i used to be overly nice but i always got hurt because of it then i stoped an he just got angry all the time...iv never been so afraid of someone i loved befor..just my input
Thank you for your advice videos. I can be a real jerk, but my boyfriend seems to see through all of my defensive walls, and he's the first one to really give me a chance after I showed my bad side.
In relationship I'm always the one that loves little bit more then the otherside coz I don't bound myself from fear of loving someone else, and if I get hurt,well damn it happens, at least I can say honestly,hey I loved once :-)
This is one of the most touching videos I've seen from you (well, at least to me) and it really made my day. Just those words "Love makes us beautiful" made me smile. Thank you Onision. Thank you for all that you do. <3
its called the hunnie moon fase. i was with a guy for three years and even though the fights i still thought he was perfect but i guess i wasnt for him. :(
i like the thought put into this but saying "thank god you're not overweight" is kinda of slack :s i mean there are some really amazing gorgeous people i know that are overweight, sometimes they're nicer then "skinny" people...they don't base everything on looks but treat people how they like to be treated..please think about that before saying it.... you're still amazing Greg, just please try to watch what you say
Definitely one of your best videos to date :-) very inspired and thought provoking. Can't actually give a thumbs up but know if I could I would. Keep on keeping on.
If only I could find love in the first place. Best I've managed in my almost 26 years are long distance "relationships," two rebounds (where I was the one being used), and... that's about it.
I try to be kind and loving. The loneliness is kind of distracting though.
There is a certaint hormone that makes another person more beautifull then they really are that is released when a couple first meets. After about 6 months the most of it fadded and after about 2 years it´s all gone. Sticking together is just having the luck that you two bonded enough.
You say "die single" like it's some horrible thing. I want to die single. I'm asexual and I don't want to be with anybody. I have Schizoid Personality Disorder. I literally don't want to be around people. I would love to die single because that means I am happy.
I've had a recent relationship like that. He thought I was perfect. He said I was perfect, and that he never wanted our love to end. Suddenly, he grew irritable toward me, and he didn't want me around his friends. We don't date anymore, and it's because he told me that he didn't want to date me anymore. I felt this video's words, Greg. Beautiful words to live by, Greg.~
This made me sad to think about. I hope my partner never gets "bored" of me or I of them. I don't see it happening but, I guess you never know. Thanks for the video. <3
I understand that over time that you find flaws about people, but it should be about their personality and big thing. The little things shouldn't matter!
Thank you for posting this... so many people just dont understand love. Its not always the greatest thing in the world. I think true love is when you stick with the person through thick and thin. You wont always feel excited and great in the relationship. But for some reason people seem to think that is what a relationship is.
This is so true...It's so stressful to me, it really lowers a person's self esteem. You can't enjoy the relationship when you are that stressed and then they do leave :/
My tactic when starting relationships has always been to lay all my faults out on the table at the very beginning and give the person fair warning of what they're getting themselves getting into. I'd say it's worked for the most part as my current relationship has lasted for twelve years now.
This is what happened to me. He said he loved me and that he thought I was perfect and Im not gonna lie I made mistakes and he did too, but we were still happy. A few months later things got harder and we had trouble talking to each other about things. Then one day he told me he didnt love me anymore. Now he calls me pathetic. Its been months since we broke up and it still hurts like it was yesterday. Im only young and we dated 2 years. I still miss him.
I have you say you look unbelievably beautiful in this video, And I actually L.O.V.E your hair! :D And now for the part of the comment to do with the video, I think love is way to confusing because things and people change and they are someone completely different to the person you fell in love with, It's really hard, But that's just me with what I've been through <3
i use to have this type of relationship before, i broke up with him though because i didn't want to feel like crap and like i was stupid while i was around them, then he tried to say that he wanted nothing to do with me anymore, but five months later asked me to come back into his life as a friend.
as mean as it sounds, i told him no, that i didnt' want to be friends. i really didn't want him in my life at all after what he showed me when we were together.
:D True Words. Me n my gf have been together 4 years, and have been going smoothly :D We HAVE had the "I'm bored phase" happen but after that awkward two weeks went over, it went back to be happy, n yourself :D
Fucker, u made me cry. <3
EarLmaddafakkah 3 months ago 13
i used to be overly nice but i always got hurt because of it then i stoped an he just got angry all the time...iv never been so afraid of someone i loved befor..just my input
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Thank you for your advice videos. I can be a real jerk, but my boyfriend seems to see through all of my defensive walls, and he's the first one to really give me a chance after I showed my bad side.
DominiqueDiablo777 3 months ago 8
True words I was new to this school and I went out with this guy and he dumped me after a week -.-
TheRandomBunnys 4 months ago 9
LET ME LIKE IT!!!! XD
IamKindness 4 months ago 33
Thank you for the little help Greg <3 Its helped me lot
stannaz 4 months ago 6
I like how you wrote "love", cause youre right, its not called love in this situation.
TaMar113 4 months ago 18
Onision..Thank you.
You've just helped with something that's needed to be sorted for a long while.
auroradannon 4 months ago 8
i wanted to like this
sk8terboy544 4 months ago 8
In relationship I'm always the one that loves little bit more then the otherside coz I don't bound myself from fear of loving someone else, and if I get hurt,well damn it happens, at least I can say honestly,hey I loved once :-)
littlesevenfold 4 months ago 11
I watch your speak videos daily, they always brighten my day and give me a good outlook for the future. <3
UTUBEPHUCKEDME 4 months ago 5
you talk so beautifully <3!
charlottelammyman 4 months ago 6
This is one of the most touching videos I've seen from you (well, at least to me) and it really made my day. Just those words "Love makes us beautiful" made me smile. Thank you Onision. Thank you for all that you do. <3
xflorecitaxrockerax 4 months ago
its called the hunnie moon fase. i was with a guy for three years and even though the fights i still thought he was perfect but i guess i wasnt for him. :(
babycat7rip 4 months ago
This is great advice, but it can apply to friendships and all other forms of relationships too.
kivvymonster 4 months ago
Wish I would have seen this over a year ago, makes me think I could have changed things before it all ended...
Megadeth929292 4 months ago
i like the thought put into this but saying "thank god you're not overweight" is kinda of slack :s i mean there are some really amazing gorgeous people i know that are overweight, sometimes they're nicer then "skinny" people...they don't base everything on looks but treat people how they like to be treated..please think about that before saying it.... you're still amazing Greg, just please try to watch what you say
DarleneJanice 4 months ago
Definitely one of your best videos to date :-) very inspired and thought provoking. Can't actually give a thumbs up but know if I could I would. Keep on keeping on.
DarthBoomerang 4 months ago
Good point Greg. This is why you should always be yourself.
AngerManagementBunny 4 months ago
I love you greg -3 never change, not for anyone -3
randomer284 4 months ago
Thumbs Up!
hidethegiraffe 4 months ago
if i could like this, I WOULD LIKE EVERY VIDEO OF YOURS A MILLION TIMES!
CasuallyMakingTacos 4 months ago
Had that problem many times
AkiraMifuneBrooks46 4 months ago
Onision, This video came out in the perfect time. Thank You so much. Love you. <3
DeathNoteLover13FTW 4 months ago 30
Onision <3
BoyDaMiller 4 months ago 5
If only I could find love in the first place. Best I've managed in my almost 26 years are long distance "relationships," two rebounds (where I was the one being used), and... that's about it.
I try to be kind and loving. The loneliness is kind of distracting though.
DrThemoWorm 4 months ago 15
I had a perfect relationhsip...and i still have it in my HEAD :D
TonkaUpsidedown 4 months ago 18
There is a certaint hormone that makes another person more beautifull then they really are that is released when a couple first meets. After about 6 months the most of it fadded and after about 2 years it´s all gone. Sticking together is just having the luck that you two bonded enough.
Marloessssssssss 4 months ago 12
*Like*
Levelendless 4 months ago 7
You say "die single" like it's some horrible thing. I want to die single. I'm asexual and I don't want to be with anybody. I have Schizoid Personality Disorder. I literally don't want to be around people. I would love to die single because that means I am happy.
Inscrutable 4 months ago 36
They start to criticize you because they have nothing else to talk about.
lamorenonevero 4 months ago 4
I was in a relationship for 2 years i dumped him and he was treating me like a freind he kept trying to change me.
jadambi 4 months ago
Wow. This is what I needed to hear today. And I was thinking about this on the way home not too long ago.
Though I don't agree with everything you say, I do believe that you are a wise person. Videos like these are why I subscribed to you.
wordpainter320 4 months ago
The second theory happened to me.... i'm so sad right now )=
mashafasha5 4 months ago
Interesting.
NinjaNeko93 4 months ago
This video just happens to come up when Im having trouble with my boyfriend. :(
olciademoncia 4 months ago
I've had a recent relationship like that. He thought I was perfect. He said I was perfect, and that he never wanted our love to end. Suddenly, he grew irritable toward me, and he didn't want me around his friends. We don't date anymore, and it's because he told me that he didn't want to date me anymore. I felt this video's words, Greg. Beautiful words to live by, Greg.~
MemoresofLove 4 months ago
This made me sad to think about. I hope my partner never gets "bored" of me or I of them. I don't see it happening but, I guess you never know. Thanks for the video. <3
SAPHIREpinup 4 months ago
You couldn't be more right.
Liss150 4 months ago
This entire video describes my ex.
CookiesxRawrx 4 months ago
I understand that over time that you find flaws about people, but it should be about their personality and big thing. The little things shouldn't matter!
jswizzletdrizzle 4 months ago
Love you, thanks for the reminder.
theGoodLifeFilms 4 months ago
A good relationship isnt based around lies
alhimal 4 months ago
I love you. You're wise. You see Life. I love you, I do.
BoomBoomBoomism 4 months ago 280
@BoomBoomBoomism :) Thank you for being so kind <3
OnisionSpeaks 4 months ago 163
Thank you for posting this... so many people just dont understand love. Its not always the greatest thing in the world. I think true love is when you stick with the person through thick and thin. You wont always feel excited and great in the relationship. But for some reason people seem to think that is what a relationship is.
Xxs0k1d2kxX 4 months ago
:)
queenkath0909 4 months ago
This is so true...It's so stressful to me, it really lowers a person's self esteem. You can't enjoy the relationship when you are that stressed and then they do leave :/
MrRobbiePlant 4 months ago
:) smile face greg
queenkath0909 4 months ago
Another great, meaningful video. You explain things so well if I am honest <3
xJodishax 4 months ago
You're sick, I can tell. Me too. :( I totally agree with everything you've said, by the way.
sarahdangerrr 4 months ago
Wow......You'r Amazing :) <3 you greg! And shiloh too :)
CheckThis1213 4 months ago
this is inspirational oinision...
CCCT1996 4 months ago
Im no good at relationships, but its just the same bland boring thing over and over again .
olciademoncia 4 months ago
My tactic when starting relationships has always been to lay all my faults out on the table at the very beginning and give the person fair warning of what they're getting themselves getting into. I'd say it's worked for the most part as my current relationship has lasted for twelve years now.
ral1334 4 months ago
I wanted to like this but you diabled ratings. :(
LadyflatassI 4 months ago 579
My day fucking sucked. But after listening to this it kinda assured me it's all just gunna be okay.
TboneSTEAK111 4 months ago 4
this is inspirational onision....
CCCT1996 4 months ago
Well shit, son
link093 4 months ago
You're awesome Greg! We love u
itslyanne 4 months ago
*Thumbs up the video via commenting* :3
191210Michael 4 months ago
these Onisonspeaks videos are so inspiring
BlueVampire1995 4 months ago
Its weird how your videos open my mind to situations sometimes.
juliaDplur 4 months ago
Greg is always beautiful. <3
AngelofMusic101 4 months ago
This is me and my boyfriend. o: It hurts, but I'm letting go. I don't deserve to be disrespected like repeatedly like this. Thanks Greg.
BigSistarrr 4 months ago
This is what happened to me. He said he loved me and that he thought I was perfect and Im not gonna lie I made mistakes and he did too, but we were still happy. A few months later things got harder and we had trouble talking to each other about things. Then one day he told me he didnt love me anymore. Now he calls me pathetic. Its been months since we broke up and it still hurts like it was yesterday. Im only young and we dated 2 years. I still miss him.
jolly8127 4 months ago 4
I wish you had the 'like' button still so I could press it 50 times.
ashesxfalling 4 months ago
I really really love this. It's too true. Too bad most people don't get this message until it's too late.
KoDs 4 months ago
I have you say you look unbelievably beautiful in this video, And I actually L.O.V.E your hair! :D And now for the part of the comment to do with the video, I think love is way to confusing because things and people change and they are someone completely different to the person you fell in love with, It's really hard, But that's just me with what I've been through <3
SophiieWophiie95 4 months ago
that has happened to me and it broke my heart when my boyfriend did it to me
Hope You And Shiolo Are Happy ToGeather
dasani512 4 months ago
i love you onision<3 vid makes lots of sense
fraztle75 4 months ago
Love is always louder than the pressure to be perfect♥
CherryAndThePack 4 months ago 3
i use to have this type of relationship before, i broke up with him though because i didn't want to feel like crap and like i was stupid while i was around them, then he tried to say that he wanted nothing to do with me anymore, but five months later asked me to come back into his life as a friend.
as mean as it sounds, i told him no, that i didnt' want to be friends. i really didn't want him in my life at all after what he showed me when we were together.
i love you're ideas, as always <333
keg2014 4 months ago
Me and my boyfriend broke up a couple minutes ago.. :/
iluvyewboi 4 months ago
thank you.
ohtrent 4 months ago
sooo true :( happend to me though
Mavrick775 4 months ago
i wish i could like this. you're a sweetheart!
helenasmi 4 months ago
True, very true.
JBelem 4 months ago
I would wish I actually HAD a significant other...we don't have to be perfect :(
Nettohunden619 4 months ago
Haha I keep trying to thumb up your videos.
valinglyd 4 months ago
**thumbsup** favorited and shared.
Icareaboutyourapple 4 months ago 51
@Icareaboutyourapple awesome! Thank you so much!
OnisionSpeaks 4 months ago 27
you are such an amazing speaker, you say everything so perfectly.
69babydino 4 months ago
Hey, it would totally make my day if you would check out my videos <3!!! I love you (:
taylerchambers 4 months ago
:D True Words. Me n my gf have been together 4 years, and have been going smoothly :D We HAVE had the "I'm bored phase" happen but after that awkward two weeks went over, it went back to be happy, n yourself :D
MrMacGrungy 4 months ago
I miss my boyfriend. I fucked it up and can't get over him..
Nvmitsana 4 months ago
love you gregory<3
rebeccaladen 4 months ago
uhhhh i wish i could like this
helenasmi 4 months ago
I totally agree, I need to say the truth to someone if I'm in love :) Love you Greg <3
WolfSoul89 4 months ago 47
@WolfSoul89 thank you for loving me <3
OnisionSpeaks 4 months ago 36
Thanks for this Greg, thanks a lot for this.
nakosos 4 months ago
love stinks. yeah yeah love stinks
wonkabo 4 months ago
just got out of one yesterday..
neorat77 4 months ago
thats happened to me.
sophzilla1 4 months ago
Thanks for the knowledge :)
mzLELACAKEZ 4 months ago
I really like this.
23kyleadams 4 months ago
this is so relevant to my life.
FortJB7 4 months ago
Thank you Onision!
drcoconut99sbro 4 months ago
I understand completely
bazabite 4 months ago
expectations... just fake expectations :/
SrDeIta 4 months ago
<333
bazabite 4 months ago
You're an amazing person.
FlapFlapSchaap 4 months ago
That's when parents divorce.
RobinHawkStudios 4 months ago
first! haha i love you onision (:
coreydman15 4 months ago
I love you Greg ♥.
FlapFlapSchaap 4 months ago
I love you Greg!
imasickteen 4 months ago
I love you Greg <3.
FlapFlapSchaap 4 months ago
love you!
kristenbremer 4 months ago
I love you Greg <3
TheAsse333 4 months ago
lol, my video stopped at : but the problem ... and I was like "WHAT?" D:
WolfSoul89 4 months ago
I LOVE YOU GREG AND IF YOU REPLY I WIL DIE
wyckeddAcho 4 months ago
your the most awesome you tuber in the world!!!!!!!!!
aquastar411 4 months ago
i love these videos
MrRandomRamblings 4 months ago
omg
fishyswish96 4 months ago
I always love to hear you thoughts, 90% I agree even when I don't you always make me think!
frogirl1993 4 months ago
You're so awesome.
SuperWhitley 4 months ago