my baby with stress. uggh...sorry for this being so long...& i know you posted this forever ago...you're just the ONLY person i've ever seen talk about this & i felt like what you said is almost exactly how i feel & it was so nice when my hubby came home last night & asked what was wrong again & i found this & could explain to him a little 'cause i feel like i'm going crazy. i don't feel like myself AT ALL. please, if you know of anything i can do safely to help, please do. i appreciate the
@soakingtheson Sounds like you're having a pretty rough go of it this pregnancy. I know it's been 3 months, but if you're still having a rough time, feel free to go to my page and email me. Prenatal anxiety/depression was a nightmare for me (to put it lightly) and I'm sure I can empathize. Seven years later, I now have an amazing boy. I never dreamed I would ever get to that point. But there is a light at the end of this tunnel!
i really enjoyed & helped me release some stress...normally exercise helped a little too, although i would have to stop it to throw up a lot so it hasn't been so relieving this pregnancy...& now i can't exercise either due to the hemorrhages & the dr. said it's unsafe right now. when they showed i had a baby on the ultrasound & that it moved i burst out crying...& told my hubby i felt like i was making it (the pregnancy) up & was just so thankful the baby was ok 'cause i felt like i was killing
help & don't know where to go or what to do...& i don't know who to talk to about this or if i can safely treat it while pregnant...& recently i found out i have 2 subchorionic hemorrhages with this baby (we had to get an ultrasound 'cause i's bleeding & worried about my baby especially since my sister at 28 weeks lost her baby the week i bled badly & my SIL had an early miscarriage) & now am on pelvic rest...& feel so distant not being able to be intimate with my hubby & that's the one thing
MAJOR suicidal thoughts ('cause i feel like such a bad mom & feel like anyone can do better at this point when i'm so sad, exhausted, overwhelmed, yelling, etc.)...& then guilt because how could i do that to my kids & i do have a baby in me (which i feel very unconnected even with bad morning sickness)...& my hubby tries to help by saying "you just gotta remember they're just kids" if i yell ever...which i know, & it makes me feel more guilty & cry more if they ask if i'm ok. uggh...i just need
everybody would be better off. i don't want to hurt my baby at all though. i really don't. i'm just sad all the time (i probably cried at least 3 hours yesterday) or yelling like you said. we also have problems in our marriage, but honestly, we've had them since before marriage & it's probably better now than it's ever been, but i just feel like leaving ALL the time...& i am not someone who EVER gives up on someone normally...but feel like if i left, i couldn't live with myself, which leads to
during pregnancy to help this go away? i feel like such a bad mother to my other 2 like you said you did to yours & my hubby's a teacher, but refs a lot lately & it's just me with them a lot...& i've texted him balling recently saying how much i can't do this & i can't be a good mom to the other 2 even, i can't have more kids. i've always wanted a BIG family...lots of kids, always been good with kids, & lately, i've honestly struggled with thoughts of leaving them or hurting myself 'cause...
thank you for making this! this describes me almost to a T this pregnancy...this is my 3rd one...i have a little girl who just turned 3 in october & a little boy who turned 2 in october (a year & 5 days apart) & i'm 3 months along too. you're so right about only hearing about postpartum depression & never during pregnancy & i was beginning to think that maybe i just had postpartum with my last really bad & didn't deal with it 'cause it's getting so bad. do you know if anything can be done...
THANK YOU SO MUCH! I AM 3 MONTHS ALONG AND GOING THRU IT REALLY BAD.I HAVE A LOT OF SIMILAR FEELINGS ABOUT MY BABY INSIDE OF ME.ALSO PROBLEMS WITH A STABLE PLACE TO LIVE AND NOT BEING ABLE TO BE AROUND MY PARTNER AS MUCH.WE HAVE BEEN FIGHTING FOR ABOUT 5 DAYS STRAIGHT AND IT JUST KEEPS GETTING WORSE.YOUR VIDEO REALLY HELPED A LOT! YOU LET ME KNOW THERE IS HOPE!
Thank you so much for posting this. I am 9 weeks pregnant (first pregnancy... unplanned...) and i just feel totally depressed. Its like... i hate my baby... i never wanted a child... and i hate myself for feeling that way. I should love my child... and i dont. i'm just praying that eventually that will change.
@b7oken i never felt "i hate this baby im carrying" i was just in denial about being pregnant period , didnt feel connected to her at all, so afraid something was wrong with her or there wasnt a real baby didnt feel the "ohh im so innn love with my belly!" but she never moved around she was and still is so calm. my marriage was in a iffy
@maegan1987@b7oken spot and getting pregnant was a little bit of a shock but i was depressed big time when it came to everything else also i didnt feel "love" for my daughter till she was born i was so happy to see there was a real baby in there and she was the most beautiful baby she was my idea baby the one i always pictured.. EXAACTLY lol and i think its normal to not fall in love until after they are born most times i just didnt know it
@maegan1987 Maybe when your little one starts moving around youll feel more connected, you shouldnt feel you "hate" your unborn child you should mention that to your Dr./midwife i never felt as if i hated her just that i didnt feel connected or that in aww love till she was born.Take care okay and dont be afraid to talk to your dr. i talked to mine and it helped a LOT
This is how I feel as of right now and I'm 8 months.. I'm still in denial..with a huge belly. Thanks thanks thanks for posting this.
mzdelgado 3 months ago
Thanks for posting thisn
mzdelgado 3 months ago
video you made SOOOOO much! thank you!
soakingtheson 3 months ago
my baby with stress. uggh...sorry for this being so long...& i know you posted this forever ago...you're just the ONLY person i've ever seen talk about this & i felt like what you said is almost exactly how i feel & it was so nice when my hubby came home last night & asked what was wrong again & i found this & could explain to him a little 'cause i feel like i'm going crazy. i don't feel like myself AT ALL. please, if you know of anything i can do safely to help, please do. i appreciate the
soakingtheson 3 months ago
@soakingtheson Sounds like you're having a pretty rough go of it this pregnancy. I know it's been 3 months, but if you're still having a rough time, feel free to go to my page and email me. Prenatal anxiety/depression was a nightmare for me (to put it lightly) and I'm sure I can empathize. Seven years later, I now have an amazing boy. I never dreamed I would ever get to that point. But there is a light at the end of this tunnel!
rawmamma 4 days ago
i really enjoyed & helped me release some stress...normally exercise helped a little too, although i would have to stop it to throw up a lot so it hasn't been so relieving this pregnancy...& now i can't exercise either due to the hemorrhages & the dr. said it's unsafe right now. when they showed i had a baby on the ultrasound & that it moved i burst out crying...& told my hubby i felt like i was making it (the pregnancy) up & was just so thankful the baby was ok 'cause i felt like i was killing
soakingtheson 3 months ago
help & don't know where to go or what to do...& i don't know who to talk to about this or if i can safely treat it while pregnant...& recently i found out i have 2 subchorionic hemorrhages with this baby (we had to get an ultrasound 'cause i's bleeding & worried about my baby especially since my sister at 28 weeks lost her baby the week i bled badly & my SIL had an early miscarriage) & now am on pelvic rest...& feel so distant not being able to be intimate with my hubby & that's the one thing
soakingtheson 3 months ago
MAJOR suicidal thoughts ('cause i feel like such a bad mom & feel like anyone can do better at this point when i'm so sad, exhausted, overwhelmed, yelling, etc.)...& then guilt because how could i do that to my kids & i do have a baby in me (which i feel very unconnected even with bad morning sickness)...& my hubby tries to help by saying "you just gotta remember they're just kids" if i yell ever...which i know, & it makes me feel more guilty & cry more if they ask if i'm ok. uggh...i just need
soakingtheson 3 months ago
everybody would be better off. i don't want to hurt my baby at all though. i really don't. i'm just sad all the time (i probably cried at least 3 hours yesterday) or yelling like you said. we also have problems in our marriage, but honestly, we've had them since before marriage & it's probably better now than it's ever been, but i just feel like leaving ALL the time...& i am not someone who EVER gives up on someone normally...but feel like if i left, i couldn't live with myself, which leads to
soakingtheson 3 months ago
during pregnancy to help this go away? i feel like such a bad mother to my other 2 like you said you did to yours & my hubby's a teacher, but refs a lot lately & it's just me with them a lot...& i've texted him balling recently saying how much i can't do this & i can't be a good mom to the other 2 even, i can't have more kids. i've always wanted a BIG family...lots of kids, always been good with kids, & lately, i've honestly struggled with thoughts of leaving them or hurting myself 'cause...
soakingtheson 3 months ago
thank you for making this! this describes me almost to a T this pregnancy...this is my 3rd one...i have a little girl who just turned 3 in october & a little boy who turned 2 in october (a year & 5 days apart) & i'm 3 months along too. you're so right about only hearing about postpartum depression & never during pregnancy & i was beginning to think that maybe i just had postpartum with my last really bad & didn't deal with it 'cause it's getting so bad. do you know if anything can be done...
soakingtheson 3 months ago
THANK YOU SO MUCH! I AM 3 MONTHS ALONG AND GOING THRU IT REALLY BAD.I HAVE A LOT OF SIMILAR FEELINGS ABOUT MY BABY INSIDE OF ME.ALSO PROBLEMS WITH A STABLE PLACE TO LIVE AND NOT BEING ABLE TO BE AROUND MY PARTNER AS MUCH.WE HAVE BEEN FIGHTING FOR ABOUT 5 DAYS STRAIGHT AND IT JUST KEEPS GETTING WORSE.YOUR VIDEO REALLY HELPED A LOT! YOU LET ME KNOW THERE IS HOPE!
Sexxiness1688 1 year ago
Thank you so much for posting this. I am 9 weeks pregnant (first pregnancy... unplanned...) and i just feel totally depressed. Its like... i hate my baby... i never wanted a child... and i hate myself for feeling that way. I should love my child... and i dont. i'm just praying that eventually that will change.
b7oken 1 year ago
@b7oken i never felt "i hate this baby im carrying" i was just in denial about being pregnant period , didnt feel connected to her at all, so afraid something was wrong with her or there wasnt a real baby didnt feel the "ohh im so innn love with my belly!" but she never moved around she was and still is so calm. my marriage was in a iffy
maegan1987 1 year ago
@maegan1987 @b7oken spot and getting pregnant was a little bit of a shock but i was depressed big time when it came to everything else also i didnt feel "love" for my daughter till she was born i was so happy to see there was a real baby in there and she was the most beautiful baby she was my idea baby the one i always pictured.. EXAACTLY lol and i think its normal to not fall in love until after they are born most times i just didnt know it
maegan1987 1 year ago
@maegan1987 Maybe when your little one starts moving around youll feel more connected, you shouldnt feel you "hate" your unborn child you should mention that to your Dr./midwife i never felt as if i hated her just that i didnt feel connected or that in aww love till she was born.Take care okay and dont be afraid to talk to your dr. i talked to mine and it helped a LOT
maegan1987 1 year ago