How can I get my mother to accept my boyfriend?

[313xys1]

My sugguestions is to break up with your boyfriend and a new one and move with your life, because first of all your mother wants the best outta you and it's her job to protect you, it's your very own mother and you CANNOT I REPEAT CANNOT replace her for anything so PLEASE OBEY HER RULES!!!!

Lastly when a mother said she hate someone, in your case your boyfriend, she WILL NOT change her mind no matter what and there is a reason for that, I already mentioned that one of the many reasons above.

[lalouthecat]

Hello, I'm in the same boat, but I see this vid was posted a few years ago, I wanted to know what u did to solve your problem? Maybe that would help me too.

Thanks.

[s3176035]

Same here ><

[Wamufreechecking]

What was it that you lied to him about, if you dont mind me askin? As far as your boyfriend goes, this same thing happened in my family. My mom hated my brothers girlfriend with the strongest passion. She just couln't stand anything about her. I would have to say i dont think your moms feelings are ever going to pass completely. My advice would be to try to maintain a distance between your mom and boyfriend, but still initiate a comfortable level of cordiality between the two. Less is more : )

[bish11084]

Girl, this is almost 100% my situation. I understand exactly. I have known mine for 5 years and dated him for 3 1/2. She is acting the same as your Mother. I have been out of my home since 20. And I'm 26.She will never like him. I try to receive approval from mine and eventually you will give up and let your Mom go in some respect. If you please her you will never truly be happy or learn about life and what you want. Email me if you'd like. Good luck

[agajoejonas]

if you relly love him and what to get marred tell your mom how you feel about if and maybe she will exept him for who who he is maybe if you ask your mom some times this works help plain the wedding that might help leve a comment.

[dublenation1234]

well if ur mom relly loved u she would just want you to be happy np matter who it is and she should exept him even if she hates him and that is the reason i never tell my mom anything but then agin i have so much stuff bottled up so that is ur choice

[animefreak0278]

if ur mom's THAT unaccepting then just try to explain to her that she'll regret it later on & if that doesn't work then just leave her out of it

[jennyfromalbania]

tell her that all those things you said her for him were lies!tell her you said those things because you were sad and angry and you couldn't control yourself in those moments!tell her how much you love him!and than I think she will understand you and will speak to him again :D hope I helped you somehow !

[liloboy911808]

Run away with him, move to Las Veges and get married over there.

[littlemaple1028]

show ur mom this video, even if u told her all ready!

[jaylie101]

erm...ur mother doesn't really run ur life does she?

[Sara476476]

I think u should talk to ur mom and tell her everything. Like why ur bf break up with u and blah blah. And tell her to accept ur bf!! I dnk if it will work!! BUT TRY IT

[bffmlkd]

i no ur probbly dont want 2 hear this from a 13 year old but tell ur mom if u dont want to come 2 ur own daughters wedding i dont no if i can accept u as my mom and hang up on her and dont talk to her for 2 weeks and c how she feels and once u start to talk to her tell her that u love him for who he is and she cant change that no mattr wat she says and dont let her get to u i nevr listen to my mom when she says i cant date some one it none of her busnes wat gois on in my person life so good luck

[deadmeatzors]

must be somthing wrong with him. you should ask her what it is . if you want him in your life and she dont. you have to trade your mom for your lover .

[loveacarrot]

You need to tell your mom that you're an adult and to stay out of your life. SHe is creating a weird dynamic where you could find yourself staying with a loser even longer because of her invading your rights as an adult. My mom has done this to me in every relationship

[peyton5000]

I think that it depends on what you lied to him about!

[asdfghdsa1]

i reckon you should secretly lock your boyfriend and your mother in a cupboard and dont let them out untill that sort things out XD

[LuvThemHorses]

omg hah sounds like my story!! my mom hates my bf

[sammylynn2008]

Oh wow.. Sounds almost exactly what I went through. (the boyfriend finding out something in tha past b4 i was even with him thing.. same thing u went through) I see u posted this 10mths ago, so hopefully everything worked out with you. If not, I wish u the best of luck.

[opec34]

What do you expect! if you told your mum some really bad shit about him she'll get protective over you.

Maybe you should tell her all the stuff you said about him was mostly out of anger; and next time keep you mouth shut when it comes to petty little arguments with your boyfriend.

[700016597]

A hard-core comment!

Take the matter to Judge Judy!

Yours truly

Philosopher Mac

[dmbradley1978]

You are an adult. Your mom needs to accept that. If you're mom is trying overly to control you as an inmature daughter then; You need to remove yourself from emotional attachment. You need to learn your lessons but you also need to identify if your mother is manipulating the situation in a self-centered manner. You have a life that's your very own. Live it and learn as much as you can. :)

[missmama21215]

tell your mother too get a fucking life and stay the fuck out yours!!!!

[bibbyndbobby1234]

poor you!

[ddgrad1111]

It sounds to me like your mother wants to protect you because she loves you.(Odd way to show it I know)If I were you, I would see if you and your mom could go to a family therapist together with your boyfriend. I would frame it as a way to help you make the best decisions and create more harmony together...asking for her valuable input. A good therapist will help get to the underlying themes here.

[angelgrl1234]

you shouldent have even said any thing if I was him I wouldnt even had gone back out with you.

[candyapplez3]

your already outta your mother's stomach gal, do what U wanna do. ur mother's just being immature 4 her age (very suprising!)

[drc2131]

Tell your mom she needs to get laid. As for you, you need to keep your mouth shut and stop complaining to your mom about everything.

[pmay222]

god you are soooo boring....cut the umbilical cord it is obviously still well attatched..move out get your own life and get real...

[kenuzumaki]

yur mom is actin like a real bitch sry but someone had 2 say it

[ilovenbcnews]

your mother sounds like a pansy

[darkness679]

i know wat u should do tell her to go if she loves u and make sure she feels gelty for saying tho thing she says and then go get married

[christine2elise]

make her know that since he is important to you, he should be important to her because she wants u to be happy...right??? because to me it seems like she doesnt care. just tell her that love life is ur business!