I agree that young people in young relationships should leave if they're cheated on. It's a very bad sign for the future and reflects poorly on the cheater's judgment and commitment.
But in a mature relationship, with years of marriage, with children, with expectations of growing old together, the circumstances should be considered. At this point, cheating doesn't always mean an absence of love or commitment. It could be because of unmet needs.
At 3:30 When Abiola Asked That Couple Was There Any Infidelity, I Think That Lady Was Lying Because She Was Scratching Her Face While Answering The Question LOL.
I think it was ugly how you dismissed ROMI when he explained why he's not in a relationship. He said it's because he's unstable within himself so he doesn't want to put anyone through that. He actually gave the most sincere answer out of all the interviews because he didn't just give a blatant YES or NO. If everyone was this HONEST with themselves, cheating wouldn't be such an epidemic.
ok.. speaking as someone who has cheated and been cheated on.. try to give another chance if it doesn't work then its time to move on.. sometimes love is stronger than anything else.. people make mistakes.. thats what makes us human.
@SuperAngel1811 people make mistake my ass,a cheater is a cheater,they will cheat again plus it will never be the same,don't fool ur self it is easier 4 a women 2 cheat,she was drunk and,so many excuse doesn't matter don't fool ur self!
No, they should not stay. They should forgive the person who cheated for being a human being, and move on. If a person goes back than that means that person love being cheated on. Or should I say, that person is stupid.
they say you need a 1000 lies to cover 1 lie...meaning a cheater will always be a cheater, no matter WHAT. So no, it is IMPOSSIBLE, to forgive a cheater...
If i had a 19 year marriage can got cheated on i still would leave, another day can be a new beginning and more fish in the sea no matter what age you are.
once a cheater always a cheater is just plain unrealistic,people for cheat for many many reasons and although i believe it is basically done out of selfishness it is not realistic to think that a person will forever be bound to commit infidelity
Hey Gurl.... we forgave each other I let God have his way... We stop being selfish and going on 30 years together.... It gets better with age.... The secret if you let it... It does get better... True love do not keep score on who did what... Let God help heal the relationship.... Love you!
it also depends on if s in a marriage or in a relationship..if its a relationship its a hell no for me he's gone but if we are married???first off im catholic divorce is not an option for me will never be and its part of the for better for worse...i think cheating on anyone is the worst thing to possibly do to anybody but then for me divorce doesnt solve anything
my parents have been married 35 years and let me tell u something abiola...they still hold hands!!il tell u at one poimt it was very very difficult for my mum but they key for me is divine intervention...just letting God take control cuz i believe men to me ALWAYS ALWAYS CHEATthey either try it out and stop or just keep going and get so caught up in it it starts looking normal to them....i believe in second chances
You did such a great job and I can't believe how you can get so many people to talk about these crazy topics. I love the editing, absolutely brilliant, especially when the clock popped up for the guy who couldn't give a straight answer.
dont put up with anyone's BS for too long..chances are if you give that person another chance based on how many times he or she has cheated then theyll take advantage of it and cheat even more.
i would dump the moment i find out, i hate CHEATERS! more than murders!
juki0h 5 months ago 3
It depends on so many things.
I agree that young people in young relationships should leave if they're cheated on. It's a very bad sign for the future and reflects poorly on the cheater's judgment and commitment.
But in a mature relationship, with years of marriage, with children, with expectations of growing old together, the circumstances should be considered. At this point, cheating doesn't always mean an absence of love or commitment. It could be because of unmet needs.
EyeLean5280 6 months ago
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OhOhSheeiila 6 months ago
@OhOhSheeiila - Dump him.
EyeLean5280 6 months ago
At 3:30 When Abiola Asked That Couple Was There Any Infidelity, I Think That Lady Was Lying Because She Was Scratching Her Face While Answering The Question LOL.
SuperJayZFan1 11 months ago
@SuperJayZFan1 Scratching is what they call a "tell." Are you a detective?! lol :-)
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PlanetAbiola 10 months ago
I think it was ugly how you dismissed ROMI when he explained why he's not in a relationship. He said it's because he's unstable within himself so he doesn't want to put anyone through that. He actually gave the most sincere answer out of all the interviews because he didn't just give a blatant YES or NO. If everyone was this HONEST with themselves, cheating wouldn't be such an epidemic.
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no never 4 give a cheater it will nvr be the same,i have a question 4 u guys which one u think is worst,cheating or restrain order?please be honest!
solomonpilot767 1 year ago
ok.. speaking as someone who has cheated and been cheated on.. try to give another chance if it doesn't work then its time to move on.. sometimes love is stronger than anything else.. people make mistakes.. thats what makes us human.
SuperAngel1811 1 year ago
@SuperAngel1811 people make mistake my ass,a cheater is a cheater,they will cheat again plus it will never be the same,don't fool ur self it is easier 4 a women 2 cheat,she was drunk and,so many excuse doesn't matter don't fool ur self!
solomonpilot767 1 year ago
@solomonpilot767 i respect your opinion :) but it really depends on the person.. it will never be the same but MAYBE just maybe it will be better.
SuperAngel1811 1 year ago
If you're married I think 1 chance should be given but no more
sunnyknoles 1 year ago
Ben & Brenda were lying!!! You could tell watch the body language. When the got asked that questions Brenda starts scrathing her eye...hmmm hmmm
sunnyknoles 1 year ago
No, they should not stay. They should forgive the person who cheated for being a human being, and move on. If a person goes back than that means that person love being cheated on. Or should I say, that person is stupid.
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they say you need a 1000 lies to cover 1 lie...meaning a cheater will always be a cheater, no matter WHAT. So no, it is IMPOSSIBLE, to forgive a cheater...
humansareevil100 2 years ago
If i had a 19 year marriage can got cheated on i still would leave, another day can be a new beginning and more fish in the sea no matter what age you are.
DominicanBlackBoi 2 years ago
once a cheater always a cheater is just plain unrealistic,people for cheat for many many reasons and although i believe it is basically done out of selfishness it is not realistic to think that a person will forever be bound to commit infidelity
Rooseveltdunn 2 years ago
Hey Gurl.... we forgave each other I let God have his way... We stop being selfish and going on 30 years together.... It gets better with age.... The secret if you let it... It does get better... True love do not keep score on who did what... Let God help heal the relationship.... Love you!
DivaJacobs313 2 years ago
girl, you are working that video! I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your format! Damn it girl, now I gotta step up my game!
nando1635 2 years ago
great segment segment, u neva bore me, keep it up gurl!!!!!!!!!11
RealGurl920 2 years ago
This was a sweet segment! People had great responses, and the editing was dope too. Keep putting in work.
dwayneneckles 2 years ago
Girl, my aunt and uncle just celebrated their 52nd wedding anniversary ! They got married after dating for 2 weeks!
To me once a cheater always a cheater, I don't think I could forgive him, I'd always think in the back of my mind, is he cheating on me again ?
LMAO @ the illegal marriage HAHAHAHA
hourglas39 2 years ago
There are way too many choices in NYC...but i do agree..NO CHEATING ALLOWED,
Artsamust 2 years ago
if you are married most deff try and work it out if not then its up to u if u think it worth it
giggles682004 2 years ago
it also depends on if s in a marriage or in a relationship..if its a relationship its a hell no for me he's gone but if we are married???first off im catholic divorce is not an option for me will never be and its part of the for better for worse...i think cheating on anyone is the worst thing to possibly do to anybody but then for me divorce doesnt solve anything
8701bigfan 2 years ago
HELL NO! Drop them like a bad habit.
Cheaters are trash. If you vow to love someone and then do something that horrible.....you are scum.
buckinray18 2 years ago
my parents have been married 35 years and let me tell u something abiola...they still hold hands!!il tell u at one poimt it was very very difficult for my mum but they key for me is divine intervention...just letting God take control cuz i believe men to me ALWAYS ALWAYS CHEATthey either try it out and stop or just keep going and get so caught up in it it starts looking normal to them....i believe in second chances
8701bigfan 2 years ago
Love this show! Go head Abiola
LadiiOri 2 years ago
You did such a great job and I can't believe how you can get so many people to talk about these crazy topics. I love the editing, absolutely brilliant, especially when the clock popped up for the guy who couldn't give a straight answer.
LuvemOrLeavem 2 years ago
YOOOO Karryn is really fun...girl you cant just say those kind of things...lol
Artsamust 2 years ago
dont put up with anyone's BS for too long..chances are if you give that person another chance based on how many times he or she has cheated then theyll take advantage of it and cheat even more.
TerrenceTV 2 years ago
Kudos to Ben & Brenda!!! Yay and congrats! :0)
bollytwazzi 2 years ago
Weren't Ben and Brenda inspiring??? Thanks for commenting.
PlanetAbiola 2 years ago
go because if they can do it once they can do it again
rosebud1985 2 years ago
YES! xoxox
PlanetAbiola 2 years ago