It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
I HATE being teased! Omygod. So much. I mean, perhaps it could work with your accent, but for Canadian boys, it's just insulting. Sometimes bordering on obnoxious. Bottom line, gents. Don't tease girls unless you're European.
@gongxia649 They are insecure though. You could say something like: "You know, you have a long nose hair hanging out or your nostrel." She'll most like be shocked and cover her mouth and nose. She'll be like "OMG!" Or you could this pick up line that actually works. "You have something in your hair" and take it out for her and tell her it will be $10 bucks because you don't clean people for free.
I like your videos but I think that teasing like that.... can be like playing with fire. it's very good and effective but if you're bad at it you can get burned.
thats some pretty good advice right there... alot of men thats including myself seem to have a problem with teasing about sensitive things without noticing befor its too late you realy have to watch what you say
Really? So let's so, don't take women seriously, and tease them for their positive aspects. I can't stand this kind of mentality, this alpha-male masculinity, and how guys "should" treat/pursue women.
It's painful to me that this is what so many men and women are becoming accustomed to as "how it's supposed to be". It's demeaning undertones towards women, and the harmful ideas of what masculinity means, being sent to men.
But what else could we expect in this patriarcal society...
The alpha male masculenity and this little 'game' has been how to get and keep a woman since we were cavemen, this is only putting it into a modern way of doing things.
It's not harmful to what masculenity means, what's HARMFUL is what you're alluding to, the recent dumbing down of men's testosterone by social and cultural mores.
I understand this guy's accent. some people said they don't, they must have had a lack of english and if they are native speakers that don't understand, then they are dumb.
well i'm not even from this country and I understood 95% of what he said.
hoes this guy practice what he preaches? wheres his in field vids at? i want to see what he says in action.or is he just some observer who knows what hes talkin about but doesnt know how to do what he says?
How's that, I like to see how 'nice guys' tease women, because being an asshole is working out a lot better ofr me. Anyways, check your spelling kid, grammars a gift, if you want to get into a good College, and get a good job, you should start here.
Just to back up my previous point, I am French, just so you know.
You obviously haven't looked at my channel at all, either. My favourites page is full of everything but DBZ related videos. Although "team rampage" doesn't so good, either.
I hate videos that teach pick up stuff. They just appeal to men who have low confidence and they teach nothing and they warp and fuck up courtship. fuck pickup. cbf. fail. bleh. lajsflkdsjf. THAT ASIDE, aside from the content you present, which I blatantly hate, cool accent mate haha.
nah u must be slow...dont kum at me like dat either kuz u dont fucking know me and i dont know you...and must be desperate bcuz youre watchin...u had 2 be watchin it 2 find my comment slow ass
'Don't laugh about the size of her breasts.' so so true! You can never say anything right about a girl's breasts (APART from that you like them) because they really are conscious about their size, regardless of what they might say.
I watched a couple of PUA videos about similar topics, but they often appear to be a bit cocky and being stuck somewhere in their interpretion of alpha-male behavior.
You have a kindness and "good energy" in your videos that is quite impressing, thanks for that.
I think this video is absolutely right about the fact that women love and respond to humour. The only problem is when it said (essentially) if a women tries to defend herself in response to the teasing, keep going on with it. If she's trying to "defend" herself chances are you've actually touched on a "sensitive" topic and it's best to back off. If she laughs or teases you back...you're doing well.
i just took a girl to the movies last night and we saw house bunny. i thought it was ok, but she nearly died laughing. do you think teasing her about her taste in humor or music would be an effective subject to use??? any helpful replies would be cool.
If you want to score with a slut then a fat wallet and a fat cock is what they want but if you want to find a decent girl then you need to have other qualities.
.. Im Going Into My First Year, Of high school. Grade 7-8 Are Like The Main Dating Years :D I Guess. "Just Saying" And Well, I Really Like THis Girl So I've Been WAtching All yOur Videos So Far, They Are Helping Alot! :D
mine is going good .. but could someone please tell me why does she gets quite when i get mad or angry ... and she sometimes doesnt talks to me for days just because of that
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umm thts not true! They want him to be sweet and romantic and only if he's goign thru a tough brave time, then its allright, but will let the grl hold him
Francisco you are truly on the mark. Teasing a girl about things she's proud of / expertly in is excellent! It happened before I saw this video, and it worked :) I'm 20, and my ex bio professor is 29, extremely attractive and smart (Brown ph D). Soon after I met her I started questioning her "expertise" in a playful way, and she defended herself right away, and the flirting was just heavy! What's worse is she's married - but that's my luck.
woow...hey peeps! don't miss with this guy ..he's such a bloody expert! i encourage everyone to follow his suggestions! ..well done bro! so briliant dedication!
also and toooo shy. well not that im shy is that my words cannot make it safe.i want to know Exactly what to say to her,cause i might say something that will not get her happy or whatever.
How can i make a girl like me instead of someone else? cuz theres this girl in my class that kissed her boy friend in the mouth in the park.and i see shes only interested on him.I want her to try her liking me instead
Last one! I have one friend who can go up to a girl and be like- Hey your hot, I wanna do you! And she'll know he's kidding, but I know if I said that, I'd just seem weird...She (and a lot of other people) view me as the funny nice guy, and not the guy they see themselves dating. Also at dances when I ask her to dance, she gives me a big smile and says enthusiastically "Sure!" but I don't know if she's just being nice, or if she likes me, cause I'm really short and just avg looking. Help!
Also, I'm a little shy, and I'm afraid she may be a little out of my league...what do I do here? Sometimes she acts nice to me and other times she ignores me pretty blatantly. She smiles at me every once in a while, but sometimes when we look at each other, she looks away. I have no idea what to do, because the way she pictures me.
I've been going to school with this girl for a long time and we're not really friends, but I'm just starting to like her quite a bit. I mean we talk every once and a while, but we're not having conversations or anything. There's like a 25% chance she likes me...I don't want to rush things or anything though...
let her see that you have other options and that you are not obsessing with her... If she sees that other girls appreciate you, she'll be able to shift her mind
ps: i also think that i made a move too fast. i knew her for like 4 months and we were just looking and smile at each other and all of a sudden, i went up and started to flirt with her in front of all her friends. and when she tryed to walck away. i went after her. dose that mean i freaked her out?
hey coach, i know this girl at school that keeps looking and smiling at me, but when i go up to talck to her she trys to avoid me. she always walcks away and if i follow her, she keeps going to differnt places like the bathroom? does she not like me and is just fucked up, or is she scared to talk to me?
you placing her in control makes a woman feel like she has space and not overwhelmed by some cheeseball! - as a man, you have to ooze sex, and that you will make sure that it's ladies first (if you know what you're doing - if not, practise, - trust me.. a woman will never complain about that kinda practise (unless she the wrong kind of woman - if so. get outta there!)That's all I can say - women love confidence and the feeling that the man will take charge without domination..
pay attention but without cheesy compliments - HUGE turn off! try to be sincere - 'Here with my friends and saw you over there and gotta tell you.. I had to talk to you..and have to say.. you stand out from all these (that makes her feels like she's a cut above) you look amazing.. Wanted you to know that.. gotta go.. see ya..'you have just inflated that woman's world without the 'threat' of a come on.. you've placed her in control ..
The major thing is not to laugh at a woman BIG NO! - as a woman, telling you, it;'s the whole confidence thing, strong, masculine as the ability to make her feel like she is the only one in the room..making her feel desirable, wanted, sexy, eye contact..try not to look at the boobs but her eyes, lils, abck to the eyes, smile - don't stand over her, give her some space to 'escape' if she feels like she has to- respect personal space but not too distant
i don't so much tease but use more seducing and mystery to attract girls, but one of my FAVORITE teasers [that usually gets a good reaction] is telling them they're no fun after they've denied a suggestion of yours. They figure if they're not fun to you, you'll find someone else who is which will change their mind and join you in whatever your suggestion is. works almost every time ;]
Anybody watching this video should use the tips even if you are already good with girls this will make you better I proved it the hard way. I was never shy or scared I just did not know what to say bun now I do. Also to anybody reading dont use alcohol or drugs to give you false confidence this will only hurt you. Girls find drugs repulsive and when you do use them for recreationl uses, use "clear eye" to make you look sober.
but your advisement is okay you should just give some more excamples an a little less Anoying because if you're just pissing her off it won't help getting you and her together lol :P but nice video i'am really gonna try some of them out when i become a little less shy lol
i don't agree totally like etc the perfectionist she would proberly slap you for teaseing her with her work! lol i've tried that lol actually today! :P
lol he said 4:12 '' dont laugh at size at her breasts ''and start laughin
golatificon 1 month ago
**the judgmental beetch lol
munozfillmore 2 months ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is
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0:50 I could've sworn he said "I'm gonna give you some techniques, some erections."
BoomyNote21 4 months ago
u get tease alot cuz ur ugly
arvin121992 4 months ago
I couldn't even watch this all the way because of your accent.....IT"S SO DISTRACTING!
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Enough said!
Picking up girls is a joke after reading that.
I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it but whatever.
MMArtist99 6 months ago
I HATE being teased! Omygod. So much. I mean, perhaps it could work with your accent, but for Canadian boys, it's just insulting. Sometimes bordering on obnoxious. Bottom line, gents. Don't tease girls unless you're European.
SpiderXxPirate 9 months ago
@SpiderXxPirate yeah! I am european!!
SheerRise 7 months ago
i personally don't like teasing. just a sense humor and a guy who will compliment me.
paigemorgan90 9 months ago
@paigemorgan90 if only i could meet a girl like you
beavisandbutthead104 7 months ago
theres no need for teasing if ur a funny guy
VETO9999 1 year ago
hard to tease hot girls that has no flaws.
gongxia649 1 year ago
@gongxia649 They are insecure though. You could say something like: "You know, you have a long nose hair hanging out or your nostrel." She'll most like be shocked and cover her mouth and nose. She'll be like "OMG!" Or you could this pick up line that actually works. "You have something in your hair" and take it out for her and tell her it will be $10 bucks because you don't clean people for free.
enterjcs 1 year ago
@gongxia649 or instead of nose hair, you could substitute with booger...
enterjcs 1 year ago
for some reason i always respect dudes with european accent
majorballer 1 year ago
There's a lot of crap on youtube. This isn't it.
I like your videos but I think that teasing like that.... can be like playing with fire. it's very good and effective but if you're bad at it you can get burned.
BigAgitator 1 year ago
thats some pretty good advice right there... alot of men thats including myself seem to have a problem with teasing about sensitive things without noticing befor its too late you realy have to watch what you say
rtrxggg 1 year ago
get some girls in your videos man. you look like a douchebag
USMCRyan1775 1 year ago
about regular menstruals..sure can tease about dat..sayin this xplains y u need a rich husband..to buy a lotta napkins
maverickkris84 2 years ago
bla bla bla ....
sufiyah1 2 years ago
/yawn
AubreyBTC 2 years ago
In soviet russia, girl teases you.
fantastopotomus 2 years ago 55
lol, man that cracked me up
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timerfresh 10 months ago
@fantastopotomus
He's french mon ami!
timerfresh 10 months ago
@fantastopotomus let me guess...you got this from raywilliamjohnson's channel
bloodandwar2 4 months ago
so wait. WHY is this guy teaching guy's how to get laid, again? Don't you actually have to do it first?
JimPlottier 2 years ago
thanks
kaisa81123 2 years ago
Really? So let's so, don't take women seriously, and tease them for their positive aspects. I can't stand this kind of mentality, this alpha-male masculinity, and how guys "should" treat/pursue women.
It's painful to me that this is what so many men and women are becoming accustomed to as "how it's supposed to be". It's demeaning undertones towards women, and the harmful ideas of what masculinity means, being sent to men.
But what else could we expect in this patriarcal society...
nta214 2 years ago
Give me a break, kiddo.
The alpha male masculenity and this little 'game' has been how to get and keep a woman since we were cavemen, this is only putting it into a modern way of doing things.
It's not harmful to what masculenity means, what's HARMFUL is what you're alluding to, the recent dumbing down of men's testosterone by social and cultural mores.
OchrismongrelO 2 years ago
I understand this guy's accent. some people said they don't, they must have had a lack of english and if they are native speakers that don't understand, then they are dumb.
well i'm not even from this country and I understood 95% of what he said.
hes right for 100 % about teasing.
trancekv 2 years ago
hoes this guy practice what he preaches? wheres his in field vids at? i want to see what he says in action.or is he just some observer who knows what hes talkin about but doesnt know how to do what he says?
MadArab2012 2 years ago
i cant understand nothing this dude is saying..............
yamahatb 2 years ago
you must be slow then cuz im American and i can understand him just find.....and you must also be desperate if ur watching this.....
teamrampage123 2 years ago
ur watching this too... lol!
johntkucz 2 years ago
i bored as hell i dont need this im 13 and have a hot gf.......just watchin out of bordom
teamrampage123 2 years ago
What's hot at 13, mosquito bites and getting to first base?
SheepStone101 2 years ago 5
no we dont just hold hands a that crap theres kissing...,and sence ur watchin this iv prob kiss more girls that u
teamrampage123 2 years ago
How's that, I like to see how 'nice guys' tease women, because being an asshole is working out a lot better ofr me. Anyways, check your spelling kid, grammars a gift, if you want to get into a good College, and get a good job, you should start here.
SheepStone101 2 years ago
i hate writing..im great at it so shut up i just dont like...no one needs speeling thats what text is 4 and do u live in the us
teamrampage123 2 years ago
haha fucking gaylord.
prophetezekiel 2 years ago
Not a very mature boy, are you?
DragonBallZknight1 2 years ago
yeah im just bored haha, and like you are anyways...hahah dragon ball z....thats like a 7 year old show ...get a fucking life
teamrampage123 2 years ago
Just to back up my previous point, I am French, just so you know.
You obviously haven't looked at my channel at all, either. My favourites page is full of everything but DBZ related videos. Although "team rampage" doesn't so good, either.
DragonBallZknight1 2 years ago
i was in 3rd grade! ok damn...
teamrampage123 2 years ago
spelling*
teamrampage123 2 years ago
lol, what a retard.
wiitoy200 2 years ago
who is
teamrampage123 2 years ago
Grammar is, or grammar's...
FalseShadowx 2 years ago
Typo, bad backspacing, etc.
SheepStone101 2 years ago
lol hahaha true that
Shyamalz 2 years ago
@SheepStone101 getting laid... seriously
gayfern 1 year ago
I hate videos that teach pick up stuff. They just appeal to men who have low confidence and they teach nothing and they warp and fuck up courtship. fuck pickup. cbf. fail. bleh. lajsflkdsjf. THAT ASIDE, aside from the content you present, which I blatantly hate, cool accent mate haha.
johntkucz 2 years ago
nah u must be slow...dont kum at me like dat either kuz u dont fucking know me and i dont know you...and must be desperate bcuz youre watchin...u had 2 be watchin it 2 find my comment slow ass
yamahatb 2 years ago
onece again out of boredom and hahha i can tell that ur gay
teamrampage123 2 years ago
JK!!JK!!! UR NOT gay hehe sorry
teamrampage123 2 years ago
dont take women seriously. check.
>_>
boxcuttermarshel 2 years ago 2
Rofl @ judgemental bitch!!
georg1984 2 years ago
'Don't laugh about the size of her breasts.' so so true! You can never say anything right about a girl's breasts (APART from that you like them) because they really are conscious about their size, regardless of what they might say.
performingmonkey900 3 years ago
can you say that you want to motor boat them?
truestyleoutlaw 2 years ago 3
Pfft.. I'm a girl and I'm not any of those... I can't stand girls like that either.
BaptistKitty 3 years ago
actually you are, ur the judgmental bitch
mesorio12 3 years ago 3
NO GIRLS ALLOWED CAN'T YOU READ!
zipppaddlety3 2 years ago
he said etc >=P
truestyleoutlaw 2 years ago
i was wondering... where are u from?
tpcardoso 3 years ago
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dude you got a bad accent some of the stuff you say i cant understand
joshuab1815 3 years ago
Sex addict is my favourite kind of girl lol.
Hejj10 3 years ago
Worst advice EVER. Guys, do yourselves a favor and don't 'tease' girls like this. Unless you want them to tell you to fuck off.
heydearie 3 years ago
You're kidding me.
Oh! So you must be the kind of girl that wants the motley crue of guys that you've relegated to 'just friends' following you around.
You know, the same guys that are 'too nice' to be potential partners, that kiss your ass and agree with you all the time?
~grin~
OchrismongrelO 2 years ago
I watched a couple of PUA videos about similar topics, but they often appear to be a bit cocky and being stuck somewhere in their interpretion of alpha-male behavior.
You have a kindness and "good energy" in your videos that is quite impressing, thanks for that.
ckore 3 years ago
Yeah, that'd be my luck,,I'd offend her! I'm good at doing that with the ladies for some reason.
rbolo29 3 years ago
I think this video is absolutely right about the fact that women love and respond to humour. The only problem is when it said (essentially) if a women tries to defend herself in response to the teasing, keep going on with it. If she's trying to "defend" herself chances are you've actually touched on a "sensitive" topic and it's best to back off. If she laughs or teases you back...you're doing well.
Bhilithinn 3 years ago
Is this serious???
"Um...guys don't laugh at her if she taking medication, or um at the size of her breasts. thats not a good idea"
is there any man on earth that would if he was trying to get a girl???
and what is with this "teasing" thing??
luy02445 3 years ago
you wont believe... ive seen many
leshark 3 years ago
you sound french
lgx22 3 years ago
You obviously don't know a lot of French people.
DragonBallZknight1 2 years ago
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****kissing test**** hold you're breath, the c+p this to another vid. if you can without having to gasp for air, yur an awesome kisser.
franklinskater14 3 years ago
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i don't even think this old gay has a girl xD
nipay27 3 years ago
your an indecisive idiot
archAntebullem 3 years ago
Nicenice, you know what you are talking about.
mehm3d 3 years ago 4
My good man you sure seem to have it down. I really like your advice and I agree 100%
MariahCareysSon 3 years ago 5
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does anhyone have msn!!! msg me jane24belle
corrine6767 3 years ago 2
if you listen to this one ur desperate and two ur not gonna get her
one advice and one only: BE YOURSELF!!!
pavalator 3 years ago 5
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i just got new webcam
breadbedman21 3 years ago 2
basically be a D1ck
BryanMDK 3 years ago
i just took a girl to the movies last night and we saw house bunny. i thought it was ok, but she nearly died laughing. do you think teasing her about her taste in humor or music would be an effective subject to use??? any helpful replies would be cool.
wachman 3 years ago 2
niko belics cousin..this guy right here is
youngd2008 3 years ago
ahaha
GoofyKrewProductions 3 years ago 2
this stuff seems too cerebral. I don't know. It sounds like good advice thought.
junkyjuice21 3 years ago
Women are mainly attracted to a fat wallet and a fat cock. Fact!
KevD08 3 years ago 32
thats so not true!ok maybe some girls but some girls really like guys from the inside,nows thats a fact!hey im a girl
prettycmiss1402 3 years ago 2
Then you're an exception to the rule but i still stand by what i say.
KevD08 3 years ago
i didnt say your wrong.its true but i think about 40% girls like men who are rich or as u say a fat wallet or fat cock
prettycmiss1402 3 years ago
If you want to score with a slut then a fat wallet and a fat cock is what they want but if you want to find a decent girl then you need to have other qualities.
KevD08 3 years ago 2
i dont no watchya mean dude?
prettycmiss1402 3 years ago
I don't even know myself now lol.
KevD08 3 years ago 3
@KevD08
not like you'd know though.
iCornerbacKi 1 year ago
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@iCornerbacKi So what's your point?
KevD08 1 year ago
The comment about angry guys are very true...also girls and probably boys hate to be belittled. So dont take the teasing to far.
DubbleBubbleDancer 3 years ago
you sound russian! :)
moviewatchaa 3 years ago
u idiot he is obviously French lol
JoelShack 3 years ago 9
.. Im Going Into My First Year, Of high school. Grade 7-8 Are Like The Main Dating Years :D I Guess. "Just Saying" And Well, I Really Like THis Girl So I've Been WAtching All yOur Videos So Far, They Are Helping Alot! :D
JoeyLeonard9 3 years ago
lol trust me kid, dont get too attached when you get a gf, trust me, if you get too attched your break ups gonna hurt
elitechikorita 3 years ago 7
I'M A GIRL!
LoveYouLesleyLol 3 years ago 2
LOOL
GrayEssence 3 years ago
Lol at thumbs up just for being a girl!
georg1984 2 years ago
mine is going good .. but could someone please tell me why does she gets quite when i get mad or angry ... and she sometimes doesnt talks to me for days just because of that
Please it means a lot save me !!! please ??
SprintersYouth 3 years ago
no woman likes guys who get angry - it makes them feel threatened and verbally abused - You need to change your attitude! Fast!
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
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umm thts not true! They want him to be sweet and romantic and only if he's goign thru a tough brave time, then its allright, but will let the grl hold him
harrypotterISecko 3 years ago
vitalcoach is rite,girls dont like it wen guys get angry really,so dont be too harsh, just relax and stay calm then shell talk to you kk?
prettycmiss1402 3 years ago
intresting......got some nice stuff there!
BButterz88 3 years ago
Thanks
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
I need help with something, please respond, this is very important to me:
I was chatting with a very shy girl for two weeks and everything seemed great, then we talked on the phone and decided to meet.
I think the date was nice, although we were both pretty nervous, and we told each other to keep contact after that date.
I heard of her on the MSN a few days later, then we sent a few mails, but now I've sent her a mail three weeks ago, and she still hasn't responded. :(
What do I do now?
Laurelindo 3 years ago
That means either she's not ready for an relation or she didn't really liked the date...Try to talk whit her friends or whit someone who knows her ;)
prizonier2 3 years ago
a like the guy
taxism1 3 years ago
Francisco you are truly on the mark. Teasing a girl about things she's proud of / expertly in is excellent! It happened before I saw this video, and it worked :) I'm 20, and my ex bio professor is 29, extremely attractive and smart (Brown ph D). Soon after I met her I started questioning her "expertise" in a playful way, and she defended herself right away, and the flirting was just heavy! What's worse is she's married - but that's my luck.
zedpproject 3 years ago
Excellent! Well done!
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
You are a legend mate
LTMcSilver 3 years ago
thanks!
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
lol, I like how he smiles in the beginning. :P
Laurelindo 3 years ago
Take notes on this guy, this is some brilliant stuff.
777932901 3 years ago
mais as tu des conseils pour des "judgemental bitches"?
nishanthlux 3 years ago
qu'est-ce-que tu veux dire? Tu en es une? :) - Tu en connais une et tu voudrais qu'elle change son attitude?
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
lol...
hiphop4soul 3 years ago
merci mec
nishanthlux 3 years ago
woow...hey peeps! don't miss with this guy ..he's such a bloody expert! i encourage everyone to follow his suggestions! ..well done bro! so briliant dedication!
Q8hypermania 3 years ago
also and toooo shy. well not that im shy is that my words cannot make it safe.i want to know Exactly what to say to her,cause i might say something that will not get her happy or whatever.
krazymike49 3 years ago
use some of the ideas in the vid ;)
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
How can i make a girl like me instead of someone else? cuz theres this girl in my class that kissed her boy friend in the mouth in the park.and i see shes only interested on him.I want her to try her liking me instead
krazymike49 3 years ago
You need to play fair - simply be at your best - If she likes someone else, don't try to bring them apart, that's not nice ;)
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
You're a good man, a good man :)
kucheesy 3 years ago 2
thanks ;)
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
sure, saying something like: "You got me on that one! I am speechless" is perfectly ok ;)
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
what of if u have none the girl for some time now
temi106 3 years ago
no prob - Same strategies ;) - Simply take it slowly so that she gets used to your more challenging and confident attiude
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
Last one! I have one friend who can go up to a girl and be like- Hey your hot, I wanna do you! And she'll know he's kidding, but I know if I said that, I'd just seem weird...She (and a lot of other people) view me as the funny nice guy, and not the guy they see themselves dating. Also at dances when I ask her to dance, she gives me a big smile and says enthusiastically "Sure!" but I don't know if she's just being nice, or if she likes me, cause I'm really short and just avg looking. Help!
popomczowzow 3 years ago
looks like you need to work on your game before you take the next step with her.
In your comments you already put yourself down a dozen times.
You need to be 10 x stronger and confident than that - Girls pick up on your insecurities instantly - They read your body language and tone of voice!
The answer? Practice a lot chatting and being super cool with just anyone, not just girls you are attracted to.
Enjoy and go for it!
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
Alright, thanks!
popomczowzow 3 years ago
dont ask her to dance, but rather say "hey come dance with me"
Love0rHate 3 years ago
Ok good idea. I actually have done that, but I'm saying sometimes when i do ask her. I'll remember that tip though. Thanks.
popomczowzow 3 years ago
Also, I'm a little shy, and I'm afraid she may be a little out of my league...what do I do here? Sometimes she acts nice to me and other times she ignores me pretty blatantly. She smiles at me every once in a while, but sometimes when we look at each other, she looks away. I have no idea what to do, because the way she pictures me.
popomczowzow 3 years ago
I've been going to school with this girl for a long time and we're not really friends, but I'm just starting to like her quite a bit. I mean we talk every once and a while, but we're not having conversations or anything. There's like a 25% chance she likes me...I don't want to rush things or anything though...
popomczowzow 3 years ago
what should i do now? is there any way to fix this?
black4life001 3 years ago
let her see that you have other options and that you are not obsessing with her... If she sees that other girls appreciate you, she'll be able to shift her mind
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
ps: i also think that i made a move too fast. i knew her for like 4 months and we were just looking and smile at each other and all of a sudden, i went up and started to flirt with her in front of all her friends. and when she tryed to walck away. i went after her. dose that mean i freaked her out?
black4life001 3 years ago
a bit, yeah
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
hey coach, i know this girl at school that keeps looking and smiling at me, but when i go up to talck to her she trys to avoid me. she always walcks away and if i follow her, she keeps going to differnt places like the bathroom? does she not like me and is just fucked up, or is she scared to talk to me?
black4life001 3 years ago
she's scared to talk to you and does not want to be embarassed in front of her friends
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
I don't know... I stopped counting
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
This guy's got it straight on yo. That's exactly what you need to do.
supermanjules 3 years ago
well said ;)
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
I wondered why i did this to girls lmao. I just did it naturally :P
Good tips on this vid for men who can't flirt so well :)
swanseaboy 3 years ago
well done - You are a natural ;)
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
you placing her in control makes a woman feel like she has space and not overwhelmed by some cheeseball! - as a man, you have to ooze sex, and that you will make sure that it's ladies first (if you know what you're doing - if not, practise, - trust me.. a woman will never complain about that kinda practise (unless she the wrong kind of woman - if so. get outta there!)That's all I can say - women love confidence and the feeling that the man will take charge without domination..
sarahroberson 3 years ago 3
Thanks for sharing! - Guys, say "thank you" to Sarah ;)
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
me too, u helped a lot Sarah, thanks ;)
jussum1777 3 years ago 2
thank you to sarah lol
gobz11 3 years ago 2
pay attention but without cheesy compliments - HUGE turn off! try to be sincere - 'Here with my friends and saw you over there and gotta tell you.. I had to talk to you..and have to say.. you stand out from all these (that makes her feels like she's a cut above) you look amazing.. Wanted you to know that.. gotta go.. see ya..'you have just inflated that woman's world without the 'threat' of a come on.. you've placed her in control ..
sarahroberson 3 years ago 2
The major thing is not to laugh at a woman BIG NO! - as a woman, telling you, it;'s the whole confidence thing, strong, masculine as the ability to make her feel like she is the only one in the room..making her feel desirable, wanted, sexy, eye contact..try not to look at the boobs but her eyes, lils, abck to the eyes, smile - don't stand over her, give her some space to 'escape' if she feels like she has to- respect personal space but not too distant
sarahroberson 3 years ago 2
What does teasing accomplish?
footballrocksalot 3 years ago 2
it breaks the ice, shifts the power balance, brings humor, show her your confidence, etc
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
get rid of the accent
antonioforreal 3 years ago
Dude I bet the accent is a major bonus with girls!
georg1984 2 years ago
nice vid..
i don't so much tease but use more seducing and mystery to attract girls, but one of my FAVORITE teasers [that usually gets a good reaction] is telling them they're no fun after they've denied a suggestion of yours. They figure if they're not fun to you, you'll find someone else who is which will change their mind and join you in whatever your suggestion is. works almost every time ;]
KingDaddy88 3 years ago
VERY good!
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
what if the girl u are teasing is not reacting back? what if she is trying to ignore u? should u stop talcking to her and let her go?
black4life001 3 years ago
The overall goal is not be fixed on one girl or a group of girls. The first step is to train your skills and practice a lot any time anywhere.
If you feel you are wasting your tiem she does not repsond at all, move on and try chatting with someone else.
If you hit rejection systematically, it means you need to work on your approach and change strategy.
Makes sense, right?
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
i dont see the point of teasing her
matt357 3 years ago
Well... Want to play a game?
Here is a quick question: Between 0% and 100% how high is your dating power?
I mean how good exactly are you at connecting with women?
Can you write down the exact mark you give yourself?
Just write down the number in the reply to this post...
vitalcoaching 3 years ago
Anybody watching this video should use the tips even if you are already good with girls this will make you better I proved it the hard way. I was never shy or scared I just did not know what to say bun now I do. Also to anybody reading dont use alcohol or drugs to give you false confidence this will only hurt you. Girls find drugs repulsive and when you do use them for recreationl uses, use "clear eye" to make you look sober.
laetrille 4 years ago
Excellent tip laetrille - And thanks for your word ;) - Enjoy
vitalcoaching 4 years ago
you're welcome
montyhund 4 years ago
but your advisement is okay you should just give some more excamples an a little less Anoying because if you're just pissing her off it won't help getting you and her together lol :P but nice video i'am really gonna try some of them out when i become a little less shy lol
montyhund 4 years ago
Thanks for sharing :)
vitalcoaching 4 years ago
LOL she throw a chair at me lol
montyhund 4 years ago
i don't agree totally like etc the perfectionist she would proberly slap you for teaseing her with her work! lol i've tried that lol actually today! :P
montyhund 4 years ago
Glad you tried this out ;) what did she say?
vitalcoaching 4 years ago
Thanks dude, I learned just about