How to get a guy you like to approach you

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@NicoleFarkas123 British

[NicoleFarkas123]

R u british or Australian

[floridaboy22]

I had a woman at church just walk by and hand me her number. I got her name off the card smh.

[chelseapooNUMBER2]

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME

I really like this guy (I'm 14). He knows I exist because she started a conversation with me the other day. Before he knew I existed, he started going out with someone and he still is going out with them. I really want to ask him out but he is OBVIOUSLY going out with someone. How can I get him to like me?!!?! HELP SOMEONE PLEASE

[that2001boy]

I truly like this video. Its not for everyone but some people are intuned with the spirit and let the spirit guide. But other people like me are not. And we need to apply other techniques like this. Good work

[blessednhm]

Thankyou so much. I think I have that problem of being to intimidating because guys always comment on how serious I seem to be at times. Thanks for the tip!

[WONDERFULLYMADE2009]

Maaaaan this video really spoke to me. No one tells u how to behave relationship wise as a single girl in church. U want them to know you are interested but don't want to look desperate. God bless u for this

[xoxomeli1]

I'm too shy to smile lol

[TheOmnicell]

The truth is, its really hard. I know what Ive studied and read, Yet, its hard, its a power thing. If A women looks like she is into me, I might want to approach. If it seems she is not bothering anymore. I will not approach. Thats why its important as a man to develop some Alpha characteristics and learn to go after her a bit. Im supprized how ego smashing all of this can be..

[Ravenex2]

@TheOmnicell It's not just about chasing, the crowd in the room makes it really hard if you fear getting embarrassed (which most humans are afraid of).

[BoomboxStereoHeart]

No offense to christian people, but I get uncomfortable when they talk religiously...

[cheergirl2430]

Oh my gosh I have a huge crush on this really cute guy at school and I asked him out and he told me he wasn't the kind of person I wanted to be with so yeah I'm a bit upset:(

[tigerfischer9]

@cheergirl2430 aww its ok, everyone girl has a guy right for her ;) and there are plenty of fishies in da sea LoL... ur lucky, i dont even have the courage to ask out the guy i have been on 3 dates with -_-.... my friend always does it... i cant make eye contact with him :( he makes me rlly shy >.<

[thenewtransition]

I don't see how this is a Christian video. I mean these tips could apply to anyone. Just change "church" to "book store" - Christians aren't special, they're just religious, and dating dilemmas are global as long as you live in a well-established, economically sound part of the world.

[theright1allthetime]

I think these woman REALLY NEED TO LEARN HOW TO AT LEAST SMILE DAMN,,,, if you're looking mad as hell it's going to be hard for me to think that you're looking interested..

Because as the multi million dollar businessman that I am. I'm don't have time to play some detective.

[disneychannelfan306]

im 11 and im already crushin on a guy!

[CalabarSweetii]

You guys are such a cute couple!!!

[Sirflatch]

Ok, whatever, glad it worked 4 U :o)

[Caziegirl]

Ughhh... faith

[princeofthepen]

This is a powerful message!!!

[theright1allthetime]

REAL ADVICE FROM A REAL MAN... THE WORST THING YALL WOMEN COULD DO TO TRY TO GET A GUYS ATTENTION IS JUST SMILE AT HIM AND LOOK STUPID. TRY BEING LIKE JORDIN SPARKS AND INTRODUCING YOURSELF TO A MAN, I DIDNT SAY SMOTHER HIM THO, AND FLOW WITH IT FROM THEIR.

[theright1allthetime]

Don't Look Stuck Up. <<<<Ladies....

[kallo1234]

u have to send the right signals to the guy, u know look at the guy for 2-3 secs and then quickly glance away, or smile, send him signals so that he can approach you. If you don't send signals to the guy, it makes it much harder for the guy cause he has no idea if he likes you or not and the risk of rejection is much greater.

[Ravenex2]

@kallo1234 I love those signals. So many guys are shy and those signals guide them. NO ONE likes rejection.

[iwannadrinkacupoftea]

do those christian tips also work for agnostic dating? :P

well, sadly this video didn't help me. i liked it, though.

[lovinnis]

I am willing to try this....



[nellyCU]

how do you like a guy doesn't like you to make them in relationshi

[nellyCU]

how do you like a guy doesn't like you to make them in relationship?

[AYSynn]

I appreciate that you're striking a balance between letting men know you're interested and waiting for them to talk to you. I think it's important for a guy to be a man and pursue me, because how else am I going to know what his level of interest is? This video reminds me to make more of an effort to be warm and friendly and encouraging to guys who I think are interested in me. Sometimes I forget that they're nervous too, and they need some obvious signs that it's worthwhile to pursue me!

[VeronikaRiley]

hahaha, i love it, "oh we know the ones that are looking at us.."

so true. you two are hilarious and awesome.

bless.

[wazupfooable]

I love the sirens in the backround.

[lauh4rl]

if You like the man why doesnt she approach him ..i prefer to have an equal women who can take what she wants and doesnt have to use childish hints and innuendos. thanks for listening no disrespect.

[LISTENtotheMANofGOD]

@lauh4rl - the Bible says- 1 Corinthians 16:20 All the brethren greet you. Greet ye one another with an holy kiss.

Doing videos based on feeling without Bible verses is wrong. We are not supposed to be conformed to the world. Christian women should approach men in the church and greet them and encourage them in the Lord. They can compliment men on their suit or comments at sunday school or Bible study. Most videos made today have no Bible verses because they don't know or believe their Bible.

[22animeluv1]

i love how you guys go straught to the advice, versus most videos are inapropriate.

[AllPro777]

It's not necessary to have 9+ minutes to explain. If you like a guy, WAVE AT HIM AND SMILE, then wave him to come over. Simple as that. It works 100% of the time, guaranteed.

[3089280288]

@AllPro777 That's flirting.

[orcite]

Why shud not women approach?

[kenjihimonatashi]

Getting a guy to approach you is like asking him to risk his life. Guys get accused of rape and are scared to death every day of it. It's a true story.

[KRISTY206]

i really like this guy at church n i would find sumtimes he will wait jus to hold the door open for me one church night me and another lady was the last one left in the parkin lot and he wait until i got in my car and pulled off until he left to make sure we was ok,we greet at our church and sumtimes he act like he be scared to shake my hand so i would just approach him first but i really admire him but i dont think he knows it im just wonderin if he admire me too n he jus shy wat u think

[mspurr24]

they r so cute!

[micky11281]

uh the guy i like is one of my best friends he did like me for 3 months but i was playing hard to get but people still say that he is still likes me but i don't know how to get him back ... help

[micky11281]

uhh the guy i like is one of my best friends he did like me for 3 months but i was playing hard to get but people still say that he is still likes me but i don't know how to get him back ... help

[strongyang]

keep it up bro and sis ;)

[JjesnelKharlA]

What Christian denomination are you guys??? because this is good solid biblical advise its amazing how other Christian court like the secular world.

keep it up and God Bless :)

[viewsIwant]

Catlover the odds are high he is probably shy I've been in same position as the dude your talking about and we dated good luck

[davidkeithbecket]

The staying in control bit was interesting. I'm sure you meant her not allowing herself to become a total sheep or come across as easy, rather than you meaning her controlling the relationship right?

[xmakeuploverx13]

Good advice, thank yoou!:)

[MrJesusIsLord82]

@Tips4ChristansDatingWOW Great advice. It's this girl at church that i like an i kind of picked up on her doing these things i even let her know that i felt she was doing these things but she denied it. She came up to me an let me know that she didn't want me to think that she was unapproachable. So from what your telling me that this is the green light for her wanting to get know me as well???

[no1BIGT]

WHat about the people that are friends first?

[LyricsOfficial100]

thanks, great advice

[BluSUBsound]

such good advice

[wcshanice]

waw....

[Jesuslovesjr777]

I think a lot of stable mature young Christian singles like myself and some of my other friends just don't know how to do this Christian relationship thing...we're all 'waiting on God to send the right person" I think i know more about what NOT to do as a Christian when it comes to relationships than I do about what to do...so I guess I just do nothing = (

I keep praying that God sends me the right young lady but i realize I'm really shy and rather bury my head in my Bible which is a bit bad

[Jesuslovesjr777]

aww...I'm a single Christian guy and I loved this...wow...a Christian couple doing something like this is sooo awesome and very much needed...bless God...I just shared this with one of my Christian sisters = )

[05Godschild]

GREAT!! Very well put!!! (:

[Brena1971]

Thank you for this video.  I am a new subbie as of today. Will you both me making any new vids, they are very helpful.

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@Brena1971 definitely will be making more videos

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@Brena1971 there will definately be more videos so stay tuned

[catlover945]

I need your guys help.

I like this guy SO much! I think he might like me. I give him some things of mine. He did something for me too. All/most of his friends tell me he likes me. Also me and my friends were talking about him(how I like him) and he was right behind us. I think he heard what we were saying. After that he didn't really say anything to me. Does he like me? Do you think he knows I like him?

[Xxanichka18xX]

u guys r great! i have a question. i love God with all my heart and i like this guy that is also God fearing & at first i pretended like i didnt pay any attention to him then i kinda started smiling & talking to him (gradually) now we talk on facebook and he responds most of the time and when he doesnt he apologizes the next time we talk, my mom approves of him and i like him alot! i just dont know if i should wait for him to tell me if he likes me or if i should approach him.

[Xxanichka18xX]

i love your tips! u guys r great! i have a question. i love God with all my heart and i like this guy that is also God fearing & at first i pretended like i didnt pay any attention to him then i kinda started smiling & talking to him (gradually) now we talk on facebook and he responds most of the time and when he doesnt he apologizes the next time we talk, my mom approves of him and i like him alot! i just dont know if i should wait for him to tell me if he likes me or if i should approach him.

[Xxanichka18xX]

i love your tips! u guys r great! i have a question. i love God with all my heart and i like this guy that is also God fearing & at first i pretended like i didnt pay any attention to him then i kinda started smiling & talking to him (gradually) now we talk on facebook and he responds most of the time and when he doesnt he apologizes the next time we talk, my mom approves of him and i like him alot! i just dont know if i should wait for him to tell me if he likes me or if i should approach him.

[anatheangel]

The both of you are a cute, lovely, funny, Respectful, Great Role- Modeling Couple (: <3

[zheahra]

I just want to say. I didn't mean any disrespect. You two are a handsome christian married couple.

[zheahra]

You two make a handsome couple. So, true. Encourage the guy (that you like) to approach you. Sometimes women can be so beautiful, poised, or so confident 'till we forget to use our feminine touch. There is nothing wrong with that as long as the intent is wholesome. Breaking the ice is not that hard to do. It's important for the guy to be the one to initiate the date. Let him lead. Don't step out and take his place. Oh, and don't always have your friends around. Guys won't approach a group.

[PrincesseSj27]

Nice advice! It's so funny when some of our christian family get all stiff and over religious for nothing. We're talking about doing things above board and of course with the blessings of God. There is nothing carnal or conflicting about it! By the way you're wife so pretty!! God bless and keep going!

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@PrincesseSj27 Thank you for the positive comment, some people misunderstand the motive and heart behind this message, they think that its carnal and that God will just drop the man into your life. while God will bring the guy your attitude can still turn him away. the spiritual must be balanced with the physical and its nice to find people like you who understand that. You'd be amazed at the amount of critisism I get over this video, but your comments have encouraged me so thank you.

[mzpretti100]

this really helped me...guys have told me that i have a serious face and they get scared to approach me.. buy recently i've been smiling a lil more and gotten more guys come up to me. lol so i guess that was the problem in the beginning why i was easily approachable i guess lol

[xxDuttyCashxx]

I llove this thank you xxx

[PureHolySalted]

I'm confused... what is the benefit to playing hard to get? Isn't that games for the world to play since Christ isn't in the picture for them? (a sincere question)

[jen91100]

So helpful esp b/c I am at that stage where a guy is looking at me and I notice, I just don't know how to approach him and/or make him feel comfortable to approach me.Encouragement!

[MegaStargirl22]

beautiful couple.

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@MegaStargirl22 thank you

[ANOTHERHOLEINYOHEAD]

@MegaStargirl22 I agree they look very suited as a couple.

[starsplash9]

You two make an adorable couple :)

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@starsplash9 thank you, you're too sweet

[mariejoe5555]

awh ilove u guyss! hah

[goldisteps]

what if u DNT know if he likes u, but u like him, and wld like him to approach u..?

[druchinky]

How about staying before God and asking Him if this "guy" is for you. You don't want to pick up a counterfeit. Pray and don't let yourself start liking this person so much, so that if God says no this is not the man of God that i have for you, you won't be heart broken. PRAY DON'T FLIRT!!!

[Tips4ChristianDating]

@druchinky of course you must pray to make sure the person is Gods will for you but even then you still need to make yourself approachable. this isnt about flirting this is about letting a good guy know that it is okay for him to comr and talk to you especially if he is a very shy and reserved kind of person

[Tips4ChristianDating]

if he hasn't shown that he likes you then it will be really difficult to be sure that he really does like you. you cant be sure until he makes it known even if someone has told you that he likes you dont count on it until you have seen some signs or heard it from the horses mouth.

and I cant understand why a guy would play hard to get, he is the one that has to chase at the end of the day. He's either shy and nervous or thinks he's Gods gift to women.

[tifwit1]

Great video,Great video's in general how do you know if a guy just wants to be friends or wants to take it to the next how do you play it say in anycase?

[Tips4ChristianDating]

if a guy just wants to be friends then the way he will relate with you will be very casual. But if a guy is interested there will be obvious signals like he'll be looking at you all the time, or going the extra mile to get close to you and know more about you etc. but even when the signals are obvious, you still want to play it safe, give him enough to let him know its cool to chase but not too much so that he doesnt think you're easy. he still has to work for you

[Smiles15LovesJB]

@Tips4ChristianDating wow so true..ok so i like this guy at the store, and he always looks at me and always held eye contact for a while.......he"ll look for me at the store..or he"ll even look for my sight(get it?) ...even my parents say he does like me, that maybe his afraid of my parents or age, or his shy..but he has done nothing to approach me or even smile, what do i do???

[Smiles15LovesJB]

@Tips4ChristianDating ,( Continue)and now his in pharmacy inside the store.........i want to smile at him to give him the sign that im not rejecting him(since he doesnt smile i dnt smile) so he"ll be more comfortable and maybe he"ll losen up and finally come to approach me, should i just go for it or what do i do?? plz help:) thnks

[Tips4ChristianDating]

the next time you see him staring at you, give him a little smile, its okay to initiate the smile, but leave it at that. He still has to do the chasing, if you give him the signal and he doesn't make a move, he is either very shy or has a girlfriend already but thinks you're attractive

[Smiles15LovesJB]

wow thnks:D and dnt worry he doesnt have a girlfriend..so thats good lol:) i guess ill just give him the sign:) by smiling

[bebelovekri]

Gosh Paul is such a joker lol...I like this...I like this? But what if the guy is playing it just as hard as I am?? What if he likes me but he just doesnt show it at all? Does it mean he's not worth the trouble?