A Word on Sexual Purity by Rebecca St. James

[GsShay]

Congratulations on your engagement, Rebecca!

[2Musicscout2]

GFMx1 do you have standards in terms of respect?

[GFMx1]

and the Christian view who actually believe in Chastity. You are only young once and should enjoy life by enjoying consensual sex.

I welcome and await your reply to TRY to deny human nature

anyone wants to add in support.

Any opponents want to TRY to deny human nature. C'mon I'm open to discussion.

[AngelaPrrfecta]

I must say, the term idiot is quite rude but I forgive you, dear. Romans were cruel and far more narrow minded than Christians: need I remind you their intent to kill every Christian and enslave the Jews?

Nowm Christianity isn't about being "human" & giving in to "nature" it's about pleasing God. We all know that sex & aggression are 2 biological drives for human beings but God wants us to be more than that. He is supernatural & He calls us to imitate Him (Ephesians).

God always trumps human.

[GFMx1]

I apologize for the idiot term then. But that was just to show you the gravity of the absurdity of your beliefs.

Why? Why are you repressing yourself. To deny human nature only brings it back in deviant forms (think the purity ball girl who because of her disillusionment becomes the 'town bicycle'.)

All the bible is, is (I sorry to reveal this to you) an outdated obsolete 2000 yr old suggestion.

Put it this way...

[AngelaPrrfecta]

Thank you for you apology and I most certainly accept it.

God doesn't change for us, but he calls us to change for Him. For those who do things for Him, nothing is impossible and all must be done according to His will and for His glory, not ours. One must remember that all works with no faith are done in vain. It's all about faith and hope and love. (1Cor13-read it)

And a girl who protects herself from temptations with God's Word won't get that many rides til she's married. =D God bless

[GFMx1]

All repression and no reward (which is what you believe in) makes jack a prime frontal lobotomy candidate :D

I should know, I'm a disillusioned Christian who is now a pure Cafeteria Catholic (to avoid a fight on different Christian branches, we're all 'Christians' so lets leave it at that.

Please reply if you can.

[AngelaPrrfecta]

Well, to be frank, a true Christian is to believe in God and believe in Christ, that He died and was resurrected. It also entails a more important task, that is to believe God and believe Jesus. To believe them, you must believe that in the beginning, the Word was God, the Word is God and the Word was made flesh. The Word is the Bible and it was made flesh into Jesus. The Bible, though written by men of God, was inspired by God first and foremost. Denying any of these is denying God HIMself

[AngelaPrrfecta]

And who said there is no reward? What is Heaven of not a reward? A common worldly saying is "good things come to those who wait," or "slow and steady wins the race." We all know that patience is a great virtue. Waiting for the right person to give yourself to, someone who embodies the love of Christ (1Cor 13:4-7), rather than someone who won't matter but holds a very private memory of you, is a great reward. God creates your perfect match for you; all you have to do is wait and pray.

[irishcatholicgirlie]

I'm 29 years old and I've chosen to remain a virgin til marriage. Nothing is wrong with me. I'm a very sexual person, but I choose not to have sex.

[GFMx1]

AngelaPrrfecta, as a disillusioned Christian I just have to say that the truth of the matter is...

Chastity = wasted life and living pedophilia, incest via unsustainable repression

not to mention women who have wasted their lives when young, marry young and become depressed and alcoholic, because they didn't enjoy and "pluck" their youth by enjoying sex when young. (Carpe Diem= Pluck the day Latin. written by Ancient Romans who were SMARTER THAN idiot CHRISTIANS...

[NotAnotherGeneration]

It's one thing to encourage youth to delay sexual activity, but scaring the hell out of them and telling them a condom is a provision for sin is irresponsible. If this Right-Wing version of Sexual Purity is the correct choice for Christians then why did the Lovers in the Song of Solomon have sex in Chapter 2 then get married in Chapter 3? People who want some common sense truth about this should go to my channel, it's cheaper than a purity ring and a lot more fun than abstinence.

-The Scott

[darkangelbj08]

Amazing words by an amazing role model. Her message of sexual purity and her songs are really inspiring...

[Joh8v12]

could you two please make your argues with PMs. And Angela dont let yourself provoke to much, not everyone understands that and some just want to fight and argue about anything.

[butt3rfly429]

except that you have insulted me in you're demeaning "i'm better than you" little speech. people like you suck, thats why you hate your life, it's not my fault.

[AngelaPrrfecta]

I never said that I am better than you. You should have an open mind to my words and advice. And I love my life, by the way. The word hate is not in my vocabulary. God has blessed me with self-acceptance, self-awareness and the wisdom to help those who need it. Praying for you!

[butt3rfly429]

so then that means it's my choice to use vulgar language and you can't censor me. that's the problem with people like you, you're always trying to make people think and do what they want.

[AngelaPrrfecta]

I don't sterotype. People like me doesn't really tell me anything nor help your argument. If you want to get your point across you should do so in a way that people will take you seriously, and that is not by using language that demeans you as well as others around you. In any case, I don't believe it's right to insult anyone, directly or indirectly. It is very unnecessary. And i have not done any of that to you. I only expect the same courtesy in return. Thank you and God bless!

[butt3rfly429]

i didn't use vulgar language, you obviously are wayyy too sheltered

[AngelaPrrfecta]

You referred to a very respectable woman as if she were nothing more than an animal. That, my dear, is vulgar language. About being sheltered--I have been protected by God's grace and if that allows me to love everyone, respect other's differences and lead a good example for those all over the world, then it really is not a bad thing. By the way it is a choice to not use such crude language, a choice I have made on my own. I've lived in the big cities and they are by no means "sheltered" areas.

[butt3rfly429]

boo boo that bitch needs to get some. she has too many cobwebs up inside her.

[AngelaPrrfecta]

Again, ppplease refrain from using such vulgar language. Plenty of sisters have lived their lives with out getting "some". It really is not necessary and abstinence is necessary for our development as proper females in this very broken world. It's to build our self esteem and making us better people and better Christians if that is our goal. You should at least respect our beliefs and God's if you don't agree with it. And again, God bless you!

[tartredarrow]

fuck sexual purity. your just mad you cant get laid.

[AngelaPrrfecta]

First of all, refrain from using vulgar language. Second of all, I do not wish to have sex. I'm pretty content with just kissing and God ahs blessed me with good looks. It's not like boys haven't tried I'm just too good for that shiznit. Thank you very much for sharing your opinion. =D God Bless you!

[windiestwind]

I totally agree. It's very important to wait 'til marriage for sex.