The Offspring - Kristy, Are You Doing Okay?

[Masterkid1230]

This is sad, someone should've spoken...

[thejakeludwig]

I like this song! It sounds like a Green Day song in a way. Green Day is like one of my favorite bands. Anyway though, great video! lol

[CaMmaMiii]

trevor morgan??? haha

[TransformerGurlz3721]

I love this song but its so sad and the thing i dont get is this is based on a true story but ive never heard of what really happened to her.? its kinda like a mystery in a way......SO SAD:(

[2breathtakingmoments]

it's actually pretty realistic. i can relate to kristy

[robowing25]

I think ( I could be wrong) the young boy in the Video is Dexter. He knows something is wrong, but fails to do anything about it.

[legorock42]

brings back memories...

[demonbloodchick]

kristy if u ever read this. i hope that ur okay.

[terabithian5273]

i dont get how the video matches the song exactly. like i have an idea......someone want to explain it to me?? please and thank you!

[demonbloodchick]

the singer knew a girl who was sexually abused. and this is his apogloly for never helping her. for not saying something wen no one else noticed.

[terabithian5273]

nooo i know what the song means. and its a tribute to her and stuff. but i dont get how it ties with the music video.

[darkguiltygirl]

I realy like this song but...

I can not understand it very much...

can someone explaine me what happened?

[roboimp]

it is a tribute to a girl the singer knew as a child. she was sexually abused and everyone knew but no one did anything, and this is his apology for not helping her

[TransformerGurlz3721]

thats amazing that no one did anything? do you know if she died? wait can you tell me the whole story and what happened to her. PLEASE!!!! (:

[roboimp]

I'm sorry thats all I know. google it, u might find an interview or something.

[MrSoftTaco123]

So was she like raped or something? (Not sure just like the way the song sounds, don't really understand it)

[blushers23]

i think it's more of an abstract form of act. it suppose to reach out to anyone whos been hurt in anyway horrible way, and its there to tell you to stay strong and try and put it in the past.

[sharkattackjensen]

at the end of the video when they're outside, who's that guy? He was also in the classroom.

[sk8trgirl19]

i no wut shes gone thru ive lived and still am sumtimes i just wanna runaway so i dont hav 2 face it anymore but i cant leave, i wish my sister was still here but i no she wont come bac she was smart

[harley1330]

god bless you kristy

[hh55f7j]

Dude, i can relate to this song like, completly, as if i was kristy :( i hate this song because it makes me cry, btu i love it so much because its such a wonderful song.

[chapstickofcherry]

i <3 this song! even tho its sad

[hadirah123]

4 me,the song ment life's need 2 not be lonely on the outside but also in the inside but 4 Kristy,she's lonely in the inside like me :(

[CWFOwner25]

please no emo stuff

[hadirah123]

U JUST DON'T GET IT DO U HUH!!!!!

[MixMatsuri]

I love this song. I just want to disappear at the moment, this song really lifts me up.

I can relate to it SO MUCH. x

[sk8rboi456]

he looks way different with long hair, he looks like a surfer.

[rokyrob]

never seen the "da hui" music video uh? xD

[Tomma4995]

kristy in the video is kinda hot :D

[kidnutorious]

its about a girl being raped or somthing and she ends up hurting himself, and the guy is too young to get the whole concept of rape or something alogn those l ines

[FelipeC19]

so wait... "She" is hurting "Himself"? Sry, I don't care about gramatical error, but this one really confuses me :S

[kidnutorious]

my bad lol, u get my drift

[grimmster1231]

idk wat the vid's bout. is she like depressed? poor kristy. IM SO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!!!

[kidnutorious]

she was sexually assaulted to some degree, and the singer was to young to know what was happening to her, and eventually she hurt herself

[grimmster1231]

OH ok thx i get it now. thats really sad :'( still good song

[TheGriz07]

She didnt hurt herself you effing retard, stop making shit up out of your mind. Theres an interview with Dex that said shes fine now. Your a moron

[kidnutorious]

im sure u would know u fucking cunt, go slit your wrist and walk into oncoming traffic you fucking worthless piece of shit, people like you piss me off, fucking punk ass faggot, do us a favor and go jump off a fucking building you fucking scumbag

[BleachNaruTard]

Okay, this is an awesome vid.

And for those STILL going on about mankey:

1. Let it go. Geez, how long can a comment war last for you immature competitors?

2. He did say SOME people deserved it. Not all, not most, just some. So stop saying "I deserved it, right??" Bleh. Read the whole freakin' comment.

3. If you're gonna carry on, take it somewhere else. Please. It's annoying for the rest of us.

Anyway... XD poor Kristy. This is an awesommmme song!

[TheDylanProject]

ABUSE OMG ( with a touch of emo)

[yesomgilovemanson44]

i like this song:)<3

[nate1606gc5]

Man, does every single song have a emotional meaning? :'(

[ChAnNcHiLlA]

awh this song makes me cry so badly :[ it reminds me of some things goin on in my life and my name is kristy :( :)

[Smileyisgreat]

? i dint see what was wroung in the 1st place to be honest

[Kristyyykiss]

haha yes :)

[skateboarding176]

u people still dont understand. i heard them interviewed over the radio. the song is not about her being RAPED! she was abused i heard it myself.

[af73r70ugh7]

quite honestly, this song kind of reminds me of a dilemma in my own life. This song carries a message.

[mytinygreencar]

Mankey09, I understand what you mean about people asking for it, however, I got raped repeatedly as an innocent four-year-old, and I think that it isn't always the girl's fault. I'm sure all girls feel like it is, though.

[af73r70ugh7]

WOAH. dude that's just wrong.

[Zezzimo]

OMG O.O

poor u O.O

[kkeewiinn2]

kristys hot

[BasementPals]

holy jesus, dextor u have changed

[DeidraDistress]

also i was raped and the reason why is because i didn't want to have sex... i wasn't slutty and didn't wear skimpy clothes. but i still must have deserved it right mankeyo9

[MagicMitch1066]

well, in his defence, he did say SOME people. though for the most part I agree with you. Obviously no one ASKS to be raped, skimpy clothes or not

[mankeyo9]

I never said anyone deserved it. Maybe you shouldn't have been with that person.

[DeidraDistress]

either mankeyo9 is a very sick and twisted man or a woman who never has been raped. you can't go around saying some people deserve to be raped.

[mankeyo9]

So your a crack head out doing guys for drugs or at a party and you get smashed drunk and youre only 13.. of course youre making yourself vonerable to them. im never said someone deserved to be raped but some make themselves a target.

[Zezzimo]

Fuck u fuckin 40 year old priest hippie-homo

[caboose016]

:( im srry u got raped my im a guy and my gf was raped i cried most guys wont admitt if they cry but that made me cry shes really sad and shes changed ya i understand it sucks and hurts

[mankeyo9]

Shut the fuck up. I've never been reped or molested. but i know people who have been.

[EmmilyOfIrk]

No, that's not what I mean.

I read comments... OBSESSIVLY.

I know Kristy's been sexually abused.

But I'm talking about THE END.

What happened to her?

Did she kill herself, run away, put up with it all?

[Roxy12300]

I think she went with the guy who was realy woried about her. i kno the part bout her bein abused but was her friend like murderd or somthing (i got that part from all the pix in her locker)

[iplaysongs4u]

I wuv this song :)

[yesomgilovemanson44]

THIS SONG REMINDS ME OF SPEAK!:)<3

[mankeyo9]

I feel sorry for almost all of the people that were raped. but some ask for it. from the clothes they wear to the way they act.. just clean up your act and it more than likely wont happen to them

[xxALLIEALLIExx]

actually, a person's clothing usually doesn't have anything to do with it. rapists go for women who are alone and who are distracted, like if they're out jogging listening to their ipod or something.

[Linkhyla]

mankeyo6:

are you a priest.

Cuz priest are always saying the same things that you say,

man, you suck.

[tehblckdeth]

Come on, thats just a stereotype.

[Linkhyla]

here in mexico no.

the catholic priest alway say that, epecially the high ranks.

I say it because a note i read not long ago

[Electrice]

Kristy was far from doing OK ,cause it never goes away! The emotional message here is to intense.Getting Molested Sucks!

[EmmilyOfIrk]

Whatever happened to Kristy in the end?

[Laura2970]

raped

[sk8erluck]

When i listen to this song it makes me think about how lucky I am. Very lucky.

[mycrossxx]

Poor girl she got Sexually abused

[maude2620]

who's the young guy who is looking at the girl in the video ?

[makemecool24]

the dude singin

[sk8trgirl19]

"kristy" is pretty and i now wut shes going tru

[vertsk8n]

i hope u are doing okay... so sorry u know what she's going thru :(

[sk8trgirl19]

im fine it stopped a long time ago but i cant get out of my head

[CHEMATROVA]

the bottom line here is.... you have to get over it.... women are strong, just they don't konw it.

u can't afford to be weak. yes it hapenned, and it sucks, but life goes on and hapiness depend on our attitude. life is too fkn short to waste it cryin'... so sorry, but only u can get it out of your head, there's no formula, u just do it.

[bubbleperson12]

its a true story, if u read the album, and on the CD, it was about a girl who got molested by someone in her family. so this would be the end of the discussion.

[maxy2jmex]

wait were does it say it on album i have it but i didn't see it please tell me????

[07goldielocks]

this is one of my favorite songs. it really help me deal with the pain

[fangsup1994]

ditto

[j0nryan]

she defiantely got raped!! like when it says "no point trying to get back what was taken away" or whatever it says. um that would be her virginity

[troublez567]

nope.? the singer says in an interview that it was a childhood girl he knew that was raped and sexually abused , she didnt cut well maybe she did AFTER the fact

[mxfreak79]

the songs obviously about a rape victim. if she cut. it was just because of the trauma.

[jasminefaye14]

ummm i think she was abused not sexually...physicaly cause of the long sleeved shirt and waiting till everyone was outta the locker room to change....yeah i have a feeling thats what they were going 4

[cliquegirlzomg]

i dont get how people are saying she was raped. someone reply to this comment cuz i really want to know!

[hehethatsme94]

if you read the cd and stuff it says that it was about a girl who was sexually abused, ive been trying to find an interview of them talking about it but i cant find a good one lol, but punch it in google and itll come up probably.. hope i helped :)

[cliquegirlzomg]

she was sexual abused lol

hes ugly

but i love this song

[everyonefails]

im very sorry to hear about anyone getting raped..... people who do tht are messed up and should rot in hell and people who say people are dumb for putting personal stuff on youtube..... honestly dnt say anything cause u arent brave enough to do it doesnt mean u have to put them down

[donnameno]

dam this song is very sad:( its so good i cry cuase of the two i think

[tibolt4]

seriously stephanie i dont like kristy!!!

[tibolt4]

this song scares me my best friends name is kristy and it freaks me out to hear this i just think of her

[jackieboy39]

this is sad and thats just terrible for someone to even think about doing stuff like that let alone actually doing it to someone. I hope she is ok :P

[chocolatemilk4567]

this song maks me cry...my name is kristi and i was raped at 5 and there is life after something like that so to all girl raped or hurt just stay strong and love more everythings gonn be ok...i promise.

[screwMTV]

Loook I'm really sorry but who puts personal shit like that on Youtube?...

[Greendaykidd77]

she was raped, he knew about it, he didnt say anything and he always liked her and this was his way of clearing his mind

[ShizunoEX]

i thought it was just physical abuse. o.o like beating and stuff.

[wacupcake1994]

i think she was abused bolth sexualy and phically

[sunderman08]

She looks like she could use a big hug!!

[heyemilay6778]

omfg thts freaking sad! did she like die???

[nellina0]

i think so...but its not possible cause the songs called "k,are you doing ok"and if shes fine she didnt die...

[avpfan93]

Great song but its sad

[sk8rgrl4005555]

i absolutly love this song!

it has to be thaa best!!

but the only thing that i don't get

is if she waz raped or beat or what?

but this is a great songg! i love it!!

[kinkylulu99]

molested

[Exko19]

Best song ! =)

[f6killa1234]

i dont get what is wrong with her? was she raped or like emo or soemthing? im confused

[potatoesfourever]

ik she like cuts herself, idky but w/e... =/

[bgirly8]

she was raped

[samanthamiller35]

Ohmygodd! I love this song! x]]

It's my favorite!

[dahoodpkz]

Is this a real story?

[InsomniaCafe]

Yep.

[LilMissAly96]

Soo sad=[...i cried because i realized how this sonq has a biq impact on me=[...i just wish that this kind of stuff wouldn't happen but..it does='..But hopefully this wont happen to me&+anyone else<3

[Valerinadiddlina94]

*_____*

Io li adorooooooooooo ç_ç

[nellina0]

cosa adori?

[nickylover3655]

THE GUY IN THIS VIDEO IS SOOOOOOOOO HOT is he an actor or something

he looks firmilar

[jimmy63357]

he was in the "cant be saved"by Senses Fail Music video

[nickylover3655]

thanks! :)

[parkerpnut]

The video makes it a little more clear.

The video depicts a teenage girl who writes continuously in her diary about sexual abuse. A boy in the class notices her, and suspects that something is wrong. However, he does nothing, and she is left alone. The school scenes are separated by Holland playing an acoustic guitar in an abandoned room with pages of the diary taped onto the walls.

[nellina0]

the "guy" is the image of the guy that plays guitar,that says"i should spoke out,and im so sorry now.

[rolloweeksfan]

the girl is really pretty

[Armaniwazhere]

I love this song, I Think I should just tell my mom what happened to me as a child,its really destroying. But about the video, what was going on?

[herWretchedlove]

This is probably one of my favorite songs.

For some strange reason it reminds me of the book "Living dead girl"

[zipify]

That could be because the grl is like... emo

[herWretchedlove]

Have you read the book?

[zipify]

Nah

[musicxlover111]

for this song ?

[GarshZilla]

12 facts that are true 1. Your reading my comment 2. Now your saying/thinking thats a stupid fact. 4. You didnt notice that i skipped 3. 5. Your checking it now. 6. Your smiling. 7. Your still reading my comment. 8. You know all you have read is true. 10. You didn't notice that i skipped 9. 11. Your checking it now. 12. You didn't notice there are only 10 facts Copy and paste to 1 video, tomorrow will be your best day ever! no matter what! :)

[KCEpRoDuCtioNS123]

12 facts that are true 1. Your reading my comment 2. Now your saying/thinking thats a stupid fact. 4. You didnt notice that i skipped 3. 5. Your checking it now. 6. Your smiling. 7. Your still reading my comment. 8. You know all you have read is true. 10. You didn't notice that i skipped 9. 11. Your checking it now. 12. You didn't notice there are only 10 facts Copy and paste to 1 video, tomorrow will be your best day ever! no matter what! :)

[6days2live]

shes really hot

[freestyler714]

No, Just cute.

[sunderman08]

she got the cutest smile

[nellina0]

thats true....

so sad :(

[nellina0]

3:35

what is she thinkin?

[nohisted]

ur retarded i noticed all of that except tht it was all true

[Armaniwazhere]

2, 6, 8, NOT TRUE, hahaha

[xXxKristy101xXx]

i love this song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MoChickenShawty]

pretty cool and mature out of a gen x'er, nice to know they're thinking too

[turbox70]

what happend to her after they were kids?

[freestyler714]

she got sexually abused and that ruined her childhood for good (well, not for good purpose). The kid didn't.

[anisthere]

((I just noticed how sad the end of the video was D= ))

[anisthere]

Last night when I saw them in concert EVERYBODY knew this song. a couple thousand people all singing the same song is pretty loud...

But it was amazing =D I'm a happy camper.

[freestyler714]

I was there 2. It was soooo awsome!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[anisthere]

yay for buzz under the stars ^.^

[turbox70]

awsome =]

[rockhard2222]

great song alot of meaning to it. offspring forever!

[UnLovedGrl5]

it has such a story to it. when u remember someone from before how she seemed so happy but their was sadness and this vid is so sad its hard to explain. its inspirational and stuff and you wonder how theyre doing now. its sad. i love this!! OFF SPRING FOREVER

[EFCcheerforever]

wow.

[brendanoconn]

singer sucks he sounds like weird al llol

[d0rjay]

ur ear and speker r lame

[cristiannblove]

This song is so sad! When I first heard this song I was with my friend and it came on the radio and she was like "yeah are you?" I was like what? and I listened to the song. I wa slike that's awesome cause my name is Cristi. But when I listened to the words I heard what it was about and it's horrible that that would happen to someone! But I looove this song!

[bherman19]

It's so strange to see how everyone has a different opinion about what this song is about, but one thing that is clear is that she was abused. Whether sexually or physically doesn't mean one is better then the other. This video/song is inspirational to alot of people, and I hope that someone can smile after seeing this song, knowing someone out there cares about what has happened/happening in his/her life

[Luauiu]

whos the girl from this vid?

[smiley0kat]

i am obsessed with this song : D

[sweetbabygirl7]

this is so sad....

[mirandasvids]

this is a really good song!

[rocker0057]

I heard them recently on the rock 30 with LA Loyd. He was talking about this song and how people that were abused in many ways have come up to the band at shows and posted on their myspace how this song has helped them feel better. It was sort of like good charlottes Hold On

[bobbys4lyfe]

OMG i love this song!!! is it is really sad

[iheartmusic555]

Love this song and this band.

[emmettcullen123]

aww so sad :(

[nohisted]

was sge abused or raped or both

[hollaartjuh]

Lol sure xD

[cutifulmegan22]

not to sound dumb but i dont get the video. whats with the guy. are they falling in love or was he the "abuser"? help.

[k13c12]

the song kristy r u doin okay is about a girll that got abused its so sad how dont u get it

[gothkid459]

Back when the lead singer was a teen, he knew a girl named Kristy who was abused in different ways. This song is about how he saw what was wrong with her, but he just didn't do anything about it, and he feels sorry about it. It's a very tragic story, but the song is great nonetheless!

[shubz18]

you sure?oh is this just a composite story speaking for other people?

[hollaartjuh]

My name is Kristy xD

LOL huh?

Plzz reactions!

[chapstickofcherry]

are you doing ok?

can you stay strong?

can you go on?

:P

[hollaartjuh]

Sure xD

[LittleRawkstar]

haha :P