The main thing about wmen with kids and multiple babby daddies is that it shows how irresponsible and dumb many women really are. Why do women keep on being pressed to hve unprotectd sex with multiple ppl. They get STD'S often and chicks till wanna keep fucking guys raw cause it feels better to them. Also theese females are bringing kids into this worldin fucked up situations. Theese chics don't even be liking most of the dudes they get pregnant by and most of theese kids today are accidents.
I have the solution. If you men just married the females you got pregnant, you wouldn't have to worry about not dating 'unwanted' women. And if you don't want to marry them, then you shouldn't have gotten them pregnant.
@Sandbar136 the problem is not all baby mamas are WIFE material. thats why most of them don't get married. and yes i do think men and women should be more responsible. but at the end of the day just because you have a baby by someone it doesn't mean you SUPPOSED to be with them. i had to learn that the hard way. this isn't the 50's, 60's or 70's. women are completely different now.
Oh here's my favorite one, when you look at a chicks profile on a dating site and they've answered the question of "do you have kids" with "I'll tell you later." Every time I saw that I would fall out of my chair laughing...either you have children or you don't. I'll tell you later....shiiiiiiiiit.
Test you alright man. At least you deal in reality and recognize the fact that some women might not want to date you because you have a child. Some of these chicks should adopt your mode of thinking, it might help them find a more suitable mate in the long run.
Awww man this vid is spot on. I don't date women with children period point blank. I once was even told "I can't believe there's still men like you in the world" when I canceled a date upon finding out the chick had a kid (yes she was black unfortunately). I use to mess with some of these popular dating sites a lot and always find my choices dropping dramatically when I click the "no kids" box.
@testizel Real talk champ ur Description box it hit it right on the nogging, & any Black & hispanic or woman of color got a damn kid it's fucking CRAZY! The 1's dat are fucking up the game are the Raw-Dawg-Maniac's REal fucking Talk. It's like i have 2wait 4 the next generation 2pull in 2be legal. All this single mothers are gettin dick down crazy! The Game has seriously Shifted & it's not pretty. It's a BIG MILF FESTED #Hit a brother Subcribe button champ 1luv.
mother and baby clinic its not just blacks but hispanics have children at an early age too and they have a lot of them .. the difference is that hispanics will do menal jobs to survive and they are willing to do manuel labour just check any "Home Depot " store and see them standing outside , waiting to be hired.. and they are very family orientated so you see them as family units rather than just single mothers with babies from different men.
men and women need to stop making babies with everyone they sleep with! Parenting isnt for everyone, and its a damn shame that an idiot makes a baby with an idiot, hence creates an idiot child..lol the world doesnt need anymore.
@blkandproud1 i dont understand this thing either , americans have access to infrastracture , education, facilities and should be using them instead of this "baby momma" mentality . its quite alarming when you have fourteen yr olds with babies and its not considered strange .
What really bothers me is when men and women, try to seek relations with other people when, they have a kid(s) are like 1, 2, 3 yrs old...wtf??? the kid was just born damn.. To me that shit looks bad...
Hey testizel youve never mentioned if you date black girls because its your preference or because you find them easier to get. I mean if a white girl or asian girl was interested would you go for it?
Im just the opposite. I won't date black or mexican chicks. Im strictly asian and white. Asian is my ultimate preference though. I almost can't even get a hardon now to any other race. Once youve fucked a bunch of korean and japanese and fillipina whores you won't want anything less! LOL
Im glad not everyone likes asian girls. In fact I wish no one did. They I would have an actual chance to pound that pussy. Asians are a rare commodity though and they know it.
@testizel when africans come to live in the usa they also see this baby making culture and dont understand it at all, we are all about education and progress and when we distance ourselves from this behavour you are offended.. its because we dont want our children having kids at fourteen its not normal to be a mother at fourteen fifteen and sixteen . and i have seen this in america i have seen your baby mommas , and that was many yrs ago visiting a friend and seeing young hispanics in the
@testizel why do you keep calling yourself "niggas" ? why cant you replace that slave term with something more dignified ?. you need to move on from this its not progressive at all. its a very demeaning term very degrading you can do better than this and keeping it in your zietgiest is confirming what white america has loaded onto you ...dreadful term.
@aitan844 I know...lol! It would be like whites calling each other 'Honky's' and telling to other races not to say it. Or making them refer to it as the "H" word. LMAO!
@Sandbar136 i still dont understand why american blacks cling to this useless term as a "type of endearment" when there are so many other discriptive words in the english language to choose from.. its not nice at all.
I don't have kids but It goes both ways.. when i was single I assumed every man had a child or a few children which many of them did. It was hard out there trying to find a man that didn't have a baby mama(s). So what are the single women to do? I feel sorry for them lol todays dating pool is horrible.. but luckily I found a man that didn't have any kids or drama
@testizel men and niggas are two different things I never dated a NIGGA and I wasn't dating men from the HOOD thank you... would it be fair for me to assume that you dated women from the HOOD no. Don't try and tell me what kind of men I was dating I only dated 2 men in my life (they didn't have kids) before my fiancee. The men I ran into before my fiancee first question I ask do you have kids they say yes I move on simple as that I didn't entertain them or lead them on.
@Boraven190 nice way to TRY and reverse everything i said. funny. like i said before in a previous comment. its EASIER for a woman to find a MAN without kids then it is for a man to find a WOMAN without kids. go ahead and try to reverse that too
@testizel Reverse everything you said? No. I not only agreed with you, I expanded on your argument to include the other side of the same issue. I just pointed out that YOUR actions have contributed to the problem YOU'RE complaining about.
You had a child with a woman and you two are not married. You made a baby mama.
As for it being easier for a woman to find a man without kids - Well yes, there are more black women than black men in America. Of course it would be easier lol.
@Boraven190 thanks for stating the OBVIOUS. but i wasn't just talking about just BLACK WOMEN. lmfao you are basically saying that only black women can be baby mamas. you not helping your argument lol
@testizel I'll give you that, you did mention other races.
Now refer to my very first statement.
Discounting death, the number of biological mothers and fathers is EQUAL.
For those 2 women (I assumed they were black, doesn't matter for the point i'm making though) you talked about in your video, There are at least 2 baby daddies. Just because you didn't meet those 2 men doesn't mean they don't exist.
Think about the # of male friends you have. Do they have Children? How many?
Think about the # of female friends you have. Do they have Children? How many?
I'm guessing since you are actively on the dating scene, at this moment in your life you know more females than you do males. The number of baby mamas is going to seem greater.
@Boraven190 you can't come to a CONCLUSION based on ASSUMPTIONS lol i have a lot of male friends and female friends. but i'll answer your questions, if i could give an accurate guess i'd say 42% of my female friends have kid(s) and about 27% of my homeboys have kid(s), non-dead beats. but what does that have to do with anything. once again, this isn't about ME.
I wish things were like they were back in the day. You fell in love, got married, then had babies...but now its like women nowadays are good enough to screw but not good enough to marry.
@testizel its funny that men of others races have no problem finding a wife but your a black man from the hood, who sees females as nothing but bitches, hoes(yet to hear you use the word woman), speaks quite ghetto for someone who said they went to college, standing on the block fussing how too much females these days are babymamas and you have one, but your going to say most women today aren't wife material. From my obversation you aren't husband material.
@choochiXluvzXMakeup "its funny that MEN of OTHER RACES have no problem finding a WIFE.." lmao you just dissed black women without even having the knowledge of it. if black men are "so called" having a hard time finding a black women then what does that say about BLACK WOMEN??? Lmfao stop while your ahead sweetheart. that statement you made says a lot about YOU and BLACK WOMEN IN GENERAL.
@testizel the last time i checked all men didnt marry within their race alone. I wasnt talking mono racial only but interracial as well because men of other races marry black women as well as black men and furthermore i wasnt making reference to all black men i was talking about you, you imbecile. You are saying women these days arent wife material but you arent husband material either you knocked up your babymama and couldnt commit to her so you are no matter than the said women you
@choochiXluvzXMakeup complain about.(i mean better). You seem like a lot of black men who loves to blame everyone in life for their misfortune(the 'evil' white men, the system, slavery etc) but will never take account for what YOU. i am pretty sure your babymama didnt hold you down and raped you to make your daughter as well as all the other baby daddies out there so men are just as guilty as women. you are only blasting other black woman but your babymama as well. but you
@testizel Your rant is pointless because you are a 'baby's daddy.' I had absolutely no interest in dating guys with children; therefore, I started dating white men exclusively. It's rare for white guys who haven't been married before to have children. I am now happily engaged to a white male, and none of us have children. :)
Lol reading these comments still funny as hell...point blank if what Tes said din't offend your ass or have any kind of importance to ya claiming it doesn't ya wouldn't be going off so cut the crap...this video is to inform ya tricks! Dude is giving ya especially women a heads up on how dudes think in terms of dating women with kids ya need to peep game instead of getting mad at him...women are more accepting of a man with a kid than a man of a woman with a kid so keep that in mind lol
And this is from a man without a kid...dudes and women are out here looking for women and men without kids to settle down and want to start a family with...there are too many chicks out here with the false assumption that they can pop out 1,2,3 kids and some man that has better options is still going to want them...that's why women in that situation normally just settle for dudes because they need help with their kids and their dead beat dad is way out of the picture
Lmao Tes let these chicks get mad if they want too at the end of the day they'll still realize a lot of men think like this and them complaining about the obvious truth won't help them get a man any easier...you would think 99% of the men commenting on this video agreeing with you would make them realize this...you gotta come with ya shit together and some act right to even land a man with a kid..dudes don't want them ghetto ass bad kid having baby mommas
@testizel magnificent video brotha.....you the epitome of what I represent...see women love bein the rejector, but not the rejectee..I dont give a flyin fuck about nobody else's kids except my kids...and I aint even got any yet!!
I'm pretty sure the point has been brought up before, but I do believe that the fact that you have a child disqualifies your credibility to converse upon this subject in the fashion in which you do, my nigga. No disrespect but I would have appreciated this messages better coming from someone like myself.
I kinda of feel like people with kids should be with other people with kids.
@shatheprodigy oh simply because i have ONE child that is TAKEN CARE of and because Her Mother & I have a GREAT father/mother relationship that DISQUALIFIES me??? you sound real smart bro, just like some of these other ignorant hoes on here trying to tell me what i "should or shouldn't" say. if i woulda said ALL baby mamas were fucked up and needed to be left alone then that would have been a different story. try LISTENING to a person before you analyze them.
i don't want to be bothered with baby mama drama. from what i've observed plenty NOT ALL start having kids at 16 y/o. usually by 21 y/o women in NC have at least 1 kid. i've heard plenty of college students my age say: i don't want kids right now & i'm making sure of it! plenty find it weird that i'm 28 y/o i don't have kids; a cool white guy salesman asked me 1 time: do you purposely not have kids, i said: i use condoms whenever i get down
i don't have kids. i IMMEDIATELY ask: do you have kids? i don't want someone with kids b/c 1) i want us to be able to go places together w/o kids interfering (only our jobs should interfere) 2) plenty of folks expect others to take care of their kids 3)
dating, mating and marriage: none of these could occur without a woman's consent (fair enough). They also control the mess that is the matriarchal Black family. They choose sperm donors and then hit them for child support and call them dead beat dads.
true! i hear about plenty black women having baby (babies) by a man that already has 1 kid by another lady then complain about NOT GETTING ENOUGH CHILD SUPPORT ($25 a month for twins) b/c he's paying $117 a month for his 1st baby. too many black women have a baby by the man knowing he don't want them. having a baby (babies) by a man knowing he is- jobless, carless & homeless IS CRAZY!
What makes you think that a childless woman would want you? Most of us childfree people also want other folks without children - not some aimless baby daddy w/o real life goals such as yourself. We don't want to deal with your baggage and drama either.
@bougiebohemian thank you. you see the double standard. he as a babymama, he and other black men like him contribute to the problem but is going to complain about babymamas. You see the hypocrisy.
@bougiebohemian what makes you think ANYBODY would want you period???? just because you don't have a child that doesn't mean you are a better person. it just means you don't have children. dumbass lol smh
@testizel I never said I was better cos I don't have kids. However, judging by your defensive, illiterate-laden drivel, it's apparent that you're nothing more than deadbeat scum. Now crawl back under the housing project that you slunk from you uneducated lowly welfare case.
I have to agree that it is hard to find a young woman who doesn't have kids in this day and age, but it's hard to find men without kids too. I dont turn down a man just because he has kids, but if we're dating or even just "chillin" and he never mentions them that would make me wonder. I understand the drama that can come with some of these ppl watching others close to me, but if i have good chemistry with that person and think we can grow then i dnt let all the other stuff bother me
But there are still women out there who are single with no kids, they are just harder to find. @BlackeducationTV I agree. That's why these kids are messed up now, they don't have a positive, solid foundation or example to follow. These children think that what they see is normal and its not.
You said you have a daughter. Now your daughter's mom will have to deal with brothers that look at your daughter as a reason not to want to be with her. You brothers are part of the problem too. Dropping seed and moving on is reckless and unfair to the children.
@BlackEducationTV of course my baby mama will have to deal with rejection because she has a child. she is a baby mama right? and what did i say in the video about baby mamas?? "MOST MEN DO NOT WANT TO BE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEM!!!!"
@testizel i get the feeling you cant read? I am WIFE, DON'T GOT KIDS and for the next 5 years dont want one and even if I was a babymama my child would be well taken by the MAN I MARRIED. As i said before stop making up things about my life because you wouldnt me to start getting creative with yours. You are just another black man who just love to bitch. Go marry your babymama and start spending more time with your daughter and get your black ass of YT.
@choochiXluvzXMakeup i can read very well. but you on the other hand have serious comprehension skills or someone close to you is a BABY MAMA. or maybe both. because you and others on here wouldn't have a problem with what i say unless it applied to you or somebody you know personally. you just making yourself look more ignorant than what you already are.
@Vonthelion If you were such a grammar Nazi you would know that the phrase is actually speaking "proper English". Not "correct English". If you wanted to say that, you would say: Is there something wrong with using grammar or even speaking English correctly?
Weather you agree wit this dude or not the fact is he is telling the truth, when you have kids your pickings does become slim weather your a male or female, the problem is females have a problem looking at it from someone elses prespective it is hard to a be a person with no kids and get your self involved with someone with kids, having to play daddy or mommy to someone elses kids isnt easy sure it takes a person to great chracter to do it but its still no an easy task and not everyone can do it
@Damondeeh20 the truth offends people. thats why these hoes are stuck in the situation they are in because they REFUSE to hold themselves accountable for DECISIONS they made in life. with people in general (especially niggas) they like to live in a bubble. once the bubble burst they get in DEFENSE mode refusing to embrace the reality of their problems. this video didn't get people mad. it was the dialogue. smh
@testizel I'm a black female and I totally agree with you! I saw this in another forum and the women were so upset but you make a valid point. I don't have kids and I don't date men with kids. Just too much. As you stated, people refuse to hear the truth. They have to accept that not everyone wants to deal with baby momma/baby daddy drama.
@kpdc26 you agree for 1.) you are mature and for 2.) you have COMMON SENSE unlike some of these other chics on here throwing pity parties and trying to DEFLECT. thank you though
@testizel Well some of these females dont want to be held responsible because society nowdays in America coddle women and hold their hands and tell them its not their fault when they fuck up its ok for them to be wreckless, the females get knocked and some cases purposelly have kids to get a man to stay and when that dont work out here they are mad at the world that they rasing kids on their own but they made the chice to sleep with that guy and get pregnant by him.
@testizel Continued most females dont know how to deal with rejection, its a blow to their fragile ego when a man dont want them because they have kids, but once again women are so selfish they dont know how to put themselvs in other peoples shoes, no matter how good of a person you are its hard to except someone elses kids and most females arent realistic about that, even you said your dateing options are limited because you have a daughter, well females need to have that realistic attitude.
because truth be told if some of these chicks didn't have kids of their own they wouldn't even give a brotha with a kid or two the time of day but they want men to do that for them...when you got kids your personality better be top notch and you better not be on any bullshit because your value has plummeted on the dating scene
etc and he ain't even got a kid by this chick...women need to realize keeping your legs closed and not fucking around goes a long way and the pros chicks with no kids have over them...I liked a chick awhile back but I couldn't date her because not only did she have a kid but she had it with a dude she didn't even like and you know any chick with kids want you to play daddy and i wasn't ready for that so ain't step to her like that...these chicks need to make better decisions
TES THANK YOU MAN! I don't get what these chicks don't get! They feel butthurt because they have kids so they're in that pool but at the end of the day you telling the truth...a MAN IS GOING TO PICK A CHICK WITH NO KIDS OVER THEM 99% OF THE TIME BECAUSE THEIR KIDS MAY BE AN EXTRA ANNOYANCE AND HARDLY ANY MAN WANTS TO TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER MAN'S KIDS ESPECIALLY IF SHE GOT MORE THAN 1...gotta deal with that mother trying to push daddy responsibilities on him, dealing with those children's fathers,
@producer4real Exactly plus all the kid nagging and whining, baby father sticking his nose in, all that bullshit dudes don't have to deal with from the next chick without kids...and I be damn if a chick want me to play daddy
Like someone else said on here, the women has to carry most of the burden when children are involved.. Men can just pick up and leave you high and dry.. Many women seem to not understand that. The women these days need to check out these dudes before they sleep with them. I'm 30 and have no kids. I'm not ready for kids and don't want em. Having babies wont keep a man.. Make birth control and condoms your friend.
I know how you feel. I don't want to date a man with kids.
@MALORIEOOO i would date a child with ONE kid just now with 2 or more!!!! thats the whole purpose of the video. just LISTEN!!!! i keep telling everybody the same thing
I understand what you're saying but I'd like to respectfully beg to differ. Things happen, so understand that. Beggers can't be choosers looking how you look now (cocked eye, train track teeth, scrawny, always rubbing your beard). If you wan't something with some substances I'm sure you can find someone that has a child and still can give you exactly what you need. I have no children thankful, but I wouldn't turn someone down because they do.
@GoodNightLois my personality and talent makes up for my flaws. hey but at least i don't look like a tramp. lol check yourself before you judge another person's looks
@testizel Good one, all I'm saying is you on here acting like the catch of the millennium. Talent isn't having 200 videos talking about bulls**t that my friend is what you call a opinion. You have a child so that's a double standard. You're a walking contradiction. Also, nobody cares about personality (you have none by the way) Initially we go off of appearances and first impressions, then move on. You haven't made it to phase one. I would love to see the females to talk to looking how you look.
@GoodNightLois actually, regardless of how i look i am still a GREAT catch. unlike you, i'm HEADED SOMEWHERE. i can tell by how you speak that you think VERY LOWLY of yourself. especially considering the fact that you will take the time out to TRY and downplay someone whom you know NOTHING about.
? do u think its a double standard when it comes to men havin kids then women? i noticed when some men do get with women that have kids they take better of their kids then thier own what is that about?
Totally reminds me of this chick I worked with a year ago...she was 22 had a 1 year old baby and brought this 18 year old guy to her house from work. (They're white...not that it matters...but still.) Well she failed to tell the guy she had a baby and they still had sex. In her house. With her baby there. Trifflin' as all hell. P.S. - I'm over 18. No babies. Not havin' none any time soon. The cookies stay in the jar. Call me. ;) LOL!
@MzRoxyJ i heard even worse lol my homeboy met this chic at a club so after it closed he went to her crib and her lil sister was in the other room watching her kids. so they had to smash in the bathroom LOL
#TEAMNOSTROLLER! LOL NO SERIOUSLY WHAT YOU SAID IS SO TRUE AND ITS SAD. I TEND TO MENTION I DONT HAVE KIDS A LOT CUZ ITS SUCH A RARITY TO BE 26 WITHOUT CHILDREN SMH. AND IM STRAIGHT AS AN ARROW LOL
Dated this Chick years back that had a Baby by some Thug Negro who was camping out way down in Texas ducking some open warrants that he had in Maryland and Virginia. This Clown came back and found out that I was smashing his Baby Momma and got emotional.
I ended up going Dead Presidents on his ass outside the Girls home! True Story!
@BIGBKELtheGOD LOL!!! you still living after you beat some sissy thug negro ass? Dam you a bad dude. I remember dead president good movie. Bad bank robbery they did.
you shouldnt have to ask her, she should be woman enough to tell you if she got rugrats by other niggas lol..last year this girl lied to me about her kid..when i first talked to shorty on the phone, i didnt like her reaction when she asked me if i had kids..she acted way too overly suprised, she kept asking me over and over "u 25 with no kids?" that was a red flag rite there
I don't have kids and I'm not gay. I choose to be single because I want to get my degrees and finance together first. My sister is 25 and she have 3 kids by the same guy. My mother been married since 17 or 18. I didn't want to rush into relationships and marriage like that. I want time to get to addressed any mental issues, educate myself, get to know myself, and get my money right. I refuse to struggle.
@RustArtRed You have all the options in the world and will be the object of envy to many people who were not patient and conscientious about their choices.
@producer4real Thank you, but I constantly fight males and females who tried to blast my decision and tried to force relationships & sex down my throat which isn't right at all. They do all of that nonsense my sense of believes and my mind isn't changing.
I think a key point people are missing is this woman contacted him at 12:30 am, and who's kids are up at that time? Signs of being irresponsible amongst many other things... I'm just saying.
the dating scene is definitely rough. i was messing with this one chick whose baby daddy was doing a bid. i stopped talking to her after i found that out, that's something i don't need. there's plenty of chicks out there who don't have all that baggage
shit it´s different if a man gotta kid tho. cuz 1, it probably dont live with you, and 2, it aint come out yo belly and leave you any stretch marks, LMFAO!! and dont 4get the stretched out pussy too! and the baby-daddy. it´s not the same!
so isnt your daughters mother a babymama so arent you dissing your child's mother. Hon black men like you create the epidemic of babymamas, because if many of you weren't just knocking up your women and not marry them just wouldnt be an issue. therefore you contribute to the same problem you are talking about. Oh and by the way how you talk about women says plenty about character. You seem to be one of those dudes who are only in it to kick to marriage just kick. yeah you did generalize b&m w
@choochiXluvzXMakeup clean out your ears next time before you make a comment. i strictly said IN THE VIDEO i was speaking in general terms and neither did i say ALL women with kids were fucked up. damn! its not my fault ya'll hoes got kids! if you don't like what i say then LEAVE
@testizel Dont get your panties in wad. I am pretty sure you wouldnt want me to be making shit up about your life so dont start making shit about mine. I was making preference to the fact that your talking about you dont want women who got kids and you have a babymama which i find so ironic, its like man who are whores and sleep with everything that got a vagina but want a virgin wife. Sweetie i am happy married woman without kids. You should be the last one complaining about woman
@testizel kids considering the fact that you got a babymama. Your living in glass house and throwing stones. i just cant seem to fathom, YOUR A BABY DADDY! that wants a woman without kids. Go figure.
@choochiXluvzXMakeup once again, did i say WOULDN'T date a baby mama in the video???? are you deaf? watch my video again and turn the volume all the way or better yet get some new speakers lol you just mad because you a baby mama. you act like i was the one that knocked u up. smh lol
@MizzezJaxon not really. its easier for a woman to find a man WITHOUT kids then it is for a man to find a woman without kids (especially if the women are black or hispanic)
@MizzezJaxon no its not. Men can be single with kids and still have value. women on the other hand well.... you can't do what we do. men age like wine women age like milk.
@goku27son You nail it bruh and these women needs to understand that men and women are not created equal, because a man does it does not mean a women can too.
@pcmiler2000 the last time i checked it took a man and a woman to make a baby. maybe it as changed in the last 24hrs. Men of other races marry their women after knocking them up as a matter they usually marry them then knock them up. Majority of black men on the other hand knock up, dont marry, dont support the said baby they made and then move on to the next one.
@choochiXluvzXMakeup well WHO are the WOMEN that keep OPENING their legs to these BLACK MEN????? BLACK WOMEN!!! the point is, many of ya'll DO NOT HAVE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR ANYTHING!!! thats the difference between black women back in the day and modern day black women. stop being naive.
@testizel Notice how she say they are not marrying them after getting knock up which I find that odd, because I been hearing reports that these women wants to get knock up and not get marry so they can collect free money from the FEDS and be the head of the household, in other words, they do not want to submit to a good man, so they breed with thugs and dope boys who will not be around by being bury six feet under or serving life.
@testizel And since welfare has been cut, these same women were force to work in the workforce to make up for lost money, now they want good men to knock them up so they can collect child support for the next 18 years, and when the child goes bad, they blame it on the man. These women are pure evil man, I think I'm gonna died childless.
@choochiXluvzXMakeup SMDH, you are missing the point big time, let me make it more clearer, IF YOU ARE NOT MARRY TO THE MAN, WHY THE FUCK YOU OPEN YOUR LEGS UP TO HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
The main thing about wmen with kids and multiple babby daddies is that it shows how irresponsible and dumb many women really are. Why do women keep on being pressed to hve unprotectd sex with multiple ppl. They get STD'S often and chicks till wanna keep fucking guys raw cause it feels better to them. Also theese females are bringing kids into this worldin fucked up situations. Theese chics don't even be liking most of the dudes they get pregnant by and most of theese kids today are accidents.
east00 1 month ago
Stop making assumptions..
MostDopest1 1 month ago
I don't have any kids ;-)
MochahontasBossLady 1 month ago
I understand where you're coming from, I have the same issue with men you just have to keep looking,
yuna9032000 1 month ago
I have the solution. If you men just married the females you got pregnant, you wouldn't have to worry about not dating 'unwanted' women. And if you don't want to marry them, then you shouldn't have gotten them pregnant.
Sandbar136 1 month ago
@Sandbar136 the problem is not all baby mamas are WIFE material. thats why most of them don't get married. and yes i do think men and women should be more responsible. but at the end of the day just because you have a baby by someone it doesn't mean you SUPPOSED to be with them. i had to learn that the hard way. this isn't the 50's, 60's or 70's. women are completely different now.
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Sandbar136 1 month ago
@producer4real Or guys who know how to get vasectomies . com lol!
Sandbar136 1 month ago
Oh here's my favorite one, when you look at a chicks profile on a dating site and they've answered the question of "do you have kids" with "I'll tell you later." Every time I saw that I would fall out of my chair laughing...either you have children or you don't. I'll tell you later....shiiiiiiiiit.
obatron1 1 month ago 4
@obatron1 you must be talking about blackplanet/myspace. lol they were the shit back in the day
testizel 1 month ago
Test you alright man. At least you deal in reality and recognize the fact that some women might not want to date you because you have a child. Some of these chicks should adopt your mode of thinking, it might help them find a more suitable mate in the long run.
obatron1 1 month ago
Awww man this vid is spot on. I don't date women with children period point blank. I once was even told "I can't believe there's still men like you in the world" when I canceled a date upon finding out the chick had a kid (yes she was black unfortunately). I use to mess with some of these popular dating sites a lot and always find my choices dropping dramatically when I click the "no kids" box.
obatron1 1 month ago
Get a asian woman. No baby mamas there. Fuck all other races. Its asian pussy or I dont want it.
EWOKCAD 1 month ago
I avoid women with kids. It's one thing she got a divorce or a widow but having kids by being a slut bucket is another thing.
blackbolt75 1 month ago
@blackbolt75 Amen
jiggy588 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Best video u ever did Testizel 1,000.
Zidane9ful 1 month ago
@Zidane9ful u think so? lol
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel Real talk champ ur Description box it hit it right on the nogging, & any Black & hispanic or woman of color got a damn kid it's fucking CRAZY! The 1's dat are fucking up the game are the Raw-Dawg-Maniac's REal fucking Talk. It's like i have 2wait 4 the next generation 2pull in 2be legal. All this single mothers are gettin dick down crazy! The Game has seriously Shifted & it's not pretty. It's a BIG MILF FESTED #Hit a brother Subcribe button champ 1luv.
Zidane9ful 1 month ago
@Zidane9ful you gonna offend somebody with that comment lol i subbed though
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel Lol Thanks champ it's all gravy & mash ova here :)
Zidane9ful 1 month ago
test is that dude . real as fuck why hate on him lol
LEZTHEGOON 1 month ago in playlist More videos from testizel
@LEZTHEGOON have u peeped some of the comments though? lol
testizel 1 month ago
mother and baby clinic its not just blacks but hispanics have children at an early age too and they have a lot of them .. the difference is that hispanics will do menal jobs to survive and they are willing to do manuel labour just check any "Home Depot " store and see them standing outside , waiting to be hired.. and they are very family orientated so you see them as family units rather than just single mothers with babies from different men.
aitan844 1 month ago
men and women need to stop making babies with everyone they sleep with! Parenting isnt for everyone, and its a damn shame that an idiot makes a baby with an idiot, hence creates an idiot child..lol the world doesnt need anymore.
blkandproud1 1 month ago
@blkandproud1 i dont understand this thing either , americans have access to infrastracture , education, facilities and should be using them instead of this "baby momma" mentality . its quite alarming when you have fourteen yr olds with babies and its not considered strange .
aitan844 1 month ago
What really bothers me is when men and women, try to seek relations with other people when, they have a kid(s) are like 1, 2, 3 yrs old...wtf??? the kid was just born damn.. To me that shit looks bad...
blkandproud1 1 month ago
If your dating black chicks expect baby mama.
Hey testizel youve never mentioned if you date black girls because its your preference or because you find them easier to get. I mean if a white girl or asian girl was interested would you go for it?
EWOKCAD 1 month ago
@EWOKCAD Its not just black women who have babies. its also MEXICANS/LATINO chics. i prefer black women over white and asian chics though.
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel
Im just the opposite. I won't date black or mexican chicks. Im strictly asian and white. Asian is my ultimate preference though. I almost can't even get a hardon now to any other race. Once youve fucked a bunch of korean and japanese and fillipina whores you won't want anything less! LOL
EWOKCAD 1 month ago
@EWOKCAD Speak for yourself man lol
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel
Im glad not everyone likes asian girls. In fact I wish no one did. They I would have an actual chance to pound that pussy. Asians are a rare commodity though and they know it.
EWOKCAD 1 month ago
@EWOKCAD yeah do know, because most female babies end up in abortion clinics.
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel when africans come to live in the usa they also see this baby making culture and dont understand it at all, we are all about education and progress and when we distance ourselves from this behavour you are offended.. its because we dont want our children having kids at fourteen its not normal to be a mother at fourteen fifteen and sixteen . and i have seen this in america i have seen your baby mommas , and that was many yrs ago visiting a friend and seeing young hispanics in the
aitan844 1 month ago
@EWOKCAD hope you get tested regularly.. ugh!
aitan844 1 month ago
@testizel why do you keep calling yourself "niggas" ? why cant you replace that slave term with something more dignified ?. you need to move on from this its not progressive at all. its a very demeaning term very degrading you can do better than this and keeping it in your zietgiest is confirming what white america has loaded onto you ...dreadful term.
aitan844 1 month ago
@aitan844 I know...lol! It would be like whites calling each other 'Honky's' and telling to other races not to say it. Or making them refer to it as the "H" word. LMAO!
Sandbar136 1 month ago
@Sandbar136 i still dont understand why american blacks cling to this useless term as a "type of endearment" when there are so many other discriptive words in the english language to choose from.. its not nice at all.
aitan844 1 month ago
I don't have kids but It goes both ways.. when i was single I assumed every man had a child or a few children which many of them did. It was hard out there trying to find a man that didn't have a baby mama(s). So what are the single women to do? I feel sorry for them lol todays dating pool is horrible.. but luckily I found a man that didn't have any kids or drama
ambi101 1 month ago
@ambi101 thats because you was dating niggas from the HOOD lol simple.
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel men and niggas are two different things I never dated a NIGGA and I wasn't dating men from the HOOD thank you... would it be fair for me to assume that you dated women from the HOOD no. Don't try and tell me what kind of men I was dating I only dated 2 men in my life (they didn't have kids) before my fiancee. The men I ran into before my fiancee first question I ask do you have kids they say yes I move on simple as that I didn't entertain them or lead them on.
ambi101 1 month ago
@ambi101 ambi why are you ALWAYS trying to reverse everything i say. why can't you just refute it without getting all offensive?
testizel 1 month ago
bhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa omg really?
janeblow80 1 month ago
Every child has 2 biological parents. Baby mama epidemic? For every baby mama there is a baby daddy.
The two things you have to assume about women now a days are they have a child(ren) or are gay?
Those are the exact things you have to assume about men!
You yourself have a daughter, and by your comments i'm assuming your "baby mama" has custody of her.
You have contributed to this "epidemic" / Statistic.
"Smh. Whats a nigga to do?" ------ are you serious?
Boraven190 1 month ago
@Boraven190 nice way to TRY and reverse everything i said. funny. like i said before in a previous comment. its EASIER for a woman to find a MAN without kids then it is for a man to find a WOMAN without kids. go ahead and try to reverse that too
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel Reverse everything you said? No. I not only agreed with you, I expanded on your argument to include the other side of the same issue. I just pointed out that YOUR actions have contributed to the problem YOU'RE complaining about.
You had a child with a woman and you two are not married. You made a baby mama.
As for it being easier for a woman to find a man without kids - Well yes, there are more black women than black men in America. Of course it would be easier lol.
Boraven190 1 month ago
@Boraven190 thanks for stating the OBVIOUS. but i wasn't just talking about just BLACK WOMEN. lmfao you are basically saying that only black women can be baby mamas. you not helping your argument lol
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel I'll give you that, you did mention other races.
Now refer to my very first statement.
Discounting death, the number of biological mothers and fathers is EQUAL.
For those 2 women (I assumed they were black, doesn't matter for the point i'm making though) you talked about in your video, There are at least 2 baby daddies. Just because you didn't meet those 2 men doesn't mean they don't exist.
Cont.
Boraven190 1 month ago
@testizel cont.
Think about the # of male friends you have. Do they have Children? How many?
Think about the # of female friends you have. Do they have Children? How many?
I'm guessing since you are actively on the dating scene, at this moment in your life you know more females than you do males. The number of baby mamas is going to seem greater.
My point really is - "Baby Mama = Baby Daddy"
You are being biased and somewhat hypocritical.
Boraven190 1 month ago
@Boraven190 you can't come to a CONCLUSION based on ASSUMPTIONS lol i have a lot of male friends and female friends. but i'll answer your questions, if i could give an accurate guess i'd say 42% of my female friends have kid(s) and about 27% of my homeboys have kid(s), non-dead beats. but what does that have to do with anything. once again, this isn't about ME.
testizel 1 month ago
I wish things were like they were back in the day. You fell in love, got married, then had babies...but now its like women nowadays are good enough to screw but not good enough to marry.
MizzezJaxon 1 month ago 4
@MizzezJaxon thats because a lot of women are no longer WIFE material. which is sad
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel define wife material?
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup you want me to define what WIFE MATERIAL is???? lol if i gotta define that for you then you already lost this debate. smdh
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel its funny that men of others races have no problem finding a wife but your a black man from the hood, who sees females as nothing but bitches, hoes(yet to hear you use the word woman), speaks quite ghetto for someone who said they went to college, standing on the block fussing how too much females these days are babymamas and you have one, but your going to say most women today aren't wife material. From my obversation you aren't husband material.
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup "its funny that MEN of OTHER RACES have no problem finding a WIFE.." lmao you just dissed black women without even having the knowledge of it. if black men are "so called" having a hard time finding a black women then what does that say about BLACK WOMEN??? Lmfao stop while your ahead sweetheart. that statement you made says a lot about YOU and BLACK WOMEN IN GENERAL.
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel the last time i checked all men didnt marry within their race alone. I wasnt talking mono racial only but interracial as well because men of other races marry black women as well as black men and furthermore i wasnt making reference to all black men i was talking about you, you imbecile. You are saying women these days arent wife material but you arent husband material either you knocked up your babymama and couldnt commit to her so you are no matter than the said women you
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup complain about.(i mean better). You seem like a lot of black men who loves to blame everyone in life for their misfortune(the 'evil' white men, the system, slavery etc) but will never take account for what YOU. i am pretty sure your babymama didnt hold you down and raped you to make your daughter as well as all the other baby daddies out there so men are just as guilty as women. you are only blasting other black woman but your babymama as well. but you
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup dont seem to get that. if you're living in a glass house dont throw stone.
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@testizel Your rant is pointless because you are a 'baby's daddy.' I had absolutely no interest in dating guys with children; therefore, I started dating white men exclusively. It's rare for white guys who haven't been married before to have children. I am now happily engaged to a white male, and none of us have children. :)
Mary2020VA 1 month ago
@Mary2020VA good job. you want a cookie???
testizel 1 month ago 3
@MizzezJaxon Amen brother.
obatron1 1 month ago
Lol reading these comments still funny as hell...point blank if what Tes said din't offend your ass or have any kind of importance to ya claiming it doesn't ya wouldn't be going off so cut the crap...this video is to inform ya tricks! Dude is giving ya especially women a heads up on how dudes think in terms of dating women with kids ya need to peep game instead of getting mad at him...women are more accepting of a man with a kid than a man of a woman with a kid so keep that in mind lol
dollarbill125 1 month ago
Someone needs to start a chicks with no kids dot com. The world's #1 dating website.
producer4real 1 month ago 11
@producer4real LMAO PURE COMEDY!!!
testizel 1 month ago
@producer4real And no fat chicks either DOT COM.
GeorgeLRockwell87 1 month ago
@producer4real lol wow!
aitan844 1 month ago
And this is from a man without a kid...dudes and women are out here looking for women and men without kids to settle down and want to start a family with...there are too many chicks out here with the false assumption that they can pop out 1,2,3 kids and some man that has better options is still going to want them...that's why women in that situation normally just settle for dudes because they need help with their kids and their dead beat dad is way out of the picture
dollarbill125 1 month ago
Lmao Tes let these chicks get mad if they want too at the end of the day they'll still realize a lot of men think like this and them complaining about the obvious truth won't help them get a man any easier...you would think 99% of the men commenting on this video agreeing with you would make them realize this...you gotta come with ya shit together and some act right to even land a man with a kid..dudes don't want them ghetto ass bad kid having baby mommas
dollarbill125 1 month ago
@dollarbill125 hell, even most of the WOMEN are agreeing with me. LOL oh but i'm just trippin and everybody else who agrees is trippin too. smh
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel magnificent video brotha.....you the epitome of what I represent...see women love bein the rejector, but not the rejectee..I dont give a flyin fuck about nobody else's kids except my kids...and I aint even got any yet!!
WesleyPipes2838 1 month ago
I'm pretty sure the point has been brought up before, but I do believe that the fact that you have a child disqualifies your credibility to converse upon this subject in the fashion in which you do, my nigga. No disrespect but I would have appreciated this messages better coming from someone like myself.
I kinda of feel like people with kids should be with other people with kids.
shatheprodigy 1 month ago
@shatheprodigy oh simply because i have ONE child that is TAKEN CARE of and because Her Mother & I have a GREAT father/mother relationship that DISQUALIFIES me??? you sound real smart bro, just like some of these other ignorant hoes on here trying to tell me what i "should or shouldn't" say. if i woulda said ALL baby mamas were fucked up and needed to be left alone then that would have been a different story. try LISTENING to a person before you analyze them.
testizel 1 month ago
part 2
i don't want to be bothered with baby mama drama. from what i've observed plenty NOT ALL start having kids at 16 y/o. usually by 21 y/o women in NC have at least 1 kid. i've heard plenty of college students my age say: i don't want kids right now & i'm making sure of it! plenty find it weird that i'm 28 y/o i don't have kids; a cool white guy salesman asked me 1 time: do you purposely not have kids, i said: i use condoms whenever i get down
keta4332 1 month ago in playlist Watch Later
i don't have kids. i IMMEDIATELY ask: do you have kids? i don't want someone with kids b/c 1) i want us to be able to go places together w/o kids interfering (only our jobs should interfere) 2) plenty of folks expect others to take care of their kids 3)
keta4332 1 month ago in playlist Watch Later
@keta4332
there is no equality when comes to choice. Women have more choice than men.
malarki5 1 month ago
@malarki5
women control: to give birth, birth control, abortions, & more.
keta4332 1 month ago
@keta4332
dating, mating and marriage: none of these could occur without a woman's consent (fair enough). They also control the mess that is the matriarchal Black family. They choose sperm donors and then hit them for child support and call them dead beat dads.
Lousy moms aplenty reside in our communities!
malarki5 1 month ago
@malarki5
true! i hear about plenty black women having baby (babies) by a man that already has 1 kid by another lady then complain about NOT GETTING ENOUGH CHILD SUPPORT ($25 a month for twins) b/c he's paying $117 a month for his 1st baby. too many black women have a baby by the man knowing he don't want them. having a baby (babies) by a man knowing he is- jobless, carless & homeless IS CRAZY!
keta4332 1 month ago
What makes you think that a childless woman would want you? Most of us childfree people also want other folks without children - not some aimless baby daddy w/o real life goals such as yourself. We don't want to deal with your baggage and drama either.
bougiebohemian 1 month ago 3
@bougiebohemian thank you. you see the double standard. he as a babymama, he and other black men like him contribute to the problem but is going to complain about babymamas. You see the hypocrisy.
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@bougiebohemian what makes you think ANYBODY would want you period???? just because you don't have a child that doesn't mean you are a better person. it just means you don't have children. dumbass lol smh
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel I never said I was better cos I don't have kids. However, judging by your defensive, illiterate-laden drivel, it's apparent that you're nothing more than deadbeat scum. Now crawl back under the housing project that you slunk from you uneducated lowly welfare case.
bougiebohemian 1 month ago
@bougiebohemian *yawn*
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel bitch like you and the babymama you got.
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
I have to agree that it is hard to find a young woman who doesn't have kids in this day and age, but it's hard to find men without kids too. I dont turn down a man just because he has kids, but if we're dating or even just "chillin" and he never mentions them that would make me wonder. I understand the drama that can come with some of these ppl watching others close to me, but if i have good chemistry with that person and think we can grow then i dnt let all the other stuff bother me
angiekelz 1 month ago
@testizel right. It takes two to tango.
But there are still women out there who are single with no kids, they are just harder to find. @BlackeducationTV I agree. That's why these kids are messed up now, they don't have a positive, solid foundation or example to follow. These children think that what they see is normal and its not.
MizzezJaxon 1 month ago
You said you have a daughter. Now your daughter's mom will have to deal with brothers that look at your daughter as a reason not to want to be with her. You brothers are part of the problem too. Dropping seed and moving on is reckless and unfair to the children.
BlackEducationTV 1 month ago 7
@BlackEducationTV of course my baby mama will have to deal with rejection because she has a child. she is a baby mama right? and what did i say in the video about baby mamas?? "MOST MEN DO NOT WANT TO BE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEM!!!!"
testizel 1 month ago
These kids have dads too. Double standards uh?
BlackEducationTV 1 month ago
were you in a frat bro?
secondshen 1 month ago
@secondshen no sir
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel true, and you even got some of these dudes walking around here that don't even know that they are fathers...lol
MizzezJaxon 1 month ago
@MizzezJaxon right, oh but its all the MAN'S fault lol
testizel 1 month ago 2
@testizel i get the feeling you cant read? I am WIFE, DON'T GOT KIDS and for the next 5 years dont want one and even if I was a babymama my child would be well taken by the MAN I MARRIED. As i said before stop making up things about my life because you wouldnt me to start getting creative with yours. You are just another black man who just love to bitch. Go marry your babymama and start spending more time with your daughter and get your black ass of YT.
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup i can read very well. but you on the other hand have serious comprehension skills or someone close to you is a BABY MAMA. or maybe both. because you and others on here wouldn't have a problem with what i say unless it applied to you or somebody you know personally. you just making yourself look more ignorant than what you already are.
testizel 1 month ago
Is there something wrong with using grammar or even speaking correct English?
Vonthelion 1 month ago
@Vonthelion If you were such a grammar Nazi you would know that the phrase is actually speaking "proper English". Not "correct English". If you wanted to say that, you would say: Is there something wrong with using grammar or even speaking English correctly?
MzRoxyJ 1 month ago
Weather you agree wit this dude or not the fact is he is telling the truth, when you have kids your pickings does become slim weather your a male or female, the problem is females have a problem looking at it from someone elses prespective it is hard to a be a person with no kids and get your self involved with someone with kids, having to play daddy or mommy to someone elses kids isnt easy sure it takes a person to great chracter to do it but its still no an easy task and not everyone can do it
Damondeeh20 1 month ago
@Damondeeh20 the truth offends people. thats why these hoes are stuck in the situation they are in because they REFUSE to hold themselves accountable for DECISIONS they made in life. with people in general (especially niggas) they like to live in a bubble. once the bubble burst they get in DEFENSE mode refusing to embrace the reality of their problems. this video didn't get people mad. it was the dialogue. smh
testizel 1 month ago 4
@testizel I'm a black female and I totally agree with you! I saw this in another forum and the women were so upset but you make a valid point. I don't have kids and I don't date men with kids. Just too much. As you stated, people refuse to hear the truth. They have to accept that not everyone wants to deal with baby momma/baby daddy drama.
kpdc26 1 month ago
@kpdc26 you agree for 1.) you are mature and for 2.) you have COMMON SENSE unlike some of these other chics on here throwing pity parties and trying to DEFLECT. thank you though
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel Well some of these females dont want to be held responsible because society nowdays in America coddle women and hold their hands and tell them its not their fault when they fuck up its ok for them to be wreckless, the females get knocked and some cases purposelly have kids to get a man to stay and when that dont work out here they are mad at the world that they rasing kids on their own but they made the chice to sleep with that guy and get pregnant by him.
Damondeeh20 1 month ago
@testizel Continued most females dont know how to deal with rejection, its a blow to their fragile ego when a man dont want them because they have kids, but once again women are so selfish they dont know how to put themselvs in other peoples shoes, no matter how good of a person you are its hard to except someone elses kids and most females arent realistic about that, even you said your dateing options are limited because you have a daughter, well females need to have that realistic attitude.
Damondeeh20 1 month ago
@testizel sweetheart your petty insult dont faze me.
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
Bad bitches, Bad kids that aint yours BAD IDEA to date!!
mauriow 1 month ago 3
@mauriow say that again amen
TheDefjams 1 month ago
because truth be told if some of these chicks didn't have kids of their own they wouldn't even give a brotha with a kid or two the time of day but they want men to do that for them...when you got kids your personality better be top notch and you better not be on any bullshit because your value has plummeted on the dating scene
dollarbill125 1 month ago
etc and he ain't even got a kid by this chick...women need to realize keeping your legs closed and not fucking around goes a long way and the pros chicks with no kids have over them...I liked a chick awhile back but I couldn't date her because not only did she have a kid but she had it with a dude she didn't even like and you know any chick with kids want you to play daddy and i wasn't ready for that so ain't step to her like that...these chicks need to make better decisions
dollarbill125 1 month ago
TES THANK YOU MAN! I don't get what these chicks don't get! They feel butthurt because they have kids so they're in that pool but at the end of the day you telling the truth...a MAN IS GOING TO PICK A CHICK WITH NO KIDS OVER THEM 99% OF THE TIME BECAUSE THEIR KIDS MAY BE AN EXTRA ANNOYANCE AND HARDLY ANY MAN WANTS TO TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER MAN'S KIDS ESPECIALLY IF SHE GOT MORE THAN 1...gotta deal with that mother trying to push daddy responsibilities on him, dealing with those children's fathers,
dollarbill125 1 month ago
@dollarbill125 Not only that homie but when you date a chick with kids then they come FIRST not YOU. I ain't got time for that kinda shit.
producer4real 1 month ago
@producer4real Exactly plus all the kid nagging and whining, baby father sticking his nose in, all that bullshit dudes don't have to deal with from the next chick without kids...and I be damn if a chick want me to play daddy
dollarbill125 1 month ago
I love your videos..honestly can never get enough..I love that your taking the video outside too..loveeeeeeeeeeeeee it <3!
katesunshine11 1 month ago
@katesunshine11 thank you kate i appreciate it. stay tuned
testizel 1 month ago
Like someone else said on here, the women has to carry most of the burden when children are involved.. Men can just pick up and leave you high and dry.. Many women seem to not understand that. The women these days need to check out these dudes before they sleep with them. I'm 30 and have no kids. I'm not ready for kids and don't want em. Having babies wont keep a man.. Make birth control and condoms your friend.
I know how you feel. I don't want to date a man with kids.
Slylady81 1 month ago
YOU SEEM LIKE A COOL PERSON TESTIZEL . BUT YOU SHOULD BE OK
WITH A NICE HARD WORKING WOMEN THAT HAS AT LEAST 1 CHILD . BECAUSE
REMEMBER YOU HAVE A CHILD YOURSELF.... I AM NOT TRYING 2 SOUND RUDE .
IT'S THE SAME THING CHICKS THAT AIN'T GOT NO KIDS ... MAYBE NOT WANT 2
GO WITH A DUE WITH A CHILD ALREADY .... BUT I UNDERSTAND YOU YOUNG WOMEN THAT HAS 2 OR 3 KIDS OR MORE THAT'S JUST CRAZY I KNOW SMH ....
MALORIEOOO 1 month ago
@MALORIEOOO i would date a child with ONE kid just now with 2 or more!!!! thats the whole purpose of the video. just LISTEN!!!! i keep telling everybody the same thing
testizel 1 month ago
"I diidn't tell you I have kids?" Nigga you know you didn't, I didn't tell you I got herpes.
BRAZEN08 1 month ago
I understand what you're saying but I'd like to respectfully beg to differ. Things happen, so understand that. Beggers can't be choosers looking how you look now (cocked eye, train track teeth, scrawny, always rubbing your beard). If you wan't something with some substances I'm sure you can find someone that has a child and still can give you exactly what you need. I have no children thankful, but I wouldn't turn someone down because they do.
GoodNightLois 1 month ago
@GoodNightLois my personality and talent makes up for my flaws. hey but at least i don't look like a tramp. lol check yourself before you judge another person's looks
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel Good one, all I'm saying is you on here acting like the catch of the millennium. Talent isn't having 200 videos talking about bulls**t that my friend is what you call a opinion. You have a child so that's a double standard. You're a walking contradiction. Also, nobody cares about personality (you have none by the way) Initially we go off of appearances and first impressions, then move on. You haven't made it to phase one. I would love to see the females to talk to looking how you look.
GoodNightLois 1 month ago
@GoodNightLois actually, regardless of how i look i am still a GREAT catch. unlike you, i'm HEADED SOMEWHERE. i can tell by how you speak that you think VERY LOWLY of yourself. especially considering the fact that you will take the time out to TRY and downplay someone whom you know NOTHING about.
testizel 1 month ago 2
? do u think its a double standard when it comes to men havin kids then women? i noticed when some men do get with women that have kids they take better of their kids then thier own what is that about?
CHHA82 1 month ago
Totally reminds me of this chick I worked with a year ago...she was 22 had a 1 year old baby and brought this 18 year old guy to her house from work. (They're white...not that it matters...but still.) Well she failed to tell the guy she had a baby and they still had sex. In her house. With her baby there. Trifflin' as all hell. P.S. - I'm over 18. No babies. Not havin' none any time soon. The cookies stay in the jar. Call me. ;) LOL!
MzRoxyJ 1 month ago
@MzRoxyJ i heard even worse lol my homeboy met this chic at a club so after it closed he went to her crib and her lil sister was in the other room watching her kids. so they had to smash in the bathroom LOL
testizel 1 month ago
#TEAMNOSTROLLER! LOL NO SERIOUSLY WHAT YOU SAID IS SO TRUE AND ITS SAD. I TEND TO MENTION I DONT HAVE KIDS A LOT CUZ ITS SUCH A RARITY TO BE 26 WITHOUT CHILDREN SMH. AND IM STRAIGHT AS AN ARROW LOL
kiki85ism 1 month ago
@kiki85ism but you see how the baby mamas on here are feeling played though?? lol smh
testizel 1 month ago
Dated this Chick years back that had a Baby by some Thug Negro who was camping out way down in Texas ducking some open warrants that he had in Maryland and Virginia. This Clown came back and found out that I was smashing his Baby Momma and got emotional.
I ended up going Dead Presidents on his ass outside the Girls home! True Story!
BIGBKELtheGOD 1 month ago
@BIGBKELtheGOD LOL!!! you still living after you beat some sissy thug negro ass? Dam you a bad dude. I remember dead president good movie. Bad bank robbery they did.
goku27son 1 month ago
i couldnt bag a chick that got kids...i love kids & all but i aint tryna be no step pops...
DaBrooklynKid1 1 month ago
you shouldnt have to ask her, she should be woman enough to tell you if she got rugrats by other niggas lol..last year this girl lied to me about her kid..when i first talked to shorty on the phone, i didnt like her reaction when she asked me if i had kids..she acted way too overly suprised, she kept asking me over and over "u 25 with no kids?" that was a red flag rite there
DirtyMoney410 1 month ago 2
lol, he said he rather be at home jacking off, that's probably your only option.
thety5489 1 month ago
@thety5489 Safer & Sometimes Feels Better ! LOL
RustArtRed 1 month ago
I don't have kids and I'm not gay. I choose to be single because I want to get my degrees and finance together first. My sister is 25 and she have 3 kids by the same guy. My mother been married since 17 or 18. I didn't want to rush into relationships and marriage like that. I want time to get to addressed any mental issues, educate myself, get to know myself, and get my money right. I refuse to struggle.
TheKennesha 1 month ago
@TheKennesha I am 36, Male, Single, I LOVE IT ! No Kids, No Worries ! I am Straight, but I do nto give a Fuck what People think ! LOL
RustArtRed 1 month ago
@RustArtRed More power to you! LOL
TheKennesha 1 month ago
@RustArtRed The same here bruh.
pcmiler2000 1 month ago
@RustArtRed You have all the options in the world and will be the object of envy to many people who were not patient and conscientious about their choices.
producer4real 1 month ago
@TheKennesha Wise choice.
producer4real 1 month ago
@producer4real Thank you, but I constantly fight males and females who tried to blast my decision and tried to force relationships & sex down my throat which isn't right at all. They do all of that nonsense my sense of believes and my mind isn't changing.
TheKennesha 1 month ago
@TheKennesha Misery loves company and most people fall for it. Good for you.
producer4real 1 month ago
@producer4real Thank you.
TheKennesha 1 month ago
I think a key point people are missing is this woman contacted him at 12:30 am, and who's kids are up at that time? Signs of being irresponsible amongst many other things... I'm just saying.
blaql8ce 1 month ago
Hey ladies, don't get mad at the men who does not want to be with you, because you have kids that is not his.
pcmiler2000 1 month ago
the dating scene is definitely rough. i was messing with this one chick whose baby daddy was doing a bid. i stopped talking to her after i found that out, that's something i don't need. there's plenty of chicks out there who don't have all that baggage
SmokesdaGanja 1 month ago
shit it´s different if a man gotta kid tho. cuz 1, it probably dont live with you, and 2, it aint come out yo belly and leave you any stretch marks, LMFAO!! and dont 4get the stretched out pussy too! and the baby-daddy. it´s not the same!
LACLiPPERZ 1 month ago 2
@LACLiPPERZ Agreed, and man and woman are not created equal.
pcmiler2000 1 month ago
@LACLiPPERZ CORRECT!!! lol
testizel 1 month ago
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choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
so isnt your daughters mother a babymama so arent you dissing your child's mother. Hon black men like you create the epidemic of babymamas, because if many of you weren't just knocking up your women and not marry them just wouldnt be an issue. therefore you contribute to the same problem you are talking about. Oh and by the way how you talk about women says plenty about character. You seem to be one of those dudes who are only in it to kick to marriage just kick. yeah you did generalize b&m w
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
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pcmiler2000 1 month ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup clean out your ears next time before you make a comment. i strictly said IN THE VIDEO i was speaking in general terms and neither did i say ALL women with kids were fucked up. damn! its not my fault ya'll hoes got kids! if you don't like what i say then LEAVE
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel Dont get your panties in wad. I am pretty sure you wouldnt want me to be making shit up about your life so dont start making shit about mine. I was making preference to the fact that your talking about you dont want women who got kids and you have a babymama which i find so ironic, its like man who are whores and sleep with everything that got a vagina but want a virgin wife. Sweetie i am happy married woman without kids. You should be the last one complaining about woman
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@testizel kids considering the fact that you got a babymama. Your living in glass house and throwing stones. i just cant seem to fathom, YOUR A BABY DADDY! that wants a woman without kids. Go figure.
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup once again, did i say WOULDN'T date a baby mama in the video???? are you deaf? watch my video again and turn the volume all the way or better yet get some new speakers lol you just mad because you a baby mama. you act like i was the one that knocked u up. smh lol
testizel 1 month ago
Yup. These dudes impregnate these women, and then leave them. So baby daddy's are an epidemic as well, just not as exposed as baby mamas.
MizzezJaxon 1 month ago
@MizzezJaxon not really. its easier for a woman to find a man WITHOUT kids then it is for a man to find a woman without kids (especially if the women are black or hispanic)
testizel 1 month ago 2
@MizzezJaxon no its not. Men can be single with kids and still have value. women on the other hand well.... you can't do what we do. men age like wine women age like milk.
goku27son 1 month ago
@goku27son You nail it bruh and these women needs to understand that men and women are not created equal, because a man does it does not mean a women can too.
pcmiler2000 1 month ago
@pcmiler2000 the last time i checked it took a man and a woman to make a baby. maybe it as changed in the last 24hrs. Men of other races marry their women after knocking them up as a matter they usually marry them then knock them up. Majority of black men on the other hand knock up, dont marry, dont support the said baby they made and then move on to the next one.
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup well WHO are the WOMEN that keep OPENING their legs to these BLACK MEN????? BLACK WOMEN!!! the point is, many of ya'll DO NOT HAVE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR ANYTHING!!! thats the difference between black women back in the day and modern day black women. stop being naive.
testizel 1 month ago
@testizel Notice how she say they are not marrying them after getting knock up which I find that odd, because I been hearing reports that these women wants to get knock up and not get marry so they can collect free money from the FEDS and be the head of the household, in other words, they do not want to submit to a good man, so they breed with thugs and dope boys who will not be around by being bury six feet under or serving life.
pcmiler2000 1 month ago
@testizel And since welfare has been cut, these same women were force to work in the workforce to make up for lost money, now they want good men to knock them up so they can collect child support for the next 18 years, and when the child goes bad, they blame it on the man. These women are pure evil man, I think I'm gonna died childless.
pcmiler2000 1 month ago
@testizel LMAO!!
choochiXluvzXMakeup 1 month ago
@choochiXluvzXMakeup SMDH, you are missing the point big time, let me make it more clearer, IF YOU ARE NOT MARRY TO THE MAN, WHY THE FUCK YOU OPEN YOUR LEGS UP TO HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
pcmiler2000 1 month ago