Seriously this is good but at the end of the day go with ur gut feelin I tryed this and it made me worse but I talked to him about how I felt and I think I might b gettin him bk :) xxx
My boyfriend broke up with me when I called him yesterday,"wanting space, sick of the arguing, needs to be himself right now, etc etc stuff" and then a text after saying "I'm sorry I hurt you. I just need to look out for me right now" So I'm not going to contact him, even though I have been crying since yesterday and miss him, this video has calmed me down and I love him and I know he must still love me to as he only told me for the 1st time 4wks ago he loved me. I just need support now.
my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. he still likes me but everyone makes a big deal out of it. people are trying to get us back together, like my best friend. she said to me and him today, "why don't you guys just get back together? you act so much alike!" so yeah.
What is your ex boyfriend started to go out with one of your friends. They already broke up and i kinda want him back ........ Should i still bring him back to me or no because he went out with my friend
FACT, today i had my heart pulverised. While doing some deleting a message appears out of nowhere, low and behold it's my Ex boyfriend. His IM was "Hey i want to see you again" *jaw drops to the ground* Fuck !!! today of all days you couldn't have written the script. One thing i know is that i'am taking him up on his offer because we like each other, we're not in love be enjoy each others company....plus the sex is goooooooood !!!!!!! Maybe there is a god, i just cannot believe my luck :)
I really like these rules ' but what if your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend' and doesn't pay attention to you anymore ' he won't notice your confidence ' :/ Any Help?
Hello dillon ;) anyway, I want my ex back so bad. He and I work in the same office building and had an on and off relationship. When I was with him I went through an emotional roller coaster ride, but I've never been happier. I think there is still feelings on his side because he ALWAYS stares at me, and when I talk to him he can't help but smile(: also he sometimes tries to impress me, and comes into my office saying he is "looking for a pen." anyway, I just wanted your thoughts on this. We ha
Omg. Plz help me im desperate. I've been missing this guy for like three Years now. He works in my same office building and we've been sort of off and on. We haven't dated anyone since the last couple break ups. And I know he still loves me. I sometimes catch him looking at me and I just need him back in my life. He talks to me and smiles a lot when he does. He tries to impress me, and he sometimes drops by my office to "leave a pen". I love him. Help me!! What do you think? Do I
i dont exactly what im going to say...but i know myself that im in love with him but somehow im scared to death coz i know i cant have him he was sorounded with so many beauty compare myself to them i have nothing & gosh its killing me when those trying to flirt him,we r bf & gf but i cant feel that he treated me that way so instead i tried myself not to be close to him coz it hurts when his online & seems like he egnore me & make me feel bad sometimes i say somethin which is not ryt
& earlier when I made things really clear and easy for him, why did he lie & made my suffering even worse? Me & his ex are the oppisite side of a page. I couldn't see how some one who likes me can like her & vice versa. I had to find out about her when I was with him in order to protect myself somehow because the whole deal was out of space, yet we "were meant to be". Do u think I can get him back after the yelling? I really just want to clear things up for me, he used me to get back to her, SO
after we broke up, I felt the need to talk. Because I've tried to open him up, also in order to make my life more harmonious and predictable - but he refused. In a way he controlled my life and I was constantley fighting back his controlling. I dicovred that his controlling had caused to my anxiety. I hated that, because it was all his fault! I'm a strong person. I confronted him with an sms, I'm intuitive person I knew he was getting back to his ex - so I confronted him why he lied? Why didn't
but he refused, I tried to break up many times but he wouldn't go. I didn't want the fucking relationship anyway - but we were connected so there were some kind of spiritual meaning to our meeting. I really would have been happy with just being a friend, but he didn't. He wanted me in his life as his woman - but really he was just thinking about his ex. I made it extremely easy for him to leave, but wouldn't go . I got frustrated and got sicker. In the end - it ended by my force.
Here is the thing you guys can help me with. There was this guy I met 2 years ago. According to psychics we were meant to be. I was very ill at the time and I couldn't see how I could be with anyone. The last thing I wanted was a relationship - I just wanted to get good and move on with my life plans. He broke up with his fiancé for another girl, and the regreted the whole thing. He didn't tell me this, but decided he wanted me as "girlfriend" while missing his fiancé. I asked him to be friends,
looked like he was trying to make a move on her... when we were together, we went to the mall, and he was saying "oh that girl it hot." or "she was totally checking me out" making me feel horrible i just wanted to yell at him and say "am i not good enought for you?"....
also i've been spending a few nights at his apartment, spending the night, then coming home, then going to work.... my parents said that i needed to stop because he thinks i was being "easy" i loved spending time with him but i--
Hi! i just broke up with my bf on new years, i broke up with him cause he suspected that i still missed my ex, i spoke to a friend that i work with, and she thinks its total bull-shit... everyone is telling me that i should "not be his friend anymore, or have any contact with him..." i can't help it....Hes my first "serious" relationship boyfriend, the other day he came into my work, and tried to give one of my good friends a "hug" just to make me jealous... from my eyes it--
my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard too find the right girl :(
I may be 13 but I had this boyfriend, we went out for 9 months... But he dumped me because he wanted space, we now text each other and meet each other. I travel 22 minutes on the bus just to get to him because I love him truly, but he doesn't know how much! I just need him back:/ every time we see each other we tell each other how much we miss each other and love each other. But he always has girlfriends which is heart breaking.. I love him so much :( what do I do? xoxo
This is honestly pathetic. And manipulative. Not only are these women weak to the point of feeling incapable of happiness on their own, but you're encouraging them to base a relationship off of tricks, psychological manipulation, and jealousy! It's ridiculous. I'm sure that it works, but wouldn't you rather find a system that makes you stronger for your own sake? So that you don't need a man (especially the douche that broke your heart) to feel OK with yourself. Try REALLY improving yourself.
I soo want my ex back and we are really close friends but he has a gf and he asked me if he should break up with her I told him to follow his heart and when we hug I get something in my stomach and I miss him even more the funny thing is we are still close fiends he calls me we still hangout I really miss him was I correct to tell him to follow his heart
i miss my ex sooooooo much and we broke up because he said tht we didnt see each other alot (lie) and tht he couldnt hang out with girls and i said tht i didnt care about tht as long as u dont flirt with them. so i really want him back and all of my friends say that he talks about me but just not that way like he use too :/ i just REALLY want him back
thank you for posting this & about Jamim's system! i used the discount & got the package. such a good deal and what do i have to lose?! i mean i did already lose him... hahah once again, thank you :)
Yessss itz.working! , i was really doing the whole thing wrong .telling him how i feel how i missed him..now im ignoring him been 2 weeks n hes always checking up on him .wen he texts me i just keep it short or respond hours later.lolz now hes always actin funny ..for him im over him but reality im not even tho i have his baby :) shes my joy.neways yess girls do this its real..one important thing BE STRONG FIND SOMEONE OR DO SOMETHING SO U WONT BE STUCK WAITING FOR HIM.!! Lets c how itll go ....
Oh my god this totally worked!! As soon as I watched this I realized that I had been doing everything I wasn't supposed to!! I immidetly stopped and within days he was asking for me back! Thank you so much :) make more help guide videos please
wht if hes dating someoe else now ? cuz u werent able to communicate soo he moved onn, but he said he still love u! but u spoiled it by saying thats cheating, and now u wish u never said that and u want him back? but hes still dating this chick?
What if they were with u but not technically but we loved each other, but for awhile u werent able to communicate with them soo they moved on and when u got the chance to communicate he said, he still loves u, and i said it back but i said isnt that considered cheating. sooo now he talks to me but it's awkward cuz now he has a girlfriend an i feel ill never get him back! can u give some advice?
this really works! i saw this video few months back when i broke up with my boyfriend. i ignored him and got busy with my own life. It wasn't that i didn't miss him. I did, like crazy but i gave him his own space and guess what he came back to me after one and half months. and now we are together still happily like never before. I really believe giving him space to miss u is sooooo much important.
i miss my ex so much, i wish we could be together again. he just wanted to be single, and i know he lied and hurt me in so many ways, i just wish that that there was a way we could be together again :/
@molliee151 I'm in the exact same position. The worst part is that I can't really do anything about it, if he were single I could at least talk to him about it, but now I can't do that either.. aarghh, hate myself.. :/
After wathcing this i came up a plan to make him feel that he regerets wat he has done and ill make sure to make him think i got over the break thank u so much i feel congident now thanku
well this is shitty, and i know it can work but its stupid how a guy will not stick with me because i love him and miss him truly, but will because now hes seeing what he "lost" with this "i dont care for you that much, im dancing with other guys" thing. its just stupid, and i better dont have the boyfriend back. i know it can work, im just saying thats not about love for me, if its all about the ego, and not seeing how much i hurt and love its just an empty plate, the boyfriend can go.
@spookykaat take heart...i know what you mean and i feel the exact same thing that you're talking about. Ur stronger than that....and you don't need a guy to make you happy. Guys ARE wired differently and that's probably the one thing you need to understand and accept. So what you think may be the legitimate way to act...the hurting and all....may chase him away...and that's not what you want. Plus, u don't want s/one that doesn't need you or doesn't want to want you, gal, ur way better than tht
@spookykaat Would you like to be with a boyfriend, who still complains after a break up and shows that every day? And harras you (you wanted to stop contacts becouse you siply got enough)? If a boyfriend is thinking if he want to be with you or not, and he will see you without a hobby, sad, he'll start thinking that when you will be together he will be as sad as you...
my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard too find the right girl :(
@eric0100 thats exacally how my ex boyfriends where...and im only 12! My 2 last bfs, all they wanted was sex sex sex, so i broke up with them... i know how u feel :(
Ok uhmm my situation is quiet different...ya see I broke up with him because my boyfriend was clingy, childish, and we didn't do any couple stuff. Now I REALLY want him back!!! I don't know how to approach him, what to say, what to do, or how to do it. What if he says no or laughs in my face...hell what if the world explodes...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help!!!
I need help. My bf and I of three years broke up on the first of this month. He says he is sorry for it and our friends says hes hurt about it. I've made the wrong move by crying and begging him to take me back. I texted him and he texted back. I found out he still cares about me. How do I get him back? My mother thinks I should date a Christian boy but then I will have to change who I am. With him I didn't have to. My friends tell me to get another bf. Have any help for me?
Yeah so i have sent him sad and depressing text messages i have never called him but i did make him feel pitty and it seemed like it didnt work ... i have broke all the rules.. and he tells others he loves me then he tells me he hates me.. what do i do about that?? it confuses me
@TheLalaLacee Ur not supposed to act depressed and all..get a grip, gal. When ur confident in urself, he will be attracted to that. When you love urself, he'll be attracted to that. Be strong...inspite of yourself. And if he's telling others he loves you, that's a good sign...get busy, have fun, get a makeover and when he thinks that he's really lost you, he just might come back to you. But be strong.
My boyfriend of 1 year and a half broke up with me because his parents are going through a divorce and wanted to focus on family. We're on good terms but i'm devastated. I'm hoping to get him back by not talking to him until next year and hanging out like friends. Hopefully he'll realize he missed me and appreciated the time alone he had.I hope he takes me back, but it'll only happen if his home life improves. :( He said he didn't feel the same but I thought it's because of the stress he's under
yes thank you for the video but if you dont mind i really need help my bf dumped me four days ago and now he has a gf but he still loves me i can tell what do i do to get him back?
i maybe kinda young(12) but i got dumped not last sunday but the sunday before that, he dumped me but he said that he still likes me but he doesnt wanna be in a relationship, and i asked him back out the other day n he said no. i really think that he hates me now. btw hes a skater and he same age as me. i really still miss you Darrel White xox
he broke up with me, the bad thing was that i kept talking to him, he wants to be my friend he doesnt want me completely gone out of his life, at least friends and soo sometimes he tries to get my attention, and then he starts play fighting with me... ? does he want me back? what should i do?
I feel so pathetic that I had a little hope whilst I am watching this video and there is no hope left when I am back to the reality. I am a gay man. and ware no longer together. I will be so difficult to find another right one than the straight ppl. Sigh.
Me and my bf broke up over 4 months ago we've both been with other people but still I have strong feelings for him he says he still loves me but we can't be together I always say I love him and we text every day... What should I do!?!?!?
Hahaha! me and my ex played this game. Now we're both just friends. a Playa can't play a Playa, Game recognize Game, We're just buddies now and moved on.
I was the saddest person on earth as soon as I got dumped a few months ago, but right after some surfing I discovered a totally free resource that taught me how to get her back! I need to share it with all the heartbroken fellas out there but youtube wont allow me post it here, so I put it on my profile. Hope it works for you too!
If you stopped talking to him tho and show that you're confident with yourself..wouldn't that give him an impression that you already moved on? i've been with a guy for 3 yrs, Long distance rel for 1 yr and 2 mos. in 6months time im going back to my home country and i know for sure there will be huge chances of seeing him again. he's with another girl for 2months now but he has always been talking to me since we broke up last yr although he has a new gf, he follows and talks to me on twitter.hmm
After I got dumped several months ago, I was the saddest guy on earth, but right after a little surfing I stumbled upon a free resource that taught me how to mend my relationship! I want to share it with all you broken hearts out there but youtube wont allow me post it here, so I put it on my profile. Hope it works for you too!
Its been 3 wk and half,since we been going out :C Ive been crying not stop and I have to see him everyday(dont ask) and I want him back but he feels arkward,wanting more im with his buddies and dosnt feel the same in a week..what should i do?
I've been breaking the rules for over a month... 7 year relationship, he says he doesn't love me anymore, to leave him alone, not to text or call him anymore.
Okay, here's my question...I have an ex who claims that he wants to be a bachelor...what can I do about that? How can I let him know without me telling him that I can make him happy?
Thanks for posting this video I have to work on being stronger, I haven't contacted him in two days, I have to let him go for the moment. This is hard for me to do but this advice is very good. To see that it worked for someone else gives me hope.
hi exboyfriendelp i had a really good relashionship with this guy for a while and i love him but he dumpeed me he said it was because i wasnt trying hard enough but i was trying in the relashionship aand i want him back and when my friends date him i get so jealous he asked me out again a couple times and apoligized alot should i give him a second chance
Yeah your voice is excellent. Now I have a problem, It has passed one year since I broke up with my exboyfriend and I really miss him. I have broke all your rules many times ... i don't know what to do now
I broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago...we were going through a lot of arguments, but I guess didn't realize how much he meant to me until we had a break. I ended up calling him out to talk and crying my eyes out...we got back together, to have him break up with me yet a second time....he told me he doesn't feel the same way for me anymore (especially after each argument we had), that he lost the spark. He told me he doesn't want a relationship right now and that its too much committment.
@MizzJuli I'm in the SAME situation. I broke up with him, after 6 weeks we got back together and then he broke up with me. He wants me to stop texting or calling him... I don't know what to do!
@LoveGirugamesh u should be like I'm so happy and everythings okay(: so it makes him want u back. It will make him b like "she fine without me? Oh no" he expects u to be miserable.. But if u make it seem like it not it will make him want u bak
i was dating someone last month and i really miss him i dumped him tho and i made a really big mastake the thing is im dating someone else i thought i loved him but i dont i still lov emy ex :'( what should i do im really confused (im only 12)
i had a boyfriend and we were togather for months too! we were lovebirds kinda like how edword and bella were in twilight lol. anyway he broke up with me because i wasnt makein him happy or something like that. we were soooo inlove. now a month later hes flirting with me, but hes not asking me out... what does this mean and what do i do!?!? please i need your help
Hey, me and my ex broke up a few days ago, he said he didnt want to be in a relationship, i was fine with that untill i found out he now is seeing a chick and that he was going out with her just for sex. i was really mad at him but im still sleeping with him, and when we are together he tells me that im where his heart wants to be and that if he didnt want to be with me he would leave after sex. so how do i get him to dump this chick and just get back with me??
what if he'll still text me from time to time like " what's up? " and stuff like that? should i be all happy " everythings fine. what about you ? : ) " or should i ignore him to win him back?
My boyfriend and I just broke up a few weeks ago. We met about 5 months ago and connected instantly but I was stupid and went back to my ex boyfriend.. then when I finally broke up with my ex he told me I was to late and that he found someone else. He tells me he still loves me and there might be something for us in the future but right now he just wants to be friends. I tried to apoligize but he still blows me off.. I cant be friends are you kidding me? Love stinks
Hello, i am single and my ex which is my high school sweetheart were together for 7 years and broke up because he is a lady's man, however i still love him with all of my heart and he was my bestfriend but he has to many girls....what to do
what do i do if hes in korea? its been a month he said he didnt want a long distance relationship(cuz they almost always fail) but i cant stop thinking about him its KILLING ME!! i cant even think of another guy and all it takes is a song or a picture of us to make me take five steps back i hate this so much but i cant even call him..i want to no what to do when he comes back for a visit becuse i NO(due to his friends) that he hasnt thought of me anywhere near as much as i've thought of him....
Im 14, and i know people think "how can you be in love at such a young age". Well i was in love. This was my first proper boyfriend and we dated for 1 year and 4 months. Yesterday he was saying he loved me and couldn't imagine life without me and Then this morning i woke up to find a text saying "sorry, it isn't working. I hope we can still be friends" and he won't even give me a reason saying why he broke up with me. He is such a jerk for doing that, but yet i still miss him and want him back.
@915anonymous Bastards, boys are, the same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago. And he's acting like he wants me back too.. which makes it even stupider and more confusing. I don't know what to do with myself. :|
ok. my ex and i broke up two months ago. i was the one that first brought up the idea of breaking up (i was completely unsure if it was a good idea) and he was devastated and cried. but then he broke it off with me bc he felt like i didnt want to be with him anymore.
so ive done all the things you're not supposed to do and he's called me all sorts of names. currently hes angry at me so what do i do?
In june me and my ex boyfriend were hanging out one day and this is the first time we had done it in a while but wr talked and all that stuff but before i left he hugged me twice and kissed me on the cheek and on my way home i had gotten a text message saying that he had cheated on me and he said i diserved a broken heart since then i think i may have driven him away i wrote a letter to him saying if we could b friends again and i sortta cussed him out a bit PLEASE HELP!!!
OK, My boyfriend and I had dated sine Dcember 2010 till about June 2011, and found out that he was cheating on me.. And it hurt so bad then to find out that he lied, and I still love him, with all my HEART!! And I want him to be mine but I am scared That he will say NO!
I'm in Cheerleading, and my ex boyfriend dumped me 3 days ago. I actually cried infront of him, he's a really good guy and he let me cry in his arm.. What am I supposed to do?
Alright. last night my boyfriend broke up with me. He said he loved me, didn't wanna lose me, but he had too. Because we fight to much. I fought with him because he tried doing stuff he did with his last ex of 9 months with me and I got upset. He also called another girl cute, I saw it since he did it over facebook. He said since we won't last forever then theres no point. He said we won't last forever. I'm so confused and I need some sort of help really fast. Please give me some advice. Anyone
Hello, i just caught my boyfriend flirting with girls and i was complaining to him who were these girls he was talking to and we started to fight and then the next day we said we were sorry then he said "i've been thinking about what happened yesterday...you didn't trust me that i wouldn't dump you so with out trust i can't do this anymore.So he broke up with me.I'm really missing him. He's ignoring me now. What should i do.? Please help,thank you.
Ok well me and my ex have been on and off some December. The last time we were together was back in February and that was the time it started getting more serious, you know? Like I really started to realize how much I loved him and we promised we were gonna stay together cuz he was even scared to give me this last chance. Well everything was going amazing, then on Valentines day, one of his friends called me and said he cheated on me. We were kind of arguing about it and two days later I was hur
Hey Essy :) Me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday and i don't know what to do! It feels like my whole life is falling apart. We were together for like 8-9 months but we were very serious about it.
And the problem is we don't know why we broke up. I still love him with all my heart, but he thought we needed a ''brake'' so he could think and he wasn't sure what he felt anymore. He said he loved me and ''we're still frineds'' (i think). But i want him back! What can i do? i'm 17 and he is 18 btw.
i.m just really desperate.my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because he said i was calling him too much and i couldn.t understand that he is really busy.we were for 8 moths together and we had petting and a lot of stuff.i just can.t think clear right now and i don.t know what to do because he was my first boyfriend.and i can.t call him to tell him that i want to get back with him because he broke up with me cuz i called him too much.
My boyfriend for nearly 2 years broke up with me because I was so called flirting with his friend and I did these things and yesterday he asked me out :)
i'm so heartbroken. i don't know what to do. I am trying very hard not to contact him and I almost did, but I stopped myself from doing it. Our story is like a Cinderella story, except there was his 'ex' in the background. He has actually told her about me as well as his brother, telling them that he was interested in me. He was having issues with his ex, and he told me it was getting from bad to worse, yet after two weeks he decided to back to her to 'deal' with it, leaving me heartbroken.
So i met this really cute guy when he came with his team for basketball. We were at the dance and love at first site :) BUT his team had to go back, we still talked during facebook amd skype. After a few months he deleted me from skype, and i wonderd why. I went on facebook and sent him like a million messages but he wouldnt answer. i told him in one them that u still loved him. But he just thought i was annoying. What do i do? Please help. Thanx :)
me and my ex broke up 3 months ago cause we had to (not saying why) and for the past 3 weeks, everything has been going wrong. He got a gf and had sex with her. i was obvs jealous but in the end i actually started to get over him and i got a bf myself. his gf then broke up with him not long after they had sex. i comforted him then we tlked alot. i started to love him again!!! my current bf loves me and i sort of love him bak but i love my ex even tho we cnt be together!!! HELP!!!! :(
hi there! thanks for your help! I do intend to apply your rules. I dated this guy for 2 wonderful weeks, but his ex came back into the picture. :-( Everything was great between us however, until he decided to give his ex another chance. I have a strong feeling that he will remember how awsome and natural, electrifying it was between us that he will come back to me after he realizes that it's not going to work with his ex. He was constantly telling me how it was not working out with her,
ok so this guy i like keeps saying he dont want to be friends with me and gets mad if i cal one of my guy friends for 25 seconds i cant date till im sixteen but im in love im in heaven when im with him he makes me smile and he says everything sweet i hate not being with him someone plz help!
it's been over 2 months since our break up. my boyfriend and i dated for almost 9 months when he out of the blue said..i'm done with you. we agreed to be friends but it was too hard. i begged and pleaded with him but he did not want me back. he said it was for the best. it's been over 2 months and I'm wondering if using this technique will work even though it's been 2 months?
Oh yeah, and I think I'd like to mention this as well. he even said he won't be friends with me, due to that he loved me so much, and just couldn't. It seems so different from the guys with rebound relationship, rebound sex aso.? :S
(continued) When HE is the one asking for NC, will it still work? I haven't contacted him since, it has been a week, we would even have had our 1,5 anniver. 2 days ago! :'( he is very special and suffers with some problems with his psyche. He even said he wouldn't ignore my calls ever, if I broke NC because he 'loved' me so much. He isn't even interesed in seeing other girls at all, he said for now he is "asexual". Is this normal? Are you sure it would apply to me? I really hope so :)
We were together for 1,5 years, I'm the first LT girlfriend he ever had. When he broke up, I didn't realise it in my head at first, so I took over to his house in the middle of the night (just to find out he weren't home) and begged and plead me the next day, and he asked me to please NC him for now. I asked him to give me a STRAIGHTAWAY answer. Should I wait? And he said he didn't know. He wants me to doubt. I know exactly why, I took him for granted and acted immature.
i need help! i think what you are doing is great and i need your help. my ex and i have been broken up for almost a year. and after watching ur video it turns out i have been doing everything wrong. i love him with all my heart and sole. the reasons we broke up was cuz i was a lil bit of a wild child and i liked to party but i have changed my ways and he dont see that. we also broke up cuz neither of our parents like us being together. he has a gf now for almost a year. is there any hope left
I personaly think its too late for me. my ex and i broke up almost 2 years ago after having a 1 year relationship with him. I loved him with all my heart. the reasons we broke up was cuz i was a lil bit of a wild child and liked to party. he didnt like that. and our parents hated us beinf together. i have tried to move on but it hasnt worked. he has a gf now for almost a year. I miss him and i love him and need him. please help me. If its too late llike i thought it was then thats fine.
my ex and i had a summer realtionship and we had broken up and i miss him so much but he wont talk to me and i have tried everything and i want him back.
I used to like this guy, and we talked for a while but he had a girlfriend at the time. Now he talks to a different girl and we are no longer friends. I want another chance with him because i know we were destined for each other but i barely ever talk to him anymore. I want to talk to him but this one girl gets in the way of that because he likes her. She doesnt like him back though, fortunetly. :')
What if I was never actually with him cuz he had a girlfriend when we used to talk, and he flirts with somebody else now and i dont talk to him all that much? Its been a while but i still think we surely belong together.
Thanks To Your Help Me & my Boyfriend are back together , I'm So Happy Thanks you soooo much and now were are looking forward to our New home Thanks .x
My boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me last week because he said he wants to be single and wants to see other girls for his own experience since he doesn't want to be stuck with one girl. He also said his feelings keeps changing for me. I tried to things to keep my mind off of him but its hard. He said there could be a chance that we can get back together but maybe not if it doesnt work. please i want him back. help :(
My boyfriend of nearly 2 years broke things off with me three days ago because he was tired of the stress in our relationship. We were long distance for a year, and never discussed our relationship when we were finally in the same city to know how one another feels and where to go from there. I really do believe we could improve as a couple, but he currently isn't willing to put in the effort.
We are still friends, but I'm limiting contact as of now and keeping myself busy. So far so good?
i had a boyfriend last june. i am in love with him so much it isnt funny. its been kind of awkward though cuz we see each other in school everyday. i catch him starring at me sometimes and he catches me, but i dont know if it means anything. i want him back so much it hurts. i need help desperately. plz help me get my love back :(
Me again, i was not finished i ran out of characters, i have been talking to him and stuff like nothin happened. i also told him a lie and said that another guy asked me out and how would he feel about it and he said well we are not dating any more so i do not really care. ahhhg! please help me!
my boyfriend and i were together for 6 mounths his mom did not know and he was not allowed to date. but we really liked each other so we dated he told me on the phone that he was just not ready to have a girlfriend at school he told me his mom found out and that is why he said that then he asked me out again and we were gonna secrtly datein again but he said he did not want to lie to his parents then at the end of the day he said he did not want this to happen again so he dumped me again. help!
-Still like him alot. when I was with him I fealt so happy, and safe... and I actually remember his hugs more than the kiss. I can't stop thinking about him, and it hurts when he still flirts with me, but also 24/7 with other girls. He's already had another girlfriend (For about 2 weeks) and definetly moved on. But I feel horrible and can't even like other guys. Everyone tells me I should just get over him, but what if I don't want to?! I know he's a playerbut maybe.. idk. Is it a hopless cause?
Well, I'm in high school, and sadly I made the mistake of dating a "Player". I really didn't know he was at first. I just gradually started likeing him from a distance, and somehow he noticed me and was physically attracted to me, and wanted to go out. So I decided I would try it.. and I was so nervous around him. I didn't know him at all at frist and didn't know how to act. Soon though I became less nervous, and got to know him. The day after he gave me my frist kiss, he broke up with me. I-
me and my bf were together for almost 3 yrs he left coz we argued all time then he wee still comin round seein me for 4 months and then 2 months ago suddenly it stopped now i found out he has a new gf, a girl he has been seein for 6 weeks and he says he loves her.surely its too soon to say he loves her. i need help to get him back but i did all the wrong things like beggin callin etc now he has blocked me from fbook n also changed his number.the girl he is seein is sum1 who we work wiv.help plz
What if you're in the situation where you have a child together. Would the same rules still apply?
amandajanina 2 weeks ago
Seriously this is good but at the end of the day go with ur gut feelin I tryed this and it made me worse but I talked to him about how I felt and I think I might b gettin him bk :) xxx
sexiipauliee18 2 weeks ago
What if he has a new girlfriend....?
eda9isye 2 weeks ago
what if i've hurt him unwillingly and he got away from me? will he miss me again and will come back to me?
cutiegurl891 3 weeks ago
My boyfriend broke up with me when I called him yesterday,"wanting space, sick of the arguing, needs to be himself right now, etc etc stuff" and then a text after saying "I'm sorry I hurt you. I just need to look out for me right now" So I'm not going to contact him, even though I have been crying since yesterday and miss him, this video has calmed me down and I love him and I know he must still love me to as he only told me for the 1st time 4wks ago he loved me. I just need support now.
mischa12 3 weeks ago
This is a great video and some very sound relationship advice
IgetExBack 1 month ago
But I'm the one who broke up with him,....
hacksign000 1 month ago
my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. he still likes me but everyone makes a big deal out of it. people are trying to get us back together, like my best friend. she said to me and him today, "why don't you guys just get back together? you act so much alike!" so yeah.
tEeNaGeWaStElAnDcHiC 1 month ago
What is your ex boyfriend started to go out with one of your friends. They already broke up and i kinda want him back ........ Should i still bring him back to me or no because he went out with my friend
bellaboo2000 1 month ago
FACT, today i had my heart pulverised. While doing some deleting a message appears out of nowhere, low and behold it's my Ex boyfriend. His IM was "Hey i want to see you again" *jaw drops to the ground* Fuck !!! today of all days you couldn't have written the script. One thing i know is that i'am taking him up on his offer because we like each other, we're not in love be enjoy each others company....plus the sex is goooooooood !!!!!!! Maybe there is a god, i just cannot believe my luck :)
T42please 1 month ago
I really like these rules ' but what if your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend' and doesn't pay attention to you anymore ' he won't notice your confidence ' :/ Any Help?
MakeupbyMzBubbz 1 month ago
what if I dumped him and now hes going to the dance with my BFF? Should I be worried?
turtlelypuff 1 month ago
Hello dillon ;) anyway, I want my ex back so bad. He and I work in the same office building and had an on and off relationship. When I was with him I went through an emotional roller coaster ride, but I've never been happier. I think there is still feelings on his side because he ALWAYS stares at me, and when I talk to him he can't help but smile(: also he sometimes tries to impress me, and comes into my office saying he is "looking for a pen." anyway, I just wanted your thoughts on this. We ha
angel163me 1 month ago
Hey dillon (;
Omg. Plz help me im desperate. I've been missing this guy for like three Years now. He works in my same office building and we've been sort of off and on. We haven't dated anyone since the last couple break ups. And I know he still loves me. I sometimes catch him looking at me and I just need him back in my life. He talks to me and smiles a lot when he does. He tries to impress me, and he sometimes drops by my office to "leave a pen". I love him. Help me!! What do you think? Do I
angel163me 1 month ago
is there a guide , thats free ?
You know because im barely a teenager & i dont have money to pay for one.
KiddSleezy 1 month ago
i dont exactly what im going to say...but i know myself that im in love with him but somehow im scared to death coz i know i cant have him he was sorounded with so many beauty compare myself to them i have nothing & gosh its killing me when those trying to flirt him,we r bf & gf but i cant feel that he treated me that way so instead i tried myself not to be close to him coz it hurts when his online & seems like he egnore me & make me feel bad sometimes i say somethin which is not ryt
TheAmazon31 1 month ago
& earlier when I made things really clear and easy for him, why did he lie & made my suffering even worse? Me & his ex are the oppisite side of a page. I couldn't see how some one who likes me can like her & vice versa. I had to find out about her when I was with him in order to protect myself somehow because the whole deal was out of space, yet we "were meant to be". Do u think I can get him back after the yelling? I really just want to clear things up for me, he used me to get back to her, SO
flower1921 1 month ago
after we broke up, I felt the need to talk. Because I've tried to open him up, also in order to make my life more harmonious and predictable - but he refused. In a way he controlled my life and I was constantley fighting back his controlling. I dicovred that his controlling had caused to my anxiety. I hated that, because it was all his fault! I'm a strong person. I confronted him with an sms, I'm intuitive person I knew he was getting back to his ex - so I confronted him why he lied? Why didn't
flower1921 1 month ago
but he refused, I tried to break up many times but he wouldn't go. I didn't want the fucking relationship anyway - but we were connected so there were some kind of spiritual meaning to our meeting. I really would have been happy with just being a friend, but he didn't. He wanted me in his life as his woman - but really he was just thinking about his ex. I made it extremely easy for him to leave, but wouldn't go . I got frustrated and got sicker. In the end - it ended by my force.
flower1921 1 month ago
Here is the thing you guys can help me with. There was this guy I met 2 years ago. According to psychics we were meant to be. I was very ill at the time and I couldn't see how I could be with anyone. The last thing I wanted was a relationship - I just wanted to get good and move on with my life plans. He broke up with his fiancé for another girl, and the regreted the whole thing. He didn't tell me this, but decided he wanted me as "girlfriend" while missing his fiancé. I asked him to be friends,
flower1921 1 month ago
I dated this one guy named David Gayheart and we want out 2 times but I still love him but he doesn't love me back:(
TheLivingDeadGirl123 1 month ago
What if you liked him since you met him and dumps you after 4 days cause his best friend was jealous?
Kdmclassof16 1 month ago
but my ex is with my bestfriend :( like really
samgeiler 1 month ago
but my ex is with my bestfriend :(
samgeiler 1 month ago
looked like he was trying to make a move on her... when we were together, we went to the mall, and he was saying "oh that girl it hot." or "she was totally checking me out" making me feel horrible i just wanted to yell at him and say "am i not good enought for you?"....
also i've been spending a few nights at his apartment, spending the night, then coming home, then going to work.... my parents said that i needed to stop because he thinks i was being "easy" i loved spending time with him but i--
ManifyMS 1 month ago
Hi! i just broke up with my bf on new years, i broke up with him cause he suspected that i still missed my ex, i spoke to a friend that i work with, and she thinks its total bull-shit... everyone is telling me that i should "not be his friend anymore, or have any contact with him..." i can't help it....Hes my first "serious" relationship boyfriend, the other day he came into my work, and tried to give one of my good friends a "hug" just to make me jealous... from my eyes it--
ManifyMS 1 month ago
my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard too find the right girl :(
eric0100 1 month ago
hey a boy in year 8 i really like and doesnt even know i excist how do i get him to notice me (he flirts with other girls)
the7letters11 1 month ago
I may be 13 but I had this boyfriend, we went out for 9 months... But he dumped me because he wanted space, we now text each other and meet each other. I travel 22 minutes on the bus just to get to him because I love him truly, but he doesn't know how much! I just need him back:/ every time we see each other we tell each other how much we miss each other and love each other. But he always has girlfriends which is heart breaking.. I love him so much :( what do I do? xoxo
FitGlitterBall 1 month ago
what if he calls u?????
lizzy141236 1 month ago
how do u get him back i
Teamedwardrocks11 1 month ago
This is honestly pathetic. And manipulative. Not only are these women weak to the point of feeling incapable of happiness on their own, but you're encouraging them to base a relationship off of tricks, psychological manipulation, and jealousy! It's ridiculous. I'm sure that it works, but wouldn't you rather find a system that makes you stronger for your own sake? So that you don't need a man (especially the douche that broke your heart) to feel OK with yourself. Try REALLY improving yourself.
FlyMontag 1 month ago
what if it was a long distance relationship and he broke up with you?
niclee07 1 month ago
I soo want my ex back and we are really close friends but he has a gf and he asked me if he should break up with her I told him to follow his heart and when we hug I get something in my stomach and I miss him even more the funny thing is we are still close fiends he calls me we still hangout I really miss him was I correct to tell him to follow his heart
lizzy141236 1 month ago
Now he thinks im a slut... i want to go die D":
EpicMe00 1 month ago
what if u already broken this rules like the no contact rule?
cfung0925 2 months ago
i miss my ex sooooooo much and we broke up because he said tht we didnt see each other alot (lie) and tht he couldnt hang out with girls and i said tht i didnt care about tht as long as u dont flirt with them. so i really want him back and all of my friends say that he talks about me but just not that way like he use too :/ i just REALLY want him back
countrygurlxx 2 months ago
thank you for posting this & about Jamim's system! i used the discount & got the package. such a good deal and what do i have to lose?! i mean i did already lose him... hahah once again, thank you :)
PaigePellersels 2 months ago
Yessss itz.working! , i was really doing the whole thing wrong .telling him how i feel how i missed him..now im ignoring him been 2 weeks n hes always checking up on him .wen he texts me i just keep it short or respond hours later.lolz now hes always actin funny ..for him im over him but reality im not even tho i have his baby :) shes my joy.neways yess girls do this its real..one important thing BE STRONG FIND SOMEONE OR DO SOMETHING SO U WONT BE STUCK WAITING FOR HIM.!! Lets c how itll go ....
dionymyhusband 2 months ago
Oh my god this totally worked!! As soon as I watched this I realized that I had been doing everything I wasn't supposed to!! I immidetly stopped and within days he was asking for me back! Thank you so much :) make more help guide videos please
ulaughIjk314 2 months ago
wht if hes dating someoe else now ? cuz u werent able to communicate soo he moved onn, but he said he still love u! but u spoiled it by saying thats cheating, and now u wish u never said that and u want him back? but hes still dating this chick?
Jen2crazy 2 months ago
What if they were with u but not technically but we loved each other, but for awhile u werent able to communicate with them soo they moved on and when u got the chance to communicate he said, he still loves u, and i said it back but i said isnt that considered cheating. sooo now he talks to me but it's awkward cuz now he has a girlfriend an i feel ill never get him back! can u give some advice?
Jen2crazy 2 months ago
this really works! i saw this video few months back when i broke up with my boyfriend. i ignored him and got busy with my own life. It wasn't that i didn't miss him. I did, like crazy but i gave him his own space and guess what he came back to me after one and half months. and now we are together still happily like never before. I really believe giving him space to miss u is sooooo much important.
mermaid5885 2 months ago
i miss my ex so much, i wish we could be together again. he just wanted to be single, and i know he lied and hurt me in so many ways, i just wish that that there was a way we could be together again :/
jackaboo10 2 months ago
does this applies for guys?
darylyhm 3 months ago
My ex-boyfriend is going out with a new girl as of today, I need him back.. dammit what the fuck was I thinking when I dumped him... -.-
molliee151 3 months ago 20
@molliee151 Me too /:
iDinodorkz 1 month ago
@molliee151 I'm in the exact same position. The worst part is that I can't really do anything about it, if he were single I could at least talk to him about it, but now I can't do that either.. aarghh, hate myself.. :/
majorminus9 1 month ago
@molliee151 EXACTLY How I Feel ! -___-
awesomenoemibieber 1 month ago
Donna was exactly in my position today and kind think I know what to do ;) thanks
XMuffinKissesX 3 months ago
What if, his ex did the same thing.... but he didn't go back to her? ://
Gawgussx 3 months ago 6
wow! it worked!
haileyjaecaine 3 months ago
After wathcing this i came up a plan to make him feel that he regerets wat he has done and ill make sure to make him think i got over the break thank u so much i feel congident now thanku
ravenjewel1 3 months ago
well this is shitty, and i know it can work but its stupid how a guy will not stick with me because i love him and miss him truly, but will because now hes seeing what he "lost" with this "i dont care for you that much, im dancing with other guys" thing. its just stupid, and i better dont have the boyfriend back. i know it can work, im just saying thats not about love for me, if its all about the ego, and not seeing how much i hurt and love its just an empty plate, the boyfriend can go.
spookykaat 3 months ago
@spookykaat take heart...i know what you mean and i feel the exact same thing that you're talking about. Ur stronger than that....and you don't need a guy to make you happy. Guys ARE wired differently and that's probably the one thing you need to understand and accept. So what you think may be the legitimate way to act...the hurting and all....may chase him away...and that's not what you want. Plus, u don't want s/one that doesn't need you or doesn't want to want you, gal, ur way better than tht
tinytots247 2 months ago
@spookykaat Would you like to be with a boyfriend, who still complains after a break up and shows that every day? And harras you (you wanted to stop contacts becouse you siply got enough)? If a boyfriend is thinking if he want to be with you or not, and he will see you without a hobby, sad, he'll start thinking that when you will be together he will be as sad as you...
PS sorry for my english :)
271KUBA271 1 month ago
my ex mess up leaving a great guy like me :( we been together for 2 months and she end up talking about sex. i told her it too soon i wanna wait longer or better too wait till marry and she tell me how can we be together with out sex. so she broke up with me. since she broke up with me i knew right then she promble just wanna me for sex. cause sex is really not the meaning of love. i want someone who love me for who i am. and how great there personally is. it hard too find the right girl :(
eric0100 3 months ago
@eric0100 thats exacally how my ex boyfriends where...and im only 12! My 2 last bfs, all they wanted was sex sex sex, so i broke up with them... i know how u feel :(
kayleecarter69 3 months ago
Ok uhmm my situation is quiet different...ya see I broke up with him because my boyfriend was clingy, childish, and we didn't do any couple stuff. Now I REALLY want him back!!! I don't know how to approach him, what to say, what to do, or how to do it. What if he says no or laughs in my face...hell what if the world explodes...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help!!!
trinity2infinty 3 months ago
...I come back from getting take out and this is what my friend leaves on my computer...
LeaderPhantom 3 months ago
I need help. My bf and I of three years broke up on the first of this month. He says he is sorry for it and our friends says hes hurt about it. I've made the wrong move by crying and begging him to take me back. I texted him and he texted back. I found out he still cares about me. How do I get him back? My mother thinks I should date a Christian boy but then I will have to change who I am. With him I didn't have to. My friends tell me to get another bf. Have any help for me?
Ninetailsgirl94 3 months ago
I am going to try this. Thank you (:
janejohnson89 3 months ago
Yeah so i have sent him sad and depressing text messages i have never called him but i did make him feel pitty and it seemed like it didnt work ... i have broke all the rules.. and he tells others he loves me then he tells me he hates me.. what do i do about that?? it confuses me
TheLalaLacee 3 months ago
@TheLalaLacee Ur not supposed to act depressed and all..get a grip, gal. When ur confident in urself, he will be attracted to that. When you love urself, he'll be attracted to that. Be strong...inspite of yourself. And if he's telling others he loves you, that's a good sign...get busy, have fun, get a makeover and when he thinks that he's really lost you, he just might come back to you. But be strong.
tinytots247 2 months ago
My boyfriend of 1 year and a half broke up with me because his parents are going through a divorce and wanted to focus on family. We're on good terms but i'm devastated. I'm hoping to get him back by not talking to him until next year and hanging out like friends. Hopefully he'll realize he missed me and appreciated the time alone he had.I hope he takes me back, but it'll only happen if his home life improves. :( He said he didn't feel the same but I thought it's because of the stress he's under
filthyxplasticxpop 3 months ago
this is freakin sweet,lol.
RejectBiHeart 3 months ago in playlist RejectBiHeart's favorites
What if your BF has another girlfriend?
SolarGamingTM 3 months ago 2
yes thank you for the video but if you dont mind i really need help my bf dumped me four days ago and now he has a gf but he still loves me i can tell what do i do to get him back?
linkuei2011 3 months ago
even if u screw up for many many times, if u follow this steps u will be able to get him back, even if its been a year.
binshuwa 3 months ago
i maybe kinda young(12) but i got dumped not last sunday but the sunday before that, he dumped me but he said that he still likes me but he doesnt wanna be in a relationship, and i asked him back out the other day n he said no. i really think that he hates me now. btw hes a skater and he same age as me. i really still miss you Darrel White xox
Emz6789 3 months ago
he broke up with me, the bad thing was that i kept talking to him, he wants to be my friend he doesnt want me completely gone out of his life, at least friends and soo sometimes he tries to get my attention, and then he starts play fighting with me... ? does he want me back? what should i do?
goodyangie1 3 months ago in playlist Liked
my ex boyfriend has a girlfriend now :( please respond, i need help!
tuttieanna 4 months ago
I feel so pathetic that I had a little hope whilst I am watching this video and there is no hope left when I am back to the reality. I am a gay man. and ware no longer together. I will be so difficult to find another right one than the straight ppl. Sigh.
imxpnsv 4 months ago
i eat ice cream no matter what and my bf goes STOP EATING ITS BAD FOR YOU
tomboypanda 4 months ago
Me and my bf broke up over 4 months ago we've both been with other people but still I have strong feelings for him he says he still loves me but we can't be together I always say I love him and we text every day... What should I do!?!?!?
bonnyrose14 4 months ago
Hahaha! me and my ex played this game. Now we're both just friends. a Playa can't play a Playa, Game recognize Game, We're just buddies now and moved on.
slim58769 4 months ago
I was the saddest person on earth as soon as I got dumped a few months ago, but right after some surfing I discovered a totally free resource that taught me how to get her back! I need to share it with all the heartbroken fellas out there but youtube wont allow me post it here, so I put it on my profile. Hope it works for you too!
getherbackforgoodnow 4 months ago
If you stopped talking to him tho and show that you're confident with yourself..wouldn't that give him an impression that you already moved on? i've been with a guy for 3 yrs, Long distance rel for 1 yr and 2 mos. in 6months time im going back to my home country and i know for sure there will be huge chances of seeing him again. he's with another girl for 2months now but he has always been talking to me since we broke up last yr although he has a new gf, he follows and talks to me on twitter.hmm
utubealeana 4 months ago
ugh boyfriend of a year and a half is out of the picture :[ i already broke all of these rules.
SamiSonnee 4 months ago
Ok but this kinda was what my gut told me to do sooo im lost
kerrydpgirl 4 months ago
After I got dumped several months ago, I was the saddest guy on earth, but right after a little surfing I stumbled upon a free resource that taught me how to mend my relationship! I want to share it with all you broken hearts out there but youtube wont allow me post it here, so I put it on my profile. Hope it works for you too!
getherbackforgoodnow 4 months ago
what if he already moved on ? //'''':
pianosinguitarchey 4 months ago
Omg!!! ur friend example and mine is exactly the same...
XGangstaxHannieX 4 months ago
Its been 3 wk and half,since we been going out :C Ive been crying not stop and I have to see him everyday(dont ask) and I want him back but he feels arkward,wanting more im with his buddies and dosnt feel the same in a week..what should i do?
lily13140 4 months ago
I've been breaking the rules for over a month... 7 year relationship, he says he doesn't love me anymore, to leave him alone, not to text or call him anymore.
Should I let go or keep trying?
endromuria 4 months ago
what if at first you like texted how much you missed them and stuf?
daniellezcookie96 5 months ago
This is brilliant.
CyborgCyril 5 months ago
i did the opposite of everything you said, i asked him out and i talked to him everyday, i even sat on his lap, and i still got him back.
iicool100 5 months ago
Okay, here's my question...I have an ex who claims that he wants to be a bachelor...what can I do about that? How can I let him know without me telling him that I can make him happy?
Witchy16 5 months ago
Thanks for posting this video I have to work on being stronger, I haven't contacted him in two days, I have to let him go for the moment. This is hard for me to do but this advice is very good. To see that it worked for someone else gives me hope.
queenmother123 5 months ago 12
@queenmother123 It worked for me too! Only thing is that he broke up with me again so I am going to try it for the second time :\
titocm2 4 months ago
What if i broke up with him????
iicool100 5 months ago 65
hi exboyfriendelp i had a really good relashionship with this guy for a while and i love him but he dumpeed me he said it was because i wasnt trying hard enough but i was trying in the relashionship aand i want him back and when my friends date him i get so jealous he asked me out again a couple times and apoligized alot should i give him a second chance
TheR5r5r5 6 months ago
@TheR5r5r5 i think you should give him a second chance,everyone deserves a second chance :D
goodyangie1 3 months ago
Yeah your voice is excellent. Now I have a problem, It has passed one year since I broke up with my exboyfriend and I really miss him. I have broke all your rules many times ... i don't know what to do now
CadyBrownellWolstone 6 months ago
I love your voice :)
KatsuMacKinncheez 6 months ago
yeah mines on #2 Limit Contact :\
Jbgirl723 6 months ago
I love you! :')
LizaNawab 6 months ago
After that day, when he wanted to talk, all I told him was that I respect his decision....I haven't talked to him for two weeks...what do I do?
MizzJuli 6 months ago
I broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago...we were going through a lot of arguments, but I guess didn't realize how much he meant to me until we had a break. I ended up calling him out to talk and crying my eyes out...we got back together, to have him break up with me yet a second time....he told me he doesn't feel the same way for me anymore (especially after each argument we had), that he lost the spark. He told me he doesn't want a relationship right now and that its too much committment.
MizzJuli 6 months ago
@MizzJuli I'm in the SAME situation. I broke up with him, after 6 weeks we got back together and then he broke up with me. He wants me to stop texting or calling him... I don't know what to do!
endromuria 4 months ago
@LoveGirugamesh u should be like I'm so happy and everythings okay(: so it makes him want u back. It will make him b like "she fine without me? Oh no" he expects u to be miserable.. But if u make it seem like it not it will make him want u bak
hazelhailey37 6 months ago
i was dating someone last month and i really miss him i dumped him tho and i made a really big mastake the thing is im dating someone else i thought i loved him but i dont i still lov emy ex :'( what should i do im really confused (im only 12)
courtneyelstob123 6 months ago
@courtneyelstob123 lol you're 12 hun, you have your whole life ahead of you, dont worry about it an move on. :)
KatsuMacKinncheez 6 months ago
i had a boyfriend and we were togather for months too! we were lovebirds kinda like how edword and bella were in twilight lol. anyway he broke up with me because i wasnt makein him happy or something like that. we were soooo inlove. now a month later hes flirting with me, but hes not asking me out... what does this mean and what do i do!?!? please i need your help
angeleyes1715 6 months ago
Hey, me and my ex broke up a few days ago, he said he didnt want to be in a relationship, i was fine with that untill i found out he now is seeing a chick and that he was going out with her just for sex. i was really mad at him but im still sleeping with him, and when we are together he tells me that im where his heart wants to be and that if he didnt want to be with me he would leave after sex. so how do i get him to dump this chick and just get back with me??
KentuckyStateeeBro 6 months ago
what if he'll still text me from time to time like " what's up? " and stuff like that? should i be all happy " everythings fine. what about you ? : ) " or should i ignore him to win him back?
LoveGirugamesh 7 months ago
My boyfriend and I just broke up a few weeks ago. We met about 5 months ago and connected instantly but I was stupid and went back to my ex boyfriend.. then when I finally broke up with my ex he told me I was to late and that he found someone else. He tells me he still loves me and there might be something for us in the future but right now he just wants to be friends. I tried to apoligize but he still blows me off.. I cant be friends are you kidding me? Love stinks
Chelsea7246 7 months ago
Hello, i am single and my ex which is my high school sweetheart were together for 7 years and broke up because he is a lady's man, however i still love him with all of my heart and he was my bestfriend but he has to many girls....what to do
9rolanda 7 months ago
what do i do if hes in korea? its been a month he said he didnt want a long distance relationship(cuz they almost always fail) but i cant stop thinking about him its KILLING ME!! i cant even think of another guy and all it takes is a song or a picture of us to make me take five steps back i hate this so much but i cant even call him..i want to no what to do when he comes back for a visit becuse i NO(due to his friends) that he hasnt thought of me anywhere near as much as i've thought of him....
SX3xkyokox3XS 7 months ago
Im 14, and i know people think "how can you be in love at such a young age". Well i was in love. This was my first proper boyfriend and we dated for 1 year and 4 months. Yesterday he was saying he loved me and couldn't imagine life without me and Then this morning i woke up to find a text saying "sorry, it isn't working. I hope we can still be friends" and he won't even give me a reason saying why he broke up with me. He is such a jerk for doing that, but yet i still miss him and want him back.
915anonymous 7 months ago
@915anonymous Bastards, boys are, the same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago. And he's acting like he wants me back too.. which makes it even stupider and more confusing. I don't know what to do with myself. :|
Rooluver101 4 months ago
ok. my ex and i broke up two months ago. i was the one that first brought up the idea of breaking up (i was completely unsure if it was a good idea) and he was devastated and cried. but then he broke it off with me bc he felt like i didnt want to be with him anymore.
so ive done all the things you're not supposed to do and he's called me all sorts of names. currently hes angry at me so what do i do?
brooklyngirl119 7 months ago
@brooklyngirl119 Same... what happened? You got back? You ok?
endromuria 4 months ago
LMAO i can't believe it actually took her over 2 minutes to get to the point O_o.
YesungIsAmazing 7 months ago
In june me and my ex boyfriend were hanging out one day and this is the first time we had done it in a while but wr talked and all that stuff but before i left he hugged me twice and kissed me on the cheek and on my way home i had gotten a text message saying that he had cheated on me and he said i diserved a broken heart since then i think i may have driven him away i wrote a letter to him saying if we could b friends again and i sortta cussed him out a bit PLEASE HELP!!!
chubbyAlExUs 7 months ago
Thank you for this. Nice work
datingdoneright 7 months ago
OK, My boyfriend and I had dated sine Dcember 2010 till about June 2011, and found out that he was cheating on me.. And it hurt so bad then to find out that he lied, and I still love him, with all my HEART!! And I want him to be mine but I am scared That he will say NO!
TYCcheerleader13 8 months ago
Well me and my ex broke up a year ago and I tried to move on but it's really hard what do I do to get him back?
iloveyouchokes 8 months ago
what if he wanted some space & he said he'll come back but he's taking so long to come back?what do i do while waiting?
xxfreakyasian10xx 8 months ago
Does this work if we broke up fer like a year already??
isabel054 8 months ago
@isabel054 Try it and find out. No offense, but what have you got to lose?
BlueHorse17 7 months ago
i just spilled my heart out to him...and he just said i was nice.Ive never been in love with someone before,and i had fallen in love with him.
xXEmoCookieGoRawrXx 8 months ago
I'm in Cheerleading, and my ex boyfriend dumped me 3 days ago. I actually cried infront of him, he's a really good guy and he let me cry in his arm.. What am I supposed to do?
SofiaPhuong 8 months ago
Alright. last night my boyfriend broke up with me. He said he loved me, didn't wanna lose me, but he had too. Because we fight to much. I fought with him because he tried doing stuff he did with his last ex of 9 months with me and I got upset. He also called another girl cute, I saw it since he did it over facebook. He said since we won't last forever then theres no point. He said we won't last forever. I'm so confused and I need some sort of help really fast. Please give me some advice. Anyone
XxShawnaPaigexX 8 months ago
@XxShawnaPaigexX Facebook is like, always the cause of problems in relationships. -.- Ugh.
DONOTBEAHOMO 8 months ago
does this still work even though we broke up in like october?
megandabalm 8 months ago
Hello, i just caught my boyfriend flirting with girls and i was complaining to him who were these girls he was talking to and we started to fight and then the next day we said we were sorry then he said "i've been thinking about what happened yesterday...you didn't trust me that i wouldn't dump you so with out trust i can't do this anymore.So he broke up with me.I'm really missing him. He's ignoring me now. What should i do.? Please help,thank you.
MichelleMondragon777 8 months ago
what if i already contacted him
TayJonas1 9 months ago
Ok well me and my ex have been on and off some December. The last time we were together was back in February and that was the time it started getting more serious, you know? Like I really started to realize how much I loved him and we promised we were gonna stay together cuz he was even scared to give me this last chance. Well everything was going amazing, then on Valentines day, one of his friends called me and said he cheated on me. We were kind of arguing about it and two days later I was hur
xilikeyournamex 9 months ago
Hey Essy :) Me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday and i don't know what to do! It feels like my whole life is falling apart. We were together for like 8-9 months but we were very serious about it.
And the problem is we don't know why we broke up. I still love him with all my heart, but he thought we needed a ''brake'' so he could think and he wasn't sure what he felt anymore. He said he loved me and ''we're still frineds'' (i think). But i want him back! What can i do? i'm 17 and he is 18 btw.
xXohjoXx 9 months ago
i.m just really desperate.my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because he said i was calling him too much and i couldn.t understand that he is really busy.we were for 8 moths together and we had petting and a lot of stuff.i just can.t think clear right now and i don.t know what to do because he was my first boyfriend.and i can.t call him to tell him that i want to get back with him because he broke up with me cuz i called him too much.
sorry for spelling wrong some words.plz help!
y97oltean 9 months ago
My boyfriend for nearly 2 years broke up with me because I was so called flirting with his friend and I did these things and yesterday he asked me out :)
MyRera 9 months ago
i'm so heartbroken. i don't know what to do. I am trying very hard not to contact him and I almost did, but I stopped myself from doing it. Our story is like a Cinderella story, except there was his 'ex' in the background. He has actually told her about me as well as his brother, telling them that he was interested in me. He was having issues with his ex, and he told me it was getting from bad to worse, yet after two weeks he decided to back to her to 'deal' with it, leaving me heartbroken.
MsIsa05 9 months ago
this is amazing. i really hope it works!
dearbriellex3 9 months ago
So i met this really cute guy when he came with his team for basketball. We were at the dance and love at first site :) BUT his team had to go back, we still talked during facebook amd skype. After a few months he deleted me from skype, and i wonderd why. I went on facebook and sent him like a million messages but he wouldnt answer. i told him in one them that u still loved him. But he just thought i was annoying. What do i do? Please help. Thanx :)
kelberg978 9 months ago
me and my ex broke up 3 months ago cause we had to (not saying why) and for the past 3 weeks, everything has been going wrong. He got a gf and had sex with her. i was obvs jealous but in the end i actually started to get over him and i got a bf myself. his gf then broke up with him not long after they had sex. i comforted him then we tlked alot. i started to love him again!!! my current bf loves me and i sort of love him bak but i love my ex even tho we cnt be together!!! HELP!!!! :(
zoshii97 9 months ago
hi there! thanks for your help! I do intend to apply your rules. I dated this guy for 2 wonderful weeks, but his ex came back into the picture. :-( Everything was great between us however, until he decided to give his ex another chance. I have a strong feeling that he will remember how awsome and natural, electrifying it was between us that he will come back to me after he realizes that it's not going to work with his ex. He was constantly telling me how it was not working out with her,
chance?
MsIsa05 9 months ago
My bf dumped me and likes someone else afer i kissed him now i cry everyday
LeopardFilms561 9 months ago
ok so this guy i like keeps saying he dont want to be friends with me and gets mad if i cal one of my guy friends for 25 seconds i cant date till im sixteen but im in love im in heaven when im with him he makes me smile and he says everything sweet i hate not being with him someone plz help!
justycewilliams 10 months ago
it's been over 2 months since our break up. my boyfriend and i dated for almost 9 months when he out of the blue said..i'm done with you. we agreed to be friends but it was too hard. i begged and pleaded with him but he did not want me back. he said it was for the best. it's been over 2 months and I'm wondering if using this technique will work even though it's been 2 months?
LilGrey456 10 months ago
Oh yeah, and I think I'd like to mention this as well. he even said he won't be friends with me, due to that he loved me so much, and just couldn't. It seems so different from the guys with rebound relationship, rebound sex aso.? :S
Maoraw 10 months ago
(continued) When HE is the one asking for NC, will it still work? I haven't contacted him since, it has been a week, we would even have had our 1,5 anniver. 2 days ago! :'( he is very special and suffers with some problems with his psyche. He even said he wouldn't ignore my calls ever, if I broke NC because he 'loved' me so much. He isn't even interesed in seeing other girls at all, he said for now he is "asexual". Is this normal? Are you sure it would apply to me? I really hope so :)
Maoraw 10 months ago
Hey Exboyfriend help!
We were together for 1,5 years, I'm the first LT girlfriend he ever had. When he broke up, I didn't realise it in my head at first, so I took over to his house in the middle of the night (just to find out he weren't home) and begged and plead me the next day, and he asked me to please NC him for now. I asked him to give me a STRAIGHTAWAY answer. Should I wait? And he said he didn't know. He wants me to doubt. I know exactly why, I took him for granted and acted immature.
Maoraw 10 months ago
i need help! i think what you are doing is great and i need your help. my ex and i have been broken up for almost a year. and after watching ur video it turns out i have been doing everything wrong. i love him with all my heart and sole. the reasons we broke up was cuz i was a lil bit of a wild child and i liked to party but i have changed my ways and he dont see that. we also broke up cuz neither of our parents like us being together. he has a gf now for almost a year. is there any hope left
Buffy5024 10 months ago
I personaly think its too late for me. my ex and i broke up almost 2 years ago after having a 1 year relationship with him. I loved him with all my heart. the reasons we broke up was cuz i was a lil bit of a wild child and liked to party. he didnt like that. and our parents hated us beinf together. i have tried to move on but it hasnt worked. he has a gf now for almost a year. I miss him and i love him and need him. please help me. If its too late llike i thought it was then thats fine.
Buffy5024 10 months ago
This is my second time getting bak together with my boyfriend after he cheated on me with my bff
ilovemuis 10 months ago
my ex and i had a summer realtionship and we had broken up and i miss him so much but he wont talk to me and i have tried everything and i want him back.
lovesux44 10 months ago
I used to like this guy, and we talked for a while but he had a girlfriend at the time. Now he talks to a different girl and we are no longer friends. I want another chance with him because i know we were destined for each other but i barely ever talk to him anymore. I want to talk to him but this one girl gets in the way of that because he likes her. She doesnt like him back though, fortunetly. :')
sarahgutierrez333 10 months ago
What if I was never actually with him cuz he had a girlfriend when we used to talk, and he flirts with somebody else now and i dont talk to him all that much? Its been a while but i still think we surely belong together.
sarahgutierrez333 10 months ago
Thanks To Your Help Me & my Boyfriend are back together , I'm So Happy Thanks you soooo much and now were are looking forward to our New home Thanks .x
RachaelLouiseBeauty 10 months ago 18
@RachaelLouiseBeauty I'm proud for you(: I wish I was with mine. :/
maytwayashing21 3 months ago in playlist Liked
My boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me last week because he said he wants to be single and wants to see other girls for his own experience since he doesn't want to be stuck with one girl. He also said his feelings keeps changing for me. I tried to things to keep my mind off of him but its hard. He said there could be a chance that we can get back together but maybe not if it doesnt work. please i want him back. help :(
rawrryamapi 10 months ago
My boyfriend of nearly 2 years broke things off with me three days ago because he was tired of the stress in our relationship. We were long distance for a year, and never discussed our relationship when we were finally in the same city to know how one another feels and where to go from there. I really do believe we could improve as a couple, but he currently isn't willing to put in the effort.
We are still friends, but I'm limiting contact as of now and keeping myself busy. So far so good?
beckmed22 10 months ago
I've already broken the rules, but God I hope this works...
DagsDoItBetter 10 months ago
@DagsDoItBetter me 2. i broke them into 834782349239 pieces. especially with the falling to the knees crap. but i hope this works.
Angielyrica 10 months ago
i had a boyfriend last june. i am in love with him so much it isnt funny. its been kind of awkward though cuz we see each other in school everyday. i catch him starring at me sometimes and he catches me, but i dont know if it means anything. i want him back so much it hurts. i need help desperately. plz help me get my love back :(
kaylarockz617 11 months ago
Ok , So what if you already acted sad for him and already triend to make him feel pity.I just dont understand blah!
TheBrianaBieber 11 months ago 19
@TheBrianaBieber if you had to act sad, why do you want him back? You should have been sad, not had to act sad.
taylorlayne15 4 months ago
this is funny because my ex tried this on me..................... it didn't work, but we are still friends so whatever.
GeigerEncounter 11 months ago
if u dont talk to them wont that make him think uve forgoteen him + moved on?
TabiaBaybeh 11 months ago 2
Me again, i was not finished i ran out of characters, i have been talking to him and stuff like nothin happened. i also told him a lie and said that another guy asked me out and how would he feel about it and he said well we are not dating any more so i do not really care. ahhhg! please help me!
JELLYcupcakes 11 months ago
my boyfriend and i were together for 6 mounths his mom did not know and he was not allowed to date. but we really liked each other so we dated he told me on the phone that he was just not ready to have a girlfriend at school he told me his mom found out and that is why he said that then he asked me out again and we were gonna secrtly datein again but he said he did not want to lie to his parents then at the end of the day he said he did not want this to happen again so he dumped me again. help!
JELLYcupcakes 11 months ago
-Still like him alot. when I was with him I fealt so happy, and safe... and I actually remember his hugs more than the kiss. I can't stop thinking about him, and it hurts when he still flirts with me, but also 24/7 with other girls. He's already had another girlfriend (For about 2 weeks) and definetly moved on. But I feel horrible and can't even like other guys. Everyone tells me I should just get over him, but what if I don't want to?! I know he's a playerbut maybe.. idk. Is it a hopless cause?
SpArK4GrL 11 months ago
Well, I'm in high school, and sadly I made the mistake of dating a "Player". I really didn't know he was at first. I just gradually started likeing him from a distance, and somehow he noticed me and was physically attracted to me, and wanted to go out. So I decided I would try it.. and I was so nervous around him. I didn't know him at all at frist and didn't know how to act. Soon though I became less nervous, and got to know him. The day after he gave me my frist kiss, he broke up with me. I-
SpArK4GrL 11 months ago
me and my bf were together for almost 3 yrs he left coz we argued all time then he wee still comin round seein me for 4 months and then 2 months ago suddenly it stopped now i found out he has a new gf, a girl he has been seein for 6 weeks and he says he loves her.surely its too soon to say he loves her. i need help to get him back but i did all the wrong things like beggin callin etc now he has blocked me from fbook n also changed his number.the girl he is seein is sum1 who we work wiv.help plz
beckyshaw88 11 months ago