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  • we all take our fathers for granted, but this is a reminder that we should be closer to your father because he won't be there forever.

  • Fantastic song and a succinct video with that vintage soft rock feel. The Dick's Sporting Goods closest to my house used to play this non-stop and so does WARM 101.3, a local radio station. Not my type of music but this is definitely one of my favorite tracks of all time. Monumentally sincere lyrics, and delivered so intently. CLASSIC music, especially the chorus, bravo!

  • When this song is over, turn off your computer and call your dad right now people. Tell him you love him (or get as close to saying that as you can). Doesn't matter if you feel silly. Just do it anyway. And then, next time it'll be easier to say what you want. Just seize the day while you still can!

    And yes, I will too. My dad is seriously ill at present and we don't know what's going to happen. I'm not sure if I've told him everything I want to yet, but I'm getting there.

  • Girls need their fathers too! I didn't have one:(

  • This song speaks volumes !

    

  • my dad died shortly befor this song came out it was so amazing to hear this song it helped me so much.

  • is it only me who remembers this song everytime after hearing the intro sound of a mac???

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  • Appreciate the people you love-and say it loud say it clear,you can listen as well as you hear -its too late when we die to admit we dont see eye to eye, -

    R.I.P. Camilo Alberto Rodriguez,i mss you brother///

  • I never new my father, so this music means a lot to me.

  • hi myke here

    the song reminds me of going to the colin glen forrest wit sandwiches with yung michael who was 3 or 4 yrs old with flasks of tea too

    take care gog bless yu all

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  • B96 Memories.. 1144UmAdeMe..

  • Today my father would be 84 years old. Although he has more than 34 years ago deceased, I miss him every day.

  • I am sorry, gabe1956, that your experience with your dad was that painful -that makes me sad. I hope you've been able to find a good male father figure in your life. God bless you...

  • havent spoken t

    o either of my parents for 5 years....they decided they didnt want to come to my wedding....have two children who are so beautiful....my wife has fought cancer since our wedding day and she is only 36....i know where i stand...

  • @TheEveliv1 Forgive them buddy before it's to late.FOR THE KID's.You know you want too.Be strong mate.

  • Please "like" to unseat the hateful comment this song is so positive that it shouldnt have any neg connected with it.

  • 85 people don't know their arse from their elbow!

  • my names myke when i here this song i loved my dad he was my roll model when i was in hospital he look a\fter me i used cry bitterly at the song i hope that yu shouldened worry there in heaven hopefully yu should have forgave yur father thats a shame yu didnt

    i hope yu can fined it in yu heart to forgive yur dad

    take care

  • Your video went viral on Nicosia

  • i can only say beatiful

  • we all talk a different language talking in defence my favourite line

  • To Widmerpool99: Already lost him. Clearly, you don't get it. There's still time for you to get it 'in the living years'. Suggest you get yourself into a good bible based Church. Accept Jesus as your personal savior. Good luck.

  • @doswelltaylorsvill The song has nothing to do with your silly death-cult.

  • I loved this song as a kid, don't think I fully understood it back than. Now it makes me cry almost a year after my Dad passed away. I never really got along with him from my teen years and on.

  • this was the number one song on the day i was born march 23rd 1989 lol

  • This song hits the heart hard. Thankfully, the Lord has provided a way for us to say what we did not get a chance to say during 'the living years'. Make no mistake about it, life is difficult. Fight the good fight and never lose faith. Heaven is for eternity--plenty of time to say what you need to say. Even still, it is hard not to get emotional for the very same reasons many of you listed.

  • I love my dad very much but this song is a pile of fucking arse.

  • @Widmerpool99 WWWhhooooowwwww Wait 'til you lose him then post your comment!!

  • yeahhhhhh, what can we say..... I miss my dad everyday !

  • שיר ענק עם מסר גדול במיוחד לילדים שיהיו הורים יום אחד!

  • Still missing you dad... 18 yrs... RIP

  • 82 people do not have the ability to feel apparently :/

  • my grandpa died before i was even born my dad was 9 when he died this is for my dad....

  • this song makes u enjoy what u got in life enjoy your parents even if u dont get along when they die u will wish u did i know this now and its to late

  • @rob4041

    I feel your pain. I lost my father November 1st 2010, and my mom died just a few month ago on November 7th, 2011. I lost them both less than a year apart. There are a lot of things I wish I had said to both of them. I really miss them so much......

  • Why is this not on Itunes?

  • WHY ON EARTH WOULD SOMEONE DISLIKE THIS SONG

  • i come across this song about a month after my dad passed away....his funeral woz held in newzealand wen i returned 2 australia for work i woz finding it tough, bit sad at work one day i woz deep in thought thinkin about him, then this song played on the radio i woz blowin away it woz almost like he woz talkin 2 me thru this song...i got the shivers up my neck lol...so wen ever i start missin him i just listen 2 this miss u dad

  • Number one on the day I was born. What a great song, with lot of feeling.

  • I hear this song, and i feel empty. Where is he? Dead thats where, and now here i am making the same mistakes, even though i have a child of my own. So if i can't change my ways he will be here on this page 20 years from now saying the same thing. Why can't i break the cycle?

  • Dad was a air corps officer and decorated pilot. He was also a great jazz musician after the war. He was tough, and I still have the scars from being sailed across the room if I "talked back". I didn't speak to him for 10 years after I left home when mom died. After my son was born, he tried in every way he knew to be the father and grandfather I hoped he would be. I spent years hating a man I finally grew to understand, to really know him for only 6 years. So many wasted years. So many!

  • God bless you Dad. I still miss you 25 years on, you were my hero & always will be

  • Totally makes me cry.

  • I loved this video as a kid, even before I fully understood the significance that I do now as an adult. I was adopted when I was two months old. The father I know and the father that raised me is not only my role model, but also my best friend. Not a day goes by without me telling him that I was always meant to be his son.

  • gabe 1956,, remember you need to take a piss SOMEWHERE

  • This is one of my favorite songs. My father was not in my life and still is not. But My God had a backup plan.He gave me a grandfather that was always there for me. He died when i was 26 years old. To this day i miss him terribly bad. i still have those wonderful memories of him and the great qualities that he instilled in my life. I am 39yrs old now and i still cherish the time we had together. The last 2yrs of his life i was his caregiver, i just gave back the luv he had given me ALL MY LIFE.

  • @teddypoohrenee "But My God had a backup plan"

    How many sheep did you sacrifice to thank Zeus?

  • @teddypoohrenee i had exactly the same circumstaces as you and my grandad died when i was 26 i nearly 39 now and a dad myself

  • @teddypoohrenee my dad died when I was 16 this song makes me think of him he wasn't there for most my life. He missed me getting married and having children. I miss him wish I would have been more mature and knew how to tell him what he meant to me. In March it will be 28 years since he passed and man I miss him

  • @teddypoohrenee I feel ya man, this song sums it up. My dad just died last month

  • @teddypoohrenee DEUS O ABENÇOE MEU AMIGO. from Brasil.

  • @teddypoohrenee mine was but wasnt im confused where does it say anywhere that u hav 2 thank him 4 ?

  • @acrpntr i learned my way and did good 4 the world

  • @teddypoohrenee God bless you! I never had a mother or father but I've always cared about people! Your a good person not many left!

  • @teddypoohrenee Thank you for sharing, Brother. A Son NEEDS his Father; most cannot, will not admit it ... Men need Men. My Father & I were estranged for almost 6 years & YOU DON'T GET THAT TIME BACK. Fortunately, God's Grace & my initiative brought us back together before he left this world forever —we had eight MORE years, before he made the Transition Into The Light in his late 80's —and we hadda BLAST. So Grateful.

    TELL the Peeps you Love that you LOVE them. SHOW them. don't wait ... :>

  • Never been close to my father but when I hear this song it makes me feel good that I at least keep in touch with him - he's now 82 and lives 12000 miles away in Australia.

  • May i always be there for my son .

  • They don't make them like this anymore and brings back so many memoried when I was a tad younger

  • another reason genesis was 1 of top 5 ever

  • Listening to this song was emotional and brought so many memories and allowed me to wise up to make the best out of my life and that's exactly what I am doing, thanks to my dad who passed away when I was 17 years old.

    I used to think he was wrong in so many ways but all that has changed.

    Love you so very much dad

  • u gotta b real sick dislike this song smh

  • Altho me and my father never seen eye to eye, he passed before I could ever sort it out with him. I have many regrets in life, but the one of the biggest regrets is not telling him the anger I had twards him for what he done. I would never be able to forgive him, but I also never tried to. Dont be like me, because now I will take my guilt to my grave with my curses.

  • Though this song was about 4 years old, in 1993, I heard it again, and the Lord spoke to me throgh it. It inspired me to write a 12 page letter that took a month to write to my Dad. I told him a LOT in that letter, and forgave him for leaving the way her did. It drew us closer after that. And he thanked me. We live 1,000 from eachother, but we stay in close contact now.

  • @sassenach1967 Good for you mt friend. I miss my father a lot.

  • @sassenach1967 I'm proud of you! I would give all I have for one more day with my old man. God bless you.

  • A beautiful song. Such heartfelt and moving lyrics.

  • I cry ....

  • you all take note love your father i never knew mine 

  • damn...i'm old now!haha..

  • This song haunted me while my father was alive. I had moved away to another city, but thankfully, thankfully I was able to fly back to my father's side the day before he died. It'll be 3 years this Jan 21st since he passed.

    We didn't say much... I'm sure we didn't need to.

  • @raysot You made me cry with your comment :'( I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm sure he's in a much better place. Big hug.

  • A great rock song and a deep and meaningful message who can ask for more.

  • HOLY CRAP... it's Kevin Malone from the Office at 3:26

  • When he died in front of me, with his last breath he let out the most horrific scream I ever heard and I knew he realized he was going straight to hell. The hairs on me neck stood up. Justice was done. Unfortunately my angel of a mom died 8 months later. She divorced him right after I left. I miss the hell out of her.

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  • @gabe1956 Can't read what you said here first, but what a terrorific experience you had. Some people shouldn't be allowed to have kids.

  • You never realize what you have until its gone, taking things for granted like it will always be there, how many years will they be deeply missed, lifes empty void. Cherish each and every day with the loved ones, you never know.

  • @jim102353 Right on brother

  • My father raised me alone, as a woman. I grew up to be a professional wrestler. My father still lives his life as a woman and I love him. Whenever I go home, we sleep together and I pretend he's my wife.

  • Reading these posts about all the dads is strange since mine beat me to a pulp every chance he could. I left at 17 and never saw him again until he had a massive stroke and was comatose and 37 years later.I watched him die 43 minutes before my 55th birthday. I felt nothing, just relief that the monster was dead. I refused to go to his funeral. You all are lucky to have such great men as dads. I am jealous that I didn't have someone like that to call dad.

  • @gabe1956 you're a big person to open your pain to others, i wish you peace

  • @gabe1956 I understand Gabe.I was beaten by a monster and put on the streets at 14. Painful memories .I dedicate this song to the man I never knew.............

  • @MrItalian50 bless your heart ~~

  • @gabe1956 Sorry to hear your dad was such a monster; mine was too. He put a half-hearted effort into reconciling in the last couple years of his life, but it was too little, too late. Luckily I had one AWESOME grandfather (the other was a carbon copy of 'dad') who treated me like his own son. He has been gone for a decade now, but I still think of him every day.

  • @gabe1956 I'm sorry for you also, my father would have taken you in, his heart was bigger than this world allows honestly.

  • @gabe1956

    You've seen the other side...Be the best to yours and the best to you in the Autumn of your life. Hope you get to be the best Grandpa ever.

  • @gabe1956 It's very sad to know that kind of experience! I'm so sorry! But, remember we all have a Daddy Who really loves all humans. He sent JESUS to this world to save us. He really loves us more than words can say, We can see He really loves us when we realize that His Holy Son, JESUS, did suffer more than anybody else in this world, 'cause after all, He was innocent and was crucified! I'll pray for You and all the rest of people that have faced, are facing or will face this painful life!

  • @joijiv I strongly recommend You to forgive him and to pray for his soul too.

    God Bless You!!!!!!!

  • @gabe1956 dito

  • @gabe1956 I can, somewhat, relate to your post. My father was in and out of my life as a child. He was very abusive when he was around. Initially, when he died my first thought was, "He's gone! The monster is gone and can't hurt me anymore...ever again!" But as the years have gone by the resentment that I had for him has lessened and I have moved on with my life, wishing he could have seen me for the son/person I was and not who he wanted me to be.

  • @kuksdude2000 In the next life...

  • Its sad you carry this hate.

  • This is very well done. Bringing in the regular folks to be the chorus. An excellent straight ahead hit song. Clear everyman appeal.

  • The song streaked into my heart while i was driving one night with my father dying of cancer early summer of 97'.

  • My father died before my I got married, I wish he was alive to see my son and my happy family as my late mother did. God bless us all.

  • This song always reminds me that my Father and I were never fully reconciled before he died and that saddens me to this day.

  • @ajb7876 your father loved you very much you are your father GOD BLESS!

  • When I first heard this song I could not help but feel the guitar work had something "missing" bars or notes?

    I Honestly think this is deliberate, representing losing a loved one, leaving out notes for those not here, amazing song and music.

  • My husband lost his father very suddenly in Nov. he was never sick and one day he had abdominal pain the next day he had emergency surgery and died in the operating table. Although they kept in touch the sorrow he felt was to great, he cried for hours that day and the weeks that followed. We had planed to visit his parents in Dec. it was a surprise(out of the country).My husband still wanted to see his father and kiss him one last time, but by the time we got to the cemetery it was to late.

  • This fabulous song is the theme song for my daily PA emails (Positive Acknowldegment). It is so important to put into PRACTICE the message of this song, so I encourage you all to PLEASE start telling people to positive things you want to say to them NOW before it is too late. If you want to learn more about PAs and how to give them to people, check out my website, which you can get to via my YouTube channel.

    Warm regards, Marc White! aka The Inspirer :)

  • I wanted to say Goodbye to my mother, but she died before I could. I knew that I loved her, I told her many times.

  • This song makes me cry, but I love the song :)

  • the last time i saw my father alive was when he dropped me off at the draft board to be inducted into the Army in 1969. he died shortly after i finished basic training age 53 having never seen me since that day. i volunteered to be drafted when i turned 18 and I'm sure he knew he was probably dropping me off to go to war like he did in WWII but showed no regrets and am sure he was proud of me. there is a lot i wish i could ask him. God Bless you DAD

  • @jackjm51 God bless you and thank you for keeping our country safe.

  • @jackjm51 I was inducted in '67 I'm sure your Dad is watching over his son from above!

  • @HJPhil yes he's been the best guardian angel anyone can have for over 40 years, things always happen when i need help sometimes it's eerily strange

  • 1 ov the first song i heard when i new what music was

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  • what a song it reminds me of my best mate when his dad died

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  • listening to cd in my car on my way to 24hr McDonalds about 10 minutes after i turned 61 tonight i heard this song and it greatly moved me. searched and searched to identify it, obviously successful. no matter how well you get along with your children, there are always many things you don't see EYE TO EYE, republican vs democrat for one thing LOL, but also many generational gaps, hope I'm still around for my grandchildren, maybe i should stop eating midnight McDonalds

  • does this have anything to do with Mike Rutherford's life?

  • Absolutely awesome!!! Best songs in the 80's. Thumbs up if u agree

  • fantastic!!!!

  • #1 song the week I was born.

  • @TheNickster2011

    Same!

  • @TheNickster2011 same here!

  • @TheNickster2011 mine too :D

  • @TheNickster2011 haha! me too!!

  • @TheNickster2011 wow i just look for the song because of that! and you are the top comment *mindblown*

  • im 32 and a father to a 5 year old boy, the older i get the more i turn into my dad. Couldnt be happier :)

  • This song came on the radio station that my co-workers were listening today. They were listening to oldies from the 60's to 80's and none of them lived any earlier than 1984! :P

  • For all the people who still has a father enjoy him, and those who don`t have it anymore remember him with a smile. Great Song.

  • Haha! Wow! Look at all of the white Burlington coats singing together, 3:26.

    ##1singlememe

  • #1 Single on my birthday.

  • My Dad died in 1979 and i could and should have been there when he died. I regret that to this day and always think of him when i hear this beautiful song. Love you Dad X

  • i tried to tell my dad but he wouldnt listen

  • adverts have ruined youtube :(

  • @dazwrail Oh yeah, it definitely sucks to be inconvenienced 15 seconds to a minute in order to keep enjoying FREE content. Occupy Youtube!

  • For me this song had alot to do with changes in my own life. I had a falling out with my father that lasted over a year and a half. He's still here today and we are the best of friends. It's true that some issues can not be resolved. If there is any chance to settle your differences your best to move on it today because there can easily be no tomorrow. We all have to live with our choices. Thankfully i have told him what i needed to say to him. When it's his time i will miss him dearly.

  • sheer genius overwhelming oh so very true

  • Such a sad, beautiful, touching, and very moving song. Though Paul Keric looks like a cross between Phil Collins and Kurt Russell!

  • @metroretrokicks yes, Pual Keric is very good looking, like goregeous

  • Please, please, please be thankful for what you have while it's there. You will have soooo much time to live with your regrets once they have gone, take it from one who knows.

  • im 13 years old and im wachting this in 2012 and I LOVE THIS SONG thumbs up if you agree

  • @babamania1 same bro

  • Never make excuses to not call or visit your parents. They, and you, will absolutely appreciate it later on.

  • I lost my 53-year-old father 2 weeks ago to what was believed to be a heart attack. I haven't lived at home in 7 years, but tried my hardest to fly down at least once a year to visit. Now that he's gone, our hour-long talks on the phone each week just doesn't even seem like enough. I took a last-minute, 6-hour plane trip to GA to sign cremation papers and to see my father for the last time, lying cold and lifeless on a steel gurney. Don't be the child that regrets not taking advantage of time.

  • @armywife100883 I only wish my own son could realise this before it's too late.

  • All these comments are about to make me cry- my dad's health isn't the best, and this song makes my throat tense up!

    There's no quality songs like this anymore!

  • my husband lost his father about a year ago. i still have both my parents. i keep reminding myself how lucky i am, that the only thing needed from me is to love them and respect them.

  • Reading the posts about your dads makes me cry. My dad and i didnt see eye to eye and i wasnt there the moment he died, i wias i had said more to him in the living years

  • Beautiful song and it fills me with tears everytime! I lost my father with Luekemia when I was 15, I'm 50 this month and I still miss him so much. I have two great boys, I wish he could have seen them. There is so much I wanted to have done with him. It might sound silly but I was never old enough for him to take me for a beer before he died! But in a few months my son is 18 and he is going to take me for a beer, I will be thinking of my father, I know he is watching over us. Love you Dad xxx

  • @markpearson14 I know your pain, my dad died when I was 21 but I never managed to connect with him as an adult. I'm 49 now and still miss what we might have had. :)

  • my father played this to me lots ..... maybe it was to tell how much of a dick head ! he was going to be

  • This song is so upsetting to me, I really don't want to lose my father and dread the day that it actually happens. To be honest I would rather die before my father so I don't have to go through the pain. I know it sounds selfish, but I'm just being honest.

  • @SeanandMir I honestly used to feel the same way, but rather you look at it as pain and sadness that he's gone, look at it as a celebration that he LIVED. You are your father's child and you will always have him in you. It is incredibly hard to get through, I lost my dad 2 weeks ago, and even though I am still mourning every day at the moment, I know that it will get easier. I will never forget my father's love. Take advantage of the time you do have with him and don't make excuses.

  • I was never frightened of dyeing till my grandaughter Ruby was born ,,,now I want to live for ever

  • thinking about you dad, not the same without you, you are a star in the nights sky

    

  •  AMEN

  • I lost my dad ten years ago,this song is for him.

  • @soxfan801 never live with regrets never left ya in life and never will in death beleive it or not this is the hell buddy with love lost my daddy 15yrs now pain never goes xxx wer live to learn to live without them with love xxxxxxx

  • sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­ooooooooooooooooooooooo wanted a daddy

    

  • This song inspires me to build a father son relationship with my 2 year old grandson to somehow heal the relationship I never had with my dad. My dad is still alive at 81, but the hurt is deep, and I can't seem to build on it. I love my grandson so much, and will build on this to fill my hurting heart. God bless you LivingTOOgood. I also am in pain.

  • my dad died in 1994 this is the fist song my brother heard when his dauthter was born

  • I lived next to a cememtery for 8 years and would walk through and read the headstones. One day I saw this young girl maybe 14-15 years old laying on a grave. I walked over to see is she was ok and she said she was visiting her father and she missed him so much and came to talk to him. I left her alone but am sooo glad my father is still here he just turned 60 this year.

  • @Jefferson196 turned 70 not 60

  • @Jefferson196 thats really sad come and chat with me,really touched me?

  • My father died 23 October 2004 of cancer. The other day I was on the job and played this on my iPod touch. I think about my father when playing this music. And I guess there must be many many people that do the same.

  • my father just died in june 84, im 53, it dont get any easier when your older.

  • This video went viral on Paramaribo

  • All i can say is i miss you dad love you with all my heart

  • my dad died in 01' i was 19 , n its been ten yrs n it still hurts frm time to time, but today is his bday, so happy birthday dad!!!

  • My Dad is still alive but far Away!! he has always been!! But still I love him!

  • MUY BUENA ROLA COMO OLVIDARSE DE LOS 80´S MI INFANCIA

  • One of the best songs of our age.

  • aye its a gid song like