I'm Leaving You! - Does The Punishment Really Fit The Crime?

[carnypimp]

My girlfriend almost kicked me out over my panic. We talked and now things are better than ever. You really want love it is a constant never ending fight but can be a good fight if you let it. I don't know sometimes I would rather just be single so I don't have to fight for it and just keep other things into perspective like my kids future, work, and bills. It is hard when you got so much going on and on top of that try to keep a realtionship intact just because you are going through stress.

[headalphafemale]

Sometimes, a person means what they are saying to you. They want to leave! You can bend over backwards and they still want to leave. Let them go! They may think they have found something better, but often it is proven they are wrong. But also it might be better for you, more than them.

[ShadowOps73]

No mention that relationships are maintained on a voluntary basis. Sometimes people get selfish or lazy and forget relationships are between "two" people, and unless "both" people are happy & satisfied, it won't last.

If people neglect affection, caring, communication, love, sex, tenderness, and thoughtfulness, don't act shocked when the other person wants out. Also, don't act shocked when one person is insecure & needs to control or punish the other. That's really why people leave & want out.

[nidca]

I think your topics are interesting and overall, you give good advice. The one thing I would change is the guest speaker. While she is very nice and pleasant, I do not buy her advices (for reasons I won't get into. Let's just say I'm a psych grad student and find flaws in her theories). How about mixing up the guest speakers? Keep up the good work! :)

[DanAndJenn]

Hi thanks for the feedback. We typically film 5-10 videos with each guest...

[spaghetti1977]

Actually I would ditch the presenters and just have the guest talk! Actually she doesn't have nearly enough time to get to the meat - she has been given a hard task I think. But different strokes hey....

[kazcript]

You forgot the possibility that maybe they actually meant what they said and really want to leave lol Sometimes enough is enough isn't it ?

[ahv007]

agreed with hugh this will come in handy some day (as well as many of your other video tips :D)

[hughmanwho]

good tip, will probably be good to know at some point in time.

[shouldbejaime]

why are you drinking windex?

[DanAndJenn]

Well, it was either that or Blue Raspberry martinis... sometimes it's a toss up. :-)

[sharkredtooth]

man.-.. i really love your videos... they are so useful... thanks you guy, thank you very much ;)

[sharkredtooth]

oppsss... im mean you guys* :)

[shady965]

good advise , so all I have to do if I don't want to continue is taking back the control and tell her OK LEAVE !

[lavinder11]

Yep! I'd rather be the dumper than the dumpee...

:(

[tubehax]

you guys are often right but ill have to disagree on this one if some1 tells you they are leaving is couse they dont value you and is best to end it there and then

[halo2994]

I once told a girlfriend i was breaking up with her. my biggest mistake was not actually doing it until many years later.

[ncweb76]

good advice..

[gossamerwindweb]

very interesting! Something to keep in mind for sure!

[tooloocy]

First !

[funnysociopath]

thats what he said^^