Addicted To Surrogacy | Delicate Balance | Channel 4

[ThailandSurrogacy]

Thailand Surrogacy is headquartered in southern California. We provide ethical surrogacy services in Thailand. Since Thailand Surrogacy is owned by a U.S. company, we know and understand that couples may have fears of traveling to a foreign country for such an important life changing event. We want to be able to show our patients the high level of ethical standards that we practice when assisting them with their fertility journey.

Thailand is a much better option than India.

[SecretsInTheShadows]

lol i can see the girl carrying th ebaby getting pissed at the parents and "accidentaly" falling down some stairs

[MermaidAntihero1988]

surrogates are gross.

[tboy13084]

i wonder if the kid will turn out to be a free spirit like his birth mother

[lorainerocks2010]

i do think that the mother to be was not nice at all the the surrogacy mother i did see the show me and my husband would love a child but you can not put a price on a childs life a millon is not a lot if you have it xx

[mrsspongebob22]

the guy talking looks like mr bean

[mollykjody]

the guy is kind of cute the couple is nice . the surrogate mother seems strange.

[TheJaynebond]

surrogate gets money - the Intended parents pay that equals baby selling!

[mummylog]

@TheJaynebond Again. Not in the UK. Surrogates don't get paid for having other peoples kids in the UK. It's illegal to make a profit from having a baby for someone else. You either do it out of the goodness of your own heart or you dont do it.

[Spaghetteyes]

fucking weirdos.... if ur infertile then guess wat GET THE FUCK OVER IT YOUR NOT GONNA HAVE KIDS!!! SICK BASTARDS!

[splendidwren]

@Spaghetteyes That's a horrible way to look at it. It's not weird to have a surrogate mother just as it isn't weird to adopt. People don't choose infertility, sometimes it happens genetically or there could be a problem with the mother's body and her ability to carry a baby full term. So rather than watch her babies die, she chooses a woman to carry the embryo and eventually the fetus for her. Many families like this appreciate children more because of the struggle they went through.

[samahmohamed]

wonderful story and you and many women like you could make dreams to be true I have suffered from infertility since I born I couldn't curry my own children I was born with rear syndrome "MRKH that I have ovaries but the no womb and even abnormal vagina I suffered many years until I knew about surrogacy if I find some lovely angel like you to make my dreams in life to carry my own child ,,,,

this made me cry..,I know exactly what infertile couples feeling

[breysmommy05]

Im so tired of undereducated and rude people saying bad stuff about surrogates. If you dont like it then why did you look it up and watch it? Im a 2x surrogate and wouldnt change it for the world! Its a blessing to be able to help couples become a family. Thankfully I have wonderful relationships with my IP's. I cant wait to do it again.

[blueeyedvixxen]

@breysmommy05

Allot of people are selfish an only care about there uneducated thoughts about the situation.. with out even knowing anything about it.

[breysmommy05]

@blueeyedvixxen

Very true, some dont know. My last surrogacy, I was pregnant with twin and a lady in my OB's office told me she hoped me and the babies died during the delivery because what I was doing was disgusting and against God's will. Some people just dont deserve an opinion!!!

[splendidwren]

@breysmommy05 That's Awful!!! How is giving the gift of parenthood to anyone against God's Will? That woman needs to reread her bible and stick a foot in her mouth.

[breysmommy05]

@splendidwren Amen!

[PirateKing1256]

Omg....this is an odd JOB~! How much does she get paid for?

[Smilez984]

Surrogacy is a blessing. Anyone who has a negative opinion about it is obviously very ignorant about surrogacy in general! Although adoption is wonderful as well, there is nothing like having your own biological child. Only a mother/father would know that. I support surrogacy 100% & had all those confusing thoughts about it too before I researched and became part of a community or surros. I am recently matched with a couple & cant wait to have THEIR baby!

[BROKENHEARTEDALEXIS]

@Smilez984 I wouldn't be able to give the baby to the parents, that will be my baby, I would feel like I'm giving away my baby, carrying it for 9 months under my heart and give my baby away, no way. But wow you're strong, and it is a blessing for the couple that can't have kids on their own. Good luck! Hug.

[adawiya66]

i don't understand this.. what's a surrogacy? sorry i'm dumb :|

[SpectaculaSpectacula]

when someone cannot have a child themselves so someone carries the baby for them, but it isn't their child at all, it is the other persons embryo and sperm artificially inseminated into the surrogate.

[iamdiva]

I don't know...a woman has a bond with that baby despite how many times they tell their brain that it's not theirs, i mean the baby is attached to the woman....

[JUKIO01]

the woman that is having the baby, for any reason, she can actually keep the child after birth, its her baby. its imperative that they sign a control in the beginning, before surrogacy

[seninah]

Why is this so difficult for some people to understand? And for those of you that don't here's how it works!! The baby DOESN'T get my DNA. Baby makes own blood and just gets fed from mine. He's not my baby, just growing him because his mother can't.

My own children are fine with me having children for others. I wouldn't do it if they weren't. But they know i'm their mummy and that i'm helping others because they would like to have children too.

[iamdiva]

I couldn't do it and yes that man is kind of a creep...who can get any kind of joy from someone else having your baby?

[JUKIO01]

if u cant have a baby, then a surrogate would be a next best thing

[RoadlessPath]

The man is a creep!

[RoadlessPath]

People cannot life with the fact that some people don't get babies. Its not like we have a worldwide shortage of babies. To volunteer to give birth to a child which isn't yours, sounds strange. The baby is also influanced by the carier dna, sow she gives her partly child away.

I don't understand why people cannot have no baby. And what about that little girl. She sees her mother pregnant but no baby. The child could get trauma's.

[lyfumba]

That would be so difficult for me... But i completly understand. If my best friend, or sister, or other family member could not carry a child, i would be honored to help them have a child... Some woman (including myself) think about having children from the time that they are children themselves... I would be crushed if i could not carry my own baby, but so very thankful if a woman volunteered her body to have my child... It's a selfless act, and I would do it without funding... :/

[3lilcutties]

i couldnt do that

[spethkasey]

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[stayyxgold]

Allthough I have all the respect in the world for surrogate mother's....I'll never understand why they do it lol I never want to be pregnant again, and I don't think I could carry a baby for 9 months and just give it away even if I knew from day one that the baby wasn't mine.

[Prizak1]

You're disgusting.

[Prizak1]

Well said Madelena2001. Women who cannot live without giving birth make me laugh big time. There's so much more to life than spitting babies like rabbits. Besides, why should a woman care if someone else cannot carry their own children? It's all about money of course, the love thing is just a cover up. Personally, I wouldn't have my own child, mind you if I can give a flying f***k whether people are fertile or not. Being pregnant all the time like a rabbit? jaysus, I feel compassion for you.

[seninah]

Prizak1?! Prizarse more like! Well thank god you don't want kids cos who'd want yours running about with an attitude like that! What a prick! And of course it's not for the money, you're a pros or a stripper for money. I was with this couple for 2 and a half years before i got pregnant with edward. If staying with them for that amount of time is for the money when you don't actually get anything till the end then you're thicker than i first thought!! It's a real gift that can never be repaid.

[Prizak1]

@seninah

You're disgusting.

[seninah]

What for thinking of someone else other than myself like you must do? Yeah course. Ok!!!

[RoadlessPath]

Don't be sow naive!

[splendidwren]

@RoadlessPath The "sow" your using refers to farming. "So" is the proper helping verb. And I still disagree with you. Surrogacy is a selfless gift and parents who CAN have children don't always make good parents. I read a story last week of a woman who threw her newborn into the dryer and killed her. Do you think she was more deserving of a baby than the men and women who opt to hire a surrogate mother?

[ifckmepudding]

Well said, Prizak1. :)

[lottieprincess]

That meeting looked a little awkward

[Madelena2001]

I don't understand the obsession with having a biological child.

[berryblitz07]

@Madelena2001 I didn't either, until I turned 18 and realized I won't live forever but I do want a part of me to. There is nothing wrong with that, I also plan on adopting. I know it isn't fair that so many children are already here waiting to be loved.

[seninah]

I am the surrogate in the clip! Not sure what would change some peoples opinions of what i and so many other wonderful selfless women do. It's by no means an easy thing to do but, since i can only imagine how heartbreaking having the devastating news that you can never carry your own children must be, then it was just something i felt i should help with since i count myself extremely lucky to have the children i have.

I've changed their lives forever. How proud i am! And of my 3 angel children!

[ntuttles]

Right and im in hollywood workin with will smith

[seninah]

Ok, you don't believe me? Not sure why. Why would i pretend to be the girl in that clip if i wasn't?!! You strange one!!

[pilowcraver17]

bless u for doing so :)

[RoadlessPath]

In todays society people cannot accept the reality. Reality that they don't have childern, that it was meant to be. You make it sound all special etc. but every year 136 milioen mothers have childeren. Sow its not like we have a worldwide shortage of babies.

I don't believe in you or any of the good intentions this woman, who is the carrier.

[seninah]

@RoadlessPath (The world could do without your genes!) Can't believe you had the bloody cheek to say that considering after all your comments the world would be a far nicer place if we didn't have your genes!!!!! Regardless of what you look like. Which i'm guessing is a worm anyway cos if you had any brains and thought for others maybe you'd use it?!!

[RoadlessPath]

Temper, temper!

[VoluptuousAlchemy]

Why have kids when you can have a Wii zzz, the obsession with over populating is just beyond me

[berryblitz07]

@VoluptuousAlchemy While you have a point a lot of people feel they were born to have children. If you feel soo strongly why don't you look into adoption and be a part of the solution?

[jonachris]

sorry but icant agree with that. i feel so sad for the pregnant woman.

[berryblitz07]

@jonachris it's her choice. why feel bad, she's a willing participant.

[laura81stev]

that woman sounds like a wicked step mother id never hand her a child

And the man-what a wuss, the pair of them will be clueless with a child!

[firefighteremt0114]

man, i just hate under educated people. not all surrogates get paid dumb asses...

[berryblitz07]

@firefighteremt0114 Their medical bills are usually paid for and most do get money for it. Actually, I've never heard tell of one who didn't get paid.

[childishyoutubber]

just adopt...sheeze.

[ClarksonsinUSA]

My wife and I used IVF,to have our twins.......

My wife is 46,so we had to use a egg donor.. At WAKE Forest in NC USA,the donor was 23 and looked very much like my wife except for the blonde hair...

It was our last try for girls,we had 2 more boys.....Now we have 7 boys 21,18,16,15,12,and the twins....Tim and Jack 7 months...

[RoadlessPath]

You are a sick bastard, as well as your wife. It's like you cheat on your wife. I have seen your picture. The world could do without your genes!

[prettybird1978]

What gives you ther right to sit there and self righteously judge other people. Do you know how painful infertility can be for a couple. Adoption is not always everyones choise and who are you to say how people should bring a child into this world.

[LadyEmilyElizabeth]

That man is soooo strange!

Its really sweet what the surrogate mum is doing for them though.

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[childishyoutubber]

wats Surrogacy?

[th3planetsghost]

when a women in a relationship cannot have a baby, so they create the baby in a laboratory and it is implanted into a woman who volunteers her body to create the couples baby for them. And it grows in her and when its born she gives it to the couple that cant have babies.

[Redhotice54]

thats pretty fucked up, technically it isnt the womans baby

[SassySweet24]

No in most cases its not related to the women who carried the baby at all. The couple most of the time uses their sperm and their egg to make an embryo in a lab and then its implanted into the surrogate "mother". Sometimes they also use an egg donor if the Mothers eggs are not good. But no its not the surrogates baby.

[firefighteremt0114]

is a method of reproduction whereby a woman agrees to become pregnant and deliver a child for someone else. us surrogates are basically just the incubator!! its a wonderful process.

[childishyoutubber]

oh...well thats differant. i honestly don't agree with that... i mean i could never give up my baby or take one that wasn't mine. and it sucks for the baby; they might have guilt and thoughts that their mothers weren't good enough for them or something. i dunno it's just my opinion.

[Kailinsullivan]

Surrogacy is not like that at all. The baby in the baby is not yours and the lady is taking her own baby. The fertilized eggs from the couple gets implanted into this lady and she gets pregnant. The baby is not hers.

[childishyoutubber]

oh. well is suppose thats differant.

[peterm2686]

You may have missed the part in the video that mentioned the embryo belonged to the couple. The baby isn't biologically related to the surrogate whatsoever.

[aargh5]

you sell your body for money, youre a prostitute

[Improvertellie]

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[doireannland]

yah thats the part she doesnt get to do.... coz its the couples fertilized egg that gets implanted in her womb... so she doesnt even get the joy of making the child... just the stretch marks and morning sickness and post natal depression but without the sex... i dont understand it myself but whatever ur into

[splendidwren]

@doireannland It's a selfless gift for someone who otherwise wouldn't be able to have a child. What's not to get? Yeah she doesn't get parenthood but that's the sacrifice in what she's doing and it's also one she's very aware of. Pregnancy, while tough, is a beautiful thing. Not wanting to go through it just to keep your body the way Hollywood says it should be is a disgrace to the species and to women everywhere.

[mollykjody]

@doireannland i hate the stretch mark part the morning sickness and the post natal depression all of it. i do not really like making part of it into.

[mollykjody]

@doireannland i am a lesbian. i just like the carrying the baby selecting the sperm donor part and raising the baby. i love being pregnant. i want like 3-5 kids of my own biologically. i do not mind if it is a different race. as long as it is half asian or asian enough. i want to mix with someone of eurasian, western asia central asia or latin, maybe caucasian. i am eurasian myself.

[Luhandrov]

@doireannland But she does get to have as much sex as she wants while she's pregnant, plus she gets time off from whatever job she might have, along with the hormonal boosts in happiness that pregnancy brings. And she does get the joy of making the child, but without the need to then provide for him for the rest of her life.

[MissKatelynnne]

@doireannland But what she does get is about $50,000!! Lol

I would never be able to do it myself, but like you said it works for her.

[mummylog]

@MissKatelynnne Not in the UK she doesn't. You don't get paid for surrogacy in the UK. It's illegal to make a profit from it. Only reasonable expenses. And even at that, sometimes the surrogate can get ripped off.

[lottieprincess]

I think that is nice what she's doing having ababy for someone, but it just seems strange you know. the women who is pregnnat dosn't even look happy! cheer up :D

[Danf91ex]

Just look at the crazed look in her eyes!!! take the damn baby and dont ever talk to surrogate again. send her hate mail. or subscriptions to shitty magazines.

[AngelBlossomx]

lmao!!!!!

[Airspears]

scary =D

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