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  • Yep. I just stumbled upon this old video, but it's a good one, worth remembering. You are correct. People don't like other people being too free.

  • Nice nipples :D

  • AAAH OH MY GOD TELEPATHY

  • what`s the sign on your necklace?

  • The add made me stop and not watch that shit video.

    I just pressed stop and now take the time to write this.

    FUCK YOU!

  • @KrutoyPostowoy jeez you seem like a nice person -_- if you hated it that much, why waste your time commenting?

  • dont let you be misleaded by heart, but use the mind

    play this game, called life tactical and try to fit in youre talents you have

    also important to remember, probably every downside comes with an good thing, you just need to see and find it out how

  • of course we can use or tallents we have to achieve shit, though we need to know or limitations

    know youreself, know youre limitations and then look whats inside youre border

    and use everything you got

    its not realy about having talents that much

    of course you shoudnt have hope to achieve goals in youre life if you dont have much talent to achieve them

    its still posible to achieve then ,but its not likely and neither adviced if youre a realistic thinking human

    ....

  • This the only vid you have made not obssessed by homosexuality. Your topic "Being Put Down" is universal. We all get put down. Thanks for your videos. I am a retired Catholic priest(in the closet & non practicing gay), and You let me see more deeply into the gay mind set. Gays have a difficult life, whether they choose celibacy( by far the better IMO because it brings out the best in our power to love), or a gay lifestyle. BTW active gays don't go to Hell, if they are sincere & truly love!!!

  • <3

  • classic ending! ahahah

  • What an exellent message, video and body ;D Thanx

  • No offense at all, but the part in your video where you are all frustrated and it's all flashing was so damn sexy! :-P

  • So true and so great

  • nipples!

  • @TheMegaJaytee Large nipples!

    

  • Well it's true, the world is full of assholes but fuck 'em do what you want and ignore the bastards. You'll be happy and successful while they're still trying to bring you down, no one needs people like that - the scum of the earth.

  • (slow clap) 

  • Thank you so much for staying the course with POSITIVITY!!!!! Keep being true and genuine!!!!

  • True, but are you just being general or are you talking about a certain issue here?

  • Not that I have a problem with it. (Not at all) But why are you shirtless?

  • sho nuff. 

  • So True(:

  • you should add this to the it get better site... though personally, i feel this is stronger and more powerful than that. You are awesome man... stay as wonderful as you are.

  • Do you guy's think girls actualy masturbat to this one?

  • nice!

  • if you have the weakness in character to assume and care about these people it will get in your way. why do gays always 'blog' with no shirt....and why are you wearing makeup? (yes its obvious) -because you care what we think about? -because you want to please. well its this character flaw that prompted you to make this video- stop caring so much and just do; cause trying to please everyone and worrying that people will criticise you will lead to your own self-destruction

  • Oh, I love your video's man and my god, you are fucken sexy . You make these great video's and people like you are so awesome.

  • You rock!!!! I love your videos and want to thank you for your awesomeness!!

    It is cliché for me to add, but you are stunning, such an attractive guy!!

    Thank you xoxo

  • see all my comments with the video upload called Victims of Difference!

  • muse - invincible

  • @ takeru91 Lol, or atleast just him.

  • Damn YOUR HOT!! ... but lol i am a girl :]

  • @Afgliciouslicute ^^ And that's when you wish everyone in the world was bi, right?

  • 13thmistral, I don't think you can either blend with the cruelty of the universe or totally oppose it. It's basically a question of walking a tightrope between becoming a monster or self-destructing, so most people do a little of both. My attitude is that life's fundamentally absurd, so it's best to not to expect too much, and try to enjoy the little things that we tend to take for granted.

  • Tetuben, I mostly agree with you. I don't even call it a community anymore. "Gay Hierarchy" sounds more accurate. It isn't simply a question of youth, though, because I've seen a few guys who remain at the top of it well into their 40s or even 50s, so Gay "Juvenocracy" wouldn't fit.

  • I don't blame people for being cruel anymore. The Universe is cold and indifferent to human suffering, and people adapt by becoming selfish, callous, and cruel. Just the way it is.

  • @Alexisme1001 indeed

    i once tried to totaly blend in with it, but i did it to good

  • No mother fucker is gonna get in our way <3 I loved this vid. One of my fav, I dont wanna sound like a creeper but your voice has a calming effect to it lol

  • HELLS YEAH!!

  • Shirtless videos grow subscribers.

    Carry on, Couver87!

  • superb - you've hit the nail on the head!

    Thanks

    Ian

    Liverpool

    UK

  • My god, your nipples are huge.

  • reminds me of a scene of leonardo decaprio in ''the beach''

  • This is my first favorite video from you because it hit home on a day when all that was going on. And your deliverery wast masterful and eloquent at the same time....thank you!!!

  • I also teach, and not preach, great advice. People take you more seriously when you wear your shirt in a video. It also helps to not re-enforce the stereotype that all gay men are self-satisfied twats who jump at the opportunity to show off their physique.

  • what was that about:O

  • Wow....ur amazing! 

  • You forgot "Your Parents"

  • dude??u gay???

  • @GagaGhost

    Yes, yes, he is...

  • @MrChlorodude ..he's hot..^.^

  • @GagaGhost

    He's also taken... :(

  • @MrChlorodude ..=(

  • Dude, you look like Ben Affleck.

  • Partners from hell - The Trailer

    D:

  • That's right you tell Tham!!! :)

  • your kinda hot!

  • As long as you are young and cute you will have the world being you and on your side. Real people will love you and support you. Hypocrite liars will tell you how wonderful you are and what a good person you are. Be out of the beautiful set for one moment and all the "Gay community" comes crashing to a halt. This is the reality of the "Gay community." And that is why, yes, it is a "lifestyle." You're young so you are accepted by everyone. That is not based in a solid foundation.

  • @tetuben93 You talk nonsense, tetuben, there are people among us who are a community, care for each other and support each other. Homosexuality is not a lifestyle/.......and being young absolutely does not mean you are accepted by everybody as you say.

  • lol, this editing in this makes it seem like a horror movie.

  • That's right. No mother fucker is going to get in our way.

    People, listen to this guy. He makes a lot of strong posative points & he's hot.

  • @catheymatt You mean positive, dont you? :P

  • Amazing. The best vid I've seen on youtube all week. :)

  • kl;h

  • Wow. Get out of my head. LOL I really needed to here that thank you.

  • Wow. Get out of my head. LOL I really needed to here that thank you. I just found your page and I can't thank you enough. I know you have tons of fans but I would really like a one on one with you. Please hit me up. P.S. your mom rocks!!!!

  • i could hear ur voice but ur lips werent moving. I thought i was having another acid flashback. god never check you tube when u first wake up.

  • Bloody hell,I have to admit the second time I watched, it was for your body.X"D

  • ive seen a few of your videos, and you seem to think the same way i do. i like it :)

  • your video brought tears to my eyes...sometimes you need some Inspirement from a stranger.. rather than from anyone else around you. =D

  • I think everyone should live by that. I've never cared what people said to me or tried to do (in a mean way) to me, and I can back up what you're saying. Screw the ones that put you down, because they don't know you and if they continue to put you down they never will and it's their loss, not yours. :-)

  • OK...that lady photographer you mentioned on your other video...is indeed correct by saying you can model because you my dear Sir is unbelievably handsome...Further to that your video is inspiring I simply agree with your views...bisous-bisous

  • he is so fucking sexy

  • @brittanyyymhm yeah he is

  • Please put a shirt on. Its very distracting.

  • Good inspiration.

    marcilio.moura@uol.com.br

  • i like and i like it a lot sir. keep up the good work.

    

  • Excellent video! You are awesome.

  • I just want to see the lower half of his naked body

  • i used to love my mom's side of the family a lot more than my dad's.. but now that i'm in my mid 20s, my mom's side still talks to me like i'm 5, like i'm an idiot, and assume i still have a long way to go to be anywhere close to successful, if ever. It's offensive and beyond disrespectful- screw them. My dad's side talks to me like an equal (not necessarily more positively, but respectfully), so i much prefer his family now

  • THis was perfect thank you.Im about to go to school for the first time since i came out. I was really nervouse,Well i still am but this helps.

  • Just exactly the type of message I was looking for at this moment. Thanks, John!

  • hey your really hot like really hot r you single?

  • It's easy to be friends with someone that fails a lot- you get to console them and they get to look up to you because you've done so much better. But a true friend will not only be there to congratulate your success- they'll be there encouraging you to succeed. :)

  • Too Right...!

  • People always tell me what to do and what not to do, so i just say: fuck you, I will do it, and you can't stop me.

  • really great video

  • nice video the nakedness was hot too

  • You have amazing ears. They make you so uniquely beautiful!!

  • ARE YOU SURE THT YOU ARE NOT GAY ?....LOOK TO ME YOU ARE ...LOL

    YOU JUST DONT KNOW IT YET .....LOL BUT IT DONT REALLY MATTER EITHER YOU ARE GAY OR NOT GAY .....IF UR A COOL PERSON GOOD HEART ...THTS ALL IT MATTER !!!! WHICH IS A LOT OF PEOPLE IN THIS COUNTRY DONT GET IT !!!!

  • I know something I'd like to just do; he he.

  • Haha... We call them "Haters" on the Internet. Yeah they're pretty much a staple in my life. But they do motivate me and humble me sometimes...

    Thanks John!!! Ur a HUGE inspiration! xoxo

  • @original503 i hear ya life of a baller

  • Nipples!

  • im fuckin in love with you haha

  • awesome! You're speaking to us with your thoughts! Nice nipples btw :D

  • ...Nipples... I think I have a nipple fetish and you being shirtless isn't helping at all!

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  • You have great hair XD!

  • @111supernova111 No, thats not shallow!!! geesh!

  • You fuel my fire.

  • damn...are all us gays horny suns o' bitches? i acttually listened and wasnt distracted by the hotness buuuuut of course i watched it again just for the shirtlessness~ lmfao

  • I think it's cool how you can speak without moving your lips.

  • ''and no mothefucker is gonna get in our way''

    haha, such a good point! only few people think about it nowdays. Its about being paranoid in a healthy way.

    You seem interesting to listen to and look at of course xD great videos

    and nice armpits :D

    Cheers from Chile.

  • Thank you!

  • that was an awesome video.

  • Ha! Yes, none should give a damn to those who stares at you with a rather disdainful look...gee

  • John, I usually really like what you have to say. And I can relate to you a lot better than most other gay guys on YouTube. But I wish you sold your message as much as you sold yourself - what you have to say is much more important to me than your body.

  • Hey john Im jeff and can u turn str8 after 5sec in a room with a gay guy even if ur gay too so text me o call me to get more info 904-962-007

  • @gaymanforlife3000 Oh this I gotta hear.

  • Power to the People

  • That was distracting. I was trying to listen but with you sitting there half naked, it didn't work quite well. ;)

  • @shubham3737 He maaad sexy right! LOL

  • @shubham3737 He's got pretty blue eyes, that's about it for me.

  • well, that was amazing.

    and very very very true.

  • this is very good video! i like it alot! lol

  • I just wanted to say i really enjoyed this video.

  • You should take your shirt off more. Sexy :P

  • its very true!!! love the speech!!

  • I agree there is always someone out there bringing you down that sad part for me is that some of my "friends" are those people it's really sad:( but I don't let it get to me XP

  • So awesome, reminds me of the song "Die, Vampire, Die" from the musical [title of show]

  • Very creative!

    *kiss

  • hi sweet heart! This is off topic, but have you seen the movie MILK? OMG it is sooo good.

  • You're so hot when you're bare-chested.

  • How Buddhist of you. I like it, seeing as I'm Buddhist. Believe first In yourself, and belief in others will follow.

  • i am like in luv with you right now.

    i hav jus been thinking about things(like 2 min ago)

    and this video has really helped me

    cuz im really trying to learn how to be myself

    and no muther fck r is going to get in my way

    thank you:)<3

  • @vegatron77 Clearly you're one of those mother you know what-ers.

  • This IS AWESOME. I loved the message. And the motherfucker thing :)

  • wait, what? I miss the what you were saying. i was too distracted by your shirtless-ness to pay attention.

  • You inspire me so much =3

  • @IcyFire148

    HE IS GAYYYYYYY

  • @Ionasian

    No shit. :P

  • JUST DO IT!!!!

    Great video and advice!

  • yeah !! just fuck off and Just do it !!

    me encantan tus publicaciones ^^!

  • thank you fot making this video. im the space of 1.27 you made me realise that i to have the drive and ability to be sucessful & people putting me down now just fules my drive to succeed & be myself. thank you XX

  • this video came at very good timing to me. i realized this too a while ago. whether it be your brothers, parents, best friend (?), stranger, teacher... it seems they get pleasure from torturing others. it might not be fair, or expected or remotely sane. i guess this is the back end of human nature and ive had enough. i used to wonder, why? did i do something? no, and ill never let others crush me again.

    thank you

  • MMM So Sexy!

  • "Misery loves company"

    People do it because they themselves know their own shortcomings and feel like if they point out that others have shortcomings too, then they're not the only ones.

    Just try to remember that we are all human and we all make mistakes. Forgive and forget, and above all as you have so poignantly said, don't let them hinder you.

  • It is true. :-/

  • What I really "love" after you advocate not letting anyone put you down or talking bad about you, you call them a "motherfucker".

    Hypocrisy is thriving!

    Or is it that you don't want someone doing that to you, just as long do it to them first...just like you did by calling people "motherfucker".

    When the need to lash out at others because of what you feel is being done wrongfully towards us, we should ascend, not stoop to thier level.

    I get your point, but try using kindness instead? =P

  • Wow.....Just....WOW...Yer AMAZING

  • very artistic

  • amen to that

  • or your parents.

  • Alright. I won't do that ne more. :P

  • hmm...intense

  • like camping =]

  • Thats like um subliminal messaging ha

  • Heh.... hit straight home, especially about the whole behind the back.... which is where most people have always done it.

  • Wow....okay. No mutha fucka is going to get in our way! different, but still inspirational as always.

  • In the Deserts of Hatred, there are three main enemies: the Spiders of Spite, the Scorpions of Scorn, and the Serpents of Surreption. Of these, it is Surreption that is the most devastating.

  • I completely agree I hate when people tell me I shouldn't apply somewhere cuz I won't get in... Who cares I'll never know if I dnt try ... He speaks the truth dnt let anyone discourage u from ur dreams... Where there's a will there's a power

  • This dude speaks the truth. There's a guy at my work who's a jackass.

  • its easy to see that you get alot out of these videos yourself, thanks for sharing your epiphany with us. :)

  • nice..

  • Great advice! I really do need to take that to heart.

  • I agree

  • haha i like the part about no motherfucking getting in our way. dude it's a great message and totally true. you always have to fight through the loads and loads of crap that people will throw at you. but as long as you're true to yourself and hold your head up high you'll get through and be a pretty awesome person on the other side.

  • Completely agree with you 100%

    ps. glad your making more videos again =)

  • You are beautiful and sexy.

    Great message.

  • I so tottaly agree. Dude your like so insperational.

  • who isn't that in my life? except my friends

  • Amen. =D

  • GREAT message. I agree.

    Now, if you could please never put a shirt on?

  • Thanks John... good message.

    Now please keep the shirt off!

  • thanks...i needed that especially right now in my life :) you are awesome...do what you do...and do it the best