Work OUT of Homosexuality...www.WorkOUTman.org

[EPR89]

I hope that guy works out his cheeks, cause he's so gonna get it.

[BootyBallerina]

you lost me at 'go deep' ...

[stevemartin14]

But what about metrosexuals (straight guys who fit into gay stereotypes)? And butch gay men? Metrosexuals aren't "manly" and butch gay guys are "manly." I'm bi. I'm maybe 1/2 way between "manly" and "un-manly" So what? Does it really matter? Being gay and being "un-manly" aren't one and the same. Stfu.

[andrewinbrisbane]

I'd do this guy!!! He'd do me too!

[hilltophouse101]

How many of those mentors end up dating the clients?

[BearLite]

The Workout is a unique program "helps a man go deep" ... enuf said! roflmao

[johnsax1445]

David PICKUP is this guy's name??? ROFLMAO

[sloshmusic]

If this guys is straight, I'm a fucking Mormon.

[Llantha]

Homo. Note- being a man has nothing to do with sexuality. Why can't frustrated gay men just get their own therapy and leave the normal gay men alone?

[Llantha]

Homo.



[apperkins]

Does this testimonial make me look ex-gay?

[jaumesb]

"The 'Workout' is a unique program that helps a man who is dealing with homosexual issues ... to ... *GO DEEP* ..."

bwahahahah I don't even know where to begin ... this video is so hilarious. Dude in the video, sounds like You need *GO DEEP* into barebacking, already ! /facepalm/

[Jayson510510]

I do love men and their increasing manhoods :)

[cryan71]

"Yeah, go deep.  Deeper. Oh, your increasing manhood. I love other men. "

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[Elk999us]

Yet another slimy snake-oil peddler with that disproved "Pray Away The Gay" horseshit while he picks the pocket of some poor confused slob..

[choongd]

Jesus does not equal psychology degree.

[the1tigglet]

The only Ex-gay people who have ever been a success from any ex-gay therapy have been bi-sexuals who have a choice. Gay men do not have a choice and gay men have no physical stimulus from women at ALL.

[TheThordir]

Sorry for my bad grammar, but I'm not a very skilled Anglophone. I have several theories regarding the "ex-homosexuals" behind the "ex-gay" movement. There are groups of people who label themselves ex-gay: self hating homosexuals who buy into this scam and homosexuals who know that it is a scam, but lie in order to receive financial benefits. Then there are "confused, bi-curious, questioning" heterosexuals, and then there the most common group, the confused bisexual.

[xaminika]

Lol, "i love helping other men be man"

yeah i'm sure you do!

And being gay doesnt make you less masculine and it cant be changed no matter what you do, this is bullshit.

Also there's nothing wrong with being gay, we are born this way! ;)

[silentfades]

AND OF COURSE THIS IS NOT FOR ANYONE WHO CAN NOT PAY FOR THIS SO CALLED HELP lol lol

YOU SIR ARE A CHARLATAN

[munster322]

What a joke If your gay your gay and you can be as manly as you want.Who you sleep with has nothing to do with being masculine im gay and very masculine.Shame on these people who promote this shit DONT BELIEVE IT.

[mstrchldrn]

ive got a BOOOOOOOOOOOONNNEEEEEEEEEERRRR­RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR­RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR­RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR­RRRRRRRR

[giuliolondon]

what a crock of shit

[sitdownstandup91]

If somebody doesnt want to be gay, they should be allowed to have that choice to change. Whether you believe it is possible or not. I am straight and i have no problem with gay people but gays are really hipocrites on this issue. If someone is not happy and thinks it may help them, let them try it.

[LarsTheHonest]

We should be thankful for the fact that there really are people out there willing to sacrifice their time to help the homosexuals become straight again. GL in therapy gays!

[heatherlisa777s]

and you gay? YES!!!! and you gay now? NOOOOOOO!!! what a crop of sh!t! either you gay or u not!

[polymphus]

So. I get to "go deep" with my "life coach" who will aid in "increasing my manhood".

[TheStrong32]

This guy's a MORON! He's so stupid, he thinks homosexuality is the result of a lack of masculinity! That stupid stereotype! There are lots of very masculine homosexuals. The gyms are full of them. There's bear culture. There's Rock Hudson.

It's not how much you can bench press or how you cross your leggs that makes you straight or gay; it's your sexual orientation, stupid! Some people will believe anything! And there are lots of shysters out there happy to take their money from them.

[noccie]

...

garrrg! all the sexual innuendos!!

also, his real name is David Pickup!

[pooperinpantz123]

go deep

[capassecreme]

ridiculous

[johnycannuk]

Whoa....no, you aren't gay anymore. Nope...uh uh...

[silentfades]

And how much do you charge and for how long ?

Oh yes is there a written garuntee ?

[frglee]

A quite appalling video boasting about messing with peoples heads....."The truth shall set you free" not this awful rubbish which just sends people crazy. This kind of stuff should not be on public view...I think of all the evil and pain you are causing in the name of your 'God'. Shame on you.

[maths82]

haha, he keeps saying "manhood"

[TomsFriendKake]

Ok, I am an undersea construction diver in the gulf of mexico and I am gay, and so is this guy. It doesn't matter how good you are with tools or fixing shit, you still going to be gay. Simply picking up a hammer and some nails isn't going to do anything. This guy is a total douch, he says he loves helping other men with their tasks to recovery, pfft. Nothing pisses me off more that when some half-whit moron comes out to work and I have to show him basic construction skills. This guy is a jackass

[TomsFriendKake]

Can I call for manly support when I need that lettle extra something in order to get off. You know, that manly voice on the other end, telling me what he is doing to himself, is sometime just the push I need to get over the hump.

[supermaxim109]

"I love helping other men be men" Hell Yeah

[HerEyesWereWild]

This never fails to make me laugh. So offensive! So ridiculous! XD

[p00dm4n]

Does he really think that works? XD

[Albtraumen]

What a repulsive POS.

[Jakub1POLSKAnew]

YouTube Poop.

[Nintendostar123]

I want to go deep, too.

[keepthefaith90]

'a man can feel his own sense of increasing manhood'

I tend to feel my increasing manhood several times a day, I find it helps me sleep easier at night

[AmazinglyCleverName]

Damn this guy is handsome and attractive.

[flabslapper]

is there any way I could give this less than 1 star?

[GiantSandles]

is there any way you could give this less than 5 stars?

[flabslapper]

lol that's good

[mymind1086]

You could give it 4 stars...

[InXanadu2]

"I love helping other men Be Men."

You said a mouthful!

A mouthful of what is the question.

[InXanadu2]

P.S. The "program" is $225 a month for a 6 month duration, which is "highly recommended".

[ifhgsfj]

So... that means 2700 dollars a year.

[ailenkun]

Sir, you do realize that plenty of gay men play sports, right? Please learn to be more open-minded, so you too can lead a happy, healthy lifestyle.

[Chessykatzenz]

Gay bottoms, in my opinion, are tougher than the manliest straight guys.

[GiantSandles]

This is too precious.

[HerEyesWereWild]

Sir, the reason people are so offended is because the notion homosexuality is a choice has lead to much misunderstanding and prejudice from society at large. While I do believe there is an emotional problem with men in our society that stems from homophobia too (ie. not being allowed to show affection because it is perceived as 'gay'). Your program perpetuates this view and will ultimately lead to more of the same. It happens in most men, though, not just gay, so don't use it as a scapegoat. ):

[blackflower75]

This is hilarious .....

[SynneDennis]

"Life Coach" a personal mentor for each man.

"Accomplished tasks" for a man to increase his own manhood.

"911" call anywhere, anytime.

Sounds hot, where do I sign up?

[jorellguapoh12]

who the fucking hell is thisfucking guy????

oh yeah...

he is a MANNNN!!!!

Whatever...

go try being gay...

and see how hard it is..or see how you dont wanna change.

and vice versa MANNNN!!!

[adiosmuchacho2002]

Manhood = Heterosexuality? Please don't perpetuate stereotypes. That helps NO ONE.

[matthewsmc]

Sick Sick Sick

[GamerUntouch]

HEY GUYS IM THE SEXUALITY NAZI

[JazzDanceForChildren]

I want to feel my mentor's increasing manhood.

[magicalshrimp23]

This video is a joke, right? Right? Please tell me it's a joke. Homosexuals are men. You don't have to be a goddamn lumberjack with a playboy bunny as your wife to be a man. This just purports gender stereotypes that have plagued society since the dawn of time.

If this isn't a joke, fuck you.

[Joschicamuk]

Just plain wrong. You can't change who you are like that. Any attempt to do so will just cause further emotional problems. The surest path to happiness is just to accept who you are.

[tiemannorm]

Are you for real, now come on your joking right.????

You look a bit gay to me anyway dude...Are you struggling with your own girly side???

Why don't guys like you piss off and leave gay people alone.

[Rockymtntruth]

Maybe he could do like Richard Cohen & hold you on the couch & rock you in his arms and say "there there now don't you feel more connected to your male self? You know it's a deficit in male affection & male emotional connectedness that caused your homosexuality so you need to get that from another man like Richard Cohen right?" Never mind die in the wool heterosexual men who have felt abandoned by their fathers or have had little contact or male role models in their lives. That doesn't count.

[Rockymtntruth]

This man and his "work-out" is a shill of NARTH which is the National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality. This "work-out" program is based on the teachings of Joseph Nicolosi and Elizabeth Moberly. This crap has been around and around and around the cycle and it gets regurgitated out again and again even after being debunked by the American Psychological Association and virtually every mainstream medical and psychological organization who are opposed to this so-called therapy.

[Rockymtntruth]

Great thing to do to make gay men more masculine so that they can be more hot! Awesome!!!

[obsidian1983]

Oh my god, it's not a joke!

[Jakedeanzeran]

You make me sick, and the only person who's going to burn in hell is YOU for discriminating, and not loving your fellow MAN, for NO REASON. It's not a CHOICE it's a CURSE you dick.

[rodgierad]

"GO DEEP..."

LOL

[rodgierad]

If this isn't a joke, then it's incredibly idiotic.

[rickT5555]

Have the lunatics taken over the asylum ? while my back was turned. "Below his manhood lies a lack of masculinity"...... who is this deluded fool ? The notion that gay guys "need to move into their own manhood " is plain dumb. Guys who have problems accepting their orientation need to know that being gay is fulfilling, happy, and if you find the right guy, loving. They need a helping hand and reassurance to boost their self confidence, not this undermining crap.

[cowcreamer]

I have read the hecklings and jeering for this video, but there are people that simply don't want same sex attractions or people who have had previous homosexual relationships. They want to change. If your gay and you love who you are, that's great. But don't put down others who don't want to be. Do you put down the man who wants to have his sex changed? Do you put down the transvestites? No! This is a service, just like you have services to help those that are exploring their sexuality.

[98orpheus]

LMMFAO!! what a fucking idiot- just like anyone who believes him.

[miguelcansado]

Fuck. You.

[ScorchedRoze]

this is horrible.

[eurisko67]

Looks like this guy worked OUT a new way to pickup guys.

[InXanadu2]

And his last name is Pickup LMAO

[agoraemily]

What an idiot!

[ivorytower71]

This guy is beyond deluded, not to mention downright insulting (i.e. the inference that homosexuality equals decreased manhood / masculinity). He sounds like he's not getting enough good loving himself, whichever gender that may be from!

[rufusfo]

HEEE-sterical! I'm laughing to the point of tears. Poor, poor man.

[gcrox657]

People do not chose to be gay. It is just how someone feels. Get a life you stupid bastard.

[krphl31]

i think he's gay, and i know he feels great helping other men, well. ..he definitely has chances there ... lol

[dchsdl]

this is so fucked up...

jesus

[SarahKMG17]

okay, THAT will never work! you sound gay yourself. "i love helping men be men." trying to pick some hot guy up? you cant change someones sexual orentation, so you should stop trying.

[sm1else]

Wow...is this dude that desperate to get a date? "To help a man to move into his own manhood?" From the sounds of it, you are looking to move into his manhood. What kind of exploitative scam are you running? Enjoy the cash while it lasts, because you are opening yourself up to a whopper of a lawsuit. This will be fun to watch.

[jlvjlvjlvjlv]

thats so primitive...

[lefthandedgenius]

lol, how gay does he sound? 'I love helping another man be a man'

I bet you do ;)

And at the same time, you homophobic freak!

[codlightning]

I am perfectly accepting of myself. Why the hell did you come to the conclusion that I am unaccepting of my 'manhood'??

[ricoatheist]

Oh, go fuck yourself you ugly sack of shit. We know you are gay, and so do you. Asshole.

[tennisman8304]

You are a giant piece of shit.

[LexZender5773]

Gosh! If you are going to use a guy to do this kind of advertisement at least use someone who is not as feminine as this man. I think this is a joke. LOL! but if it isn't then they need to re-do it. If I was crazy enough to want to get out of homosexuality I would feel very uncomfortable with a pansy like this promising to be a mentor to other gays.. His facial expression, tone, rhythm and mannerisms are those of a homosexual. Oh Well I hope he was just joking.

[InXanadu2]

Actually--he's one of the LESS feminine men in the ex-gay [bowel] movement. Richard Cohen doesn't walk, he floats.

[Ilovetoyell3]

this man is obviously gay himself, and ashamed of it, so he makes himself feel better by sucking the dignity out of other gay men.

this makes me sick.

[DouglasUrantia]

I've had a lot of smoking hot sex with females and guess what......I'm still as gay as ever. [BTW...I'm not bi either.] I like men.....get it Dave.

[Sean2046]

fuck this gender role and 'you can change your sexual orienatation!' bullshit! oh my fuckin god this fuckin shit pisses the fuckin hell outta me, are you fuckin kidding me?!

[EryahJames88]

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA­A omg this is to funny

[Darkranth]

LMAO XD... This is so the stupidiest video ever and then, the stupidiest guy ever :P

[KrazyTymes]

You sir are a FUCKTARD!!! Maybe I could teach you how to be Asian. It makes just as much sense. So, yeah come see me and I will teach you how to bring out your inner Asian! UGH!!!

[ScientiaVeritasEtLux]

I hate how he keeps saying that they'll help gay guys keep their "manhood". WHo the FUCK said that gays can't be manly? In fact, most gay guys are more or less masculine. And the happy, cheerful music like you hear for diet programs annoys the hell out of me.

[horatiogiovanni4real]

HAHAHA

this video is funny!

*whispers*

"they think its a disease!"

[ccm800]

LIke 98 percent of the diet industry...yet another snake oil salesmen making money on peoples deseration. Douchebag. Special place in hell for peeps that profit off the oppressed. you turn my stomach. Teach people and each other how to accept one another...Oh and eat my @ss

[hollermahler]

this is so hilarious. lol, it can all be construed as some kind of hookup network.

[jonthebaptist666]

Homosexuality has nothing to do with gender issues. You can't even think about changeing something you don't even understand.

[Tengent]

Homophobe.

[amsterdammed71]

I want Dave Pinla to know, too, that change is possible: There is no evidence for anything in the first 5 books of the bible. Evolution and the Big Bang tell us about our real origins. There is no evidence whatsoever for 'Jesus'. The road to Damascus is a 2-way street - and even the fanatical Mother Theresa could not believe this nonsense in the end. You're praying to nobody, Dave. You only believe this because you happened to have been indoctrinated about the Judeo Christian god as a child.

[RobNorthampton]

I wonder what kind of strange creature a REAL MAN is in your world? I am 100% gay, but I have a deep voice, I can drive a truck, build a brick wall, abseil down a mountain, chop wood and dig holes. I can also sew on a button or make a mean three course meal. I carry no shame or guilt about who I am, and if being a man to you means ejaculating into a woman for a few seconds every so often, I think I'll pass on your 'coaching skills' thank you.

[EccoDream100]

Why the hell do people only think of men when someone says somthing about being gay? there gay women too >.> and btw im bi just like the guy below me but i know im a little more feminine than other guys (im not a crossdresser or anything) and it's ok to be like this >.>

[sicktoaster]

OK, I'm a bi man and I don't feel even a little bit feminine. I a man and I bet I'm more man than you, davepinla. If you're so smart then explain that.

[weeezboy]

What a joke! Homophobic jerk off!

[Hdtex]

gayface

[newkillerstardust]

I think I got it - 1

Dave is surrounded by men all day;

Dave helps men to feel GOOD;

Dave makes EZ ca$h;

Just like my masseur, Mike Jones.

[newkillerstardust]

I think I got it - 2

Men who THINK there is SOMETHING WRONG with them, look for Dave and PAY him to make them THINK there is NOTHING WRONG with them.

[Heartofpraze]

I thank God for men like Dave. There are lots of men and women out there that do not want to have homosexual feelings. This is a place where they can go for help. No ones forcing them to go. It's their decision. Alcoholics and drug addicts have places to go for help. Why is it so bad for someone not wanting to be homosexual? It is their choice.

[beaniehead4]

Life couch! How the hell does that have to do with being attracted to a certain gender?

Your an idiot Dave.

[fredoflv]

Well, David does not solicit testimonies from his clients. He's too busy helping them. I actually done David's WorkOut program and he has really helped me learned to out of the shadow of shame that my parents had instilled in me. He has really helped me grow as a man that I never thought was possible.

Mock if you will, but David's program is really and very valuable to a lot of men. I grateful there are men as honorable and courageous as David. He has devoted his life into helping other men.

[VSJonno]

Hilarious.

[tonykw]

Any psychotherapist looking at this (and I'm a psychotherapist and clinical supervisor) can see that this is a classic case of a therapist looking for counter-transference and embracing it. I stop therapists working when they exibit this sort of acting out and insist on them returning to their therapist until it's been worked through!

[evolveordissolve]

"I love helping other men... be men!"

Um, the last time I checked, being heterosexual wasn't the requirement for being a man. Being a man requires identifying as such.

I'd like to know why this guy thinks it's good to be heterosexual.

[Eshto]

I'd like to know why he thinks anyone who needs a "life coach" on call at all hours a day in case they have a gay thought can qualify as a "heterosexual".

[vegas787]

This is so comical... the "ex gay" movement is simply a tool of the far right so called "christians", Dave your no different from the rest of the "ex gay" kooks!

[dattexas]

Um, Dave, the shame that society places on them, religious indoctrination, and peer pressure "force" them to undergo your ridiciculous program. You're a jerk, a snake oil salesman, and you should be sued for deceptive practices.

[davepinla]

...For those of you who believe or know that your homosexuality is inborn and natural, then you certainly need to pursue that. Why would you do anything else? Thanks for listening.

David Pickup

[bookseller]

Clearly you have a PhD in psychology, right? What is your issue, dude? Why the fuck can't you live your life and let other people live theirs? Oh right, because you long ago allowed your mind and spirit to be locked in the box of religious belief. You're a meddling charlatan, sir.

[Neigeblackswan]

Dood, life coaches aren't psychologists. XD I bet he doesn't know shit about the human mind or the unconscious. Look at what he's saying, homosexuality a question of "manhood"? That has nothing to do with it.

Again it's the damn "christians" (in quotes because they don't really follow Jesus) who are so weak they cannot accept truth. Man, they squirm around like maggots. It's sad.

[davepinla]

2. Consequently, as men, when they have released the shame, they felt more masculine, and connected emotionally and equally with other men. When they get some of their needs met, the erotic feelings of masculinity spontaneously decrease and/or dissipate.

3. No one forces these men to do this work. And it's very hard work because there's a lot of grieving and facing reality to be done. But the payoff feels wonderful to them....(see next message)

[Eshto]

No, you probably don't hold a gun to anyone's head. They sign up for it because of the profound self-hatred and shame they've internalized as a result of homophobia in society. You just happen to be there at the opportune moment to offer false promises and prey on their vulnerability. And obviously your clients haven't seen the real evidence on sexual orientation or that every reputable organization is against what you're doing.

[davepinla]

...and by not getting their emotional needs met (affirmation, unconditional love, affection) by a significant male (usually the father) or by their male peers. As such they have felt it impossible to feel anything but "not a part of the club" of other boys and men. They recognized that later, since they were shamed out of their own masculinity, that they over-idealized other boys/men, objectified them and experienced them as erotic.(see next message)

[davepinla]

I want to be succinct, so here's the following:

The WorkOUT is not for men who believe or know that homosexuality is inborn and natural. It is for men who believe that:

1. In THEIR life experience, homosexual feelings came up because of a deep emotional detachment and shaming of their male identity, which in turn stunted them taking in their full masculine feelings and identity. This was exasperated by traumatic shaming (and many times sexual abuse, physical & verbal)...(see next message)

[davepinla]

Hello men,

There's been a lot of response lately to the YouTube video and website, so I wanted to respond as sincerely and honestly as I can. I appreciate your responses, even the ones that have been highly critical. I completely hear how offended some of you are, and if I knew or believed through scientific studies or personal observations the things that you do, I would be offended and would fight just like you. We all have the right to express whatever we believe. (continued next...)

[grichard79]

Oh, so it's for men who are in denial...gotcha...

[autumn999]

You can change behavior, you could probably make a straight man sleep with men with enough mental and moral pressure was applied.

But you can NEVER change orientation, repress it all you like, I pity you if you do.

[cccps]

OK, at first I thought this was hilarious until I discovered it's not a parody.

Oh my...

[garychlo]

freak.

[musidorus]

If this is a parody, bravo, because it definitely made me laugh. But if it's serious, this is the manner of thinking that leads some gay people to suicide.

[JohnInManhattan]

THE WORKOUT! Will this be on Bravo? Thats alot of MAN talk. "I LOVE helping other men be men!" Too rich. More, please!

[joebrummer]

I watched the video again, and laughed and laughed when I heard him say. "I love helping other men be men." I couldn't stop laughing......and thinking...oh gosh...me too honey! And that is so not my style to make fun of these thing but It is just so funny....He can't be serious....

[joebrummer]

a full analysis of this man's website is on my site. I would post a link but it seems to think that is spam.

[JoeMyGod]

He is definitely causing increasing manhood here in my office. Hilarious.

[GLB2video]

This is even funnier than sissy Sy Rogers "Turnaround With Sy Rogers" video, which is hosted on YouTube as well.

Please everyone, get this quack kicked off YouTube. Nobody should be exposed to "ex-gay therapy", which was originally created by the Nazi's.

[joebrummer]

After even more reading, I think this is a prank. This man's name is Dave Pickup. He believes men are gay because they haven't had enough "man" experiences yet. At some points on his website, especially the survey I was laughing so hard, I cried. I think this is a joke or prank. Performance art?

[joebrummer]

After reviewing this guys website, he offers no evidence, proof or even success stories for his "coaching". I feel suspicious of his program and the whole "you need to be a real man" tactics. Such sexuality myths about fatherhood and sexuality have been proven false. It is surprising this guy is using myths to cure people. I am fearful for the psychological safety of the people who buy into this fraudulent coaching thing.

[TimothyKincaid]

Watch this with the volume off. This guy is trying to help people find their manliness?

[chanticorae]

god, this is funny. increasing manhood? really, dude?

[BoxTurtleBulletin]

Some more specifics in the video would be good but it sounds like a delightful bunch of antiquated Freudian stereotypes.

[joebrummer]

Can you provide us some scientific backing for your claims that you can help men change from being gay? Can you provide the accepted research that states homosexuality is a lack of gender identity. I would be more impressed if you back up your claims with science. If not, you are just another scam artist preying on internal fears of sexuality and low self-esteem. You could hurt more than you help if this is not based on facts.

[flargo]

So called "ex gay" is the biggest load of garbage ever.

[SpeedyBruin]

Main stream psychologists warn against 'repairative therapy'. More to the point, there is nothing wrong that requires fixing.