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  • PUA is the biggest scam of all time, and this guy is another fucking scam artist cunt. You can't teach attraction. You either have it or you don't. You're either good looking or you're not. All this PUA shit is a scam.

  • @MrHav1k There's more to attraction than your genetics. And everything which is not a part of your genetics you can learn and develop. Confidence, humor, dress sense, etc.

  • @bollwoven

    And what does the woman have to do???

    NOTHING, NOT A FUCKING THING. A man has to be a fucking god at everything to even get an ugly girl, its all about looks.

  • @MrHav1k So you think a girl will take well to a good looking guy even if he comes across creepy as hell and dressed like a tramp?

    Of course not! And yeah, you need to put some effort into being attractive to women if you're going after them. Men are the hunters, the ones who take action, you expect a woman to just give herself to you?

  • @bollwoven

    THEY DO THAT IF YOU'RE GOOD LOOKING. IF YOURE GOOD LOOKING YOU DONT NEED GAME, THEY PICK YOU UP, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND...

    And don't give me that gender role bullshit. Women want all the rights, and none of the responsibility. Feminism will be the end of western society.

  • What's with the cliff hanger endings. =[ I need the full scoop. These videos are funny.

  • As an introvert, I avoid going out as much as I can. I shop online and if I have to go out, I try to be as efficient as possible, so that I can go home soon. I also try to go to places where I can interact with people the least. I need to push myself to be more social and make friends with James too.

  • I will tell you guys two things you need to do to get alot more women. 1. STOP masturbating. It saps testosterone, ambition drive and alphaness. 2. Focus on Self improvement. Working out, reading, running learning etc. I GUARANTEE these two things will guide your success with women, as well as alot of other categories. TRUST ME.

  • @khayesjr85 masturbation helps with preventing prostate cancer. its a fact.

  • @khayesjr85 i did not know that about masturbation, is there scientific evidence that proves that? that is depletes testosterone?

  • @khayesjr85 Sounds like good advice K,sounds like your saying get YOUR life in order.

  • So the jist of all of this is, be fake. Pretend to be someone you're not to attract people who will only be attracted to you because you're being someone you're not.

    Look, if you're introverted that's who you are and that's not a bad thing. If everyone talked to everyone all the time, we'd never get anything done, lol. I'll also mention that all of this pickup stuff just inflates the value of women and puts men in a never-ending role of catering to modern women's silliness. To hell with that.

  • @AllPro777 Hello.. I think being "YOU" is a very fluid concept. As long as "YOU" are happy with meeting other people, "YOU" enjoy talking to them. Its not pretending for me, because I'am the one who is happy.

  • @Paolorv0168

    Right. But if the real "YOU" is only doing this get women then that person is not being real at all. They are just being someone they're not to get women. There is no real happiness in that.

  • @AllPro777 @Paolorv0168 What is the real "YOU" then?? I mean, isn't this suppose to be an improvement to our real selves? Just like we go to school to improve our selves to get a job or start a business.

    here we study this to improve our selves to have a fighting chance to get a woman you like, the woman that might actually fit "YOU." If the better guys get better at this, then maybe women will have a better choice with their partners, not with just those douche bad boy types.

  • @Paolorv0168

    But consider this... why are we as men continuing to inflate women's value by actually creating entire curriculums, schools even, just to stroke their egos? Stroking the female ego is what got Western society in this mess where so many men can't get a date now. If men would just stop living every waking moment trying to cater to women, women would have no choice but to change and be more receptive without needing men to jump through a billion hoops just to get them to say hello.

  • @AllPro777 Compare your comment with the revelations in the video called "What Women Want is Worship".

  • @AllPro777 - I totally agree and to add my own thought, if we HAVE to jump through hoops because we're not important enough to by sought after by women, why do we even want them in the first place? Likely that someone we get will just use us.

  • @AllPro777 one word answer: sex

  • @Murphator

    True. But my point is that I feel we can get that without all the hoops. Men just need to raise their standards.

  • @AllPro777 dude, go surf, or meditate, or both. its what I did. Im not the same person anymore, and I say good riddance My ego literally had to die to make me talk to girls anywhere. it was this crying running angry puking weekend, but I got through it and LITERALLY my life is awesome, I just have a hum of happiness flowing thru me everyday, its incredible. i get rejected and accepted by girls on a regular basis and its awesome. i just got blown out of the water today and I LAUGHTED ABOUT IT!

  • @Murphator

    LOL. Man, if a guy has to meditate over women, he has WAY bigger problems than not being able to pick up women, lol.

    I don't have nor have I ever had trouble talking to women, or getting numbers, etc. I've never asked a woman for her number and not gotten it and I've never been given a fake one either. I've never been rejected, so I have no idea what that's like. But, I've always been good at recognizing women's signs and knowing she's interested. Most men are not good at that.

  • @AllPro777 not gonna lie to you "random guy on the internet" but I DID i had SOOOO many problems. and now their gone.

    and im happy you're so successful with women, but I have to say in all honesty, your initial comment sounded like you were a noob complaining about it. just sayin. glad stuffs workin out for you

  • @Murphator

    I'm not a "random guy". I'm a unique individual, thanks.

    Your misinterpretation is common of being conditioned into assuming that any time a man says anything besides glowing praise about a woman he must have some kind of problem. It's not your fault. We live in a society that hates men, doesn't care about their problems, and runs to the defense of women even when women are wrong.

    I'm have no desire to pursue women right now. The game is silly and I don't like to play games.

  • @AllPro777  misinterpretation?

  • @Murphator

    Yes, that's what you did... misinterpreted my point. That's obvious based on how you responded to my initial post.

  • 2guys for this one also,You see the girl you want,your friend waits out side for 5 minutes,you practice,or just do it.You go in sit by the girl,wait till she is between you and the bartender,say real loud to the bartender "Was he here yet?" he says WHO?You ask her,"Was he here yet?"WHO? you say don't you watch the News?theysay 4,you say chan.5,The Sultan of Baideen's son is coming here tonight.I want to ask him to fund,bla,bla.Tell the girl to smile and help you,Your friend comes in,call,Prince?

  • Two guys for this one,get her between you and your friend,you friend walks past her as you do,opposit,he gets real loud and says real NASTY sh!t to her,YOU are the HERO,you say"Hay watch your mouth,this is a beautiful girl,have respect,don't talk like that",your friend tell you,oh yeah,a PUNCHES YOU in the face,he slaps your open hidden hand,to make the sound(you practice),you fall to the ground,at her feet,he RUNS AWAY.And you are her HERO,done deal.

  • can I see him in-field somewhere?

  • Man this is great for me....can't wait to try this in my class a place where girls are trapped with you XD and if you happen to sit beside them its even better :P

  • @InspectorMontelbano1 : I think the problem comes from you, man. You have absolutely no confidence in yourself because of your so-called ugly looks. I'm not a pretty tall guy (5'10'') and in all subjectivity, I wouldn't call myself a good-looking guy. But fact is I treat women as equal, I know that they eat, breath, sleep, fart, shit like I do. Making them laugh helps too. So hit the bricks, get a clue.

  • @Uzuchiha08 -Me too,I never had a problem,other guys don't like me for it,but tough sh!t,I would do "Raps" for fun,because some girls are so gullible,I said the "Band-aid" rap,cotton under the lips,gauze tape,sit in the bar in pain ,they take care of you,never fails.another?Ask directions like you can't speak English,walk up big smile and say "Three street?",they try to help you,then "bue,baav,baaar?" they say"BAR",use signs up down etc.it's fun,be careful when you tell them,some get real mad.

  • David rules !

  • excuse me...... who are you again?

  • Room full of poor sapps just wasting their money in this loon. Grow some balls and make her like you. No fucking games

  • Therapy. Lol

  • i know you do good videos for men but how can you tell if a wind up merchant is interested in you because certain things you say relate to him. like playing games

  • Oh dear, yet another piss poor attempt at marketing more useless PUA crap to another bunch of gullible men. When will some men wake up, and realise that women are shallow,superficial creatures who only care about LOOKS and MONEY. Also I find it ironic that a good looking guy is trying to teach men (usually ugly) how to be successful with women. How the fuck would a handsome dude know what an ugly guy has to endure?, simple THEY DON'T.

    PUA = PRETTY USELESS ADVICE.

  • @InspectorMontelbano1 says the pussy behind his computer hiding from temporary failure that will lead to sucess. You automatically give yourself a reason to not go out and try. You are regretting something before it even happens. Let it go.

  • @JDynamix Typical shaming language, I have approached lots of women, and i got rejected even before I opened my mouth ie. instantly. or I already know I had been rejected even before it got to the stage where I asked the woman out for her to say no (she is giving me instant fuck off signals/or negative body language). PUA does not work for ugly looking guys like me.

  • @JDynamix some of the basic points ive figured out by probly doing 3 hrs of research on this subject in my entire life has definetly helped me get countless numbers, and go on quite a few dates with random women. bitch

  • well from personal experience, he is 100% right. im a quiet guy and tend to keep to myself but the last several months i've been more open and just talking to everyone i meet about anything. i'm not really sure why, i think i just decided i didnt want to be a fuckin debbie-downer anymore. regardless, during those last few months i've attracted more woman than ever in the past. being friendly and kind to everyone you meet goes a long way and you definately put out a better vibe.

  • I had to face shit loads of rejection before I actually learned. Looks honestly don't mean shit, we want pussy just as much as anyone else haha! Lol. But we have an unfair standard to live up to. I've fucking approached probably hunds. Of women in that stupid Stylelife challenge thingy, but my success was good but it dies out quick. Secret of women truly is to just be social, no persuing. AT ALL, see yourself as desirable Regardless what women may think of you. Instill the belief.

  • @WhatsHappening783402 Bullshit!, LOOKS are everything to women, if you don't pass the looks test with a woman, no amount of "game" or PUA NEW AGE QUACKERY is going to change that.

  • I love how he says things similar to treating women like humans in each video but tells you to practice, practice, practice talking to them.

    Lol he's teaching us how to be nice people.

  • I love how he says things similar to treating women like humans in each video but tells you to practice, practice, practice talking to them.

  • This is crazy ! Every time I go into to a grocery store, It just looks like woman are only there for the same reason you are. SHOP ! Get real ! It's scarey approaching woman in Public places.

  • Talking to the 'Dude'. pisser

  • I would have to drink a couple four loco's on the way to the register to be that outgoing with anyone at a gas station

  • listen, I bet no-one who sees this page likes to get rejected. So if you think people are sad when they want some advice, I say FACK YOU, sir.

    I salute everyone who thinks it's great work he does, and the top rated comments r damn right.

    btw, when you do this trick, it's also possible that the girl behind you get's pissed, or know james even better than you. then it will be like: Oh, you know him to? no, I didn't know he grew up in france... :)

  • This guy is so damn spot on.........

  • and a stranger has all this time for your game? ahahaha what a joke.am not troll or anything but there is nothing like this shit,a woman gotta be attracted to you for u to get shit if she's not,no matter how hard u try its not gonna work,face it.

  • is that his penis? oh my god!

  • This is like what they teach at the CIA farm. Extracting information...point man...are people trying to get phone numbers or flip persons of interest for info?

  • i love his guy he is good at this

  • Shit people need to start thanking people for this stuff because they could have kept all this useful knowledge to themselves. So to every pickup artist and dating coach THANK YOU!!!

  • I actually enjoy David's videos.. lol.. yea i know its kinda like "using" someone to your advantage or seems "fake" but shit, you know what? Do what technique works for you! Maybe by trying his methods, or other people's methods will help you understand people more or understand what works best for you. And to be honest, most guys DON"T KNOW how to approach women, so its great to learn to give yourself confidence to break the shell to open your mouth!

  • gas station? perfect. hahaha 

  • David Wygant looks like a douche

  • Pick up girls?

    I just use money.

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  • hey daivd. i really want to buy your product(S), But I need to know whats the age limit to whom you teach this stuff to?

  • How's the tuna?

  • these niggas takin notes lmaooo!!!

  • wow, this guy is so good. More energy than some other pick up guys

  • @DrSargassi He's not a pick-up guy.

  • You know what really makes me laugh? All the guys that watch this video, and try to knock all of the others for watching it like they never watched it. I mean really, if you didn't watch this video then why are you on this page with a comment? The 138,368 views certainly came from somewhere didn't they? Let me guess, your little sister logged into your account just to watch this video and post a shitty comment? Yeah right, get the fuck out of here!

  • that is well said man, there are some guys on here who pretend like they don't watch it and calling everyone stupid for getting the help. like you said, stop the bullshit and your excuses and get the fuck out of here!

  • @kltiswhoib

    Well said!

    Anyone could learn something from David no matter how good their 'game' was.

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  • @kltiswhoib Well I was watching Human Identity,about mans intellect,this came up on the side so I had to look,why?well for me a money maker.I can teach guys how to pick up girls and get paid for it.I NEVER had a problem with.Some guys say "yeah Right" I say,did,'t you ever see a guy that the girls chase???Ah so it IS posible,just not you.Hint stuff toilet paperby your gums to swollen,gauze tape,bandaids,sit in a bar and look in pain,the mother in the girls comes out,"You OK ?",,"Need anything".

  • This geezer is painful

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  • @NikolaKovski

    why are you having hard time to believe?

    you call this crap when you feel insecure inside of you and that's why you're watching it:)

  • @Stevethunderful

    wow...my point is... there are so many stupid people out there... and people like you are taking advantage of them.

    if you would see me, face to face you would never ever would say what you are saying here.

  • @NikolaKovski

    Make some sense man, how am i taking advantage of people? All the people you label "stupid" i bet if you met them face to face, you wouldn't have the balls to say what you're saying here either. Your comments shows how ignorant you are!!

  • @Stevethunderful ooooooooh yes I would.!

  • @NikolaKovski

    over youtube you're just talk and talk! you sound like you're some fat 40yr old who just loves trashing people b/c you're stuck in your moms basement:)

  • @Stevethunderful

    lol... that was funny. MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

    please bring down my food.!!!! lol

    

  • @NikolaKovski

    glad you enjoyed it Nikola, it seems like its not that hard to make a new friend after some verbal battle:) where are you from?

  • muy nigga kno what he tlkin about lol

  • gstition!

  • hahahah i know i have no game...but going to one of these things makes u look like a bitch lol

  • @323rab nah dude, some guys just didnt learn, i met my best friend at a seminar. we are both in commited relationships and happier than can be

  • If you think that people who need dating coaches are morons,you are not just a moron but an asshole.

  • looks like you can't tell the difference between an asshole and a woman. if the shoe fits, wear it. was I talking to you? no wonder you guys all need a coach...not getting much luck with your lack of skills. bye bye.

  • @SteveB2126 it takes one to know one. ;)

    it's been a while...how's business, David?

  • @SteveB2126 I know a few people with narcisisstic personality disorder. i gotta hand it to this guy, he figured out how to make a living at it! he probably gets more ass than a toilet seat, and i'd just bet none of it means a damn thng..

  • @SteveB2126 Truth, and you know what, people who take their time to come here, came here for a reason, because they have a problem or want to be educated at David's angle, then there are those who know they have a problem, but their other problem is they try and make people feel bad about seeking advice, to me thats immature and unnecessary.

  • @SteveB2126 eh settle down, not everybody learns how lick ass on their own.

  • @SteveB2126 thats why youve watched and commented on the video? stop playing you hack! you couldnt get laid in a whore house!

  • @SteveB2126 People who need dating coaches are not morons, but they are either very naive/or gullible if they honestly believe PUA shit actually works. The real arseholes are the fanboys and fools who actually believe PUA shit works.

  • @SteveB2126 well said! :)

  • if you need a "dating coach" you're a moron. any questions? :)

  • @joanofarcxxi only nerds need couches like un athletic people need trainers to train in the gym.

  • @miamiforlyfe Which one are you?

  • I always find it funny when people are quick to complain and make judgements on things when they don't even understand the full, precise detail behind it. This is just as absurd as what's happening here in Phoenix with the whole immigration bill protests. "It looks bad, therefore I must protest.." LIMITED THINKING! NO RESEARCH! But anyway.. It's up to the individual. Do they wish to learn the LAWS OF ATTRACTION, or continue doing what hasn't worked in the past? It's your choice people.

  • @DjKDM7000 hahaha! don't you have anything else to do? ;p chill! don't take it so personal. what do you care about this video...unless you're the guy in it? he talks about being an "alpha male" - so I tried to help anyone who is not sure what an alpha male is...YOU don't have to agree with me, honey bunny! xo get busy.  I have to. bye bye now. muah! X P.S. if you want to know how to seduce a woman, I can teach you. ciao, baby.

  • @joanofarcxxi Not taking anything personal. I'm just trying to make people wake up and see things at a deeper level as much as possible, but without getting too far off topic. As far as the question whether or not I have anything else to do, well um.... technically, yes, but as far as I'm concerned, NOPE. Not THIS weekend! Why? Because I choose not to. Therefore, I have all the time in the world.. within the next 1 hour 20 min.. to comment / reply on every site I wish :D

  • Alpha Males: psychological report: only ten percent of affluent, handsome and successful men are emotionally and psychologically healthy. alpha males are narcissistic, emotionally unavailable, anti social and suffer varying degrees of histrionic personality disorder and conterdependent disorder. sounds like a winner?

  • @joanofarcxxi If it's helping them so profoundly in other areas of their life than perhaps it isn't a disorder. One person could be completely psychologically healthy and never reproduce. Never passing on those healthy qualities.

  • be real, be genuine, be nice, be a gentleman. it's not so hard. there's a lid for every pot. you should not base your self-confidence and self-esteem on quantity, but on quality.

  • having a lot of women interested doesn't mean your relationships will be successful. if you are still an asshole and a looser, all the women will dump you. I am NEVER impressed by womanizers. I doubt any woman is - of course, she might be if she isn't the sharpest tool in the shed...the guy in this video is one that I'd avoid, btw. he reeks of sales pitch.

  • @joanofarcxxi Based on your replies - specifically in regard to my comments alone, I can tell you didn't "get" most, if anything, of what I said - from a psychological point of view. If just being real, being genuine, BEING NICE, and being a gentleman alone really worked, then none of these people selling these products would be in business. There is MUCH more to it than that. Want to be real? Then people can improve themselves, then be their real, genuine IMPROVED selves..

  • @ but I am sorry to say: it won't. if you haven't figured out things on your own with life experience and a good dose of healthy self esteem that seduction is not based on some one size fits all "formula", you will only behold an illusion. but hey, what do I know? I am only a woman with no experience nor intellect. people CAN improve themselves. that's a nother chapter. got ot go.

  • @joanofarcxxi LASTLY: Saying you don't fully get what is being taught here does not have anything to do with anyone's intelligence level. It simply means that person does not fully understand the message being delivered in this video. Plain and simple. ..And for those of you who assume "Oh he typed in caps, therefore he MUST be angry and there can be no further explanation", well... that's your own limited thinking causing you to see it that way. (@EVERYONE: ) - Enjoy your day folks!

  • @DjKDM7000 mr. DJ, why don't you get busy dating? why waste time discussing in here...go out there and practice "the formula". yeah, you are just so deeply intellectual and think such great big thoughts, how can I understand (get) anything you say...so, you are here doing what exactly? buying his products? if you are buying anything from this man, good luck, I hope it works for you.

  • @joanofarcxxi You see - it's this type of limited, small minded thinking that messes up our politics today. People can only see surface level and then make an entire judgement based on that misinformation. 1. Just because I am here, that does not conclude that I must be buying HIS products. 2. Just because I know certain things, that does not mean I'll practice it 24/7 and NEVER have time to watch YouTube - ON MY OWN TIME. 3. well... enough with the "1, 2, 3,..." number system - See part 2..

  • @DjKDM7000 The type of responses I'm seeing. Now, back to limited thinking - let me make sure I clarify the meaning of that: 1. I'm a DJ, therefore this must mean I do not know or cannot be interested in other things. NOT TRUE. Just because my YouTube is geared MOSTLY towards DJ'ing, this does not mean I know nothing about psychology, meteorology, aviation,..etc. It SIMPLY means I chose to make MY YouTube geared towards music. This is the same limited thinking people use to vote at the polls..

  • @DjKDM7000 2. I must be a "mack" or "pro" because I posted a BRIEF SUMMARY of what I know on this topic, therefore I should be dating and HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO TIME to reply or comment on videos. NOT TRUE. If I choose to be on here watching storm chasers and notice I get comments and feel the desire to reply, then I will do so, regardless of whether or not I am a pro. IF I AM ON A DATE and choose to reply DURING the date...etc. I am not limited to ONE thing just because I'm currently discussing..

  • @joanofarcxxi PART 2: The Alpha Males paragraph ALONE shows that you do not fully understand precisely what is being taught here. Key words: "handsome" ... "successful".. And there is a specific reason why those words caught my attention. This has nothing to do with trying to improve your looks or successes economically- as I'm assuming you're meaning success in terms of economics and finances. There is a purpose to these videos, but you've completely missed the entire point, based on..

  • @DjKDM7000 that ONE thing. I think those two examples of limited thinking and seeing only surface level are enough. But one more thing, because I choose to present it, even though I could be dating or washing my dog..etc. Saying I'm not a woman, therefore I could not know anything about women is like saying Biologists are human, therefore they could not know anything about animals. This is why people study science, psychology etc. to learn and detect what people cannot fully experience.

  • yes, what you said is of utter importance in here, right? I don't give a damn if anyone "gets" what I am saying. take it or leave it, darlings. I don't have anything to prove. you all have a lot to learn if you are visiting this page....now, why I am here? wouldn't you like to know...that's my secret. you think you will learn something from this guy... :) ....you think it will get you to score...

  • @joanofarcxxi PART 2: I also did not see or hear where this was supposed to be about "relationships"... You have to know how to GET into a relationship before you actually have one. Nothing on any of the videos I've posted on say anything about having to be a womanizer, asshole, jerk, abuser..etc. If anyone got that out of this, then they need to continue re-watching it until they properly understand and get what the message that's trying to be delivered here.

  • @joanofarcxxi PART 3: Of course he sounds like a sales pitcher - because he is selling products! Plain and simple. Some people who have knowledge in a certain area choose to make money off of that knowledge, especially when they are also experienced in marketing / sales. I've purchased from someone like him before, so I know from experience that (most of) these guys are the real deal. Guys, make sure to also check out what Jennelli has to say as well.

  • Perfect example of how much you can get away with if you show that you are well known, worthy of being famous, and maintaining high status: ON FACEBOOK, A comment posted from a profile who claims to be Katy Perry: "The sister volcano to Eyjafjallajokull, she's called...#dxjhjikgvfdjkioas." Normally in real life, people would look at this with their logical mind and think "weird, creepy" etc. However, because it's Katy Perry, emotionally people react positively, with comments like "cool" "wow" "

  • If I met this guy in a gas station and he kept on at me wanting to know why I didn't know James I'd find him really fucking annoying.

  • I bet this guy has never had a girlfriend in his life.

  • @holliferx That is, a real, stable one. :) The movie, "Ghosts of Girlfriend's Past", is the perfect example of a player and its consequences.

  • "low hanging fruit is there for a reason, grab it"

    truly priceless advice

  • a friend of mine wants to open one of these businesses. this stuff is usefull, but in the end, it all comes down to not taking everything too seriously

  • Understanding a woman's verbal advice: A woman says she wants a nice guy / a guy that's funny / a guy with money...etc. Many men fall for the LOGICAL, PRECISE MEANING behind these phrases. Remember, women saying this are thinking in a logical state of mind, not emotional. Attraction however, is EMOTIONAL, so all you REALLY need is to know how to spark attraction. Also, lets say I say "I want a store with low prices". Ok true, but that's only ONE of the many things I'd like that store to have..

  • Understanding a woman's verbal advice part2: So I say "I want a store with low prices". Most people would assume that because that's all I said, then THAT'S ALL IT SHOULD TAKE to satisfy me. No, that's just ONE thing I want. It would not help if they had low prices, but didn't have friendly service, products I desire, or convenient hours. See? Same thing with women. "I want a guy that's..." but in addition to that one thing, you must also possess other qualities. Be nice-and INTERESTING.. (see?)

  • LASTLY, NEVER accuse a woman of being a liar or anything if you do not understand the mating game yourself. Women may seem to say one thing then mean something completely different, like "I want a nice guy" but that's because emotion and attraction are not logical. This is why a woman cannot logically tell you with words what she really wants on a deeper level. We are all logical minded beings with illogical emotions and thoughts roaming. This is what causes the confusion and misunderstanding.

  • @DjKDM7000 VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY true. Stole the words right out of my mouth. Your comment shows a deep level of intellect. I would give you five thumbs if I could!

    Do you mind me asking you a few questions about women? I'd be very grateful if I got this opportunity. :)

  • Now, in addition to my previous comments below, I'd like to add that this rule of not taking advice also applies to ANYONE WHO SAYS WOMEN WANT A NICE GUY! Women also say they want a guy that's funny, yet I have yet to see clowns getting laid. Catch my drift here? Don't LISTEN to women, but UNDERSTAND them. UNDERSTAND women on a DEEPER, personal level, and what REALLY makes them feel good. Learn how the complex, multidimensional laws of attraction work. These videos R good 4 starters..

  • NOW, as a follow up to my previous comment below this one, Despite the fact I believe "just be urself" is the dumbest advice u could receive, I'll say that it's ok for SOME people to, but NOT ALL! Being yourself for most guys means being a man who cannot attract a woman. How to solve this? Take time to learn the laws of attraction+the mating game, improve yourself, take what u've learned (videos, cd's seminars..etc) make it part of ur natural behavior, and THEN u can "be yourself!" See? SIMPLE!

  • @DjKDM7000 I beg to differ; if everyone adopted and learned the same "Alpha Male" attitude, there wouldn't be a lot of uniqueness left in the world, especially if you try to become what you literally see in Wygant's videos. Mentally, when you're seeking help, while watching these videos, you tend to want to copy Wygants actions (literally), seeing that they "work", which turns you into a douchebag. We can be confident, but we can't forget about the natural laws of chivalry and respect.

  • @NeverMind88888 The goal of his videos (and any others on the net) are not to be identical to them, but to take certain tools and aspects, make them a part of your behavior, then be yourself- AFTER you learn what you need to learn. I think the main problem with these type of videos is most people don't get that. They don't see the deeper level of things going on. All they see is "Well he's doing/saying to do this, so I must do the exact same things". No. There are different ways to reach a goal.

  • @DjKDM7000 No, you misunderstood me. I was trying to say many people don't understand that you should learn from qualities that you admire, and not directly copy his actions. That just wouldn't be "yourself".

  • @NeverMind88888 Which part are you referring to? This is exactly what I said earlier - do not take everything the dating coach says literally, but take certain aspects and tools that you learn to make them become a natural part of you.

    This works, in addition to developing the nice guy attitude, but keeping that bad boy feel and edge to keep things stimulatingly interesting. Ln other words, you could say "the romantic hero".

  • @NeverMind88888 Part 2 - in other words, different personalities can take the same "techniques" and creatively display them in different ways so even if everyone just happened to learn these skills, still an incredible amount of people would still be different from each other. There would be higher competition, but it wouldn't be TOO big of a problem because there will still be different personalities for women to choose from. One would still click with her emotionally more than the other..

  • @NeverMind88888 SHY PART 2. If you're a shy guy, then "being yourself" means "being a guy that is also shy". If you are seeking advice on how to not be shy, chances are that this is something you want to change in yourself. Usually people want to change for the better, so in other words, you're trying to improve yourself. This is why I say "don't just be yourself, but become your BETTER self", and then you can "just be yourself" all you want to be.

  • @DjKDM7000 Shy is a part of personality to an extent, but if you're a really shy person it doesn't mean that's who you are. When people get out into the community after high school, they feel more comfortable being themselves and are less shy (correct me if I'm wrong). Personality isn't something that changes so easily. Shyness, on the other hand, somewhat deteriorates as you're more comfortable with your crowd, knowing you won't be judged.

  • @NeverMind88888 I see now -you're referring to things I said earlier.... That's true, but remember, if you're shy in front of people, then you are a person that's shy in front of people, regardless of if it's certain people or certain situations. What you are trying to become is that person who is not shy in any area he doesn't want to be shy in. This is where "becoming your better self" comes in. | You are saying being yourself as being who you are when you're home alone with no one watching..

  • @NeverMind88888 PART 2 but I am talking about being yourself as a whole, in all situations. Either way, you want to become your better self. Not be fake and do things that are not natural, but do / practice the things you wish to eventually become natural to you and your behavior. It's like learning to drive or... learning to do anything in life. You keep doing it until you perfect it and make it a part of you. Being fake would be like trying to do something you have no TRUE interest in.

  • @NeverMind88888 good boy!

  • @joanofarcxxi Haha.. thanks. If you don't mind me asking, what exactly are you complimenting?

  • @DjKDM7000 you are speaking from your own personal experience, and I notice you say "most guys" - but that is not the truth. are you a woman? no. so, you don't know anything about what women want. MEN CAN'T UNDERSTAND WOMEN! we can't even understand ourselves. you need to learn to accept that - rule number one...

  • @joanofarcxxi I beg to differ; even if women don't understand themselves quite fully (not excluding men), I believe that others (of a higher intellect) could understand them if they dug a bit deeper by observing the nature of human actions/reactions. Correct me if you think I'm wrong, but I think womens' (and mens') problem of not knowing what they, themselves, want-and are attracted to- is partially because of their insecurities, leading to indecisiveness and a misconception of words.

  • Somewhere in the comments, I saw a little snippet talking about "just be yourself" so I HAVE to say something. Guys, DO NOT EVER LISTEN TO ANYONE WHO GIVES U THAT TYPE OF ADVICE, ESPECIALLY IF DOING SO HAS NOT GOTTEN U ANYWHERE ALL ALONG! I'll share a secret with u on how and when it's appropriate to be urself, but first, let me say that if "being urself" really worked for U, then u would've never been in a situation where u had to be told that in the first place! THINK about it...

  • @DjKDM7000 Maybe you would've been in that situation (where you would've been told that "be yourself" thing) not because you were being yourself and unsuccessful, but because you were seeking advice on how not to be shy. People mainly come because they are shy, not because they don't like their "personality".

  • @NeverMind88888 If you're shy, wanting to learn how to not be shy, then odds are that is the situation that's causing you to be in a situation where you're having to be told that as a response or result of something you said or some type of knowledge you were seeking. If you were not in that situation of trying to undo shyness, then "fate" would've never brought you into that situation where you're being told "just be yourself" in the first place.

  • i wanna man thats a woman! a she man? fuck alphamale shit! i would freak the fuck out if someone came up to mee out of the blue that shitss for the fuckin country not the city

  • let me ell you: this guy is a salesman - 100%. If he came up to me with that attitude, I'd walk away. no soliciting! just be yourself, the way you are. develop your inner qualities - not fake cockiness. develop a healthy spirit, mind, heart, and body. you will not have any problems then. if a woman likes you, she will talk to you. we're in the 21st century. women are independent and asertive. do you think they are not going to talk to you if they like you? :)

  • @joanofarcxxi

    Thats right you would walk away b/c you don't have the balls to speak with men who have developed deep inner confidence and are able to teach it to others. Just be yourself doesn't solve all the problem its more than that buddy, Have you figured life out for-yourself?

  • darling, I have figured out life for myself. that is why I am saying what I am saying. you could be brad pitt, and I'd still walk away if you did what this guy is advising guys to do. why is it not enough to be yourself? men have been picking up women and women have been falling in love with them - for millenia. no need for classes. but it's really up to you guys. I can promise you this: this guy may get laid a lot with stupid women, but he can't keep them. quantity in not quality.

  • and you are so right: I have no balls. that's because I AM a WOMAN. :)  have a nice day. xo

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  • @MrJacobkhan you're right, I don't have the balls - I have something else guys like better if they are not gay. :)