I too had a wake up call... we actually met at one of the Special Olympics. You were wonderful with my daughter Shari... Matt and her were to marry. He cheated with his friend's girlfriend. Now we are all single! We are women with pain and the pain will pass... step back then walk forward again. Look at your kids now grown up (or trying)... with love and peace, Ursula
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"go get some help"? I am telling her my experience from 30 yrs ago..i dont need help. She does.
Yeah, her husband was a dick, and was unfaithful. But, he most likely is a good man and was a good father. He made a mistake. But, that doesnt mean she should also make a mistake herself, by making things worse.
If Arnold were a realy jerk, and was mistreating her, i could see her leaving and would agree. But, he is not. So why make things worse by seperating the family?
Believe in yourself again. Know that you made the right decision. Be patient, compassionate with yourself. While it's good to reflect alone, balance that with time that will occupy your mind and body, too. Spend some time with those who have known, love and understand you since forever. Stay away from all else. You don't need to have answers; just flow, cry, and trust that you are protected. Have faith that you are fine and will continue to be fine, and each day gets better.
Maria is a beautiful woman inside and out. I know, I met this gracious lady a year ago at a Memorial Day Event. Maria, your strength inspires me. I wish you all things good.
Stay single and explore what your strengths and interests are. Discover where your fulfillment and passion lies. This can be a launching pad for a whole new wonderful world of experiences and self development. A man will only hold you back.
Everyday you must learn something new, improve yourself in all aspects. Be the best that you can be. Always have good intentions. Be approachabe and have a good energy. Meet new people. Pray to God. Opportunities will come and you will be ready to succeed.
Everyday you must learn something new, improve yourself in all aspects. Be the best that you can be. Always have good intentions. Be approachabe and have a good energy. Meet new people. Pray to God. Opportunities will come and you will be ready to succeed.
Everyday you must learn something new, improve yourself in all aspects. Be the best that you can be. Always have good intentions. Be approachabe and have a good energy. Meet new people. Pray to God. Opportunities will come and you will be ready to succeed.
Everyday you must learn something new, improve yourself in all aspects. Be the best that you can be. Always have good intentions. Be approachabe and have a good energy. Meet new people. Pray to God. Opportunities will come and you will be ready to succeed.
whoever @JDRinAz is is not the same as me I think Maria is great. She had great parents and service oriented brothers. They are the epitome of the best in American family life. Arnold is a mess.
I found out that the man I spent nine years of my life with was cheating on me while I was undergoing treatment for cancer. I lefted him. It made me stronger. Today I turn to good friends for support; and I get strengh from within and from my faith in God to move forward so I wouldn't get "stuck". My quest to handle "transition"came from believing in my self worth. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Maria, I am scared that this will happend to me. So to protect myself, I further my education and I am a few classes away from my master. I have saved money, not close to what you have am sure but enough to support me for a few years if i dont find a job.
Further more, you put up with him for 25 years, why leave now? and why give him away???
If you are not willing to work with him and do indeed get a divorce, there really not much you can do but to " take it one day at a time." Love to you.
Maria, I am scared that this will happend to me. So to protect myself, I further my education and I am a few classes away from my master. I have saved money, not close to what you have am sure but enough to support me for a few years if i dont find a job.
Further more, you put up with for 25 years, why leave now? and why give him away???
If you are not willing to work with him and do indeed get a divorce, there really not much you can do but to " take it one day at a time." Love to you.
Im just feel sorry for you. You are grown up women and yoiu know all men cheat. You have (or had) Arnold - whole world will remember him, who will remember yoiu? As a women - i will say . be proud to have a husband like that plus you had 4 kids with him. Sometimetimes its a good idea to keep your own "pride" but to save your children and familily. You will right another book? But most of the people will watch another movie with Arnold. I know that Russia will. Sorry dear..
Dear Maria, Don't worry about "NEXT" - just deal with today and take care of yourself and your children. You asked for 3 things that enabled others to get through their "transition" - for me it was self-affirmation; turning to good friends for support; and gathering strengh from within and from my faith to move forward so I wouldn't get "stuck". My quest to handle "transition" came after 33 years of marriage, so I had to figure out who I was again. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I remember when I separated from my former husband 7 years ago. The minister we went to said, "You know, a woman who divorces in California drops down 2 steps on the socioeconomic scale almost immediately." Not very good spiritual advice. You are a Kennedy - so I doubt that the socioeconomic scale is even relevant. But, knowing now the emotional effect a divorce would have on my kids - I'd have forgiven more and turned to my faith for guidance - bad advice and all.
My crisis took place 32 years ago. Faith really does make a difference. The crisis ended up solidifying and strengthening my faith. It's stronger than ever! Nobody can take that from me.
How to get through it? I had to learn to forgive. It was a process. If I hadn't forgiven, I'd be a bitter, angry woman today.
I learned a LOT -- about me . . . who I really was, and that was a good thing.
I wish I would of known that not all people and really nearly none have any type of moral compass.
It took me YEARS to realize that I was raised with morals most people do not have or want. SO I spent a lot of time trying to figure out why people do what they do and how do they live with out that compass and also me trying to in still in them what my parents gave me. But now at 51 I know that I am me. that they are who they are and it is what it is.
Maria... just give yourself time to heal.... all veils of illusion are being lifted in the world right now....just walk thru and come out on the other side stronger and more aware of yourself.... DO WHAT"S MAKES YOU HAPPY... DO WHAT"S IN YOUR HEART.... let go of all the emotional pain so that you can really hear what's in your heart of hearts. I am sending you lots of love and light in this difficult time of transition. You always create your experiences in life so that you can learn and grow.
How you handle transition totally depends on the situation.Just like in everything else in life,proper planning will be beneficial in order to tackle whatever situation one is dealing with.On the other hand, reality can prove some transitions to be very difficult to deal with,and unfortunately this kinds of transitions can only be healed/dealt with as time passes and there's really nothing we can do to change the situation.On the other hand,some transitions totally depend on ourselves.good luck
that old saying you probably heard from your aunts and elders is true - time does heal. although you still remember the love and the hurt, you go on and laugh again and go about normal life without feeling like you have a black cloud following you. If it was true love you felt for your husband, than it will take more time, but you will feel more normal and less burdened with emotion when you have gone thru the grief. I know - I did
I would have saved more money and been prepared financially.
I went through a 5 year depression even before he retired as he had just had a 3rd affair within 2 years and getting ready to deploy. Came for a visit and baby number 6. Wondering who I was and what I was going to do without him. Very blessed to have a chaplain that was on my side.
I can raise children without the completion of a man.
I am not alone.
I found a life in Christ whom I can serve through doing things through others. Some people say He is a crutch. I would rather be with a crutch then without especially when I am in pain.
I actually made more friends being single then married. Men are homebodies. Couch potatoes. Wanting to control our lives.
I am the single mother of 8 children but not by choice. My ex husband is US Navy retired and he lost his way within 6 years after his retirement. He filed for divorce because I would not put up with the adultrey anymore after 18 years, He is a swinger who has decided it is more fun trying to get AIDS then spending time with his children. Just as the past 19 years, he is a great provider.
Maria, sit with the disturbance and let God speak to you in that space of your disturbance. Sit in silence and wait for the Lord. God has a master plan for us all, he knows best what we need. Make God your daily companion as he has something better for you than you can imagine and he will reveal it on His own time. Keep the Faith. Trust, Patience & Courage. God be with you.
Maria, when I heard on the news, I just had to stop and said a prayer for you. I am currently going through a transition as well after 20years of marriage. What helped me get through this past year is FAITH. I am Catholic and I had the shoulder of a Nun from my high school days and a friend as well. There is so many stages in this transitions, but prayers, reflection and scripture readings, even meditation in religious music helped me keep grounded. In short, some say these are dark days, but n
Maria, So sorry for your loss. Losing a family and morning what you thought you had can be the most painful. Unfortunately, being a good Catholic girl doesn't bring the best people to us- easy prey. I have suffered from the same experience and I know what you are going through. The other woman/women do not have your best interest at heart no matter what the mirror. Trust your instincts now and trust no person who pretends. It is time for you to take care you yourself and your children!
@Orenda7 who says they have to fight? They dont have to fight.,. They can be civil and apart...You and her are letting your emotions get the best of you..they are both being selfish....and i know it depends on the situation..but these two dont have to seperate the entire family...but, i am not surprised about the situation...she apparently was too nieve to know what was going on. She probably knew earlier but ignored it. And he didnt know the value of being fathful.
There is a process of denial, grieving, anger, acceptance and forgiveness it takes years. Do not short cut the process it will take one longer to mend. Read books to help you understand and confide only in your therapist. I recommend you read Transcending post-Infidelity Stress Disorder, Narcissistic Lovers and the Language of Letting Go. Find peace and hugs with family and friends.
I have always admired your strength and intelligence. Your commitment to your family speaks volumes. I can't imagine what it's like to be a public figure with my life so televised. When things like this happen, all I can do is pray and ask God to give me understanding and guidance. It never fails. Suddenly I'm back on track doing something I love. I hope this helps and please know I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
one last word...My mother told me she was thinking of leaving my father when i was young..She didnt, of course. I know she did it for me and my brothers and sisters. She gave me a normal family with a fathe and mother living together. I am thankful for that.. I will never forget the mistake my father made, as will many others. I try my best not to be like him when it comes to woman. Thank you mother for thinking of me...as for my father; i grew to love him more. but still remember his mistake.
@yorishiku2525 I am sorry, but I disagree a woman should stay married just for the kids. Certainly there are cases where forgiveness & reconciliation is the best option, but sleeping in separate bedrooms and setting a poor example of a loving home is not one of them. There are times a mother must set an example for her children by standing up for herself and not settling for unhealthy relationships in one's life.
@bje010, a relationship is only unhealty when you make it appear so. Do you think a seperation is an example of a good relationship? do you think your children would learn something from parents going different directions, each careing more about themselves then their children? place yourself in a postion of a child: YOur parents hate each other. Your parents dont believe in forgiveness. Your parents think more of themselves. this is what you want to teach them? yes, i depends on other factors
continue...stay together for the children...Do it for them. Stay in the same house with ARnold. Sleep in different rooms if you have to. But, keep the family together for your children. .Even though your children may show support for you, they really dont want you to seperated...and they will love you more, for keeping the family together. Your children know what arnold did was wrong and they will never forget that...Dont be selfish like arnold...and i know it hurts.
are you thinking of your children? How it may effect them. Some children are devestated when their parents seperate even though they may not say it. Arnold forgot what was important to him when he cheated on you..Will you also forget what is important when you seperate the family? will you be selfish like arnold was? Because you will be seperating the family. My father cheated on my Mother. I dont like him for doing that, but i am glad they were both still there "together" for me..
Maria, I know that this is an unpopular thing to say, but don't be afraid not to end the marriage. You have been together 25 years. In a new relationship, you may experience the same thing, unfaithfulness. Don't be afraid to forgive. Talk to Arnold, yell, punch him if needed. But if you in your heart don't want your marriage to end, then forgive him. You are not the first or the last to be in a situation like this.
Three Things that Helped Me Transition to a New Life:
1. Forget what other people think or say about you.
2. Don't be afraid when you have no idea what to do. Be eager for surprises.
3. Listen to the inner voice for guidance.
The Thing I Most Want:
For women to come together to take their rightful place next to men-- not in front--not behind--but beside our men, so women will learn to be responsible for adding 50% of what is necessary to make a better world.
Dear Marie, I know, from past interviews and the Oprah show that you do believe in God. You all ready have what you need to handle transitions in your life. Bring in the FROG. Fully Rely On GOD. I to went through many crisis in my life. I know from my own experiences that God may seem far away at present, but believe me he is right there beside you.
I'm dealing with a similar betrayal. My wife of 25 years had an affair. We have been torn apart by it for about 6 months. We're holding it together because we are financially strapped and we have a kid in college. A divorce would bankrupt us...and I don't want my kids impacted. But the pain seems too much to bare.
I'm at a loss what to do...but the words of your readers are helpful. Thanks for being a champion for those of us with similar pain...I admire your strength...hang in there.
I am going thru a divorce as we speak do to my husband having mutiple affairs. I can say that I stayed for no good reason! I now am in the process of moving into my own home, that I just bought and saying good bye to my past and him! I think that no matter who you are, as a woman we have a strength that men do not have, and there for you, me and so many women out there are strong enough to start over!!!! You go girl......You are an inspiration to many!
Hi Maria, my prayers go with you in your transition. You are a strong Catholic woman & will have better years ahead :). Having vacationed on Cape Cod since I was 5, now I am 50 - I would say to you . . . take that much needed respite there. It has always been a great place to re-charge batteries. Surround yourself with the happy memories of your childhood. I agree with everyone else . . . let God & your relationship with him get you through this difficult time & call on your angels for guidance.
Like you I'm Catholic, divorced after 20+ yrs, older and transitioning professionally, etc. But I'm a man 9 years into it.
What I thought I wanted at the start I've found I was not healed and ready for. Critical for me to forgive, have no resentment and acknowledge my role -- to honestly get to know myself.
I'm still unattached and get lonely at night, but I have many new friends, have fun, learn new things and have passion for life. I'm shy, but show up. At peace and you will be too!
Ahh, transition- the growing pains of life. As a woman in midlife who has gone through many transitions, I personally have grown to appreciate what they bring to my life- refreshing change, new perspective, often a seemingly whole new way of living. As challenging as it can be to go through them, they always seem to work out for the best. They remind me that I'm here to grow and to change, to not be stagnate or get into a rut, that I am an eternal being and when they happen I'm ready to GROW.
Maria, seek Christ, go to the gym and enjoy friends and family. Life is waaay 2 short to worry about "stuff" like this. Sure he's the father of your beautiful children and you've loved him FOREVER but maybe he never really deserved you from the start.
I can tell you this for sure....EVERY YEAR IN COLUMBUS, HE WAS A MESS!
Maria, take time to draw close to God and pray. In a time like this communicating with your Lord and savior Jesus Christ will give you strength. Jesus is the friend that sticks closer than a brother. I am praying for you--Sabrina Johnson-Gayle
Take care of you, in whatever way it feels right. Be selfish and tell yourself regularly that this is OK because it's the well tilled soil, that gets sunshine and water, that will bloom later. 'Tincture of time' - take 1 tsp daily. Read 'Desiderata'... over and over.
Watch this video once a week and make a drinking game of it, a shot of your chosen beverage every time you say transition, and a double when you air quote it.
Thanks for sharing where you are right now, I can really relate, I've recently moved to Australia and feel in transition as well. Something that has really helped me and given me a lot of faith in life is a blog I've created called Good Things That Happened Today. Even when I have a so called terrible day I am forced to look for something good that has happened every day. I look forward to writing it everyday!
1) Take care of yourself, literally....eat well, get plenty of sleep, get plenty of fluids, exercise. 2) Do things that comfort you....baths, massage, walk in nature, dinner with friend. 3) Give yourself permission to NOT have it all figured out. Your emotions will be so in flux it would be hard to make many MAJOR decisions. 4) Nurture your spiritual self...for me, read my Bible, pray/ meditate, volunteer.
Godspeed Maria! I will pray for You and your family!
Pray Pray Pray...everyday! You will at sometime need to forgive, not to say it is ok, but for yourself to move on. You will have to experience all of the emotions on the wheel. Counseling is good too. You will see this 1st as the storm you are about to go through, then see it as a mountain you are coming upon, then it turns into a hill, then a small bump, then a small crack in the road, and then it dissipates. Make time for God, Yourself & your Family. God Bless You Maria we <3 u!!
Dear Maria.. First off I would like to say, I feel for you.. I have been there.. It's going to hurt like hell, it will hurt like hell, but you will get past all of this.. You are going through a grieving process much like Death.. You're Angry, you're hurting and you're self doubting. Please don't by no means take this lightly.. My best words of Wisdom came from my dearly departed Father. "This Too Shall Pass" and also.. You will become your own woman out of determination.
Now Iam CERTAIN that it is because I have a stong purpose in life :) Here are the videos, I also went to landmark education course, very inspirational and helpful but not the answer to lifes obstacles, it is just an aid along with these videos. Because the real answer is within us. The videos I watch to remind me of positivism ARE TITLED: WEAR SUNCSREEN, I START MY DAY WITH LOVE POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS: HOW TO BE POSITIVE
wear suncreen, I am sure you have already watched it. Remember the part that says "the most interesting people I have met didnt know what the wanted to do at the age of 40"
Start seeing your circumstances as molders, molding you into perfection for the afterlife. Making you stronger and beautiful. And when you forget to be positive and optimistic, watch these videos, they helped me. My parents left me when I was little, grandparents raised me , my grandma got cancer. And I asked why?
When we were born we did not sign a contract saying that we were going to have everything figured out every minute of our life. You are a STRONG INDEPENDENT women with many responsibilites and because of these attributes you like to know the answers, you like to be ahead of the game and that is great but not in this case, let life be unpredictable. Do the best you can everyday, in everything and embrace transition. Change is good. You can never make everyone happy but you can make yourself happy
Maria I am sure all the stressors in life are getting to you at this point and I don't blame you , you're human. I was watching your interview with letterman and you looked so happy, so radiant. You should try to reminise on those days and embrace that happinness that you felt. Not necesarilly the fact that you were going to have a kid but the happiness you felt. Focus on that happinesss, focus on the present because EVERYTHING has a solution except death. Love your kids, be grateful .
First, I wanted to say how sorry I am to hear about your impending divorce. I went through a divorce in 2005 and I would not wish it on anyone. Sometimes divorce is necessary. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of your husband. You will come out of this stronger. Keep only the good and let ALL the bad go ! You ARE a very strong force for GOOD. I love Ghandi's quote: " Be the change you want to see in the world." Give yourself time to heal. Then BE (express) the GOOD you want to see.
My marriage ended after 23 years of marriage, after my husband confessed to having had an affair with my sister 15 years before. It has been almost 3 years since our separation, and one year since our divorce. The transition comes in layers, it takes time. I got treatment (counseling) and was on antidepressants for one year. But I have found myself again. Somebody asked me once: How does one eat an elephant? and the answer was one piece at a time... The transition is the same...
Hmm. Let's see how I handled transition. Six months pregnant and I lose my job. Behind in rent. No money, and what little I have has to go to my car payment and insurance. If I lose my car getting to my dr.'s appts will be hell. Find out baby I'm carrying has a severe physical disabiltiy. I end up with gestational diabetes and suffer from pre-term labor. Bed rest in mandatory. Employment impossible. Have to move the day after my baby is due. How do i handle transition?
Maria you are not a man you are a woman with emotions, feelings. I say go through all of the feelings, emotions that you have but don't stay there. Get up brush your knees off and know that there is another day. Take one day at a time. I would truly like to meet you one day. No matter how rich or poor you are emotions, feelings are the same
Transitions? That's crap. You hit the ground running. That's what real men do. All this talk about transitions is for dependent type folk who are dependent on others. Real men hit the ground running.
As a just turned 59 yr old who was laid off and whose mother died last year, I too understand transition. Like a trapeze artist that has let go of one swing and in mid air, waiting for the next swing, it is hard not to look down and be fearful. In the almost too quiet moments, I find myself listening for the whispering of what's next and hearing to be patient.I am hearing that silent voice that says the winds of today's moments pass quickly; find the joy. Perhaps that is 2011's lesson for us.
Maria, first...do not let this change who you are or muffle your spirit. Second, keep family first and VERY few friends second. Third, pray without ceasing. By the Grace of God do any of us make it through it. Remember, this too shall pass. Luv u!!!!
God gives everyone a Right in life to do and be nothing and still be vital important and loved in this world. Being is a skill. Takes awhile to learn that giving love and time to yourself is also important. So after you run really fast to hid from your fears and your loves then think about just being the lovely women yourself and relaxe for what goes on in this world is not a definition of your self. Or a reflection of whatever a lot of the time. Chose youre peace of mind. Everyone else Be
is required or permited I ask only myself and God. So I share this with you and your children. I know that both you and Arnold do not actually breath deeply or relaxed and that you hold breath to make yourselves feel stronger in stress this is not true health and your children probably do the same. OK so learn to breath and move and streatch and for you Maria you need to learn to do nothing. You are a busy person with lots of goings on and you need the skill of doing Nothing. for your soul
turn on and off emotions and feelings and enlarge blood vesells and keep the breathing regular like I studied bio feedback and I never had but I studied E. Indian Yogies for a long time. The mind plus the body working together is a beautiful thing. It is a skill God gives people to make sure their bodies under stress do not destroy themselves and the mind needs to figure out a plan to deal with everything at an appropriate time also I pick times to scream if I want to, nobodies permission
So everyone should do this without having to go to a person to tell them you don't know why you are unhappy or you do and don't want to face it alone. You have yourself and your family and real friends but mostly you have yourself and this is a SKILL a life skill to deal with stupid things that go on in life. WAR is a bad place to be and living is sometimes feels worse... but it isn't. It just feels that way. So I have used this all my life my mother said she never saw a person who could
with it later. It is good to teach children this now. To save them all their lives slowely at the time without the great build up of undealt with emotions fears and sorrows. Now next you wait until you have some more time and a happy mood and deal with a little more then you hit the OFF button and away it goes for later. Now you are facing your deamons good and bad and you will not overstress the body or your mind and you are not storing your stress in your bodies or your tissues or mind
from your conscious mind to save your life. But if it builds up then it explodes. It can kill you really this is true. So you have to druge this stuff up within "reason" and take whatever amount of it you can when you are in a happy range and emotionally prepared to deal with just a little more at a time. Then when you find you hit the high range or trama past your middle and range to left and righ then you have to push your little button OFF. Away it goes. You still have it you can deal
Now since you have a middle range in emotions and monitor you blood pressure in anger etc. (to keep from having a cardiac arrest etc), you now know what ranges you have as a person everyone is different. OK next you pick what you would like to go through the happy stuff which makes you cry like moments with loved ones you miss or unhappy moments you would like to run from. Now the body is a miracle from God really it will not let you go through too much bad things at once it hides it
to emotions and memories like they come out of nowhere to your conscious mind but your subconsious mind knows where they come from sometimes they can hit you at very bad times in your life with the overwhelm. OK so you have to keep a diary of happy ranges, middle so and so ranges, and very bad ranges of emotions. Then pick a middle point on the highest and lowest ranges you can remember. Pick this middle and then go a few degrees to the left and right so high or low of the middle point
most people you need about an hour of Yoga or whatever streatching. Not hard moving something relaxing and stretching. 3) since you have a whole life of some really wonderful stuff you don't want to feel and terrible things like deaths and tramas etc you need to let off steam. So here is how it goes so it does not get out of control and ruin your happyness and health. You have to pase yourself and let off steam when you can emotionally deal with the memories or emotions not attached
Ok I have know this for a long time first it comes out of norther Europe with the Hords of warriors going south then it took a few changes and I still know the Sumarian verson of dealing with very bad stuff after wars or with love. OK so since everyone holds a lot of their emotions inside their bodies locked up and hidden from their fears and sorry it is important to 1) breath you hold your breath a lot, 2) movie with slower movements like tai chi, Qigong, and Yoga not for 20 minutes but for
Robert Kennedy after his death has helped me get started on my court case against some felons in Iowa so I am eternally grateful. Cool people in your family. So here goes please don't discount the Kung Fu stuff it is actually really important for several reasons it has a pasing on it for breathing control to help people reach their inner Tao. I needed that in some very tramatic and almost died a few time situations. Ok next I am going to tell you how to deal with post tramatic stress.
listen to the grass grow on a golf course I lived near in Indian Palms. So interesting you ask what to do I tell you to do nothing sorry. I want you to listen to yourself in your still small voice of wisdom of self. This is actually a great opportunity for you to come out from behind and surpase your wildest dreams of knowing the beautiful person you are without trying to please anyone except yourself. Know that you are loved. Grace EchoEagleHawk JFK and Robert send love and strength.
I know your mother was so afraid of losing you. She is doing well I am a medium. You need to self define yourself. Maybe go somewhere and scream what you really felt about anything and everyone. So get to know self is what I would advise your were always there for everyone else be there for yourself and see how many people will be there for you as well. Louise Hay wrote a book on healing that I love and it may help you. I watched Kung Fu on TV when my mother passed I did nothing but
forceful and moving and physical that you have been just sort of following and doing what you thought you were "supposed" to do. I wish I had known how to go to Heaven to recharge my life. Well if found Sylvia Brownes Temples in heaven book with self hypnosis and I go to heaven sometimes just to see my mom and family. You have always done what you were supposed to do. For you maybe you need to break a few patterns and break free the real Maria will shine in the love you really need now.
Hi I am Margaret sometimes I ilsten to a few Kennedys. It is important for you to do yoga tai chi and Qigong. I think for you being in the natural areas of life like gardens and relaxing your many things you do. I know you are super busy and think it is normal and want to keep busy so as not to hurt or wonder but the burden will be a lot more than you think so you must relax and breath and be good to yourself and your children. Every once and awhile I hear Arnold as well he is very
when you date guys younger. They are different and they view older women differently Their younger energy will help you. Don't get one who has been married. he has to be Single, NO kids NOWHERE. Nice hot body and FRESH FRESH ideas. This will help you find your kundalini energy and with that it will help you to decide what to do with your life. Doesnt have to be serious seriou but just FUN. do something for FUN. Men do that all the time. at this moment live for YOURSELF think about YOURSELF
Well Maria. first we all should have a party for you. Then you should go do some charity work in like Haiti or IDK filthy homeless shelter or something that you dont' really want to do but you do it so you remind yourself of how lucky you are. Then you go to more stuff but this time you take a guy who is 32 to 35 with a HOT body way more sexier than Arnold and you just go whererver and look like you are having a GREAT time. it will force you to look younger, u will find yourself by kundalini
Last But Definitely not lease. DO NOT blame yourself for this...take it easy on yourself and do not take on the gult of someone else bad choices....Too many women blame themselves for a philandering husband...DO NOT do this. Give yourself the blessing to know tha you had no part is this sin against marriage.
Take Care, Girl....You are beautifu inside and how....Later, if you wish, find a better man knows how to be a loving huband.
The things that help me to get through transisition is to mentally or paper acknowledge all of the gifts that GOD has given you weather, health, generositk beauty, wealth ets. Always count your blessings.
Also I have about 30 songs that I call my Anthems....These are secular and gospel songs that have a positive meaning and touch me in some deep ways. Read book titled "Deadly Emotions" by Dr. Colbert ( dont remember is first name )
Maria, from Dec 2010 to 2011 present, I have had transitions that you speak of in every area. Three things: 1) I realized what happens to me, isn't all about me; it's about how others can be healed from watching y response. 2) I determined to use the best of my professional skills to find the best match with an employer, and finally be happy. 3) I found the love of my life decades ago; sometimes the test of love, is responding to the hurt is by fighting for love. I did it. I was glad.
95% of the population, if going through that x9,000 would have done MUCH MORE than mass email TRUE ALLEGATIONS of these fuckup paparazzis
This will all be very clear when these fuckups are locked up. 2 fuckup teleprompter readers must face 40 years in prison no questions asked. May 2008 to present. 50%+ of THIS YEAR 2011 I will never get back. Most of 2010 I will never get back. this fuckup maria and fuckup frogface melissa must be punished. Illegal paparazzi x9,000
THAT moment of her many would think: (What a rude bitch). If this happened for 3 PLUS YEARS -- YOU call the cops yet THEY try to call the cops and persist in the paparazzi = jail time not only for the illegal part of it and being a private person, but for causing inhumane mental torment. That reaction of hers was not flattering -- imagine x 9,000. Sending shit as an UNDERREACTION to a scumbag's bp legal game and STILL having it drag on and trying to use it AGAINST ME.
I actually felt bad for her when I saw some paparazzi taking pics during her current predicament while she was with her kids
Wow like, I have so much to say my elite brain is clogged right now.
Ok. So, basically I'm in a predicament like hers, but, and I say with ZERO EXAGGERATION: 1,000 - 9,000 TIMES WORSE.
Imagine a tmz-like bunch of fuckup teleprompter readers doing this but with sadism. They continue to do that for 3+ years; kitty genevese (I'm skipping so much here) if you ONLY saw
Remember one thing grasshopper, life is like a road to the rainbow, reach up to grab it and once you do get ahold of it...never let go, as the road will be bumpy along the way, but the extra strength you put into holding on will pay off in the end. Trust in yourself and believe in yourself during your transition.
I think you should seriously consider attending 'Burning Man' in September. There is a different theme each year and 2011 just happens to be 'Rites of Passage' (the concept of which can involve periods of transition and change for many). In 2009 I quite my job, remortgaged my house and went to Burning Man for the first time. It was the single most wonderful thing I could have done for myself, for the renewed sense of wonder, adventure and spirit of community.
Thank you for asking, I'm not sure even if you will read this or not, you are a succesfull woman, I think you may want to take a break from all the work! Just take a moment and take a deep breath, realize that it's ok to just be, the new season will come but now it may be a season for thought and reflection on life and reason we are here on this earth. I know for sure there is a lot of work to be done here around us, there are people needing help, needing their lucky day, special...
By the way Maria, Arnold is not even an attractive man. And now he has a turkey neck. And you are younger. You can be a Cougar Woman and get a younger boyfriend. "You" could be Movie Star. And like I said, you could have a pet or two, like two cats or two dogs, that you could bond with, and wow, the joy you can have with a pet or two you really really like is amazing. Ask Caesar Milan, the Dog Whisperer, he could tell you about the joy from nice pets.
One more thing Maria, maybe this is the third idea, if you do go on a date to get Arnold out of your system and start anew, please, maybe do it the old fashioned Irish way, the way of being chaperoned, & do not have sex on your date; & pray & draw close to God, because God is your best friend. He walks with you. He wants to walk & talk with you. I can see u in Ireland like on a hayride chaperoned date with a younger handsome Irish religious single male; later,dancing, dining in a public place.
It took me quite awhile to break away from a negative relationship, breaking up, getting back together, breaking up, getting back together, over and over and over again, even though it was an abusive relationship. I finally just went out on a date with another guy, actually it was an actor, David Soul. I wish I had known long before that it really helps to go out with someone new. Three things? I just remember the one, I went out with someone new. Also, getting a pet you really like helps too.
I am currently undergoing a total life transition. Work, social, love, everything has changed. I find that this period is extremely difficult especially as you get older. I am still unsure what to do. I seem to spend all my day worrying. I feel like I am going nuts. Glad to know I am not the only one.
She and her mom resemble equine. Reason being is that her mom (Enos) had a love affair with several horses. She tried several times to marry one. She had a long lerm love affiar with Secratariat. Enos was so old she was a waitress at the last supper.
It's the perfect time to get out of your comfort zone and do things that you thought were crazy to try or do in your life...take in new experiences that make you feel happy and puts you in a better place emotionally...and cry when you need to!
I've been in a perpetual "free -fall" for 4 years from the life I thought I knew, it has been the hardest thing I've ever had to endure. I've let go of society's "norms" for my life...now I live life to have no regrets at the end of this crazy journey.
My transitions? i learned it was better to be with one women instead of 50. I learned it was better to have less possesions and they were crowding my sphere of concern. I learned i need financial freedom, to not worry about paying bills, so that i could focus my attention on what really mattered. I learned its not the place but the people in that place that count. I learned it was better to transcend the situation than be controlled by it. The most important thing besides faith is ones health.
1) I stayed too long at a job I hated, made me miserable and literally started to manifest itself physically, afraid to leave because of the bad economy but I should've had more faith in myself and left a bad situation sooner; 2) I spent weeks wondering what I wanted to do. 3) Then I realized I had to ask myself the right questions: What are the things I love most in life? What vehicle can I create to allow me to do them? So I enrolled in a Green MBA in sustainable enterprise at Dominican U.
Living in the moment and doing what you need to do to survive and not worry about your goals or where they will take you. Live in the now. Constantly worrying about things, your health, other people's health, the future, is going to hold you back and hurt you more, emotionally.
@jwbrewer04- You are a truly lovely person. Your husband is a lucky man, I'm sure he knows it. For having you, not dying of cancer. I'm so sorry you both have to experiance that. You sound like the perfect person to be by his side. Bless you both.
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Ask to the transsexual, hypocrites.
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Ask to the FBI.
GeminaMcVeigh 2 weeks ago
Who loves me?
Life is not easy.
Im not a teacher, even a student.
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businesseast 3 weeks ago
Maria, I miss your videos like this!
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Maria Shriver is the most beautiful woman alive!
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I too had a wake up call... we actually met at one of the Special Olympics. You were wonderful with my daughter Shari... Matt and her were to marry. He cheated with his friend's girlfriend. Now we are all single! We are women with pain and the pain will pass... step back then walk forward again. Look at your kids now grown up (or trying)... with love and peace, Ursula
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"go get some help"? I am telling her my experience from 30 yrs ago..i dont need help. She does.
Yeah, her husband was a dick, and was unfaithful. But, he most likely is a good man and was a good father. He made a mistake. But, that doesnt mean she should also make a mistake herself, by making things worse.
If Arnold were a realy jerk, and was mistreating her, i could see her leaving and would agree. But, he is not. So why make things worse by seperating the family?
yorishiku2525 3 months ago
Believe in yourself again. Know that you made the right decision. Be patient, compassionate with yourself. While it's good to reflect alone, balance that with time that will occupy your mind and body, too. Spend some time with those who have known, love and understand you since forever. Stay away from all else. You don't need to have answers; just flow, cry, and trust that you are protected. Have faith that you are fine and will continue to be fine, and each day gets better.
SFGal9 3 months ago
Maria is a beautiful woman inside and out. I know, I met this gracious lady a year ago at a Memorial Day Event. Maria, your strength inspires me. I wish you all things good.
cynmarie33 4 months ago
Stay single and explore what your strengths and interests are. Discover where your fulfillment and passion lies. This can be a launching pad for a whole new wonderful world of experiences and self development. A man will only hold you back.
tori481 5 months ago
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this one ugly bitch !!!!who should be shot in the face with a big ass gun!!!
dmack43 5 months ago
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@dmack43 That's pretty harsh.
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this one ugly bitch !!!!
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Everyday you must learn something new, improve yourself in all aspects. Be the best that you can be. Always have good intentions. Be approachabe and have a good energy. Meet new people. Pray to God. Opportunities will come and you will be ready to succeed.
jamileh1979 5 months ago
Everyday you must learn something new, improve yourself in all aspects. Be the best that you can be. Always have good intentions. Be approachabe and have a good energy. Meet new people. Pray to God. Opportunities will come and you will be ready to succeed.
jamileh1979 5 months ago
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Everyday you must learn something new, improve yourself in all aspects. Be the best that you can be. Always have good intentions. Be approachabe and have a good energy. Meet new people. Pray to God. Opportunities will come and you will be ready to succeed.
jamileh1979 5 months ago
Everyday you must learn something new, improve yourself in all aspects. Be the best that you can be. Always have good intentions. Be approachabe and have a good energy. Meet new people. Pray to God. Opportunities will come and you will be ready to succeed.
jamileh1979 5 months ago
whoever @JDRinAz is is not the same as me I think Maria is great. She had great parents and service oriented brothers. They are the epitome of the best in American family life. Arnold is a mess.
JDRinAz12 6 months ago
Transitions are very difficult... But, sometimes, you just have to DO IHT !!! XD
Jetli2013 7 months ago
I found out that the man I spent nine years of my life with was cheating on me while I was undergoing treatment for cancer. I lefted him. It made me stronger. Today I turn to good friends for support; and I get strengh from within and from my faith in God to move forward so I wouldn't get "stuck". My quest to handle "transition"came from believing in my self worth. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
mlopez68 7 months ago
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Maria, I am scared that this will happend to me. So to protect myself, I further my education and I am a few classes away from my master. I have saved money, not close to what you have am sure but enough to support me for a few years if i dont find a job.
Further more, you put up with him for 25 years, why leave now? and why give him away???
If you are not willing to work with him and do indeed get a divorce, there really not much you can do but to " take it one day at a time." Love to you.
kassandrakassan 7 months ago
Maria, I am scared that this will happend to me. So to protect myself, I further my education and I am a few classes away from my master. I have saved money, not close to what you have am sure but enough to support me for a few years if i dont find a job.
Further more, you put up with for 25 years, why leave now? and why give him away???
If you are not willing to work with him and do indeed get a divorce, there really not much you can do but to " take it one day at a time." Love to you.
kassandrakassan 7 months ago
Im just feel sorry for you. You are grown up women and yoiu know all men cheat. You have (or had) Arnold - whole world will remember him, who will remember yoiu? As a women - i will say . be proud to have a husband like that plus you had 4 kids with him. Sometimetimes its a good idea to keep your own "pride" but to save your children and familily. You will right another book? But most of the people will watch another movie with Arnold. I know that Russia will. Sorry dear..
elenabrody 7 months ago
@elenabrody You are embarrassingly an idiot. You have no self-worth and you probably cannot read anyway.
SFGal9 3 months ago
Dear Maria, Don't worry about "NEXT" - just deal with today and take care of yourself and your children. You asked for 3 things that enabled others to get through their "transition" - for me it was self-affirmation; turning to good friends for support; and gathering strengh from within and from my faith to move forward so I wouldn't get "stuck". My quest to handle "transition" came after 33 years of marriage, so I had to figure out who I was again. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
asm2576 7 months ago
I remember when I separated from my former husband 7 years ago. The minister we went to said, "You know, a woman who divorces in California drops down 2 steps on the socioeconomic scale almost immediately." Not very good spiritual advice. You are a Kennedy - so I doubt that the socioeconomic scale is even relevant. But, knowing now the emotional effect a divorce would have on my kids - I'd have forgiven more and turned to my faith for guidance - bad advice and all.
CalDreaming02 7 months ago
My crisis took place 32 years ago. Faith really does make a difference. The crisis ended up solidifying and strengthening my faith. It's stronger than ever! Nobody can take that from me.
How to get through it? I had to learn to forgive. It was a process. If I hadn't forgiven, I'd be a bitter, angry woman today.
I learned a LOT -- about me . . . who I really was, and that was a good thing.
karonamuck 7 months ago
I wish I would have known that I want to bang Maria Shriver
technobizzzmo 7 months ago
Maria,
I wish I would of known that not all people and really nearly none have any type of moral compass.
It took me YEARS to realize that I was raised with morals most people do not have or want. SO I spent a lot of time trying to figure out why people do what they do and how do they live with out that compass and also me trying to in still in them what my parents gave me. But now at 51 I know that I am me. that they are who they are and it is what it is.
Kimberly
Artizme 7 months ago
Maria... just give yourself time to heal.... all veils of illusion are being lifted in the world right now....just walk thru and come out on the other side stronger and more aware of yourself.... DO WHAT"S MAKES YOU HAPPY... DO WHAT"S IN YOUR HEART.... let go of all the emotional pain so that you can really hear what's in your heart of hearts. I am sending you lots of love and light in this difficult time of transition. You always create your experiences in life so that you can learn and grow.
maryattalla 7 months ago
How you handle transition totally depends on the situation.Just like in everything else in life,proper planning will be beneficial in order to tackle whatever situation one is dealing with.On the other hand, reality can prove some transitions to be very difficult to deal with,and unfortunately this kinds of transitions can only be healed/dealt with as time passes and there's really nothing we can do to change the situation.On the other hand,some transitions totally depend on ourselves.good luck
magolovedi 7 months ago
that old saying you probably heard from your aunts and elders is true - time does heal. although you still remember the love and the hurt, you go on and laugh again and go about normal life without feeling like you have a black cloud following you. If it was true love you felt for your husband, than it will take more time, but you will feel more normal and less burdened with emotion when you have gone thru the grief. I know - I did
xoxocaroline321 7 months ago
I would have saved more money and been prepared financially.
I went through a 5 year depression even before he retired as he had just had a 3rd affair within 2 years and getting ready to deploy. Came for a visit and baby number 6. Wondering who I was and what I was going to do without him. Very blessed to have a chaplain that was on my side.
I can pray.
I 'm strong.
I'm weak.
And I am special and live like it.
Your children are your heritage and gift.
papjonah 7 months ago
The ten things I wish I had known or know now.
I can raise children without the completion of a man.
I am not alone.
I found a life in Christ whom I can serve through doing things through others. Some people say He is a crutch. I would rather be with a crutch then without especially when I am in pain.
I actually made more friends being single then married. Men are homebodies. Couch potatoes. Wanting to control our lives.
papjonah 7 months ago
I am the single mother of 8 children but not by choice. My ex husband is US Navy retired and he lost his way within 6 years after his retirement. He filed for divorce because I would not put up with the adultrey anymore after 18 years, He is a swinger who has decided it is more fun trying to get AIDS then spending time with his children. Just as the past 19 years, he is a great provider.
papjonah 7 months ago
Be patient, forgive, and keep faith in God.
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Heart, Faith, and Spirit.
LordBicen 7 months ago
Maria, sit with the disturbance and let God speak to you in that space of your disturbance. Sit in silence and wait for the Lord. God has a master plan for us all, he knows best what we need. Make God your daily companion as he has something better for you than you can imagine and he will reveal it on His own time. Keep the Faith. Trust, Patience & Courage. God be with you.
MsBern76 7 months ago
Maria, when I heard on the news, I just had to stop and said a prayer for you. I am currently going through a transition as well after 20years of marriage. What helped me get through this past year is FAITH. I am Catholic and I had the shoulder of a Nun from my high school days and a friend as well. There is so many stages in this transitions, but prayers, reflection and scripture readings, even meditation in religious music helped me keep grounded. In short, some say these are dark days, but n
MsBern76 7 months ago
Maria, So sorry for your loss. Losing a family and morning what you thought you had can be the most painful. Unfortunately, being a good Catholic girl doesn't bring the best people to us- easy prey. I have suffered from the same experience and I know what you are going through. The other woman/women do not have your best interest at heart no matter what the mirror. Trust your instincts now and trust no person who pretends. It is time for you to take care you yourself and your children!
Sincerelysarahs 7 months ago
Wow this woman is hideous. Arnold only married her for political gain it seems or he just doesn't have standards as seen by the other woman.
hash1212121212 7 months ago
@hash1212121212 You're a jerk. It's called aging. Watch her from 25 years ago, around the time she married him: watch?v=8QGJUiVHjWY
mmortal03 7 months ago
what a jerk
JDRinAz12 7 months ago
@JDRinAz12
what a dumb woman you are.
hash1212121212 7 months ago
@JDRinAz12 is not JDRinAz12
JDRinAz12 7 months ago
what a jerk you are!
karonamuck 7 months ago
Be selfish. Don't think about others, think about #1.
SeminarioMAE 7 months ago
it takes years, only if you are to weak to deal with it now. It doesnt have to take years. it depends on your maturity and confidence.
yorishiku2525 7 months ago
@Orenda7 who says they have to fight? They dont have to fight.,. They can be civil and apart...You and her are letting your emotions get the best of you..they are both being selfish....and i know it depends on the situation..but these two dont have to seperate the entire family...but, i am not surprised about the situation...she apparently was too nieve to know what was going on. She probably knew earlier but ignored it. And he didnt know the value of being fathful.
yorishiku2525 7 months ago
There is a process of denial, grieving, anger, acceptance and forgiveness it takes years. Do not short cut the process it will take one longer to mend. Read books to help you understand and confide only in your therapist. I recommend you read Transcending post-Infidelity Stress Disorder, Narcissistic Lovers and the Language of Letting Go. Find peace and hugs with family and friends.
Going thru the journey. lilpepro
lilmccal 7 months ago
give back. help others. be of service
complex5150 7 months ago
hasta la vista, BABY
raoulhery 7 months ago
Hello Maria. Im about to start my transition Maria. My cock deep in your throat. Choke on it.
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WOLLSTONECRAFTxx 7 months ago
Maria,
I have always admired your strength and intelligence. Your commitment to your family speaks volumes. I can't imagine what it's like to be a public figure with my life so televised. When things like this happen, all I can do is pray and ask God to give me understanding and guidance. It never fails. Suddenly I'm back on track doing something I love. I hope this helps and please know I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
fortworthbrat 7 months ago
one last word...My mother told me she was thinking of leaving my father when i was young..She didnt, of course. I know she did it for me and my brothers and sisters. She gave me a normal family with a fathe and mother living together. I am thankful for that.. I will never forget the mistake my father made, as will many others. I try my best not to be like him when it comes to woman. Thank you mother for thinking of me...as for my father; i grew to love him more. but still remember his mistake.
yorishiku2525 7 months ago
@yorishiku2525 I am sorry, but I disagree a woman should stay married just for the kids. Certainly there are cases where forgiveness & reconciliation is the best option, but sleeping in separate bedrooms and setting a poor example of a loving home is not one of them. There are times a mother must set an example for her children by standing up for herself and not settling for unhealthy relationships in one's life.
Bje010 7 months ago
@bje010, a relationship is only unhealty when you make it appear so. Do you think a seperation is an example of a good relationship? do you think your children would learn something from parents going different directions, each careing more about themselves then their children? place yourself in a postion of a child: YOur parents hate each other. Your parents dont believe in forgiveness. Your parents think more of themselves. this is what you want to teach them? yes, i depends on other factors
yorishiku2525 7 months ago
continue...stay together for the children...Do it for them. Stay in the same house with ARnold. Sleep in different rooms if you have to. But, keep the family together for your children. .Even though your children may show support for you, they really dont want you to seperated...and they will love you more, for keeping the family together. Your children know what arnold did was wrong and they will never forget that...Dont be selfish like arnold...and i know it hurts.
yorishiku2525 7 months ago
are you thinking of your children? How it may effect them. Some children are devestated when their parents seperate even though they may not say it. Arnold forgot what was important to him when he cheated on you..Will you also forget what is important when you seperate the family? will you be selfish like arnold was? Because you will be seperating the family. My father cheated on my Mother. I dont like him for doing that, but i am glad they were both still there "together" for me..
yorishiku2525 7 months ago
@yorishiku2525 Why are you throwing your personal issues onto her? Go get some help.
SFGal9 3 months ago
Maria, I know that this is an unpopular thing to say, but don't be afraid not to end the marriage. You have been together 25 years. In a new relationship, you may experience the same thing, unfaithfulness. Don't be afraid to forgive. Talk to Arnold, yell, punch him if needed. But if you in your heart don't want your marriage to end, then forgive him. You are not the first or the last to be in a situation like this.
ladyjunemd 7 months ago
Three Things that Helped Me Transition to a New Life:
1. Forget what other people think or say about you.
2. Don't be afraid when you have no idea what to do. Be eager for surprises.
3. Listen to the inner voice for guidance.
The Thing I Most Want:
For women to come together to take their rightful place next to men-- not in front--not behind--but beside our men, so women will learn to be responsible for adding 50% of what is necessary to make a better world.
TheFilmBridge 7 months ago
Dear Marie, I know, from past interviews and the Oprah show that you do believe in God. You all ready have what you need to handle transitions in your life. Bring in the FROG. Fully Rely On GOD. I to went through many crisis in my life. I know from my own experiences that God may seem far away at present, but believe me he is right there beside you.
laram51 7 months ago
I'm dealing with a similar betrayal. My wife of 25 years had an affair. We have been torn apart by it for about 6 months. We're holding it together because we are financially strapped and we have a kid in college. A divorce would bankrupt us...and I don't want my kids impacted. But the pain seems too much to bare.
I'm at a loss what to do...but the words of your readers are helpful. Thanks for being a champion for those of us with similar pain...I admire your strength...hang in there.
Thugly1 7 months ago
I am going thru a divorce as we speak do to my husband having mutiple affairs. I can say that I stayed for no good reason! I now am in the process of moving into my own home, that I just bought and saying good bye to my past and him! I think that no matter who you are, as a woman we have a strength that men do not have, and there for you, me and so many women out there are strong enough to start over!!!! You go girl......You are an inspiration to many!
kikivanbeest 7 months ago
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Hi Maria, my prayers go with you in your transition. You are a strong Catholic woman & will have better years ahead :). Having vacationed on Cape Cod since I was 5, now I am 50 - I would say to you . . . take that much needed respite there. It has always been a great place to re-charge batteries. Surround yourself with the happy memories of your childhood. I agree with everyone else . . . let God & your relationship with him get you through this difficult time & call on your angels for guidance.
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donnadiscoqueen 7 months ago
Like you I'm Catholic, divorced after 20+ yrs, older and transitioning professionally, etc. But I'm a man 9 years into it.
What I thought I wanted at the start I've found I was not healed and ready for. Critical for me to forgive, have no resentment and acknowledge my role -- to honestly get to know myself.
I'm still unattached and get lonely at night, but I have many new friends, have fun, learn new things and have passion for life. I'm shy, but show up. At peace and you will be too!
TheWaynerobinson 7 months ago
TRANSITION
1)Acknowledge, mourn, let go of the past.
2) Return to the basics. What is truly important? Your values? Your passions?
3) Prioritize
4)Select what comes to the top and pursue.
PatAll65 7 months ago
Ahh, transition- the growing pains of life. As a woman in midlife who has gone through many transitions, I personally have grown to appreciate what they bring to my life- refreshing change, new perspective, often a seemingly whole new way of living. As challenging as it can be to go through them, they always seem to work out for the best. They remind me that I'm here to grow and to change, to not be stagnate or get into a rut, that I am an eternal being and when they happen I'm ready to GROW.
MJLOVEnow 8 months ago
Maria, seek Christ, go to the gym and enjoy friends and family. Life is waaay 2 short to worry about "stuff" like this. Sure he's the father of your beautiful children and you've loved him FOREVER but maybe he never really deserved you from the start.
I can tell you this for sure....EVERY YEAR IN COLUMBUS, HE WAS A MESS!
sogunaprty 8 months ago
Maria, take time to draw close to God and pray. In a time like this communicating with your Lord and savior Jesus Christ will give you strength. Jesus is the friend that sticks closer than a brother. I am praying for you--Sabrina Johnson-Gayle
ladyjunemd 8 months ago
Take care of you, in whatever way it feels right. Be selfish and tell yourself regularly that this is OK because it's the well tilled soil, that gets sunshine and water, that will bloom later. 'Tincture of time' - take 1 tsp daily. Read 'Desiderata'... over and over.
notwhy09 8 months ago
Watch this video once a week and make a drinking game of it, a shot of your chosen beverage every time you say transition, and a double when you air quote it.
LCon30 8 months ago
Hi Maria,
Thanks for sharing where you are right now, I can really relate, I've recently moved to Australia and feel in transition as well. Something that has really helped me and given me a lot of faith in life is a blog I've created called Good Things That Happened Today. Even when I have a so called terrible day I am forced to look for something good that has happened every day. I look forward to writing it everyday!
sambaqueen77 8 months ago
1) Take care of yourself, literally....eat well, get plenty of sleep, get plenty of fluids, exercise. 2) Do things that comfort you....baths, massage, walk in nature, dinner with friend. 3) Give yourself permission to NOT have it all figured out. Your emotions will be so in flux it would be hard to make many MAJOR decisions. 4) Nurture your spiritual self...for me, read my Bible, pray/ meditate, volunteer.
Godspeed Maria! I will pray for You and your family!
pclue4077 8 months ago
Dear Maria~
Pray Pray Pray...everyday! You will at sometime need to forgive, not to say it is ok, but for yourself to move on. You will have to experience all of the emotions on the wheel. Counseling is good too. You will see this 1st as the storm you are about to go through, then see it as a mountain you are coming upon, then it turns into a hill, then a small bump, then a small crack in the road, and then it dissipates. Make time for God, Yourself & your Family. God Bless You Maria we <3 u!!
21market21 8 months ago
Dear Maria.. First off I would like to say, I feel for you.. I have been there.. It's going to hurt like hell, it will hurt like hell, but you will get past all of this.. You are going through a grieving process much like Death.. You're Angry, you're hurting and you're self doubting. Please don't by no means take this lightly.. My best words of Wisdom came from my dearly departed Father. "This Too Shall Pass" and also.. You will become your own woman out of determination.
curiosiddy 8 months ago
Now Iam CERTAIN that it is because I have a stong purpose in life :) Here are the videos, I also went to landmark education course, very inspirational and helpful but not the answer to lifes obstacles, it is just an aid along with these videos. Because the real answer is within us. The videos I watch to remind me of positivism ARE TITLED: WEAR SUNCSREEN, I START MY DAY WITH LOVE POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS: HOW TO BE POSITIVE
amariisienta 8 months ago
wear suncreen, I am sure you have already watched it. Remember the part that says "the most interesting people I have met didnt know what the wanted to do at the age of 40"
Start seeing your circumstances as molders, molding you into perfection for the afterlife. Making you stronger and beautiful. And when you forget to be positive and optimistic, watch these videos, they helped me. My parents left me when I was little, grandparents raised me , my grandma got cancer. And I asked why?
amariisienta 8 months ago
When we were born we did not sign a contract saying that we were going to have everything figured out every minute of our life. You are a STRONG INDEPENDENT women with many responsibilites and because of these attributes you like to know the answers, you like to be ahead of the game and that is great but not in this case, let life be unpredictable. Do the best you can everyday, in everything and embrace transition. Change is good. You can never make everyone happy but you can make yourself happy
amariisienta 8 months ago
Maria I am sure all the stressors in life are getting to you at this point and I don't blame you , you're human. I was watching your interview with letterman and you looked so happy, so radiant. You should try to reminise on those days and embrace that happinness that you felt. Not necesarilly the fact that you were going to have a kid but the happiness you felt. Focus on that happinesss, focus on the present because EVERYTHING has a solution except death. Love your kids, be grateful .
amariisienta 8 months ago
First, I wanted to say how sorry I am to hear about your impending divorce. I went through a divorce in 2005 and I would not wish it on anyone. Sometimes divorce is necessary. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of your husband. You will come out of this stronger. Keep only the good and let ALL the bad go ! You ARE a very strong force for GOOD. I love Ghandi's quote: " Be the change you want to see in the world." Give yourself time to heal. Then BE (express) the GOOD you want to see.
peterfrohwein 8 months ago
My marriage ended after 23 years of marriage, after my husband confessed to having had an affair with my sister 15 years before. It has been almost 3 years since our separation, and one year since our divorce. The transition comes in layers, it takes time. I got treatment (counseling) and was on antidepressants for one year. But I have found myself again. Somebody asked me once: How does one eat an elephant? and the answer was one piece at a time... The transition is the same...
octaviagavrila 8 months ago
oh, and I was 43 when i had my first and only baby.
FatBabyCheeks 8 months ago
How do I handle transition? I put on my party hat, suck it up and keep it moving. BTW, my baby boy and I are doing just fine thank you very much.
FatBabyCheeks 8 months ago
Hmm. Let's see how I handled transition. Six months pregnant and I lose my job. Behind in rent. No money, and what little I have has to go to my car payment and insurance. If I lose my car getting to my dr.'s appts will be hell. Find out baby I'm carrying has a severe physical disabiltiy. I end up with gestational diabetes and suffer from pre-term labor. Bed rest in mandatory. Employment impossible. Have to move the day after my baby is due. How do i handle transition?
FatBabyCheeks 8 months ago
Maria you are not a man you are a woman with emotions, feelings. I say go through all of the feelings, emotions that you have but don't stay there. Get up brush your knees off and know that there is another day. Take one day at a time. I would truly like to meet you one day. No matter how rich or poor you are emotions, feelings are the same
TheNaomi0312 8 months ago
Transitions? That's crap. You hit the ground running. That's what real men do. All this talk about transitions is for dependent type folk who are dependent on others. Real men hit the ground running.
nobleheight 8 months ago
As a just turned 59 yr old who was laid off and whose mother died last year, I too understand transition. Like a trapeze artist that has let go of one swing and in mid air, waiting for the next swing, it is hard not to look down and be fearful. In the almost too quiet moments, I find myself listening for the whispering of what's next and hearing to be patient.I am hearing that silent voice that says the winds of today's moments pass quickly; find the joy. Perhaps that is 2011's lesson for us.
redbird1052 8 months ago
Maria, first...do not let this change who you are or muffle your spirit. Second, keep family first and VERY few friends second. Third, pray without ceasing. By the Grace of God do any of us make it through it. Remember, this too shall pass. Luv u!!!!
Jyork1210 8 months ago
Today I've seen Arnold in Geneva walking to: SWISS TRUSTEES OF GENEVA SA
Rue du Général-Dufour 7
1204 Genève / GE. A small advice talk with him about this, it does not smell good for your divorce !
Anddrus8008 8 months ago
God gives everyone a Right in life to do and be nothing and still be vital important and loved in this world. Being is a skill. Takes awhile to learn that giving love and time to yourself is also important. So after you run really fast to hid from your fears and your loves then think about just being the lovely women yourself and relaxe for what goes on in this world is not a definition of your self. Or a reflection of whatever a lot of the time. Chose youre peace of mind. Everyone else Be
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
is required or permited I ask only myself and God. So I share this with you and your children. I know that both you and Arnold do not actually breath deeply or relaxed and that you hold breath to make yourselves feel stronger in stress this is not true health and your children probably do the same. OK so learn to breath and move and streatch and for you Maria you need to learn to do nothing. You are a busy person with lots of goings on and you need the skill of doing Nothing. for your soul
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
turn on and off emotions and feelings and enlarge blood vesells and keep the breathing regular like I studied bio feedback and I never had but I studied E. Indian Yogies for a long time. The mind plus the body working together is a beautiful thing. It is a skill God gives people to make sure their bodies under stress do not destroy themselves and the mind needs to figure out a plan to deal with everything at an appropriate time also I pick times to scream if I want to, nobodies permission
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
So everyone should do this without having to go to a person to tell them you don't know why you are unhappy or you do and don't want to face it alone. You have yourself and your family and real friends but mostly you have yourself and this is a SKILL a life skill to deal with stupid things that go on in life. WAR is a bad place to be and living is sometimes feels worse... but it isn't. It just feels that way. So I have used this all my life my mother said she never saw a person who could
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
with it later. It is good to teach children this now. To save them all their lives slowely at the time without the great build up of undealt with emotions fears and sorrows. Now next you wait until you have some more time and a happy mood and deal with a little more then you hit the OFF button and away it goes for later. Now you are facing your deamons good and bad and you will not overstress the body or your mind and you are not storing your stress in your bodies or your tissues or mind
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
from your conscious mind to save your life. But if it builds up then it explodes. It can kill you really this is true. So you have to druge this stuff up within "reason" and take whatever amount of it you can when you are in a happy range and emotionally prepared to deal with just a little more at a time. Then when you find you hit the high range or trama past your middle and range to left and righ then you have to push your little button OFF. Away it goes. You still have it you can deal
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
Now since you have a middle range in emotions and monitor you blood pressure in anger etc. (to keep from having a cardiac arrest etc), you now know what ranges you have as a person everyone is different. OK next you pick what you would like to go through the happy stuff which makes you cry like moments with loved ones you miss or unhappy moments you would like to run from. Now the body is a miracle from God really it will not let you go through too much bad things at once it hides it
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
to emotions and memories like they come out of nowhere to your conscious mind but your subconsious mind knows where they come from sometimes they can hit you at very bad times in your life with the overwhelm. OK so you have to keep a diary of happy ranges, middle so and so ranges, and very bad ranges of emotions. Then pick a middle point on the highest and lowest ranges you can remember. Pick this middle and then go a few degrees to the left and right so high or low of the middle point
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
most people you need about an hour of Yoga or whatever streatching. Not hard moving something relaxing and stretching. 3) since you have a whole life of some really wonderful stuff you don't want to feel and terrible things like deaths and tramas etc you need to let off steam. So here is how it goes so it does not get out of control and ruin your happyness and health. You have to pase yourself and let off steam when you can emotionally deal with the memories or emotions not attached
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
Ok I have know this for a long time first it comes out of norther Europe with the Hords of warriors going south then it took a few changes and I still know the Sumarian verson of dealing with very bad stuff after wars or with love. OK so since everyone holds a lot of their emotions inside their bodies locked up and hidden from their fears and sorry it is important to 1) breath you hold your breath a lot, 2) movie with slower movements like tai chi, Qigong, and Yoga not for 20 minutes but for
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
Robert Kennedy after his death has helped me get started on my court case against some felons in Iowa so I am eternally grateful. Cool people in your family. So here goes please don't discount the Kung Fu stuff it is actually really important for several reasons it has a pasing on it for breathing control to help people reach their inner Tao. I needed that in some very tramatic and almost died a few time situations. Ok next I am going to tell you how to deal with post tramatic stress.
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
listen to the grass grow on a golf course I lived near in Indian Palms. So interesting you ask what to do I tell you to do nothing sorry. I want you to listen to yourself in your still small voice of wisdom of self. This is actually a great opportunity for you to come out from behind and surpase your wildest dreams of knowing the beautiful person you are without trying to please anyone except yourself. Know that you are loved. Grace EchoEagleHawk JFK and Robert send love and strength.
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
I know your mother was so afraid of losing you. She is doing well I am a medium. You need to self define yourself. Maybe go somewhere and scream what you really felt about anything and everyone. So get to know self is what I would advise your were always there for everyone else be there for yourself and see how many people will be there for you as well. Louise Hay wrote a book on healing that I love and it may help you. I watched Kung Fu on TV when my mother passed I did nothing but
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
forceful and moving and physical that you have been just sort of following and doing what you thought you were "supposed" to do. I wish I had known how to go to Heaven to recharge my life. Well if found Sylvia Brownes Temples in heaven book with self hypnosis and I go to heaven sometimes just to see my mom and family. You have always done what you were supposed to do. For you maybe you need to break a few patterns and break free the real Maria will shine in the love you really need now.
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
Hi I am Margaret sometimes I ilsten to a few Kennedys. It is important for you to do yoga tai chi and Qigong. I think for you being in the natural areas of life like gardens and relaxing your many things you do. I know you are super busy and think it is normal and want to keep busy so as not to hurt or wonder but the burden will be a lot more than you think so you must relax and breath and be good to yourself and your children. Every once and awhile I hear Arnold as well he is very
ClairaGEagleHawk 8 months ago
ARGHHH SHE LOOKS LIKE A MONSTER!!!
pitbulliznice 8 months ago
Arnold says you have had botox and a face lift.
IMnotSAS 8 months ago
when you date guys younger. They are different and they view older women differently Their younger energy will help you. Don't get one who has been married. he has to be Single, NO kids NOWHERE. Nice hot body and FRESH FRESH ideas. This will help you find your kundalini energy and with that it will help you to decide what to do with your life. Doesnt have to be serious seriou but just FUN. do something for FUN. Men do that all the time. at this moment live for YOURSELF think about YOURSELF
WonderWomanFan4life 8 months ago
Well Maria. first we all should have a party for you. Then you should go do some charity work in like Haiti or IDK filthy homeless shelter or something that you dont' really want to do but you do it so you remind yourself of how lucky you are. Then you go to more stuff but this time you take a guy who is 32 to 35 with a HOT body way more sexier than Arnold and you just go whererver and look like you are having a GREAT time. it will force you to look younger, u will find yourself by kundalini
WonderWomanFan4life 8 months ago
What's with the degenerate Media About " Transition"???? In people's life????
lemberable 8 months ago
Transition by the blood of the Lamb AND the word of our testimony. aka: tell everybody who will listen.
robinahlquist 8 months ago
Transition by telling everybody who will listen.
robinahlquist 8 months ago
Transition by holding our public servants accountable for the harm they have caused.
robinahlquist 8 months ago
try to eat right, sleep well, exercise
and leave past behind you
like a puzzle fall into its own place
everything else will turn up fine
angelapli 8 months ago
Reptilian shapeshifter
2hamboigahs 8 months ago
Last But Definitely not lease. DO NOT blame yourself for this...take it easy on yourself and do not take on the gult of someone else bad choices....Too many women blame themselves for a philandering husband...DO NOT do this. Give yourself the blessing to know tha you had no part is this sin against marriage.
Take Care, Girl....You are beautifu inside and how....Later, if you wish, find a better man knows how to be a loving huband.
hgarnett99 8 months ago
HI Maria -
The things that help me to get through transisition is to mentally or paper acknowledge all of the gifts that GOD has given you weather, health, generositk beauty, wealth ets. Always count your blessings.
Also I have about 30 songs that I call my Anthems....These are secular and gospel songs that have a positive meaning and touch me in some deep ways. Read book titled "Deadly Emotions" by Dr. Colbert ( dont remember is first name )
hgarnett99 8 months ago
Maria, from Dec 2010 to 2011 present, I have had transitions that you speak of in every area. Three things: 1) I realized what happens to me, isn't all about me; it's about how others can be healed from watching y response. 2) I determined to use the best of my professional skills to find the best match with an employer, and finally be happy. 3) I found the love of my life decades ago; sometimes the test of love, is responding to the hurt is by fighting for love. I did it. I was glad.
IMAOwutsURS 8 months ago
95% of the population, if going through that x9,000 would have done MUCH MORE than mass email TRUE ALLEGATIONS of these fuckup paparazzis
This will all be very clear when these fuckups are locked up. 2 fuckup teleprompter readers must face 40 years in prison no questions asked. May 2008 to present. 50%+ of THIS YEAR 2011 I will never get back. Most of 2010 I will never get back. this fuckup maria and fuckup frogface melissa must be punished. Illegal paparazzi x9,000
THEZOOKEEPERR 8 months ago
THAT moment of her many would think: (What a rude bitch). If this happened for 3 PLUS YEARS -- YOU call the cops yet THEY try to call the cops and persist in the paparazzi = jail time not only for the illegal part of it and being a private person, but for causing inhumane mental torment. That reaction of hers was not flattering -- imagine x 9,000. Sending shit as an UNDERREACTION to a scumbag's bp legal game and STILL having it drag on and trying to use it AGAINST ME.
THEZOOKEEPERR 8 months ago
I actually felt bad for her when I saw some paparazzi taking pics during her current predicament while she was with her kids
Wow like, I have so much to say my elite brain is clogged right now.
Ok. So, basically I'm in a predicament like hers, but, and I say with ZERO EXAGGERATION: 1,000 - 9,000 TIMES WORSE.
Imagine a tmz-like bunch of fuckup teleprompter readers doing this but with sadism. They continue to do that for 3+ years; kitty genevese (I'm skipping so much here) if you ONLY saw
THEZOOKEEPERR 8 months ago
Remember one thing grasshopper, life is like a road to the rainbow, reach up to grab it and once you do get ahold of it...never let go, as the road will be bumpy along the way, but the extra strength you put into holding on will pay off in the end. Trust in yourself and believe in yourself during your transition.
sarachrisjillsmom 8 months ago
Concerned.
0000loveubug0000 8 months ago
Maria, it is good to teach your 'daughters' to be good housekeepers. And let them know not to 'hire' housekeepers.They can do their own housework.
I hope your transition is going well.
0000loveubug0000 8 months ago
people are starving, wtf do you know about transition. you rich people have no sense of fuckin reality
Ruest420 8 months ago 2
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emretje12 8 months ago
Hi Maria,
I think you should seriously consider attending 'Burning Man' in September. There is a different theme each year and 2011 just happens to be 'Rites of Passage' (the concept of which can involve periods of transition and change for many). In 2009 I quite my job, remortgaged my house and went to Burning Man for the first time. It was the single most wonderful thing I could have done for myself, for the renewed sense of wonder, adventure and spirit of community.
Blessings.
aldentesolo 8 months ago
I made another video...I LOVE THIS MARIA... THANK you so much...
molassesjones11 8 months ago
keep pushing Maria!!! you know what it takes woman!!
molassesjones11 8 months ago
She's so hot.
Arnold's a damn fool
nedved5000 8 months ago
Dear Maria,
...special moment in their life,,,there is no bigger satisfaction than helping people that want the encouragement and pass it on.
Will you write back? Propably not... Wish you, and all those who wander what to do next, all the best in enjoying their moment of wandering.
MissSarah360 8 months ago
Dear Maria,
Thank you for asking, I'm not sure even if you will read this or not, you are a succesfull woman, I think you may want to take a break from all the work! Just take a moment and take a deep breath, realize that it's ok to just be, the new season will come but now it may be a season for thought and reflection on life and reason we are here on this earth. I know for sure there is a lot of work to be done here around us, there are people needing help, needing their lucky day, special...
MissSarah360 8 months ago
God bless the Shriver/Kennedy family. Wonderful people who have done amazing things for society
izwald1 8 months ago
By the way Maria, Arnold is not even an attractive man. And now he has a turkey neck. And you are younger. You can be a Cougar Woman and get a younger boyfriend. "You" could be Movie Star. And like I said, you could have a pet or two, like two cats or two dogs, that you could bond with, and wow, the joy you can have with a pet or two you really really like is amazing. Ask Caesar Milan, the Dog Whisperer, he could tell you about the joy from nice pets.
Bitchen60s 8 months ago 2
One more thing Maria, maybe this is the third idea, if you do go on a date to get Arnold out of your system and start anew, please, maybe do it the old fashioned Irish way, the way of being chaperoned, & do not have sex on your date; & pray & draw close to God, because God is your best friend. He walks with you. He wants to walk & talk with you. I can see u in Ireland like on a hayride chaperoned date with a younger handsome Irish religious single male; later,dancing, dining in a public place.
Bitchen60s 8 months ago
going from high school to university, all I've realized from this transition is that post-secondary is way too expensive.
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ronpaulfan1 8 months ago
It took me quite awhile to break away from a negative relationship, breaking up, getting back together, breaking up, getting back together, over and over and over again, even though it was an abusive relationship. I finally just went out on a date with another guy, actually it was an actor, David Soul. I wish I had known long before that it really helps to go out with someone new. Three things? I just remember the one, I went out with someone new. Also, getting a pet you really like helps too.
Bitchen60s 8 months ago
I am currently undergoing a total life transition. Work, social, love, everything has changed. I find that this period is extremely difficult especially as you get older. I am still unsure what to do. I seem to spend all my day worrying. I feel like I am going nuts. Glad to know I am not the only one.
996vtwin2 8 months ago
She and her mom resemble equine. Reason being is that her mom (Enos) had a love affair with several horses. She tried several times to marry one. She had a long lerm love affiar with Secratariat. Enos was so old she was a waitress at the last supper.
shawnbrennan1 8 months ago
It's the perfect time to get out of your comfort zone and do things that you thought were crazy to try or do in your life...take in new experiences that make you feel happy and puts you in a better place emotionally...and cry when you need to!
I've been in a perpetual "free -fall" for 4 years from the life I thought I knew, it has been the hardest thing I've ever had to endure. I've let go of society's "norms" for my life...now I live life to have no regrets at the end of this crazy journey.
gingerztube 8 months ago
My transitions? i learned it was better to be with one women instead of 50. I learned it was better to have less possesions and they were crowding my sphere of concern. I learned i need financial freedom, to not worry about paying bills, so that i could focus my attention on what really mattered. I learned its not the place but the people in that place that count. I learned it was better to transcend the situation than be controlled by it. The most important thing besides faith is ones health.
IMnotSAS 8 months ago
GET TO THE TRANSITION CHOPPER
GetDemRimz 8 months ago
vengeance!!
Thesoccerdood 8 months ago
Men SUCK.
mossyburger 8 months ago
1) I stayed too long at a job I hated, made me miserable and literally started to manifest itself physically, afraid to leave because of the bad economy but I should've had more faith in myself and left a bad situation sooner; 2) I spent weeks wondering what I wanted to do. 3) Then I realized I had to ask myself the right questions: What are the things I love most in life? What vehicle can I create to allow me to do them? So I enrolled in a Green MBA in sustainable enterprise at Dominican U.
QualityTimeChannel 8 months ago
Living in the moment and doing what you need to do to survive and not worry about your goals or where they will take you. Live in the now. Constantly worrying about things, your health, other people's health, the future, is going to hold you back and hurt you more, emotionally.
MaritsaDarman 8 months ago
Living in the moment and doing what you need to do to survive and not worry about your goals or where they will take you. Live in the now.
MaritsaDarman 8 months ago
@jwbrewer04- You are a truly lovely person. Your husband is a lucky man, I'm sure he knows it. For having you, not dying of cancer. I'm so sorry you both have to experiance that. You sound like the perfect person to be by his side. Bless you both.
Peace
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