Oct. 15 Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day

[The25Fuzz]

October 15th is my birthday...

[cazaroo89]

aww so sad x

[lexibritcj]

I am so sorry for your loss! I have lost 3 little angels to miscarriage and also lost my son's twin to vanishing twin syndrome...I would really love to know more about the book that is being read in this video! I have 3 living children and they are all too young to really understand the loss of a pregnancy and that book seems like a perfect way to "explain" things. Thank you so much for sharing!

[angelgrace31908]

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my little girl when I was 16 in March, 2008. Not a day goes by that I don't think about her. Again I am very sorry for your loss.

[skaismith]

Wow, that bough tears to my eyes, I'm so sorry. Hubby and I lost 2 boys, Johanthan 11/22/05 and Jeremiah 6/12/06. We now have a 6th month old as well as a 10yr old but I have to say, They cannot take the place that our "Angels" fill. I miss them both dearly, thanks for this video :-)

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I am so deeply sorry for your loss, if you ever need anything please feel free to contact me. Even just someone to talk to. Ton of hugs Mel

[tanman182]

This video actually made me cry, and coming from a teenage boy thats incredible. I am so sorry.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you so much for the comment and for being compassionate.. your comment meant a lot - Ton of hugs Mel

[fear2the2spork]

im really sorry. im just a kid and i know thats one thing that a mom should never have to endure. i have 2 baby cousins and i dont know what i would do without them. again im sorry from the bottom of my heart

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you so much for your sweet comment and for reaching out.. it trully meant the world to us. Sending you ton of hugs Mel

[starbabe58]

sorry about your loss

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I reallly appreciate it. Ton of hugs Mel

[Luciaand]

I am so sorry for your loss. My angel was 32 weeks... I will post a video response. Take care!

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I am so deeply sorry for your loss if you ever just need someone to talk to please feel free to contact me Ton of hugs Mel

[malichismommy]

GOD BLESS U.. I TRULY UNDERSTAND

[urbancowboy1983]

Unfortunately the tragedy tore my family apart and ripped my heart in two,because shortly after my wife left me and i felt like i lossed everything.but i know i will see my daughter in the end,sorry for anyone who lossed a child i truely know how it feels and i will pray for you, god bless

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I just wanted to say that I am deeply sorry for your loss If you ever need anyone to talk to Please feel free to contact me Ton of hugs Mel

[urbancowboy1983]

this looks like such a great book, i lossed my only child a baby girl, Kaylee Michelle Moser on DEC 29th 2006 Due To Sids At Just 3 Weeks Old she was born Dec 5th 2006, It Hurts,But We Gotta Move Forward With Our Lives and we will see our angels in the end

[tonybangs]

yah i experienced that on the of may 30 2007 this year.....ohh i we have the same experienced as yours...so memorable its our first angel..but i think its a trial from above...

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[kickassjeepinchick]

that is really cute. were did you get that book from??? i lost my daughter the beginging of this year and i love that book!!!

malinda

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Hi Malinda, I'm so sorry for your loss and if you need anything please feel free to contact me but I purchased the book from Amazon and would highly recommend it Even though its for children it brought me a lot of comfort Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[kickassjeepinchick]

thank you. im doing alot of things cuz my husband is away over seas and i try to comfort him as much as possible so we can try again in sept when he comes home. i posted a video of our daughter last night if you would like to watch it. and thank you its always nice to tlak to people that have gone through the same things. thank you again!

malinda

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Malinda thank you so much for inviting to see your beautiful video towards your daughter Is your husband military? Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[kickassjeepinchick]

yes he is. lol please forgive me i have no idea on how to use you tube. im so used to myspace lol..

malinda.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Completely okay I am also on MySpace (not sure if you are added as a friend on mine) but its ssgluceywife so please feel free to add me We will have to talk Right now I'm in a middle of a PCS Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[kickassjeepinchick]

i think so.. how do you add as a friend. i subcribed to it last night. is that adding as a friend? kickassjeepinchick85 and thats at yahoo... since u cant post emails, and thats for my myspace email address. feel free to add. me i tride to look find urs but it didnt work. well have fun talk to you soon!

malinda

[dizneluver]

(((((((((MEL))))))))))))

Whew...you have two special boys...esp the big one!!!

Thank you for letting me be in your life!!

I LOVE YOU!!!

KD <>< :)

[SSGLuceyGirl]

KD I'm just really honored to have you in our life I'm glad you liked the video This book even though its meant for children is amazing Ton of hugs Mel

[dizneluver]

Mel,

What book is it and where did you get it from?

(((((((((MEL)))))))))))

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I bought it off of Amazon but its called We were going to have a baby but had a baby instead Ton of hugs ♥Mel

[lilmissfreakin]

i am so sorry for your loss, i misscarried exactly two years ago on the 2nd March at the age of 16, it is a terrible thing to go through to loose a child, and you have my deepest sympathy and understanding. Sarie x

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Hi Sarie I just wanted to first say I'm deeply sorry for your loss and if you ever need to talk just know I'm here for you Also wanted to say Thank You for your comment, your words and support Thank You again Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[lilmissfreakin]

aww thankyou that is very nice of you! Same to you too!! xx hugs xx

[newt15]

i am sooo sorry for your family's loss. God Bless u all...luv,newt

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you so much for the comment but especially for the support That alone means the world Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[dreeamer86]

i had a still born daughter july 4th 06 i was 37 1/2 weeks here is a poem i used for her funeral

with hopes and dreams we felt your kicks

A life so preious born so still

An angel opened the book of life

and wrote down your birth.

Then she whispered as she closed the book

"too beautiful for earth".

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you for the beautiful poem I have heard that before and in so many ways its so true I'm deeply sorry for your loss If you ever need anything, I mean anything at all I am here for you The pain of losing a child is one that is really hard to endure Tons of hugs from Mel

[tyonts18]

im so sorry about your loss, even though you posted this awhile back and im not sure you'll get it. I miscarried in february of last year and i still think about it sometimes, but i know when God thinks its right for me to have a baby he'll send him/her to me:) Im praying for your family and for your beautiful son who read that story. God Bless

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I am really sorry for your loss We lost Zachary in Aug 2006 during our second trimester of pregnancy there is a video on my channel that is labeled about Zachary where I talk about what happen Sadly they were unable to give me a reason we lost him even after a autopsy now if you ever need to talk please know that I am here for you Loss of a child is the hardest thing for anyone to ever endure Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[Haynes1994]

I'm so sorry for your loss Mel. ((hugs))

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you so much, just saying that means so much to me, it really does! Thank you again for the sweet comment .. Sending you tons of hugs back from Mel!

[1THEJAKESTER]

oh bless his heart

this is sad and so heart feeled

give him hugs from us all

he sounds like a great kid

tell him merry christmas from me loved the vid

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you so much for the wonderful and sweet comment.. Its amazing how much of a effect it is when you lose a child or a sibling. Tons of hugs ♥Mel

[eaglecrowowl]

This was a beautiful and creative way to express your most awful of experiences.  I am a mom and it is so hard to go there.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank You so much, I have been playing in my head lately if I should video tape the day Zachary is due in January. I think of all the days, this will be so extremely hard for me. Thank you for the sweet comment and sending you tons of hugs from Mel!

[singpentecostal]

What a beautiful video, my uncle lost his daughter while they were in Germany as well. She was not an infant but the way the military treated him was horrible. Her body was lost for two weeks. I can't imagine you losing an infant, although it was months ago my prayers are still with you.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I'm soo sorry for your uncle's loss, as well the entire family. But I do know how hard it is with the military.. it was a ordeal here for us. Thank you for the wonderful prayers. They mean so much to us! Tons of hugs from Mel!

[ladytef723]

Nice video we just recently lost our baby(10-19-06) she was born a stillborn. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone and we know your pain. May our little angels watch over us.xoxo

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I'm so deeply sorry for you loss, Please now if you ever need to talk or just a shoulder to lean on, I'm here. Its only been a little over 3 months since Zachary and its still a emotional roller coaster at times. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel

[Elphyrafire]

Oh my gosh- so sad- i have tears in my eyes. Just happened to come across this. We, too, lost a baby Dec 10, 2004 but since then have had a healthy baby boy. Peace to you and your family.

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Awwww Sweetie.. I'm so sorry. I know the anniversary is now just around the corner. Please know if you need anything I am here for you, always. Sending you tons of hugs from Mel!

[lilvoyce]

*sniffles* bless you all

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you .. you are very sweet.  Tons of hugs - Mel!

[CatchFlipsidE]

Incredible video! Great job

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you.. Jared really enjoyed making it! Tons of hugs - Mel!

[jfiorello68]

Your video is just beautiful. I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious son Zachary. (((HUGS))) from a fellow bereaved mommy to a baby angel (Michelle - 8/25 - 9/1/04

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for your comment and just know that if you ever need to talk about your loss - I'm here.

Hugs Mel

[babybearsmommy]

I have been wondering if this book is worth buying, and now I know. Thank you for sharing this touching video. I am so sorry for your loss. :(

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I have to say out of all the books I have bought, this one touched me the most. It really is amazing book and the pictures are heart warming. It also has the sweetest message that even in death, the baby is still a huge part of you.

Hugs from Mel - PS Thank you.

[babybearsmommy]

I agree. My little girl is the biggest part of me, even though she is not here. :( I do not have any l/c but I still plan to get this book, for my young family members and any future children to read. Besides, I like reading kiddie books myself. :)

[SSGLuceyGirl]

I really have to say, that this book helped more then some of the others for me.  I think its just the whole general message and sweetness to it. I'm so sorry for your loss and just know if you ever need to talk about it or anything - I am here always. Tons of hugs - Mel!

[babybearsmommy]

Thank you, and I am here for you too.

[pi314too]

This is so beautiful, Melissa. It brought me to tears. It was so sweet listening to your son. I had a brother who was 15 who died when I was two and he told my mom about a year before he died that it doesnt matter if we are on this earth for 9 years or 90 yrs...he said it is still like a drop in the ocean in the face of eternity...I know you will be with your baby again. Peace to you, Patti pi

[SSGLuceyGirl]

What a beautiful saying and I really believe it to be so true. I know there isn't a night that doesn't past that I don't talk to Zachary, even its just to tell him that he is very loved. Even in his death, he is so much a huge part of us on every day and every second that passes.

Tons of hugs - Mel

[ArmyWife99]

That is beautiful Mel. I love that Jared is reading the story. You know that your sweet Zachary is always in my thoughts. I love you guys!

[SSGLuceyGirl]

We love you to Sarah .. you have made a imprint on our heart forever. My parents are coming tomorrow and thankfully Zachary is coming home on the 23rd of Oct. I think knowing his ashes are in a place where someone loved him will help so much.

Hugs Mel

[elliselove]

this is making me cry...

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Awwww, I'm sorry! I'm happy that the video is touching however. It was created in memory of our beautiful son and Jared's brother, Zachary. We miss him so deeply.

Tons of hugs - Mel

[Mellomel]

This was a wonderful video....loved the description...which tells me all that I was originally looking for. Thx for posting this!

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Awwww Thanks Mellomel ..  It means so much that you liked the video. These past two months have been the hardest for us.

Tons of hugs - Mel

[randyapple]

My site is for encouraging people, especially those who have lost loved ones. www dot desertsnow dot org.

This video was beautiful!

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thank you so much.. I enjoyed your videos and thank you for helping those who have suffered such a loss.

Hugs Mel

[foreveralways711512]

Mel the video was beautiful, especially with Jared reading the story. *hugs*

[SSGLuceyGirl]

Thanks Allison, you have helped me so much through the loss of Zachary. I am so honored to be able to call you a friend.

Hugs Mel