Re: INTERRACIAL DATING- A QUESTION TO ALL BLACK WOMEN

[rexnefect]

can you and your hubby watch roots together and still fill love for each other.

[moonnx2]

"majority white community" hence why you wear that weave. Whites don't like Afros

[WildWestSamurai]

@moonnx2 Ha! I dunno what white people you're talking about, but I LOVE black girls' poofy hair. :)

[ttobinupinit]

The irony is almost astounding... as far as my history of the Bible goes, Ancient Aryans (White people of Middle-Eastern descent) wrote that Bible, and you're using a book written by White people to say how White people are evil and liars... maybe you should read more than one book in your life. It might expand your mind past Biblical end-times and instead on the fact that your're a human being surrounded by others who could use your help, and not your condemnation. Great video, V.

[BarabbasLove]

White people will duck under tables when you call them

Edomites. The white man has proven that he is a prolific

liar. He has corrupted history to the point people don't know

left from right. So you can't rely on history. Only believe in the

Bible. 3 prophecies identify the white man as Esau.

1= World domination by means of violence ---> Gen 27:39-40.

2 = In possession of Israel in the last days

--> Ezekiel 36:5 ( Idumea is Edom in Greek)

3= Lives in outerspace-->Obadiah 1:4

[dreeroll]

I loved your video because you were honest about how you felt then and now. Hope you have a wonderful life

[jizzy310]

Grim but TRUE analogy : Love is a lot like Death...you don't know when it's coming, and it takes a thousand forms !! If it just so happens to come from a different race, so what !!

[katastrophic707]

@jizzy310 exactly love is blind it doesn't see color as an obstacle

[southernbell72]

I dont see what the big deal is.

I date and have dated black men and so have my friends.

Whats the big deal????

[fataldesain]

see black chicks like this can't interracial date, you gotta change up your look it's too urban.

[43christy]

You sound like you can be from the inner city.

[phatblackwoman]

Sista I can feel your pain as a dark skinned female you think that's the best you can do, if it's love then I am happy for you, if it's just some fake revenge type isht, sista you are only hurting yourself.

[goofylookingviets]

i want some dark chocolate black hunnies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[TheJayone23]

im a white guy..ive grown to luv blck women..thnks for posting

[coolkelpie]

I completely agree with you. 100% :) IR are awesome!

[toddjk2000]

@coolkelpie IR dating is the greatest thing to happen in this world.

[mykole84]

@toddjk2000. no it is not. interracial dating is like anyother dating. the problem is america is racist against blacks. white bias is common as is anti-black. but yes IR dating can be beautiful but it does undermine black unity. it also divides and conqueor us. blacks in america r mixed and that has done them very little good and only created more division even in same family.

[toddjk2000]

@mykole84 i see your point but if a black man is in love with a white girl and he loves her for who she is and not the color of her skin then who are we to tell him who to date

[mykole84]

@toddjk2000. love usually is not blind but there are case where people of different races fall in love and that is beautiful. but to act like IR dating will heal the nation is bs. right now in latin america they have a saying mejorando la raza (bettering the race) pretty much meaning mixing with white. if u mix with someone more black (la ensuciaste - u dirtied it) so IR are ok but the system is still bias for whites & against blacks and sex wont change that. u feel me. so we must be real.

[toddjk2000]

@mykole84 so the self hate thing is definitly out of control

[toddjk2000]

@mykole84 and then you talk about black unity.im black and i do believe in black unity but im not gonna be ignorant and not talk to other people because the color of their skin.if you see a black and hispanic couple going out (it doesn't matter if it's man and female) is that underminging black unity?.it's 2010.you can't avoid whats happening here.i cant either.

[mykole84]

@toddjk2000. interracial dating is not the problem but the glorification of is just bs. we have to b careful b/c IR dating is the greatest thing in the world could b taken as u dont like other in yo same race or somehow same race dating is less than. thats not the message black people need. im not saying all IR daters are traitors some r though. the real uncle toms. however it can reach a tipping point where it does start to lessen unity.

[mykole84]

@toddjk2000. but yeah, im not here to discourage IR dating but im just here to promote self knowledge/love. and if u r a black man u should the female part of u which is a black woman. i mean we think we have preferences but we are being programmed to hate self but b/c its so omnipresent it seems invincible. like people who automatically assume J. Lo looks better than india arie w/o really knowing why. it seem so normal but when u think about it & learn, its cynical. i think both r pretty. LOL

[toddjk2000]

@mykole84 and now that i do look at it black people do have to stand together as one because the sad thing is that out of all people you will always have a bunch of idiots who will go towards a white women and it's sad cause it tells you right there that they have self hate and its funny how you pick india arie because thats what kind of person there gonna make ax negative example of when it comes down to beauty and i can name 5 black women who looks 100 times better than j-lo

[toddjk2000]

@toddjk2000 1 thing that kind of bothers me is the reasoning why black men decides to date outside their race.their hypocrates when it comes down to that situation but the funny thing is that when they see one of their own females dating a white or a hispanic when get bitter and angry but if their the ones who does it to them its ok.OH HELL NO!!! and i see why black women choose to date outside the race and lets keep it 100 percent real.black men destroyed the black race.

[mykole84]

@toddjk2000. what? its 50/50. black women/men aint each other enemy. thats what people want us to do is fight. that way we can b controlled. black women birth the nation and black men put the seeds in the nation. there is not one without the other. racism to oppress us feminism to divide us making it even easier to oppress us some more. lack of self knowledge is hurting both. that why we have to rid ourselve of white bias and anti-black bias. lift up the queens and kings.

[toddjk2000]

@mykole84 thats what im saying but keep it real.usually on here you see more black men bashing their own women more than anonody else

[mykole84]

@toddjk2000. that is sad but its not better than women say ni&&as aint $hit or aint no good ni**as. so we have blacks going at each other which makes it easier to control us. like i said we not only being oppressed but are helping the oppressor oppress us more. i mean we have to almost change how whole mentality and thats the hardest part.

[gangstabudd4]

@mykole84 theres no such thing as black unity in the united states.niggas will always go against their own for stupid shit.dark skin females and interracial dating for life!!!!

[jasoncuts1]

@mykole84 im sorry but IMO there's no such thing as black unity.there are some only in a limited extent but when things really hit the fan you will always have people who will turn their back on their own people.that's why black men date outside the race.it's sad but true and im black and i seen with my own two eyes black men disrespecting their own women and that's the problem and todd is right about something.the black man single handly destroyed the black race.

[mykole84]

@jasoncuts1. the black man single handley destroyed the black race is just bs. so let me guess u think all black women should abandon black men. as black man, i think thats bs. black people in general r anti-black. like i said how many black women will say i want a nappy head, dark skin baby. they much rather have a baby with wavy hair, and light skin. this is true 4 both sexes and we have to fight that message b/c self-hate is omnipresent in the black community. u cant blame one w/o the other.

[jasoncuts1]

@mykole84 you know it's the truth.whenever a black men have a good black women on his side he will still thinking about jumping towards the other side.wesley snipes in jungle fever proved it and you talk about that's bs.get the fuck outta here.you think a black woman is gonna stay till the nigga who played her for another female of another race and wait for him?..HELL NO..it they abandon them thats thats why and if you dont like it who gives a fuck.black unity my ass.im done

[mykole84]

@toddjk2000. but who is puttin the message out on beauty b/c it obviously aint black people. even rap music aint really being put out by blacks. its pretty much black face. yeah there is a black person rapping the song. but who is marketing it, who is really making the $ of it. so u have a music associate w/ a black male degradin women. so if a black male is degrading females (who is his female counterpart). somehow the wrong messages r being promoted to us from others. i could go on and on.

[ilovetherain100]

@mykole84

You got it SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO right doll face. You and me both could go On and ON. I am SO frigging sick of exactly what you just mentioned.

From where I sit all I can think is WHAT A FRIGGING MESS. I'm pretty pissed.

Wake the F$%k up black folks!

Seriously. Thank you for your comment. (finally someone with a brain).

:sigh:

[mykole84]

@toddjk2000. put it like this, y is it more common 4 a whites to want a blue eye blonde haired baby, then black people to want a nappy haired, dark baby. u know its real. somehow nappy/kinky hair has negative meaning even on a baby & its sad. i mean we u start think about how anti-black we r as blacks, its make u think, what the hell is wrong with us? u feel me. i hear people saying mixed babies r the cutest, but compared to what. its subtle racism. all babies r beautiful. black power & unity.

[toddjk2000]

@mykole84 thats true and it's sad.i mean i love both sides but im not gonna choose a female with long hair and blue eyes to make her the ideal wife.i rather have a black women with short kinky hair or with weave.it doesnt matter to me so i definitly see your point

[mykole84]

@toddjk2000. i was w/ u til u said the weave. LOL. im just playing.

[davidfullerton1]

Sweet heart --- I had the opposite problem you have had. Raised up in the inner city, and my folks did not leave the city during white flight --- nothing but black girls around. I did not have to try hard either --- black women just came up to me and white women never would. So I went with the path of least resistance. Later kiddo.

[jumpingonglass]

they just need to ask their mothers

[poppyseed1000]

YES! YES! YES!

[beautifuleyes8002]

go girl congrats i agree with you on how he looks

[GluciferJuicifer]

AMEN TO YOU! (:

[Rishonda]

Good points all around. Congrats to you and your hubby.

[velveteenbunny0]

@Rishonda thank u

[Thrown2010]

whats that

[velveteenbunny0]

@Thrown2010 whats what?