My black relationship only looks good on paper, there's no chemistry

[urbandude54]

Pink, you're at your best when do a lot of rambling. Stay real!

[kesomox]

I really do not understand how this, his problem or the problem has anything to with the relationship involving two black people. I really lost a lot of respect for you after watching this video. This is a problem the transcends people of all races. Also, If you look at the high divorce rate statistics between black men an non black women/especially white women you will see that this problem still exists. Why is there a need to validate ourselves through non black women? It's just ridiculous

[cnell25]

Excellent vid!

I think that brutha really needs to evaluate the relationship. We always harp on the external and never get to the internal. We've created this overblown "crisis" menality within the BC that there are no educated successful BM, or there are no childless BW without an attitude and a father in her life, that we have this belief of "damn you better snatch him/her up cuase you know there aint alot out there". We neglete chemistry, compatability, companionship and love!!

[monopolydevil]

Nice video. I think the problem is the lack of tradition in our culture. Without the black fathers to raise their kids, how will they see life from a father's perspective? Without this culture making education an importance to our kids, how do we expect them to better themselves? Without the knowledge of women knowing and understanding that they should be a supporting factor instead of vying for submissive balance, why do they think they can't find a black man for them? Think about it....

[JazzyZenBrotha]

@monopolydevil - Wow, that was very well said. You put it in perfect perspective.

[JazzyZenBrotha]

@monopolydevil - Wow, that was very well said. You put it in perfect perspective.

[JazzyZenBrotha]

@monopolydevil - Wow, that was very well said. You put it in perfect perspective.

[cinSity3796]

@monopolydevil These are my exact sentiments concerning the black community and I would hope most black people, otherwise we are practically doomed. However, I do not see the connection to this particular video.

[stayfresh06]

Good vid...totally agree

[Itispoison]

Excellent vid...good info.

[sinistavoicez]

A marriage of convenience hu?... Get your hands out my pocket!!!

[111Treasury]

I think black people should stop talking to one another if it's coming to stuff like this. Bm and bw should not even look at one another anymore.

[gmcmim]

@111Treasury your comment is dumb, lol.

[111Treasury]

@gmcmim It sounds dumb because you still want to play around with black women and then talk junk about them at the same time. If you do, let's see what will happen if some how all black women found out. They would not even look your way anymore.

[gmcmim]

@111Treasury i'm a black woman myself. i just think your comment sounds dumb.

[Shaboo1983]

Romance is so important, If romance is present in a relationship i feel like it will last. North Philly in the house

[Greendestiny122388]

Co-sign with cinsity. When I was younger, I dated a guy who was decent on paper but there was no chemistry between us. Knowing what I know now, I couldn't imagine myself marrying him. I think the dude in question rushed into engagement without REALLY considering what he was getting himself into.

[glhthesource]

Good video thanks for doing this, I been in a relationship somewhat like this before, of course we only dated and it was for less than six months. I do date outside my race which is what led me to your channel, I wanted to see others points of views on the issue and get a better understanding. Im from NJ but now live in NM where most black males ONLY date white and Latino women. Thanks for the info and I look forward to hearing more videos.

[blessednhm]

Those are what I like to call "strickly business" relationships:/ Great topic btw!

[cinSity3796]

And actually pinkk, I happen to think that the advantage with most BP is the cultural understanding which makes everything else that much easier in regards to your "this is what we can take from IR's" statement(s).

Do BP really not want to be with each other so much that they dont even try? This has not be my experience at all so I am really flabbergasted by this.

[cinSity3796]

Im sorry.. why would you propose to someone with whom you don't have any chemistry again?

Do people really do this??

This is COMMON SENSE not a black vs. interracial issue.

If he cannot find chemistry with ONE BW and immediately looks at his friends IR relationship then maybe he just wants an IR relationship in which he should do BOTH of them a favor and call it off.

[gmcmim]

@cinSity3796 I agree, lol. I was thinking maybe the black dude just wants to go interracial, lol.

[manweller1]

I like this vid.