@NotGoAnimate Actually, calling someone an idiot is not a fact. My IQ is a fact, that I'm an idiot is your opinion. Saying " I realize that this is a very old video but I still feel the need to say that YOU." is not a complete sentence, ergo, grammar error.
The concept of "repackage your gift" after rape is something that I find asinine and appalling. Nonetheless, upon hearing about that concept, you should not get the message that if you have mistake sex then you can just call yourself a virgin. In rape, the "gift" was forcibly taken. In mistake sex, the "gift" was freely given and then you realized it was a mistake. In terms of a "spiritual virginity", there's a big difference.
@GnosticQuasar no, you shouldn't get the message that if you f-up then you can start over but that is exactly what can happen. "spiritual virginity" is a load of crap made up by the church to get more followers.
I don't hug strangers...I will shake their hand, I will offer an elbow-bump (if they are germ phobic), but front hug someone I don't know at all? no. but agreed abstinence only is BS
videos a bit too long but there's no real need to seperate a hug into frontal and side hugs :/ you can read someones body language and approach to a hug and if you're uncomfortable hugging someone, the other person can tell and will know they don't like it. i agree with the rest of your points. sexual education in a lot of places is so ridiculous. in the uk it's only legally obligated to have ONE sex ed class. i'm in ireland and in my catholic grammar we learned about diseases, not contraception
humans normally read body language very quickly and if a person opens their arms for a hug and the recipricating party isnot into it then that person would usually stop....i think your reasoning is commendable however.
Then why on earth are you suggesting the surgery at all. It is not possible to "mystically" or otherwise reinstate a woman's virginity. Once it is gone, that is it. The restoration surgery is just that, it restores the hymen but that is only one sign of lost virginity.
what would be the psychological effect of a patriarchical dogma that cultivates sexual repression. In effect limiting lifestyle choices and sexual expression?
The implants would have to be improved first, though, as the current ones cause too many side effects. But the basic idea is good. Generally speaking, the best (and often the only) solution is a technological solution.
"Knowledge is power!" haha, just giving you a hard time, i thought that was funny. Enjoyed your thoughts, though, and you're very well spoken. Good job.
I'd never heard about "side hugs" till I saw a different video about the same thing from The Young Turks. I think the whole idea of a "side hug" so no one get's turned on is a bit pathetic. I say hello with more than a hug normally and think nothing of it. Why don't they take all the time they are pouring into introducing this side hug rubbish and use it on something useful like (as you said) sexual education. If the schools didn't make such a big thing of this then no one would care...
ok, TLDL, but I get your point. Well said I guess, however I am a male and I give lots of other males frontal hugs, often without warning, it's kind of just the standard here, and I've never had:
1. Any form of distaste due to sexual experiences in the past that cause a sort of disturbance.
2. Male, or female, become sexually aroused from a hug.
I think that this is because I'm extremely ugly and I must be doing something wrong. Seriously, check out my channel and post on all my videos "Dayum"
This is a really good responce video. I don't understand why people are being so harsh. Some people don't like hugging other people, and frontal hugs can come on a bit strong some times. I agree that teenagers need to learn about safe sex, and as a teenager I've never met anyone who wanted to get pregnant young. 5 stars from me.
not being able to get through a hug is why you're promoting side hugs in the first place. Your other reasons about people being antsy about it are completely irrelevant and improbable
So you're suggesting that side hugs are a good idea because some people might be freaked out by a regular hug? Uhhh.... what?
Call it coincidental if you want, but I've encountered exactly the same number of people who are freaked out by frontal hugs as people who are freaked out by physical handshakes. Oh, and that number would be 0.
But we're not talking about general physical contact here ( I guess the handshake thing doesn't fit too well). If someone is uncomfortable with physical contact, they aren't going to appreciate you giving them a side hug either.
Not giving someone a full on hug because you don't know them well is a completely normal, common thing, and it's not due to discomfort with hugging.
I gave this young person a 2 star rating as she should have performed a bit more research on her subjects. The young crowd can glean some beneficial info from her response, but there is much more for them to understand about how everyones behavior determines the outcome of society & how it will become progressive or just another mistake that has been made before. Ignorance of history determines if we shall repeat it again & again.
christian side hug or not.... the fact of the matter is that this pointless shit goes on no where else in the world, just brain washed middle america..
side hugs.....!! what a complete load of fucking crap.
Sex ed is fine, but mandatory birth control implants for all fertile women (and men, possibly) until the age of 21 would be even better. There's absolutely nothing good about teenage pregnancies, and most kids (and adults) can't be bothered to have safe sex or take their birth control pills. Implants would nicely solve this problem. The technology already exists (Implanon, for example), it only needs to be refined and implemented. Also, free sterilization should be available to all.
Free sterilization should simply be available to those who want it (for) themselves. It should be included in the universal healthcare package. You could add an age limit to prevent abuse (coercion), though I don't think there are many parents who would actually want to sterilize their kids. This is pretty much a non-issue.
So basically you agree with the implant idea, btw?
An age limit would be a good option. I'm not talking so much about good parents. There would definitely have to be limits, especially about mental health.
I do agree about implants, many women forget about their birth control and this can lead to unwanted children. It would also probably cut down on abortions. Teen pregnancies are not good things, and lead to problems for the teens involved and the families of those teens.
@Parapon3ra Mandatory birth control implants? I understand your attitude, I'll be the first to admit that the earth is overpopulated, and that there are far too many unqualified parents out there, too irresponisible to keep their miserable children from wrecking havoc in public. However mandatory birth control is unacceptable. It is a direct infringement of liberty. It is no different than making sex 'mandatory', or illegal.
40% of the worlds food supply can be attributed to chemicals and fertilizer. We are overpopulated when you include the exponential population growth of recent history.
The earth is not overpopulated my ass. Expert opinions stretch the maximum human capacity of the earth to around 40 billion. Now this only includes maximum theoretical food production and comfortable space. Not computers cars and material items.
Eventually mandatory birth control will be almost universally globally enforced.
The days of needing to have 10 kids are over. People were only encouraged to procreate because of needing extra hands to work and the death rates of babies. Not to mention the fact that it was a "miracle" if a child made it past the age of 5.
Infringement of *what* liberty, exactly -- the right to ruin your own life, your accidental kid's life, and to be a drain on your family and society as a whole?
Remember, this would primarily be for persons below the age of 18/21. It would be no different than having an age limit for drinking, handling firearms, or other potentially dangerous activities. Kids shouldn't have kids, period, and implants are (by far) the most effective means to prevent teen pregnancies.
Yes, the right to ruin your life must be protected. I'm all for teaching responsibility, but you cannot force it at the point of a gun. Supposing a teenager refused to have a 'mandatory implant.' Would we lock her up? Fine her? Punish her for not letting us 'protect her from herself'?
There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences. P.J. O'Rourke (1993)
Discovering the cultural state of sex education (and sexuality education) in the US, comes with great perplexity.
In Scandinavia such education was been implemented early on. Sweden for instance integrated sex education in 1956 and the subject starts for pupils as young as 7.
The curriculum focuses on biological aspects of reproduction as well as on values, attitudes, communication and negotiation skills.
I agree with sex education in schools... I also agree with it in coffee shops, tanning stores and toys r us... anywhere that i can meet 16 year old girls basically ;)
Yeah coffee shops would be a good place. Lots of teens there. And their parents think they are little angels going to basketball lesson or studying in the library.
PV, Once again you have made a 5 star video ! You brought up a good point about "side hugs" for possible victims, how ever as a sex deterence , is the biggest face palm in history! The religious nutballs, are more naive about sex and health issues than a 5yr old. Who probably know more anyway! Great job as usual !!!
She's cute
karupspc 2 months ago
@NotGoAnimate Actually, calling someone an idiot is not a fact. My IQ is a fact, that I'm an idiot is your opinion. Saying " I realize that this is a very old video but I still feel the need to say that YOU." is not a complete sentence, ergo, grammar error.
PetiteViolist 8 months ago
@NotGoAnimate If you are going to insult someone:#1 use correct grammar and #2 have something other than a middle school quality insult to use.
PetiteViolist 8 months ago
Oh my fucking god! 9 minutes, seriously!? A minute and half was all I could take.
besidemymind 1 year ago
The concept of "repackage your gift" after rape is something that I find asinine and appalling. Nonetheless, upon hearing about that concept, you should not get the message that if you have mistake sex then you can just call yourself a virgin. In rape, the "gift" was forcibly taken. In mistake sex, the "gift" was freely given and then you realized it was a mistake. In terms of a "spiritual virginity", there's a big difference.
GnosticQuasar 1 year ago
@GnosticQuasar no, you shouldn't get the message that if you f-up then you can start over but that is exactly what can happen. "spiritual virginity" is a load of crap made up by the church to get more followers.
PetiteViolist 1 year ago
sexual excited my ass pluck your eyebrows and go fuck yourself
Mmmkay41 1 year ago
@Mmmkay41 mm no thanks, I like actually having eyebrows
PetiteViolist 1 year ago
Do you go around hugging strange men or women?
Every person I hug I have known already.
catonic 1 year ago
@catonic oh yes, I go up to random people all the time and just give them a big hug........this is definitely not the point
PetiteViolist 1 year ago
if they taught this at your school, it means that your school is administered by some zealous christians. Not that this is a common thing.
salehqt 2 years ago
I don't hug strangers...I will shake their hand, I will offer an elbow-bump (if they are germ phobic), but front hug someone I don't know at all? no. but agreed abstinence only is BS
RavenBlaze 2 years ago
You're cute, stop talking.
valkaek 2 years ago
videos a bit too long but there's no real need to seperate a hug into frontal and side hugs :/ you can read someones body language and approach to a hug and if you're uncomfortable hugging someone, the other person can tell and will know they don't like it. i agree with the rest of your points. sexual education in a lot of places is so ridiculous. in the uk it's only legally obligated to have ONE sex ed class. i'm in ireland and in my catholic grammar we learned about diseases, not contraception
AyeYirMa 2 years ago
wtf? a hug is a hug. get over it.
ZOMGdani 2 years ago
You obviously didn't get the point.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
i do get the point. that youre exaggerating over an innocent display of affection. are high fives going to frown upon next?
ZOMGdani 1 year ago
@ZOMGdani what is innocent to one person may not feel that way to another.
PetiteViolist 1 year ago
Discusting
katawazai1 2 years ago
humans normally read body language very quickly and if a person opens their arms for a hug and the recipricating party isnot into it then that person would usually stop....i think your reasoning is commendable however.
ezmereldagreen 2 years ago
Please return your web cam. Please?
TR240003 2 years ago
I can't, it's built into my computer.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
4:10 re. "calling yourself a virgin again" you mention "it's medically incapable of happening"
For women, it is "medically" possible. Research Hymen Restoration Surgery.
Mind you, the surgery doesn't somehow mystically change reality and produce actual virginity.
sy1234 2 years ago
Then why on earth are you suggesting the surgery at all. It is not possible to "mystically" or otherwise reinstate a woman's virginity. Once it is gone, that is it. The restoration surgery is just that, it restores the hymen but that is only one sign of lost virginity.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
yeah, but what about the mental scars?
intermender 2 years ago
Mental scars never go away, you just learn how to deal with them.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
then whats the point of the operation?
intermender 2 years ago
That is exactly what I'm trying to figure out.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
what would be the psychological effect of a patriarchical dogma that cultivates sexual repression. In effect limiting lifestyle choices and sexual expression?
intermender 2 years ago
I perceive you are very innocent. This is a good thing.
My only advice to you is to stay in the world you are in. I am sure you will marry and be very happy one day.
I give you my blessings-
toddhawley 2 years ago
Oh god, give it up.
You didn't comprehend the video, and you're pandering. This is pathetic.
lordwindowlicker 2 years ago 8
bad qu vid.
maartsvenson 2 years ago
speak (proper) english
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
no need 2. u got it.x
maartsvenson 2 years ago
I suggest learning grammar, and I do not "got it." You have no point, good bye!
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
Yeah, my point is that the video quality is so bad that it its a pain in the bum to try to understand your "point".
My point is that you obviously dont know how to have a "debate" if you fully ignore the point of critique and attack the opposing part.
And my final point is that it is highly snooty that you have the nerve to tell me what to do and what not to.
Now leave me alone!
I blocked you but somehow your waffling still lands in my inbox. Now go go go!
maartsvenson 2 years ago
There is no debate if you say nothing of substance to debate upon. If you want to be left alone, then do not comment.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
The implants would have to be improved first, though, as the current ones cause too many side effects. But the basic idea is good. Generally speaking, the best (and often the only) solution is a technological solution.
Parapon3ra 2 years ago
"Knowledge is power!" haha, just giving you a hard time, i thought that was funny. Enjoyed your thoughts, though, and you're very well spoken. Good job.
mrmcfly26 2 years ago
I'd never heard about "side hugs" till I saw a different video about the same thing from The Young Turks. I think the whole idea of a "side hug" so no one get's turned on is a bit pathetic. I say hello with more than a hug normally and think nothing of it. Why don't they take all the time they are pouring into introducing this side hug rubbish and use it on something useful like (as you said) sexual education. If the schools didn't make such a big thing of this then no one would care...
ThinkAtheism 2 years ago
Silly Xtian Americans. What would they do in certain European countries where it is the norm to greet each other with a kiss on both cheeks.
EwePeopleRsheeple 2 years ago 2
They would probably run away screaming about those crazy, kissing Europeans!
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
your words are struggling out of your mouth. talk for god's sake! you're killing us.
velio70 2 years ago
Us? You are the only one complaining.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
In Texas has one of the highest rates of teen pregnancy and STD. And has abstinence only for awhile now. Coincidence, I think not.
TheAvengingAtheist 2 years ago 4
The "horror" stories I hear from the hospital are crazy with how young some of these girls are who get pregnant.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
ok, TLDL, but I get your point. Well said I guess, however I am a male and I give lots of other males frontal hugs, often without warning, it's kind of just the standard here, and I've never had:
1. Any form of distaste due to sexual experiences in the past that cause a sort of disturbance.
2. Male, or female, become sexually aroused from a hug.
I think that this is because I'm extremely ugly and I must be doing something wrong. Seriously, check out my channel and post on all my videos "Dayum"
EcoLogicality 2 years ago
TLDL?
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
It means Too Long Didnt Listen I believe. But...good vid.
AthenaSyphier 2 years ago
oh ok,... thanks!
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
Too long didn't listen... Like... to the whole thing. I still responded and 5 starred though.
EcoLogicality 2 years ago
This is a really good responce video. I don't understand why people are being so harsh. Some people don't like hugging other people, and frontal hugs can come on a bit strong some times. I agree that teenagers need to learn about safe sex, and as a teenager I've never met anyone who wanted to get pregnant young. 5 stars from me.
IrememberDelirium 2 years ago
LooL this is lame sidehugs?
scared of physical contact seems like an insecurity issue
b0omshakab0om 2 years ago
I do agree with you on your views of sexual education and the idea of sex in general. Im muslim and I have to deal with this dilemma also
Qiya1123 2 years ago
not being able to get through a hug is why you're promoting side hugs in the first place. Your other reasons about people being antsy about it are completely irrelevant and improbable
Qiya1123 2 years ago
So you're suggesting that side hugs are a good idea because some people might be freaked out by a regular hug? Uhhh.... what?
Call it coincidental if you want, but I've encountered exactly the same number of people who are freaked out by frontal hugs as people who are freaked out by physical handshakes. Oh, and that number would be 0.
reddog22000 2 years ago
I'm saying that in some instances it could be a good idea, especially if you don't know them well.
Well, you are just very lucky then. Not everyone is comfortable with physical contact.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
But we're not talking about general physical contact here ( I guess the handshake thing doesn't fit too well). If someone is uncomfortable with physical contact, they aren't going to appreciate you giving them a side hug either.
Not giving someone a full on hug because you don't know them well is a completely normal, common thing, and it's not due to discomfort with hugging.
reddog22000 2 years ago
I gave this young person a 2 star rating as she should have performed a bit more research on her subjects. The young crowd can glean some beneficial info from her response, but there is much more for them to understand about how everyones behavior determines the outcome of society & how it will become progressive or just another mistake that has been made before. Ignorance of history determines if we shall repeat it again & again.
gwayne919 2 years ago
god you talk a load if rambling shit.
christian side hug or not.... the fact of the matter is that this pointless shit goes on no where else in the world, just brain washed middle america..
side hugs.....!! what a complete load of fucking crap.
The U.S is fast becoming a theocracy.
CyberNeticRodent 2 years ago
If it is "a load of...crap," then why bother commenting?
You clearly missed my entire point.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
Yes.
You have missed the point.
Macque77 2 years ago
Ooooookayy??
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
Sex ed is fine, but mandatory birth control implants for all fertile women (and men, possibly) until the age of 21 would be even better. There's absolutely nothing good about teenage pregnancies, and most kids (and adults) can't be bothered to have safe sex or take their birth control pills. Implants would nicely solve this problem. The technology already exists (Implanon, for example), it only needs to be refined and implemented. Also, free sterilization should be available to all.
Parapon3ra 2 years ago
I disagree with the free sterilization. There are some pretty sick people out there who might use this on children.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
Free sterilization should simply be available to those who want it (for) themselves. It should be included in the universal healthcare package. You could add an age limit to prevent abuse (coercion), though I don't think there are many parents who would actually want to sterilize their kids. This is pretty much a non-issue.
So basically you agree with the implant idea, btw?
Parapon3ra 2 years ago
An age limit would be a good option. I'm not talking so much about good parents. There would definitely have to be limits, especially about mental health.
I do agree about implants, many women forget about their birth control and this can lead to unwanted children. It would also probably cut down on abortions. Teen pregnancies are not good things, and lead to problems for the teens involved and the families of those teens.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
@Parapon3ra Mandatory birth control implants? I understand your attitude, I'll be the first to admit that the earth is overpopulated, and that there are far too many unqualified parents out there, too irresponisible to keep their miserable children from wrecking havoc in public. However mandatory birth control is unacceptable. It is a direct infringement of liberty. It is no different than making sex 'mandatory', or illegal.
ryry51016 2 years ago
The earth isn't over populated. There is enough space and food available for every person on the planet. The issue is with distribution.
mrmcfly26 2 years ago 2
40% of the worlds food supply can be attributed to chemicals and fertilizer. We are overpopulated when you include the exponential population growth of recent history.
The earth is not overpopulated my ass. Expert opinions stretch the maximum human capacity of the earth to around 40 billion. Now this only includes maximum theoretical food production and comfortable space. Not computers cars and material items.
Eventually mandatory birth control will be almost universally globally enforced.
RealistAtheist 2 years ago 8
The days of needing to have 10 kids are over. People were only encouraged to procreate because of needing extra hands to work and the death rates of babies. Not to mention the fact that it was a "miracle" if a child made it past the age of 5.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
@ ryry51016
Infringement of *what* liberty, exactly -- the right to ruin your own life, your accidental kid's life, and to be a drain on your family and society as a whole?
Remember, this would primarily be for persons below the age of 18/21. It would be no different than having an age limit for drinking, handling firearms, or other potentially dangerous activities. Kids shouldn't have kids, period, and implants are (by far) the most effective means to prevent teen pregnancies.
Parapon3ra 2 years ago
Yes, the right to ruin your life must be protected. I'm all for teaching responsibility, but you cannot force it at the point of a gun. Supposing a teenager refused to have a 'mandatory implant.' Would we lock her up? Fine her? Punish her for not letting us 'protect her from herself'?
There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences. P.J. O'Rourke (1993)
Your body your choice.
ryry51016 2 years ago
You never know what happened in their past? Freaking someone out? If a frontal hug is traumatic you need to be LOCKED UP in the bin.
LabRat4680 2 years ago
You should be locked up because you have had trauma in your life? Some people just cannot stand to have someone getting all touchy feely with them.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
You don't have to hip thrust someone when you hug them. If you're not comfortable with a hug, how about a hand shake?
LabRat4680 2 years ago
WTF is a side-hug anyway? I've never seen or heard of it before! LOL
AvroBellow 2 years ago
Discovering the cultural state of sex education (and sexuality education) in the US, comes with great perplexity.
In Scandinavia such education was been implemented early on. Sweden for instance integrated sex education in 1956 and the subject starts for pupils as young as 7.
The curriculum focuses on biological aspects of reproduction as well as on values, attitudes, communication and negotiation skills.
CharlieGBucket 2 years ago 3
Yea the reason you think that is because that person was hugged by a christian pervert.
Yea like you said " it's your problem so get over it" Learn how to follow your own advise
SaYwATuWaNt2SaY 2 years ago
Learn to listen to words in context. I'm not the one getting "turned on" by an innocent hug.
PetiteViolist 2 years ago
No you look quite innocent but lots of people are not.
DoomNoMore 2 years ago
Are you really such a fucking idiot? I guess you must be. How is it you even learned to use a computer?
AvroBellow 2 years ago
I agree with sex education in schools... I also agree with it in coffee shops, tanning stores and toys r us... anywhere that i can meet 16 year old girls basically ;)
MoreSciFiThanScience 2 years ago 3
Yeah coffee shops would be a good place. Lots of teens there. And their parents think they are little angels going to basketball lesson or studying in the library.
DoomNoMore 2 years ago
PV, Once again you have made a 5 star video ! You brought up a good point about "side hugs" for possible victims, how ever as a sex deterence , is the biggest face palm in history! The religious nutballs, are more naive about sex and health issues than a 5yr old. Who probably know more anyway! Great job as usual !!!
moonknightify 2 years ago 2