Bisexual, but never done it with a chick...and to be honest the only times with (one) guy were not all that pleasant. Hooray for lack of positive sexual experience!
I know you said straight or gay/lez. I am straight with a bi girl. I don't knock people that aren't of the straight persuasion. I have never been interested in being gay but it is interesting being married to a woman that is. She favors me more than women and that makes me feel good, so thank you for your vid very nice and informative (plus the humor) and thank you for being honest instead of beating around the bush.
I am bisexual and I have to say for me neither is better they are just different . Also a girl who straps it on still does not feel as good as the real deal .
i like sex w/ both equal, somtime if ur with someone you will miss the other, but i am faithful in a relationship(:
and relationships too its almost equal for me. BUT women .. well the only one ive been with, but shes the one im hooked on, she cheated. so i feel all women will be like this. also women can drive you fuckin crazy. lol i love the passion, but i can go w/o the chateing & crazyness. (:
@leemartini69x even though i know ive been with only one woman i am verry much bisexual. i just get scared of women. lol & the only one i have been with, i keep around. she cheated. we were broken up, & 2 yrs later we are talking again. its been 5 yrs total back n fwd. i sleep w/ men now cuz its easier for me emotionally
Being a bisexual who's never had sex with a chick can be frustrating. I get asked: "how d uknow?" I've kissed a chick, and had crushes, but that'snot enough for people. Im very shy/awkward around women sometimes, but I love them, and they're hot. Men dont know what theyre doing, and can be selfish. I dont fantasize about sucking cock, but I always think about getting a woman off. Siderant: ive heard ppl say bisexuals arent real, are confused, attentioin seeking, and ur either gay or straight smh
Hi I am also A bisexual female, I love both men and woman equally because if I want the pleasure of a man I got it, But if I want a woman I got it too. So I love both.
LOVE THIS TOPIC ! I used to be bi and I preferred women over men any day . Although like you said , it goes both ways. You get things out of having sex with women that you can't get with me and vice versa . I am strictly lesbian now & have to say I love it! Best choice EVER ! But i did get asked which one when I was bi . Love your videos !
I am a Bi male and I get this question very consistently from people who are just finding out im Bi. In my opinion, there isn't better or worse, there's just different, for example: Men are- Firm and masculine, easier to get off, give better blowjobs, are more aggressive in bed and I tend to have more intellectually based interactions with them. Women are- Softer and smoother, last longer, have a cozy warm vag, are more passionate in bed and I tend to have more emotionally based ineractions
@Monochiwa88 So I don't see one as better but different and all the things I listed I view as positive traits. I enjoy both, they are each beautiful in their own way.
There's something more satisfying about sex with a girl... Men are really aggressive and to the point about it and they generally don't like long periods of foreplay but with a girl you can spend hours just touching each others skin without getting impatient.
I'm curious about if there are any other bisexuals out there that will sort of act one way or another towards either sex... Like me, I will act more like a femme and submissive and act all cute when i'm with a guy I like but when i'm with a girl i like i will feel more like a stud/stemme and i prefer to 'top' and i feel like i wanna romance her and make her giggle. but then it also depends on the type of girl cause i recently met a more studdly girl and i felt like a submissive femme around her
I say I'm Gay to my family but idk if I'm bi? it's super annoying! I don't like cock, but I can't always seeing myself with a chick :S like wtf is goin on! I think I'm gay???! idk I dont really care, I Just wanna be happy :D
i have my gf for almost 9 yrs ;) i had a bf b4 but i more prefer 2 have gf now..and nw im miles away frm my gf and felt empty..its hard to be n a crowd where in everybody is straight,wel idnt prb being wer iam.,i gues im just loking 4 smeone (a fren)who undrstnd what i am..u knw what mean..
I'm more of a girl kind of person. I definitely enjoy some male interaction, don't get me wrong, but I think I've had more of a deeper connection with the girls I've been in relationships with. For me relationships with girls have always been more intimate on a physical and intellectual level. I like to give.... it to other girls (more so than guys) ;)
i like having sex w/ girls more than i do w/boys. for the same reasons u said. girls know what you like, and you can be completely honest w/them. and straight people really don't know how easy it is for them. girl.. WE HAVE TO GET CREATIVE WITH ANOTHE GIRL! ;)
As a male bisexual, I have no preference for whom I have sex with. I just think its different for both sexes. Sex with a woman is slower, more sensual, very passionate, and quite magical. Sex with a man is more aggressive, rough, dominating, and intense.
Also, the relationships are very different for me to even fathom and describe with words. It adds a whole new perspective on what gender you prefer. For me, my preference boils down to the person, not gender.
i identify as a lesbian, and i completely agree with having sex with a man is a different thing than having sex with a woman. i think i enjoy women more because theres a deeper emotional connection and the fact that you sometimes have to be creative because there are many ways to go about it. i also like the fact that i can be extremely dominate as well as submissive with a woman...there isnt a guy on top of you thinking he owns you or something...the passions are very different
i'm not sure if i am bi or gay. For some reason, just thinking of penis grosses me out. i do, although, tend to like someone more if they have control just for the soul purpose that i hate control.
I have had sex w/ guys & girls personal never been too into the penis. Sometimes I think being with a guy would be easier majority of the time all I want (when I am not at grad school or work) is to drink beer & watch ESPN. Majority of my friends are straight dudes which bugs my girlfriend I don’t understand it but there is so much I don’t understand about her. As for right now I am about to be late to my slow pitch softball, I like your honesty don’t lose it. Clitoris beats penis in my book
before ever having sex with a woman, I thought my "lesbian urges" were just a fantasy. I also thought I would never be pleased in bed because NO guy i've ever been with was remotely good. then I had sex with a woman and never in my life am I going back to guys! lol
Even if the guys really tried to please me and did their research, they just don't understand how the female body works like a girl does.
I totally agree. Sex with a guy and sex with a girl are both awesome in different ways. I have to say that sex with a woman is so much more sensual and emotional. I personally prefer women myself for that reason. I just can't get enough of their "O" faces too ; )
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there is no such thing as bi u just dont want 2 say to urself as a gay person im just saying once u touch ur own gender like dat ur gay like im a guy would i ever touch a dude ass hole hell no
I agree that sex and relationships are better with woman, like you said. Girls know what girls want. And relationship wise. They understand you better and it's easier to be closer with woman than with a man in my opinion. I'm gay. But I have had a few boyfriends, no serious ones tho. Only been in serious relationships with two of the girls I have been with. And am in one currently. And they've been much easier to communicate with and such than with a boyfriend.
My view is confusing. I have been bisexual for 4 years now and have been in a relationship with a girl for 4 years, but was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years before that. So I've had the best of both worlds and time to think about it. I don't know if I prefer dating girls since I've only date one, but I like the fact that my girlfriend understands me completely. In bed, I like men and women both the same, but I do like the closeness with a woman especially with my girlfriend
Does Marissa care that you are bisexual at all? I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years now and it bothers her that I still like both. In the beginning of our relationship, I had trouble being with a girl and I'd want to try things again with my ex boyfriend so I understand a little as to why she might be upset that I may turn to guys again, but I am in love with her and I want her to always know that
Heather will shortly leave us for a few moments to ramble about random stuff that is probably only slightly connected with the original topic of this video...if you're lucky. Stay tuned though, I'm sure she'll be back to the topic, soon.
Lol, sorry, couldn't resist ^^;
Anyway, to the topic: Well, I'm completely lesbian, even a gold star, so I guess its kinda obvious what I prefer. My male bff (he's bi) prefers sex with women too though
ok, so my girlfriend and I have been talking about using a strapon, but she doesn't want to. she thinks it'll be weird, having to stop and shit to get it on and itd be awkward. Can you do a video on strapons so we can decide. I want to but she is really nervous! Help! (thumbs up this comment so they see!)
Relationship...probably equal..depends what I'm kinda looking for.
I completely agree...girls in bed is a plus lol..I feel like they r more devoted to making u reach climaxx, nd jus kno the spots a lot better then Guys,
I have had guys do it pretty right for be but not as well as chickks.
....I lovvvvveeee being a chiccckk magnett :x Ahahh
I am a bisexual girl and I, without question prefer women both in a relationship and in bed. I've always naturally fallen into the submissive role in my relationships, and both of my girlfriends have been very dominant and masculine. Because that's the type of woman I am drawn to, I am constantly being asked why I wouldn't just be with a guy. However, women have just so, so much more emotion and passion and complexity to offer a relationship (and a sex life) that VERY few men can measure up to..
Well, I identify as just being me. I've been in two relationships with guys, but I am currently in my first homosexual relationship. Both of us have had sex with guys. Even though her and I haven't had sex yet, I would still also have to say I prefer fooling around with her than I did with my boyfriends. Sex with guys just doesn't seem to have the same emotional connection and I had a pretty loving boyfriend. Passion is just more of an emotional connection when you're with another woman.
Did not! know you were bisexual. And I was thinking about that the other day like boys with girls isn't too difficult pole into hole, done. Girls qith girls though there's so many options it's like which one should I do, which does she prefer.
I'm a bisexual woman, but I definitely prefer women. I don't really see myself dating men, but men definitely catch my eye sooner than women. Like, if I'm walking down the street and see a hot guy, I'm more likely to check him out than a hot girl, but that's also because hot girls are fucking everywhere. That said, I enjoy sex and just being intimate with women much more than men.
I consider myself to be "homoflexible" because I prefer women, but still can have attraction to some [very few] men. I haven't enjoyed sex with men as much as I have with a woman, and same goes for relationships. I've had one relationship with a male that I really enjoyed and grew from, and I'll always love him. But, as I said, I lean more to one side than the other.
i am bi. and i have only had sex with one man and one woman. I have to say i perfer being in a relationship with a woman rather than a man. they are much more gental and understanding, and i find woman more attractive than men. But i love men too so i cant really say i wouldnt want to be with a man. as for sex, i love sex with a man or woman, cant really complain lol
OK... I prefer women! I'm a lesbian. I love the way they read between the lines and understand you, I love the empathy they are able to show, the emotions and the drama involved in a relationship with them... Everything! I love the body! It's so much interesting compared with a man's body! The curves are so much better than the lines! Also, women are more attentive, caring and compassionate. Well, that's just me! I've liked women since I was in nursery school... it's pretty much a personal thing
I'm kinda confused cause I really like this girl at my school ( all girl school and she is my friend. Yes she knows) but I never thought of a girl in that way. But you know what really sucks? She has a fucking girlfriend :/
im bisexual but ive never had sex with a guy only with a girl an only one girl but been with her for almost 3 years but her ex boyfriend that used to talk to me said i dont really know what sex is but my gf says that out of the guys shes been with that im better then them i was wondering what you think about that if you havent had sex with a guy which i know you have but do you think the people that havent dont know what real sex is just bc their with a girl
I've never really thought of men in a sexual way before, except when i was younger and confused. I'd have to say i think women can pretty much do what men can do, as you said, strap-ons. I think sex is all about personal taste, and what you're comfortable with. :') obviously i'm with girls on this one, but everyone is different. :')
@MyDearLouise im with u on this. like im bi but i WILL NEVER be sexual with a guy like their "parts" skeeve me out. Ill date a date, kiss a guy, etc but nothing under the belt, no way no how noot ever. I def prefer women thou :P
I'm a bisexual girl, I have yet to have sex with a boy, although I've done other things. But I still like women better. Way better. I would say it's about a 60/40.
And another thing, I think the only serious issue I can think of with women and dating are the emotions. We tend to be more emotionally connected and attached. Which can be good or bad. I like being passionate and and emotionally in tune with my gfs but it can be an emotional battle sometimes so take that into account too.
I'm bi and I'd have to say sex with a woman. Just bc there's more idk versatility? A girl generally knows what a girl wants. So you're more likely to get what you want in bed I think. However, guys are good but if he doesn't know what he's doing then know. I guess with a girl both dating and physiologically, that's my preference. I think it's just an all around better fit.
I'm bisexual but I've never had sex with a man. I've only had sex with a woman. But I totally agree, woman know exactly what you want and how you want it. It's the best. ;)
Hi Heather. You are so right. I totally support lesbian rights and wish that lesbians have a better quality of life. It is sad at how our society is so judgemental.
You are such a beautiful person both inside and out. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences with us youtubers.
Im a chic and bisexual and i honestly think that girls are better whether its on dating or sex.
Girls know what you want. Theyre more soft understanding and more caring then guys could ever be.
And ive been asked the same question of like why arent i just a lesbian then. But its like im not a lesbian because im not completely turned off by guys. Here and there you'll hear me say "Oh hes hot" if theirs a dude walking by thats attractive. Its just the fact that people dont realize that alot of
hey Heather, this video was so true and accurate, because people ask me this all the time , but honesty i think sex with a girlie is better because it more emotional , and not just in it to do it. :)
ps. could anybody please explain what's the meaning of fake dick? i mean, i know what it's for, but isn't lesbian sex supposed to be without any male genitalia resemblances? i always regarded it as something solely feminine, so to say.
Thank you for speaking my mind! It's not easy to compare men and women in regards to having an emotional or a sexual relationship with one or the other. There are pros and cons in each part and i honestly find it hard to choose one. But being a woman, I feel that having sex with another woman is much more selfless and giving than it is with a man, and that to me is more rewarding and satisfying. It is, literally to give and to get.
well i'm bi- virgin therefore i can't draw the conclusion yet whether are men or women better in the bed. anyhow i can solely personally tell that i'm aghast of men. i am. mayhap because 8 out of 10 are concerned only 'bout their impotent cocks and satisfying their needs. my biggest fear is that some random simian-like man may vanquish me (despite the fact that i'm almost as stalwart as they are) and...well you got the picture. i'm menphobic, so to say. thus i say girls
*is a lesbian* women...theres so much more involved in the relationship and i honestly prefer the complications of how emotional the relationship can be. But I love my guys. if i get upset we go to the gym and spar =)
I'm more gay than bi, but apart from that it's hard for me to see myself dating another guy because of the weird lad culture going on here. And I haven't slept with a girl yet, but I think it would be very refreshing since it wouldn't be all about the penis all the time! And probably more enjoyable the whole way through instead of all the focus being on the orgasm. Hmm.
I'm pansexual. I'm a virgin, but I've done sexual stuff with both guys and girls (obviously other than the full home run). I believe that both male and female people have very different qualities in terms of relationships and in the bedroom. I understand what you mean about girls and the drama and the hype. And there is nothing wrong with playing a domineering role. We always seem to seek out those who complement us, and sometimes that is apart of it :)
I'm straight but a virgin. I can say from my masturbation episodes, especially with sex toys, I would suggest that your partner be good with their hands because most women honestly get off more on clitoral stimulation than penetration.
im lesbian but ive been with a man before when i considered myself bisexual and even then i was very much more interested into lesbian sex. yes straight and gay sex is completely different in many ways but in my own opinion and experiences, the connection i have with the woman im with is so much more deep and meaningful. the passion is unreal and its just easier. if anyone has seen friends with benefits, mila and justin are telling eachother what to do while lesbians just dive right in.
I'm bi and I enjoy dating girls alot more than dating guys...just cuz girls know wat girls want...and true wen dating a guy its totally different....
Sex with a girl is better for me cuz Idk I just enjoy it I love everything about it...sex with a guy is good too but idk there is something about sex with a girl I enjoy
Hello Heather I love your videos! I'm bisexual and for me it's not only a question of which of both sexes is the best in bed, for me, men and women have something completely different, beautiful, unique and special to share in sex. I believe that when you are in love with somebody, it doesn't matter if you meet a boy or a girl, you feel sexually and emotionally complete in all senses in that special time. For me both sexes deserve the same love, respect and dedication.
You're right.. sex with a girl and sex with a guy is a COMPLETELY different experience, although they're both good... I'd say it has to depend on where I'm at in life. I think I like girls better when I want a more serious, deep relationship, and guys more when I just want a fling. Haha only because I can't imagine a fling ever working out with a girl. When it comes to just hookups, I'd rather have sex with a guy than a girl, because that's just easier... Although sex with a girl is more sensual
my bestfriend needs to see this vdo :)
WorldintoMotion 2 days ago in playlist Uploaded videos
im bisxual and i think women are better they what i like and to be honest they are just better at ;)
mandy1356 5 days ago
Bisexual, but never done it with a chick...and to be honest the only times with (one) guy were not all that pleasant. Hooray for lack of positive sexual experience!
laughingwolf330 1 week ago
I know you said straight or gay/lez. I am straight with a bi girl. I don't knock people that aren't of the straight persuasion. I have never been interested in being gay but it is interesting being married to a woman that is. She favors me more than women and that makes me feel good, so thank you for your vid very nice and informative (plus the humor) and thank you for being honest instead of beating around the bush.
AlternatesRule 2 weeks ago
@AlternatesRule Oh so I think women are better...if you didn't gather that....
AlternatesRule 2 weeks ago
I am bisexual and I have to say for me neither is better they are just different . Also a girl who straps it on still does not feel as good as the real deal .
salembambi00 2 weeks ago
BISEXUAL
preferences are pretty close to 50/50
i like sex w/ both equal, somtime if ur with someone you will miss the other, but i am faithful in a relationship(:
and relationships too its almost equal for me. BUT women .. well the only one ive been with, but shes the one im hooked on, she cheated. so i feel all women will be like this. also women can drive you fuckin crazy. lol i love the passion, but i can go w/o the chateing & crazyness. (:
leemartini69x 2 weeks ago
@leemartini69x even though i know ive been with only one woman i am verry much bisexual. i just get scared of women. lol & the only one i have been with, i keep around. she cheated. we were broken up, & 2 yrs later we are talking again. its been 5 yrs total back n fwd. i sleep w/ men now cuz its easier for me emotionally
leemartini69x 2 weeks ago
Being a bisexual who's never had sex with a chick can be frustrating. I get asked: "how d uknow?" I've kissed a chick, and had crushes, but that'snot enough for people. Im very shy/awkward around women sometimes, but I love them, and they're hot. Men dont know what theyre doing, and can be selfish. I dont fantasize about sucking cock, but I always think about getting a woman off. Siderant: ive heard ppl say bisexuals arent real, are confused, attentioin seeking, and ur either gay or straight smh
weirdgirl420 2 weeks ago
"u guys should really call her though...she's ready for love" funny shit
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Hi I am also A bisexual female, I love both men and woman equally because if I want the pleasure of a man I got it, But if I want a woman I got it too. So I love both.
Eleanorlyons2009 3 weeks ago
LOVE THIS TOPIC ! I used to be bi and I preferred women over men any day . Although like you said , it goes both ways. You get things out of having sex with women that you can't get with me and vice versa . I am strictly lesbian now & have to say I love it! Best choice EVER ! But i did get asked which one when I was bi . Love your videos !
Kay1872 3 weeks ago
I am a Bi male and I get this question very consistently from people who are just finding out im Bi. In my opinion, there isn't better or worse, there's just different, for example: Men are- Firm and masculine, easier to get off, give better blowjobs, are more aggressive in bed and I tend to have more intellectually based interactions with them. Women are- Softer and smoother, last longer, have a cozy warm vag, are more passionate in bed and I tend to have more emotionally based ineractions
Monochiwa88 3 weeks ago
@Monochiwa88 So I don't see one as better but different and all the things I listed I view as positive traits. I enjoy both, they are each beautiful in their own way.
Monochiwa88 3 weeks ago
There's something more satisfying about sex with a girl... Men are really aggressive and to the point about it and they generally don't like long periods of foreplay but with a girl you can spend hours just touching each others skin without getting impatient.
tragicallyx3perfect 3 weeks ago
I'm curious about if there are any other bisexuals out there that will sort of act one way or another towards either sex... Like me, I will act more like a femme and submissive and act all cute when i'm with a guy I like but when i'm with a girl i like i will feel more like a stud/stemme and i prefer to 'top' and i feel like i wanna romance her and make her giggle. but then it also depends on the type of girl cause i recently met a more studdly girl and i felt like a submissive femme around her
tragicallyx3perfect 3 weeks ago
I say I'm Gay to my family but idk if I'm bi? it's super annoying! I don't like cock, but I can't always seeing myself with a chick :S like wtf is goin on! I think I'm gay???! idk I dont really care, I Just wanna be happy :D
DexNChex 4 weeks ago
Damn, she has more swag than me :(.
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i have my gf for almost 9 yrs ;) i had a bf b4 but i more prefer 2 have gf now..and nw im miles away frm my gf and felt empty..its hard to be n a crowd where in everybody is straight,wel idnt prb being wer iam.,i gues im just loking 4 smeone (a fren)who undrstnd what i am..u knw what mean..
KASAMIRAB 1 month ago
i love this video, it made me laugh about she has a bigger dick then other guys.
TheLuckythirt3en 1 month ago
hmm..i smetmes got a crush on boys but i always fal in love in a grl and my gydar is nt workng end up brk3n heartd ..haha weird am i a bi?
KASAMIRAB 1 month ago
@KASAMIRAB you are bi, but do you rather be with a girl then boys?
TheLuckythirt3en 1 month ago
hi.how cn i knw if im a bi?i mean cn i cnsdr myself as bi without hvng s3x with a boy?just askng.;)
KASAMIRAB 1 month ago
@KASAMIRAB You can consider yourself whatever you want without doing anything with anyone. Just try to figure out who you're attracted to :)
LezBeOnTalk 1 month ago
I'm more of a girl kind of person. I definitely enjoy some male interaction, don't get me wrong, but I think I've had more of a deeper connection with the girls I've been in relationships with. For me relationships with girls have always been more intimate on a physical and intellectual level. I like to give.... it to other girls (more so than guys) ;)
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i like having sex w/ girls more than i do w/boys. for the same reasons u said. girls know what you like, and you can be completely honest w/them. and straight people really don't know how easy it is for them. girl.. WE HAVE TO GET CREATIVE WITH ANOTHE GIRL! ;)
martavavautube 1 month ago
ok to the point with this as a women i tend to think that sex with another women is better although it does lack the feel of a real penis inside.
jessikaJay27 1 month ago
"She has a bigger dick than half the men I've ever seen" Baha! I cracked up laughing!! I love it :) (My girlfriend does too)
crazymugatu 1 month ago 2
It's been so long since I've had sex, I forget who's supposed to tie who up!
SuperStoakley 1 month ago
i a straight male, and i have to agree, sex with a girl is waaaay better :P
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As a male bisexual, I have no preference for whom I have sex with. I just think its different for both sexes. Sex with a woman is slower, more sensual, very passionate, and quite magical. Sex with a man is more aggressive, rough, dominating, and intense.
Also, the relationships are very different for me to even fathom and describe with words. It adds a whole new perspective on what gender you prefer. For me, my preference boils down to the person, not gender.
rricardo1987 1 month ago
Honestly; I like guys better. Like, I'm bisexual but I've always had more of attraction to guys over girls.
BeautifulBixtch 1 month ago
I think women are better period. ive had to fake it with guys, but never with a girl.
lissypants1123 1 month ago
I know exactly what your talking about !
lissypants1123 1 month ago
i identify as a lesbian, and i completely agree with having sex with a man is a different thing than having sex with a woman. i think i enjoy women more because theres a deeper emotional connection and the fact that you sometimes have to be creative because there are many ways to go about it. i also like the fact that i can be extremely dominate as well as submissive with a woman...there isnt a guy on top of you thinking he owns you or something...the passions are very different
rocknrolljackass 1 month ago
i totally gree wid u on everythin u say in thz video... im bisexual proud <3...!!!
sex wid man & women both 2 me are greats but not all da time it also depends n da other person not everybody knows wht they're doing...
gemetwin24 1 month ago
i'm not sure if i am bi or gay. For some reason, just thinking of penis grosses me out. i do, although, tend to like someone more if they have control just for the soul purpose that i hate control.
ummmimnotsure 1 month ago
I have had sex w/ guys & girls personal never been too into the penis. Sometimes I think being with a guy would be easier majority of the time all I want (when I am not at grad school or work) is to drink beer & watch ESPN. Majority of my friends are straight dudes which bugs my girlfriend I don’t understand it but there is so much I don’t understand about her. As for right now I am about to be late to my slow pitch softball, I like your honesty don’t lose it. Clitoris beats penis in my book
1234now1 1 month ago
before ever having sex with a woman, I thought my "lesbian urges" were just a fantasy. I also thought I would never be pleased in bed because NO guy i've ever been with was remotely good. then I had sex with a woman and never in my life am I going back to guys! lol
Even if the guys really tried to please me and did their research, they just don't understand how the female body works like a girl does.
valhallavalkyrie9 1 month ago 2
For me it's women ^.^ which probably means I'm a lesbian..but I still like guys...mehhh confusing ._.
DinosaursEatZombies 1 month ago
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DinosaursEatZombies 1 month ago
I totally agree. Sex with a guy and sex with a girl are both awesome in different ways. I have to say that sex with a woman is so much more sensual and emotional. I personally prefer women myself for that reason. I just can't get enough of their "O" faces too ; )
senamegan 1 month ago
Well, im bisexual.
and i personally i enjoy women more.
They know what you want, and how you want it. (:
ye know? and i also think you and marissa are so cute together (:
brittLIKEomg 1 month ago
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there is no such thing as bi u just dont want 2 say to urself as a gay person im just saying once u touch ur own gender like dat ur gay like im a guy would i ever touch a dude ass hole hell no
gym2594 1 month ago
I agree that sex and relationships are better with woman, like you said. Girls know what girls want. And relationship wise. They understand you better and it's easier to be closer with woman than with a man in my opinion. I'm gay. But I have had a few boyfriends, no serious ones tho. Only been in serious relationships with two of the girls I have been with. And am in one currently. And they've been much easier to communicate with and such than with a boyfriend.
shaawnaaydiane 1 month ago
My view is confusing. I have been bisexual for 4 years now and have been in a relationship with a girl for 4 years, but was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years before that. So I've had the best of both worlds and time to think about it. I don't know if I prefer dating girls since I've only date one, but I like the fact that my girlfriend understands me completely. In bed, I like men and women both the same, but I do like the closeness with a woman especially with my girlfriend
blaytonx04 1 month ago
Does Marissa care that you are bisexual at all? I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years now and it bothers her that I still like both. In the beginning of our relationship, I had trouble being with a girl and I'd want to try things again with my ex boyfriend so I understand a little as to why she might be upset that I may turn to guys again, but I am in love with her and I want her to always know that
blaytonx04 1 month ago
3:33 There we go, the distant gaze.
Dear watcher,
Heather will shortly leave us for a few moments to ramble about random stuff that is probably only slightly connected with the original topic of this video...if you're lucky. Stay tuned though, I'm sure she'll be back to the topic, soon.
Lol, sorry, couldn't resist ^^;
Anyway, to the topic: Well, I'm completely lesbian, even a gold star, so I guess its kinda obvious what I prefer. My male bff (he's bi) prefers sex with women too though
Headshock0111 1 month ago
ok, so my girlfriend and I have been talking about using a strapon, but she doesn't want to. she thinks it'll be weird, having to stop and shit to get it on and itd be awkward. Can you do a video on strapons so we can decide. I want to but she is really nervous! Help! (thumbs up this comment so they see!)
pretendperfection 1 month ago 4
Relationship...probably equal..depends what I'm kinda looking for.
I completely agree...girls in bed is a plus lol..I feel like they r more devoted to making u reach climaxx, nd jus kno the spots a lot better then Guys,
I have had guys do it pretty right for be but not as well as chickks.
....I lovvvvveeee being a chiccckk magnett :x Ahahh
awildX3 1 month ago
I am a bisexual girl and I, without question prefer women both in a relationship and in bed. I've always naturally fallen into the submissive role in my relationships, and both of my girlfriends have been very dominant and masculine. Because that's the type of woman I am drawn to, I am constantly being asked why I wouldn't just be with a guy. However, women have just so, so much more emotion and passion and complexity to offer a relationship (and a sex life) that VERY few men can measure up to..
GCdubbs 1 month ago
Well, I identify as just being me. I've been in two relationships with guys, but I am currently in my first homosexual relationship. Both of us have had sex with guys. Even though her and I haven't had sex yet, I would still also have to say I prefer fooling around with her than I did with my boyfriends. Sex with guys just doesn't seem to have the same emotional connection and I had a pretty loving boyfriend. Passion is just more of an emotional connection when you're with another woman.
cantbeleveitsnotnaru 1 month ago
Did not! know you were bisexual. And I was thinking about that the other day like boys with girls isn't too difficult pole into hole, done. Girls qith girls though there's so many options it's like which one should I do, which does she prefer.
rebeccam2 1 month ago
I'm a bisexual woman, but I definitely prefer women. I don't really see myself dating men, but men definitely catch my eye sooner than women. Like, if I'm walking down the street and see a hot guy, I'm more likely to check him out than a hot girl, but that's also because hot girls are fucking everywhere. That said, I enjoy sex and just being intimate with women much more than men.
MouthsLikSdwndrMisls 1 month ago
I consider myself to be "homoflexible" because I prefer women, but still can have attraction to some [very few] men. I haven't enjoyed sex with men as much as I have with a woman, and same goes for relationships. I've had one relationship with a male that I really enjoyed and grew from, and I'll always love him. But, as I said, I lean more to one side than the other.
dragmetohell999 1 month ago
I enjoy being sexual with women, i'm bisexual
unicornorb 1 month ago
I'm gay, but I prefer sex between a man and a woman. haha So much porn.
charlotteistitletown 1 month ago
i am bi. and i have only had sex with one man and one woman. I have to say i perfer being in a relationship with a woman rather than a man. they are much more gental and understanding, and i find woman more attractive than men. But i love men too so i cant really say i wouldnt want to be with a man. as for sex, i love sex with a man or woman, cant really complain lol
0XRandomGirlX0 1 month ago
OK... I prefer women! I'm a lesbian. I love the way they read between the lines and understand you, I love the empathy they are able to show, the emotions and the drama involved in a relationship with them... Everything! I love the body! It's so much interesting compared with a man's body! The curves are so much better than the lines! Also, women are more attentive, caring and compassionate. Well, that's just me! I've liked women since I was in nursery school... it's pretty much a personal thing
TheHelixNCG7293 1 month ago
I'm kinda confused cause I really like this girl at my school ( all girl school and she is my friend. Yes she knows) but I never thought of a girl in that way. But you know what really sucks? She has a fucking girlfriend :/
awesomness602 1 month ago
im bisexual but ive never had sex with a guy only with a girl an only one girl but been with her for almost 3 years but her ex boyfriend that used to talk to me said i dont really know what sex is but my gf says that out of the guys shes been with that im better then them i was wondering what you think about that if you havent had sex with a guy which i know you have but do you think the people that havent dont know what real sex is just bc their with a girl
xericaful 1 month ago
I've never really thought of men in a sexual way before, except when i was younger and confused. I'd have to say i think women can pretty much do what men can do, as you said, strap-ons. I think sex is all about personal taste, and what you're comfortable with. :') obviously i'm with girls on this one, but everyone is different. :')
MyDearLouise 1 month ago 3
@MyDearLouise im with u on this. like im bi but i WILL NEVER be sexual with a guy like their "parts" skeeve me out. Ill date a date, kiss a guy, etc but nothing under the belt, no way no how noot ever. I def prefer women thou :P
MsHoneyBee231 1 month ago
I'm a bisexual girl, I have yet to have sex with a boy, although I've done other things. But I still like women better. Way better. I would say it's about a 60/40.
Livmylifelivi 1 month ago
And another thing, I think the only serious issue I can think of with women and dating are the emotions. We tend to be more emotionally connected and attached. Which can be good or bad. I like being passionate and and emotionally in tune with my gfs but it can be an emotional battle sometimes so take that into account too.
ImmortalTheatre94 1 month ago
I'm bi and I'd have to say sex with a woman. Just bc there's more idk versatility? A girl generally knows what a girl wants. So you're more likely to get what you want in bed I think. However, guys are good but if he doesn't know what he's doing then know. I guess with a girl both dating and physiologically, that's my preference. I think it's just an all around better fit.
ImmortalTheatre94 1 month ago
I'm bisexual but I've never had sex with a man. I've only had sex with a woman. But I totally agree, woman know exactly what you want and how you want it. It's the best. ;)
Arrisun13 1 month ago
Hi Heather. You are so right. I totally support lesbian rights and wish that lesbians have a better quality of life. It is sad at how our society is so judgemental.
You are such a beautiful person both inside and out. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences with us youtubers.
NuzratHussein 1 month ago
Im a chic and bisexual and i honestly think that girls are better whether its on dating or sex.
Girls know what you want. Theyre more soft understanding and more caring then guys could ever be.
And ive been asked the same question of like why arent i just a lesbian then. But its like im not a lesbian because im not completely turned off by guys. Here and there you'll hear me say "Oh hes hot" if theirs a dude walking by thats attractive. Its just the fact that people dont realize that alot of
AllThatGlitter224 1 month ago
1 dislike? i can guess what gender that person was :)
ilo7717 1 month ago 33
hahaaaahahaha omg this is the best video on this channel
mrandmsglove 1 month ago
sex with girls are better because they are gentle and soft and it seems more romantic and they know just where to touch you in the right spots.
swtbabyy3 1 month ago
hey Heather, this video was so true and accurate, because people ask me this all the time , but honesty i think sex with a girlie is better because it more emotional , and not just in it to do it. :)
GlamorousPeacex 1 month ago
ps. could anybody please explain what's the meaning of fake dick? i mean, i know what it's for, but isn't lesbian sex supposed to be without any male genitalia resemblances? i always regarded it as something solely feminine, so to say.
lizaSlipknot 1 month ago
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emilyearmuffz 1 month ago
Thank you for speaking my mind! It's not easy to compare men and women in regards to having an emotional or a sexual relationship with one or the other. There are pros and cons in each part and i honestly find it hard to choose one. But being a woman, I feel that having sex with another woman is much more selfless and giving than it is with a man, and that to me is more rewarding and satisfying. It is, literally to give and to get.
Myazitah 1 month ago 20
I get more emotionally attached to girls than I do guys.
ReighnEllie 1 month ago
well i'm bi- virgin therefore i can't draw the conclusion yet whether are men or women better in the bed. anyhow i can solely personally tell that i'm aghast of men. i am. mayhap because 8 out of 10 are concerned only 'bout their impotent cocks and satisfying their needs. my biggest fear is that some random simian-like man may vanquish me (despite the fact that i'm almost as stalwart as they are) and...well you got the picture. i'm menphobic, so to say. thus i say girls
lizaSlipknot 1 month ago
No penis.
It's alien.
Girls
Straight up :)
SophiaSauras 1 month ago
*is a lesbian* women...theres so much more involved in the relationship and i honestly prefer the complications of how emotional the relationship can be. But I love my guys. if i get upset we go to the gym and spar =)
SatanicAngel2243 1 month ago
I'm more gay than bi, but apart from that it's hard for me to see myself dating another guy because of the weird lad culture going on here. And I haven't slept with a girl yet, but I think it would be very refreshing since it wouldn't be all about the penis all the time! And probably more enjoyable the whole way through instead of all the focus being on the orgasm. Hmm.
IevasWorld 1 month ago
I'm pansexual. I'm a virgin, but I've done sexual stuff with both guys and girls (obviously other than the full home run). I believe that both male and female people have very different qualities in terms of relationships and in the bedroom. I understand what you mean about girls and the drama and the hype. And there is nothing wrong with playing a domineering role. We always seem to seek out those who complement us, and sometimes that is apart of it :)
kaymaylou 1 month ago
I'm straight but a virgin. I can say from my masturbation episodes, especially with sex toys, I would suggest that your partner be good with their hands because most women honestly get off more on clitoral stimulation than penetration.
PrincessKLS 1 month ago
Homosexual here ad I just wanted to say that Penetration of any type in my Vagina does not feel good.
GIRLS
SammeSumiko 1 month ago
Bisexual - generally prefer girls for all the reasons you pretty much listed, haha.
HeyAly17 1 month ago
im a guy and I do know how to use the equipment lol..no offense taken Heather!!
tomx1704 1 month ago
im lesbian but ive been with a man before when i considered myself bisexual and even then i was very much more interested into lesbian sex. yes straight and gay sex is completely different in many ways but in my own opinion and experiences, the connection i have with the woman im with is so much more deep and meaningful. the passion is unreal and its just easier. if anyone has seen friends with benefits, mila and justin are telling eachother what to do while lesbians just dive right in.
2011sunshinegirl 1 month ago
I'm bi and I enjoy dating girls alot more than dating guys...just cuz girls know wat girls want...and true wen dating a guy its totally different....
Sex with a girl is better for me cuz Idk I just enjoy it I love everything about it...sex with a guy is good too but idk there is something about sex with a girl I enjoy
Lilstewie1313 1 month ago
Hello Heather I love your videos! I'm bisexual and for me it's not only a question of which of both sexes is the best in bed, for me, men and women have something completely different, beautiful, unique and special to share in sex. I believe that when you are in love with somebody, it doesn't matter if you meet a boy or a girl, you feel sexually and emotionally complete in all senses in that special time. For me both sexes deserve the same love, respect and dedication.
gusyverdetv 1 month ago
I have a crush on u...and I thought I didnt like white girls (no offense) lol
Lilstewie1313 1 month ago
Im gay but i was bi always liked girls better lol ig it makes since
ILikeGirlsCuzBreasts 1 month ago
You're right.. sex with a girl and sex with a guy is a COMPLETELY different experience, although they're both good... I'd say it has to depend on where I'm at in life. I think I like girls better when I want a more serious, deep relationship, and guys more when I just want a fling. Haha only because I can't imagine a fling ever working out with a girl. When it comes to just hookups, I'd rather have sex with a guy than a girl, because that's just easier... Although sex with a girl is more sensual
w3dg33 1 month ago
clone yourself nd send it to California =[
WalkerFamily55 1 month ago