anyone who's civilized knows that violence in a relationship is unnecessary and most importantly ruins respect. it doesn't make you feel bigger, it makes you feel weak knowing the fact that you did something your partner won't ever do to you coz they love you enough not to hurt you like that.
ima kill chris brown...he need to stop focusing on her skinny ass...n try 2 get back all this money he's loosing ugh how many ppl woukd die 2 b in his shoes dnt throw it away 4 her lol i still love him tho big fan
own faults in the situation as well as the mistakes both of them have made and where they should go from here. Violence is a deadly cycle and usually stems from the person being mistreated or a victim or witness of violence. They both need help in a crucial way. Whether they should be together is not up to any of us...Right now they just need love and support from family and friends with whatever decision they make. NO JUDGEMEMT...
Hey Tiff, I'm so proud of you. You look cute as a button, like 17! On another note, as a clinical psychologist, what advice would you give to the friends and family members of a person who is in an abusive relationship? Especially on both sides. They are both very young, and if Chris is repeating the cycle of violence that he was exposed to as a child, do you think it is possible for him to break free of that? Shouldn't we not judge them and allow them to get counseling or should they split?
I don't usually give my professional opinion on here because this is entertainment and the two don't really mix but I will for you. The family and friends right now just need to be ears and support. NO ADVICE no matter how hard it is. You cannot convince 2 people of their age and maturity that they don't need to be together. The most you can hope for is that they seek help (counseling) seperately and together. Some clinicians may say not together but I am a firm believer in them seeing their
The argument didnt start because she threw a a blackberry at him. It started because she saw a 3 page text from a female with whom he previously had a sexual relationship with. its on the police report.
Yeah, your absolutely right I but wasn't saying that it just black girls(it's true with every race) and I wasn't trying to come off as rude or disrespectful I'm just saying that it hurts more because it's so common among them. Peace !!
She must've loved his right hook I say everyone forget about them already and let her get what she wants everynight which is a few bruises and a busted lip. And maybe a few kicks in her stomach while there at it. She's retarded and looks much worse than Chris Brown right now with the decision she made. But oh well if she likes it let her go back to it her dumbass. Now I have respect for Chris Brown he's a true pimp.
You know we NEVER knew what really happened or why! Is it really any of our business? NO!!! Trust me, I don't believe in violence in any relationship, but they had a situation that they have been and still are dealing with. Lets give them the same respect that we'd want if it were us. They got this!!
rite everyone acts like they know c.breezy or rihanna, they human jus like the rst of us, but this aint none of our bizzness, we more in they lives tu knoe that ur own lyfe is fckd up, while u worried bout other people realtionships worry bout ur own........ or kick rocks
Well you are here all up in it so you must be interested in other peoples lives too. Or you would have never watched this video or commented...I rest my case...lol
Next time he hit her, he now knows to do it in a way there will be no bruising. All he have to do if he does hit her is to buy her flowers and candy. Seriously, how to you let a 19 year old that basically have baby's milk on his breath take control of you.
a bytch like me is finn cum wit the razor blad from the mouth, ahy she loves her man i aint mad at her 4 taking him bacc, but nex tyme there aint gon be a nex tyme cuz the 1st tyme he did it she shoulda bust his head tu the whyte meat...
its only gonna get worst....broken ribs and fractured bones....then he'll buy her a car and house....and den wats after dat??? my thing she shulda said screw this lil boy. guys develop slower den females.....so he still da happy go lucky teenage thinkin he can get way wit wat eva. no its not ok. she needs to b a REAL role model and stand up 4 herself and leave. she can do betta
(btw i wuld luv to b on ur show u stay wit the interestin stories lol)
its not info. its common sense. look at the generation these days. alot of them have experienced dis one way or another....rihanna is suppose 2 b a role model....wat kind of message are u sendin? "o my man hits me its ok?" like i wouldnt want my lil cousins or future kids lookin up 2 that. ok she loves him...love shuldnt hurt...love shuldnt have u sittin up in da hospital....ok first its a back eye and busted mouth.....
She is not a role model, she is a musician...Everyone needs to stop putting successful people on a pedestal. She is only responsible to herself..Her fans buy her albums because of her music...
thats true. but u know how some people r. o she is a celeb and lil girls look up 2 her. she is a person little girls will strive 2 b like and she is sendin the wrong messages. shit if it was me i wuld say lock his ass up. 2 felonies...o yes 3 strikes u out buddy!
no it was in da paper that khloe said she neva met chris brown. however though women who arent famous are just as weak. however when you are famous money talks bullshit walks. she still will b labeled as weak so she can kiss her fanbase good bye. i dont even pity her. she culd have done sumthin extremely big and stood up 4 herself bu she didnt. o well. once an abuser always an abuser. she will b a victim as long as she is wit him
Well it was being reported that Chris was partying last night with Khloe Kardashian and Young Jeezy with out Rihanna. They said he was in the best of moods. I would think so now that he might have Rihanna where he wants her. I bet you anything that once the legal issues are over he is going to drop her.
diddy need to worry bout saving all these groups that keep breakin up on his damn label. i dont understand rihanna. like she got fucked up big time and she gonna act like shit aint happen. she is damagin her career big time becuz black women espically are gonna look at her like she is very weak. cuz if he did it once he'll beat her ass again.......they'll b back in da news in a few more months
Anyone that judges her as weak should check their own closets...When you aren't famous it's easy to say what you would do..When your famous, everyone knows your every move...There are plenty of women who have been in this situation and didn't leave, doesn't make it right but it's reality...
Man dats sum Bullshit..I Cant believe this shit..I Can tell she iz Weak..I Dont think Rihanna iz a Strong Black Woman at all..B-cuz if u put your hands on a Woman like Chris did..Dats sum Bitch ass shit..If a woman throws a phone at my head or tries to attack me I might Grab her or curse her out..Dats about it..Oh Well,Ima pray 4 Rihanna & Chris.
interestng......................I would never go back to a mean who frekin almost killed my a** all becuz my hand slipped and I accidently threw a phone at his head
Does everyone remember the Andre Rison & Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes incident back in 1994 when she burned down Andre's house while him & a family member of Rison were still inside? After that everyone thought Andre's would had dump her ass just for that. But no, Andre still said he loved her & took her back. So why should this be a surprise if Rihanna & Chris got back together after all of that? When couples fight & it escalate to make someone goes really off, they don't need to be together.
This has gotten so stupid - for her to go back to him. She is attractive and could have anything and YET she settles for some pig that beats her. If that is true - I will not longer listen to her music or his as I cannot and will not condone this sort of behavior. I feel sorry for her and I will pray for her and I hope that she is not back with him. No one should support abusive relationships
Isnt it ironic that they get together right before his court date. I think he is just going back with her to restore his image, but with this reconciliation it might cause a major backlash with both of them, because she took him back.
Absolutely...but that love thang will get you everytime...lol...We gotta be real, it's not realistic for us to think it was just gonna be over...This may not even be the 1st time it happened, just the 1st time it got sooo out of control we all found out...
All of the abusive men are celebrating- oh, look at Rihanna and Chris Brown! It's terrible. I just think that they are both stupid to think that there would be no consequences. Now, the world knows that he beat her up and he should get charged for it. Hopefully, the state of California will press charges if she doesn't, because the state legally can do that, especially since we have all seen the picture, and she was obviously beat up pretty bad- it was no small punch.
Before, Rihanna had my sympathy and support, but it's all gone now. There's some things you can forgive and forget but this is not really one of them- it sets a terrible example for women everywhere. Rihanna really disappointed me- I thought she was a better person than that. Rihanna, you suck! Rihanna=Chris Brown/domestic abuse. Their names and domestic abuse will forever be linked.
I understand but don't put stars on a pedestal...They are just like everyone else when it comes to personal issues. How many women do you know that are in the same type of thing, you give advice till your voice goes horse, then they hide it from you that they are right back with that man..Don't crucify them because they are dealing with the situation like the majority of other everyday people deal with it... Believe me, it doesn;t make it right but this is real talk...
But if she really wanted to get back with him, she could of at least let the situation cool down first let the legal problem past by and let him go get a lots of help because he really need it ,take a good break from the relationship, the reunion was too soon that make both of them look bad and like a joke. or
maybe she feel so bad for him because he public enemy #1 and she did it to try to help save his career, she too naive next time Chris beat her again nobody going to feel sorry for her.
I think Rihanna is sending the wrong message, but that just me. They both still have immaturity about them and need alot of growing up to do. Just because you have money does not mean you have that already. On the other hand she is a grown woman and need to make her own decision.
Man, I have got to start beating my women - Especially the hot ones! I thought great sex kept women coming back for more... apparently a punch in the face works just as well!
I was being sarcastic! Still, girls are funny people. They get angry when a guy hits, insisting that it is wrong (!), yet go running back to the guy that hit them.
The question one is left with is: "Why is it wrong to hit girls if they like it? And if they dont like it, then why do they go running back to the men that hit them?"
Chris doesn't pay Rihanna's bills, and the two don't have children together. Rihanna must just like being punched!
No..As a psychologist I have to speak on this...It is a cycle that is very hard to break. Adults who abuse usually have come from an abusive household or situation where someone was abusive to them as a child. It is deep-seeded and something that can only be overcome thru therapy. Unfortunately, abusers are usually attracted to each other. For example: If Rihanna was emotionally abused as a kid and in her past relationships she will dish out abuse (Emotional or Physical) as well as accept it
You would think that because they (the abused) often come from abusive homes that they would avoid abusive relationships. Not the other way around. That is like saying the person who experienced racism when growing up will seek racist relationships, and not simply become racist himself.
That aside, there is no evidence that Rhianna is from an abusive home (Chris Brown is another story). It is speculative to assume that she is.
I am not assuming...She has been in emotionally abusive relationships in the past and regardless, look at the stats on abuse...just like alcoholism is not inheritable but why does it tend to run in the family. Part of who we are is what we have experienced in our environment, the other part is innate..we are born with it...The environmental side shapes us from the time we are born with the most crucial being 0-5yrs old. It is different than racism cuz u dont know ur race when ur born...it is t
If environmental factors play a role in ones development as you write (and they certainly do) than race should also be considered a learned characteristic. Just as you say drinking is learned in a family and social setting, so too is race. We may not know what race we are when we are born (as you write), but we also have no conscious conception of who we are as individuals are either.
I have not heard of Rhiannas abusive past relationships, nor have I heard anything about an abusive family history. So to argue that she may have a tendency toward abusive relationships because she was abused herself is entirely speculative.
i heard she threw the car keys to the Lamborghini out the window and thats how it started. BUT that doesn't justify what he did. i mean, i can understand if you snap and hit her once then get shocked, but this dude went in on her. thats her choice though, she is no better than the other millions of women who were abused. just dont look for sympathy if it happens again
They both need help...I know people will continue to badger Chris Brown for this because this is one situation where the man does not have the upper hand when it comes to how it is viewed. He should have walked away no matter what, but she should not have acted in a violent manner either....They both need help to get to the bottom of why they have this abusive nature in them...
I don't know how I feel about this. I want the best for both of them but at the same time I think they were too young and immature to be so intense in the first place.
giiiiiirl. i just read this. sad, but statistically speaking, women go back to their abusers. who's to say, this isn't habit for them, ya know? sometimes people do this shit for years before they finally decide to call it quits.
i'm with you on that. it's their lives. what can we do, but watch.
no they are not together please
mamicharmsx3 1 year ago
Rihanna is a stupid bitch
BossDkiller 2 years ago
anyone who's civilized knows that violence in a relationship is unnecessary and most importantly ruins respect. it doesn't make you feel bigger, it makes you feel weak knowing the fact that you did something your partner won't ever do to you coz they love you enough not to hurt you like that.
catren2003 2 years ago
ima kill chris brown...he need to stop focusing on her skinny ass...n try 2 get back all this money he's loosing ugh how many ppl woukd die 2 b in his shoes dnt throw it away 4 her lol i still love him tho big fan
EurasiaSwaggSerious 2 years ago
Huh....I really don't get it. How could Rihanna come back to a man who put so much shit on her face? And when did Puff save the day...lolz.
rottenlyspoiled 2 years ago
own faults in the situation as well as the mistakes both of them have made and where they should go from here. Violence is a deadly cycle and usually stems from the person being mistreated or a victim or witness of violence. They both need help in a crucial way. Whether they should be together is not up to any of us...Right now they just need love and support from family and friends with whatever decision they make. NO JUDGEMEMT...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Hey Tiff, I'm so proud of you. You look cute as a button, like 17! On another note, as a clinical psychologist, what advice would you give to the friends and family members of a person who is in an abusive relationship? Especially on both sides. They are both very young, and if Chris is repeating the cycle of violence that he was exposed to as a child, do you think it is possible for him to break free of that? Shouldn't we not judge them and allow them to get counseling or should they split?
ssummerboyd 2 years ago
I don't usually give my professional opinion on here because this is entertainment and the two don't really mix but I will for you. The family and friends right now just need to be ears and support. NO ADVICE no matter how hard it is. You cannot convince 2 people of their age and maturity that they don't need to be together. The most you can hope for is that they seek help (counseling) seperately and together. Some clinicians may say not together but I am a firm believer in them seeing their
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
She stupid as hell.
I would never,ever let some mofo do that to me...he should of just through it back at her...not like.. almost kill her..smh.
U are pretty though! = )!
Glad I FOUND ur page!
loveformysisters 2 years ago
Thanks and I am glad you found my page too...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
The argument didnt start because she threw a a blackberry at him. It started because she saw a 3 page text from a female with whom he previously had a sexual relationship with. its on the police report.
ramchick2009 2 years ago
OK....and then she threw the phone...read the entire police report....but thanks for that...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
"he overreacted, I guess" lol!!
I think he overreacted-For Sure! lol
I love your videos
kkshontane 2 years ago
Chris was charged with 2 felonies today.
cocicc 2 years ago
yep
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Yeah, your absolutely right I but wasn't saying that it just black girls(it's true with every race) and I wasn't trying to come off as rude or disrespectful I'm just saying that it hurts more because it's so common among them. Peace !!
LostInYTLand 2 years ago
Oh ok...I got it...Thanks for clearing that up:)
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
How did Puff save the day? ..
I think it's irresponsible of him.
Why would he put them in a house TOGETHER? .. two kids fighting.
It's over pathetic, the whole situation.
Jamacian4Lyfe 2 years ago
It was a sarcastic comment cuz Puff always gets into everything...He is a Master of All...lol
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
lmao; That's true.
Jamacian4Lyfe 2 years ago
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She must've loved his right hook I say everyone forget about them already and let her get what she wants everynight which is a few bruises and a busted lip. And maybe a few kicks in her stomach while there at it. She's retarded and looks much worse than Chris Brown right now with the decision she made. But oh well if she likes it let her go back to it her dumbass. Now I have respect for Chris Brown he's a true pimp.
Smileyyy21 2 years ago
You know we NEVER knew what really happened or why! Is it really any of our business? NO!!! Trust me, I don't believe in violence in any relationship, but they had a situation that they have been and still are dealing with. Lets give them the same respect that we'd want if it were us. They got this!!
bfex41fe 2 years ago
rite everyone acts like they know c.breezy or rihanna, they human jus like the rst of us, but this aint none of our bizzness, we more in they lives tu knoe that ur own lyfe is fckd up, while u worried bout other people realtionships worry bout ur own........ or kick rocks
vsunshyne 2 years ago
Well you are here all up in it so you must be interested in other peoples lives too. Or you would have never watched this video or commented...I rest my case...lol
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
They are famous so that is the cost you pay for being such. You tend to lose your privacy...Dont worry, they know it comes along with this game...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
dat you singin in da start??
2003bmw760li 2 years ago
lol thats lil kim welcome tu brooklyn.... lol
vsunshyne 2 years ago
haha ighttt,, yee i was jus wonderin i don listen to kim....thot it maybe dis hood rat spittin
2003bmw760li 2 years ago
lol nah thats my bytch kim, but eve & the baddest trina thats the hottest bytch no homo
vsunshyne 2 years ago
lol....they all hott....
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
No its the other hood rat...lil kim..
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Thanks to someone who knows music.
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
no...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
No Surprise she took him back most Black Girls are used to being Mistreated by there Boyfriends. P.S. No, I am not Racist it's a Sad but True Fact !!
LostInYTLand 2 years ago
que, lol no mames, how was u posed tu mean that?
vsunshyne 2 years ago
You are lost cuz it is not just black girls who experience abuse and don't leave the abuser. Check your facts..
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Girltalk you have to give me the name of your hair dresser, I want my hair like that.
cocicc 2 years ago
Next time he hit her, he now knows to do it in a way there will be no bruising. All he have to do if he does hit her is to buy her flowers and candy. Seriously, how to you let a 19 year old that basically have baby's milk on his breath take control of you.
cocicc 2 years ago
lmao @ da milk comment
but yea now he kno not 2 fuck up and bruise her and get it back in da media. he kno now give her body shots dat clothes will hide
ladydro415 2 years ago
That's why I BEAT my bitches ass, because it makes your bitch love you more and stay with you forever.
And I will tell my son if he thinks I'm lying look at Rhianna she's the new hero for all women.
Her album is going to sell millions thanks to stupid weak mind bitches who love to get their asses kicked to.
I love dumb bitches.
syecapsys 2 years ago
a bytch like me is finn cum wit the razor blad from the mouth, ahy she loves her man i aint mad at her 4 taking him bacc, but nex tyme there aint gon be a nex tyme cuz the 1st tyme he did it she shoulda bust his head tu the whyte meat...
vsunshyne 2 years ago
Damn u violent...lol
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
WOW...is all I have to say...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
its only gonna get worst....broken ribs and fractured bones....then he'll buy her a car and house....and den wats after dat??? my thing she shulda said screw this lil boy. guys develop slower den females.....so he still da happy go lucky teenage thinkin he can get way wit wat eva. no its not ok. she needs to b a REAL role model and stand up 4 herself and leave. she can do betta
(btw i wuld luv to b on ur show u stay wit the interestin stories lol)
ladydro415 2 years ago
Thanks....I do appreciate your comments..but I do have to keep it real and I don't feel she should be considered a role model...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
its not info. its common sense. look at the generation these days. alot of them have experienced dis one way or another....rihanna is suppose 2 b a role model....wat kind of message are u sendin? "o my man hits me its ok?" like i wouldnt want my lil cousins or future kids lookin up 2 that. ok she loves him...love shuldnt hurt...love shuldnt have u sittin up in da hospital....ok first its a back eye and busted mouth.....
ladydro415 2 years ago
She is not a role model, she is a musician...Everyone needs to stop putting successful people on a pedestal. She is only responsible to herself..Her fans buy her albums because of her music...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
thats true. but u know how some people r. o she is a celeb and lil girls look up 2 her. she is a person little girls will strive 2 b like and she is sendin the wrong messages. shit if it was me i wuld say lock his ass up. 2 felonies...o yes 3 strikes u out buddy!
ladydro415 2 years ago
thank you man i was worried about both of them.
supaflypimp666 2 years ago
ur welcome....
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
nice weave
Huldhah 2 years ago
lol..Thanks..
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
no it was in da paper that khloe said she neva met chris brown. however though women who arent famous are just as weak. however when you are famous money talks bullshit walks. she still will b labeled as weak so she can kiss her fanbase good bye. i dont even pity her. she culd have done sumthin extremely big and stood up 4 herself bu she didnt. o well. once an abuser always an abuser. she will b a victim as long as she is wit him
ladydro415 2 years ago
Wow...you got a lot of info..maybe I should bring you on..lol
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Yes...they are now back together...after the fight...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
If the relationship is toxic does not mean a baby will make it better.
cocicc 2 years ago
You are right but if she was already pregnant then its too late for all that now.
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
oh yeah tif rihhanna is pregnant i heard is it true? if it omg nowonder why shes back with him. cnt blame her
sexydancegurl 2 years ago
Not sure about that...Might just be a rumor but if I find out for sure I will let you know..
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Well it was being reported that Chris was partying last night with Khloe Kardashian and Young Jeezy with out Rihanna. They said he was in the best of moods. I would think so now that he might have Rihanna where he wants her. I bet you anything that once the legal issues are over he is going to drop her.
cocicc 2 years ago
diddy need to worry bout saving all these groups that keep breakin up on his damn label. i dont understand rihanna. like she got fucked up big time and she gonna act like shit aint happen. she is damagin her career big time becuz black women espically are gonna look at her like she is very weak. cuz if he did it once he'll beat her ass again.......they'll b back in da news in a few more months
ladydro415 2 years ago
Anyone that judges her as weak should check their own closets...When you aren't famous it's easy to say what you would do..When your famous, everyone knows your every move...There are plenty of women who have been in this situation and didn't leave, doesn't make it right but it's reality...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Man dats sum Bullshit..I Cant believe this shit..I Can tell she iz Weak..I Dont think Rihanna iz a Strong Black Woman at all..B-cuz if u put your hands on a Woman like Chris did..Dats sum Bitch ass shit..If a woman throws a phone at my head or tries to attack me I might Grab her or curse her out..Dats about it..Oh Well,Ima pray 4 Rihanna & Chris.
TANK1336 2 years ago
Everyone reacts differently...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
interestng......................I would never go back to a mean who frekin almost killed my a** all becuz my hand slipped and I accidently threw a phone at his head
ashstarsinga 2 years ago
Cuz your hand slipped..lol
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
rhiannas just another dumb black bytch im not surprised atall
wayne2166 2 years ago
WOW...interesting...we are all dumb in some way or another but for you to bring race into it makes u look dumb too...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
what in the world they r not a perfect couple rihanna is ugly.
dawnbaker99 2 years ago
Rihanna is far from ugly..
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
wow!! ure mad gorgeous i was stunned by ure beauty O.O
kenny2z 2 years ago
Thanks.
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
wow, ur really pretty, i instantly subscribed!!!!
ads4111 2 years ago
Thank you
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Does everyone remember the Andre Rison & Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes incident back in 1994 when she burned down Andre's house while him & a family member of Rison were still inside? After that everyone thought Andre's would had dump her ass just for that. But no, Andre still said he loved her & took her back. So why should this be a surprise if Rihanna & Chris got back together after all of that? When couples fight & it escalate to make someone goes really off, they don't need to be together.
blachubear 2 years ago
YOu are absolutely right...I remember that....lol
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
sad!! rihanna crazy as shit
803HighRollers 2 years ago
Lord, bless the both of them.
cherrimichelle 2 years ago
just because u forgive someone doesnt mean u go back to the same drama. forgiving means going forward and move on
aldridg1234 2 years ago 2
True..
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
That's a hot ass mess!
But hey! if she wants an
abuser, then let it be. It's
not like didn't nobody try to
tell her anything...
P. Moze`
PierishMoze1 2 years ago
she like the beating thats why she 4gived him. lmao. jk. i be leave in 4giving so thats good that they r back.
InFlatedFilms 2 years ago
I'm past caring now.
whitemenaresexy 2 years ago
I feel ya..
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
i got more newss tiff hit me up [=
cbone95 2 years ago
email me...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
kayyy [= ur email on your pagee? lol cuz idk ittt =/
cbone95 2 years ago
my only comment is: i love you pretty girl
NINOthadogg 2 years ago
Thanks.
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
i wonder how you got the info did bow wow tell you? cos its not on the news yet
sexydancegurl 2 years ago
This has gotten so stupid - for her to go back to him. She is attractive and could have anything and YET she settles for some pig that beats her. If that is true - I will not longer listen to her music or his as I cannot and will not condone this sort of behavior. I feel sorry for her and I will pray for her and I hope that she is not back with him. No one should support abusive relationships
dlvme2 2 years ago
1:06 "He overreacted"
He REALLY OVERREACTED.lol
DTey22 2 years ago
Isnt it ironic that they get together right before his court date. I think he is just going back with her to restore his image, but with this reconciliation it might cause a major backlash with both of them, because she took him back.
cocicc 2 years ago
Didn't think of that...lol
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Absolutely...but that love thang will get you everytime...lol...We gotta be real, it's not realistic for us to think it was just gonna be over...This may not even be the 1st time it happened, just the 1st time it got sooo out of control we all found out...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
All of the abusive men are celebrating- oh, look at Rihanna and Chris Brown! It's terrible. I just think that they are both stupid to think that there would be no consequences. Now, the world knows that he beat her up and he should get charged for it. Hopefully, the state of California will press charges if she doesn't, because the state legally can do that, especially since we have all seen the picture, and she was obviously beat up pretty bad- it was no small punch.
Highroller33138 2 years ago
Before, Rihanna had my sympathy and support, but it's all gone now. There's some things you can forgive and forget but this is not really one of them- it sets a terrible example for women everywhere. Rihanna really disappointed me- I thought she was a better person than that. Rihanna, you suck! Rihanna=Chris Brown/domestic abuse. Their names and domestic abuse will forever be linked.
Highroller33138 2 years ago
I understand but don't put stars on a pedestal...They are just like everyone else when it comes to personal issues. How many women do you know that are in the same type of thing, you give advice till your voice goes horse, then they hide it from you that they are right back with that man..Don't crucify them because they are dealing with the situation like the majority of other everyday people deal with it... Believe me, it doesn;t make it right but this is real talk...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
But if she really wanted to get back with him, she could of at least let the situation cool down first let the legal problem past by and let him go get a lots of help because he really need it ,take a good break from the relationship, the reunion was too soon that make both of them look bad and like a joke. or
maybe she feel so bad for him because he public enemy #1 and she did it to try to help save his career, she too naive next time Chris beat her again nobody going to feel sorry for her.
Highroller33138 2 years ago
I think Rihanna is sending the wrong message, but that just me. They both still have immaturity about them and need alot of growing up to do. Just because you have money does not mean you have that already. On the other hand she is a grown woman and need to make her own decision.
cocicc 2 years ago
Yep...you got that right..
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
Man, I have got to start beating my women - Especially the hot ones! I thought great sex kept women coming back for more... apparently a punch in the face works just as well!
bluecafe22 2 years ago
I hope you are being sarcastic...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
I was being sarcastic! Still, girls are funny people. They get angry when a guy hits, insisting that it is wrong (!), yet go running back to the guy that hit them.
The question one is left with is: "Why is it wrong to hit girls if they like it? And if they dont like it, then why do they go running back to the men that hit them?"
Chris doesn't pay Rihanna's bills, and the two don't have children together. Rihanna must just like being punched!
bluecafe22 2 years ago
No..As a psychologist I have to speak on this...It is a cycle that is very hard to break. Adults who abuse usually have come from an abusive household or situation where someone was abusive to them as a child. It is deep-seeded and something that can only be overcome thru therapy. Unfortunately, abusers are usually attracted to each other. For example: If Rihanna was emotionally abused as a kid and in her past relationships she will dish out abuse (Emotional or Physical) as well as accept it
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
You would think that because they (the abused) often come from abusive homes that they would avoid abusive relationships. Not the other way around. That is like saying the person who experienced racism when growing up will seek racist relationships, and not simply become racist himself.
That aside, there is no evidence that Rhianna is from an abusive home (Chris Brown is another story). It is speculative to assume that she is.
I think we are kind of in agreement, though.
bluecafe22 2 years ago
I am not assuming...She has been in emotionally abusive relationships in the past and regardless, look at the stats on abuse...just like alcoholism is not inheritable but why does it tend to run in the family. Part of who we are is what we have experienced in our environment, the other part is innate..we are born with it...The environmental side shapes us from the time we are born with the most crucial being 0-5yrs old. It is different than racism cuz u dont know ur race when ur born...it is t
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
If environmental factors play a role in ones development as you write (and they certainly do) than race should also be considered a learned characteristic. Just as you say drinking is learned in a family and social setting, so too is race. We may not know what race we are when we are born (as you write), but we also have no conscious conception of who we are as individuals are either.
bluecafe22 2 years ago
I have not heard of Rhiannas abusive past relationships, nor have I heard anything about an abusive family history. So to argue that she may have a tendency toward abusive relationships because she was abused herself is entirely speculative.
bluecafe22 2 years ago
i heard she threw the car keys to the Lamborghini out the window and thats how it started. BUT that doesn't justify what he did. i mean, i can understand if you snap and hit her once then get shocked, but this dude went in on her. thats her choice though, she is no better than the other millions of women who were abused. just dont look for sympathy if it happens again
bigbuzin555 2 years ago
That was part of it...but it began with the phone...There is no excuse for domestic violence...Absolutely true...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
damn, i didn't know she did all that. it doesn't change the fact that he was wrong, but she might need some anger management too.
bigbuzin555 2 years ago
They both need help...I know people will continue to badger Chris Brown for this because this is one situation where the man does not have the upper hand when it comes to how it is viewed. He should have walked away no matter what, but she should not have acted in a violent manner either....They both need help to get to the bottom of why they have this abusive nature in them...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
well walking away was not only the smart choice, it was also his only one, seeing how she tossed out the car keys
bigbuzin555 2 years ago
I don't know how I feel about this. I want the best for both of them but at the same time I think they were too young and immature to be so intense in the first place.
Geezyone 2 years ago
They are young...Too much drama for such young adults with their entire life ahead of them...
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago
giiiiiirl. i just read this. sad, but statistically speaking, women go back to their abusers. who's to say, this isn't habit for them, ya know? sometimes people do this shit for years before they finally decide to call it quits.
i'm with you on that. it's their lives. what can we do, but watch.
justcrystalle 2 years ago
You are right...it happens all the time.. It's a cycle...but usually abusers are attracted to each other...if what Chris says is true..
GirlTalkNYC 2 years ago