Body Language at Work by Peter Clayton

[kcssweetboy]

I have a question on hand shake. What are your thoughts about a body builder who lift heavy weights? When he shake hands he usually keep is very soft because he think he is not sure how much pressure is too much for a normal person...In that case do you think the point of view of the normal person change? so does it mean that there is different signs for body builders?? - thanks!

[EECoaching]

May I use this wonderful video in my classroom?

[121series]

@EECoaching . Yes you can. Let me know if I can help with answers. Best wishes Peter

[cristina44ification]

how i can download this video ?

[ritad426]

This is quite possibly the best explanation I've found on body language. However, I will comment that most of us have grown up with being told that strong eye contact (without looking psychotic) is good and portrays confidence. I believe at this point, people are more used to eye contact and many won't feel uncomfortable by it due to frequent experience.

However, I agree that you notice if someone is not used to it and seems intimidated. At this point it is a good to look away periodically.

[plopkiuj4]

thanks, very good stuff, at times we usually forget about what our bodies are saying, and it totally gives us away, thanks i'll be more sensitive to my clients...now

[frizenlf2]

not bad ~

[n0name123]

Thank you

[mturky]

Great video thank a lot

[3LEGIUN3]

HEY There, We was wondering over here about when you talked about Business; talking about or asking questions to see there normal BL then when you go into deeper matters you can tell and be prepared. Well The question is "Whats A Really Good way To Present a good close non-verbally i hear asking and silence, but as far as Your Ideas on that, over-all Would be helpful because of the way you explain and express it...

[121series]

Sorry for the delay, it's my first day back in the office. What you suggest makes a lot of sense and I'm writing a an explanation that I will put up on YouTube soon. I will offer a few different ideas that might help.

Best wishes -Peter

[HyperbirdF6]

Thanks a lot for this. Very helpful.

[aqha4me]

Super.

[connorandciaran]

Excellent video, I am just about to run a training session for a group of sales executives and this really does give me a great structure for the session. Thank you

[TheRaja1987]

You helped me in learning some new body languages. Thanks...

[fessit]

Good practical information.

[AndyofLee]

Another EXCELLENT video by Peter Clayton.  I have studied many aspects of body language in business over the years and can always rely on Peter to provide superb insights, hints and tips, all backed up by real life experience.

[Gladystuff]

very good

[FATKATKY]

THANK YOU

[Koetje1978]

General comment,

Now you know,because that's what i read at many different ways and it fit''s more to understanding each other to talk,but that have not always!

That''s why i clicked this good video on!

[antybuns]

Very clear and enlightening-thankyou for posting this.

[Marphale]

At last, a scientific reason as to why my housemate's ridiculous tendency to stand square on and stare when not even saying anything makes me dislike him so much, almost feel a bit aggressive towards him.

I wonder if something's not right about this guy. Once when I was coming home from work he laughed and said "I walked and I STILL got home before you!". I laughed back and said "What a loser". He actually followed me into my room and said "how does that make me a loser?". So irritating.

[scrapperdana]

Well done, good information and not just an advertisement for a book, like some of the other videos on here. Enjoyed it.

[TheCryptKeeper8]

I would just like to say thankyou for this presentation and also for the way it was presented. It was very clear and easy to follow. Best regards

[BloomBlanchard]

I've seen this guy live on stage and he's brilliant. Love the video.

[Rimber6]

Wow, this guy's voice is good for explaining things.

[eggywegs08]

That was very helpful, thank you.

[JenniferJDunn]

Better still, read Body Language at Work by Peter Clayton. Brilliant for business body language.

[JenniferJDunn]

Saw Peter in action live this week and learnt so much helpful stuff. And so entertaining. Brilliant.

[RoachPennington]

Very relevant to personal as well as business life. Enjoyed the video.

[JSilver409]

Enjoyed the video and already have the book. Good information to make use of.

[FrankieJohns]

I rely on bodylanguage a lot when interviewing candidates and the eyes and rapport mentioned here are very relevant. Good video.

[DePaulley]

Useful tips. Found the section on eyes very helpful. Will need to take note of where I stare in future.

[Deverauxknows]

Good intro to the subject. Tempted to learn more. Thanks.

[Squiggly19]

I tried the neutralising the dominant handsake idea and it worked. It spooks the recipient.

[Temper36]

I like the bit about the eyes. Very useful.

[BelBromwich]

This is really good stuff whether you want to improve your own body language, or if you want to adopt some tactics to get your own back on the people who intimidate you. I'm making my list of "victims" right now!

[ToeAKnee]

This is a really helpful video. I'm definitely using the "intimidating stare" on a few of my teachers at school!

Do you think that when people move their hands alot, they're covering something up?

Also most people can't look you in the eye when they're lying, my mom and dad do the opposite - they look directly into my eyes. Is that just a parent thing though?

Great vid!

[CarterJarvis]

This is the first bodylanguage video I've watched where you can actually make use of what it shows you. Others seem to be entertaining, but lacking in practical use. Looking forward to reading the book now.

[marksusie]

This is an excellent introduction to body language. Very helpful tips for enhancing daily interactions. I've been very impressed with other training material that I've seen of Peter's so I was particlarly pleased to find this clip. Well done!!

[chrisrkei]

read What Every BODY is saying by Joe Navarro, 2008. Really good book on body language, Ive read four diff books and this one is the best.

[FJDanesfield]

I've read quite a bit about bodylanguage and this is the first time I've found something really useful that explains how to make use of different signals.

[BeeStinger36]

Some good body language pointers here. I shall definitely be using the "intimidating stare" on a few people I know!

[121series]

The stare works for me!

[AndyofLee]

A very useful introduction to body language in work. I have already decided to subtly change my handshake, and will use this as a reference in the future. Thank you for sharing this.

[WorthingtonCol]

Most informative. He knows what he's talking about and you can make practical use of it straight away. Thanks.

[princessspecky]

Very helpful! I feel ready to take on the boss in the new year now!

[121series]

A pleasure. Get in touch if something needs for info