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  • Totally agree w you. A cheater takes the blame. If he/she doesnt cheat w you, they will cheat w someone else.

  • Agreeed besides flirting with the bf of my best friend part, lol

  • Amen :)

  • this is still OH DEAR ¬¬

  • well ur not a homewreker so dont worry about it

  • u jx contridicted urself dummy

  • why aren't the men called homewreckers? why do some women want their guy back after shitting on them? they always blame the girl he cheated on with. you should blame him, because you were in a realtionship with him not her.  you should be thankful in the end for finding out what a shit your partner was.

  • but i disagree with you on the friends flirting with your bf/gf. it's just wrong and disrespectful, real friends wouldn't do that.

    as much as you keep preaching on how it's okay for friends to betray each other like that, i know you wouldn't like it if your friend flirted with your bf.

  • we defintley think alike on some things. i always say you can't "steal" someone because they were willing, and that you shouldn't want that person back or try to get back with that person, because they aren't in love with you. people should be thankful their partner got exposed, instead of whining about how they cheated. they wont waste your time anymore, move on with life and be glad that you wont be betrayed by them anymore.

  • Idontt consider them a homewrecker, i consider them a hoe!

  • I totally agree with this video!! :D

  • Friendship is based on loyalty. Is it loyal to try and break your best friend and their partner up for your own benefit? NO. So you wouldn't be a true friend if you did that. And if you were "soul mates" there wouldn't need to be any meddling involved.

  • a Homewrecker is when u hit on marryed people .....just sayn 

  • If he/she flirts back he/she is a douche bag period ! =p

  • This is so true.

  • so chris, if the tables were turned, and someone was calling your man at four in the morning, or your best friend was trying to pick up your man- you wouldn't be angry or upset? you'd say, "oh, don't call him a homewrecker"? really..

  • I'm sorry, I'm going to sound like the biggest fuck face but I actually agree completely with Chris! lol I have a boyfriend - he's hot. I know girls are checking him out and that girls flirt - he's in the army what do ya expect? I don't get mad about that though I get mad if he flirts back (not that he has coz otherwise he'd be my ex by now) but if he did then I'd be saying bye bye.

  • So true..... Them bitches need to go to hell if they flirtin with someone else while they with u.

  • Wiintendoh:

    F u.

  • 2:43-2:45 u have Ur way w/ alot of taken man as in u pay them

  • I get what he's saying, but at the same time your best friend shouldn't be trying to date your boyfriend/girlfriend. They should respect your relationship and not try to ruin it.

  • MsStephybb:

    Ur just bein a bitch. Admitting ur better is bein a bitch who cares if ur better. Maybe the guy is just usin u n ur so low to accept that.. Now its ur time to think "whose the homewrecker now?" cause clearly ur goin into others business without being "honest" quit bein a bitch n a stealer n find ur own man!

  • Thank you finally who understands I'm not a home wrecker I'm just better for him and he wants me instead

  • I don't call the girls that hit on my man home wreckers... I call them pathetic, because they keep showing me over and over again how committed my man is to me ;p and how jealous they are OF me :)

  • FLIRTING: casual talking and/or laughing between the partner and another person that is usually overexaggerated and labeled by their incesure gf/bf

  • at first, i thought you were crazy. BUT, it's true that you can't steal the willing. If your man sleeps with another woman, don't fight HER and make up with your boy. Sometimes, the woman doesn't even know about you and your man was more than willing.

  • I agree all the way with what r u saying

  • I somewhat agree with what he is saying. 

  • actually I agree. xDDD Prolly cause I've been there done that. And it was my best friend and he did flirt back the second he started doin to much I told her "look your guy isn't faithful you dont needa be with him" she didn't listen I left it alone said "whatevs I warned you" and of course it ended badly and she was like "I shoulda listened to you" psh DUH! IDK I'd never hurt a friend on purpose though. none of my friends would really be offended, or ever have been. lolz

  • i agree n disagree but 2 me its fucked up if ur best friend is flirtin with ur bf/gf like ur best friend shouldnt do that n they r certain boundaries. n that person were ur true best friend they wouldnt do that 2 hurt.

  • i wouldnt call the girl thats callin my boyfriend at four in the morning a homewrecker per say..id call her crazy:P

  • its ok if the guy is willing, but then again its not ok becuase ur hurting a friend

  • Ok I kind of agree. It's very true that you cant steal someone who's willing. But that doesn't mean you're not partly responsible if the person ends up being unfaithful with you. It takes two people (ok three technically) to have an affair. And sometimes maybe the relationship can be saved and you're not doing anyone a favour at all. Thing is, you cant know what would have happened. Sometimes an affair can be a really good thing too, but... you still have to take your part of the blame.

  • I didn't know you can rape the willing. -sarcasm- lmao

  • this is actually the first one of his videos that might at least make a little sense! hahah :P

  • @rennah

  • it is somewhat true, but in ways its still wrong because your trying to get them to break up and steal them so yeah it makes you a bad friend

  • Hell yes!

  • You wouldnt be saying that if someone was flirting with your boyfriend. 

  • If it's ment to be it will happen with out you being disrespectful to your friends or other people. Your not a friend to them if you don't give a crap on whether they are hurt or not, don't go looking for love where it's already found by someone else, don't break there hearts. Let love find you.

  • to zosterrrr45 on one week ago

    okay mate yer iin obvisly the azzui

    yew dont know how iit iis iin the states come here

    and wiill teach yew a thiing or to okay MATE:)

  • "you can't rape the willing..sometimes.." lol

  • OMG YES!!! My (former) friend had a fucking conniption fit a little while back because I was crushing on her boyfriend. I didn't even flirt with him! She just knew I liked him and she FLIPPED OUT. She was all like, "He's straight and he will never love you." To which I said, "Oh really? Honey, if you were so sure of that we wouldn't be talking about this, now would we?"

  • mate, no one should flirt with another girl's man. there's a girl at my school who does it with all the girl's boyfriends and she's not very popular as a result. So you are wrong. STFU.

  • You make an eccelent point. :)

  • I think you are wrong. But I respect ur opinion!

  • @jacoboscar79 that literally made me laugh out loudd :))

  • Fine I won't call her a homewrecker. But I will call her on her phone and tell her to back the fuck up or her neighbor will be calling the paramedics so they can come scrape her off the walls ok? My man is loyal and he doesn't flirt with anybody. But if any bitch thinks she's gonna hit on my man she's gonna hit on the pavement. End of story. No sequel. No "if"s "and"s or "but"s about it.

  • @Shawnabear15

    then why would she be calliin yer

    man thiink how the fuck diid she get the numbver iingront ass

  • ya but would u get mad if ur bestie flirted with ur bf? i would

  • Yes but hitting on your best friend's bf/gf is disrespectful. That's basically saying you would like them to break up and you would hurt your friend in such a way. Flirting may be harmless to a good relationship - but it is still emotionally hurtful.

  • I totally agree with u on this 100% its not wrong @ all.

  • AGREED!!!!

  • I agree, as long as these people are honest. I mean, it's either they do it behind you back and you think "wow, he loves me so much." or you actually know the truth, he isn't all that into you. Hitting on married people is a little different, but you know, dating isn't forever.

  • I COMPLETLY disagree with you, but i respect your opinion

  • i still dont think people should hit on other ppl's boyfriends/girlfriends, but u actually made some valid points.

  • exactly what i think ! :D

  • good point....

  • You cause no break up foo, u cause da giggles.

  • DATS FUCKD UP DUDE...IM SORRY BUT UR WRONG WAIT NVM IDK...

  • DATS FUCKD UP DUDE...IM SORRY BUT UR WRONG

  • You made some good points here.

  • Just like you can't rape the willing... Sometimes.

  • You are my fucking hero, Like no joke! ♥

  • Chris Crocker; OMG! You are so right, this video it the absolute truth! You're amazing, & I love your videos (:

    -Elizabeth! (:

  • I absolutely love this, it never gets old. Life is real, shit is real. People love to blame anyone & anything for their misery. Misery loves company silly fools.

  • Hate to say he has a point....

    Although its extremist but in some ways its right.

  • you must die! I hate you and not only you every gay out there! i hate you all! i just want to gather you all up on some island and nuke it! you are unholy and just WRONG! if you and i were face to face i would take an m- 1000 and shove it down your neck!

  • @MegaDragoz "Unholy"? Your hatred towards us is a sin, just like being gay supposedly is. And remember, no sin is worse than another. So you can't use the bible as an excuse for your ignorance.

  • @MegaDragoz

    I don't agree with homosexuality because I'm a christian as well, but in the bible Jesus didn't befriend "holy" people , he hung out with drunks, addicts, adulterers, people who needed help. And for you to sit there and say if you could you'd put all gay people on an island and nuke them & shove a m- 1000 down someone neck, that's very UNHOLY of you.

    like I said you can disagree with what someone does or believes in, but you should respect them.

  • @itschriscroker hey on this video let me tell you why its is ok.. my girl flirts around with my best friends and what it is is it makes me feel like sh6t and when your really in love with someone and you know your in love with them and behind your back there doin sh9t it makes you feel like you lost your world and btw its about makeing them see the serious side.. seeing tho that your um homo if thats what it is then no i cant see that u know much about straight love ok

  • i agree.

  • woow now fags have the right of speach in my place we do it the old fashion way FAG DRAG BEATTING AWESOME STUFF

  • I agree with this in some ways! I mean if your man is hitting on others ur not ment to be.

  • i see your point but ppl mess up. Soccer moms go out and do meth, ppl loyal by nature will cheat, ppl mess up, ppl get confused, ppl are fallible. it dznt mean they dont love you or that they are bad ppl. sometimes ppl have to fall down and fuck up to see what n who is real in their lives, and a friend who'd go after ur honey isnt real. if my friend went after my hubby and the advance was unwanted do you think hubbs would wanna b around them? no, it ruins families n friendships, just dont do it.

  • i'll kick my bf' and bestie's ass if they do this to me.

  • Totally agree!!!

  • maybe a random flirtation, I can understand because it takes two. But if your friend does it, both of them are those that you confide with and trust so they should respect you by either not doing it or if it is truly an undeniable connection, then come forward with it.

  • wow i just lost all respect for you.

  • im married and a mother of 2, but if anyone came and tried taking him away, messing up what i got and he doesnt want u. u a homewrecking bitch in my book still. cause a real woman has class and and if the hoe has a heart and thinks how that make her feel she'd keep her little self away from whats not hers!

  • I WANT TO KILL PUNCH A HOLE THROUGH YOUR FACE!!!!

  • You're incredibly intelligent. <3

  • Wow, I agree with all this :)

  • Stupid transy and please don't send messages or comment back cause I'm not in the mood to argue!!

  • i like your little snap.

  • My first love did shit with my bestfriend nd i hated her ever since. But i totally agree with what your saying. I wish i wouldve watched this video before all that shit happend, it really wouldve changed the way i delt with things. I left his ass hella fast tho.

  • Why would you want to flirt with taken people?

    Have some manners...

  • I absolutely love Chris Crocker, despite the fact that some of his vids just make me frustrated to the core..but I just can't help but love him and his opinions about things.

    1. he's adorable to me

    2. he never lets anyone or anything get to him in the comments he just says whatever and moves on

    3. he's extremely creative with things.

  • hey u should get a tutu thatd be friggin awesome

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  • i gree but i still dont like them

  • Respect on this vid, "you cant rape the willing" they are willing to screw around. oh well.

  • chris, i think some of your videos are crazy. actually, i thought you were crazy until i watched this. its so true!

  • wow i havent even heard of the phrase 'homewrecker'! who the hell does this guy thnk he is! hes is just annoying the hell outta everyone!! i just love watching his videos cuz hes so freaking STUPID!! GET A LIFE DUDE!!!!!!

  • @Smexychic33 You embarrassed yourself. Your the ONLY bad comment. Fucker. And if you haven't heard the word homewrecker before then you are really stupid, he ain't aggravatin' anyone, you are. Who says smexy anymore by the way?

  • @Smexychic33 You must be new around here, let me start by saying "welcome to the internet".

  • @Smexychic33 You have hate issues. And I'm sure he's gonna do whatever he wants to do with his life just like everyone else. So just shush. (:

  • @Smexychic33 ...Chris Crocker is smarter and more intelligently advanced then you will ever be in this lifetime.

  • Before I was born, before my parents even got married, my dad was living with my mom and her best friend was over, and was staying at my mom's apartment or something, and she walked out practically naked, sat on my dad's lap, and all my dad did was say "get off me".

  • This reminds me of a song by lovehatehero called she puts the ho in homewrecker

  • For the first time, I would have to agree.

  • Amen Chris, cheers to ya!!

  • i agree with you but i just have to make this point...

    poeple are posesive of other people so its not that strange for somone to get posesive or pissed off at some one for flirting.

    why? because their not confedent enuf in themselvs to trust that

    their just scared that they will lose some one that is or they think is important to them!

  • u r dumb u r going 2 get sameones ass kicked baby so shut up

  • agreeeeeeeed!

  • "he dont wanna be in your bed... he wants to be in mine"

    *bites finger* ^.^ lmao love it !! <3

  • totally with u!!! love ya chris!

  • yes yes thank you

  • i love the way u explained it!!! ITS SO TRUE!!!

  • wow you are so amazingly right. makes soo much sense!! i mean why would you want a relationship thats just bullshit.

  • :) hahahhah, geniouss<3

  • what freaks wana be in your bed?!

  • If someone seeks to destory a relationship...that makes them a homewrecker. That doesn't mean that person alone is reponsible. The cheater in the relationship is too. But for what reason would you try to come between two people unless you have bad intentions? To say "I was trying to show you he was a cheater at heart by making him cheat with me" fails because we are all capable of falling short in relationships; and life. Home wreckers do exist and never have good intentions.

  • 100% true, very interesting way to look at it

  • damn i never tho i would say this to YOU!! but i AGREE with you!!

  • Couldn't agree more

  • i agree towards the middle to end too

  • this is true!!!

  • how bout the girl is just a whore for homewrecking? i mean homewrecking, the word homewrecking, was made for these situations. & even so, whores needa back off guyses nuts if he has a girl.

  • flirtng can lead to relationship breakups , and therefore is homewrecking. -__- omfg. flirting isn't homewrecking, but maybe it's different for gays. but in a woman man relationship, people jus dont like it becase they love the person SO much, and they can't have anyone else taking them away because possibly it might happen, and there's nothing wrong with being selfish and cautious .

  • flirtng can lead to relationship breakups , and therefore is homewrecking. -__- omfg. flirting isn't homewrecking, but maybe it's different for gays. but in a woman man relationship, people jus dont like it becase they love the person SO much, and they can't have anyone else taking them away because possibly it might happen, and there's nothing wrong with being selfish and cautious .

  • at first when u started i was like 'no' then at the end i was like 'ur so right' :)

  • fuck all you bitches who dont agree with chris

  • It just shows how desperate you are if you are flirting with someone elses boyfriend or girlfriend....

  • TRUEEE

  • Homewrecker

  • Ub go Girl!! We`ve got the xtra dimension.... ya kno what i mean!

  • So here I was expecting a video about something that actually matters... well. And I got this.

    Oh fucking wow.

  • this is totally true!! honesty is a virtue. if its meant to be its meant to be.

  • I want u in MY bed...lol...both u and jeffree star!! I WANT U GUYZ!! xD

  • i would never forgive a best friend that went off with my boyfriend.

    it would hurt more than the fact of the cheating boyfriend

    you just do not behave that way with your best friends man

    she/he should say something and give the other person chance to dump him first

  • that is soo true its just flirtin n if that changes shyt it changes shytt itll show wat hes like

  • WOW your sssooo right

  • Chris, you are one of the most logical people out here in cyberspace.

  • saying something and doing something is a different thing. i bet everyone of u wouldnt be so open-minded if another person would flirt with your bf/gf because humans are selfish by nature and they don't want to share their loved person. so stop talking crap and imagine yourself in that situation. the world isn't a utopia

  • Well you're right and wrong. If shes your real bestfriend then she wouldnt be flirting with your man in the first place, but also you could tell her the truth of how you feel for her bf and see if he is sleeping with other woman.

  • Hahahaahhahaha 1:50

    Hahahah!!!

  • Yes you can't rape the willing, but it doesn't mean you should justify trying to have sex with ever person who dates your friend. If you are a friend you will tell your friend. "He thinks he's free game". But even if it's dating or b/f g/f. Just like marriage, a man that leaves his wife for his mistress leaves a job opening. Chris!

  • do u ave a any frends lol

  • i totally agree

  • u should have respect for ur friends and stay away .

  • i agree about not blaming the mistress. i WOULD thank her.but it's still wrong to flirt with someone taken.

  • Flirtings natural, i dont think you should change who you are because of someone else's perceptions of relationships

  • Whatever I guess,

  • This is the one video I don't agree with...

  • True but we like to think we can control our spouses, we need something to do with our lives.

  • see now this is why i love chris, if u just left that at "I dont think its wrong to flirt with a taken person" ppl would be like um wtf? But he explains babe u overexplain it all u want cuz at the end of the day all u be doin is makein more god damn sense. xx

  • yep

  • Love this video and it is sooo true!

  • i thot this video was gonna b dumb,but he has a point...

  • true

  • wow,

    i am having this problem didnt know what to do and your right chris, thanks alot. i am glad you've gone through the same thing.

  • Good point.

  • You go girl! I agree with you all the way!

  • Ur right Chris!

  • Chris you totally made me see the light (yet again) on another one of your videos. thank you so much:) your sooo freakin wise. who'da thought?!

  • i agree 100%

  • haha i used to be the one who would confront these home wreckers and it's just funny how things turn out shit and even worse with my ex... anw, even though i get your point, but i would just feel so guilty flirting with a taken guy =S

  • I was JUST talking about this subject with a friend of mine a couple nights ago. I agree with you.

  • everyone who hates on chris in the comments, then if u dont like him, stop watching his videos! i happen to fucking love him and what he preaches! so go fuck off u losers!

  • knob jockey

  • shave your 5 oclock shadow off.. you look like a man !!!

  • i get your point in this video... what is the point of staying in a marriage with a spouse who who says i do, But doesnt really mean it with you. i find it amusing to hear people (Men and women) Call out the other person to be a homewrecker. homewreckin starts at home. and if the other lover outside of the marriage is refered to as a home wrecker, Think of it as a favor to you. life goes on.

  • Ok I'll be honest. I agree! If my BF loves me like he claims he does he would be with me no matter what. If it doesn't work out. HELL YEA its gonna hurt..but I know its not meant ot be. YOU TELL EM CHRIS!

  • i would flirt with my best friends GF but i wouldnt fuck her bcuz i respect our friendship

  • I agree with this too xx

  • i agree with you 100 %

  • damn you make so much sense

  • I agree that if you break up with some-one and then they start dating your best friend you shouldn't get mad, as long as they weren't cheating with your best friend when they were dating you.  It just happened with my sister and now her good friend HATES her, even though my sister met him after they had broken up...

  • True chris but your right it isnt about blame it is about just be happy that the person you "loved" is happy and do the hair flip... we love you chris!!!!!!!

  • haha your adorable little face you do at the end . Love it . :)

  • YES! I agree. A lot of people just can't get over their pride and realize that everything you said in this video is true. If he's hittin on your girl back, he DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU. It's a hard pill to swallow, but it is one that must be swallowed at some point in everyone'ss life.

    You, girl, said it perfectly

  • Yeah BUT you are just adding to the temptation. The role of you as a friend is to help guard that person your friend is with. SERIOUSLY, its the moral thing. This might be a far reach and something you might not understand but...lol...Its sleazy dude, seriously,

  • THANK YOU! lol Well said girl :)

  • ur a HOMEWRECKER!!!!!!!!!!