic with organs, women and drugs and are might violent.
And believe me, Geisha and the extinct Tayuu aren't Jacks of all trades, if you say that that's because you don't one thing about them. They are full heartedly into what they do, they like entertaining clients continue.
@akissy If they didn't then there wouldn't be girls WANTING to be Geisha. You really don't know what you're talking about. And in Japan men pay for this company because their wives work too, or because they want the company once in a while without strings attached. That you don't find it necessary and that you find sex more attractive, it's your deal. Oh and don't talk about Geisha if don't know anything about them. ^^ Educate yourself here: immortalgeisha com then come and talk to me about it.
@akissy even so i still like yakuza... i dont know actually anything about tayuus.. but to come back to the talking i mean they might know much... and of course its much more interesting to talk with women you have sex with... i really cant believe it really matters that they know much, i mean can they even be emotionally invested in any topic they know?? i can hardly believe that..but anyway thanks for the information
@IBOUGHTYAMOM You are crazy. XDDD Who would like an organization who cuts off the fingers of their subordinates when they disobey them? And yes, they can invest emotions into a conversation, otherwise they wouldn't be good talkers. they know a lot about the topics they talk about because they read the newspapers, books, and internet articles, and try to keep updated. I don't know why you say they don't seem to know much. XDD Just because they're women? Or cause it's a lot of topics?
@akissy because they are servants,.. even so sometimes women lack fundamental understanding of some principals, they are nice to talk to,, and what wrong with cutting of fingers?? those brought shame to the boss, if his worjers slack people gonna die or end in prison... cuttung of fingers to keep continuity is a verry small price for safety and well being of whole families
@IBOUGHTYAMOM Now I'm taking offense, I'm a woman you know? And they aren't servants, they're entertainers. You really need to get a grasp of the difference between entertaining and serving. What's your age? That could give me an idea of why your mentality is so retrograde. And you wouldn't be singing the same tune if you were a Yakuza and had your fingers cut off. I'm sorry, I really can't continue talking to you, you lack fundamental understanding of some principles and aren't worth my time.^^
@akissy to me they are servant.. and yes you are funny.. but seriously woman have knowledge.. its just some of the verry secrets that for a man are totally basic are completly beyond their capacity to understand... besides if i were a yakuza and had my finger cut off, it would have be my freaking fault... they dont cut of fingers of people who dont bring shame to their boss..... ps but you are still funny and its fun to talk to you
i dunno if ill be happy for them cause they're enjoying themselves or get mad cause of their little princess dream while the whole world is suffering . . . i'm being stupid .. i know. . . just saying thou (especially cause im exposed in the cruel world)
it is not an underground sex industry otherwise you could never see all kind of magazines in convinience stores,,.... stupid minded twats! japanese young girls are driven to do this jobs just because of the fucking money, however they have many other chances of work the end up openning their legs wide open to any man whop can affort it... in other words japanese girls are bitches
@SmokeyCough so you're calling girls who flirt with men whores? I thought you had to fuck for money/prostituting to be a whore...maybe we have different views on what a whore is
@mattdogg65 They fuck the men for money, they're whores. Perhaps you should do some more research into these clubs. Check out the Vice Guide To Sex In Japan.
Hostess clubs are now replacing the traditional geisha who replaced the courtesans when prostitution was legal in Japan. It's an interesting evolution though hostess bars will continue to thrive because they're the women that will adapt to the changes that take place in society. But each ones have their own unique flavor even though the courtesans now are just reenactments.
@guiltyaschagrin not just throwing parties. They are more like "being a companion", someone that you can talk with. Japanese man tends to work longer hours than American, so it's important to have someone to talk with.
@guiltyaschagrin Yes, there are host bars for women. It's pretty much the same deal - good-looking people drinking and flirting with the customers. Obviously there are different risk factors though.
@feitclub meh. official stance = they drink and talk with customers. but everyone knows the implicit obligation (sex) to keep a customer. it's the same with plastic surgery & entertainment industry.
When that girls are old women and think about their youth, they will start to cry, because live in luxery does NOT make happy. They never did a sensefull work. they just prostitute to some stupid rich japanese guys. they waste their life for money. todays japanese "culture" is the worst on earth...
Like smadlin01 said they can stop and start when they want, if they want to work themselves to death they can, if they only want to do it part time they can. It's just like any other conventional job. You just happen to work the night shift and have to drink large amounts of alcohol. These women, in general at least, are not prostitutes they are simply entertainers to small audiances. Also what do you mean 'todays' japanese culture, women have been doing this in Japan for centuries.
@Marthaz89 Some aspects of Japanese culture is very sad. They are very materialistic, obsessed with appearance rather than what's inside for example. What I don' t understand is why are married men going to these places to flirt with these young women while their wives are at home.
agreed with the comment below. My brothr died of throat cancer and my mom comitted suicide because of abuse she had. Their aint no fucking god. Only the fortunate believe in that shit, thinking their all blessed ...
For all you know they have a family to support. Because, FYI, in Japan, hostess or no hostess, you have an obligation with your family, and if your parents are elderly you have to support hem. Also, they entered the hostess business because there aren't any more jobs available and they might need to work for something or other. Just because they look pretty it doesn't mean they are stupid or only buy handbags, but oh well, ppl will always be judgmental.
There is a delicate interplay of gender issues in an industry like hostessing. On the one hand, it's an extremely empowering profession: the girls have an enormous amount of influence on patrons and can easily take advantage of male instincts. On the other hand, gender equality is far from established in Japan. If the latter could be corrected, I see no reason why the former couldn't continue. Denying that both men and women can be seen as sexual objects is simply ignorant.
Boy's do this also and they are just as popular. Some guy's become famous amongst girls in Japan, they make lots of money and often receive expensive gifts like cars and jewelry. they are called "Hosts" believe it or not!
in my town there is no demand for hostesses. big cities..... more hostesses. HOw can i judge these good hostesses by my own way of thinking? are they evil hos? i guess i'm just jealous i'm not making money like these girls do
this is true. it's a ruthless industry that has no concern for human life, and should be more widely reported in my opinion to raise public awareness.
@subarusumeragi Can you prove this? Every country has seedy undergrounds and yes, it is quite disgusting. But these women do not have sex for money, please read up on what a host/hostess does. I don't doubt that there are bad places in any foreign country where women are degraded, but I am trying to decipher what this comment has to do with the video. Prostitution is illegal btw in Japan, fyi.
@ThatChickwithSigns Prostitution in Japan is illegal but really not. It's decriminalized, and only vaginal intercourse counts as prostitution. The loophole is when they have sex with their clients, it's not a direct "sex=money" transaction. Hosts and hostesses are free people and can have sex with whomever, for whatever reason they want. Many of them most certainly choose to advance their careers in this manner with little to no stigma involved. It's no secret.
She gets fanmail from elementary school girls who want to be just like her? Ahhh...Japan. Where a modern society throws priorities right out the window.
My original point was that I couldn't believe the hostesses get fanmail from schoolgirls. I know top-ranked golfer Ai Miyazato gets loads of fanmail, which makes sense to me. Girls dressing up all slutty to serve drinks getting fanmail? I don't believe that 'hostessing' is something any culture should strive for for their little girls to grow up to 'achieve'. And I LOVE being called 'sweetie' by strange Mexican youtube cuties :P
@repsajuil1 Ummm... you're eleven years too old to be hitting on me, dear, but thanks for the compliment. ^^
Also, I agree on the little girls part. I'm all for keeping teh girls innocent as long as possible. Yet, you cannot deny them the right to choose a career when they grow up. As the girl said, they see hostesses as princesses because of the jewelry and dresses they use (which believe me not they aren't slutty), I believe once they grow older, they'll grow out of it. I think it's a phase.
Hitting on you? Good one. I enjoy being cheeky on Youtube, especially with people who throw 'Sweetie' around so liberally. I have no idea what you look like or if you're even my type. For all I know, you could be a retired middle-aged, overweight, masked wrestler who is now an Acapulco innkeeper. My point was, if a society idolizes hostesses as people and hostessing as a profession, then they're not exactly reaching for the sky, are they? Japan surprises me sometimes.
@repsajuil1 Your being cheeky then doesn't work much. ^^ And I am a girl of 23 that looks like 15, and engaged XD So, nope, definitely nobody's type. ^^
And also, being a hostess is as honest as any profession, since having sex isn't a must. Who are you to diminish anyone's career? So long as it's honest and decent and nobody gets forced to do it, they reach for the sky cause they reach for their dreams. As long as they are old enough to decide, let them be, away with your puritan thoughts.
No thanks. I prefer 23 year-olds who actually look 23 years old. Puritan? Pfft. Please. I have no problem with the profession itself. I love gawking at scantily-clad women. Hell, they can even serve me drinks. Women who can't get a decent education leading to a decent job that challenges the mind resort to doing work that relies uniquely on skin exposure in order to scalp drinks. At most it should be a stop-gap or a means to an end, not a career aspiration.
@repsajuil1 See? I told you, I'm not your type. On my defense my whole family are years-eaters, we can look as younger as 5 years from our actual age. ^^
Ok, now, tell me about geisha, what do you think about them? I know these girls are hardly Geisha, but the purpose is the same in it's core, except of course the sex part. They do the same: serve drinks, chat, and make everything nice and comfortable.
Like many men,I am attracted to young-looking but of-age women, but I have never understood the fascination with the 'schoolgirl' thing or other 'underage' fetishes.They make me cringe.I think you have a misconception of 'geisha', one that is very common in the non-Japanese circles.True geisha go through extensive training in the arts and do not engage in sexual relations with customers.Girls who dress as geisha and bed their clients are 'geisha girls' or quite simply 'prostitutes'.
Lol, I know more than many ppl about Geisha, because I've been studying them for years now, since one of my bbf is Japanese, I just wanted you to know that they both have the same type of job: entertain. Hostesses might engage in sexual intercourse IF THEY WANT TO, that's about the only difference. Both dress appropriately for their type of costumers (hostesses DON'T dress slutty, you really need to see a slutty girl), they know the art of conversation appropriate for their type of costumer cont
@akissy and they both make a night-time gathering pleasant for the costumers to relax and enjoy the moment. Both serve drinks, and both drink (believe it or not), both light cigarettes and make jokes and even go as far as playful innuendos and making fun of the costumers. Both make up an illusion, the only difference is that Geisha just go back tot eh okiya at the end of the night, hostesses CAN CHOOSE to go with their client or not. cont.
@akissy both work as entertainers, different types of clients, same field: entertain. Both come from the red lights district. There's a lot of stuff they have in common. Because Geisha who are successful live a life of luxury and glamour as well.
and as for the fetish you talk about. Is it my fault I look younger than my age? My fiance looks younger than his real age as well, and that doesn't mean we have a fetish for each other. It just means we don't get old as fast as you or anybody else.cont
@akissy which means we won't wrinkle as fast nor have humps on our backs as fast, or have any other health problem that comes naturally with getting old. ^^ Plus we'll look younger a lot more time than somebody who ages at a normal rate. I think it has to do with how fast our cells oxide, and what we eat and drink and how much exercise we do. ^^
A VERY long-winded reply,A. You completely misunderstood my comment about the young fetish. It was not a comment about you nor your fiance but a comment about how some men are into girls who dress up or act like children. There's a word for that: pedophilia.
Re: sleeping with clients,regardless of what or who your friends are,a whore is someone who engages in sex for financial gain.Forget the geisha/hostess labels.A whore is a whore is a whore.
@repsajuil1 Whos ays they do it for getting paid? for all you know they just do it for fun. what makes them then? I was working under the impression that a whore gets paid, same witha slut. But maybe you know something I don't.
Sorry for misunderstanding. And whatever floats anybody's boat. ^^ you don't have to understand it, just accept people for who they are, believe me, it makes things easier. ^^ So long as it's not illegal. Many pedophiles suffer for their orientation
If you have sex for any sort of material gain (ie. money, a fur coat, a purse, a car, an apartment, etc.) it makes you a whore. If you have sex for fun, then maybe you just really like sex or perhaps you have a sexual addiction. Are your Japanese friends geisha or hostesses or prostitutes? Pedophiles can suffer in hell. I have no sympathy for pedophiles. I tried sending you a PM but couldn't. Please accept me as a friend.
@repsajuil1 I have sympthay for them, because pedophiles =/= child molesters, and most molesters aren't even pedophiles. Ppl immidiately think that they will act on their impulses or likings and that they are monsters. Dad's a lawyer, he's known (not worked for, just known) several ppl convicted unjustly for being pedophiles, while the molesters are still out there somewhere. So don't judge, for all you know your child or grandchild might be one, just responsible enough to know what not to do.
@repsajuil1 then you shouldn't've said "liberal BS." According to my experience, only conservatives say that. And by conservative I mean conservative, not the party.
Also, FYI, it's not liberal, it's humane. Trying to understand your fellow human beings is the least you can do, seeing as you have to socialize with at least 1,000 people a day, from your own family to the beggar whom you choose to give or not that dime.
@repsajuil1 and no. but I got my education from a terrific site called immortalgeisha(dot)com. Naomi, the webmistress has studied Geisha and Tayuu for several years, and she's a kitsuke expert (someone who knows how to dress in traditional Japanese garments). Her database is enormous, and the users there know as much about the topic as she does, so the forums are good places to learn.
@repsajuil1 Now, on the whore part: Who says they get laid for money? For all you and I know they could get laid because they just wanted to. Anyways, I know ppl who get laid for fun and they have told me that they gain no matter if it isn't material gain: they get what they want, which was sex without commitment. So, maybe, anyone who gets laid for fun is a whore. o.o Or maybe not, still, you shouldn't assume things. ^^
I think I've done quite well trying to decipher your English so far, but this one was especially messy. I don't know where to start except to say I believe I have answered all of these questions in my most recent post:
"If you have sex for any sort of material gain (ie. money, a fur coat, a purse, a car, an apartment, etc.) it makes you a whore. If you have sex for fun, then maybe you just really like sex or perhaps you have a sexual addiction."
@repsajuil1 My English isn't messy, thank you. You just need to read it twice to understand, because I tend to use long words and wind up a little in descriptions. Look at most YouTube comments, THOSE are messy, dear.
Again, I'll explain: Then ANYONE who has fun for sex is a whore, given that they still have a gain, albeit not a material one. I know many people who have sex for fun and have implied that their gain is fun. So, material or not, if there isn't commitment, then you're a whore.
It's not your use of long words but the convoluted way in which you get your point across. You must skim-read because this will be the third time I've had to direct your attention to it. Too bad Youtube doesn't have a 'highlight text' button:
"If you have sex for any sort of material gain...it makes you a whore. If you have sex for fun, then maybe you just really like sex or perhaps you have a sexual addiction." (read the part about 'sex for fun', there's no mention of 'whore' there)
@repsajuil1 Why is your comment spammed? and I know it was not me, since I cannot mark anything as spam, nor rate comments up or down.
And it seems that you lack enough reading comprehension to understand my response to that comment, so I'll just go down to your level and say it as if you're a four year old:
Having sex for fun makes you a whore as well, since you gain something too: fun.
Now, to further simplify it: fun is your price, if somebody pays it, then voilà! you are a whore. ^^
Wait, is that YOUR definition of whore or what you perceive as MY definition of whore? We've been going back and forth for so long now, I think you're countering your own arguments thinking them to be mine. I disagree with your profile information in that you might struggle with typing. You also seem to struggle with clarity when it comes to supporting an argument. You might do better to type your comments in Spanish, copying and pasting them into google translate and them posting here.
@repsajuil1 Google translate sucks, And yes, I am countering YOUR definition of whore.Clarity is not my problem, but it does seem to be yours or at least reading comprehension. ^^ You see, if you get ANY gain you're a whore. Not just material gain, but the fun itself is also a gain. So, fun is your price, if you sleep with someone who pays said price, then you're instantly a whore. ^^ That's why there's people called attention-whores. Attention is their price. They get paid, they are whores.
Yes, by the dictionary definition of the world 'whore', it could also be a 'promiscuous' woman or man. Technically, there need not be an exchange of goods for services as it is more a reflection of one's sexual morality. This is relative of course. Who knows, you may consider me a whore.
@repsajuil1 If you sleep with someone for a price, be it fun, money, goods, etc, then you are. o.o Now, considering that bad or not, that's another question, so don't get offended. whatever floats anybody's boat, I'm no one to criticize that. ^^
@akissy oh and I forgot. If you think I countered my own argument then you're wrong: These girls aren't whores. They might turn into whores, but their primary function is just to entertain.
@akissy so by your definition of a whore, are people who have sex with their husband/wife whores b/c the person they have sex gives them a sense of being loved?
@Volf99 anyone who sleeps with you definetly is a whore... and a sense of being love?? what the fuck is that...a sense of being loved? is that like a sense of zen or that crap, you fucking psychopath...
The men don't even have sex with them?
draggeddownthehole 1 day ago
They're so hot!
RalphMuskinyaar 5 days ago
what's the intro song called?
nem700 1 month ago
Japanese culture is not bad.
my Italian culture s.u.x.
and moreover Japanese women are hot.
hear me when i say that.
dougarr 1 month ago
i dont think this would go well in america. the rape crime would skyrocket
retaliatestupidity 1 month ago
XD this is basicaly prostitution, but without the sex XD
dood109dd 1 month ago
i think hostessing has become the new generation of Geishas for them
BlueEyes72 3 months ago
@BlueEyes72 omg awesome point. that is so true
akasatana0124 2 months ago
best thing a girl can be in the world, a beauitful little fool :]
jessicalilac 3 months ago
is this prostitution or not?
casagar30 3 months ago
@casagar30 no it s not
noizstar99 3 months ago
@casagar30 Pretty much. Read this.
vice (DOT) com/read/host-v14n1
SteelCityDucati 2 months ago
@casagar30 Not even close I don't even get why ppl tend to think that the idea behind a hostess is If your drinking with a pretty girl your most likely to come back to our bar nothing sexual about it
wes55463 1 month ago
These women work at high end and legal hostessing businesses. It is not glamorous on the other side of that.
NeverSayNeverEnD 3 months ago
from what i saw on another documentary.. a lot of Hostesses also go to Host clubs (where men are the hosts) and waste their hard earned cash on "fake" boys, alcohol etc...
it's pretty ironic..and pretty much like some eternal circle or something =/
heyjeySigma 4 months ago
Eri makes money from slut clothes hahahaha
thatsit07 4 months ago
"To little girls, hostesses are like a princess."
And that's why this is a very fucked up world.
7MukuroRealm 4 months ago 8
@7MukuroRealm
i agree with you
somaliagal94 4 months ago
That girl who became rich, and whatnot, at around 4:00 seriously needs to wear earrings that aren't very heavy. It looked like her lobes were about to snap off!
CrunkKitty1 4 months ago 5
paying to talk to women LMAO!!! I laugh at Japanese man that do this and give out an excuse that it is to release stress. 22% of high schools girls wanting to become a hostess...... yeh because they are lazy ass losers who don't want to work hard for their money. They all look so fake and ugly, seriously the hostesses on this video look plastic and fake, why would want to talk to someone who is lying to your face?!?!
monolocco 4 months ago
thankyou for posting this its very interesting
scans4uni 4 months ago
But mostly geisha's, hosts, and hostesses are for entertainment purposes and for getting attention from the opposite sex they flirt with you, geisha means artist in Japanese after all. So they are really no different, when I first heard about hosts my Japanese teacher was telling me about them, she called them "male geisha's" and said they are beautiful! Actually you can develop a relationship with them. But that's where they get ya, only go if you can afford to spend a lot of money.
Richiko06 5 months ago
well actually in somecases with Geisha's sex was involved, historically the geisha woman would do kind of a "coming out" dance for many men and they would bid on her. The highest bidder was the one who got to sleep with her, she was even more valuable as a virgin. They'd pay for her "mizuage" as for hosts and hostesses, in some cases there's s sex but it really depends on what kind of relationship the client has with the host or hostess or if they pay a large ammount of money but it's rare
Richiko06 5 months ago
Its like geisha perspective of the modern time. If you think geisha are whore or slut. Then your thinking is wrong. Geisha and hosts are=ENTERTAINER.
supremedisaster 5 months ago
I can understand paying for sex, but why would anybody find fake flirting appealing?
idontfkinknow1234 5 months ago
@idontfkinknow1234 It's the japanese culture. Kinda stems from geisha, but a modern version of it. They entertain guests, laugh, sing...etc for money. Just like traditional geisha, sex is not involved.
cosmosvision 5 months ago
@idontfkinknow1234 It seems to me that the people that go there usually are aware that the flirting is fake, but sadly some of them can become delusional and think they are in a relationship. But they don't care because they like it.The only aspects I don't like about it is that the hosts/hostesses are paid to lie to you and the ammount of alchohol they intake is harmful. BTW I didn't mean they all lie, because alot of them mean it. I've never been to one but I've studied them. I want to go :)
Richiko06 5 months ago
And a sad thing is that some women in particular, become so addicted to going to Host clubs, or a certain guy in there that they spend all their money, where they don't have enough to survive on and they turn to prostitution. It's sad, but true...the hosts are aware, and from what I've heard many of them wish it wasn't that way and they feel bad for it. But seriously lol what guy WOULDN'T want to get paid for flirting with women?
Richiko06 5 months ago
Usually hostesses do not engage in prostitution, if they are in a decent club (if they are normally getting paid for sex, then it's not really a hostess club, it's a brothel). Most men who frequent them are there to see and be seen, and to treat their employees after a stressful day at work.
However, any type of "flirting" that the guy wants to do, the girl has to accept, and this can be pretty brutal sometimes. It's definitely not all glamour.
Main source of income: Alcohol. Not sex.
edwebo 6 months ago 3
*Pants like dog, does wolf howl, stamps foot*
neosoc 7 months ago
so they're like geisha's. It's a step s above reality TV star.
Also that hairdresser is adorable
Konform2zoidberg 7 months ago 3
the crazy thing is sometimes they dont even have to sleep with the guy its all about courting ,the fantasy being sold.... making him come back which is quite the opposite here in the west idk seems really smart in my opinion
celticmoon88 7 months ago 20
@celticmoon88
There are escorts in 'the west' do the same thing too that do conversations and all that without screwing their clients.
Warsie 2 weeks ago
@Warsie true but its very rare..the majority do sleep with their clients which in my opinion lowers the appeal of the fantasy even her value. These asian escorts have a similar business standerd..if i cant "get some" from her and i go to another escort i can assure u i wont get any from her either i have to court her just as hard as the 1st earning, ironically, my respect ,for her,her job. But here if an American escort said no i can easily find 10 that would say yes on the 1st night
celticmoon88 1 week ago
@celticmoon88
the people into prostitutes would get pure prostitutes in Japan too, there is pure prostitution and not hostesses there too.....
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@celticmoon88
the people into prostitutes would get pure prostitutes in Japan too, there is pure prostitution and not hostesses there too.....
Warsie 1 week ago
man....japan is depressing.
itachiitachi1946 8 months ago
I doubt the hostess business model can work in the west
neotokyomedia 8 months ago
she so cute
volcomjesuschrist 8 months ago
lol random Neyo song xD
makeuplover2012 8 months ago
if your a hostesses do u have to drink and what exacly do they do?
aveehay 9 months ago
@aveehay Yes, a hostess has to know how to drink because their main role is to sell alcohol to their customer and to keep them entertained through conversations. They also need to know how to properly hold a lighter for customers that want to smoke, and how to mix drinks.
PseudoChat 9 months ago 13
@PseudoChat it looked inresting to do but i cant drink like that i wouldnt least a day
aveehay 9 months ago
Well the whole system is this, depends where. Basically hostess are fucking their customers and bring them to the club, it's called "dohan". However not every customer is Yakuza, and not in every club the hostess has to fuck the guy. In good, safe clubs she's only asked to give her "job phone number" and required to speak, and invite her customer to club. I was a singer in Japanese club so I know how they worked. They are kinda servants and they have to drink alcohol to keep their % from drinks.
BarbraKing 9 months ago
@BarbraKing It's kinda stressful job, but well paid job. But If I were them I wouldn't do that. It's rather dangerous and degrading. When I had 4 sets of my singing and I could go back home. They sat whole night there, at the day they slept. Kinda unhealthy.
BarbraKing 9 months ago 2
0:25 DID YOU SEE THAT GUY SCRATCH HIS ASS?!
jamPrinny11 9 months ago
though having liver issues from all the drinking and exhaustion from the light nights,hostessing is like an art.
you look beautiful and charm people, and give them something else to escape to. like the video said, prostitution is illegal in japan, these girls are just talking and giving lonely business men female company.
Lishanala 10 months ago
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diehardmaverick 10 months ago
huh, i expected better looking, maybe she sucks dick the best???
delli2011 10 months ago
BUNGA BUNGA!
alessandropivetti 10 months ago
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all these goofy bitches look the same
12131AllDay 10 months ago
So you're basically paying a large sum of money for a women to pore you a drink and flirt? Ah fuck that. Sex or GTFO!
doublenono88 11 months ago
@doublenono88 but seriously is that really all?? isnt that all bull and in reality hostesses are just like prostitutes?? i mean i can believe you cant fuck em if you pay for em...
IBOUGHTYAMOM 10 months ago
@IBOUGHTYAMOM Actually hostesses are companions. o.o I dunno if they will engage in sexual intercourse if you pay them more. I suppose it's up to each of them if they want to or not. o.o People usually think they are whores because they sell their companionship. o.o
akissy 10 months ago
@akissy i dont get it why would anyone pay if they dont get sex?? i would have thought sex is naturally included
IBOUGHTYAMOM 10 months ago
@IBOUGHTYAMOM Because that's not our society. XPP In their society companionship is a bit more valued than sex, anybody can have sex with anybody. o.o But having a good conversation is something else. ^^ Hostesses are like Geisha, just... of the informal sort. ^^ And they can choose to have sex or not. ^^ That's as far as I've read ad been told by other Japanese. ^^
akissy 10 months ago
@akissy seems crazy to me.. i mean talk is cheap... i mean japanese culture had pretty good ideas like yakuza and samurai and stuff.. but this i just dont get its seems like crazy..
IBOUGHTYAMOM 10 months ago
@IBOUGHTYAMOM omg XDDD you are the kind of people that think yakuza are cool? XDD You don't know much about Japan do you? They value the art of a good cultured conversation (Geisha), or the company of a pretty woman after a hard work's day (hostesses). Even Tayuu, when they ere legal, knew everything from singing to politics... even though they were prostitutes... The world needs more culture and less crude instincts. ^^
akissy 10 months ago
@akissy yakuza came from samurai.. i read about it.. they formed i think in the 16th century when an explosion of ronin occured.. yea they might know much but they dont know everything they are basically just jacks of all trades i guess... besides if they dont do it fullheartedly what is it good for?? i mean dont get me wrong i love conversating with women... but were is the fun if you have to pay for it and you know its fake and she doesnt care, i mean if you do sex you at least have pleasure
IBOUGHTYAMOM 10 months ago
@IBOUGHTYAMOM Yeah, I know that, I love Japanese culture because I have friends there. But Yakuza aren't cool, no matter if they came from Samurai. They are gangsters, they traffic with organs, women and drugs and are might violent.
And believe me, Geisha and the extinct Tayuu aren't Jacks of all trades, if you say that that's because you don't one thing about them. They are full heartedly into what they do, they like entertaining clients continue.
akissy 10 months ago
@akissy If they didn't then there wouldn't be girls WANTING to be Geisha. You really don't know what you're talking about. And in Japan men pay for this company because their wives work too, or because they want the company once in a while without strings attached. That you don't find it necessary and that you find sex more attractive, it's your deal. Oh and don't talk about Geisha if don't know anything about them. ^^ Educate yourself here: immortalgeisha com then come and talk to me about it.
akissy 10 months ago
@akissy even so i still like yakuza... i dont know actually anything about tayuus.. but to come back to the talking i mean they might know much... and of course its much more interesting to talk with women you have sex with... i really cant believe it really matters that they know much, i mean can they even be emotionally invested in any topic they know?? i can hardly believe that..but anyway thanks for the information
IBOUGHTYAMOM 10 months ago
@IBOUGHTYAMOM You are crazy. XDDD Who would like an organization who cuts off the fingers of their subordinates when they disobey them? And yes, they can invest emotions into a conversation, otherwise they wouldn't be good talkers. they know a lot about the topics they talk about because they read the newspapers, books, and internet articles, and try to keep updated. I don't know why you say they don't seem to know much. XDD Just because they're women? Or cause it's a lot of topics?
akissy 10 months ago
@akissy because they are servants,.. even so sometimes women lack fundamental understanding of some principals, they are nice to talk to,, and what wrong with cutting of fingers?? those brought shame to the boss, if his worjers slack people gonna die or end in prison... cuttung of fingers to keep continuity is a verry small price for safety and well being of whole families
IBOUGHTYAMOM 10 months ago
@IBOUGHTYAMOM Now I'm taking offense, I'm a woman you know? And they aren't servants, they're entertainers. You really need to get a grasp of the difference between entertaining and serving. What's your age? That could give me an idea of why your mentality is so retrograde. And you wouldn't be singing the same tune if you were a Yakuza and had your fingers cut off. I'm sorry, I really can't continue talking to you, you lack fundamental understanding of some principles and aren't worth my time.^^
akissy 10 months ago
@akissy to me they are servant.. and yes you are funny.. but seriously woman have knowledge.. its just some of the verry secrets that for a man are totally basic are completly beyond their capacity to understand... besides if i were a yakuza and had my finger cut off, it would have be my freaking fault... they dont cut of fingers of people who dont bring shame to their boss..... ps but you are still funny and its fun to talk to you
IBOUGHTYAMOM 10 months ago
@IBOUGHTYAMOM
Well not all man want sex and just want a comfort voice.
zhen86 6 months ago
one thing i noticed is that Japanese nod their heads a lot when they talk.
quanarius 11 months ago
Clearly Japanese girls are not more beautiful than other Asian girls =.=
quanarius 11 months ago
wow they are NOT pretty.
lobelia2 11 months ago
i dunno if ill be happy for them cause they're enjoying themselves or get mad cause of their little princess dream while the whole world is suffering . . . i'm being stupid .. i know. . . just saying thou (especially cause im exposed in the cruel world)
angeltheya12 11 months ago
that pink dress hostess is very pretty =)
but i must say, she shouldn't wear such heavy earrings..they stretch her earlobes.
when she gets older, her ears will be droopy o_o
LusterRosy 11 months ago
they don't actually have sex with them, they just act cute and pretend to flirt and are required to send text to their customers
BeeboyWhaat 1 year ago
men bring you presents LOL
dzuy12 1 year ago 4
@dzuy12 women bring expensive presents for male hosts in japan too, lol.
Samoutuomas 11 months ago
it is not an underground sex industry otherwise you could never see all kind of magazines in convinience stores,,.... stupid minded twats! japanese young girls are driven to do this jobs just because of the fucking money, however they have many other chances of work the end up openning their legs wide open to any man whop can affort it... in other words japanese girls are bitches
camilotrujillo 1 year ago
The narrator sucks
detroitr 1 year ago
Wow, that job would definitely suck. I don't want to spend that much time with my customers!
rockstarofredondo 1 year ago 3
i want to fuck a japanese whore.
sh4p3shifter 1 year ago
lol... princess robot bubblegum !
CosmicTwillight 1 year ago
Modern form of geisha. Perhaps not the same moral class, but it's the same concept. Painted artifice with the focus on the male client.
txgrl7 1 year ago 4
Emptiness at it's finest
tiopaul 1 year ago
They are whores.. High class whores, but whores..
SmokeyCough 1 year ago
@SmokeyCough so you're calling girls who flirt with men whores? I thought you had to fuck for money/prostituting to be a whore...maybe we have different views on what a whore is
mattdogg65 1 year ago
@mattdogg65 They fuck the men for money, they're whores. Perhaps you should do some more research into these clubs. Check out the Vice Guide To Sex In Japan.
SmokeyCough 1 year ago
Hostess clubs are now replacing the traditional geisha who replaced the courtesans when prostitution was legal in Japan. It's an interesting evolution though hostess bars will continue to thrive because they're the women that will adapt to the changes that take place in society. But each ones have their own unique flavor even though the courtesans now are just reenactments.
namiexamuroxnobody 1 year ago
fugly and fake
DANIK42095 1 year ago
the manager looks way cuter than the hostess
swatus 1 year ago 45
lol whats so fun about getting drunk every night or atractive
GhostWatcher55 1 year ago 4
so... what IS the hostess' job? is it throwing parties for rich men? Then what is a hosts job... throwing parties for rich women?
guiltyaschagrin 1 year ago 5
@guiltyaschagrin not just throwing parties. They are more like "being a companion", someone that you can talk with. Japanese man tends to work longer hours than American, so it's important to have someone to talk with.
swatus 1 year ago
@guiltyaschagrin Yes, there are host bars for women. It's pretty much the same deal - good-looking people drinking and flirting with the customers. Obviously there are different risk factors though.
feitclub 1 year ago
@feitclub meh. official stance = they drink and talk with customers. but everyone knows the implicit obligation (sex) to keep a customer. it's the same with plastic surgery & entertainment industry.
couchpotato25 1 year ago
@guiltyaschagrin Yes, it mainly is parties. The man/woman come in and arrange a party and they pay for the entertainment.
namiexamuroxnobody 1 year ago
A lot of wrong information
ficc2006 1 year ago
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back in the old days they are known as GEISHA
MikroBadass 1 year ago
Do all hostesses have to drink?
NyappyChocoChan 1 year ago
@NyappyChocoChan yes, lots and lots.
penfolduk78 1 year ago
When that girls are old women and think about their youth, they will start to cry, because live in luxery does NOT make happy. They never did a sensefull work. they just prostitute to some stupid rich japanese guys. they waste their life for money. todays japanese "culture" is the worst on earth...
Marthaz89 1 year ago
@Marthaz89
Like smadlin01 said they can stop and start when they want, if they want to work themselves to death they can, if they only want to do it part time they can. It's just like any other conventional job. You just happen to work the night shift and have to drink large amounts of alcohol. These women, in general at least, are not prostitutes they are simply entertainers to small audiances. Also what do you mean 'todays' japanese culture, women have been doing this in Japan for centuries.
rich0292 1 year ago
@Marthaz89 Some aspects of Japanese culture is very sad. They are very materialistic, obsessed with appearance rather than what's inside for example. What I don' t understand is why are married men going to these places to flirt with these young women while their wives are at home.
Dovelike 1 month ago 4
@Dovelike I agree, the Japanese Culture is just terrible because of all that.
Titusaki 1 month ago
@Dovelike
Their wives are presumably bitches or some relationship issues which cant be resolved through a divorce (that is relatively new)
Warsie 2 weeks ago
agreed with the comment below. My brothr died of throat cancer and my mom comitted suicide because of abuse she had. Their aint no fucking god. Only the fortunate believe in that shit, thinking their all blessed ...
HoBLifyX 1 year ago
funny how the best looking one in this whole video is the manager of the hair salon. no ferengi teeth either
jimminyjillikers 1 year ago
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OMG...that poor poor dog -.-
HostileAngel 1 year ago
ooooh too heavy earrings><
meiting15 1 year ago
They can make up to 50k a month. That speaks for itself.
AzumaRikimaru 1 year ago
@AzumaRikimaru yeah but they spend it all on hangbags
matt99is 1 year ago
@matt99is Haha good point, All beauty and no brain eh?
AzumaRikimaru 1 year ago
@matt99is be cause you know...
For all you know they have a family to support. Because, FYI, in Japan, hostess or no hostess, you have an obligation with your family, and if your parents are elderly you have to support hem. Also, they entered the hostess business because there aren't any more jobs available and they might need to work for something or other. Just because they look pretty it doesn't mean they are stupid or only buy handbags, but oh well, ppl will always be judgmental.
akissy 1 year ago
every country does have hostess club, Singapore's got a lot of prostitutes nowadays,
hugojordin 1 year ago
you have no idea what hostess do. They're not prostitutes dumbass. You can buy sex from them. There are brothals for that.
Takashiiii 1 year ago
@hugojordin
wrong. They are not prostitutes dumbass. you have no idea what ur talking about
Takashiiii 1 year ago 2
@Takashiiii oops.. sorry im not talking about these girls on the video...
I actually hate people who are accussing hostesses as prostitutes...
i just know the fact that singapore is more prone to prostitutes..
hugojordin 1 year ago
i disagree
willresides 1 year ago
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i don't see anything wrong with hostessing =]
kukupuffs93 1 year ago
There is a delicate interplay of gender issues in an industry like hostessing. On the one hand, it's an extremely empowering profession: the girls have an enormous amount of influence on patrons and can easily take advantage of male instincts. On the other hand, gender equality is far from established in Japan. If the latter could be corrected, I see no reason why the former couldn't continue. Denying that both men and women can be seen as sexual objects is simply ignorant.
Grak70 1 year ago
Boy's do this also and they are just as popular. Some guy's become famous amongst girls in Japan, they make lots of money and often receive expensive gifts like cars and jewelry. they are called "Hosts" believe it or not!
Ktotheane 1 year ago
in my town there is no demand for hostesses. big cities..... more hostesses. HOw can i judge these good hostesses by my own way of thinking? are they evil hos? i guess i'm just jealous i'm not making money like these girls do
Navlek79 1 year ago
I'm a good looking American fellow, now how do I apply to work at a kyabakura?!?!
welcomegohome 1 year ago
there's just as many men (hosts) in this industry, they are especially present in the district mentioned at the beginning of this video, Kabuki-cho.
gateauxQ 2 years ago
Japan has lots of brothels where women from other countries are held and FORCED to have sex.
subarusumeragi 2 years ago
@ subarusumeragi
this is true. it's a ruthless industry that has no concern for human life, and should be more widely reported in my opinion to raise public awareness.
videochemist 2 years ago
@subarusumeragi Can you prove this? Every country has seedy undergrounds and yes, it is quite disgusting. But these women do not have sex for money, please read up on what a host/hostess does. I don't doubt that there are bad places in any foreign country where women are degraded, but I am trying to decipher what this comment has to do with the video. Prostitution is illegal btw in Japan, fyi.
ThatChickwithSigns 1 year ago
@ThatChickwithSigns
You need to get out more.
subarusumeragi 1 year ago
@ThatChickwithSigns Prostitution in Japan is illegal but really not. It's decriminalized, and only vaginal intercourse counts as prostitution. The loophole is when they have sex with their clients, it's not a direct "sex=money" transaction. Hosts and hostesses are free people and can have sex with whomever, for whatever reason they want. Many of them most certainly choose to advance their careers in this manner with little to no stigma involved. It's no secret.
Discordia5 1 year ago
What is the song at the beginning? Anyone know? It's killing me to find out!!!
dixonnormus 2 years ago
No I would not recommend asking little girls to be hostesses when they grow up! That is awful!
susanaregan 2 years ago
She gets fanmail from elementary school girls who want to be just like her? Ahhh...Japan. Where a modern society throws priorities right out the window.
repsajuil1 2 years ago
@repsajuil1 Because in the US or other countries it doesn't happen,. right? XDDD
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
There are hostesses EVERYWHERE, but it seems the Japanese will make idols or heroes out of anyone or anything.
"Oh, look, she's the best at dressing like a whore and pouring drinks...I must get her autograph and buy her action figure!"
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 Sweetie, it was sarcasm... And they don't dress like whores. Now, some US girls I know dress like those on a regular basis...
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
My original point was that I couldn't believe the hostesses get fanmail from schoolgirls. I know top-ranked golfer Ai Miyazato gets loads of fanmail, which makes sense to me. Girls dressing up all slutty to serve drinks getting fanmail? I don't believe that 'hostessing' is something any culture should strive for for their little girls to grow up to 'achieve'. And I LOVE being called 'sweetie' by strange Mexican youtube cuties :P
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 Ummm... you're eleven years too old to be hitting on me, dear, but thanks for the compliment. ^^
Also, I agree on the little girls part. I'm all for keeping teh girls innocent as long as possible. Yet, you cannot deny them the right to choose a career when they grow up. As the girl said, they see hostesses as princesses because of the jewelry and dresses they use (which believe me not they aren't slutty), I believe once they grow older, they'll grow out of it. I think it's a phase.
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
Hitting on you? Good one. I enjoy being cheeky on Youtube, especially with people who throw 'Sweetie' around so liberally. I have no idea what you look like or if you're even my type. For all I know, you could be a retired middle-aged, overweight, masked wrestler who is now an Acapulco innkeeper. My point was, if a society idolizes hostesses as people and hostessing as a profession, then they're not exactly reaching for the sky, are they? Japan surprises me sometimes.
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 Your being cheeky then doesn't work much. ^^ And I am a girl of 23 that looks like 15, and engaged XD So, nope, definitely nobody's type. ^^
And also, being a hostess is as honest as any profession, since having sex isn't a must. Who are you to diminish anyone's career? So long as it's honest and decent and nobody gets forced to do it, they reach for the sky cause they reach for their dreams. As long as they are old enough to decide, let them be, away with your puritan thoughts.
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
No thanks. I prefer 23 year-olds who actually look 23 years old. Puritan? Pfft. Please. I have no problem with the profession itself. I love gawking at scantily-clad women. Hell, they can even serve me drinks. Women who can't get a decent education leading to a decent job that challenges the mind resort to doing work that relies uniquely on skin exposure in order to scalp drinks. At most it should be a stop-gap or a means to an end, not a career aspiration.
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 See? I told you, I'm not your type. On my defense my whole family are years-eaters, we can look as younger as 5 years from our actual age. ^^
Ok, now, tell me about geisha, what do you think about them? I know these girls are hardly Geisha, but the purpose is the same in it's core, except of course the sex part. They do the same: serve drinks, chat, and make everything nice and comfortable.
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
Like many men,I am attracted to young-looking but of-age women, but I have never understood the fascination with the 'schoolgirl' thing or other 'underage' fetishes.They make me cringe.I think you have a misconception of 'geisha', one that is very common in the non-Japanese circles.True geisha go through extensive training in the arts and do not engage in sexual relations with customers.Girls who dress as geisha and bed their clients are 'geisha girls' or quite simply 'prostitutes'.
repsajuil1 1 year ago
Lol, I know more than many ppl about Geisha, because I've been studying them for years now, since one of my bbf is Japanese, I just wanted you to know that they both have the same type of job: entertain. Hostesses might engage in sexual intercourse IF THEY WANT TO, that's about the only difference. Both dress appropriately for their type of costumers (hostesses DON'T dress slutty, you really need to see a slutty girl), they know the art of conversation appropriate for their type of costumer cont
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy and they both make a night-time gathering pleasant for the costumers to relax and enjoy the moment. Both serve drinks, and both drink (believe it or not), both light cigarettes and make jokes and even go as far as playful innuendos and making fun of the costumers. Both make up an illusion, the only difference is that Geisha just go back tot eh okiya at the end of the night, hostesses CAN CHOOSE to go with their client or not. cont.
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy both work as entertainers, different types of clients, same field: entertain. Both come from the red lights district. There's a lot of stuff they have in common. Because Geisha who are successful live a life of luxury and glamour as well.
and as for the fetish you talk about. Is it my fault I look younger than my age? My fiance looks younger than his real age as well, and that doesn't mean we have a fetish for each other. It just means we don't get old as fast as you or anybody else.cont
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy which means we won't wrinkle as fast nor have humps on our backs as fast, or have any other health problem that comes naturally with getting old. ^^ Plus we'll look younger a lot more time than somebody who ages at a normal rate. I think it has to do with how fast our cells oxide, and what we eat and drink and how much exercise we do. ^^
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
A VERY long-winded reply,A. You completely misunderstood my comment about the young fetish. It was not a comment about you nor your fiance but a comment about how some men are into girls who dress up or act like children. There's a word for that: pedophilia.
Re: sleeping with clients,regardless of what or who your friends are,a whore is someone who engages in sex for financial gain.Forget the geisha/hostess labels.A whore is a whore is a whore.
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 Whos ays they do it for getting paid? for all you know they just do it for fun. what makes them then? I was working under the impression that a whore gets paid, same witha slut. But maybe you know something I don't.
Sorry for misunderstanding. And whatever floats anybody's boat. ^^ you don't have to understand it, just accept people for who they are, believe me, it makes things easier. ^^ So long as it's not illegal. Many pedophiles suffer for their orientation
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
If you have sex for any sort of material gain (ie. money, a fur coat, a purse, a car, an apartment, etc.) it makes you a whore. If you have sex for fun, then maybe you just really like sex or perhaps you have a sexual addiction. Are your Japanese friends geisha or hostesses or prostitutes? Pedophiles can suffer in hell. I have no sympathy for pedophiles. I tried sending you a PM but couldn't. Please accept me as a friend.
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 I have sympthay for them, because pedophiles =/= child molesters, and most molesters aren't even pedophiles. Ppl immidiately think that they will act on their impulses or likings and that they are monsters. Dad's a lawyer, he's known (not worked for, just known) several ppl convicted unjustly for being pedophiles, while the molesters are still out there somewhere. So don't judge, for all you know your child or grandchild might be one, just responsible enough to know what not to do.
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
That's liberal BS if ever there was such a thing.
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 Oh, so you're a conservative... that answers a lot of inquiries regarding your line of thought.
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
Wrong again. Funny how YOU told ME not to make assumptions.
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 then you shouldn't've said "liberal BS." According to my experience, only conservatives say that. And by conservative I mean conservative, not the party.
Also, FYI, it's not liberal, it's humane. Trying to understand your fellow human beings is the least you can do, seeing as you have to socialize with at least 1,000 people a day, from your own family to the beggar whom you choose to give or not that dime.
akissy 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 and no. but I got my education from a terrific site called immortalgeisha(dot)com. Naomi, the webmistress has studied Geisha and Tayuu for several years, and she's a kitsuke expert (someone who knows how to dress in traditional Japanese garments). Her database is enormous, and the users there know as much about the topic as she does, so the forums are good places to learn.
akissy 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 Now, on the whore part: Who says they get laid for money? For all you and I know they could get laid because they just wanted to. Anyways, I know ppl who get laid for fun and they have told me that they gain no matter if it isn't material gain: they get what they want, which was sex without commitment. So, maybe, anyone who gets laid for fun is a whore. o.o Or maybe not, still, you shouldn't assume things. ^^
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
I think I've done quite well trying to decipher your English so far, but this one was especially messy. I don't know where to start except to say I believe I have answered all of these questions in my most recent post:
"If you have sex for any sort of material gain (ie. money, a fur coat, a purse, a car, an apartment, etc.) it makes you a whore. If you have sex for fun, then maybe you just really like sex or perhaps you have a sexual addiction."
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 My English isn't messy, thank you. You just need to read it twice to understand, because I tend to use long words and wind up a little in descriptions. Look at most YouTube comments, THOSE are messy, dear.
Again, I'll explain: Then ANYONE who has fun for sex is a whore, given that they still have a gain, albeit not a material one. I know many people who have sex for fun and have implied that their gain is fun. So, material or not, if there isn't commitment, then you're a whore.
akissy 1 year ago
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@akissy
It's not your use of long words but the convoluted way in which you get your point across. You must skim-read because this will be the third time I've had to direct your attention to it. Too bad Youtube doesn't have a 'highlight text' button:
"If you have sex for any sort of material gain...it makes you a whore. If you have sex for fun, then maybe you just really like sex or perhaps you have a sexual addiction." (read the part about 'sex for fun', there's no mention of 'whore' there)
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 Why is your comment spammed? and I know it was not me, since I cannot mark anything as spam, nor rate comments up or down.
And it seems that you lack enough reading comprehension to understand my response to that comment, so I'll just go down to your level and say it as if you're a four year old:
Having sex for fun makes you a whore as well, since you gain something too: fun.
Now, to further simplify it: fun is your price, if somebody pays it, then voilà! you are a whore. ^^
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
Wait, is that YOUR definition of whore or what you perceive as MY definition of whore? We've been going back and forth for so long now, I think you're countering your own arguments thinking them to be mine. I disagree with your profile information in that you might struggle with typing. You also seem to struggle with clarity when it comes to supporting an argument. You might do better to type your comments in Spanish, copying and pasting them into google translate and them posting here.
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 Google translate sucks, And yes, I am countering YOUR definition of whore.Clarity is not my problem, but it does seem to be yours or at least reading comprehension. ^^ You see, if you get ANY gain you're a whore. Not just material gain, but the fun itself is also a gain. So, fun is your price, if you sleep with someone who pays said price, then you're instantly a whore. ^^ That's why there's people called attention-whores. Attention is their price. They get paid, they are whores.
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy
Yes, by the dictionary definition of the world 'whore', it could also be a 'promiscuous' woman or man. Technically, there need not be an exchange of goods for services as it is more a reflection of one's sexual morality. This is relative of course. Who knows, you may consider me a whore.
repsajuil1 1 year ago
@repsajuil1 If you sleep with someone for a price, be it fun, money, goods, etc, then you are. o.o Now, considering that bad or not, that's another question, so don't get offended. whatever floats anybody's boat, I'm no one to criticize that. ^^
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy oh and I forgot. If you think I countered my own argument then you're wrong: These girls aren't whores. They might turn into whores, but their primary function is just to entertain.
akissy 1 year ago
@akissy so by your definition of a whore, are people who have sex with their husband/wife whores b/c the person they have sex gives them a sense of being loved?
Volf99 1 year ago 22
@Volf99 I always thought a whore was someone who got paid for sex???
haddii2324 1 year ago
@Volf99 anyone who sleeps with you definetly is a whore... and a sense of being love?? what the fuck is that...a sense of being loved? is that like a sense of zen or that crap, you fucking psychopath...
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