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  • "The ideal of female beauty as seen through the lens of fashion magazines" yet only ONE person ids at all 'bound' to this or ANY ideal female beauty and femininity -> ME! Such is MY cross to bear! From this day forward, ALL females shall be entirely free from any ideals, expectations, etc. Goddess put ME on Earth to be stripped of all malehood and completely feminized ireversably and I am honered a grateful to goddess for the priviledge of being permitted to serve her in such capacity! -;)

  • From a big girl, IMO it's completely natural to have a population of varying sizes that are considered healthy weights, but lets stop lying to ourselves that being fat has no implications & those who put implications on it are oppressors. I wish women weren't so dependent on the opinion of others. Be confident & in control of who you are & what you want to be. If you are fat & not happy, shut up about it, find who you are underneath the fat, lose the weight & stop validating your misery.

  • @ladyEulaelie: Say it sista!

  • Wow, how did all the comments here become about men??? The description of the video that I see here is about the destructive messages to and trivializing images of women in fashion magazines. Where does this say ANYTHING about "what men want"? Hello, folks, THIS ISN'T ABOUT MEN. I know, that's shocking and all, but really, everything isn't about men...

  • @maiathebeegrrl All we have to do is open up a magazine to be reminded of our imperfections, we don't need men on top of it all telling us what is "beautiful". I don't care what men want, I want my future daughters and other young girls to realize that their worth is NOT in their beauty, which is something that is heavily pushed in the media. As long as a woman is healthy, no one has a right to call her ugly. And you are right, the world does not revolve around men.

  • So basically you think that all men want an anorexic airhead? Hilarious. We just want real women..not a slave, nor someone we have play a constant game of "tug-of-war"with.

  • @DeadSleepers I honestly don't think anyone cares want men want in regards to women. This video is meant to allow women the relief of worrying about how men perceive them for two seconds so they can consider what they want for themselves.

  •  I'm I supposed to like or dislike this vid???

  • @LindaONYT Let me guess, you voted for Obama.

  • feminists are humanists because they want equality for both genders.

    think about it.

  • @ihazachi They did at one time.

  • Whoever can guess how many girlfriends the maker of this video has, and how many boyfriends she's had in the past, wins!

    Hint, answer to B is 0.

  • Ridiculous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!!!! =/

  • How insipid. Not the original concept being mocked, mind you, but the empty myth that this is really what is being said at all.

  • And I love it when a womans got a tummy.

  • @dmnashunstashun lol.  There's a southern saying about opening doors for ladies: it's called courtesy. Anyone who thinks that's oppression was never taught proper manners.

  • @funkybruiser yeah...well, I am not gonna open doors for women nor try to shut doors on them as far as careers. I will treat them equally even when the do not want me to.

  • @funkybruiser As long as it isn't just for women that's fine.

  • Nice video with period music and graphics.

    The only physical specs that count are fitness for making babies. Otherwise men are just not that picky. Fashion magazines want to sell make-up and clothes. Why women think all that is important, whilst neglecting their maternal destiny, is a mystery to me.

  • Without a brain how will she cook?

  • @Vintexen - I think you are getting waaaaaaaaaay too picky here. I mean it is a plus, along with vacuuming, but not really a show stopper.

  • Damn all these sexist heterosexual men for making this false image of beauty for women!

    Wait, it's homosexuals that dominantly run the fashion industry? Oh

  • @dmnashunstashun Don't let the door hit you where I just opened it for you!

    Wait..

  • Well, you've certainly put us women in our place.

  • exactly

  • jealousy is ugly on women

  • let me correct you there , the "unsightly pounds" are the ones that hand in front of you , not the ones you removed from that pic. those were very sightly pounds .

  • Although I agree woman are put under pressure to fit into a certain aesthetic ideal, I believe men are put under pressure as well in American society. To be muscular and manly among other things are common pressures, most men tend to not let on that these things affect them however.

  • @kittydojo1 The reason men don't let these things affect them is because their human worth is not tied up directly in physical attractiveness and they can make up for it by being smart or rich or talented or having a great personality. Their ideal allows for more variation and is less impossible to achieve. Whereas the ideal sold to women is narrow, much more unhealthy, and yet is often the sole basis of their human worth above and beyond all other characteristics. Therein lies the problem.

  • Remove your brain HAHA

  • new age gals heads are already filled with air

  • i like women who are average size. Not too skinny, not too fat.

  • @wiseye61 Men are sexist both for liking 'tits and ass' such as strippers and porn stars and also for liking women who are too skinny to have tits or an ass. You can't win either way.

  • You seem to think there are universal standards of beauty that ALL men ascribe to. Thick in the middle, thigh circumference?

    The issue is not whether men want women who are curvy rather than thin (or god forbid, obese), but the fact that any specifications are dictated to women at all. Everyone is different. The sooner we stop categorizing women into their acceptable shapes and sizes the better.

    Dude, some men actually *like* big girls, or better yet, don't care one way or the other.

  • @TrixieFilms

    That is NEVER going to happen. Even in the wild the prettier more attractive females attract more mates. Its simple biological competition. Besides, I won't deny that men care a lot about physical attractiveness but women care just as much. Girls totally RIP on the fatter, uglier girls with smaller tits, or minor imperfections. I've never seen the like of it. Guys don't do that to each other. Women, (girls especially) are the most self-destructive gender BAR NONE!

  • @Razlo5000

    well in terms of bio competition, yes, in sexual species there is the sex that allures and the other that attracts, (in peacocks it is the male that allures) as for why girls rip on eachother, who knows, same oddity I have seen in school fights, the guy fights tend to end fast, no major injuries. as long as dominace is established, the issue is settled. however whenever the girls fought, they were looking to do damage. no idea what that was about.

  • @nigen It is always the male that will have to prove it's genetic adequacy in just about any species, except maybe sea horses. This is because males invest less time and energy into procreation than females. That's what's so shocking about the beauty standards put on women, it's completely unnatural from an evolutionary perspective.

    Women are competitive for the same reason there are divides amongst any minority group. They have less power and have to fight for what they little they have.

  • @TrixieFilms exactly u have people who like skinny girls, fat girls, black girls, white girls, girls with ass, girls with tits, or guys who dont value external beauty

  • Huh? We both know that men and women are equally physical beings. Women hoard themselves around attractive men as do men with attractive women. I'm not here to buttress anyone's self-esteem by telling them they're beautiful just the way they are, but to address what I believe is a misunderstanding:  Most men don't find you more attractive, the more symptomatic of HIV AIDS you appear. It is women, not men, who are mainly responsible for pushing this inhuman ideal of thinness = beauty.

  • i, personally, don't find a woman who looks like she has HIV AIDS attractive. Men don't like obese women, of course, but that doesn't mean we want to fuck stick figures either. The perfect woman is thick in the right places and has a thigh with a circumference larger than what you can wrap both hands around.

  • @Mrmoc7

    Thanks for speaking for all men everywhere. I'll go measure my thighs now.

  • @Mrmoc7 I always thought the the perfect woman was healthy, regardless of her body's natural shape.

  • @Mrmoc7: Aww, you're so sweet!

  • So, if women are influenced by the media to fit the ideal image of beauty, and attempt to do so, doesn't that make them stupid for following someone else's ideas of beauty rather than to focus on their personal needs?

  • The fashion industry may be partly to blame for starting this whole trend, but women are just as much to blame --- reinforcing it by being stupid enough to believe it.

    I say this and I myself am a woman. Come on people (I'm talking to men too here!), just be happy with who you are! If people don't like it, then fuck them. They're not worth your time. This

  • Definitely put women in combat positions. Only women.

    Here ya go - this is your new best friend, the M16. Lots of luck...

    Would I lay down my life for a woman I don't even know? I wouldn't bet on it.

    I get the seat in the lifeboat. You get to try and take it from me.

  • Everything in this video is a result of the sexual liberation predominantly of women. Its just the natural result of women competing with one another. Feminism is just a movement driven by unattractive middle aged women trying to con everyone into making women less competitive.

  • You should see my sister who is a feminist. She is a size zero model. She models and is a knock out. She is young as well, tall. Just what everyone thinks is hot. Megan Fox is also a feminist and she isn't fat, ugly, nor middle-aged. That is just a silly stereotype.

  • you are right, there is no pressure on men to live up to impossible standards to attract women

  • HAHAHHAHAHA

    so true

  • this was great!

  • dang you hit the nail on the head with this video

  • geat video all women should take this advise very seriously.

    5 stars from me.

    ps never underestimate the power of makeup

  • Women make $.77 to a man's dollar. Mothers make even less.

    There is no equality in pay. None.

    1 in 6 women will be sexually assaulted in her lifetime.

    In a country where daughters are raised to fear strangers, men, and the world around them, we are anything but "equal."

  • Look at the data and read up on it, the pay gap is a myth.

    DV is just as likely to happen to a man than it is a women.

  • No. It's true. My mother and father both work the same job, same hours, same days a week. The boss that they share told my mother yesterday that she was only going to be getting paid for 2 hours of work. Though she works 8 hours just as my dad. My mother is taller, and weighs more than my father. (He's like 5'4/130lbs) So she obviously is better at what she does (It's manual labor) because of her advantage and she still gets paid less!

  • hello glapenguin,

    I'm wondering where you grabbed these statistics from. Can you provide sources?

    thank you :)

  • Then why don't you "fight" for equality?

    Why not fight against the law that states women and children get flu shots before men. That's not fair either, is it?

    How about the one where men are to be automatically drafted into war before women? That's not equality either!

    Wow..now I see your point!

  • Jtbman91 - Could you provide some sources for the flu information? And also let us know when the draft was reinstated in this country?

    By the way, there *is* a serious activist movement to allow women to perform combat roles which they are barred from now. This has been given new strength since the Ft. Hood shootings. It was a female soldier who stopped the shooter.

  • @TrixieFilms

    Selective Service: All males between the ages of 18 to 25 are required by law to register within 30 days of their 18th birthday.

    Flu shots: "Pregnant" women and children go first.

  • Aside from pregnant woman, none of the other groups at the top of the list for shots are gender-based.

    From the CDC: Target groups include pregnant women, people who live with or care for children younger than 6 months of age, healthcare and emergency medical services personnel, persons between the ages of 6 months and 24 years old, and people ages of 25 through 64 years of age who are at higher risk for 2009 H1N1 because of chronic health disorders or compromised immune systems.

  • As for selective service, that's tied in to the fact that only men hold combat positions. If the women-led activism to get women into combat roles succeeds, I imagine selective service will be reconsidered as well.

  • This is your fallacy. Just because there are a few women out there fighting for a certain cause, you can't use what they're doing to defend yourself. I believe in equality, but feminism goes about it too extremely.

  • Pregnant women. who are carrying children and children themself. The law doesn't care about women. They care more for childs rights. Which... I suppose is alright. Listen the average height for a woman is 5'4. Women are shorter, weigh less than men and have much less muscle mass. If the wars were fought by women we wouldn't win. I'm a feminist but I'm very short and physically weak, so I know I wouldn't be an aide to war such as a man is. I think it's only fair a man should fight in war.

  • @Jtbman91 lol And who decided that? Probably the head committee of men who control such laws.

  • what about divorce? in my home state the mother pretty much has to be proven insane to not get custody.

    Socially, it's clear that sexism exists. It exists for women and men, though i'll admit women have it worse. That's not something the government has a right to involve itself with though(and if you give it that right get ready for a dictatorship during this century). Legally, women are equal if not advantaged.

  • Whoooo! Amen! Prach on to that my sister.

  • That was super cute tho lol

  • You fail.

  • I'm all for sexual equality. That's why I allow my female staff to work longer so they can earn the same as the men.

  • hahaha, very very well said, you rule!

  • Everyone needs Islam. The roles and responsibilites for men and women in Islam is just and fair.

    Our women cover for the fear of Allah. We love and respect our women. We understand they are mothers, sisters, grand daughters, grand mothers, and etc. There is more to a women then her hips and her flesh.

    Men and Women are companions of one another. We are not the same, women excel in certain aspects and men in others.

    If that makes me a cave man, then you need a reality check.

  • And what about the women who get stoned for having premarital sex?

  • No one says that's what makes you a cave man. What makes you a cave man is that you think women Should cover for fear of your imaginary friend. They should be able to act and dress as they please within the law of a free and just country.

  • You make some good points, but not everyone "needs" Islam.

  • Afrod, doing things out of fear is no good. Thats supressing women. Thats the same as getting annorexix outta fear for getting fat.

    Islamic countries often treat women like crap, hit them beat them up, thats no respect. Thats fear of womens freedom.

  • Islam often treats women with respect and love. What we Americans see is the media's portrayal of Islam. It's a terribly skewed view and shows us only the negatives. There is nothing wrong with a woman who wants to cover herself because of her religion. We say we support the right of women to be equal to make her own choices, but when she chooses this religion, suddenly she's a victim who needs saving? What's wrong with that picture?

  • What's wrong with that picture? Most Islamic females never even got to make that choice! Der der der.

  • no offence, but thats not fear of womens freedom, but it would be just and big enbaressment if a islamic country would be rulled by men and women.

  • Is your definition of "hot" contrived from your own independent mind or has it been instilled inside of you by the various forms of media and culture? And how can you posit the supposition that "hot" women are "asexual"? Every human being is complex and multidimensional, sexuality is an integral part to this conglomeration. In addition, I have noticed a very apparent contradiction within your little theory, how can a person be "sexually open" if they are "asexual"? I find the paradox amusing.

  • in order women to be free and confident with herself i believe she needs to rid herself of such negative magaizines like 17 and vanity, which portrays and honors such women. i got rid of them and i became more confident, stopped trying to be like them, and i am happier, and more confident. i am five five 122 and feeling fab.

  • nice vid! all womens get slim get makup get big boobs and be villing to have sex than the world woud be a beter world!

  • Anyone here think feminism is sexism?

    Modern day women have just as many rights as men.

    By being a feminist, you are re-enforcing the idea that men and women are different.

  • No..

    Feminism is women fighting for equal rights.

    Sexism is thinking there is a superior gender.

  • No feminism is is women trying to take what little value that is left in being a man and squashing it undertoe

  • feminism is women gaining control and responsibility for themselves.

    the equality under the law too.

    It would challenge the privileges one has as a male, and so I see why you would be upset.

  • @CHARLOTTExR0S3 When one masquerades as the other, the names become a bit less meaningful.

  • I love your videos!

    Though I do like make-up and I try my best to stay thin, it's NOT because I want to look good for men or because of what I see in fashion magazines but because I want to look beautiful for ME.

    All women and MEN have the right to feel good about themselves no matter what they look like :-)

  • hä, hä, hä - how to please an American man, dedicated to playboy, cars and sports, who needs a virgin, a whore and a mother combined in one female body of sexapeal :-)

  • AND european men like hairy women, fancy italian sports cars, expensive alcohol, strange fetishes, topless girls on the beach. Or if your muslim you put your god infront of everything else strap a bomb to yourself kill innocents in hope that your God approves your mindless murder...of course you can take the worst of anything and antagonize it, you arent any different from us

  • wth that was retarded

  • Ha ha! That's funny because it's exactly what the media is telling young women today!

  • The skinny girl were not sexy at all:(

    And makeup is for clowns and scary movies.

    But I rather be dumb then smart.

  • I am glad I am getting old--53--and that I no longer see women as objects of sexual gratification. After all, they never reciprocated the same interest in me when I was a young pretty boy on the beach in seventies speedoes.  Perhaps they do as I and sit home and masturbate about the past

  • Patriarchy tells all women they fall short of male defined beauty standards. I notice men are always making women feel like shit about the way they look at every stage of their life. Fuck fascist male beauty standards.

  • Don't you think that there is at least 1 male for every female, who doesn't find romance or casual relationships (I'm not viewing either as negative)?

  • maybe if women werent so easy their wouldnt be any beauty standards...lead the sheep

  • women are easy BECAUSE of these standards. People nowadyas think fantasy is the norm. That goes for men and women.

  • I know you're trying to correct an ignorant statement, and have your heart in the right place. But please don't follow up one stupid remark with another one.

    *Women* aren't easy. Some *people* are. Some of those people are women-- but the hell! Some are men.

    Why are sexually active women called easy? Why aren't there any people calling sexually active men easy?

  • I think most men are easy its just damn obvious, and it has been since the beginning of time.

  • ....because men are the players and women the game.

    Been that way for centuries.

    How long women take to give in is their difficulty rating, E.g easy or hard to get....

  • It isn't just men. Plenty of women also enforce beauty standards. By talking behinds others' backs and reading the mags and buying into the beauty myth, women perpetuate the need to be thin, the need to get botox, be beautiful, etc. We can't just point fingers and say, "BAD MENZ," when, really, society as a whole is to blame.

  • Of course. Gender equality is a societal issue, not just a women's issue. Members of both genders perpetuate discrimination and prejudice.

    That is why I get frustrated when I get the finger pointed at me.

  • @glapenguin I don't think feminists are trying to blame men and only men, though the mentality that a woman's worth is judged on her beauty as perceived by men *is* the root of the body image problem.

  • @CrawdaddyJoe "the root of the body image problem" as you say, is nature. Are we to ignore that symmetry and health are attractive to men? Men that MUST be aroused in order to carry out their only true purpose?

    No, you can't blame men's eyes. You have to look at industry. Make up, fake tits, retarded clothes; most if not all spawned by gay dudes and other women. Men are pretty easy to please actually. This whole "POWERFUL WHITE MAN DEMAND SKINNY BITCH NOW" argument doesn't apply here.

  • @CrawdaddyJoe I don't mean to be rude, but isn't that how in the past our ancestor's actually chose mates. Therefore, I feel that judging a woman by her looks is more of an instinct for men rather than some unnatural/sick urge. Now that we live in a society where survival of the fittest is not enforced at the initial speed that uglier people survive(like me) and hence the most beautiful still remain the most desirable and they set standards by which everyone else is judged.

  • @glapenguin It's MOSTLY women who try to impose aesthetic standards. There are relatively few straight men who honestly give a flying fuck about "fashion". For either gender. Cosmo, Us weekly, E! network shows about people being "too fat" are all either made with women in mind or made exclusively by women. Even the articles that are supposed to be "a man's perspective" are edited to cut out anything that wouldn't look good in a women's program or magazine.

  • Feminism is bullshit today. I was denied a job for being a male by a woman-based firm. "Didn't fit the gender profile". Today it is all about man-hating and fighting for power over men, not about equal rights! Feminism is Bullshit!

  • Feminism is bullshit because of one sexist company? Feminism today is about sex equality, not sex oppression.

  • Feminism today is about lots of things.

    The amount of contradicting viewpoints within feminism is proportional to the amount of contradicting viewpoints within society.

    The definitions of feminism and gender equality are hazy and ambiguous anymore.

  • Not valid advice for American females, as the vast overwhelming majority of them are fat, ugly, have herpes or worse, are poorly educated, look like they are 50 at age 25, have all the personality of a wet diaper, and couldn't cook a decent meal if their very lives depended on it. Men out there, do what I did. Kick the American females to the curb with the rest of the trash and find a foreign girl to marry. Anything less is uncivilized.

  • Revolution! Girl style NOW!

  • Glad to see you're in LaLa-Land.

  • iv only had 1 gf and its the girlfriend im currently with but there was probly 20 girls befor he that didnt want any thing to do with me casue they thought i was ugly or not muscular enough i did pull ups until i permanently damaged tendons in my shoulder just to get the arms women would find sexy and i ran 10 miles a day to impress you i guess personality and love just isnt good enough

    but guys wont talk about there pressures they cant cry they have to be strong

  • you are right most women judge men by appearances and most men do not like to date smart women and there's nothing wrong about a guy crying because god gave humans the ability to cry and it shows that you are strong enough to show your emotions.

  • Some men can't handle the fact that women are here for something other than their own sexual gratification.. which is why women who don't fit these ridiculous moulds of what is "perfect" seem to be subjected to all kinds of abuse.

  • Censorship:

    Because the unimaginably stupid must never be questioned.

    PS

    Nobody reads fashion magazines ;)

  • does anybody have the full movie?

  • This is the movie - it's a whole 60 seconds long!

  • It's actually 50 (or 49 if you count where it stopped) seconds long sorry to correct you but the time is in the movie slider.

  • @CpsLock3 You're right. The original is 60 seconds but it's a little shorter on the YouTube version

  • haha awsome. XD

  • I think it's important for girls to find an identity that isn't in competition to men, but in alignment with their original (biological) design.

    Too bad so many either submit to the concepts shown in the video, or spend their time fighting them, while failing to live (!) a convincing alternative.

    "Make it better, your way".

  • Weather you are a man or a woman, you have to learn to love yourself.

  • so men like women who look good. . . so what. . . everything was true except the lose weight part, its over simplified, men dont like chicks who are fat, men dont like chicks who are anorexic and men dont like air heads cuz they piss us off, we would get with an air head if she is cute but that wont last more than 44 hours, hey it may sound harsh, but its true

  • Great video : )

  • Its comical to see how you are so intimitated by beauty. Women should enjoy who they are and accept it and accept who others are. So stop trying to brainwash and change people into thinking that beautiful women are stupid and everyone should look like how the media portrays them. Have some self respect, and respect beautiful women as well.

  • Please see my comment below...This isn't about beauty. Beauty is wonderful. It makes the world a nicer place to look at. This is about the magazines using intimidation to sell products - usually in the service of the advertisers.

  • How about we redefine what beautiful is . I saw a quote somewhere that said if beauty is defined as anything other than exactly what you are the concept of beauty is damaging.

  • theDUKEz06---that video had nothing to do with beauty it had to do with women wearing makeup to look better for men and having weight problemsin order to impress men and Belittling ourselfs for the benefit of men

  • Women want security and protection. They can get that in a man. Men want sexy women. Therefore, women have to be sexy at all cost if they want to survive in this world.

  • no, you are wrong. the problem with that thinking is that it doesn´t come from ourselves but from our mums, parents and society. any living creature on this world wants to eat, live and be happy. women are told constant lies how to be and that we need men to survive. besides men are afraid of women innately - since they were depending on their mums milk and care to survive. someday the women will have all the power. soon all this media-pressure on women will loose its effect.

  • i fully agree with out wemon there wouldent be men!!! and yet theyt hold power? as it seems soem times.

  • men need us to reproduce... but with today's science we're getting closer to not needing them!

  • Well, I'm a woman, and I don't seek security or protection from men. Women have to be sexy to survive? I was one of these "sexy women" spending my time on makeup, starving myself, wearing revealing clothes ect. I ended up feeling like an object for men to use and throw away. I still keep up a physical appearance, am more interested in being healthy, and I'm in an equal and respecting relationship.

  • As women, we need to reject the idea that we NEED to be sexy. Then we can all date nice respectful men, and the sexist pigs can sit at home and jerk off!

  • you're right women just need to look presentable and be smart and not dumb down in order to get the hot chauvenist guy.

  • Honey that's all they really ever do anyway

  • I think women can make it on their own-men provide nothing that a woman needs-

  • what women do you know?

  • i wish women where in control of society :P

  • the economy would go bust.

  • it already has

    all thanks 2 u Men

  • you're a sad person.

  • Then you arent a feminist. Why go from a patriarchy to a matriarchy ? Would you prefer your son's oppression over your daughter's ? We need to smash both and achieve a free society.

  • haha i loved it.

  • 5 stars!!!

  • Amen. Who was it that said Cosmo basically teaches women how to be playmates?...

  • I totally agree with you. My issues are with the fashion magazines who, usually in the service of their advertisers, push these ideas of so-called perfection onto their readers.

  • Isn't that the truth? Trixie Films, continue with your great videos! I think it's sad how women feel pressured to not be feminist because they feel that men would not like them then. Women, stand up for your rights!

  • hahah yay!

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