If we allow the woman to pay for anything, she already disrespects us. You want us to treat you like a queen, buy you gifts, spend taking you out, pay your bills, which some eventually expect! You act as if we don't have bills of our own. In today's economy, it is not possible for men to shell out money like that. And those from past marriages and relationships are gouged with alimony and child support. And why are so many black women single? We don't want to pay for it..... then pay for it!
the truly disturbing part and what I would have liked him to speak about is why does he recommend the "90 day" program for women.The point of the interview is that he is a professing christian (a follower of the teachings of Jesus).Yet in his book he gives specific recommendations on how women should enter into sexual relationships outside of marriage; I am not being prudish.There is a difference in doing wrong & knowing vs denying. The Bible tells us how a person is to approach God the Father.
Lol I love the random outburst "psh look at this man right here!""
I agree totally with you. I feel like he's yet and yet he can be a bit demeaning. I just wanted to see what other woman thought about this book. It's compelling but slightly offensive. Anybody agree?
Will Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith and family. Will's dad played a big role on who he is today. Men are the only ones who can teach boys to become men. Period. A lot of those young women meet today were probably raised by mothers who have no clue how to teach their sons to be men without missing something vital. My dad worked construction, mom was a nurse. He drank and sometimes chased women (or they chased him). I got mentored by other men in life who taught me about fidelity from the old school.
Well I read the whole book and basically what I got from it is to basically be strong in what you want and say what you want ( in a sugar coated manner ) and if they can't deal with move on you know. Like for example... be lady in saying what you want and keeping the goodies to your self until he offers a relationship and set boundaries and stick to them. They can either respect you for being a lady or they will be boys and keep it pushing
Actually, you have it backwards. You can't wait for the men to become a man's man, you have to make them step up. Remember, there was a women's movement that destroyed chivalry, not a man's movement. That means that its going to take another collective movement among women to turn things back around. A real man doesn't have time for a woman that doesn't appreciate him.
Ok forgive me for miss reading your video I just no how hard it is out here for me and u out here.please understand that I was not trying to be neg ,I just know many men who would love yo black butt to death.u r in a very good position in this world and your mom must b proud
First of all I have issue with the phrase mans man ,second of all u walk pass real men every day and think nothing of them,they say hy to u and u keep walkin. Third I love u ,I think u r very articulate,and out going just give and average man a chance.
you can't put me in the box of the women that you see ignoring men that speak to them..I speak and am courteous to any and everyone that speaks to me..if I feel like conversing I'll stop and talk, if I'm on my way somewhere and/or don't feel like carrying a full convo, then I speak and carry on my way. TRUST and believe I have dated A LOT of so-called average men. I love all men! lol
@Dreaontv "Raised by a single mom". That's the problem. My mom was a strong womyn, NOTHING like what Steve described in that book and, guess what, she was and is still married because my father stuck with her AND took care of her. Don't listen to these people. Most are misogynist assholes and they want you to be like that so THEY CAN WALK AWAY WHEN THEY KNOCK YOU UP!
@SuperRavenRay SORRY FEMALE!!!!!! i can not stand the female race especially the "BLACK" female race. you are the type of spoiled ugly female demon that wants a man to pay for everything and buy you everything!!!! FORGET A FEMALE!!!!! i refuse to treat anybody as if they are a queen or some kind of golden angel. god is the only person that i will worship, i refuse to worship a silly female UGH!!!! females use there "you know what" between there legs to take advantage of men, UGH!!! pure evil
Don't let anyone who passes you by get to you like that. First of all, you don't know why they don't say hi, or just keep walkin as you say.Secondly, no one owes it to anyone to give them the time of day.Women are more inclined to be emotional by nature. If you(men) are a man holding onto bitterness over being "passed by" then it's gonna show.Women want a man to be more stable emotionally, because it makes them feel more secure in their man.So let it go, it's not worth holding onto
Don't let anyone who passes you by get to you like that. First of all, you don't know why they don't say hi, or just keep walkin as you say.Secondly, no one owes it to anyone to give them the time of day.Women are more inclined to be emotional by nature. If you(men) are a man holding onto bitterness over being "passed by" then it's gonna show.Women want a man to be more stable emotionally, because it makes them feel more secure in their man.So let it go, it's not worth holding onto
@deacon974 The reason why we run them up the street is because we don't want them. That is our right. At the end of the day, if we were not attractive to them, they would not even give us the time of day, so why should they feel entitled to our time and attention as if we are supposed to act frilly and happy that they are talking to us, as if they are doing us a favour. It is called street harassment. Sexual harassment. Male entitlement. It is about men wanting to dominate us and disrespect us.
@Avalita07 I'm with you on that! I refuse to be treated like a worthless trick cause if I did it to him he would have a freakin fit. I learned most guys only care about power not real love. Soon as he see you being weak in his corrupt eyes it's over for you.
I began w/ more but youtube cut off my comment. Anyways, I agree w/ u & Steve, we do need to be the women, & the guys that do the minimum we just gotta spot them easy on & cut them out, my ex was a great lesson & when I looked at it all and truly started applying it to my life, seems like it really cut out all the lame ass self proclaimed "men" that try to come around. It's just a matter of time before that man comes around that is gonna go above & beyond to impress us & show us that affection.
Apparantly everyone isn't saying what Steve Harvey is saying...the book is selling like hotcakes. So he is saying something that people haven't heard before.
Not entirely true, You can't speak for all women. Just becuase you think you've heard everything, doesn't give you the right to say that everybody has heard what Steve Harvey has said, cause the fact of the matter is they haven't.
@tom11zz884 Hey Tom. How about showin a lady a little respect right now? You can't speak for all woman either considering your name is Tom therefore I'm guessing you're a guy. We agree with some things in the book but not all things.
hey girl love your videos!!! u make me laugh to hard omg!!! anyway u r so right about men girl.. i was so used to being in a relationship doing everything paying, driving, taking care of all of it. i never knew the strong man i really want was right in front of me because i never thought of him like that but finally i gave him a chance and we've been together ever since. now we do for each other and he take care of me so there is someone out there hell he might just right in front of u!!!
well don't accept the D+. Don't accept the bare minimum. And they're not all "taken". I came to Canada couple years ago and an American fella asked me for a date. It was group dinner with his friends visiting Toronto for Caribana. When the cheques arrived he whispered that I didn't have to split the cheque, all I had to do was "pay for my own chicken salad"! I was flabbergasted. I simply told him I'm not paying a red cent. He was the man! I decided never to go out with another non-jamaican.
Basically it's comes down to WHAT YOU ARE WILLING TO ACCEPT. I don't accept nonsence. My body belongs to me, and I'm very valueable so any man who is interested has to bring something of value to the table. Paying for dinner is just the basics. It's what I'm used to in Jamaica and I'm not settling for less. I like me, so I'll not lower my standards to be with someone. I don't need a 'bare minimum' guy. Black women need to EXPECT MORE. Don't open your legs just because... Don't take over his role
Drea I think it's a good book, so far. I'm still reading it. but as a christian man I'm celibate therefore the 3 months rule don't apply to me. it's no sex untill married. that's me.Everyman don't think that way.
the woman in my family are big on sucking it up and not showing pain but i could never do it as well as they but i can see that i do it a lot more than i realize!
Yes i so totally agree. My husband is the provider of this household. we are expecting triplets. I think men need to not do half ass work and actually take care of their woman and household. Men no days are so weak and just don't care anymore. My husband is 21 and I'm 20 and I have very traditional values the man work and the womanstay at home. I wish more men man up and take care of their women and stop letting them work for some sorry person.
4:35 Yes Drea say IT, BITCHES! YOU KNOW U WANNA SAY IT! Seriously..a lot of them though are being raised only by their naturally care giving moms, who can't teach on how to be a man, and are being spoiled by their moms. And a lot of women as well are being raised by single mothers who have to wear the pants and like u said we're mimicing our moms. So the roles are reversed now and we're becoming their second mothers instead of 2 individuals who are stable in their intended man/woman roles.
omg....i completely agree with the men being men comment. my dude is so not on that level & i pretty much take the man role in my relationship. it's really annoying but it's something that has become a bad habit. i'm barely going on 21 so i'm still learning. i might have to go get his book.
one, being a man that the role of provider is second nature to them. two, a man isn't fragile and overly emotional about every damn thing. three, a man that isn't comfortable with a woman taking care of them and WANTS to get out and earn his own way...you know what? the list goes on and on. you get the idea.
I loved this book ,but this REALLY should be read by the younger generation. Nobody knows their roles,women run it ! PERIOD.Were the 1st teacher of everybody. We teach people how to treat us . P.s leave your wallet at home .lol.
I am on chapter 2 and I must say the book is interesting. Its hard to know who is paying nowdays when you go out. I just keep money on me just in case
I was going to read it as well, but he turned me off when he made appearances promoting the book. I agree with a lot of what he had to say but what I did not appreciate was how he puts the blame on Women for cheating Men. Talking bout, Men cheat because there are so many Women willing to do it. Yea fucken right! How about.... Men, just stop looking at those Women and try harder to be faithful. It is not all on the Woman! Sorry but I felt pretty passionate about that lol.....
I agree. he blamed women to much, alos he made men it appear as if all men want is sex, Sure immature men just want sex, but real men want the ENTIRE WOMAN.
Exactly! Sure, he had to make it a bit controversial to sell...people love drama! But why not hold men responsible? I think its a lot of work to cheat. You got the lying, the sneaking around, the guilt (which is not always a given of course). What I mean to say is, it takes time and energy and a cheating man will do it, whether there's someone openly available, or if he has to work for it.
Omg... um, did we read the same book? How did you even get that from the book? He was letting WOMEN know how to spot the real thing and how to check the fakes. How to keep your eyes open and know what kind of man is a good man...especially since alot of BLACk women didn't grow up with their fathers in the household to tell them. Geesh.
@imjustagurl2 A SMART HIGH SELF A STEM MAN WILL NOT STRESS THEM SELVES JUST TO TREAT YOU SORRY ASS SPOILED GOOD FOR NOTHING FEMALES LIKE QUEENS!!!! YOU WOMEN ARE SORRY AND PATHETIC!!!! YOU SILLY FEMALES HAVE FORGOT ABOUT YOUR HISTORY. WE HAVE VERY FEW WOMEN IN TODAY'S SOCIETY THAT ARE HARD WORKERS. WOMEN ARE GIRLS IN TODAY'S SOCIETY.
oh no ma'am... you pay!.lol.. chile, actually I know where you coming from. I am guilty of the similar things. I grew up in a single parent home and my mother showed very little emotion, so it have me like that in relationships. So many men want me to be more "girlie" and not take care of stuff, but that's just me...
Girlfriend, indeed we are all a work in progress! Men aren't being men because there was a woman around that didn't make him! We gave our power away & we are playing by men's rules. If only we as women knew the power of the punany!! LOL Good video suga!
Brothers that expect sistas to pay for dates or for dinner are just out of line if you ask me. I would be embarrassed to ask a woman for money or sit back while she pays for stuff. What in the world has happened to these brothers? And how do they end up with all the good women? Man, I'm in the Twilight Zone. I give up. Nice video Drea.
Andrea! That book was amazing, wasn't it??? WOW!!! I already started cutting MFs off and demanding my Got-damn respect! We'll see if it pays off.... Steve is on POINT!
I am a Man, Steve Harvey Wrote a Good book, but REAL MEN do not fit into the box he put brothers in, REAL MEN handle thier business, with their kids etc. Women must UP their Standards and the MEN will MEET THEM AT THE HIGHER LEVEL.
First of all Steve is my main man so he can do no wrong in my book, lol. I read the book once but am about to read it again to take mental notes. It is definitely a good read and though he speaks on things that we as women already know, it is always good to hear certain ideas again so we can truly peep game. I like when he discusses how men and women are diff. and we can't expect a man to want to go shopping with us or hear us go on about what so and so did at work, .I am guilty of both lol
Great points! This book was IT for me. You are so right. We would love to be the feminine sensitive ladies but we have to multi task a little too much. Some men are so lax in the courting department. It's like they are asking to come over the first time you lay eyes on them.
If we allow the woman to pay for anything, she already disrespects us. You want us to treat you like a queen, buy you gifts, spend taking you out, pay your bills, which some eventually expect! You act as if we don't have bills of our own. In today's economy, it is not possible for men to shell out money like that. And those from past marriages and relationships are gouged with alimony and child support. And why are so many black women single? We don't want to pay for it..... then pay for it!
CSILogic 3 months ago
What the hell does Steve Harvey know?
JRock005 10 months ago
the truly disturbing part and what I would have liked him to speak about is why does he recommend the "90 day" program for women.The point of the interview is that he is a professing christian (a follower of the teachings of Jesus).Yet in his book he gives specific recommendations on how women should enter into sexual relationships outside of marriage; I am not being prudish.There is a difference in doing wrong & knowing vs denying. The Bible tells us how a person is to approach God the Father.
shieldsff 1 year ago
Lol I love the random outburst "psh look at this man right here!""
I agree totally with you. I feel like he's yet and yet he can be a bit demeaning. I just wanted to see what other woman thought about this book. It's compelling but slightly offensive. Anybody agree?
ParkourHardcore7 1 year ago
Will Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith and family. Will's dad played a big role on who he is today. Men are the only ones who can teach boys to become men. Period. A lot of those young women meet today were probably raised by mothers who have no clue how to teach their sons to be men without missing something vital. My dad worked construction, mom was a nurse. He drank and sometimes chased women (or they chased him). I got mentored by other men in life who taught me about fidelity from the old school.
Sire743 1 year ago
Give up the goodies
MrLocario 1 year ago
Well I read the whole book and basically what I got from it is to basically be strong in what you want and say what you want ( in a sugar coated manner ) and if they can't deal with move on you know. Like for example... be lady in saying what you want and keeping the goodies to your self until he offers a relationship and set boundaries and stick to them. They can either respect you for being a lady or they will be boys and keep it pushing
lahana24 1 year ago
Harvey is on his third wife. What makes him a expert on relationships now? Maybe it's money. lol
nmr20067 1 year ago 2
Actually, you have it backwards. You can't wait for the men to become a man's man, you have to make them step up. Remember, there was a women's movement that destroyed chivalry, not a man's movement. That means that its going to take another collective movement among women to turn things back around. A real man doesn't have time for a woman that doesn't appreciate him.
donnis618 1 year ago
Ok forgive me for miss reading your video I just no how hard it is out here for me and u out here.please understand that I was not trying to be neg ,I just know many men who would love yo black butt to death.u r in a very good position in this world and your mom must b proud
deacon974 1 year ago
First of all I have issue with the phrase mans man ,second of all u walk pass real men every day and think nothing of them,they say hy to u and u keep walkin. Third I love u ,I think u r very articulate,and out going just give and average man a chance.
deacon974 1 year ago
@deacon974
you can't put me in the box of the women that you see ignoring men that speak to them..I speak and am courteous to any and everyone that speaks to me..if I feel like conversing I'll stop and talk, if I'm on my way somewhere and/or don't feel like carrying a full convo, then I speak and carry on my way. TRUST and believe I have dated A LOT of so-called average men. I love all men! lol
Dreaontv 1 year ago
@Dreaontv "Raised by a single mom". That's the problem. My mom was a strong womyn, NOTHING like what Steve described in that book and, guess what, she was and is still married because my father stuck with her AND took care of her. Don't listen to these people. Most are misogynist assholes and they want you to be like that so THEY CAN WALK AWAY WHEN THEY KNOCK YOU UP!
SuperRavenRay 9 months ago
@SuperRavenRay SORRY FEMALE!!!!!! i can not stand the female race especially the "BLACK" female race. you are the type of spoiled ugly female demon that wants a man to pay for everything and buy you everything!!!! FORGET A FEMALE!!!!! i refuse to treat anybody as if they are a queen or some kind of golden angel. god is the only person that i will worship, i refuse to worship a silly female UGH!!!! females use there "you know what" between there legs to take advantage of men, UGH!!! pure evil
medicalterrylove2 1 month ago
@deacon974
Don't let anyone who passes you by get to you like that. First of all, you don't know why they don't say hi, or just keep walkin as you say.Secondly, no one owes it to anyone to give them the time of day.Women are more inclined to be emotional by nature. If you(men) are a man holding onto bitterness over being "passed by" then it's gonna show.Women want a man to be more stable emotionally, because it makes them feel more secure in their man.So let it go, it's not worth holding onto
Varkest 1 year ago
@deacon974
Don't let anyone who passes you by get to you like that. First of all, you don't know why they don't say hi, or just keep walkin as you say.Secondly, no one owes it to anyone to give them the time of day.Women are more inclined to be emotional by nature. If you(men) are a man holding onto bitterness over being "passed by" then it's gonna show.Women want a man to be more stable emotionally, because it makes them feel more secure in their man.So let it go, it's not worth holding onto
Varkest 1 year ago
@deacon974 The reason why we run them up the street is because we don't want them. That is our right. At the end of the day, if we were not attractive to them, they would not even give us the time of day, so why should they feel entitled to our time and attention as if we are supposed to act frilly and happy that they are talking to us, as if they are doing us a favour. It is called street harassment. Sexual harassment. Male entitlement. It is about men wanting to dominate us and disrespect us.
SuperRavenRay 9 months ago
yea guys want MULTIPLE women & they want to use & abuse women. the world will end soon.....
and I will NOT be a prissy little turd...I aint being submissiv e & let my guard down so some fool can break my heart,....oooo NO!
Avalita07 2 years ago 2
@Avalita07 I'm with you on that! I refuse to be treated like a worthless trick cause if I did it to him he would have a freakin fit. I learned most guys only care about power not real love. Soon as he see you being weak in his corrupt eyes it's over for you.
xOxLaDyStaRxOx 1 year ago
I began w/ more but youtube cut off my comment. Anyways, I agree w/ u & Steve, we do need to be the women, & the guys that do the minimum we just gotta spot them easy on & cut them out, my ex was a great lesson & when I looked at it all and truly started applying it to my life, seems like it really cut out all the lame ass self proclaimed "men" that try to come around. It's just a matter of time before that man comes around that is gonna go above & beyond to impress us & show us that affection.
specialkay 2 years ago
Apparantly everyone isn't saying what Steve Harvey is saying...the book is selling like hotcakes. So he is saying something that people haven't heard before.
tom11zz884 2 years ago
its selling like hotcakes because people are buying it thinking that they are going to read something new that they don't already know, but alas....
Dreaontv 2 years ago
Not entirely true, You can't speak for all women. Just becuase you think you've heard everything, doesn't give you the right to say that everybody has heard what Steve Harvey has said, cause the fact of the matter is they haven't.
tom11zz884 2 years ago
I'm speaking from my point of view..not all women.
Dreaontv 2 years ago
@tom11zz884 Hey Tom. How about showin a lady a little respect right now? You can't speak for all woman either considering your name is Tom therefore I'm guessing you're a guy. We agree with some things in the book but not all things.
ParkourHardcore7 1 year ago
Since you are a f*ckin lady, i am sure you will like Electrik Red and their album 'How To Be A Lady Vol.1' cos they are some f*ckin ladies too!
MiissCiia 2 years ago
lips looks good
biggray94 2 years ago
hey girl love your videos!!! u make me laugh to hard omg!!! anyway u r so right about men girl.. i was so used to being in a relationship doing everything paying, driving, taking care of all of it. i never knew the strong man i really want was right in front of me because i never thought of him like that but finally i gave him a chance and we've been together ever since. now we do for each other and he take care of me so there is someone out there hell he might just right in front of u!!!
shanell8808 2 years ago
thats the truth!!
Dreaontv 2 years ago
well don't accept the D+. Don't accept the bare minimum. And they're not all "taken". I came to Canada couple years ago and an American fella asked me for a date. It was group dinner with his friends visiting Toronto for Caribana. When the cheques arrived he whispered that I didn't have to split the cheque, all I had to do was "pay for my own chicken salad"! I was flabbergasted. I simply told him I'm not paying a red cent. He was the man! I decided never to go out with another non-jamaican.
Trelli28 2 years ago
Basically it's comes down to WHAT YOU ARE WILLING TO ACCEPT. I don't accept nonsence. My body belongs to me, and I'm very valueable so any man who is interested has to bring something of value to the table. Paying for dinner is just the basics. It's what I'm used to in Jamaica and I'm not settling for less. I like me, so I'll not lower my standards to be with someone. I don't need a 'bare minimum' guy. Black women need to EXPECT MORE. Don't open your legs just because... Don't take over his role
Trelli28 2 years ago
@Trelli28. Well said. im fro JA also, St. Ann, growing up my grandd or dad was always playing their role VERY well. Women must not settle.
AnnaleishaMae 1 year ago
You're so pretty and confident.
shannonmccray 2 years ago
Drea I think it's a good book, so far. I'm still reading it. but as a christian man I'm celibate therefore the 3 months rule don't apply to me. it's no sex untill married. that's me.Everyman don't think that way.
theoneandthree 2 years ago 7
the woman in my family are big on sucking it up and not showing pain but i could never do it as well as they but i can see that i do it a lot more than i realize!
msdragonfly1 2 years ago
Bottom Line like the movie title "A Few Good Men"
AKingZWldAQu33nZUnVZ 2 years ago
Yes i so totally agree. My husband is the provider of this household. we are expecting triplets. I think men need to not do half ass work and actually take care of their woman and household. Men no days are so weak and just don't care anymore. My husband is 21 and I'm 20 and I have very traditional values the man work and the womanstay at home. I wish more men man up and take care of their women and stop letting them work for some sorry person.
sade7998 2 years ago
Girl I love you. I'm a girl as well, but I think you are very nice and smart.
timelessHodan 2 years ago 2
4:35 Yes Drea say IT, BITCHES! YOU KNOW U WANNA SAY IT! Seriously..a lot of them though are being raised only by their naturally care giving moms, who can't teach on how to be a man, and are being spoiled by their moms. And a lot of women as well are being raised by single mothers who have to wear the pants and like u said we're mimicing our moms. So the roles are reversed now and we're becoming their second mothers instead of 2 individuals who are stable in their intended man/woman roles.
creditr00ster 2 years ago
Love the road rage in the middle of your sentence. I'm the same way.
supamiss 2 years ago
omg....i completely agree with the men being men comment. my dude is so not on that level & i pretty much take the man role in my relationship. it's really annoying but it's something that has become a bad habit. i'm barely going on 21 so i'm still learning. i might have to go get his book.
skiNNyTHiCK88 2 years ago
thanx 4 the quick tips from the book, i was thinking of buying this book but im only 19..why am i working so hard to make sure i dont slip up? lmao
FierceInTraining 2 years ago
@ fierceintraining
LOL! exactly! live it up girlie! 19 is the fun time :)
Dreaontv 2 years ago
WTF Is A Mans Man
JOEGOODIE561 2 years ago
@ joegoodie
a lot of things makes the term 'mans man'
one, being a man that the role of provider is second nature to them. two, a man isn't fragile and overly emotional about every damn thing. three, a man that isn't comfortable with a woman taking care of them and WANTS to get out and earn his own way...you know what? the list goes on and on. you get the idea.
Dreaontv 2 years ago
I loved this book ,but this REALLY should be read by the younger generation. Nobody knows their roles,women run it ! PERIOD.Were the 1st teacher of everybody. We teach people how to treat us . P.s leave your wallet at home .lol.
HIMAY10NENCE 2 years ago
@ himay10nence
ahh yes! wallet at home! lol
Dreaontv 2 years ago
Oh yeah. Congrats on your 700 miss!!! Holllerrrrrrr!
missbrownsuga444 2 years ago
You are a mess with your angry driving,
I understand what you're saying but there are plenty of good men out there!
missbrownsuga444 2 years ago
@ tyler
I truly do think they're out there, but maaaaaaaan l.a. don't have many to choose from suga. not single ones anyway I should say.
Dreaontv 2 years ago
LMAO, why would you want a man's man? I always thought that man's man would be gay... LMAO, just joking..
I had the book autographed by him two weeks ago when he came to Augusta!
Good Video
One Luv
Pat (5 of them thangz)
YoBoiPat 2 years ago
@ pat
I'll take one of those too...lol you know I luuuvs the kids!
Dreaontv 2 years ago
Great video Andrea!
aprilshowers7159 2 years ago
I am on chapter 2 and I must say the book is interesting. Its hard to know who is paying nowdays when you go out. I just keep money on me just in case
Delicious4Ant 2 years ago 2
I was going to read it as well, but he turned me off when he made appearances promoting the book. I agree with a lot of what he had to say but what I did not appreciate was how he puts the blame on Women for cheating Men. Talking bout, Men cheat because there are so many Women willing to do it. Yea fucken right! How about.... Men, just stop looking at those Women and try harder to be faithful. It is not all on the Woman! Sorry but I felt pretty passionate about that lol.....
imjustagurl2 2 years ago 10
I agree. he blamed women to much, alos he made men it appear as if all men want is sex, Sure immature men just want sex, but real men want the ENTIRE WOMAN.
elmoore75 2 years ago
Exactly! Sure, he had to make it a bit controversial to sell...people love drama! But why not hold men responsible? I think its a lot of work to cheat. You got the lying, the sneaking around, the guilt (which is not always a given of course). What I mean to say is, it takes time and energy and a cheating man will do it, whether there's someone openly available, or if he has to work for it.
imjustagurl2 2 years ago
Omg... um, did we read the same book? How did you even get that from the book? He was letting WOMEN know how to spot the real thing and how to check the fakes. How to keep your eyes open and know what kind of man is a good man...especially since alot of BLACk women didn't grow up with their fathers in the household to tell them. Geesh.
aprilshowers7159 2 years ago
honey that kinda what she said. LISTEN PLESE
Citygurl27 2 years ago
@imjustagurl2 A SMART HIGH SELF A STEM MAN WILL NOT STRESS THEM SELVES JUST TO TREAT YOU SORRY ASS SPOILED GOOD FOR NOTHING FEMALES LIKE QUEENS!!!! YOU WOMEN ARE SORRY AND PATHETIC!!!! YOU SILLY FEMALES HAVE FORGOT ABOUT YOUR HISTORY. WE HAVE VERY FEW WOMEN IN TODAY'S SOCIETY THAT ARE HARD WORKERS. WOMEN ARE GIRLS IN TODAY'S SOCIETY.
medicalterrylove2 1 month ago
@medicalterrylove2 awww did someone just do you dirty?? lmao!
imjustagurl2 1 month ago
oh no ma'am... you pay!.lol.. chile, actually I know where you coming from. I am guilty of the similar things. I grew up in a single parent home and my mother showed very little emotion, so it have me like that in relationships. So many men want me to be more "girlie" and not take care of stuff, but that's just me...
Thanks for the vid.
luvthedewgirl 2 years ago
wow a french roll..lol...hows the master cleanse going
cami91500 2 years ago
Girlfriend, indeed we are all a work in progress! Men aren't being men because there was a woman around that didn't make him! We gave our power away & we are playing by men's rules. If only we as women knew the power of the punany!! LOL Good video suga!
thedirtypeachatl 2 years ago
Concurrence!
TheXDexperience 2 years ago
Brothers that expect sistas to pay for dates or for dinner are just out of line if you ask me. I would be embarrassed to ask a woman for money or sit back while she pays for stuff. What in the world has happened to these brothers? And how do they end up with all the good women? Man, I'm in the Twilight Zone. I give up. Nice video Drea.
madefrom9 2 years ago
Andrea! That book was amazing, wasn't it??? WOW!!! I already started cutting MFs off and demanding my Got-damn respect! We'll see if it pays off.... Steve is on POINT!
Provide, Profess, Protect!!
aprilshowers7159 2 years ago
Oh yeah, @ offering to pay.
Gosh girlie, I'm so guilty of doing that too! I know we are independent, but damn... I'm glad he touched on that too!
Old habits, I'm throwing that ish out the window.
aprilshowers7159 2 years ago
I am a Man, Steve Harvey Wrote a Good book, but REAL MEN do not fit into the box he put brothers in, REAL MEN handle thier business, with their kids etc. Women must UP their Standards and the MEN will MEET THEM AT THE HIGHER LEVEL.
elmoore75 2 years ago
GIRL HOW the hell dO u drive and vlog at the same time?!? lol
DAAANGER!
KayKirb 2 years ago
Hey i spoke to you on BlogTV!
Its chewy, i was underage so i had to go!
lol how r you!
tinysstupidstunts25 2 years ago
good vid. but steve has totally lost credibility with me along time ago when i realized that he completely caters to his female listeners only.
andsanp 2 years ago
First of all Steve is my main man so he can do no wrong in my book, lol. I read the book once but am about to read it again to take mental notes. It is definitely a good read and though he speaks on things that we as women already know, it is always good to hear certain ideas again so we can truly peep game. I like when he discusses how men and women are diff. and we can't expect a man to want to go shopping with us or hear us go on about what so and so did at work, .I am guilty of both lol
cocoagirl00 2 years ago
@ cocoagirl00
lol hey at least you're aware of what you do! :)
Dreaontv 2 years ago
Great points! This book was IT for me. You are so right. We would love to be the feminine sensitive ladies but we have to multi task a little too much. Some men are so lax in the courting department. It's like they are asking to come over the first time you lay eyes on them.
Lauriette31 2 years ago
@ lauriette31
thats because they've gotten used to not trying..for each ONE woman that tells them 'no', you have 5 that will tell him 'yes'
Makes it hard for chicks with some sense about themselves to nab that 'great guy'
Dreaontv 2 years ago
So very true. There will always be women open to appease them and not set any standards at all.
Lauriette31 2 years ago
I completely agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
humblechick3000 2 years ago