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  • I Don't Think Megan fox looks better then u!

  • This chic is da bomb... she is the most sensible person on utube.... and #2 most sensible person in the world ... cos there is me of course !!!

  • @ImALilMuch OMG SexyVelour has NEVER made a video exposing black men. Keep foreign black people's names out of your crazy mess. There are NO videos about black men on her channel LOL! It's AMERICAN blacks fighting gender wars. American black boys must WISH you were on her mind, or why do you care WHAT she does LOL. She's in an interracial marriage so she likes featuring interracial couples. So what. We subscribe because we like to see couples like us. Only jealous people call that promoting LOL.

  • wow...this onvoo chic really on ur nuts mamaz.....obviously interracial relationships r irrelevant 2 u since u hve an asian man so y the hell wuld ome1 hve sumthing 2 say about wntn a black man? smdh

  • Like I said, I will be moving BACK TO France in the very near future where I was treated far better by the community as a whole than in the US. Being that I lived there for several yrs., I think I am more than qualified to dictate where I feel the most acceptance and look forward to building my life there. These types of comments prove my point re: life here.

  • @evilmickey100 And what shame that is...born here but have to go abroad (e.g. Europe) in order to be recognized as a woman first. At least there's appreciation somewhere. I agree, the Europeans are much more open-minded, ironically, than Americans. Can't change that, so I will be moving sooner rather than later.

  • If I am not mistaken did TheCameraEye11 make a vid abt 2yrs ago saying that our natural kinky hair is not attractive and straight hair looks better on bw? Correct me if I am wrong but a woman exposed him for saying that. People wonder why black people have issues with themselves. You parents are the key to raising your children with self respect and love. He is always trying to analyze others when he needs to look at himself. I suggest watching Malcolm X movie is a good eyeopener.

  • @ImALilMuch - These people talk the MOST about blk relationships and cause the most controversy amongst black people:

    Leroyradioshow, SWP, Calvarlyishere, USB105, BlakeBarbieDoll, Vford43, SexyVelour, Uheardme1sttime, CWexperience etc etc etc

    Think about it what do they ALL have in common....

  • @TyphooMantis I try hard to avoid all of these people.

  • @TyphooMantis Hmmm well I don't know how SexyVelour made your little kindergarten doo-doo list. I watched all of her videos and none mention black relationships or black men. She enjoys showing interracial couples because she's IN an interracial relationship. If you dysfunctional American blacks use that as another excuse for fighting, whose fault is that? Just admit you all hate each other and like to fight. You have no one to blame but yourselves.

  • @ImAL quote: BM/BM who are with BM/BW who do the same thing and even use their relationship as their "pass" and get just as if not more nasty than the latter.

    I don't know about that, from my observation some BM who are in inter racial relationships tend to be some of the MOST racist hateful people towards BW.. tell the truth.

    And some BW who are in inter-racial relationships have utter contempt and disdain for BM, its quite sad really. Black people who are together tend to be more forgiving.

  • That's interesting that the ppl who said that you're jealous b/c Anh Vu looks better than you have never even seen you yet. SMH... I detect a hint of self-hatred. But I guess I'm the crazy one....

  • @LilacStar82 These men are unloved no one will ever tell the ring of leader this madness of her being jealous testizel that some guy is jealous of him because he is so good looking nor will they tell it to any of the rest of these unloved reprobates. They are using Ahn vu to continue to pacify their dysfunctional mindsets and she is not smart enough to realize she is getting support from whack jobs who need support themselves. SMH

  • I don't have a hard time finding a black man...

  • @ImALilMuch - I've noticed on youtube that BM/BW in inter racial relationships talk more about black relationships AND also tend to throw more abuse to the opposite sex.

  • @ImALilMuch - what are their names?

  • Good video . ; )

  • Two women in inter racial relationships= Uheardme1sttime/Ahn Vu

    Speaking on BLACK relationships!

    The irony ;-)

  • @TyphooMantis

    why does uheardme1sttime get discredited ? she is black and has been with black men.

    but i do think it's funny that the black woman is married to an asian man, but the asian woman ain't married to a black man.

  • @trbrcoogi - Discredit? Naaah, I just think its very amusing yet bizarre lol

    Uheardme is "happily" married to an Asian... yet nearly everyday talks/argues/debates & frequently hangs up pictures of BM on her profile and speaks on BLACK relationships??

    Ahn Vu - A Chigga who doesn't want to be black... but talks black, acts black and has a BM and talks about BLACK relationships??

    Am I the only one who finds these two nutters odd??

  • @TyphooMantis What Irony?

    I bet you did comment on the break up of Tiger Woods marriage...despite you being neither Biracial or White lol.

  • 5  people are master deflectors.

  • Just so you know, I do enjoy your commentary generally & find your insights to be entertaining & intelligent. I look forward to the day when we can silence ppl with mal intent by simply refusing to buy into the hype. State your intelligent remark to the perpetrator once and don't give it another thought. Please, dear. You're too good for this...please!!

  • UHeardMe...please, please seize & desist from anymore videos about this person. Who is she anyway? Why do you care so much? And why do you continue to fuel this pointless topic to those who have open sores so deep that they use this sad sad topic to voice their frustrations and/or self-hatred? For the sake of all mankind, STOP!

  • @BlackButterfly707

    "Why do you care so much?"

    Never said I cared so much. I usually make one video. People respond then I usually have to make a follow up video to repeat things to people who can't hear & to answer any challenges to my position. This is the same thing that happened when I made my video about my ma & BlaqueIndigo.

  • I never said that does asians in your pic were represented asians, just that Vhu wouldstand out in that particular pic .Iam aware that there are asians out there who are even as dark as blacks. But in particular asians countries like japan maybe china , hong kong ,the koreas , and even India, Anh Vu will stand out like a sore thumb,because inthe northern asians countries, they tend to be pale ,and in india, they tend to have rounder eyes.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime About black women not having admires, trust me maybe in the u.s but if u visit europe especially germany they will be chasing u none stop, u will have to beat them off with a broom, the negativity towards african american women as far as beauty goes is only find in the u.s trust me.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime "these men are quick to sell our culture out" ( I paraphrased) quite interesting. This is the case through history. e.g We're responsible for almost every genre of modern music but the identity/ dominance over most has long been lost, An entire industry that could be ours lost. To fit into to the dominant culture, the racial/cultural dominance has to be compromised leaving blacks marginalized. That is how black wealth ends up in others hands, disassociation with blackness.

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  • @termanology85 You realize i am the product of an IRR lol. But yeah i already knew that.

  • @BlackButterfly707 she won't stop because misery loves company. its cliche but true. people who are unhappy about their OWN lives constantly look for someone or something to belittle. but in all actuality, they are just belittling themselves.

  • TheCameraEye11 video response pretty much KILLED your argument

    LMAO >>>>>>>NEXT TOPIC

  • @testizel

    Still can't stay away from me.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime and you still running away from addressing your issues. maybe next you'll PROPERLY analyze a statement before jumping the gun. this was a GREAT learning lesson for you. LOL

  • @UHeardMe1stTime Can you and Testizel just get along.....if only for me. I agree with your stance about folks thinking they can make Black kids without Black women (remember Tiger Woods/Obama false claims of 1st golfer/President lark). Where can I find Anh Vu's comments made about you? As I already looked at her web page and couldn't find anything relating to your beef with her. I don't believe that you are jealous of Anh Vu at all. Is Anh Vu Biracial or Vietnamese?

  • @Pentazoid111 I don't think Uheardme was calling Vhu an outsider because she's not a black woman, she is an outsider because she hasn't experienced black women's experiences with black men. She can give advice and talk about black issues, but she must do so with the inner understanding that she doesn't know everything. It's like that saying: In order to gain knowledge you must first learn that you know absolutely nothing.

  • @Pentazoid111 The analogy with the ant and the lion, is true, however, at the end of the day, you are a human being. Could you really understand fully the mind of an ant? or lion? Maybe. But as human beings, we don't know how its like to survive in the wild until physically put in that situation and even then how a human needs to survive is different from that of a lion or ant. Even experts in animal behavior will admit that they can never fully understand animals and why they behave contd.

  • @Pentazoid111 Ms. Vhu is an outsider. Just because she may have direct experience from other black women, still doesn't give her the absolute authority to speak on black issues. Their experiences is not her experiences. How a black woman is treated in society is different than how an Asian woman is treated. Now, an asian woman can study and comment on black relationships, but she would still have to do so with a certain amount of respect. (contd.)

  • Did this vhu chick claim she had absolute authority on other black women? I c certain black people on youtube proclaiming that or at least give the impression that they have authority on black issues, even though they have had few experiences with black people.People have criticized uheard for given her opinion on blackrelationships because she is married to an asian and she said that a relationship is a relationship.Atthe end of the day , we are all individuals with unique experiences

  • @ImALilMuch LOL, sure thing I have like 5 or 6

  • i love you now i have someone to listen to that i can relate to ! thanks and keep it coming!

  • by the way...u uneedtogetpaidfirsttime for these kick ass videos

  • You married but the black man is still on your mind.

  • @kizzmac Oh hush you old dirty buzzard

  • KEEP BLACK MEN (& SOME BLACK WOMEN) AWAY FROM YOUR BUTTHOLES. THEY WILL GO APESHIT.

  • I am sorry I went off topic but I had to address testizel ignorance.

  • While you black men are fighting black women racist whites are preparing for your slaughter. I guess that would be your karma for disrespecting us.

  • @twoTQt the best comment

  • It looks like some people STILL don't want to discuss the topic of UHeardMe1stTime's video regarding Anh Vu, even though UheardMe1stTime was very clear about what the subject matter was. Some people are either so dense that they don't get it, or they just want to bash UHeardMe1stTime or BW in general.

  • @blueBlackpurple

    It's both.

  • Black men stop listening to that fool testicle. He had the nerve to say blacks are more racist than whites bcs of black on black crime. What an idiot.

  • @twoTQt Blacks are somewhat more racist than whites. 

  • @MrAnorexicBob Ironically color only MATTERS when you guys want it to. Only when it pertains to racists issues, crime, and bw. I noticed black families are accepting of interracial but whites disown their children most of the time. Its only a popular fad now bcs of a biracial president. I have a message saved on my page from a white person treatening to kill all blacks, but I guess that is normal behavior. Even tho we see comments like that all over the net from whites.

  • @twoTQt I'm not white

  • @twoTQt I'm not white Color matters to those who want it to matter. For me it doesn't matter, for the next person it may or may not. For some people, political party matters, for others it may mean nothing.

  • @MrAnorexicBob If color doesnt matter to you why do men like you single out black women. You may think im stupid but I am not the one...troll

  • @MrAnorexicBob Its funny when we get men like you backed into a corner you start acting innocent. I read your comments regarding black women..Mr color doesnt matter. "Whatever you do dont get black women pregnant." GTFO!

  • I can't believe that there are more video responses by idiots who can't seem to LISTEN.

  • @CircesLoom you shouldn't be surprised

  • what is your opinion of Eminem?

  • That's alright. I will remember every last one of you the next time a non-black man decides to talk down to black men. Oh....it's coming real soon. Just wait and see how big he is going to be on youtube. Then, you niggers will finally see what bw have to go through.

  • @yvessaintlaurent88 LMAO cosign girl cosign!!!!! I can't wait to see how upset these dumb coons will get!!!

  • excellent video!. I'm surprised at the Black men coming to the defense of this Ahn Vu chick. She is not worthy.

  • @tuffydeuce Who are you to say what Ms. Vu is worthy of or not ?

  • @MrAnorexicBob easy...I just said it.

  • You said unvough was on a show on tuesday night.

    WHERE CAN I SEE THIS?

  • Michael Chickless from the Commish and the fantastic 4 is not fine. He's fat.

    What the hell are you thinking?

  • @yak6ex

    Fat? Are we talking about the same guy? And it's not about being "fine" cuz Steve Harvey ain't either (he's just nice-looking). I just like both of their looks. I'm attracted to the looks of older men.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime Hey, I'm curious...What was your first celebrity crush?

  • She does stand out, she is darker than those asians in the picture in your video ......and she has a large ass(which is not an aesthetic observation BTW).

  • @Pentazoid111

    Those Asians in the picture were probably Chinese, Japanese or Korean. I couldn't find any pictures of Asians or her ethnic group that looked nice. All Asians are not yellow-skinned with thin, flat bodies. If you travel to Asia you will see that there are Asian women who look just like Ahn Vu. Also, she has on more weight on her than we are used to seeing on Asian women.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime "Those Asians in the picture were probably Chinese, Japanese or Korean."

    You mean the photo @ 11:58? No, they *are* Vietnamese. I know that because that image popped up when I googled "Vietnamese women". And yes there are plenty of darker Asians, but since most Asian men have preferred alabaster skin over bronzed for centuries, darker Asian women aren't represented enough in thier media.

  • @BValchan

    I think she was talking about the group of about 5 yellow skinned Asian women I showed in my 1st vid.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime You mean from the "Wigger Advantage" video...It's the same picture.

  • @BValchan

    The women with the glasses are actually Korean. I got that picture from a stock site & it described them as Korean.

  • Well wasn't the diane sawyer woman on that ABC special basing her news reports on the relationships on BW/BM based on articles she read as well? How do you know that An Vu did not read any articles on the relationships of bW/BM? If she did, then she or diane sawyer would not be doing any thing different than what you were doing when you were given commentary on the reasons for some of the dating failures of some asian men.

  • She does stand out, she is darker than those asians in the picture in your video ......and she has a larger ass(which is not an aesthetic observation BTW).

  • @yak6ex i remember how fat he was on The Commish.he used to be on the F/X show The Shield.

  • did you listen to her show last night ?

    Did she answer your questions, or did she do just what the video said she'd do ?

  • @trbrcoogi Anh Vu is NOT worried about people on youtube. She making a living for herself and thats what ya'll should be doing instead of trying bring someone down on your level. Worry about YOU and YOUR life.

  • @testizel im sorry, i think there's a misunderstanding.

    that question was meant for uheardme1sttime. it wasn't just a general question that anyone can answer.

    *i thought i'd tagged her but i guess not*

  • i love your videos...hey uheardmefirsttime...i was wondering if you can make a video about how black women cant get angry in public..as they will be perceived as the angry black woman...but give white women a pass when they get angry

  • @Nappitude21

    That's actually a topic for my new channel. Stay tuned.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime I'm looking forward to that video.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime You should make a video about how some people get way off topic when discussing videos that you specifically ask them not to get off topic about. LOL

    I'm sure this has happened to you before even though you are always very clear about the subjects of your videos.

  • UHeardMe, I have to cosign on Nappitude21's statement! I saw Kelsey Grammar's Ex-wife rolling her neck with her finger pointed while cursing someone out on a clip of the Real House Wives. In fact, most of the white Real House Wives are much more ghetto and violent than any sisters I've seen on their same economic level. They're flipping over tables, pulling hair, ripping off shirts, okay? Yet, we have the stereotype slapped on us. I will love to see your video response to her comment!!!

  • @WhereYaBoss i agree with this but c'mon it's just a reality show.

  • @monica24b Yea and so is Basketball Wives but people still use that to bash all black women. White chicks can be just as wild in public if not more so. I go to white clubs and believe me I know that the "classy white girl" is a myth. I've seen it with my own to eyes. Thong flashes, cutting up when they get too much Absolute...bouncers gotta take them out with their legs in the air and their skirt up to their navel. I have seen the real REALITY show. I know from which I speak.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime thanks..i can't wait.. :)

  • @Nappitude21 Exactly, yt women are 'feisty', show assertiveness, are tuff little ladies, hispanic/Asian & other women show temper, flare up.

    Blk women, get angry, mad, r bi---es, etc.

  • love the videos

  • have you told people the name of your new channel yet?

  • @66mikedove99

    Clearly you didn't watch the video. Info in info box!

  • @Haitian1130 youre right actually that i didnt watch it.. anyway thank you. ive subscribed to the new one

  • Ellewondo....love it

  • An Vhus behavior in trying to provoke you by calling you dumb and her having a biased talk show really has gone a long way in debunking her. Her behavior was completely disgusting and Im a black man and am repulsed by her. Anyways I love your vids and keep up the good Work uheardme1stime. This video was excellent. An Vhu is just a mean, egotistical immature diva. She doesnt care about black guys, she just wants the attention they give her. She really is disgusting.

  • BEST VIDEO EVER!

  • It's unfortunate how incredibly far off topic those comments were. Some of the belligerent comments from both men and women were expected, but I was so disappointed with Ahn Vu's response or lack thereof. She "defended" herself like an angry 16-year-old. Instead of responding to the respectful party on the subject, she choose to give all the people who were downright disrespectful to her all the conversation and all of her attention. It seems like she actually stooped down to their level.

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  • I love your videos. Here's why people think that you're hating:

    1.) Number of words Ahn Vu said : < 30. You: The rest of the video. I think it would have been better if you let her own footage play a bit more, instead of us taking your word for it.

    2.) Context. "...but I didn't have any evidence. Now I do!" Sounds like you were looking to prosecute her. Your argument was rational & well thought-out, but the emotion behind it I think showed a lot more than in most of your videos. She upset you.

  • @VioletDrow

    "...but I didn't have any evidence. Now I do!""

    That was AFTER I heard her say color has nothing to do with it. At the beginning I gave her the benny of the doubt. You're darn right I'm going to watch outsiders closely if they're going to speak about black women. I make no bones about that.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime Just to be clear, I think you make your case well enough that you don't need to defend it anymore. I'm just telling you why other people think that you are hating. The only thing that nags me, however, is the question whether "Because black men love my yellow skin" automatically implies "over your black skin." I hope that's not what she meant, but I don't know...

  • How is this AnVu chick an "outsider" ? How do you know that if  she has not had any direct experiences with other black women? IF you are going to cal AnVu an outsider for SUPPOSEDLY not having any direct experiences with black women , then why haven't I seen you criticized black people who grew up in mostly white suburbs and had little to no experiences went black people interacted with whites, for given negative commentary on "black issues" in the inner city?

  • @Pentazoid111 She's calling Vu an outsider because she's not a black woman.

  • Well obviously, how does that exempt her from being unqualified to give her own analysis on the relationships problems that someblack women deal with.? Uheardmethe1sttime herself at one time gave her own analysis about asians men generally being less muscular compared to other races of men for why they seem to have trouble forming relationships with other women, yet she isn't an asian man.

  • @Pentazoid111

    lets be honest the society we live in today does not view black and asian women equally/same 

    the reality of dating for her is not the same reality for black women

  • @tony666ism

    "he reality of dating for her is not the same reality for black women"

    So why is she qualified (the An Voo lady) giving tips to help "WOMEN" date or speak on BM and BW relationship if the views are different?

    I may have simply misunderstood the comments though.

  • @BelTriniCurls

    i personally don't think she is qualified

    because society dosn't view asian and black women equally

    mainly due to racism and steryotypes

    generally speaking she does have it easier than us

    to a certain extent of course

  • @Pentazoid111

    "Uheardmethe1sttime herself at one time gave her own analysis about asians men generally being less muscular compared to other races of men for why they seem to have trouble forming relationships with other women"

    This is NOT my own analysis. This has been written about in various articles I've read.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime

    People right articles about Uheardme1st time? are they credible? or are they just blogs posted by people who have a certain opinion about her?

  • @testizel

    What does this prove?

    Damn, I hate viewing videos and reading comments months later! lol

  • Another point. I am not an ant, or a lion, but does that mean I can't understand their complex social systems or relationships they form with their species, if I study there relationships for a long period of time and become an expert?

  • @Pentazoid111

    "Another point. I am not an ant, or a lion, but does that mean I can't understand their complex social systems or relationships they form with their species, if I study there relationships for a long period of time and become an expert? "

    stop giving so much LOGIC. its gonna freeze these Vu Haters brains since they been fueling off bitterness & hate. lol they don't wanna hear it. i already explained it to them.

  • @Pentazoid111

    AGAIN, I am not disqualifying her because she is an outsider. Like I said twice now I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. But when she started saying color has nothing to do with it, she proved to me she is not qualified to speak on the subject. Color is an issue in the black community even if it's not a problem for YOU personally.

    No one wants to her false insensitive comments from outsiders.

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  • @testizel

    I know that's your dislike vote, Testicle.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime LMAO Testicle?

  • @testizel - Why would anybody be jealous of a woman catchings some dick? "Dating" a black man isn't anything to be all high and mighty about unless you get a ring. Where is Anh vu's ring? FYI, black men aren't wifing up the ahn vus, just fucking em. Need proof? Go ask Kim Kardashian how her "dating" black men has been panning out.

  • @vector313

    DAMN!!!!!!

  • @vector313

    YEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSS! Get him girl!

  • @testizel

    And what exactly does she do?

  • still hating i see. smh

  • @testizel

    Can't stay away I see.

  • @testizel

    SMH..... pathetic

  • @UHeardMe1stTime:*sigh*How long you been on youtube?You know good and damn well the truth does not matter here.

  • @ImALilMuch Okay so how do I make these bitches on the internet shut up and gain some sense?

  • uheardme1sttime I'm sorry, my last comments was not addressed to you dear, I was just too lazy to delete your name from the paragraph. ^_^v

    Your videos always get me thinking.

  • can't believe you have to defend your vid/opinion not only to this wu or vhu woman but to black men too... wow. I heard it all now.

  • @uheardme1sttime Now there may be some things that Blacks and Asians have in common in regards to racial tensions, relationships, and such. However, some issues are strictly Black issues just as some issues are strictly Asian issues and not to say that Black people can't discuss Asian issues or that Asian people can't discuss Black issues. But if its going to be done, a certain amount of respectable distance has to be recognized.

  • @uheardme1sttime However, I think these men need to understand that if you are going to be discussing black issues and you're not black yourself, then you are going to be more scrutinized than if you were black. Yes, she may have assimilated to black culture and had bad racial encounters with white people, but that doesn't give her the right to unabashedly critique black people even if what she says is true. (contd)

  • @uheardme1sttime The fact of the matter is Ms. Vhu is an attractive non-black woman who has a preference for BM and a lot of BM will come to her defense. I have nothing against An Vhu, but her comment was contradictory. If it has nothing to do with "yo color" then why say "black men love my yellow skin"? She could've said 'black men love me' or something to that effect. I can accept the fact that she was simply angry and responding to people bashing her. (contd.)

  • Being Canadian, I can definitely see why some a.a women might have attitudes...

  • @monica24b But in the end do those attitudes hurt or help them? An overbearing women is very unattractive. Many men associate submissiveness with femininity.

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  • @GGLebo23 I've been to America a couple of times, even lived there for a while. And have been to a lot of urban cities, the way you guys describe a.a women... From what I've seen isn't the truth... Most of you men must live in "hood" areas because I have not seen what you guys say.

  • lol idk how you do this. I'd lose my mind going back and forth with these stupid men.

    I watched your "what your white women can't give you" video and then watched part of kidbrothers response. It was really disappointing, these men can never admit when they're wrong and seems like they will never even try to come to a full understanding or agreement with your views even when you're right. It's really sad.

  • Black women on the internet are starting to make me hate Black women in real life. This forum in particular is filled with some of the most whiny, delusional, insecure bitches on the planet. Black women are beautiful(excluding the obese & ratchet haired), but all of this whining is NOT attractive.

  • BW could be so diabolical, vindictive, onerous, impudent, insolent, indignant, petulant, cantankerous, belligerent, bellicose, pugnacious, irascible and selfish.

    There are about a million videos of wm/bw relationships on youtube, bestowing and inundating each other with copious inveigles and plaudits.

    But one non-BW extols BM, and she gets virulently EXCORIATED ?

    Come on, most of your commentary exude logic and rationale, but you're remiss on this one.

  • @SLUGTHUG

    You didn't say HOW I was remiss. I can't do anything with non-specific criticism.

  • @SLUGTHUG Guess you missed her point while you were thumbing through your thesaurus.

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  • "If you could take your tongues out of her crack for just one second"...that's classic! If she was a black woman, she would be all kinds of hoes, yet she's Asian slinging her pussy around.  What does that make her? This bitch shows some black men for what they are.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime

    12:05 because that what she can relate to too and that speaks volumes for an individual who barks about other women being insure. I could say more, ohhhh ho ho ho, I could say a lot more but it'll become clear if it ain't already.

  • @Yolandra101

    And the church said AMEN. Obviously she prefers drama over a reasonable conversation.

  • @UHeardMe1stTime

    Do me a favor, when you get a minute look through you YT messages and find the two from, read them and get back at me if you need to.

  • @Yolandra101

    What messages?

  • @UHeardMe1stTime

    Woman, check your Youtube messages LOL. Among the thousands are two from me, hell, I think I sent them away. (o_O)

  • @UHeardMe1stTime

    correction

    meant to say

    " the two from me,"

  • @Unekwu89

    Also, about my gorgeous friend, the guys who do take interest in her are usually high quality men themselves; again, tall, nice bodies, and above-average in many ways.

  • - no real insight and no true attempt to really understand their issues. It usually becomes an excuse to insult black women, bring out the tired offensive stereotypes (fat, welfare queen, seven kids out of wedlock, loud, aggressive, unfeminine) and be rude. If black women didn't take offense, they'd be something seriously wrong with them.

  • @SUMOTACHI

    - asian girl who talks about their issues; there are black women to do that and will probably do it much better than an outsider can. Particularly, since black women have to put up with seeing themselves represented by women who are only half-black or less all the time in film and the media generally, I can see why they could be particularly sensitive about having their issues discussed by a woman of a completely different race. Espeically when that woman shows no sensitivity,

  • @SUMOTACHI

    - that I would be the best person to go to to learn about the "black experience" or "asian experience". I can only comment on the Indo-American experience; I am of Indian descent, look Indian and therefore am treated as such. I guess I could also comment on the "mixed race" experience but only as pertains to people of a similar background; somebody who is Asian/White will have different experience from a Black/White.

    So I completely understand black women being annoyed with an -

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