Good call Faete, I am glad that you told her straight, like you always do. I think it is important for people to understand that while bdsm is right for some it is not for all and that is ok. That said I think that it is important to take care while playing so as you dont distress others (especially those close to you) and that you are able to understand that there are limits while in public. Good luck to the anonymous writer :)
Well said, Faete. To the person who sent the message: Someone saying they accept you even though you have certain interests is not the same thing as saying they would like you to come over to their house and engage in those activities with all their other friends around. This was not a case of your friend failing to accept you. It was a case of you failing to consider good etiquette. Had you come out to all the people at the party? How many of them might have disapproved or been offended?
(Cont'd) In any case, approving of the fact that something is a part of someone's life is not the same thing as wanting the thing itself in your living room. "Hey, man. It's great that you're really into cars, but this party is not about you showing off your hot rod. Plus, these people are environmentalists." You should talk to your friend, but start by apologizing. Then express confusion, not resentment. Focus on trying to understand her perspective first, not on being angry about what she did.
Thank you! :) It is always good to see you around and hear your opinions. Hope you're doing well - I haven't seen a video or entry by you in a while. ;)
I was thinking the same thing MatthewBain, Just because she came out to her friend had nothing to do with the fact that it was a party with other people around. She may in fact have had no problem with it if it were just her, the girl and the girl's Master. But with lots of other people around it was probably slightly embarrassing for her.
I haven't gotten an email back but she said she saw the video, and liked it - I hope she works things out though. I think it was probably just a misunderstanding.
fiandrhi i make my slave wear his collar everyplace also.. i see no need for him to not have it on.. we are happy about who and what we are.. we do get the looks and questions sometimes.. but i tell them hes mine and they leave it alone for the most part.. we dont need to get to into it.. the only time he cant wear it is at work.. tho his one boss knows about it he still cant.. just cuz he has a job they have to look good at:P
I would like to hear you talk about any prejudice you've experienced from wearing your collar. If you haven't already done it. Not sure I've seen all your videos.
I don't have any clear cut examples...but I used to command my slave to wear her collar in public. It was a very obvious BDSM collar. We got a few dirty looks and a lot of curious ones. But that was about it.
Congratulations on your new move - I hope you, hubbie and the precious kitties are going to be very happy there. I'm also glad you got the cat thing under control - the smell of cat pee is the WORST. I've been there and its extremely depressing to have to wash all those things and get that smell out of your home. Glad it worked out. I thoroughly enjoy all your videos and views. You are wise beyond your years. I wish I had such a good sense of self at your age. Best always xo , Zee
its about respect. just because a friend is okay with you doing something doesn't mean they want to see it. she doesn't have to be on a leash for her Master to have control over her. their are other ways to do it around people who aren't comfortable with it. its just one of those things you have to learn when you are new. i wish her luck
Well said
I8apoptart 1 year ago
pubilc demands More Movies heheheh Mew meow mew meow
bloodkittychild 2 years ago
Good call Faete, I am glad that you told her straight, like you always do. I think it is important for people to understand that while bdsm is right for some it is not for all and that is ok. That said I think that it is important to take care while playing so as you dont distress others (especially those close to you) and that you are able to understand that there are limits while in public. Good luck to the anonymous writer :)
saramariehedger 2 years ago
Well said, Faete. To the person who sent the message: Someone saying they accept you even though you have certain interests is not the same thing as saying they would like you to come over to their house and engage in those activities with all their other friends around. This was not a case of your friend failing to accept you. It was a case of you failing to consider good etiquette. Had you come out to all the people at the party? How many of them might have disapproved or been offended?
MatthewBain 2 years ago
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(Cont'd) In any case, approving of the fact that something is a part of someone's life is not the same thing as wanting the thing itself in your living room. "Hey, man. It's great that you're really into cars, but this party is not about you showing off your hot rod. Plus, these people are environmentalists." You should talk to your friend, but start by apologizing. Then express confusion, not resentment. Focus on trying to understand her perspective first, not on being angry about what she did.
MatthewBain 2 years ago
@MatthewBain
Thank you! :) It is always good to see you around and hear your opinions. Hope you're doing well - I haven't seen a video or entry by you in a while. ;)
faete31 2 years ago
I was thinking the same thing MatthewBain, Just because she came out to her friend had nothing to do with the fact that it was a party with other people around. She may in fact have had no problem with it if it were just her, the girl and the girl's Master. But with lots of other people around it was probably slightly embarrassing for her.
FailaTelcontar 2 years ago
Aww, you're so adorable!!! (It's Joli, btw. Hehe. ^.^)
Have you heard anything more from the sender of the email about whether she worked things out with her friends?
AmethystIllusions 2 years ago
Joli! ^^ Yay! Good to hear from ya, sweets. :))
I haven't gotten an email back but she said she saw the video, and liked it - I hope she works things out though. I think it was probably just a misunderstanding.
faete31 2 years ago
You are very well spoken and express your self well. ;)
XXX
OOO
MaculaPravus 2 years ago
@MaculaPravus
Well, if I am well spoken, it is only because you give me the keys to express myself well, Master.
*kneels and kisses*
Your Kitten ;)
faete31 2 years ago
fiandrhi i make my slave wear his collar everyplace also.. i see no need for him to not have it on.. we are happy about who and what we are.. we do get the looks and questions sometimes.. but i tell them hes mine and they leave it alone for the most part.. we dont need to get to into it.. the only time he cant wear it is at work.. tho his one boss knows about it he still cant.. just cuz he has a job they have to look good at:P
ShinesKitten 2 years ago
Very well said, TY for being a voice.
I hope the cats are still being friendly. big smiles
bigD16000 2 years ago
good point, and very true! :D
requiemkitty 2 years ago
Along the same lines, I have plenty of gay friends but I wouldn't really want to watch them have sex. Same goes for most of my straight friends.
Jazzbastard79 2 years ago 2
I would like to hear you talk about any prejudice you've experienced from wearing your collar. If you haven't already done it. Not sure I've seen all your videos.
I don't have any clear cut examples...but I used to command my slave to wear her collar in public. It was a very obvious BDSM collar. We got a few dirty looks and a lot of curious ones. But that was about it.
fiandrhi 2 years ago
Totally random, but gotta love the German sewing machine (box) ;)
Peikko 2 years ago
@Peikko
Lol! Yeah, we finally unpacked the sewing machine, but I have NO idea where my notions and thread and fabric box went. Gotta love unpacking.
faete31 2 years ago
Hey Faete!
Congratulations on your new move - I hope you, hubbie and the precious kitties are going to be very happy there. I'm also glad you got the cat thing under control - the smell of cat pee is the WORST. I've been there and its extremely depressing to have to wash all those things and get that smell out of your home. Glad it worked out. I thoroughly enjoy all your videos and views. You are wise beyond your years. I wish I had such a good sense of self at your age. Best always xo , Zee
mzspock 2 years ago
@mzspock,
Thanks! I'm really glad the cats are behaving now, too. Phew!
faete31 2 years ago
hmm i really thought you looked pretty bald but i like hpw your hair looks here
LonelyKitty33 2 years ago
@lonelykitty33
Thank you! :) I think that it is the way these particular ears fit on my head. :)
faete31 2 years ago
your hair looks really cute in this vid <3
bleedinglioness 2 years ago
@ Bleedinglioness
Mew! ^^ Thanks you.
faete31 2 years ago
its about respect. just because a friend is okay with you doing something doesn't mean they want to see it. she doesn't have to be on a leash for her Master to have control over her. their are other ways to do it around people who aren't comfortable with it. its just one of those things you have to learn when you are new. i wish her luck
shavaughn1980 2 years ago
@Shavaughn1980
Yes!
faete31 2 years ago