BUT. only light beatings, and it is PROHIBITED @ HARAM that the husband beats the wife on the face, or that the beating leaves marks or bruises on her body. you must understand here that the husband is the head of the family and it is in his responsibilities to guide his family.
i don't deny that there are occurrences about brutal beatings. they don't punish to teach lesson, those men are freaking jerks, beasts, just like all other abusive husbands covering all religions.
wife beating? the first rule when a wife fails to obey the husband is that the husband should advise the wife. you sit down and discuss issues with her, why she did what she did. if advice won't work, then the second rule is the husband can separate their bed, so that the wife realizes her mistakes. when a man refuses to sleep together with you then surely something is very wrong, right? and the third rule, when all else fails, is that you can beat your wife.
sex with 9 year old? only if the 9 year old has reached puberty. or you can marry the child, but you have to wait until she hits her first menstruation to make love to her since that's when her body is ready for that. child marriage phenomenon in some Muslim countries are partly cultural and partly misinterpretation of the quran and hadith.
and oh about the apostates. say an american with hell lotsa information bout america betrays the country and manipulates the information for, say, iran, to use. he makes up stories, spreads lies. don't tell me the cia or whatever won't hunt him because he does damage to america.
dude, i'm wearing hijab and i'm pretty much listening to paramore right now. whoever said listening to music is a sin? music only starts to be a sin when it brings men and women together, like - in a party or so, and you start dancing and swaying your bodies for the men to watch. that, is a sin.
I don't think we should be using youtube for the purposes of finding partners (and yes I am married alhamdullellah)...I do not give out my personal e-mail...I'm sorry.
May the peace & blessing of Allah(Swt) be upon u. Thank u sister for upload this kind of video I think it will help our both muslim & nonmuslim sister. Jajak Allah khayer
Al-Qamoos while describing the meanings of KHIMAAR says that everything that is used to cover or conceal a thing is its khimaar. However, the same Al-Qamoos while describing the meanings of ghifara says, ghifara is something worn on the head by women before wearing khimaar on the head so that ghifara protects the khimaar worn on the head from hair oil etc.
According to the above, there is overwhelming evidence that KHIMAAR was a piece of cloth that Arab women used to wear at the time of revelation of the Quran.
In the above phrase the words THEIR khumur implies that khimaar was something that women already used to have to cover some part of their body. The use of word THEIR (the possessive ending HiNNA in the word bikhumurihinna) indicates this. As the evidence given above indicate that, that part of body was the HEAD.
The Age of Aisha is something many none believers like to throw around. Unfortunately, as people age they forget things. Ask my husband and he can't remember whether we were married on a Saturday or a Sunday and that was less than 2 years ago. When looking at other factors outside of the two hadiths we can in fact see that the true age of Aisha was much higher.
A great misconception prevails as to the age at which Aisha was taken in marriage by the Prophet. Ibn Sad has stated in the Tabaqat that when Abu Bakr [father of Aisha] was approached on behalf of the Holy Prophet, he replied that the girl had already been betrothed to Jubair, and that he would have to settle the matter first with him. This shows that Aisha must have been approaching majority at the time.
Again, the Isaba, speaking of the Prophets daughter Fatima, says that she was born five years before the Call and was about five years older than Aisha. This shows that Aisha must have been about ten years at the time of her betrothal to the Prophet, and not six years as she is generally supposed to be.
This is further borne out by the fact that Aisha herself is reported to have stated that when the chapter [of the Holy Quran] entitled The Moon, the fifty-fourth chapter, was revealed, she was a girl playing about and remembered certain verses then revealed. Now the fifty-fourth chapter was undoubtedly revealed before the sixth year of the Call.
All these considerations point to but one conclusion, viz., that Aisha could not have been less than ten years of age at the time of her nikah, which was virtually only a betrothal. And there is one report in the Tabaqat that Aisha was nine years of age at the time of nikah.
Again it is a fact admitted on all hands that the nikah of Aisha took place in the 10th year of the Call in the month of Shawwal, while there is also preponderance of evidence as to the consummation of her marriage taking place in the 2nd year of Hijra in the same month, which shows that full 5 years had elapsed between the nikah & the consummation. Hence there is not the least doubt that Aisha was at least 9 or 10 years of age at the time of betrothal, & 14 or 15 years at the time of marriage.
On the day (of the battle) of Uhud when (some) people retreated and left the Prophet, I saw Aisha daughter of Abu Bakr and Umm Sulaim, with their robes tucked up so that the bangles around their ankles were visible hurrying with their water skins (in another narration it is said, carrying the water skins on their backs). Then they would pour the water in the mouths of the people, and return to fill the water skins again and came back again to pour water in the mouths of the people.
The Above hadith is from Sahih Bukhari, Kitab-ul-Jihad wal-Siyar, Chapter: Women in war and their fighting alongside men. See this link in Muhsin Khans translation and go down to report listed as Volume 4, Book 52, Number 131.
Note for this to have occurred Aisha must have been older than she states to be at the time of marriage.
wow you need to learn islam, and not listen to some lies. if what you were saying was the ruth, do you think billions of people around the world would felowit?. i dont think so.
Hymaris not the word used in the Qu'ran. Hy*mar" (?), n. Zool. The wild ass of Persia. The word used in 24:31 is KHUMUR, which is a plural of KHIMAAR. Khimaar is from the root KH-M-R which signifies to cover, conceal or veil. The word KHIMAAR itself is a noun which could mean something that is used to cover something. But, is KHIMAAR anything that is used to cover anything or it is a particular type of cover or veil?
KHAMAR is something that covers the intellect. If khamar, although from the same root kh-m-r (which means to cover or conceal) is a particular type of cover or veil (that covers the intellect), does khimaar refer to any general cover or veil or it is a specific type of veil? There are at least 6 words that can be used to mean a cover/covering or a veil, viz. Hijaab, Sitr, ghishawa, ghufra, ghita and khimaar. Obviously these all 6 words have slightly different connotation from one another.
The following 10 dictionaries agree that KHIMAAR means a piece of cloth with which a woman covers her head: 1. Lisaan-al-Arab by Ibn-e-Manzoor 2. Taaj-el-uroos 3. Lataif-ul-Lughat 4. Lughat-ul-Quran by Parvez 5. Dictionary of the holy Quran by Omar 6. A dictionary and glossary of the Quran by John Penrice 7. Almufradat by Raghib 8. Hans Wehrs dictionary of Modern written Arabic 9. Lanes Lexicon 10. Al-Qamoos-ul muheet (while describing the meanings of ghifara)
Allah Ta'ala says: "And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their private parts from sin and not show of their adornment except only that which is apparent, and draw their headcovers over their necks and bosoms and not reveal their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women (i.e., their sisters in Islam), ...
...or their female slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants free of physical desires, or small children who have no sense of women's nakedness. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And turn unto Allah altogether, O you Believers, in order that you may attain success.[An-Nur, 24:31]
33:59 O prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments [Jalabeeb]over their persons (when abroad): that is most convenient that they should be known (as such) and not molested: and Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful.
The word khumur (pl. of khimar) refers to a cloth which covers the head (including the ears), hair, neck and bosom. The esteemed mufaasir (Quranic interpreter) Al-Qurtubi explains: "Women in the past used to cover their heads with the khimar, throwing its ends over their backs. This left the neck and the upper part of the chest bare, in the manner of the Christians. Then Allah commanded them to cover those parts with the khimar."
Therefore, at the time except that which would be there apparent of would mean after being commanded to cover the neck and the chest would be only the face and the hands.
instead of rapping it like I have and pinning it a second time what you can do is bring it across your chest and use a broach to pin it on your shoulder. hope this helps. Jazak'Allah Khair :)
@jigglyfidda125
BUT. only light beatings, and it is PROHIBITED @ HARAM that the husband beats the wife on the face, or that the beating leaves marks or bruises on her body. you must understand here that the husband is the head of the family and it is in his responsibilities to guide his family.
i don't deny that there are occurrences about brutal beatings. they don't punish to teach lesson, those men are freaking jerks, beasts, just like all other abusive husbands covering all religions.
AthhaZalaCagalli 1 year ago
@jigglyfidda125
wife beating? the first rule when a wife fails to obey the husband is that the husband should advise the wife. you sit down and discuss issues with her, why she did what she did. if advice won't work, then the second rule is the husband can separate their bed, so that the wife realizes her mistakes. when a man refuses to sleep together with you then surely something is very wrong, right? and the third rule, when all else fails, is that you can beat your wife.
AthhaZalaCagalli 1 year ago
@jigglyfidda125
sex with 9 year old? only if the 9 year old has reached puberty. or you can marry the child, but you have to wait until she hits her first menstruation to make love to her since that's when her body is ready for that. child marriage phenomenon in some Muslim countries are partly cultural and partly misinterpretation of the quran and hadith.
AthhaZalaCagalli 1 year ago
@jigglyfidda125
and oh about the apostates. say an american with hell lotsa information bout america betrays the country and manipulates the information for, say, iran, to use. he makes up stories, spreads lies. don't tell me the cia or whatever won't hunt him because he does damage to america.
AthhaZalaCagalli 1 year ago
@jigglyfidda125
dude, i'm wearing hijab and i'm pretty much listening to paramore right now. whoever said listening to music is a sin? music only starts to be a sin when it brings men and women together, like - in a party or so, and you start dancing and swaying your bodies for the men to watch. that, is a sin.
AthhaZalaCagalli 1 year ago
hi can you send me you e mail are you mared
hasii2009 2 years ago
I don't think we should be using youtube for the purposes of finding partners (and yes I am married alhamdullellah)...I do not give out my personal e-mail...I'm sorry.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
@hasii2009 hahahahahahahhahahahahahahaha, OMG ARE YOU SERIOUS ???
ymnbodybuilder06 2 years ago
May the peace & blessing of Allah(Swt) be upon u. Thank u sister for upload this kind of video I think it will help our both muslim & nonmuslim sister. Jajak Allah khayer
mahaajab 2 years ago
masha'allah sis nice tutorial
kawthar100 2 years ago
Al-Qamoos while describing the meanings of KHIMAAR says that everything that is used to cover or conceal a thing is its khimaar. However, the same Al-Qamoos while describing the meanings of ghifara says, ghifara is something worn on the head by women before wearing khimaar on the head so that ghifara protects the khimaar worn on the head from hair oil etc.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
According to the above, there is overwhelming evidence that KHIMAAR was a piece of cloth that Arab women used to wear at the time of revelation of the Quran.
In 24:31, there is a phrase,
walyadribna bikhumurihinna AAala juyoobihinna, which means
Women should put their KHUMUR on their JUYOOB.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
In the above phrase the words THEIR khumur implies that khimaar was something that women already used to have to cover some part of their body. The use of word THEIR (the possessive ending HiNNA in the word bikhumurihinna) indicates this. As the evidence given above indicate that, that part of body was the HEAD.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
arabic today is very different to the 1 at the time of prophet mohammed
plus arabic words tend to have many meanings. the same with khimar
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
The above information is based upon QURANIC ARABIC and NOT MODERN ARABIC.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
im starting to doubt islam anyway
try to watch a picture of a burn victim on google and you see how cruel and
unnatural this religion called islam is. the violence depicted in the Quran
could only be explained by a (no offense) paranoid superstitious stone age desert people who
are afraid of the unknown nature of death
is your god really that barbaric and brutal to punish
people for not believing in (i quote) ''the unseen''
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
The Age of Aisha is something many none believers like to throw around. Unfortunately, as people age they forget things. Ask my husband and he can't remember whether we were married on a Saturday or a Sunday and that was less than 2 years ago. When looking at other factors outside of the two hadiths we can in fact see that the true age of Aisha was much higher.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
A great misconception prevails as to the age at which Aisha was taken in marriage by the Prophet. Ibn Sad has stated in the Tabaqat that when Abu Bakr [father of Aisha] was approached on behalf of the Holy Prophet, he replied that the girl had already been betrothed to Jubair, and that he would have to settle the matter first with him. This shows that Aisha must have been approaching majority at the time.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
Again, the Isaba, speaking of the Prophets daughter Fatima, says that she was born five years before the Call and was about five years older than Aisha. This shows that Aisha must have been about ten years at the time of her betrothal to the Prophet, and not six years as she is generally supposed to be.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
This is further borne out by the fact that Aisha herself is reported to have stated that when the chapter [of the Holy Quran] entitled The Moon, the fifty-fourth chapter, was revealed, she was a girl playing about and remembered certain verses then revealed. Now the fifty-fourth chapter was undoubtedly revealed before the sixth year of the Call.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
All these considerations point to but one conclusion, viz., that Aisha could not have been less than ten years of age at the time of her nikah, which was virtually only a betrothal. And there is one report in the Tabaqat that Aisha was nine years of age at the time of nikah.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
Again it is a fact admitted on all hands that the nikah of Aisha took place in the 10th year of the Call in the month of Shawwal, while there is also preponderance of evidence as to the consummation of her marriage taking place in the 2nd year of Hijra in the same month, which shows that full 5 years had elapsed between the nikah & the consummation. Hence there is not the least doubt that Aisha was at least 9 or 10 years of age at the time of betrothal, & 14 or 15 years at the time of marriage.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
On the day (of the battle) of Uhud when (some) people retreated and left the Prophet, I saw Aisha daughter of Abu Bakr and Umm Sulaim, with their robes tucked up so that the bangles around their ankles were visible hurrying with their water skins (in another narration it is said, carrying the water skins on their backs). Then they would pour the water in the mouths of the people, and return to fill the water skins again and came back again to pour water in the mouths of the people.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
The Above hadith is from Sahih Bukhari, Kitab-ul-Jihad wal-Siyar, Chapter: Women in war and their fighting alongside men. See this link in Muhsin Khans translation and go down to report listed as Volume 4, Book 52, Number 131.
Note for this to have occurred Aisha must have been older than she states to be at the time of marriage.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
muslims scholars agree that she was 6 years old too, so who are you to lie about it?
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
I'm not lying about it. In Fact all the statements above have been made by Muslim Scholars.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
i just cant see how u can follow a religion where you CAN behead apostates, stone adulterers, beat wives, have sex with 9 year olds, but you ....
can NOT listen to music
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
I do not behave to have my conduct approved by mere men. I live my life to seek the approval of God. This is my last response to you...good day.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
wow you need to learn islam, and not listen to some lies. if what you were saying was the ruth, do you think billions of people around the world would felowit?. i dont think so.
kawthar100 2 years ago
Hymaris not the word used in the Qu'ran. Hy*mar" (?), n. Zool. The wild ass of Persia. The word used in 24:31 is KHUMUR, which is a plural of KHIMAAR. Khimaar is from the root KH-M-R which signifies to cover, conceal or veil. The word KHIMAAR itself is a noun which could mean something that is used to cover something. But, is KHIMAAR anything that is used to cover anything or it is a particular type of cover or veil?
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
KHAMAR is something that covers the intellect. If khamar, although from the same root kh-m-r (which means to cover or conceal) is a particular type of cover or veil (that covers the intellect), does khimaar refer to any general cover or veil or it is a specific type of veil? There are at least 6 words that can be used to mean a cover/covering or a veil, viz. Hijaab, Sitr, ghishawa, ghufra, ghita and khimaar. Obviously these all 6 words have slightly different connotation from one another.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
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Narrated 'Aisha: volume 7, book 62, no.64 Sahih Bukhari (btw the Sahih Bukhari hadith is the most accepted book by all muslims)
''' that the Prophet Mohamed married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old''
how can someone in his 50s have sex with a 9 year old who plays with dolls? plus aisha was his favorite wife!!!
weird
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
Read bellow comments....also note that similar marriages maybe found in the Bible.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
you CAN behead apostates, stone adulterers, beat wives, have sex with 9 year olds, but you ....
can NOT listen to music or mastubate?
weird
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
Read the old testament.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
thats why im non-religious
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
did you know that the quran doesn't even mention that you cover your head?
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
Allah Ta'ala says: "And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their private parts from sin and not show of their adornment except only that which is apparent, and draw their headcovers over their necks and bosoms and not reveal their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women (i.e., their sisters in Islam), ...
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
...or their female slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants free of physical desires, or small children who have no sense of women's nakedness. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And turn unto Allah altogether, O you Believers, in order that you may attain success.[An-Nur, 24:31]
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
33:59 O prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments [Jalabeeb]over their persons (when abroad): that is most convenient that they should be known (as such) and not molested: and Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
does that mention covering the head?
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
The word khumur (pl. of khimar) refers to a cloth which covers the head (including the ears), hair, neck and bosom. The esteemed mufaasir (Quranic interpreter) Al-Qurtubi explains: "Women in the past used to cover their heads with the khimar, throwing its ends over their backs. This left the neck and the upper part of the chest bare, in the manner of the Christians. Then Allah commanded them to cover those parts with the khimar."
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
Therefore, at the time except that which would be there apparent of would mean after being commanded to cover the neck and the chest would be only the face and the hands.
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
Allah commands the believing women thus:
...And do not make a display of yourselves like the displaying of the ignorance of long ago... [Al-Ahzaab, 33:33]
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
actually hymar means ''cover''. and has many meanings.
if it was to cover the head/hair then it would of said hymar-ar-ras.
this ayah however clearly states around the ''NECK'' and '''BOSOM''
or are you blind and did not see those words in that sentence?
jigglyfidda125 2 years ago
sallam sister!nice videos ;)
NahhedHeshamAli 2 years ago
Assalamu alaikum dear sister,
great video, masha'allah. I need to find a way to wrap my shayla so it covers my chest, any ideas? Jazakallahu khair! :o)
Melda31 2 years ago
instead of rapping it like I have and pinning it a second time what you can do is bring it across your chest and use a broach to pin it on your shoulder. hope this helps. Jazak'Allah Khair :)
MisforMuslim 2 years ago
It sure does, now all I need to do is buy myself a shayla that's long enough O_o lol
Melda31 2 years ago