I'm a young airman, and I'm getting married to the best woman in my world. We plan to have children a little ways down the road. Short story long, you have helped set in stone the ideals and key points of being the man I have and will strive to be. My future wife, and children are going to be better because of the ideals, like you stated, and the continuous efforts to be a better man. Thank you for sharing and god bless. -Mike, 19
I think both men and women are encouraged by our pop culture to stay selfish children forever. Why are there so many people just walking away from their marriages/children/debts nowadays? They don't want to take responsibility for their own lives, much less be on the hook for a family. Society no longer holds people responsible. Its fashionable to always be a "victim" and blame someone else for your troubles. Man up America ! Stop asking others to pay for your health care, children , mortgages!
Man you're preaching to a generation raised by a bunch of femi nazis!! You're wasting your breath. But I am being negative, hopefully someone gets the message.
Great vid! (thumbs up) You are not only a great firearms channel, but you have a great outlook on family, and also religion, you are really a class act :)
Men have become too feminized in todays culture. I seem "men" get there nail buffed and even use make-up. My dad was a Marine DI and I am in 10 years. As a Christian man God did make a hierarchy in the family structure. Not that your wife is second to the husband but love your wife as you love yourself. A man is the protector and worker and the wife is the love that holds the family together. My hero was my dad and role model. Women are a gift to us from God.
I'm single and have enough income to comfortably support a family but I don't trust any woman to actually stay with me once she says "I do". I've seen way too many divorces to even consider going there. Sure it gets lonely around here once in a while but it's tolerable.
Single life isn't paradise but it's not bad. The mortgage will be paid off in just 2 months and after that I'll have 2600 left over each month (after every bill, gas, groceries, everything, are paid).
2. I've seen so many of my friends and coworkers marry, stay happy for a few years and then get divorced. And they're so happy and sure of the whole thing when they say I do. Then a few years later. . . Disaster strikes.
Somewhere out there is the woman I would have married, but she'll just have to find her own way because I can't be there for her.
@vention4wh well I am happy for you and wish you the best, but every man and every marriage is different. personally i couldn't stand to not be able to tuck my children in bed every night. I think if you find the right woman, and she IS out there for you, you'll have a change of heart. But I wish you the best in any case.
Oh I'm hearing you loud and clear. Part of me knows on a deep level that I would have been a good father. Of course that wouldn't stop the wife from deciding she likes another guy better and then decide to kick me out of the house. I've seen it happen too many times. Then come the sexual misconduct accusations if you don't knuckle under and pay whatever she demands. I've seen that happen to a friend as well as to a coworker of mine. The whole thing is just too scary for me.
I wish that I could afford to have my wife home, but she is a teacher, loves her work, takes the kids to the very school she teaches. So don't look down upon people that have to have both working parents. I would love to have enough money in my current position to keep her home (although as I say she loves her work). But, I could travel more and make more, or work longer hours so that she could stay home, but then I would miss out on my family. SO, don't think one scenario fits all families
@aw3212 BTW, I have two beautiful kids that are very happy and have I have been married for 12+ years, so maybe I am doing something right. And, no offense, you are no better because your wife can stay home or because you chose a different path nor am I.
When I was a child . I spoke as a child. I understood as a child. I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. Corinthians 13 : 11. Keep up the good work and God bless.
A healthy marriage takes more than just being a man. Women, for some historic reason, feel that a man shouldn't be weak. They feel that a man should ALWAYS have a job(and not just any job). Walmart or fast food is not good enough, even if it's the best that you can do at the time. I am all for providing for your family etc, but, I am also for taking some time out for yourself also.
This economy has produced massive layoffs of men and who are the first to complain..women. Yes, take care of your family, be the BEST dad and husband that you can be but take time out for yourself as well. I will be a husband and a dad but I will not be a doormat. If I am taking care of my responsibilities and I work and I want to buy me something nice or invest in a hobby that "I" enjoy, I am going to do it, period. Catering to women in general leads to unhappiness. Think abt YOU sometimes.
Some ppl think that getting married means giving up everything that you enjoyed when you were single...including friends. I got married..but I have an arsenal of guns. My wife wanted me to get rid of my guns and I flat out said NO. Marriage is a compromise but I WILL NOT give up anything that I enjoyed previously as long as all the bills are paid and the fridge is full. My bro worked 3 jobs and his wife didnt work. She ran over him and eventually asked for a divorce. Go figure.
Very well said. You nailed a lot of things here my friend. This is real life folks and we need come back together as a United America and not a Divided one. A++++
Dang common sense is flowing today , ,must be something in the chem. trails ... It sure is refreshing to see 2 videos with the same message in the same day , maybe there is hope for this country ... Thanks for the words of wisdom , alot of people could save themselves alot of trouble by just listening to these great words ... Thanks agin and God bless ...
You made a lot of good points. In my situation, I'm single and live on my own, no kids, but I try to act a little smarter about my priorities. One thing alot of people who don't provide for there families are missing out on more than providing is spending time with their wives, chidlren,etc. Alot of people really don't know what they have until it's gone.
Funny how you come with this video. I got a nephew shipping out BT in the Army Tuesday! He dont have a family yet though. He said he was going to teach the Army how to shoot! He's a cocky fucker! I know he'll do good after a few ASS WHOPP'INS!
I'm a young airman, and I'm getting married to the best woman in my world. We plan to have children a little ways down the road. Short story long, you have helped set in stone the ideals and key points of being the man I have and will strive to be. My future wife, and children are going to be better because of the ideals, like you stated, and the continuous efforts to be a better man. Thank you for sharing and god bless. -Mike, 19
A1C USAF
Lamineth 1 year ago
Dude, you just spoke the words of wisdom that my autism couldn't speak, I agree 110%.
Maxrock9 1 year ago
Great commentary, great wisdom. Thanks!
globalforce 1 year ago
Good speech, Steve...and words for all of us to live by.
vulcangunner58 1 year ago
Well said, you're a good man. By the way, don't be afraid to add some more water to that oatmeal....the spoon stands up in it! Brian
Bpetehome 1 year ago
I think both men and women are encouraged by our pop culture to stay selfish children forever. Why are there so many people just walking away from their marriages/children/debts nowadays? They don't want to take responsibility for their own lives, much less be on the hook for a family. Society no longer holds people responsible. Its fashionable to always be a "victim" and blame someone else for your troubles. Man up America ! Stop asking others to pay for your health care, children , mortgages!
mesocat 1 year ago
Man you're preaching to a generation raised by a bunch of femi nazis!! You're wasting your breath. But I am being negative, hopefully someone gets the message.
CTastic1 1 year ago
lets us all do the work of being real men...thank you
BlackFencePatriot 1 year ago
A lot of us have been through this. Great words of advice.
99tdaug 1 year ago
well said words, I have gone thru and thought about the same things. Its like we are having a cup of coffee together:)
elgringote3 1 year ago
07-0-2010 - GMO FOODS - "Don' drink the milk ...why? IT'S SPOILED! "
watch?v=h_W1ge19dSc
NewChristianSoldiers 1 year ago
teach necessity and luxury. [granted, a gun is not a luxury, but inexpensive decent ones can be bought for their purpose(es)].
Gizziiusa 1 year ago
What Regiment were you in if you don't mind me asking?
jinkjack 1 year ago
Great vid! (thumbs up) You are not only a great firearms channel, but you have a great outlook on family, and also religion, you are really a class act :)
AirsoftVeteran96 1 year ago 2
Men have become too feminized in todays culture. I seem "men" get there nail buffed and even use make-up. My dad was a Marine DI and I am in 10 years. As a Christian man God did make a hierarchy in the family structure. Not that your wife is second to the husband but love your wife as you love yourself. A man is the protector and worker and the wife is the love that holds the family together. My hero was my dad and role model. Women are a gift to us from God.
GodFamilyCountryCorp 1 year ago
Great video.
SwerVQE 1 year ago
I'm single and have enough income to comfortably support a family but I don't trust any woman to actually stay with me once she says "I do". I've seen way too many divorces to even consider going there. Sure it gets lonely around here once in a while but it's tolerable.
Single life isn't paradise but it's not bad. The mortgage will be paid off in just 2 months and after that I'll have 2600 left over each month (after every bill, gas, groceries, everything, are paid).
vention4wh 1 year ago
2. I've seen so many of my friends and coworkers marry, stay happy for a few years and then get divorced. And they're so happy and sure of the whole thing when they say I do. Then a few years later. . . Disaster strikes.
Somewhere out there is the woman I would have married, but she'll just have to find her own way because I can't be there for her.
vention4wh 1 year ago
@vention4wh well I am happy for you and wish you the best, but every man and every marriage is different. personally i couldn't stand to not be able to tuck my children in bed every night. I think if you find the right woman, and she IS out there for you, you'll have a change of heart. But I wish you the best in any case.
aw3212 1 year ago
@aw3212
Oh I'm hearing you loud and clear. Part of me knows on a deep level that I would have been a good father. Of course that wouldn't stop the wife from deciding she likes another guy better and then decide to kick me out of the house. I've seen it happen too many times. Then come the sexual misconduct accusations if you don't knuckle under and pay whatever she demands. I've seen that happen to a friend as well as to a coworker of mine. The whole thing is just too scary for me.
vention4wh 1 year ago
Great talk.
What's the point if you're not mentally, and physically, taking care of your wife.
EMPIREofPUPPETS 1 year ago
I wish that I could afford to have my wife home, but she is a teacher, loves her work, takes the kids to the very school she teaches. So don't look down upon people that have to have both working parents. I would love to have enough money in my current position to keep her home (although as I say she loves her work). But, I could travel more and make more, or work longer hours so that she could stay home, but then I would miss out on my family. SO, don't think one scenario fits all families
aw3212 1 year ago
@aw3212 BTW, I have two beautiful kids that are very happy and have I have been married for 12+ years, so maybe I am doing something right. And, no offense, you are no better because your wife can stay home or because you chose a different path nor am I.
aw3212 1 year ago
When I was a child . I spoke as a child. I understood as a child. I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. Corinthians 13 : 11. Keep up the good work and God bless.
AmmoGrizzly 1 year ago
A healthy marriage takes more than just being a man. Women, for some historic reason, feel that a man shouldn't be weak. They feel that a man should ALWAYS have a job(and not just any job). Walmart or fast food is not good enough, even if it's the best that you can do at the time. I am all for providing for your family etc, but, I am also for taking some time out for yourself also.
Rototill27 1 year ago
This economy has produced massive layoffs of men and who are the first to complain..women. Yes, take care of your family, be the BEST dad and husband that you can be but take time out for yourself as well. I will be a husband and a dad but I will not be a doormat. If I am taking care of my responsibilities and I work and I want to buy me something nice or invest in a hobby that "I" enjoy, I am going to do it, period. Catering to women in general leads to unhappiness. Think abt YOU sometimes.
Rototill27 1 year ago
Some ppl think that getting married means giving up everything that you enjoyed when you were single...including friends. I got married..but I have an arsenal of guns. My wife wanted me to get rid of my guns and I flat out said NO. Marriage is a compromise but I WILL NOT give up anything that I enjoyed previously as long as all the bills are paid and the fridge is full. My bro worked 3 jobs and his wife didnt work. She ran over him and eventually asked for a divorce. Go figure.
Rototill27 1 year ago
I grew up with both parents in the work place. My Dad was still the main bread winner but my Mom was taking somet of the burden off my Dad.
AJSensei 1 year ago
@AJSensei In Japan men work and give the paycheck to the wife. She hands him what he needs and then she pays the bills. Interesting culture.
AJSensei 1 year ago
Stepping in our foot prints
youtube.com/watch?v=s7uKyH7n3QE
StillToListen 1 year ago
Very well said. You nailed a lot of things here my friend. This is real life folks and we need come back together as a United America and not a Divided one. A++++
OurTimeIsOut 1 year ago
Well said Steve...you made some excellent points.
PaulRevere2009 1 year ago 2
Dang common sense is flowing today , ,must be something in the chem. trails ... It sure is refreshing to see 2 videos with the same message in the same day , maybe there is hope for this country ... Thanks for the words of wisdom , alot of people could save themselves alot of trouble by just listening to these great words ... Thanks agin and God bless ...
1mrgasgas1 1 year ago
Well said!
urbansurvivor101 1 year ago
You made a lot of good points. In my situation, I'm single and live on my own, no kids, but I try to act a little smarter about my priorities. One thing alot of people who don't provide for there families are missing out on more than providing is spending time with their wives, chidlren,etc. Alot of people really don't know what they have until it's gone.
tenakakhan1985 1 year ago
great video! thanks for sharing!
yinghonghaohan319 1 year ago
thumbs up!
UKrebel71 1 year ago
Funny how you come with this video. I got a nephew shipping out BT in the Army Tuesday! He dont have a family yet though. He said he was going to teach the Army how to shoot! He's a cocky fucker! I know he'll do good after a few ASS WHOPP'INS!
Peace!
MrMindfucker 1 year ago
Great stuff, hopefully your wisdom will encourage a young person to choose a better path.
boonedawg68 1 year ago
well said.
URBANAMERICANTAC 1 year ago
wow nice. i like to try this to
4umyword 1 year ago
Excellent insight! Thank you for the video, I couldn't agree more.
MadtactiX 1 year ago
Well said Steve.
USNERDOC 1 year ago
Excellent advice steve. I hope that folks will understand the message you are trying to share with them.
sending a pm your way here in a minute.
Be blessed my friend!
scutter4christ 1 year ago