CAN YOU BE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE YET CHEAT ON THEM

[DIJV79]

If shes going to cheat shes going to cheat. Just make sure you got a replacement warming up in the bullpen and if she lives with you, make sure her name is not on the lease geesh. I enjoy kicking a woman out sometimes it feels better than sex.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@DIJV79

You're right on one situation. But if she and he is going to cheat. Either side will go out there to cheat regardless. She don't have to kick him out. He doesn't have to kick her out. Depending on the situation of who did what. Both sides should be an adult about it to just end the relationship. If the relationship is just not working out. Coming to term to violence will only end up in the system and for what? It's just not worth it.

[fredguy2]

this is just my opinion but hear me out. I don't think we were meant to be monogamous, at least when it comes to sex. Would it be so wrong to have a relationship with a Primary partner and then obviously with their agreement and knowledge also have other sexual partners periodically. Male or female I think this can work. I think at least for men the cheating is a physical affair not an emotional affair. How ever if your in a monogamous relationship and you have an affair that's wrong.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@fredguy2

Of course i will hear you out. You have a right to voice your opinions, criticism and comments on my videos and channel anytime you wish. In the past. I could not handle constructive criticism by others. That's the facts!

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive Can you make a video on How to Cheat ? Thanks

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

No, i cannot and will not make such a video. You're welcome for me making a past video like this for your viewing pleasure. I thank you & i appreciate you for your comments on this video i made in the past. Have a great weekend.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@fredguy2

I understand your question. It's just that i believe, that i cannot, and will not speak for everyone who is in true monogamous relationship with someone they truly love and care about. Most relationships in our society are not 100% monogamous anyways.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@fredguy2

If both parties are (honest), (fully aware) and (agreed upon by each other) to have other sexual partners without any emotional attachments to a sexual partner outside of the relationship. Then it's up to both parties to decide that course of action of their relationship together.

Both parties will do anything they want in their own relationship. Regardless of what you and i say on this subject.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@fredguy2

However i agree with you. That if both parties are in a true meaningful monogamous relationship together. And that person goes behind their partners back just to have a fling with another person. That is wrong and it is still considered cheating. There's no getting around that fact. In which case. The cheating party will risk losing his or her relationship with the person that truly does love and care for them. Because the trust between you and your partner has been broken.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@fredguy2

I just hope that maybe what i explained in response to your question maybe makes sense? Remember that i am no Dating Expert whatsoever and i am not offering you any advice in the category of monogamy. I am just giving you my thoughts, comments and opinions to what you are discussing with me on this topic of my video and the question you have given me only. =)

[fredguy2]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive Thank you for your responses I can see that it's up to the individuals involved as to what will work for them. Basically what I was saying is maybe people who are prone to cheat might be better served in a Non Monogamous Relationship If... It's only for a physical reason why they are cheating.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@fredguy2

I understand what you're saying and getting at. But there could be a few different ways of looking at the situation you are going. But i believe it would still come down to both partners talking about the issue. Because if both or one individual in a relationship is going to be prone to cheating. Don't you think maybe the other partner of that relationship deserves to know about their partners obsession to cheat out in the open for physical reasons and not emotional?

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive

Think about it for a moment?

I mean. At least the other partner will know that their partner in the relationship is physically cheating without having to sneak behind their partners back to go and cheat in the first place. Just to suffer the consequences later if they get caught. Why can't the person just admit to their partner straight out. That they would like to have an open, non-monogamous relationship together? at least both sides are being honest.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@fredguy2

I do understand where you are going and coming from with your question towards me on this subject and topic. But i agree with you, that if a person is prone to cheat. Then they should not be in a serious monogamous relationship if they are going to sneak around and behind their partners back anyways. It's best to say to one's partner straight up from the beginning and be honest about the future intentions of their relationship together of a non-monogamous relationship.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@fredguy2

I hope my comment response makes sense again? I do not mean to make my comment replies to you lengthy. It's just that i try to break down a serious commentors questions, like yours, to the best of my abilities to try to help out each person the best way i can. Remember that i am no dating expert in relationships and giving dating advice whatsoever. However, i am trying my best to answer your question the best way i know how and to talk with you on here about your questions.

[EmilG90]

'by the design' .... 'in the dating scene'... bla bla bla... okay i think like 40% of all men and woman have cheated in a relationship,, in real old days it was probely most men who cheated, like in the 1920's and something,, it's not worse today, it's because people in generel have more freedom in there life.. i agree with you it's bad and egocentric - imagen if girls in the 1800's have complained the same way you and bill do now.. you also have to grow up dwayne! :-/

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@EmilG90

Both sides shouldn't be cheating on their partners at all. Yes, i remember who you are and i appreciate your comments. But what happened in the past is in the past. I'm no longer apart of the TFL/True Forced Loneliness movement. I keep these videos as a reminder for the old and new people to see what i use to be associated with and apart of at that time. Not everyone is going to agree with everything i have stated in this video or any other video i make or that i have made.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@EmilG90

However i do appreciate your comments, opinions and feedback on the video. Thanks for your time.

[EmilG90]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive : thanks, right back at you :-).. it's alot better just to have a conversation without any of us being ''mad''.. but yeah remember, i do agree with you in meny of the things you say, o just see it from a diffrent angle so too speak

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@EmilG90

You betcha!

I agree with you on having a good conversation without any of us being mad or getting upset. That's something i had to learn and to overcome myself, many months ago in 2011. I understand not everyone will agree with everything i have to talk about in my past, recent and future videos. Everyone is different and has many different aspects and outlooks on different topics of discussion & debates.

Again, i do appreciate your comments, thoughts, criticism and opinons!

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive Question 2, Can I make a Video, on my View on your Manners on YouTube ? Thank You

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

If you truly wish to do so? but I'll leave that decision totally up to you on your own channel. It's your right to your own comments, opinions, criticism, views and thoughts. =)

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive Really ? Cause he second 1, disgrees with you, in a Mature Manner, you block them. I wish for something constuctive. I agree with you on some points, disagree on other points

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

Yes, really. In which person are you referring to that i have blocked so far on this channel? Because i only have blocked one person many months ago on this channel. But then the same person came back under another channel to talk with me about the issue of why i blocked that person and my response back to that person on my reasons for me blocking them. We have settled our differences with understanding. The few others i have blocked from my channel are auto spammers.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

In which points do you disagree with and what other points do you agree with? Like i have mentioned. Not everyone will agree with everything i have to discuss. There's going to be disagreements and agreements between people's points of views on many different topics.

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive So, if you do not like the video, you will not block me ?

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

No. But if your video response is not a legitimate video response upon disagreement points and agreement points of the topic. Then i will just ignore you. Seems fair enough.

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive Ok, now, how do I get the blank screen, thou I can still talk. i do not want to show my face, just voice.

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

I really do not know, sir. Because i do not know what device you are using to upload your own videos to your channel. It believe it would depend on the type of device you'll be using to upload your videos. Maybe you can record an audio file format of what you would like to discuss. Then you will have to place that audio file into a video/movie type software editor with a black picture as the video background and to save your video. Then upload the video to your channel.

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive I am only using YouTube. I have no software. ok, one comment for today, I ignore ladies, I focus on work, college, etc....Yet, they chase me. The more I Ignore them, they Love me ! BUT, I do not pursue, I have enough work to do, & I am Old Fashioned. Is this Bad of me ?

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

It's ok on the software. Let me look thoroughly at your comment and i will give you a comment response in just a few moments. Hang in there!

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive Thank You. At least your honest. Peace. I try to be fair too, I just look at life in different eyes I guess

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

I think that's cool, bro. I'm being serious with you about that. You're a person that just loves to do what he wants in his own life. There's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with you. And i believe it's the fact that you are a person that minds his own business. You seem to focus on your dreams, goals, desires, wants, needs and you're a person that follows through with them. If you ignore the ladies. Then that is your right to do so. (cont.)

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive I also SUB

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

Thank you for the subscription. I appreciate it and i appreciate you. I still have more to continue with my comment reply back to you in just a moment.

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive I have to study my Medical. but I will be in touch. Look foward to your other information. Cool & Peace

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

Take good care always, bro. Thank you for the comments, feedback and subscription. I appreciate it. Peace! =)

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive Hey, me again. I am in college, will not say what major, but I am in class with a lot of Married Woman,I am Single Male, You cannot believe how much I get hit on ! It is funny and Sad. I am waiting for the right female. Peace

[RustArtRed]

@DwayneHoLLowayLive Yea, they act like I am Cold. I am not Cold, just focused on other stuff. I LOVE Females, but I may also be A Sexual !  LOL

[DwayneHoLLowayLive]

@RustArtRed

If the ladies are chasing you because you ignore them. Then that's not your fault that these ladies are chasing you, because of that fact of what you are doing with your own life. I believe you value your own self-worth to do as you and to go about your own life to come and go as you see fit. I hope that makes sense?

And that does not make you a bad person. It makes you your own self individual as a human being to live life as you wish.