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  • HAHAH it's beans from even stevens

  • @menthal1 Do you have any kids?? Better question being are you involved in their lives even??? Being a stay at home parent is a job! I am a stay at home mom. That involves cleaning, cooking, entertaining the kids and also stimulating their minds. If you have any kids your probably the type who is more interested in partying and are never home. It takes A LOT to dedicate your self to staying home with your family.Our generation was raised by babysitters and daycares. We aren't that great.

  • My pops would have given me a led fist pack and send me back for my ball!

  • I remember this song, is this group still together?

  • lol stay at home dads? lmfao..wow whats the world coming to? get a job freakin bums...

  • Best song of the 90s to me. Perfect song to hear at the pool or any party ur @. Yet its still an emotionally moving song that takes a sec 2 sink in.

  • i want to hear a cover of this where the words are changed to 'mother of mine'. my boys' mom walked out and i think it sucks for kids who this happens to, i would never give up the chance to stay in their lives, because they are so precious and no greener grass anywhere would ever be worth losing them. my four year old twins sat on my lap last night and sang along with sublime videos for hours. how cool is that--their mom has no idea what she is missing.

  • This would make a great Father's Day song except I think that it's about the lead singer's father walking out on him and his mom when he was little.

  • BEANSSS

  • this song is a classic.

  • I saw them a couple of years ago in Calgary at a club. They put on a great show.  Original singer and I'm not sure who else ... got a great t-shirt :)

  • i love this band. whatever happened to them?

  • I remember when my parents split up. I cried all of the time, but now I realize that I'm super lucky because my mom and dad are okay with each other now. And my dad's house is really close to my mom's!!! My dad is really great and I'm so lucky for it. In fact, I'm using his lap top right now ^^ I wish every dad could be like mine...

  • Happy Fathers Day everyone

  • Why do I keep watching this video over and over again. I want to move on!

  • my dad could have walked out on me and my sister, when i was around 6 , i still remember coming home from school ,all his stuff was out on the porch , my parents split and i had too move in with him at age 8

  • this song reminds me of my life my parents devorced when i was 9 years old that was in 1973 and we moved to the projects but my dad was allways there for me

  • that kid in the beginning is in a few movies. anyone know his name?

  • steven anthony lawrence

  • His name is Stephen Anthony Lawrence

  • fuck this is the best

  • I cry when I think about how my sons father did this to him, and there wasn't anything i could do for him.

  • Children who come from a divorced or missing a mother or father do miss something. Each parent brings something to a child's life. I feel sorry for the kids today where divorce is so rampent.

  • this song makes me always think of my real grandfather...and how my dad never met him...never got to meet his adopted one either though...its funny how things work out though...his adopted father was an olympic gold medalist boxer...amongst other things I feel for people because I see at such a source of pain for my father...But GOD HEALS ALL, He is the REAL FATHER to the fatherless!

  • "amongst other things I feel for people because I see at such a source of pain for my father...But GOD HEALS ALL, He is the REAL FATHER to the fatherless! "

    So true! In fact - Christ is better than any Human father.

  • Except for the human fathers that are, you know, actually there. They do in fact exist.

    Hell, that alone makes them better.

  • he is crist is the best

  • daddy gave me a name and then he walked away...... ass holee......

    i'm talking to you, my father's son.......

  • eh my father figure was sort of taken on by my brother for most of my life, but i agree with budatress, if u do not have a brother too look up to most often a teacher or older friend will be willing to fill the role (or relative) or just ure friends period haha friends ftw?

  • wasnt easy being a scared white boy in a black neighborhood

  • Fuckin everclear man, they're great

  • this song depresses the hell out of me. It makes me want to be a better father... Bless you Art!

  • i havent seen my dad since i was thirteen years old. before that, the last time we spoke i was 5 or 6. he never want ed a relationship with me, but i never really cared, or needed him for anything. i have a fine life without him.

  • ure not alone man, we dont need them suckers live on bro! (or....er...sis?) =P

  • for sure! if they bolt, their loss, not ours, end of story. sis, btw, lol.

  • this song so describes me but my dad never even met me he walked away before i was born then he likely went to jail and likely died which he deserves death

  • this isnt my life story....but my dad is home....but he never talks to me and we dont realte....its like im a adobt....and we have never done anything together....so i can relate....and its great song

  • i don't know your age, & you may alread know that a teacher or distant relatitive extra can fill that parental role. your real 'friends & family" may have nothing to do with biology. good luck mrhsv400.

  • Was my life story...

    I even looked like the kid in the video. Eerie.

  • BEANS WANTS BACON!

  • im not a huge everclear fan but such a profound and powerful song.

  • wow, i've watched this vid millions o times, and i've never sen from 2:30 to 3:00. strange. HUGE FAN!!!!!!!

  • Fucking beautiful song and vid.

  • BEANS

  • can't relate but its a really good song

  • im a stay at home dad and i think it the best job i have ever had would not trade my job for anything !!!

  • same here . while i do look at the hard working man some times with envy. all i have to do is look in my daughters eyes and it all goes away

  • it's worth it and it's hard work too i have a new found respect for home makers !!

    good to see more dads doing this

  • @drube77 I give props to all stay at home parents. Its a whole different kind of hard to stay home. But also if you can it is more rewarding than I could ever imagine. Way to go you guys =)

  • dreaminginglad and drube77, I wish you both good luck and hapiness for you and your kids.

  • @dreaminglad um..."stay at home dad?" wow.. lol  thats funny.. laaaaazy....thats what i call it..get a job..

  • lol yea i think you need a job if you got nothing better to do than slam people's comment that were made over a year ago???? you get jobs when you need money i dont need money ! my kids need me more than i need money right now.

    but i would not expect a dumb ass to understand @menthal1

  • @dreaminglad oh boohoohoo..lazy dad..er i mean dreaminglad..and no i too dont need to work..only because i have money..so whats ur excuse again? oh yeah thats right..LAZY! and using ur kids need u as an excuse..lmfao..btw i dont care if u made that comment a year ago..or not..LAZY IS LAZY! GET A JOB LAZY DAD! DAMN!

  • i dont think most fathers are taught how to parent any more . Mine left in 82 and i dont see a big change in the problem

  • Mine left in 1987 and I don't miss him.

  • i can just totally relate to this song. makes me cry thinking about it. :C

  • omg everclear so f'n rockz

  • fuck you dumbass you say raise your asses that requires them to be a parent you dont fucking understand what so many people have been through

  • that was to KC11969

  • BEANS!!!!!!!

  • listen now, are u listening?

    I mean with your hearts...

    I'm a dad, with 4 children

    some are gone away now which makes me so sad

    so i spend my days thinkin that maybe someday they will come home

    but they won't

    so- if I sound like your Dad, it's because your Dad is waiting to hear from u

  • no you sound like you actually tried as a father so dont let it haunt you to much and I hope your kids do contact you one day

  • i dont know why yall talk real bad about your dad...but as for me..my mom left my dad because she said he was veryrude talking and she just left him because of that..i hate my mom..i wishs her the worst even though shes my mom..i will totally prefer to live with my dad..fortunately i see him every night..we go to have dinner @ my grandma's but after that...i have to live with my mother and i just hate her..my brother also ahtes her...

  • Dude...Wow.... they made a sad song sound kinda .... awsome...

  • Me and my mother left when I was in grade 4. My father left for Calgary September 1st 2007. I remember our last hug, his smell and his voice. My dad has been trough some pretty bad stuff, and even though he might have brought some of it upon himself, I love him for trying to be a father. <3

  • omg i love that goofy little kid in this video. He never ages!

  • spencer breslin lol

  • in the video wonderful the Missy from neds declassified school survive guide is in ti and now in this video the kid from beans from even stevens is in it...... weird

  • this song always brought me to tears because my dad was scum he was so wraped up in dealing drugs and he really did beat my Mom and left when i was 6then I ran into him 5 years later and he was only worse. Thats why hes rotting away in prison. But like ForceWhiteWolf said you dont miss him but at the same time theres that piece missing inside that can't be fixed. I turned out alright though now Im going into the Marines and got out of Baltimore. So for anyone who is the same way you can get thru

  • bless you bro wishing you the best

  • =] your Great xx

    Good luck ^^

  • thanks same to you ans anyone else

  • Beans!

  • i know!!!!!!! i miss that show :(

  • I almost forgot about this song!

  • prodominatley black neighborhood sorry typo!

  • Hey listen hes not talking about everyones father hes talking about his telling other fathes to not leave their kids like his did! I mean this song is about how successful you can be if you put your mind to it! Although this man grew up in a prodoinatley white neighborhood as a white young man and rose above it all to become a succesful rockstar!

  • fuck Gottas, this almost makes me feel nostalgic. if you ever visit this song , talk to your college attending girl. please. i almost loved you as my dad.

  • eh. havent seen my dad in 15 years. don't hate him though. i turned out alright. love this song

  • this song reminds me of my father, but the thing is, that my mother is the one who went away and took me with her, so i dont blame my father for not being there, how could he? if i was taken away from him

  • sorry that happend

  • You know boys who grow up without fathers deep down feel that they don't care cause they don't know what its like to have 1 in the first place. But deep down somewhere I can't explain in like my brain is all this anger and rage we all have that is influenced by our feelngs of abandon.Its scary imagining to have a son cause I have no idea of how to be a dad. I never had 1 so How could I know? I pray for a girl.That wouldn't be so bad.

  • When I first got this cd (So much for the afterglow), this song did bring me to tears, as my dad left before I was 5 (thinkin it was something I did). I have no kids, maybe this is why, I did not want a kid going through the same shit I did. Wow, I did not realize how much all that affected my life.

  • everytime I hear this song it almost brings me to tears...music is truly the language that touches your soul.Stay strong guys and live for your kids.

  • great song. my dad left when i was 10. 3 years later and he is kicking me out of my house. :(

  • kinda sounds like me. its been 17 years and i still havent met my father. dont have a clue where he is. struggling to get through everyday without thinking of where he might be

  • his dad really did leave him, how hard, be he became such a sucessful man

  • why all these young teenagers are most likely in the US to commit suicide. Because of all these fucked up greedy parents. Thanks mom and dad! /wrist

  • the first line is the best

  • I love these men.

    I genuinely, genuinely do.

  • when alternative was at it's best.

  • This song is very passionate and sad. It is really pathetic how some parents disappear from their child's life. People like that shouldn't even have a puppy, let alone a child.

  • very touching song

  • fucking story of my life

  • my too!

  • I am someone who was lucky enuff to grow up in a happy household with two parents. but to those who werent music like this is a great outlet and I apologize for these idiots on here who never had to get through anything without someone holding their hands. music is the language that connects so many, great song whether you like everclear or not

  • Ultimately for some of us, a sad connection to so many of us who had difficulties with our fathers. Excellent music is that which connects to so many of us. Everclear rocks!

  • wow hearing this song brings me back, it got me through a lot of hard times in high school. My dad left when I was 3... I think it's impossible to understand how hard it is to grow up without your dad unless you've been through it. It took a lot of courage for Art to put this sing out I'm sure. It's painful!

  • how would u know how hard it is....uv never had a dad to show u how "easy it is" to live with one? maybe its easier w/o a dad?

  • I guess it's a matter of opnion...

  • Holy Shit, that is Beans! That's fuckin funny!

  • OMG YA FROM EVEN STEVENS!!Ha, been a while since i watched that, anyway great song.

  • ssssonicyouth, this is ridiculous? So why are you on this video, hmmm? YOU'RE ridiculous for being so ignorant. Everclear are one of the greatest bands ever. Grow up and fuck off. Thanks :)

  • OMG ITS BEANS FROM EVEN STEVENS?! anybody remeber that kid?!

  • ahhaha this is so fucking ridiculous

  • this guys lyrics are not like tears from heaven but you can feel him man..

  • dad is robin williams!!

  • I get the baseball scene ART hit his first homerun or the ball out of the park and his dad never saw it.

  • I wonder what his dad looked like and said after he saw this video i bet his jaw dropped you guys think the same?

  • Lol this song must be a big FU 2 his dad

  • The dad in the video kinda looks like Bruce Willis.

  • You're right, he wasn't a scared white boy in a black neighbourhood, except for you know, when he was under 10 and his mom had to move his family to Mar Vista Gardens in California because his dad ran off. Other than that though....

  • you sir, are an assehole.

  • wow are you kidding me... this guy went through hell. and he put his childhood into a song that relates to so many people.

    if you were going to just come on here to bash him than your retarded!

    who cares what he looks like. listen to the song dumb shit.

  • i love this song. brings back memories.

    oh snap, is that beans from even stevens as the little boy?

  • LOL it is.

  • Haha holy shit good call on that! Totally beans.

    This song is way badass. I'm pretty sure memories flood back to anyone who grew up listening to or heard this song when they were little...haven't heard this in over 5 years and I've just been reminded how awesome Everclear is.

  • great song. its just sad that people actually  leave or give there kids up.

  • for sure - my dad went to work and shot himself when I was 12 - decades later I finally read his suicide note -- still don't get it. Everybody out there, if/when you finally become a parent, be merciful to your offspring...

  • good song. the singer is kinda creepy though.

  • shut up fag

  • Lol.

  • this song explanes my dad except my dad left earlier!!!

  • At least Art Alexakis wrote this song, and expressed it in a not so depressing way. It's touching that he would think others out there who has this same situation can relate, but with a brighter mood in the song. Somewhat sounds like. That's a tough story to come clear on, anyway.

  • This Is A Sad Song

  • is it me, or does that kid look like beans from even stevens...

    IS IT THAT KID FROM EVEN STEVENS?!?!

    ~matt

  • yes it is

  • fuck man, my dad was in the hospital for a few weeks and it was scary as hell when i heard this song. he wouldnt have been walking out but this song kinda relates cuz it talks about living life without your dad...

  • BEANS!!!!!!!

  • i love this song. it's sad but the music isn't.

  • Love their music, lyrics and Art's voice !! They 're unique !

  • Father of Mine dont want to be with a hater like Mommy anymore, anymore.... He dont want to be with a hater like Mommy anymore Hater Hater Hahahaaaaa

  • shit he still had the chance to see him. mine ran away as soon as I was a black dot on the computer screen.

  • holy crap! It's Beans!

  • i would not be able to sleep if i left my kids a beat my wife but a real man dousnt do that shit he sticks to it till the end

  • some people don't deserve kids if they dont no how to rise them either kill them before they are born or give them to someone who wants to riss them if ur going to plan on haveing kids make sure you try to be a parent and dont run out on them

  • wat a powerful song....

    luv you everclear

  • Just like everyone in the music industry, everything is fading away. They still play smaller venues,look at their myspace site.

  • the mom in the vid looks like a druggie

  • man this song makes me appreacite that my dad actually stuck around for me. Really makes you think. next time yur pissed at one of yur folks remember they could have walked out...

  • We all have fucked up childhoods. Trust.

  • BEANS!

  • lol i would have said somethign but i didnt think anyone rememberd even stevens. lol beans was awesum

  • where did everclear go?

    i loved their musicc

  • tht little kid

    is adorable!

  • I Hate My Father! He Did Give Me A Name And Walk Away LOL...

  • OMFG IS THAT BEANS FROM EVEN STEVENS?

  • yup

  • this song is sad and it is sad when this happns to kids and they turn around and do the same thing my dad wasnt around much when i was kid and i will never be the same like he said on here

  • ur daddy must be a natural superman then.. good for you..

    this song rocks...but if thats ur opinion just dont listen to it..

  • fucking dochebag, nice to know tht ure dad was always there for you.

  • Just because he thinks the song is shit doesn't mean he has a perfect family. He doesn't like the song. That's the music, the melody, not the subject matter.

    I, however, think the song kicks ass.

  • THAS THE KID FROM KICKIN N SCREAMIN LOL

  • This song is really great and it's kinda sad that the singer from this band wrote this song obviously for his father...but everclear is a kickass band and well I hope of seeing them one day on concert

  • this kid played beans on even stevens the tv show he loved bacon

  • why is there so much drama on youtube comment boxes? can't anyone just watch the video? haha

  • this song really describes my life... its kinda sad really... lol

    good song though!

  • how much do you want to bet this guy's parents split when he was younger? that's all his songs talk about. it's so sad. but the songs are great.

  • i love this song, my parents split when i was like 6 or 7 and my mom and step dad also split a couple years ago. No worries though life works itself out :)

  • damn i used to love the fuck out of this song.... chilling during the summer and watching VH1 and MTV..... 90's

  • Nice tribute to nirvana's video "in bloom" at 0:40 :-)

  • my parents have been together 20 years, im only 16, they never split but the part of the song that says the only white boy in a black neighborhood i can relate,my family was the only white family in Indianapolis,Indiana,lol

  • lol

    the little art is beans from even stevens!!!!!!

  • LOL ITS WHAT I THOUGHT TOO

  • ha they use the kid from scary movie

  • good song i could relate to im sure many peoplle can why are y ou people so fuckin mean!

  • good song.

  • idk what everyone's bitchin about, this is a good song

  • zomg baby beans!!!

  • BEANS!!!!!

  • its beans! hahaa

  • scared white boy in a black neighborhood"-I can soo relate..