Dating Tips for Men : Dealing With Rejection in Meeting Women

[BlueRatchet8]

To prevent rejection when u go to a club stuff a sock down your crouch where lots of gold chains and unbutten your shirt and have a cheesy grin on your face and fart and belch often which is a very good mating retual. And talk about how awsome you are and interupt her often in mid sentence and talk about how fking awesome u are in bed!

[theguy717]

actually i wasn't listening...but you're welcome anyway.

[lawshorizon]

You won't get rejected if you pick up the interested or uninterested signals. People who are constanltly rejected must have no intuition. "Luke ... stretch out with your feelings!"

[ultimate133]

@lawshorizon some people lead other people on

[TheNonsubscribable]

They lie and tell you that other women will accept you when in reality your bound to be rejected, again and again, because your ugly, because you aren't making enough money, or because your just plain ugly.

[TheNonsubscribable]

I don't believe that its not my fault I think there really must be something wrong with me if Im rejected. I blame my genetics, maybe she saw me as inferior.

[souljaboiification]

im a girl and ive been rejected by so many guys, you know why? bc alot of men only want sex or want it to fast so when we catch on we run, when you meet a girl dont ask to go back to your place late at night for a movie, it gives off the vibe that you only want one thing, dont approach a woman who looks sleezy or super ficial either bc those types arent good either, go after women who are smart and indipendant that way you know they arent after money

[suchafool990]

@souljaboiification for real, how annoying is that? its like do you really need sex that often. same thing with food too, Im always asking myself do you really need to eat everyday?! like come on, why cant people eat every other, or every 3 days?

[souljaboiification]

@suchafool990 exactly, everything is good in moderation, too much junk food makes u feel sick, too much food makes u unhealthy depending on your metabolism, too much sex can be bad too, when u wait to have sex with someone you want to be with its so much better, if its with someone u met at the bar they could be married or in a relationship and you wouldnt know bc alot of ppl arent honest, when its with someone u know has been tested and is single its enjoyable.

[opendtuning]

with every guy that gets rejected,there is one more client for a prostitute!!!

[primerodimus1]

@iovitaavelina You got that right! I also believe that you can be rejected without even approaching a particular woman. You can tell right away that you are not her "type," and any attempt to break the ice with her will be futile.

[novaflo339]

i feel better already, jessop!

[boywonder0319]

If you want to avoid rejection, go the website Cherry Blossoms. It contains profiles from thousands of single women (mostly Asian) who are looking for husbands. I promise you won't get rejected by any of these women, but you might run across women who are fake or trying to use you for money, so you will have to be careful. But it's an awesome site.

[whatever798t]

@ywillburn hahahaha

[dualshock3]

easy for you to say.. for a woman its the complete opposite.

[RealTime88]

@MishuTaste she did say rejection will happen and you have to deal with it and move on. You can't be angry forever.

[f00tbol]

"Rejection is going to happen to you/me over, and over"....and over, and over, and over, and over....

yeah i'm not really good at this dating thing I guess :-\

[dageneral27]

IT'S CALLED THE DOOR! LOSERS LIKE ME BEEN SHOWN IT ALL THEIR LIVES

[dageneral27]

if a woman rejects you that means you're a loser.  take it from me

[123gwf]

I say: "Why are you being so picky? I'm not."

[TheIdog1]

@123gwf LOL



[lilchewyz]

I messed up my relationship, :'(

[blabblab1212]

She probably could cash that necklace in at the local scrap yard. Steel is close to $40 a ton at some places. Unfortunately someone punched a hole in it or she could have got more money. That is quite a bit of metal.........

[blabblab1212]

Jessica seems a little off in this video. Like she may have been having a bad day.

[TheCastellan]

Here's a problem, Jessica....I'm stuck in a small, rural , midwestern town......most of them are hidious, and we HAVE no clubs, and while there might be TONS of hotties in places like New York or LA, but here in the midwest, we got a lot less chicks.

[usernamekjah]

@TheCastellan I know you have that pull towards wanting a girlfriend, lover, one night stand whatever. Especially in small communities you feel closed in. Take it as an opportunity to better yourself don't settle for what happens to choose you. Fix you be it weight, confidence,or self image. Go out Fortune favors the Brave.

[JoeyMars1]

Sorry but your wrong here, If a girls out with her friend at a bar, then she is looking to meet a man if she wasn't up to it she wouldn't be out but rather at home reading a book.

[Dogondaji3]

it's good to learn and rejection is something you learn to live with and once you do it wouldn't matter cos it will pass nobody is perfect...

[pOeROsesyadig]

i think rejection and cheating go hand in hand

[FutureFameMusic]

i dont deal with rejection...its whatever...if they dont wanna they dont wanna..the fact is its better hearing no than going home thinking what if or i should have said this or that

[imnotinlove23]

CAN I ASK HER OUT!!!

[EpicNinjaGuy123]

My buddy got rejected Friday night, and I posted a link to this video on his Facebook. That's what friends are for, right?

[SYLVIERAUBde]

Get fun with beautiful Asian women  *lushfmlk.info*

[FranklinHenryBluth]

woman are like firecrackers fun at first but blow up in your face

[jinkss111]

guys, if you look like your approaching her like ur gonna attack her she will get scared and attack back, guys are always stronger in the exceptions of some,just smile and flirt

  and a   tell her shes beautiful ,and then let it go and see what happens.....good luck guys

[mrgees100peas]

I don't understand all the negative responses. Look at it this way, women get hit on many times when they go out. They can't say yes to every guy that approach them. Could you imagine the chaos that would cause. 1 guy approaches her and she says yes. 5 minutes later another guy comes up and she also says yes. Before you know it 20 guys would be fighting among each other and nobody would get anywhere. Also, something being rejected is a favor in disguise.

[xhemexx]

@jllaw416 The scary thing is, I sort of agree with you!! I mean it depends what the reason is for her rejecting you. But if it's shallow, then I sort of like your answer.

[FireMask2012]

There are many women out there--just ask Tiger Woods!

[hassanrizwan420ny]

@bangedtorights OMG....u make me laugh a loud

[iphoneguy2012]

@VHalen1984 and you have to pay and pay and pay ,you need a good job

[bdailey412]

@bangedtorights amen!

[Attila709]

So it may have nothing to do with the 300 zits on my face?

[gbilios]

@rddaos true

[blackasian1234]

@bangedtorights so true

[sociopathpsych]

@Ihatemyusernamemore i had a gf who dumped me for some dude who's 4 inches taller (he has height on me i'll give him that) 50 pounds heavier, long hair, nasty beard, nasty teeth, no job, no car, no cell phone, lived with mommy. I don't understand either.

[Ihatemyusernamemore]

@sociopathpsych It would be good if girls judged guys like guys judge girls, straight forward partly personality, partly looks, simple

[aleksiisteri1]

mitchwas. . .man, do you think that we live in 1700s, becouse thats what you sound like

[darkhorni]

This is not a help.

[whowantstogetnaked]

good advice on rejection.

[joshuadiesel]

you are so cute !!!

[HELLBIRD667]

@bangedtorights Very likely indeed.

[bqureshi21]

Hmm.. This didn't really help lol.

[gerardross2k9]

@VHalen1984 thats made my day

[avitech77]

I love Jessica Claire! She is so smart and intuitive and good looking at that.

[datingwomensex]

Great vid.

[Raspout1981]

But you cant really fake it with wemens, you cant lie to them they will eventually see you're foney and dump you, you just have to be attractive in order to be able to engage in any kind of dating that can lead to them falling in love with you, once that's done you're all set.

Do whatever it takes to boost confidence, whatever it takes, gym, dress nice, talk to as many wemens, make it so that you're comfortable around them, it will become a lot easier then.

Again, just my opinion

[Raspout1981]

That's just my personal opinion based on my life and things i hear wemens say at the office, and the choices they make. Also noticed an OBVIOUS difference in the way wemens act depending on how i dress, if i have that winter coat with fur around the hood ,jeans, they avoid my eyes , when i wear black wool trench coat and nice, clean pants, shoes and rolex replica, they stare at me and smile.

Some other guy's out there think otherwise because their experiences are different, its a personal thing

[McCaler]

You have got to be kidding me? They're into this type of non-sense?

[Raspout1981]

But that's only some of the wemens. Another bunch of them will fall in love with you if they get to know you, and then they wont absolutely want money cause they listen to their heart more then their head, unlike us, but they must get to know you, and they will NOT put time an effort to get to know you if they are not attracted to you, so you absolutely HAVE to attract them, and for that, you must play the game, just so that they will at least give themselves a chance to get to know you.

[richiekock]

best advise in just over one minute..

[260191894]

hahaha! Good one!

[Attila709]

If a girl doesn't feel like flirting or being hit on then the last place she should be is a bar or night club.

[McCaler]

Not only do I get rejected, I have met girls who don't even greet nor talk to me, but once they begin to date another guy, oh yeah! Then they might talk to you. Then I look at them & say,"Oh I get it, you wouldn't talk to me when you were single, but now you are with someone, NOW you are talking to me? Turn away from me for I knew you not." I sometimes hate girl the way they are.

[xhemexx]

@McCaler Don't worry those girls will grow up to one day become women hopefully and by the time they are 40 and 50 they will be everything a women should be and all that a man likes in a lady. SO just hang in there, people change, women will change as they get older!!

[primerodimus1]

@xhemexx In the words of the late Milton Berle, "Wrong! Wrong! Wrong!"

[xhemexx]

@primerodimus1 Explain how I'm wrong

[primerodimus1]

@xhemexx Because most women don't change. . .once a superficial bitch, always a superficial bitch. . .

[primerodimus1]

@xhemexx Here's a case in point. Most women go into dates or any other potentially romantic encounter looking for a reason not to like a guy. I know that I sound negative, but it's the truth. I've been fucked over time and time again and I'm sick of it. It's taken such an emotional toll on me over the years;as I get older, I know that time is slowly but surely running out. And my heart has always been in the right place because I look for reasons to like a woman.

[xhemexx]

@primerodimus1 Try to just force yourself on them and get some and then dump them to the curb lol jk

[primerodimus1]

@xhemexx In my case, it's either rejection, being lead on, or if by some miracle I do manage to win the girl's heart for a while, she eventually finds a way to hurt me and make my life worse than it already was before I met her.

[xhemexx]

@primerodimus1 Let mee guesse, you are bald, as that is the most obvious and by far the most common reason women reject men and hate them.If you are bald, then you should just quit and give up because no woman will find you attractive.

[primerodimus1]

@xhemexx Nope. You're dead wrong. And I'm actually well built and quite athletic. I'm a long-distance runner who can do at least 1000 push-ups all at once.

[Snake886]

@McCaler hey man I agree with you too I also get rejected alot and its at school mainly a Junior College where there are alot of hot girls but none of them seem to want to talk to me but I noticed that they would talk to other people and not me makes me wonder what girls are really thinking most of the time.

[primerodimus1]

@Snake886 I don't use drugs and alcohol to handle rejection. . .I punch holes in walls and hit myself in the head really hard. . .I also resort to strenuous exercise--10 mile runs in intense heat and humidity along with hundreds of push-ups. One time, I was so upset over this girl who had rejected me (I had been secretly in love with her for three years!) that I banged my head really hard against a concrete wall. Amazingly, I suffered no scars or bruises because my adrenaline was sky-high.

[BlondellTheWell]

@McCaler Hey! get in line!

[McCaler]

@BlondellTheWell We'll see first.

[friedrichsalzmann]

Great, wise thought!

[taepodong1101]

Go for it, she probably wont reject you :D

[TheUglyTreePictures]

And if she does there are 19 more you would have a better chance with, lol.

[FlankerVT]

@taepodong1101

aiming low is the wrong way to go my friend.

[vampin6]

The only bad thing is if you get rejected by one girl in a club none of the girls will talk to you after that. You might as well go to a different club. But you wont learn if you leave.

[n8iveidiot13]

lol well if you leave thinking none of the girls will accept you after one rejection without even trying is just ridiculous in my honest opinion...

[vampin6]

It is but I have tried it. They all stare at you and if you get dissed they all see it. It does take guts to keep going, I keep going only because I like the place Im already at and there is a good possability with all thats going on in the club, nobody seen me get dissed. but if your at a bar or something and I get strait up ignored, I leave.

[Raspout1981]

That is because you lack confidence, you should not care ! You should even laugh at it ! It would display confidence and wemens like that.

Just spot one, make a genuine compliment to her, smile, then LEAVE HER ! Repeat 25 times, some of them are gonna come back. Jessica Claire said it in a video, then you dont have to be scared of getting dissed since you're not approaching them, your just "noticing" something nice on them, compliment them on what they obviously have putted an effort on !

[vampin6]

Yes I do this...Thanks for the input lauph it of and keep going. Like a grain of salt.

[pardonmygenie]

Lol! What a shallow view of rejection! Being turned down in a club is not nice but it's basic sex attraction & you get over it fairly quickly. If you really care about someone & want to be serious then rejection in those circumstances is something you never really get used to. People like that don't appear in your life very often so it's always a big shock when it happens. Huge differences.

[counicon]

you said it

[EvilDOOER]

Dating is like baseball.... You fail more then you make contact...

[nottypanda1]

She would know... Obviously an expert on rejection if she thinks she's got your answer.

[Rolo555]

Chris Rock Classic!!!

[PSTRIPPLEE]

Looool man you for real u no what time it is hahaahha. just be pateint there another one right there haha

[MisterCool]

Don't kid yourself. Rejection never feels good. If you put in the effort to approach a girl you are into only to get shot down, you are going to feel like crap. There goes the night. But then you leave the club, get some late night eating, watch some tube and go to sleep. You wake up, see the bright sun, and another day has begun.

[erictbrown1]

This is great advice I learned this very early thank goodness.

[bayernmuenchen49]

i worked as a telemarketer for a long time in high school. it makes you pretty numb to rejection.

[dchokee]

...You realize that the critic couldn't have POSSIBLY made an accurate judgment on whole movie based on a single clip (which may've required more info to fully appreciate).

When a girl "rejects you" at a bar, she's basing her judgment on 30 seconds of a movie YEARS long! (i.e. your whole life) She's not rejecting YOU as a person but your APPROACH. So dont feel compelled to read a self help book, just polish up ur approach and practice, practice, practice.

Cheers.

[dchokee]

haha I hear you. this is a great way to think about "rejection" as explained to me by a buddy of mine:

Imagine you read a movie review in which the critic summarized, analyzed and rated the movie as extremely poor. The script was poorly written, the characters were uninteresting and the scenes were boring. As a result, you've decided that this movie isn't worth seeing...

... until you reach the final line: turns out this critic based his review on only 30 seconds of the 2hr movie!...

[RockandRoller918]

Yes grey my mate follows your Line of thinking with women but it has cost him a Hell of a lot of Money in Hookers over the years.You feel down when a Women rejects you but the next day you should fell Better.If you like a Lady then Have go at chatting her up if she gives you the Brush off then theirs Plenty more fish in the sea.

[valu777]

Dont be fooled, there is GOD and he is close to you. have you ever looked for him? prayed to him. asked him if he is real. realy tried with all your heart to find him. oh what an adventure. what a quest. what a privlage to seek the creator of the universe. We being just a speck of dust in the universe nothing any different to an animial. Just worthless meat that adds up to nothing yes we can find GOD. We must seek him. try it & take the narrow road to LIFE.

[260191894]

Besides, men aged better than women, haven't you noticed? I mean, a 50 year-old man can look great if he works out a bit, eat well and dress well. Usually, his face will have kept its original traits. But a 50 year-old woman, she thrives to stay thin, dresses too young cause she still wants to feel attractive, and puts lots of makeup to cover whrinkles. Go figure... Hence, what goes around comes around.

[pivotwarhero]

haha yeah, i do that all the time XD

[preetysunny]

what if you wants to be accepted by only one women and she Rejection you.should i still blame my self or not.

[M6dEEp]

Wow i cant believe this. If you're rejected it IS something you did, what else would it be? Something GENETIC? I would much rather be rejected because of something i did. Also, if you do the seductions correctly she will be interested in you before it reaches the point of being rejected.

[ssnake11]

very true.. haha..

[ThanosAnim]

Totally agree with rainbow. The trick is to feel that you are the "award" not her.If someone feels the opposite he's already lost the game.

[MrMikeBig]

Remember the magic word... NEXT

[jambrandon531]

women know men dont take rejection well thats why they do it in a cold way i dont think thats call for

[MysteryManoLove]

Nice vid!

[vincent4500]

"After 80 years experience, I've learnt that honesty is the best policy, and when you can fake that you're in!!" George Burns..the more i live the more i've realised that as i said before - be yourself , that is unless you suck and then learn to present yourself differently, or you'll always be going home from clubs/bars etc..alone nasaguy..the only guys who should be themselves in dating scenarios are those who are rich, very hilarious, or just got an amazing life/personality ..otherwise lie!!

[vincent4500]

women never, if rarely take the 'risks' in relation to dating, so it's easy for them to say don't worry about it and move on..research has shown men respond to romantic rejection 4 times worse than women!! because men have to risk themselves/their ego 150 (!) times in one dating situation..women just are along for t he ride and if they're attractive usually have 10 guys after them in one week..men suffer much worse than women in these parts of the dating game.

[nasaguy]

Ah, but what she said is totally true ... you WILL get rejected multiple times, so you DO need to be able to get used to it or it will paralyze you. She's just delivering the hard truth.

[barrydope]

Hard truth indeed! Just remember beyond the MOUNTAIN of rejection is an even bigger MOUNTAIN of resentment.

[orazalinz]

true story;-) But, relax guys... Jessica is just trying to make some money with that small video-tips;)

[Aspartamebraintumor]

I'd imagine it must get tiring for Jessica to constantly introduce who she is and what she does as a forth write to these videos.

[vincent4500]

As a friend said to me the answer to getting women is simply to be yourself, that is unless you suck..

[nasaguy]

Heh, true! But no matter what your real self is like, you should still be yourself because trying to be something you are not won't work either - at least not for long. So you might as well be yourself.

[vincent4500]

There is some merit in being truth if you're after a long term relationship but I have things i cant be honest about, if i am im blown out straight away, so life taught me that by being dishnonest at least i get my foot in the door..don't lie about everything but somethings have to cahnged as in a job interview.. "Honesty is the best policy and when you can fake that - your'e in!"..George Burns..

[777appleguy]

More good insight !