@Transemotion So say, our minds can be changed. That means at least that you can not accept yourself until that is done. When I am alone I accept myself completely but when I am with my mother I am in constant stress because I know she does not like the way I am. At the one hand I want to give her what she wants and at the other hand I do not do it because it only caused pain in the past. I can not answer her expectations even if wanted it. 1 second ago
there are many many people who don't like the way we are, that is their problem not mine. My mom and dad didn't like how i was either-no matter how hard i tried and I gave up on them years ago. I find people who accept me as I am
@kerry53able You are right. The psychologist said that it is not necessary that your parents accept you. That also someone else can do that. You are lucky you found others to do the job. I think it is possible to feel good even if the whole world is against you. But the problem is that you have to be loved very much in you youth or be a Buddhist monk ore something.
When Danny said, " I wish I were a lesbian - lesbians are hot...", I laughed SO SO SO loud... that's absolutely great.... I'm a gay man, my brother says stuff like that all the time.... Congrats on being exactly who you're meant to be, Danny...
We think this is the best part.
Transemotion 2 years ago
@Transemotion So say, our minds can be changed. That means at least that you can not accept yourself until that is done. When I am alone I accept myself completely but when I am with my mother I am in constant stress because I know she does not like the way I am. At the one hand I want to give her what she wants and at the other hand I do not do it because it only caused pain in the past. I can not answer her expectations even if wanted it. 1 second ago
een2iii 1 year ago
there are many many people who don't like the way we are, that is their problem not mine. My mom and dad didn't like how i was either-no matter how hard i tried and I gave up on them years ago. I find people who accept me as I am
kerry53able 1 year ago
@kerry53able You are right. The psychologist said that it is not necessary that your parents accept you. That also someone else can do that. You are lucky you found others to do the job. I think it is possible to feel good even if the whole world is against you. But the problem is that you have to be loved very much in you youth or be a Buddhist monk ore something.
een2iii 1 year ago
i still don't understand not accepting yourself as you are born. it's all in the mind and our minds can be changed.
kerry53able 2 years ago
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een2iii 1 year ago
When Danny said, " I wish I were a lesbian - lesbians are hot...", I laughed SO SO SO loud... that's absolutely great.... I'm a gay man, my brother says stuff like that all the time.... Congrats on being exactly who you're meant to be, Danny...
keyser257 2 years ago