So glad to see you're back. I have a question that I've been waiting to ask you. How should a friend handle another friend not paying a loan back. It's going on almost 3years since the loan was made. The loan was suppose to be for 3months. Now the two of them don't talk or share anything. What do you think should be done?
@Yeltalent Actually, I have been back for a minute. Your situatiion sounds familiar. Having been on both sides, I'll speak from the side of the one that owes the money. Since you referred to this person as a 'friend', I'll go with that word and speak from that point of view. Owing someone money is a situation I know I odn't like to be in. It is uncomfortable and very embarrassing. Most likely your friend is feeling both of these emotions.
@Yeltalent Having been in this sityuation, I know that when I owed someone, I felt stuck. I'm sure that person thought I was living the high life and simply chose to ignore my debt. But that wasn't the case. When I don't pay someone back, do know some major shit is going on. And I simply just couldn't talk about it. I had never been in that situation before and just didn't know how to handle the confrontation. Not saying it as an excuse. Just giving you a reason for your friend's silence.
@Yeltalent I had always been in position to come through. when I could not, it crippled me. And let's not forget the major part ego plays in this. Again, not saying your friend right for how they are handling it. Just saying that they are human. Humans fuck up all the time. Sometimes majorly. I hope this helps you out a little bit. Who knows ... you may hear something from them sooner than you think. Good luck to you and definitely peace and blessings to your friend. I'm sure she could use it.
@Yeltalent Also, sometimes folks don't know what to say. Especially when they feel those emotions. Some folks just can't handle it. I know when I owed someone it was simply because I did not have it. Wasn't trying to get over or anything, just didn't have it. Life can be like that. And if your friend is like me, they are trying to find a way out and have not come up with one yet. You never know what folks are going through.
@Yeltalent Also, one more thing. Don't take it likes it a personal attack. Something tells me it has nothing to do with you in the grand scheme of things. In other words, I don't think she (or is it a he?) ... anyway, they most likely didn't take your money and run. If anything they are running from the situation. Especially if they don't have it to give back to you right now. Namaste.
Im sooooo happy you're back!! It seemed like as soon as i found you and subscribed you disappeared... But im glad to see you again and cant wait for your upcoming videos. =)
Welcome bacK, glad you did not buy an extra cord... Nice you lost weight, but You can have a few Shortbread coos and not gain a pound. they are the least in fat and I am a Girl Scout Leader with my troop trying to get money in our account to go on outings away from the everyday being in the projects... I Know what you mean, they do put on weight if you buy them and eat them all at once. Share some. You had me laughing though... WELCOME BACK!!!
Congratulations on your weight loss, ....thats always a good thing. But I'm gonna TRY to resist those cookies,..don't know how successful I'll be.. LOL!
The first thing I noticed is that you're looking star-luscious beautiful. There are far and few people that I watch on YouTube these days, and you're one of the few that I look forward to. You bring the truth and light. Missed your voice in these trying times. So glad to see you. Keep it cooking!
hahaha...I love you...I was a girl scout. your right ...they don't taste the same.....I agree 100% with what you said..I dont need any cookies I need to watch my figure..
just try not to look into their big puppy dog eyes...I usually only see them at walmart now and days.
OMG GIRL!!!!...I was just approached by my co-workers trying to get me to order cookies for her daughter...meanwhile I weigh like 1000 lbs. I used to love them cookies but dammit I got a date this week!!!! Can you imagine me rolling on this date weighing 1000 lbs....talking bout "don't you want some cookies!!!!".....LOL!!!
Girl you always look good...But you ook healthy and youghtfully good girl keep doing what ya doing ...it's working. The girl scot cookies was the devil trying mess all that goodness up by temping you with cookies, next would have been cake and all that stuff.
I am so glad to see you back girlie! Loving the hair too, and dayum those girl scout cookies and the price inflation on the same amount of cookies in the box lol!
Love the video title, lol... But I was a Girl Scout for 12 years... You simply can't resist them after that... THEY BECOME A PART OF YOU, lol... But I'll eat some for the both of us...
Wow, a vid from AtlantaSistah! lol Happy New Year and glad to see you. You are looking GREAT. No Girl Scout cookies over here. In the Netherlands school kids (9-11 yrs. old) go door to door selling special postage stamps for a foundation that helps children. You only have to buy from one child, then you get a sticker for your front door, that way the rest leave you alone. I buy every year but never seem to use the stamps but at least I don't have to worry about calories. lol
You look great! welcome back cause I was wondering about you! I been needing to hear a rant hahahaha( Yea some of us are like that). BUt glad to see ya!
Glad ur back. i was saying the same thing about those damn girl scout cookies.lol. N E ways love the hair and congradulations on ur weightloss. U look good.
Wow I am surprised to see you back on, the last video you did was about six flags about the braids and locks lol. I love how you voice your opinion on things, so welcome back.
@AtlantaSistah Your face looks the same just more slender. It takes awhile for ppl to adjust to the new slimmer look. I think you look great. It isn't like we can choose what we want to keep or loose when it comes to weight loss. If someone meets or sees you for the first time, they'll just think you have nice cheek bones. You're still recognizable. Some ppl look totally dif like a new person with weight loss.
WELCOME BACK!!!! I could've used your vid 2 weeks ago when I was attacked by a heifer's mama and placed my order. But I was smart, I ordered my least favorite so I wouldn't eat them all in a day.
@AtlantaSistah i think zheahra mean shermans mother from the klumps
i literally LOL'D at just the thought of someone using her as a reference ("oh sherman sherman sherman")
lol
but i hope she wasn't talking about you, because i you were never fat to begin with, i don't even know why you would want to loose weight, but i understand that everyone has to do them !
anyways, good to see you doing vids again girl, LOVE the hair
@AtlantaSistah I was referring to the Nutty Professor's character. I have been thinking about how so many lose the weight and gain it back plus some. Some men and women who lose the weight think they become the "skinny or reg" size folk. They are that still the same person they were before they lost the weight. It's all about balance and realizing what you can and can't do anymore. Hey, do like the "skinny" folks do buy it then give it away. Win, win.
I hate when they change recipes and the food don't taste the same. But I plan on buying the cookies for my friend's daughter who is a Girl Scout. I wouldn't buy them from anyone else.
Its good to have you back sistah queen, love your posts, keepem comin, I will be staying away from the Girl Scout Cookies even in Texas...Peace and Much Light!
So glad to see you're back. I have a question that I've been waiting to ask you. How should a friend handle another friend not paying a loan back. It's going on almost 3years since the loan was made. The loan was suppose to be for 3months. Now the two of them don't talk or share anything. What do you think should be done?
Yeltalent 10 months ago
@Yeltalent Actually, I have been back for a minute. Your situatiion sounds familiar. Having been on both sides, I'll speak from the side of the one that owes the money. Since you referred to this person as a 'friend', I'll go with that word and speak from that point of view. Owing someone money is a situation I know I odn't like to be in. It is uncomfortable and very embarrassing. Most likely your friend is feeling both of these emotions.
AtlantaSistah 10 months ago
@Yeltalent Having been in this sityuation, I know that when I owed someone, I felt stuck. I'm sure that person thought I was living the high life and simply chose to ignore my debt. But that wasn't the case. When I don't pay someone back, do know some major shit is going on. And I simply just couldn't talk about it. I had never been in that situation before and just didn't know how to handle the confrontation. Not saying it as an excuse. Just giving you a reason for your friend's silence.
AtlantaSistah 10 months ago
@Yeltalent I had always been in position to come through. when I could not, it crippled me. And let's not forget the major part ego plays in this. Again, not saying your friend right for how they are handling it. Just saying that they are human. Humans fuck up all the time. Sometimes majorly. I hope this helps you out a little bit. Who knows ... you may hear something from them sooner than you think. Good luck to you and definitely peace and blessings to your friend. I'm sure she could use it.
AtlantaSistah 10 months ago
@Yeltalent Also, sometimes folks don't know what to say. Especially when they feel those emotions. Some folks just can't handle it. I know when I owed someone it was simply because I did not have it. Wasn't trying to get over or anything, just didn't have it. Life can be like that. And if your friend is like me, they are trying to find a way out and have not come up with one yet. You never know what folks are going through.
AtlantaSistah 10 months ago
@Yeltalent Also, one more thing. Don't take it likes it a personal attack. Something tells me it has nothing to do with you in the grand scheme of things. In other words, I don't think she (or is it a he?) ... anyway, they most likely didn't take your money and run. If anything they are running from the situation. Especially if they don't have it to give back to you right now. Namaste.
AtlantaSistah 10 months ago
Im sooooo happy you're back!! It seemed like as soon as i found you and subscribed you disappeared... But im glad to see you again and cant wait for your upcoming videos. =)
blaquebeautiie 11 months ago
Nice to see you back Nicole.
maipai101 1 year ago
Good to see you back.......
lovie2000 1 year ago
Welcome bacK, glad you did not buy an extra cord... Nice you lost weight, but You can have a few Shortbread coos and not gain a pound. they are the least in fat and I am a Girl Scout Leader with my troop trying to get money in our account to go on outings away from the everyday being in the projects... I Know what you mean, they do put on weight if you buy them and eat them all at once. Share some. You had me laughing though... WELCOME BACK!!!
mareallysweet 1 year ago
Congratulations on your weight loss, ....thats always a good thing. But I'm gonna TRY to resist those cookies,..don't know how successful I'll be.. LOL!
Creditgirl2020 1 year ago
Girl we have missed you sooooo much!!!! Don't do that to us again, LOL!!!
derekandkeyasha01 1 year ago
The first thing I noticed is that you're looking star-luscious beautiful. There are far and few people that I watch on YouTube these days, and you're one of the few that I look forward to. You bring the truth and light. Missed your voice in these trying times. So glad to see you. Keep it cooking!
nine110 1 year ago
hahaha...I love you...I was a girl scout. your right ...they don't taste the same.....I agree 100% with what you said..I dont need any cookies I need to watch my figure..
just try not to look into their big puppy dog eyes...I usually only see them at walmart now and days.
prettyblackwomen1 1 year ago
glad u back
jcamp5818 1 year ago
OMG GIRL!!!!...I was just approached by my co-workers trying to get me to order cookies for her daughter...meanwhile I weigh like 1000 lbs. I used to love them cookies but dammit I got a date this week!!!! Can you imagine me rolling on this date weighing 1000 lbs....talking bout "don't you want some cookies!!!!".....LOL!!!
missdivadivine 1 year ago
Now how can I resist those Mint Chocolate COOOOOKIES... Unh unh... give me death by girl scout cookies... Lord Help Me. LOL
campc1 1 year ago
@campc1
I like the thin mints too I think thay are the best ones
prettyblackwomen1 1 year ago
UM.... somoa cookies and thin mints are that good!!
ContrastY 1 year ago
@ContrastY... LOL! Yes they are. Those are the only two I like. Love them!
freetobemenoapology 1 year ago
missed you and yaaaaaaaay!
nvncyble 1 year ago
Hey Gurl... lol You have been missed!!
liltish9702 1 year ago
Glad to see your back. I love your videos.
artsy282 1 year ago
you are looking great sistah
lyfeafta30 1 year ago
Girl you always look good...But you ook healthy and youghtfully good girl keep doing what ya doing ...it's working. The girl scot cookies was the devil trying mess all that goodness up by temping you with cookies, next would have been cake and all that stuff.
Sabriyah21 1 year ago
long time, no hear from!! lol!! where are your earrings...i miss them :) lol!
88948895611499 1 year ago
@88948895611499 I KNOWWWW ... the earrings can't be seen with the new hairstyle. LOL! I miss wearing them.
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago
@AtlantaSistah
See, you only been back 2 or 3 days and you got 7 pages of comments!?
Now what if you chose a deeper topic? Keep em coming and I'll try to get you a message to tell you what England is really like.
UFCritical 1 year ago
yay! today is officially the "bessst daaay eveeeeerr" (spongebob squarepants, 2007).
nobodyswatchin2002 1 year ago
As a teacher, I am screwed I buy 3 boxes minimum,and IT IS A SETUP!!! They don't taste as good as they used to either :(
monicajoi 1 year ago
I am so glad to see you back girlie! Loving the hair too, and dayum those girl scout cookies and the price inflation on the same amount of cookies in the box lol!
brwnbarbie24 1 year ago
Love the video title, lol... But I was a Girl Scout for 12 years... You simply can't resist them after that... THEY BECOME A PART OF YOU, lol... But I'll eat some for the both of us...
bkawiseone 1 year ago
Welcome back!
nikkay2desire 1 year ago
WELCOME HOME! Missed you!
Goddess298 1 year ago
Wow, a vid from AtlantaSistah! lol Happy New Year and glad to see you. You are looking GREAT. No Girl Scout cookies over here. In the Netherlands school kids (9-11 yrs. old) go door to door selling special postage stamps for a foundation that helps children. You only have to buy from one child, then you get a sticker for your front door, that way the rest leave you alone. I buy every year but never seem to use the stamps but at least I don't have to worry about calories. lol
mactrek2 1 year ago
we'll its a bout dammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm time!!!!! :)
beanteam720 1 year ago
i'm sooo glad your back! i look forward to more interesting topics!
jmurrell2929 1 year ago
You look great! welcome back cause I was wondering about you! I been needing to hear a rant hahahaha( Yea some of us are like that). BUt glad to see ya!
tash777 1 year ago
Welcome back!
maximuslyricus 1 year ago
Glad ur back. i was saying the same thing about those damn girl scout cookies.lol. N E ways love the hair and congradulations on ur weightloss. U look good.
SimiraRevolt 1 year ago
I am so glad to see you.. Oh my god its been so long. My husband feel in the trap. He got some of the cookies
smileyousee 1 year ago
Wow I am surprised to see you back on, the last video you did was about six flags about the braids and locks lol. I love how you voice your opinion on things, so welcome back.
Scene68 1 year ago
keep those videos comin' woman!!! LOL love ya! :P
LaFemmeCelena 1 year ago
Your hair looks nice.
chocara1 1 year ago
u look really good!
bemaniac2 1 year ago
@bemaniac2 Thanks!
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago
@GoinBack2Naija Is that good or bad?
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago
@AtlantaSistah Your face looks the same just more slender. It takes awhile for ppl to adjust to the new slimmer look. I think you look great. It isn't like we can choose what we want to keep or loose when it comes to weight loss. If someone meets or sees you for the first time, they'll just think you have nice cheek bones. You're still recognizable. Some ppl look totally dif like a new person with weight loss.
zheahra 1 year ago
@AtlantaSistah It's the new style...and you are beautiful sista, love the new hairstyle!!!!
derekandkeyasha01 1 year ago
THROW HOLY WATER! Girl you are doing the most! LOL
antonioshaw 1 year ago
I'll eat a box of Samoas and go to an aerobics class later.
KCphantasmagoric 1 year ago
@KCphantasmagoric Fiber Plus Caramel Coconut Fudge bars taste like Samoas!
cocoaisbeautiful 1 year ago
OH SNAP!!! ALANTA SISTAH SIGHTING!!!
andsanp 1 year ago 5
@andsanp HA! You are silly! LOL!
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago
Good to see you again
cutebear83 1 year ago
Good to see you; you look great! I've resisted buying those cookies, and you're right, they don't taste all that good.
Haitian1130 1 year ago
HAHAHA so hilarious! xD
SunBeamsan 1 year ago
Welcome back, Ms. ATL Sistah!!!
yvessaintlaurent88 1 year ago
YEAH!!!!!!!
jimmyl324 1 year ago
Hey!!! Glad you're back!
reinventingthenorm 1 year ago
OMG girl where have you been. I need some wisdom.
HeirOfGlee 1 year ago
we have missed you
garyjsimm 1 year ago
Good to see you back!!!!
heavenleiblu 1 year ago
Glad you are back! Your hair looks good straight. It looked good curly too!
HopelessShopaholic1 1 year ago
So happy you're back!! Yay!
Buddhalocks 1 year ago
Well it is mighty nice to see your face again!!!!
curlscurlscurls 1 year ago
WELCOME BACK!!!! I could've used your vid 2 weeks ago when I was attacked by a heifer's mama and placed my order. But I was smart, I ordered my least favorite so I wouldn't eat them all in a day.
diamonddoll1008 1 year ago
Awesome...I just subscribed, so this is wonderful.
ItsXp3erynce 1 year ago
Hey it's all good ... There are times real life
takes precedence:)
MC0090 1 year ago
I agree. Those damn cookies. Especially the shortbread smh.
Nzurilisha 1 year ago
Weight loss done you well. It ain't the Girl Scout cookies. It's Ms Sherman tryna make a come back
zheahra 1 year ago
@zheahra Ms. Sherman? Please explain ...
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago
@AtlantaSistah i think zheahra mean shermans mother from the klumps
i literally LOL'D at just the thought of someone using her as a reference ("oh sherman sherman sherman")
lol
but i hope she wasn't talking about you, because i you were never fat to begin with, i don't even know why you would want to loose weight, but i understand that everyone has to do them !
anyways, good to see you doing vids again girl, LOVE the hair
ROCK IT !
mellowkat01 1 year ago
@AtlantaSistah I was referring to the Nutty Professor's character. I have been thinking about how so many lose the weight and gain it back plus some. Some men and women who lose the weight think they become the "skinny or reg" size folk. They are that still the same person they were before they lost the weight. It's all about balance and realizing what you can and can't do anymore. Hey, do like the "skinny" folks do buy it then give it away. Win, win.
zheahra 1 year ago
Welcome back. I sure could go for some of them striped ones, I forget the name.
SmbdyHoldMyMule 1 year ago
YAY !! your backk <3
we all missed you girl, loooking forward to more vids !
God Blesss
babyxhil 1 year ago
Good to CYA!
mtamorphis 1 year ago
yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!! ur back atlanta sista!!!!!!
b3autiful13 1 year ago
YES, YES, YES!!!! MY BABY IS BACK!!!!!!!!
....and looking like a million bucks....now lemme see what you're talking about!
TruthSerum101 1 year ago
@TruthSerum101 Dem cookies still be tastin' good as hell to my greedy ass.
TruthSerum101 1 year ago
wb :)
thanks4tuningin 1 year ago
I hate when they change recipes and the food don't taste the same. But I plan on buying the cookies for my friend's daughter who is a Girl Scout. I wouldn't buy them from anyone else.
LuV4RoBnFaB 1 year ago
Yayyyyyyyyyy! Welcome back!
Kinksgalore 1 year ago
hooooray shes back:)
i like the new hair dooo too
MC0090 1 year ago 5
@MC0090 THANKS! It was way past time for a new one. LOL!
AtlantaSistah 1 year ago
Its good to have you back sistah queen, love your posts, keepem comin, I will be staying away from the Girl Scout Cookies even in Texas...Peace and Much Light!
mahagonysoul1 1 year ago