Friendships & Relationships : How to Be Popular in School

[livandlyssforever223]

Being urself does matter but also u have to good at everything ! I hate it ! not trying to brag but being popular is hard work !

[SoRandom98]

at my school, it's funny if you make yourself the center of attention, if you show off, it's funnier, and being yourself is being crazy.

[kaykay160033]

I think that you have made an awesome point .. Sometimes I forget who I am because of society and the people around us pushing us to be something we are not . I agree with you 100 % and girls it doesn't matter what size you are or what you look like . God made us all special and he loves every one of us :) we don't have to be popular because the rite people will love you for who you really are . Love y'all :) and thanks for the video

[purpleglitterilove]

@TheXboxSmartass hahaha

[Hoppybird6CP]

In our school, it's tough to be a popular girl. You have to have the hottest clothes, prettiest hair, perfect nails, cutest shoes, trendiest accessories, perfect grades, high up in the social ladder, girly, mature, a diva, be great at something, be organized, be an alpha, and the atitude. I am sort of popular, and it's fun sometimes, but a pain at other times.

[TheSkinkaSarado]

@Daxter609 don't forget to use stylish sunglasses when driving(or walking)back home

[xoxoamberlovexoxo]

it dosen't matter if u be ur self. you have to be pretty or hansome and do stupid stuff

[owzzer9]

I don't think this works nowadays...

[Jlylleoquendo]

its true just be yourself u dont need a laptop or an ipod to be popular u just need to be yourself

[Babyyromrom]

Thats not how it work /:

Nowadays people like girls in school for thier Pretty ness :(

[CatieKersley]

holy crap, i just noticed you can move the words, just click and hold and then move around, either thats a new thing, or im just slow

[OdiumGames]

Do not assume that nerds and geeks want to be "converted" into "popular" people. Despite common misconception, nerds and geeks do not worship the popular, nor are they frightened by those who are seemingly popular. In fact, there may even be pity for the popular person's shallow lifestyle.

[MrFearless365]

@cIrCuSsTaRz dude i hear you



[1blueshe]

thats not how it works you cant be your self . at my school the peaple who are there self are nerds and peaple try so hard to be what thhere not

[gatrux]

@Maandolin  so why are you looking at this??

th title says "Friendships & Relationships"

"How to Be Popular in School"

[gatrux]

she looks like she lives in a disney world

[gatrux]

she lloks like she lives in a disney world

[Lolaflou]

I am one of the most popular girls at school , the diva one...Everybody excpects of me to be perfect.

But if you believe it or not , I used to be a nerd at my old sxhool ...

This song reminds me of the days I didn't care if my nails were light pink or dark :(

[HeyItsKrisProduction]

@Lolaflou A Coward Because You Aren't Happy With Your True Life And Won't Be Happy While You Grow Up Because You Have To Act Like A BARBIE And You Can't Just Be Yourself Anymore

[biker666girl]

@cIrCuSsTaRz i agree

[xxN00Rxx]

hunny we're not living in a disney movie .. being myself would get me in alot of troubles !

[lullabybear21]

@christinesradxx haha its funny how you steryiotype.

[lullabybear21]

@Puteri1995 me too. im one of the nice people(:

[basbas63]

everyone wants to be popular so that means i want to be popular i don't wat to be because i have some good friends and 3-4 really good friends is better than 20+ FAKE friends

[lullabybear21]

@basbas63 not every popular girl has fake friends, if there truley popular, then they have alot of friends, but 5-6 best friends.

[basbas63]

@lullabybear21 from what i see some have the most don't

[lullabybear21]

@basbas63 well some people try to be fake just so they can hang out with the popular girls, but usualy we catch on and were not friends with them, because we know theyre just being fake.

[PrettyNails13]

Rite, i'm starting high school soon and I think that whoeva is popular will b lyk the people in the movies. Parting every1 like the red sea or wateva... I think they've got role models like that from the films n stuff.

[lullabybear21]

@PrettyNails13 the films have it wacked up. popular girls are pretty, but theyre also nice, dont start drama, and are friendly to everyone.

[hodg1fesoreto]

Love this Video

[MoRGYshow]

in order to b popular at my school u have to b a robot to b in the group cuz there is one leader. and she is sooo ugly but everyone thinks she is the most gorgeous girl in school. my school is not right. and all of the pop. girls have crappy grades and the only reason they go to school is to b popular and to get the most friends. this one girl called me weird even when she has never given me a chance. idk wat to do

[lullabybear21]

@MoRGYshow make your own group of friends, and be yourself, but still be pretty and cute, and it wont matter what the ugly robot girl thinks.

[torriesoccerdx]

Ur so calming thnx i love u.

[shockingpink100]

in my school, all the girls who act as if they are snobby and popular , are rude, blank u if u arent in their clique and are practically fakers cos they all act the same....this video only teaches u how to be a good person in skl...

[shockingpink100]

@cIrCuSsTaRz especially in the western world we live in

[jmdkdunlap]

srry, donna, but thats not how it works in this generation

[TheXboxSmartass]

@jmdkdunlap Or any generation...

[Twilightnewmoon66]

I am waaaay popular at school.........not 2 brag but like....IDK i thought i was shy and stupid but i guess not.......maybe every1 sees me diferently.....

[safiagirl]

popural girls always say hi to me maybe it coz im birtish i guess but im very shy and these new girls in my new school they seem like they don't have one freind it hard to make freinds in the midde of the yeaer but i made sooo many im not popural im jsut very well known by everyone i guess good thing im from over seas

[bearber98]

how wold u know if ur not a kid or a teen

[sunshinehoda519]

....its not all about being popluar, have funn with ur life u can never rewind it!!! lol @ my school we watched a video on girl fights and it said that when girls gossip about other girls they r jealous, and they r so lost inside that they try to be "perfect"

[Jazzermole]

Just like our school :/

[OMGitsCODYISBOMB]

o so thats why you dye your hair

[decvar]

what if the real you is boring and totally a nerd.

how can by being yourself will be popular???

[sweetreat77]

@decvar well u still have to be nice. try to think outside the box by meeting new people!

[lotty1112]

Thing is, this video....really isn't true.

But if you do make some serious effort at your apperance (or whatever is bothering you) then popularity will most likely increase...

Unless you have like, two noses....

[synthmusic]

What if people do not like the real you? Some people are not good at making friends.

[ThoruTao]

If you are a guy this video will help you, because girls like nice guys, who are smiling to everyone.

I am a girl. My situaction is really hard. I'm always myself and I'm nice to my school-friends, but this doesn't work :/ If I has been a seper beautiful woman, I would have got a tons of people around me. So... this doesn't work... make better video

[TheObliviousBlackout]

I do not rate popularity:

"A friend to all is a friend to none" ~ Aristotle

[akdj7221]

speak english

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[NeutralArtist94]

like in my high school out of all of the guys i'm the only one that isn't a perv cuz i was raised to be a gentleman. now, I want to be accepted by the girls. like i want them to be calling me up, wanting to hang out and stuff. so can you have a solution to my problem?

[jamezvice2009]

the number 1 key to being popular in school is to be nice to everyone

[KittyPoW3R]

i cant get popular im too chicken too talk to new comers =\ any advice? will be ever so thankful

[tempest19922508]

hey, its not about beeing popular in school or in whatever, its about being a good person, most teenagers are getting popular by beeing rude and just stupid.

So be helpfull, dont judge others, and just say "hi do you want me to show you around the school?" to new comers! Hopes this helps!

[residentevil5fan18]

yea im in high school its hard 2 be pouplar cuz theres so many people Jus talk 2 whoever u want first thing to say is hi whats ur name then jus start talking 2 him about whatever u want

[akdj7221]

wow i hate this video yall white women always tryna bash black men

[cowfluf7]

aww im sorry :(

[jaylin163]

that is not how it is in my schoo. idk where you're from, but most of schools i've been its always the peace-makers and out-going nice ones that are popular.

[jaylin163]

cuz thats just the bullies at the school being stupid :P

[dogman2223]

Wow like at 2:00 is pretty much so untrue

[ragdollrockandroll]

She is right be yourself ..

But .. In some school's ..

Population is diffrent.

So..

Pff!! Who need's to be popular?

The.. hot cheerleader?

We can be ourself's..

There's no such word as popular ..

But there is a such word of unique =)

[CHARLOTTExR0S3]

Popular means having a lot of friends..

[jaylin163]

and having a lot of friends means being nice to everyone :)

[CHARLOTTExR0S3]

Not necessarily.

[jaylin163]

HA. the popular cheerleader stuff is in movies, its not like that in real life. well...in most schools i know its not like that.

[RebekahManer]

im not tough, and im popular. i don't see how its so hard to be social.

[namelesslove21]

if that was the case you wouldn't be watching this i chanced onit so because this is a bunch of crap im gonna leave

[ThePopularZone]

clCuSsTaRz youre right thats how they are now in days and its really hard for us people to be so social and you see girls preppying up there hair and everything whats up with that i mean girls like that they say stuff stupid like "Oh i run my school." thats so unnessary these days they watch to much movies like "Mean Girls" see Rachel McAdams as the person Regina acts popular.

[jakeybepimpin313]

be as nice as you can and as freindly as you can! (: haha

[7itha]

w0W ! the worst with mine ... including everything u said they also judge people and mean and everything

[princessnicoleparis]

I Dont Think So It's true....

[andreab133]

ok ppl, i know that it's not easy going through jr.high & high school cuz this year, i'm gonna be in the tenth grade!

but searously, just be nice, bot don't be a pushover. stand up for what YOU think is right, and ppl will respect u more.

and DO NOT take into peer-pressure!

[iEclipsexx]

Same with mine. :( It seems so unfair..

[abc908ej]

Being yourself is not warming to others if you are mean or a freak.!!!

lol

[91BROWNIE91]

lol

[blakeada999]

School can be full of mean people. Understand people's interests--never assume they're compatible with yours (so don't depend on people unless their reasons for helping you or being a your friend make sense). Listen to people: wait to respond--never wait to talk (this helps u learn&act appropriately). U have to be comfortable, willing & able to have fun on your own if need be. People depend on the creative ones 4 solutions/fun--so if your heart/mind is free, you will always have friends/value.

[HippieGrl122]

this is scarier than M.J

[sunheart72]

my mom went over that today by embarrsing me

[mirandamello]

kool

[iHateEmilio]

i think you shouldn't be too nice.. ppl will take adventage of you its okay to be a little asertive.. and prevent urself from being a pushover

[terrific012]

actually they talk about u more if ur mean but if ur nice then every 1 will like u i know cus im like tht

[FAP5v]

guess what, you gotta be mean to survive at my school. if you are nice all the time, then people will barrow your stuff forever when they say they ll give it back, thell make you do stuff, and they will get you in trouble

[terrific012]

thats what is happening to me they dont get me in trouble but like they borrow my stuff n never give iot back also im not like full english cause im 1/4 american n 1/4 hungarian n 1/2 british n they always take the mic like this boy called harvey what should i9 say??? please help me

[blakeada999]

School can be full of mean people. Understand people's interests--never assume they're compatible with yours (so don't depend on people unless their reasons for helping you or being a your friend make sense). Listen to people: wait to respond--never wait to talk (this helps u learn&act appropriately). U have to be comfortable, willing & able to have fun on your own if need be. People depend on the creative ones 4 solutions/fun--so if your heart/mind is free, you will always have friends/value.

[cindyngo2008]

its better to be popular plus get a date wait youll never get one with that look

[terrific012]

stop being soo mean

[ArianaCarlson]

i tried to be really nice to people, and other people just said that i was doing that to be a teachers pet, and stuff like that.. so i tried to be cool, not goth or anything but just cooler and everything, so i like got beat up after school and stuff, but when i was nice and everything i was no longer beat up, so being nicer really helps u show ur popularity, thank u!!

[LilMissDancer313]

Im always a nice,and opend hearted person, but my friend bullies others, and I don't know if i should wreck our relationship, or still be friends. Can you help me with that?

[DarthBlade2008]

dump her as a friend

[rockstar55519]

Best thing to do is to tell her to stop bullying others, stand up for the person being bullied.

[andreab133]

stand-up for what YOU think is right. if your friend is bullying others, and if they think that's cool, then the're not. so sorry to say that, but bullying is NOT COOL.

but u need to talk to ur friend, and ask him/her why he's being so violent. whatever you do, don't let go of your friend if you really want to keep him/her. comfort them, and talk to them about their problems, and i guranteee everything will be okay :).