Ask Dr. Ty - "Sex Outside the Bed"

[NDFreak7]

Marriage is simply a way for these people to justify their sexual behaviors. Why not refrain from sex, even if one is married? Sex in marriage is still sex. It doesn't make it more pure, folks.

[mrdojob]

@NDFreak7 i agree a 20 minute ceremony and a piece of paper changes nothing at all. A unmarried couple who have known each other for years have much more right to have sex than a couple who have married in a few months of knowing each other.

[victorromerone]

I AM A CHRISTIAN, AND WHAT I PICKED UP WAS THE VULGARITY OF YOUR PICKING UP AN BANANA WHILE DISCUSSING MEN, AND CHOPPING FRUIT, WHILE TALKING ABOUT FORBIDDEN FRUIT. I WAS INTERESTED UNTIL YOU STARTED PLAYING WITH PEOPLES HEADS SUBLIMINALLY. MANY CHRISTIANS EYES ARE OPEN. MAY GOD FORGIVE YOU.

[mrdojob]

@victorromerone you are a fucking moron.

[simone56]

@007bcom, what business do two unmarried persons have discussing sexual positions and locales? That is reserved for the marriage bed. The only way for one to know whether you are compatible is the marriage bed. All sorts of temptation and sin are present when these things are discussed before the proper time. If you know anything about sex before marriage it is because of previous sin. I am concerned that sex before marriage wasn't emphasized as wrong in the video, but I digress...

[Darlene7843]

1 Corinthians 7 is a good read! wow! Matthew 24:36-39. The judge and great king is coming church, lets focus !

[DeaconCliff]

this is a very good answer. What you are saying however, is resulting in an apple being butchered as opposed to being peeled.

[Seedcovers]

Awesome video!

[1Mezmerize]

great points .. i liked your message.. but please put the knife down.. lol

[simone56]

This man is showing signs that he is still carnal and mere infant in Christ. There is NO WAY he should be discussing those issues with a young lady who he is trying to marry. He should not have these UNREALISTIC expectations of a mate PERIOD of whom he is not married to.

These are the consequences for having sexual relations before the time. You are bringing things into the bedroom and placing pressure on the mate to do things they are NOT comfortable with, and that is WRONG.

[simone56]

He should repent and wait. He is not ready to get married.

[ThickMadame41]

True..

[007bcom]

@simone56 As a Christian, I STRONGLY disagree with you!! It is mature and wise to discuss sexual expectations before you get married to see if you share the same goals and to see if they are compatible. If people put half the effort into planning their marriage as opposed to planning their wedding - their would be better marriages. There is more to marriage than just being in love, you have to be compatible.

[RatedRKO05]

Whack

[XNakisisaX]

Procreating is older than the bible, so either nature is wrong or people are wrong. I'm going to go with people.

[latonyarealitytv]

Why don't you use your intro clip anymore that is cool! Could you inbox me the editor of this info, thanks!

[Arisutton]

Thanks for word!!!!

[venisehughes]

Thank you very much Dr. Ty for that sound word, it was very good meat for the spirit and I pray that alot of people got it.

[mistertrevor]

I think she made a great point. Sexual Purity and Abstinence are totally different animals. We can speculate all day about Paul, he's dead. BUT, having a clean spiritual and psychological slate is very important when starting a serious [momogamous] sexual relationship.

[ridofperms1]

I have listened to her other vids and yeh...it is not adding up.

[LadyRaes021]

really? how so?

[TheGoddessNetworks]

Is she married? If not then she is not an authority on sex and relationships...wow lots have changed since I left Christianty but still looks like the same SNAKE OIL being sold...

[ridofperms1]

Hi! I don't think it matters if she is married or not, she is using sound doctrine and wisdom the Word and that is the final authority.

[LadyRaes021]

What do you mean? Paul was a great authority on relationships and was single....

[Hautegus]

Paul never euphamistically gave advice on sex and it's funny you talk about he same Paul who spoke about the apoctacy in 1 Timothy and false teachers, if he was still here he would call her out as a false teacher who just tickles ears. Give me a verse where it is bibically backed up and then I'll quiet, It even says in the word if you approve of those living in sin is as you have brought it upon yourself, she is just approving with that man's sin who sent in that letter.

[LadyRaes021]

Not sure what point your trying to make here...

What sin are you talking about? Him wanting to have satisfying sex WHEN he gets married? Shes talking about sexual purity & how one can be sexually impure even while NOT having sex. I could see if she was saying its OK to have sex before your married, or to do any and everything up until penetration, but she's not...

Also 1 Corin. 7:5-6. Advice on Sex, Marriage & Fasting, again, I'm not sure from your msg if that was what u wanted "backed up".

[SpecialKay407]

This is a POWERFUL woman of God!! To GOD be the glory.

[worshiplover]

God BLess You Ty Adams. I applaude you for being edgy and giving such detailed responses, they really help, but one concern of mine, is the bananas and apple, I mean, why is that on your show? It depicts a lustful appearance. I advise you to take that off your future postings, and represent the full nature of Christ. I love what you are doing, I teach abstinence as well. Let's not give people anything to say that could be negative. Continue this for God' kingdom. God Bless.

[dee81877]

if u were paying attention to the beginning, she clearly said that sometimes in the church sex is seen as the forbidden fruit,like no one wants to talk about it. It's right at the beginning.

[aiopanointed3]

great response God bless u Dr.Ty for posting things like this we as christians are ashame to talk about sex but we need too.

[tonyatunez]

Sex should be reserved for marriage. Why is he even talking about sex to women he has no intention of marrying? Sex within marriage is sacred. Why would a woman just open up to this man and tell him her most deepest desires? What's up with the bananas?

[kemptheleo]

You are so honest!

[ridofperms1]

You are so right! He has a problem and I question his relationship with the Lord it may not be strong enough. He should not desire to have sex in the places that he named.

[ZocoNum]

IN PLAIN WORDS....having oral sex before marriage is wrong and like Bill Clinton said,"I did not have sexual relations with that woman....ask Hilary did it make a different if the girl gave him oral or vagina.....

You are not abstaining from sex if you are having oral done on you.

[MAYDAYES]

She is ten times better than Bishop Thomas Weeks. She need to talk to him. Because he is not making any since at all.

[Bosslady21]

Bishop Weeks is in my opinion is not a true man of God. His sermons and messages seems so far out of God's plan and will for us concerning sex....Adams is right on point.

[nacquiredtaste]

Lady TY, A great breakdown comparing the difference between abstinence and sexual purity. Overall very well spoken Sistah!However,I don't agree with impurity being brought to the marriage bed.Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable among all and the bed is undefiled

[dee81877]

yes but you can defile it also.

[blackbaby7777]

Well said!!!

[jayluv25]

Wow! I'll be subscribing.

[sunstarr07]

On point per usual Dr. Ty!

[evangelistsantified]

Great Feedback... You made it plain Doctor.... True that u can abstient and still be unholy.... Things that make you go hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

[Flblackbutterfly]

Thank God for your wisdom! Love the style of the video.

[Apraiseangel]

I enjoyed this question and the answer you gave. I think one of the key things you spoke about was sexual purity and that is the part a lot of guys and women are missing.

[vow2livholy]

That was great Dr Ty! I pray he allows God to purify him and release him of his past sexual encounters before he gets married b-cuz it's possible that if this doesn't happen first, love making in his marriage might not fulfill him but If he stays in God's will, God will give him the woman who is compatible w/ him on all levels.

[ladypreacher08]

Wow--talk about shedding some light! I was one that was Godly proud of my stance of being "abstinent". Truth be told, I haven't always lived a sexually pure life during this almost 5 year period.

Thanks Dr. Ty for helping me apply this truth, in such a practical way, that has made me free! God Bless.

[ChristianRose88]

Great response!!

[DaRev08]

awesome response, the knife was a lil intimidating lol, but overall it's koo

[moneyman1966]

Great response Dr. Ty! This brother is looking at this all wrong. He thinks that his ungodly past is the highlight of his sex life or future sex life.If you focus on a God influenced relationship, he will give you a woman that will not only knock your soxs off. But she will give you the desires of your heart. Now first man of God, you must get in line with God. Then the woman will get in line with you. As far as your worldly goods... so what! Tell us about your devotion to God !!!

[MzAttitide757]

Love the new video. Your advice is always on point. Trust me I know...I got like a trillion gazilion dollars worth!!! Lol. Love you and you look so beautiful.

[backat1]

on point

[jeanetteaw]

Thanks for sending the vid. Well round, sound teaching.

[pshakes]

Godly wisdom, hopefully the brother listens to it, or he might never get married.

[chantejoy]

Yay! Ty Adams TV! That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Keep it coming!