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  • I think some of these sisters need to stop dodging their obligations to Allah SWT and stop flipping script. The whole "some people are worse than me and they wear hijab" excuse is getting old. Seriously, if you don't want to wear hijab even with all the proof stating you should then bite the bullet and deal with you deision. Afterall you're the only one who will be held accountable for YOURSELF, not those bad hijabis.

  • thank you, my Sister for reminding us that we need to be aware of the feelings of our non-hijabi Sisters. as a hijabi I'm embarrassed & ashamed that any Sister would treat another so poorly as to not greet a Sister in the masjid! that's too wrong for words.

  • Thank you for this!!!

    I'm new to Islam, and I just am not ready to wear the hijab, and probably won't be for a while. :/

    Thank you for giving non-Hijabi's a shout out! Haha. Just kidding :)

    I LOVE your accent, by the way..

  • Lovely video, keep up the good work

  • I have girls in my college who wear the hijab but dont pray or fast, yet they think if they put the hijab on they are great muslims. who are they tricking? I dont wear the hijab but I pray five times, not everyday but i always make the pray up. But i do feel those girls at my university look down on me, but i dont care because i know myself, They dont know me. modest doesn't mean cover your hair and you are a great person. I feel like people only wear hijab to satisfy others and not God.

  • @Amour445 Everyone has their weaknesses, we still can't judge others even if they judge us. Everyone had their own time to do things and it's all about them and Allah - them counts me and you too :) xx

    Don't care about them, just remember that Allah wants us to be the best of the best, and take things step by step sis. Salam xoxo

  • In the end, the hiab,niqab, or burka can't save you from the hell fire. Great video.

  • @salamsabee It can actually, its a good deed and obligatory. xx

  • A non-hijabi "sister" following her true beliefs and having a clean heart will go to heaven. Whereas a hijabi woman, not having a clean heart and indulging in sinful activities and looking down upon a non-hijabi "sister" will go to hell. So non-hijabis, don't worry. Alot of hijabi sisters with a dirty mind will meet each other in hell.

  • @daoudrafik Again, if they know what is good for them, they should do it. Counts for ALL Muslims. xx

  • Thank you for this sister, I am a non hijabi and I do feel like I am looked down on sometimes. It has happend that I have extended salams to other sisters and they didnt reply...isn't it sunnah to always extend our salams to our fellow muslims????

  • Since 8 months i wear the hijab and i only met "stupid" and arrogant hijabs, specially in our mosque they think that they are the best and they see themselfs in paradise. Most of them dont even pray, because they think that wearing hijab is enough and the only thing in islam. I will try to be a very good hijabi insallah.

  • @MissMuslima2010 InshaAllah :)x

  • I am not a muslimah but i get the concept. it isnt right for anyone to look down on another person unless you are helping them up. reach one teach one. find out what the issue is before you become judgemental. you may turn away a potential friend/ally for your "snootiness"

  • You shouldn't regret making this video.. This is as .. what you have said is right.. It's just that it goes un said.. no one has the right to question, or judge the imaan of another.. All of us muslim sistes should work together and unite as opposed to push them away.. Mashallah, thank you for enlightening us about this..

  • Hijab is Arab culture

  • @Nizaris1 Well, not technically. True there are forms of hijab and niqab that are cultural, but hijab is in the Qu'ran. I'm a hijabi, and I'm not arab. A scarf in general is not cultural, but like, say for instance if I was to wear a pakistani dupatta, that would be out of place. Or a burqa, those are instances in which it would be inappropriate for just anyone to wear.

  • @Jen32484

    The issue about hijab is not religious, it is more to cultural. Western people bashing on hijab not because of Islam, but Arab. They feel they lost their sense of culture when western women look like Arab. As you can see, Muslimah in the west do look like Arab or even exaggerate. Look at Muslimah in the east like my country, we assimilate the culture, some wear hijab but with Malay dress, or even modernize and not orthodox. Here, women wear it just as culture, not religion actually.

  • @Nizaris1 Not trying to provoke an arguement here, but it does state in the Qu'ran to draw our scarves< over our bosoms. The hijab is meant for anyone. I know I myself, and my friends do not wear hijab for any reason other than to please God. I do not consider my hijab a fashion accessory at all. And yeah, I do agree with you on one thing, there are many many hypocrites that wear hijab, but there's hypocrites in all faiths.

  • @Jen32484

    I can say, hijab didn't show religion at all. Bad or good women didn't symbolize with hijab. I have meet many bad women here wearing hijab. Some are hypocrite. hijab is just a fashion nothing more. Wear hijab because others wear hijab but it is nothing. Goodness and beauty come from your heart not from what you are wearing. So i say hijab issue in the west is just BS, a propaganda and exaggerating.

  • there are of course bad characterd hijabees and also bad charactered non hijabees...but what has the hijab or not hijab to do with it?!

    subhaanallah!

    thanks for ur clip..but i think it should be clear that its compulsory for every muslim to teach others about islam...and i also want that othes teach me,if i do something wrong...

    ummah is a family! subhaanAllah

  • on some extend u are true!

    nobody has the right to judge somebody...but its compulsory for us as Muslims to say the truth...to say when s.b. is doing wrong..against Allahs law.

    Of course with kindess..as muhammed saw did!

    But i cant say "its ok..u are not wearing hijab..its ok..."

    I respect hijabees and non-hijabees! allhumdulilah!

  • @abdiJE79 exactly brother. masyaAllah

  • ya may be

  • I'm not a muslim and I don't know anything about the religion but I think this is a good video because it doesn't matter what religion you are, their are people who think that they are better then others. instead of trying to help people get closer to God they judge them and put them down. All that does is push them away. Sometimes all it takes is a smile and a kind word to open someones heart and help them understand.

  • It's entirely your decision to wear or not wear hijab. There is no compulsion in religion!!!!!

  • Maybe there is no compulsion in religion but the sisters should know that by wearing the hijab they are obeying Allah SWT May Allah give them the strength to wear it InshaAllah. the Quran clearly says in Surah 24, verse 31:*{And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks and guard their modesty and do not display their beauty and ornaments

    except what appears thereof, and let them draw their veils over their bosoms, and not reveal their ornaments except

    to their husband}*

  • @sam7748 looks like you never read Quran or hadeeth,or u would have known how clearly it is commanded by Allah.

  • The thing is we are suposed to wear it as the quran ask us to and prophet does too..Hijab does not hurt anyone but protect us and what I think it brings something to your self esteem!! I am sorry but do not like the idea of someone who sais "I am a muslimah" but does not wear hijab when it is something that keeps evil away...I am not only a hijabi sister but I also wear Burkha(long black cover all) and have found that even thou I am a converted, I am much better of covered!

  • @liketoserch.

    Well said sister.

  • .. it should be about having intentions that are pure, that come from the heart, you shouldn't wear hijab because someone wants you to, wear it out of love for Allah swt and only for Him

  • Masha'allah, you made a very good point there, it annoys me so much to see sisters who wear hijab looking down on non hijabi sisters.. za3ma they're more 'religious', if this was the case they wouldn't have the nerve to look down on somebody, i have more respect for somebody who doesn't wear the hjiab because she's not ready for it rather then somebody who thinks because she's wearing hijab her work is done, religion shouldn't be about keeping up appearances...

  • a dedication to non hijabi sisters. what next a dedication to brothers who abandon thier children. or maybe muslims that eat pork. any way don't be decieved sisters. wear the hijab

  • I agree greenvillenafeesah. Lets not encourage disobeying Allah SWT by being supportive of things that displease Him SWT. True, many of us (even those who wear hijab) break Allah SWT's commandments, but what makes Muslims uncomfortable about non-hijabi sisters (and men who don't wear the beard) is that they make their disobediance PUBLIC without shame.Saying hijabi sister make non-hijabis feel like not wearing the hijab is ridiculous. She should wear hijab simply bcause Allah SWT SAID SO.

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  • wow amazing sister truthfully, i was just thinking these things a few days ago considering that im not hijaabi, and if i did not understand islam, and faced hijaabis like that, i would think most muslimahs are like that although its not the true representation..InshAllah i will start wearing hijaab soon. but all i have to say is only Allah can judge people and knows whats in their hearts, so its wrong to judge a girls imaan if she doesnt wear hijab

  • Mash'Allah sis! Congradulations on deciding to make the right choice of wearing Hijab May Allah always guide u Ameen

  • sister..u DID NOT SAY ONE WRONG WORD..

    you are absolutly right..

    but i just wanna say something to

    greenvillenafeesah... how can you say wear hijab and say damn!!! damn is swearing right?? alot of sheikhs have bben smphasizing on the fact that yes not wearing the hijab is disobeying.. but you know if you talk badly to a sister about wearing her hijab you are worse than her!! you know y?? coz out religion is not just rituals our religion is a way of life and its about manners!!!

  • Salam wa lacolm

    as a non hijabi sister, I have to say that your message is so kind and sweet and very touching to me. I hope some day soon to wear hijab. I learned from what you said in terms of being mindful and kind to all sisters and remembering Allah in all things, not just hijab, God bless you sister,

    Salam

  • WTF WHYS THIS SOO LONG

  • wear the damn hijab!

  • hijabs are an obligation for women. so if they don't wear for some silly reason, they arn't complete muslims. there is basicly no reason not to wear a hijab. that is a sign of arrogance. that's like a muslim eating pork just silly and un called fo

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  • Salam.

    Your speech is soft and gentle, much like your message, Alhamdulillah. May this video be a means of blessings for you. Your own personal piety shines through your words.

  • Walaikumasalaam warahamatullahi wabarakatuhu! I can't call anyone a hypocrite, not my right to do so! Allahu Alam sis! everyone has weaknesses! these are not my pics! I'm a Muslimah imposible for me to take off my Hijab!

  • AsalaamuAlaikumwaRahmatulahiwa­Barakatahu, Once these 'Sisters' know what Allah expects, shouldn't they be saying, "We hear and we obey?". Couldn't these sisters come to Salat with their own scarves? What if the woman is a Hypocrite and never will put on hijab, but her desire is to trick the hijabi sisters, so that she can negatively influence them? Are these women new converts? Why can't they understand that there are penalties for disobeying Allah? Why aren't you wearing hijab on the picture?

  • If you listen to what she's saying you'll understand.

    If they are tricking sisters and Allah, then Allah will judge them, no one else will need to. So leave that to him, and they will get what they deserve. The only positive thing to do is to assume they are good people and be kind to them and try to help them, then if they are sincere they may find the right way and feel connected with other sisters so that they may WANT to be more a part of the community and religion

    Btw I'm not a Muslim

  • That comment was a reply to LoveandFearAllah

  • look what you did

    i mean this video

    is one of agood thing you did in your life

    and don't care about what people say

    your sister

  • Sister, this is such a great video and you speak the truth, masha allah!

    As a hijabi, i woul never judge a woman for not wearing a scarf, only one person may judge us, and it is Allah.

    I wish they would wear it, such an empowering and beautiful thing, but kindness and truth will be a better help to them than exclusion of everything.

    Jazak Allah Khair for such a good video :)

  • thats a really good point delhi boy...its why you see alot of muslims these days wearing certain clothing and talking in a certain way, its to make up for their lack of good character which like you said is soo hard to change.

  • actually u're stereotyping all the sisters who wear Hijab.

    When I said some I meant "SOME" please don't generalise us too... I'm begining to regret for making this video since people are generalising us now

  • before anyone jumps on me, my entire family observes the hijab alhamdulillah...my 2 replies below r based on incidents personally experienced by me and my family...in fact, i got engaged to a non-hijabi muslim girl only cuz mashallah she's so decent and simple, and now alhamdulillah she intends to wear hijab...its easy to get used to hijab, but its tough to change someone's inner character...so lets focus on character first, physical requirements r relatively easier to follow...

  • first i like to say that i fully support hijabis..but i dont get why ppl r so obsessed with something physical rather than character?...in some hadith, u'll come to know that sometimes even because of the tongue, anger, or pride --- misuse of any one of these can lead us to hell-fire...and ive come across many hijabis who r arrogant, deceive ppl, gossip & backbite nonstop...only Allah knows who's better off, the decent non-hijabis or the backbiting hijabis.. just wearing a hijab doesnt cut it..

  • Salam, I am not Muslim but I have many friends who are. My very good friend is non-hijabi and she practices Islam very strictly. On the other hand, I know hijabi's who simply wear it out of habit. I think hijab is just one of many criterias of being a strong Muslim. And by judging or rejecting another sister, you will be lowering yourself below them, even if you are veiled. The point is that even a non-hijabi accepts Allah as the most powerful and Mohammed as the messenger. Support her in faith!

  • what an intelligent girl! who is showing sensitivity to her surroudings. i think you should be congratulating this girl and not trying to put her down. some comments here just indicate how rigid people are in their thinking. some hijabis i know are obnoxious and extremely hostile, and are full of arrogance, how is that sinning in private? why dont you people give those kind of lectures to those women? im sick of muslims who just judge others by how they dress.some hijabis dont even pray!

  • thank you for your comment. I know of many hijabis that are terrible people and they only judge other by the garments they were.

  • Hijab is something that has to come from u ,urself. Let the sisters realize themselve that diobeying the Lord is not a choice a strong faithed sister would do. Let us follow and look at the wifes of the prophet and how they dressed. we will only be accountible for our own deeds not someone elses. Let those who will take advice listen, those who won't can follow their own desires. The obedient ones will get paradise , well the diobedient ones will gain hell. so let us all make wise decisions.

  • The Hijab is an arab pagan tradition. Like so much of islam.

  • so Islam is a pagan religion? how arrogant and ignorant of u. so go and learn to tolerate others religion. Just cause u are a unbeliever doesn't give u the priviledge to write irrational coment about Islam. don't talk of things that u know nothing about. Its offensive and childish. even a child is openminded to know things they have no knoweldge of. The hijab is not pagan, god commands us in the wuran to wear it, please get ur fatcs straight cause u don't know anything of Islam,get some knowledg

  • jazakAllah khair for this sis

  • Mashallah sister great video...

  • wats wrong with these women

  • hijab is not optional.. do some research pls thk u. n btw do u perform ur prayers without covering urself?

  • Jazakumallahu khairan sister, Subhan'Allah... I don't pray without Hijab... but I never said Hijab is optional, God bless I think u never heard me talking, u probably listened to the first few seconds and drew ur conclusions.

  • thanks a lot for your wonderful video! I am actually a convert muslim sister and my hijab is going off and on ;-) really its something completely new for me. You are explaining it in very clear way. Its the same with converting: when people look down on you for not being muslim, and thinking you are worse person, why would anybody convert!!!??? Believe me it has happened to me and it made me doubt a lot about converting. Looking down on a person is not inviting, or convincing, it is only hurting

  • Mash'Allah, first of all, I congradulate u for finding the right path.

    Sister thats the problem with us Muslims these days we've forgot that judging is only to be done by Allah (swt). May Allah guide us all.

    May Allah (swt) grant u jannat-ul-firdaus. Ameen

  • hye there..i dun know ur comment attracted me..mayb bcause u r a convert muslim..u know,im a muslim but i just started wearing hijab few months ago..i want u 2 always pray 2 Allah 2 show u the right way ok n insyallah 1 day u wil know who u r n how we have 2 be as a 1 of Allah's property..1 night something happened 2 me n it makes me know more about this life..

  • Sister, first of all I have no problem with sisters that choose not to wear hijab, But I get really insulted when I hear them tell non muslims that hijab is optional. As to the sister comining to the prayer with no scarf? Did she not know that prayer a covering is required. Whhat about praying next to sisters with no scarf jeans, sweats that's a problem. It is very hard to be welcoming to those sisters. I think your view is very one sided. Just my thoughts

  • jazakum Allahu khairan my beloved sister. May Allah grant us both Janat-ul-firdaus

  • thx a lot..

  • Thank you for this post. Every beleiver deserves respect. One needs to know how to judge by character above appearance.

    Allah bless you.

  • I do agree with you sister, but the concept of the video was to help hijabi sisters to encourage non hijabi sisters. after all thats a fard on us all!

  • Also, To praise someone for not wearing hijab or claim that hijab isn't important is you saying that you know better than Allah or the Prophet, sAaws. Allah knows best. I don't believe that women don't wear hijab Because of hijabis. Yes there are hijabis that don't act correctly, but people know what they are supposed to do or not; don't put blame off onto other people. We should be kind to everyone, hijabi or Not, Muslim or not.

  • Good video. Self righteousness is an ugly habit which Allah will judge. We could all be kinder and more loving.

  • Also I do agree that when a Muslim is greeted by someone (no matter who they are) with the Muslim greeting of AsSalaam Alikum should return it, for it states CLEARLY in the Quran that when one is greeted with this they are to return it.. and I can't remember right now, but I do beleive their is consequence for them in the afterlife for each time they neglect this. Am I right?

  • a friend had a hijab on for 3 years and decided to take it off, for personal reasons.and so many of her hijabi so-called friends now don't reply to her salaam, don't even look at her. when she comes to the prayer room, they always start arguing and questioning her..she is a very beleiving person, but everyone gives her a hard time.Most hijabis are very respectful, mash'allah, but some people judge so much. and men are worse, many think all non hijabis are whores, that's a problem.

  • yes I agree with you on that sis

  • The mean hijabis might be girls that were forced into wearing hijab, or jealous that they can't show their hair for reasons like keeping up "face". Honestly, I'm muslim, but I don't think hijab is hugh deal, what matters is you imaan.

  • I agree sister that Hijab is not a huge deal, but definitely its an important issue that we shouldn't overlook, subhan'Allah we love Allah and we love his commandments!

  • Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: The Prophet said: Allah does NOT ACCEPT the PRAYER of a WOMAN who has REACHED PUBERTY UNLESS she WEARS a VEIL. (Sunnan Abu Dawud 2:641)

  • Assalamualaikum everyone..all praise is to god and congrats for the one who made this approach. Allah is the ultimate judge. Not all the woman in hijab r perfect icon of islam and the rest r morally bad. Some cover their head but not their tongue. How r they any better than the one who doesnt cover? Islam is not a superficial religion. But ppl r. Its a very kind religion. Allah is forgiving and merciful but human r discriminating within muslims just coz some dont cover up.

  • No need to insult each other. If you sincerely want to inquire about hijab, then go through the Quran and the Sunnah, and read the opinions of the scholars, not some "Muslim girl" who wants to show off her aura and has adopted the customs of the kufrs, and thus says Hijab is not fard. Like I said the scholars are in perfect agreement, and I've seen many girls like this sister, who do not go through the Quran and Sunnah with sincerity but instead looks for quotes here and there to support.

  • sister it looks to me that you haven't watched my video, I said in it clearly that I am not a "non Hijabi" + I also made it for my Hijabi sisters who scare non hijabi sisters by acting as angels! I clearly said in the video that we should help our sisters to come close to Islam by talking more often about it, and not by directly attacking them hence making them stay away from Hijabis and scaring them off before they can approach to us to learn! Jazakum Allahu khairan for your comment!

  • Ah... in fact she does state she is a Hijabi at around the one minute mark. Forward it and listen more closely sister or brother by the name of ShariNga.

  • I want to share a good story: the man walking down a road was wearing a cloak, and the Wind became proud and said to the Sun "I bet I can get that cloak off that man." And the Sun smiled and excepted the challenge. So the wind blew and blew, and the man fought and fought more to keep his cloak on. Finally the Wind gave up. So the Sun smiled still and then turned it's "Warmth" on more to the point that within seconds the man took off the cloak.

  • mash'Allah a very beautiful story sister!

  • Thank you, it was a story my Dad told me when I was about 8 years old. :-)

  • JAK!Im a revrt muslimah&dont yet wear hijab,someday Inshallah.Its so nice 2hear a sistr like u that"gets it".U undrstnd what tru dawah is!Mashallah!Luv,kindness&sist­rhood is the best thing muslims can gv nu muslims. Nu muslimahs need 2feel lovd&welcomd&part of the ummah,bcuz in many cases we hv been rejectd by our own families&communities 4 revertn 2 islam&the last place we xpect 2 feel outcastd is amongst our fellow muslimahs&it hurts.I wish evry sistr in my masjid was as kind as u,Inshallah!ty

  • There is a difference between those who do not have the will power to wear the hijab, and between those Munafiqun who argue hijab is not fard, when clearly when you go through the Quran and Sunnah you see it is Fard. All the scholars are in perfect agreement concerning hijab.

    So sisters if you do not have the willpower to put on the hijab, I ask allah that he grants you such will power. But know that all the scholars are in perfect agreement concerning hijab.

  • And I so appreciate this sisters video. I see too many self-rightious and flaunty sisters who wear hijab with too much pride. Its for modesty- not pride or showing off or to find a way to make our low self-asteem higher.

  • why all the feud? why are we judging people? do u want non hijabi sisters to take you seriously and come back to the hijab- then be a good example yourselves, rather than swearing. cause no where in the quran does it say to insult a person who doesn't wear hijab. rather it says to preach in a good manner. as for non hijabi sisters, there is no execuse for them to not wear hijab and for hijab sisters there is no execuse for them to behave so badly and in a rude manner.

  • asalamu alaykum. i'm so disappointed with many of the replies. whether they wear hijab or not we are not to judge them but to simply invite them back to return to their lord. who are we to decide who goes to hell or heaven?! why must we judge each other. do u want non hijabi sisters to come back to the deen with their hijab, then do so in a befitting manner. when you insult them, all that will create is heated arguements. we are not enemies to each other. shaytan is our one and only enemy. peace

  • subhanallah. what kind of muslims are you replying with a negative comment or insulting the sister who made this video. hijab is important and as the sister said she is not a non hijabi but those who are non hijabi they made the choice to remain so. and allah is the best of judges. but as muslims we must try and invite our dear non hijabis to start wearing hijab. all they need is people who really care for them such as ourselves to let them know that their is nothing wrong with the hijab.

  • As salaamu alaikum sister. Of course we should treat all Muslims (& all people) with dignity, respect & kindness. However, I must take issue with your video. Bye showing these images of muslimas w/out hijab it is in a way tacitly approving of or supporting disobedience to Allah. We wouldn't want to show any form of disobedience to Allah (zina, drinking alcohol, etc.) in a positive way. Hijab is not just a personal choice: disobedience to Allah is to be hated, but we must treat each other kindly.

  • jazakum Allahu khairan for ur comment dear sister! I really appreciate it!!!

  • SORRY BUT hijab is the most easiest simpliest thing to do in islam. just what are we suppose to say you non hijab wearing sisters?... for #1 how am i suppose to know your my sister in islam?

  • Jazakum Allahu khairan for ur message sister!

  • As Salaamu alaikum Sister:

    May Allah reward you for being a forthright & practicing muslimah! Of course we should show love, concern, respect & dignity to all of our brothers & sisters (& to all people who show us the same). However, I have to take issue w/your video. By showing muslimas w/out hijab it is a form of supporting disobedience to Allah. We don't want to show disobedience to Allah in a positive light, similarly, it may confuse weaker muslims into thinking it is ok not to cover.

  • GOD BLESS YOU.

  • wow non hiijabe you will go to hellfire im a Islamic sister and i am much younger then you guys and i no my dines and i were nacab

  • sister Allah hu Alim who would actually go to hellfire! there's a Hadith from Prophet (saw) there was a Jewish Rabi who was very God concious and feared Allah and there was another jew who wasn't performing at all, Rabi used to remind the other of his duties but the other used to ignore, once the Rabi said to the other that Allah will never forgive u, Allah answered the Rabi saying who is it that speaks on behalf of Allah, this day I nullify all ur good deeds and admit this one to Jannah.

  • so sister don't say that I will go to Jahanum, May be I will but only Allah knows its to be judged by Allah not u or me! May Allah bless u and grant u Janat-ul-firdaus! Ameen

  • my dear sister, sure you are younger than many other sisters- but did you see the future? how do you know they will go to jahanam? do you know that you yourself have committed a sin just by saying that. Allah is the one who merciful and forgiving, he can even forgive the one who committs zina if he wants. but we are no the judges, Allah 'aja wajala is the judge and he is the greatest judge! not you or me my dear sister. so let's refrain from such negative words. salam.

  • first of all brother I'm not a non hijabi! 2ndly please don't use this language on my videos, 3rdly, Islam doesn't allow immature behavior.

    Jazakum Allahu khairan for ur message!

  • very true... i am currently a non-hijabi, and i went through the exactly same thing in the masjid. they looked down at me and refused to answer my salams, but a wonderful hijabi sister came up to me and advised me in private nicely. she was so understanding that mashaAllah, I found myself inspired by her kindness and the gentle approach in which she advised me. And now inshaAllah i will wear the hijab soon, just need to buy more proper islamic clothes. :)

  • Subhan'Allah sister! May Allah reward u for ur right intentions of wearing Hijab! my best wishes and prayers are with you, and remember sister shaitaan will try his best to put u off from Hijab the first couple of weeks of ur Hijab days will be really hard, but stay firm and don't let him win over u're Imaan, because, A muslim is stronger than Shaitan if he puts his trust in Allah and submits his will to Allah. May Allah reward u with Janat-ul-firdus. Ameen.

    your sister in Islam!

  • 3rd the majority of non-hijabi sisters don't wear the hijab not because of hijabi sisters being judgmental because they simply do not care to wear it and are just not convinced it's a requirement by islam. i know before i started wearing proper hijab i simply did not care for it.

  • i use to be a non-hijabi. and i use to think that hijab doesn't define someone's iman. but as reading islam more i found it does. a hijabi may commit a sin but it's not done openly. every time a non-hijabi is going out of the house she i openly committing a sin. which is worse than the one to sins in secret.

    2nd you talk about how sisters come into the masjid with no hijab. but if she was really concerned with the salah she should carry a scarf with her. i know non-hijabi sisters who do that.

  • How is that worse than someone who sins in secret? At least non-hijab women are honest about it. If a hijab sinner does it in private, that makes her a sinner *and* a liar, wouldn't you think?

  • the open sinner is worse because it shows the sinner has no shame in disobeying Allah. where as the one who sins in secret has some level of shame. also in islam you are not allowed to tell anyone about any past or present sins you have done.

  • Oh... well I guess that makes sense.

  • oh plz...a sin is a sin is a sin...the hijabis who do sins in secret are basically hypocrites who want to maintain their "oh i'm so pure" impression in front of others and deceive them...if they had any shame, they wouldn't even do the sin in the first place...when it comes to marriage, a guy would rather reject a proposal from an open sinner than to marry a 'supossedly' pure hijabi and discovering later on that she's not a virgin or whatever..

    i'm not against hijabis, its just an argument.

  • untouchablesanan- Tell it like it is Sista!!

  • just cause someone wear scarf doesnt mean they r good muslim. mostly when i see a sister with scarf im afraid to talk to em cause they are rude as well. not saying scarf is a bad thing.

  • sister you're doing exactly the same thing the Hijabi sisters do. Judging someone. If a girl is rude to a guy is because she shouldn't sweet talk to boys. If a girl is rude to a girl then she need to study Islam. SubhanAllah sister not all sisters wear Hijab and sit on the laps of boys. there are non Hijabi sisters who do the same.

  • i know. what i meant was that just cause some one wear scarf doesnt make em a better muslim.

  • yeh thats true sis! I'd agree with u there

  • i know a lot of hajabi sisters that are sitting on their boyfriends' lap most of the time and kissing hind boys all the time....

  • It's true that some Muslims do discriminate among those non-hijabi sisters. They can be more religious than some hijabis. They don't know what is in their hearts or the reason they're not wearing it. Their Iman may be stronger then the hijabi's. The injusice need to stop. I love this...excellent job

    Wasalam

  • Bravo, I agree, it is as if the symbol of Islam has become the hijab...it is sad, the hijab does not make u a better muslim...it is sad that our faith is being judged by what we choose to wear or not to wear....wake up, there are issues far more important than the hijab, like human rights, poverty, etc.

  • great video sister!! I am a non-hijabi sister.. i converted to Islam 6 months ago and I only wear the hijab when I am not with my mom because she hates it when I wear hijab and forces me to take it off. I support hijab 100% and I am so glad you made this video!! Salam aleikum :)

  • Jazakum Allahu khairan for your beautiful comment sister :) first of all I want to congratulate you for accepting Islam and I would want to Welcome to to our one big Family. I hope things get better between u and ur mom and INSHALLAH with time ur mom will become understanding Inshallah. If u need any help sis please feel free to ask me as I'm there for any of my Muslim sisters, coz we're all one Ummah!

    walaikum Aslaam warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu sister

  • realy welcomed!!

  • prophet said: simplfy, dont complfy!!

    do not make justice!!! are you better than all women? without hijab?

  • Beautifully said! I love that you said that sisters should not judge but should guide others to the right path. I think Muslim women have enough people around them judging them, they don't need their own sisters judging them also. You said it with class.....good job!

  • Jazakum Allahu khairan, (may ALLAH reward you with good) Ameen.

    thanks for your lovely comment!

  • Salaam alikoum, it is our duty to tell our sisters what our obligations are, but we can not force someone into anything it has to come from their own heart to please Allah. Leading by good example is the best way, along with gentle verbal guidance.

  • 100% agreed sister!

    we just need to encourage our sister, every Muslim has fear of ALLAH somewhere in their heart we just need to awake that fear, and they will perform their duties right INSHALLAH

  • this is a gentle message and just kind, humane.

  • This was a good video sister. A lot of sisters think that just because a sister wears the hijab doesnt mean that they are pious, hijab goes beyond attire it also includes one's actions and iman. That was a good point about sisters 'scarying' other sisters off. Its not right, and that isn't dawah, because they coming off in a loving manner.

  • wow so all this freedoom should be given to western muslims who already have it very good...

    how about making this speech in a ,muslim country

  • this speech is not needed in most of the Muslim countries, plus if u had heard the whole thing it has nothing to do with freedom of not wearing Hijab it is abt how to bring non hijabis towards Hijab... never mind its useless speaking to people like u.

  • then dont speak to me, instead of indirctly sating im a bad person... what i am saying is a simple thing dont take it too far

  • I'm sorry for offending u, as thats not what I meant, I probably misjudged u from u're previous message.

  • umm about the hijab part, you're suppose to have your hijab on in the masjid...so that was on that sisters fault for not coming with one...no one eles's fault. but they were wrong for not greeting her and behaving that was is very un muslima like.

  • subhanallah sister we're supposed to wear Hijab everywhere not just Masjid, and It wasn't the masjid sister it was just a prayer room for sisters

  • ok well regardless of where the 'prayer room' is located the sister intended to make salaat, and in order for your salaat to be accepted by ALlah one has to have the proper attire which is a hijab, one of the requirements. so again it was her fault that she didnt have a scarf to pray with....

  • ok! I didn't say that its not her fault, but yet when she doesn't wear Hijab how can u expect her to carry along with herself, plus guidance from ALLAH can come to anyone at anytime, and Sorry If I offended u, but its a fault of both, the girl who didn't wear Hijab and the sister who didn't offer hers.

  • ohh no no I'm not offended at all, I was just saying. If you're a practicing muslim even if your wearing the hijab you should always have a scarf in the car with you, its a no brainer. but those ladies don't have to offer her a scarf, it's a prayer room and secondly we really aren't suppose to be just showing off our hair even if you're around muslimas, for they could have bad intentions...but masjids usually have spear hijabs. I didn't mean to start an argument.

  • no sister I'm not arguing with u subhanallah u're my sister in Islam we just think different I guess, but ALLAH hu Alim who's fault it actually was, I agree with u Subhanallah we should always cover, but I was only talking abt sisters who are drifted away from the right path. Jazakum ALLAH khair for sharing ur views, thats what makes us Muslim after all. :D

  • it's not always easy to find a scarf. Or what color or pattern would be acceptible. and also it is difficult to figure out how to put it on when no one ever taught u.

  • Who is afraid to submit to their Lord?

  • i follow all rules of Islam (i think/try)

    but i do not have enough confidence to wear a hijab because i always know people are staring

  • people will always stare sister. I was walking by and saw a man checkin out a girl from top to her bottom, its just u don't know when people are staring at you, and plus u should be proud of your religion, and should only worry about the fact that ALLAH is looking at u all the time, ALLAH will ask us on day of judgement, if we were not aware of the fact that ALLAH is watching us all the time, more than people are staring at us.

  • so sister be aware that ALLAH is watching us all the time, these people might stare for once or twice but ALLAH is always there.

  • that you so much

    Alahu Alam and im sure i will understand the importance of it soon

  • Inshallah sister! May ALLAH grant you Jannah Ameen

  • i meant thank you

    ....

    vvv

  • absolutely no one has a right to judge other Muslim's iman to that kind of level, and no Muslim is supposed to make another Muslim or anyone for that matter feel like an outcast and make them feel low. no one knows what is in the hearts of others except Allah so dont judge at all! LOOK TO URSELF AND get closer to Allah and learn that one of his commandments was also to FORGIVE AND TO BE KIND.

  • u dont have just this video , u have alot of video against the moslims , i know your voice . when u dont want to wear hijab , that is your problem ,but just leave us in peace please.........thanks

  • sister/brother u need to go on my chennel and see what kind of videos I make. Jazakallah ul khairan.

    and I don't make videos against Muslims. I am a Muslim. and plus I didn't say anything against Islam in the video i spoke about the sisters who put non hijabi sister off the Hijab instead of helping them understand that Hijab is a Must for Muslimah

  • oh sister ,im really very sorry , i dont know what kind of videos u make .....but your voice like really the voice of a girl , who make always video against Islam ....im sorry one more time and jazakiellahu elkhair

  • its ok sis! I knew that u confused me someone else. :) it happens sometimes.

    Barakallah fee

  • im very sorry sister , i didnt know the kind of the videos u make...but your voice like really the voice of a girl,who always makes videos against islam.......im sorry one more time und jazakillahu elkhair

  • I really liked your kind words and beautiful heart to support out non-hijabi sisters. Forcing a piece of clothing is compulsion and there is not supposed to be compulsion in religion. The Qur'an clearly states that. Piety is not defined by clothing but one's heart

  • "O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks close round them (when they go abroad). That will be better, so that they may be recognised and not annoyed. Allah is ever Forgiving, Merciful." (Quran 33:59)

  • I agree there are a lot of advantages in hijab but the hijab is not a part of Islam but just a part of modesty. In its not in the Qur'an to do so. the Qur'an is complete. God did not create the Qur'an so that other people would come in find their own meanings and bombard them to believe their own beliefs.

  • "O you Children of Adam! We have bestowed on you raiment to cover your shame as well as to be an adornment to you. But the raiment of righteousness, that is the best. Such are among the Signs of Allah, that they may receive admonition." (Quran 7:26)

  • so a woman's head is her shame, and a woman must cover it?

  • its not her shame its her beauty. so a modest woman wouldn't put her beauty on display.

  • Why?

  • Kazakallah for the video!

  • Thanks for this video sis, and ur right Most of hijabi sis do neglict non hijabi girls..

  • Jazakallah ul kharain sister! its my duty

  • Muslims must work on their exterior and interior. Once a woman develops a relationship with Allah, hijab will be easy. A woman who loves and fears Allah will want to obey His commandments. Sadly, it would appear that many woman who wear hijab do so to 'show off' or do so as a fashion statement. Allahu Alam.

  • I agree