@Keltyrilou she dsnt have heat damage, its her natural hair texture! I have the same hair as her &we have the exact same problem..i do not dye or straighten my hair &i examine my hair all the time, its literally just how our hairs are b/c she rarely straightens her hair too! &she only dyes her hair, she dsnt bleach either..
I have the same problem except the curls in the back are the longest and shorter in the front and i end up looking like a heart shape. And i also considered cuttinh the back just to even it out but i want the length too lol. I just wear in a pony tail most days anyway
I know you already have layers, but have you thought about cutting more layers in?? My hair does the exact same thing but my mother (who's a stylist) cut layers all over to help shape my hair more. My hair is somewhat like yours too. So I understand your frustration lol.
you should stick it out! it's the transitioning stage that many naturals dnt know about (some never will) and no one ever warns you about lol. but its worth it, much like transitioning from relaxed to natural its a phase. it happens to ladies with mutiple textures and if ur growing ur hair I say u should definitely stick it out!
for the record LOVE your hair like this. my hair too is at an awkard growth period. my hair is 7 inches now and shrinks to 2 inches! lol no lie. but it's cool.. the back is sooo loose it hangs down grr it's just weird. i'm not sure what to do to my hair. *sigh*
I like your vid but you're buggin'!! First off, I know you think your hair looks a mess in the vid but I'm totally feeling' it!!!!! I'm also a fan of big wild hair (obviously), but I think it looks boss! Secondly, I like the shape of your hair...at least from what I can tell from this vid. At the end of the day, you are the one that needs to be happy with your appearance, but real talk....your hair is dope!!! Rock wit it!
Hey what's ur twitter name? I'm new to twitter and I can't find u... Maybe it's me... Lol I'm having the exact same hair problems but I'm not really good at the updos... Oh I've tried using flexi rods on my hair and I just love it.... U should try it if u haven't....
this video is so relevant to me right now. I've been natural for almost 3 years now, but the front of my hair doesn't curl. It's so straight compared to the rest of my hair. I'm considering cutting it but I really don't want to lose the length :/
omg ... ariella i have the SAME problem with my shape. like you my curls are tightest at the back and longer up top and on the sides. its a hot mess ... my hair isnt as long as yours so i dont have as much frustration as u seem to be having but im getting there. i cant wait to see the updates with what u do.
I had the same color as you and did a color change similar to what you are describing....I inboxed you some videos. Hopefully, it will be helpful! :-)
You can see pics on my Facebook sareka unique if that helps explain what I'm talking about lol. I'm sure whatever your gonna do will be awesome though!
I got so excited when I saw u post a video lol. I was wearing my hair a dark red color for a while then decided to change it to a honey blond color and my roots came out blonde but the red part came out a brighter redish blonde lol I loved it but it wasn't what I imagined lol so be careful if ur using box dies to die it a different color cuz ur roots may still be a different color that the rest of your hair :)
PLEASE for the love of GOD, DONT use a box Dye!!! Go to a salon to get it dyed Dark Auburn or bring a pic of what color you want, I'm a Cosmetology student & have learned that Box Dyes are the DEVIL!! Nothing but a box of CRAP, it may "LOOK" good, but it messes up your hair SO BAD you dont even KNOW!! Good luck & I LOVE your videos<3
You should go to "divachan" salon in soho! I know you live in N.Y like me. They do fabulous with curls. I want to go as soon as my hair grow some more. Check them out on FB an YouTube to see what you think. Good luck gorgeous!!
Have you ever done your wash and go with just conditioner? I love it. Your hair is alot thicker then mine but I know alot of women that love just the conditioner. Your curls fall differently. It's hard to explain. I have a very easy protective style I just did this morning if you're looking for more options. I'm way older then you but I'm sure you could rock the style out. I love your hair. Been watching you since the beginning when you was still transitioning. Have a good night!
I completely understand the mushroom thing, unfortunately it doesn't matter what length your hair is, you just have it like that... lol. Try and see if stretching the curls at the back works before you try and cut it. My hair is actually pretty layered and its on my back when its curly. So stretching the curls underneath is the only way i can wear it out without the mushroom. Just a suggestion from someone that gets it ;)
OMG! I have the same problem with my hair! I've started having to actually coil my top sections with my fingers, lol. To get some length with my wash n go's, I shake, fluff, and blow dry my roots. It makes a world of a difference. I was a little reluctant to use heat, but honey I'm a full-time student and I work, so...yeah, lol. I have mega volume and LOVE it. Before, I'd use a leave-in and actually do finger coils. I'd get the "cute" compliment. I want "sexy", since I am 25 and married, lol.
Girl. There is nothing wrong with your hair. Nothing is wrong with the length or the color! Just rock it!! You know if you cut it you're going to miss your length.
OMG!! My hair does the same thing and it was getting on my nerves. I tried something new for my twist outs on my freshly washed hair. I cornrowed my hair in the back (about 2" from the base of my hair line) and it gave me more length. I actually did it this past weekend and it turned out great! Maybe you can try that (if you haven't already) and see how that works for you ;o)
Hmm...what if you twisted the hair in the back to create looser curls? Idk, lol just a suggestion, not sure if it will help or not. But I love your hair and the color! :)
Also I kno there is no such thing but ur really like my hair twin lol b/c my hair grows the same way. Except I think I'm mostly 4B and some 4A. 4A bein the top and sides and 4B being the back.
Soon as u mentioned the shape u wanted to cut ur hair in Devachan Salon came to mind as I see it did with other poster lol. Anyway they may give u the 'tune up' ur looking for. Although I've never gone I've seen numerous vids on their techniques as well as ratings. I plan on takin my moms for her bday in march. Anyways hope u acheive the look ur going for.
i am actually going through the same thing and its annoying.. my hair has grown so much from my bc that some days when im in the mirror trying to fix my hair i just get mad and stare at it lol.. but i love that messy look u just had. anyway cant wait to see what you're gonna do to your hair.
Devachan salon could probably help you attain the shape and layer it so it falls even. Charzboss here on youtube has a stretching technique so her hair is all one length, check her out and if she doesn't have a video on it send her a message. I'm sure she would be happy to help you.
@xineotheoneix yea i'm sure devachan could, but they're a little pricey, i know some great hair stylists in jersey, i'll check out Charzboss thanks mama
my sister has the same type as hair as you with the same problem lol how about stretching the curls that you want to be a certain lifet and then using perm rods on the side that is long as well insteadd of cutting your hair. But then again its just hair! But i'm very sure what ever you decide it will still be FIRE!!
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Crushing1352 11 hours ago
Too cute!!! Fun hair!!!!
curlybuff101 5 days ago
@Keltyrilou she dsnt have heat damage, its her natural hair texture! I have the same hair as her &we have the exact same problem..i do not dye or straighten my hair &i examine my hair all the time, its literally just how our hairs are b/c she rarely straightens her hair too! &she only dyes her hair, she dsnt bleach either..
fLaCaLoCa174 5 days ago
@fLaCaLoCa174 thank you, love!! lol people don't wanna hear me when I say it, I appreciate your explanation. xoxoxo
MsAriella89 5 days ago
Don't laugh, but I love your hair right now, LOL...ok maybe not for school or work but I would definitely rock that on the weekend so funky, and fly!
mrsgarmon 2 weeks ago
I have the same problem except the curls in the back are the longest and shorter in the front and i end up looking like a heart shape. And i also considered cuttinh the back just to even it out but i want the length too lol. I just wear in a pony tail most days anyway
lazygurl305 2 weeks ago
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ddyiandra 2 weeks ago
You're a senior !?!?!?! In high school ?!?! Omggg, I thought you were so much older ????? You look like you're at least 22 :o
yurmother000 2 weeks ago
@yurmother000 that's a good thing, of course (:
yurmother000 2 weeks ago
@yurmother000 pretty sure she's a senior in college.
MsLaniBella 2 weeks ago
@yurmother000 she is a senior in high school :)
jayNbella 13 hours ago
Maybe you wold like the Diva Cut (i think that's what it's called)
haffilvgrls 2 weeks ago
Awesome Vid! Express yourself hun, do whatever you feel! I know it will come out amazing!
TheChanaImani 3 weeks ago
I LOVE IT LIKE IT IS!!
rrmorris74 3 weeks ago
the curls are falling out because of the heat dommage , I have the same problem -
sorry for my english i m frensh
keltyrilou 3 weeks ago
I feel ya on getting my hair shaped...I like this cut! Sessy! Let me know if you find a gr red..looking for one myself
vitak72 3 weeks ago
Your hair could use a trim but it still looks GREAT.
theatrefilmgirl 3 weeks ago
Your hair beautiful. Its stunting on its own.
p4173 3 weeks ago
Noooo don't cut it! Maybe explore some other stretched styles?
thedivinehostess 3 weeks ago
My hair grows the exact same way! I thought it was just my crazy hair. Lol well can't wait to see your cut!!
ericajones65 3 weeks ago
whats ur twitter name.?
joyayanna 3 weeks ago
My bad i thought u had that cut already Ms.Arie
chinkyeyeznyc 3 weeks ago
I think she had that CUt
chinkyeyeznyc 3 weeks ago
Your hair looks good now - and I'm sure it's gon look good after u do whatcha do to it. Looking forward to seeing what that turns out to be.
maximuslyricus 3 weeks ago
WHAT!!! UR MY HAIR NEMESIS MAN!!...YOUR HAIR IS FREAKIN BEAUTIFUL.....LEAVE IT WELL DYE WILL MAKE IT EVEN FUNKIER BUT YEAH....I'M JEALOUS~ LOL
SEXYPHILLYMOM40 3 weeks ago
i think you'd look REALLY awesome with dark auburn hair. it's like a chestnut brown with a tinge of red. google it!
zimmitysnicket 3 weeks ago
You should go to Devanshan Salon. They are really good at shaping.
skeete84 3 weeks ago
I know you already have layers, but have you thought about cutting more layers in?? My hair does the exact same thing but my mother (who's a stylist) cut layers all over to help shape my hair more. My hair is somewhat like yours too. So I understand your frustration lol.
BAILAvanessa 3 weeks ago
you should stick it out! it's the transitioning stage that many naturals dnt know about (some never will) and no one ever warns you about lol. but its worth it, much like transitioning from relaxed to natural its a phase. it happens to ladies with mutiple textures and if ur growing ur hair I say u should definitely stick it out!
jesusgirl171 3 weeks ago
have you tried braiding only the lower half for sleep, and unbraiding in the morning for length/stretched?
biracialcurls 3 weeks ago
You and I are about the same complexion. You'd look DYNAMITE with a cinnamon color...like a reddish brown. Can't wait to see what you decide.
eclark6 3 weeks ago
LOVE LOVE LOVE your hair and you so gorgeous! I can't wait for mine to grow out like that!!!
katie2marie 3 weeks ago
hold up. you're in high school? all this time i thought you were grown lol!
liaz23 3 weeks ago
@liaz23 lol, i think she is in college and about to graduate ;c )
biracialcurls 3 weeks ago
@biracialcurls ohh lol. that would make more sense :p
liaz23 3 weeks ago
for the record LOVE your hair like this. my hair too is at an awkard growth period. my hair is 7 inches now and shrinks to 2 inches! lol no lie. but it's cool.. the back is sooo loose it hangs down grr it's just weird. i'm not sure what to do to my hair. *sigh*
tyrondaking 3 weeks ago
A pretty red would look rly nice on u..but no not burgundy.
one2keepitrl 3 weeks ago
I'm mad a Progressive commercial just interrupted this 3 minute video. lol what's goin' on?
MysTaria87 3 weeks ago
do a rinse for your pics
mrsbloom90 3 weeks ago
auburn hair color would look nice on you.
PrettyJayy2794 3 weeks ago
I got the same problem! I don't even know what i'm about to do with it.
SweetMJ2487 3 weeks ago
ive been going thru it with my hair also. i'm just at an "arghhh" point with it, you know?
xoxomomo 3 weeks ago
Well said eyeshipsheart y u be tripping:)
AfricUniqueQueen1Luv 3 weeks ago
hey hey hey.. cant wait to see what you do to your hair sis.
FusionofCultures 3 weeks ago
I like your vid but you're buggin'!! First off, I know you think your hair looks a mess in the vid but I'm totally feeling' it!!!!! I'm also a fan of big wild hair (obviously), but I think it looks boss! Secondly, I like the shape of your hair...at least from what I can tell from this vid. At the end of the day, you are the one that needs to be happy with your appearance, but real talk....your hair is dope!!! Rock wit it!
eyeshipsheart 3 weeks ago
Hey what's ur twitter name? I'm new to twitter and I can't find u... Maybe it's me... Lol I'm having the exact same hair problems but I'm not really good at the updos... Oh I've tried using flexi rods on my hair and I just love it.... U should try it if u haven't....
leeanngooding 3 weeks ago
this video is so relevant to me right now. I've been natural for almost 3 years now, but the front of my hair doesn't curl. It's so straight compared to the rest of my hair. I'm considering cutting it but I really don't want to lose the length :/
urrka728 3 weeks ago
I just enjoy hearing you talk to be honest..hugs
TheAvalonStudio 3 weeks ago
Girl, love that bed hair look! Will be looking for your videos. I'm sure you'll pick a cool color. =)
Dlovely516 3 weeks ago
Maybe you should try setting your tighter curls in braids or twists so that you don't get that mushroom look.
4190james 3 weeks ago
Beautiful! ;)
bunnylish0us 3 weeks ago
you can try a red rinse. it will blend really nice with the natural color coming in.
88phiphi 3 weeks ago
Btw... What's your twitter??
notSoSweetAmb 3 weeks ago
Ahhhhh!!
I love your badass accent, you've gotta be from New York somewhere!??
Lol u said "portraits", how cute!!
Love the video!! & your hair looks amazing!
notSoSweetAmb 3 weeks ago
so cute~
Nickyloveslove 3 weeks ago
omg ... ariella i have the SAME problem with my shape. like you my curls are tightest at the back and longer up top and on the sides. its a hot mess ... my hair isnt as long as yours so i dont have as much frustration as u seem to be having but im getting there. i cant wait to see the updates with what u do.
Caryss81 3 weeks ago
I had the same color as you and did a color change similar to what you are describing....I inboxed you some videos. Hopefully, it will be helpful! :-)
exquisite61 3 weeks ago
@4everhumled she is a senior in college not high school
cmhartfi 3 weeks ago
You can see pics on my Facebook sareka unique if that helps explain what I'm talking about lol. I'm sure whatever your gonna do will be awesome though!
rekaniq 3 weeks ago
Do you think that colouring your hair has loosened your curl pattern?
somanywishes 3 weeks ago
I got so excited when I saw u post a video lol. I was wearing my hair a dark red color for a while then decided to change it to a honey blond color and my roots came out blonde but the red part came out a brighter redish blonde lol I loved it but it wasn't what I imagined lol so be careful if ur using box dies to die it a different color cuz ur roots may still be a different color that the rest of your hair :)
rekaniq 3 weeks ago
You so cool and sweet. I'm sure whatever you decide to do will be "fierce".
lasheavibez 3 weeks ago
senior portrait ? for college right ? AND SHOUT OUT TO JERSEYYYY !!!
prettykirsten1 3 weeks ago
Hiiii whats ya Instagram name....
morgan32782 3 weeks ago
i miss your curls :(
2cvest 3 weeks ago
PLEASE for the love of GOD, DONT use a box Dye!!! Go to a salon to get it dyed Dark Auburn or bring a pic of what color you want, I'm a Cosmetology student & have learned that Box Dyes are the DEVIL!! Nothing but a box of CRAP, it may "LOOK" good, but it messes up your hair SO BAD you dont even KNOW!! Good luck & I LOVE your videos<3
virgo138 3 weeks ago
You should go to "divachan" salon in soho! I know you live in N.Y like me. They do fabulous with curls. I want to go as soon as my hair grow some more. Check them out on FB an YouTube to see what you think. Good luck gorgeous!!
biohanydesi 3 weeks ago
Have you ever done your wash and go with just conditioner? I love it. Your hair is alot thicker then mine but I know alot of women that love just the conditioner. Your curls fall differently. It's hard to explain. I have a very easy protective style I just did this morning if you're looking for more options. I'm way older then you but I'm sure you could rock the style out. I love your hair. Been watching you since the beginning when you was still transitioning. Have a good night!
SincerelyLutie 3 weeks ago
Im feeling the stay exact way about my hair, but Ive decided to grow my color out of my hair because it has dried my hair up a bit
naturalnunique 3 weeks ago
I completely understand the mushroom thing, unfortunately it doesn't matter what length your hair is, you just have it like that... lol. Try and see if stretching the curls at the back works before you try and cut it. My hair is actually pretty layered and its on my back when its curly. So stretching the curls underneath is the only way i can wear it out without the mushroom. Just a suggestion from someone that gets it ;)
amandisag 3 weeks ago
I'm feeling the red look on you... Like a dark strawberry color, if that exists!
PinkThoughts1 3 weeks ago
i love red i think it would look nice on you
CYRINTHIA212 3 weeks ago
i get the same mushroom thing so im stuck with styling it all diff kids of funky ways cuz i kno imma miss the length,around the same as yours
i go through the same things within an hour(up,down,side twist thingy,bun/donut) any thing so i dont have to deal withthe dreaded "shroom"
YAHOO872 3 weeks ago
OMG! I have the same problem with my hair! I've started having to actually coil my top sections with my fingers, lol. To get some length with my wash n go's, I shake, fluff, and blow dry my roots. It makes a world of a difference. I was a little reluctant to use heat, but honey I'm a full-time student and I work, so...yeah, lol. I have mega volume and LOVE it. Before, I'd use a leave-in and actually do finger coils. I'd get the "cute" compliment. I want "sexy", since I am 25 and married, lol.
mrscountrygurl86 3 weeks ago
#cuttinghairdon'tcare
msPee1983 3 weeks ago
Sooo feeling u! Feel like I'm headed for big chop #3
msPee1983 3 weeks ago
DON'T CUT IT! let it grow out some more before you cut it. It's beautiful
Cresha912 3 weeks ago
Girl. There is nothing wrong with your hair. Nothing is wrong with the length or the color! Just rock it!! You know if you cut it you're going to miss your length.
eboniempowered 3 weeks ago
"I look like a mushroom"....lmao..you killed me..you should defenitely go red/dark red I think it would be awsome with ur skin color..
amandine78054 3 weeks ago
I think you should do a copper red color. I think that would look awesome on you.
KokoGigglesLots 3 weeks ago
Ughhh...I hate those days when my hair just does not want to participate. But you could try an auburn color on your hair.
MsAngelD 3 weeks ago
senior portraits...how old are you, if you dont mind me asking
4everhumbled 3 weeks ago
OMG!! My hair does the same thing and it was getting on my nerves. I tried something new for my twist outs on my freshly washed hair. I cornrowed my hair in the back (about 2" from the base of my hair line) and it gave me more length. I actually did it this past weekend and it turned out great! Maybe you can try that (if you haven't already) and see how that works for you ;o)
byahbyah 3 weeks ago
cant wait for the tuts!
swtcarmel1 3 weeks ago
I'm going through the SAME thing, awkward growing stages:)
peac3chil3 3 weeks ago
its funny u say ur hair looks a mess but i think this is cute. ^__^
DivinelyMochaDipped 3 weeks ago
Girl you inspire me!!!
shortbunny04 3 weeks ago
Hmm...what if you twisted the hair in the back to create looser curls? Idk, lol just a suggestion, not sure if it will help or not. But I love your hair and the color! :)
ChristyChats13 3 weeks ago
Also I kno there is no such thing but ur really like my hair twin lol b/c my hair grows the same way. Except I think I'm mostly 4B and some 4A. 4A bein the top and sides and 4B being the back.
ayitah69 3 weeks ago
Soon as u mentioned the shape u wanted to cut ur hair in Devachan Salon came to mind as I see it did with other poster lol. Anyway they may give u the 'tune up' ur looking for. Although I've never gone I've seen numerous vids on their techniques as well as ratings. I plan on takin my moms for her bday in march. Anyways hope u acheive the look ur going for.
ayitah69 3 weeks ago
I love your hair!!! Whats your instagram?!?
SuperiN2Deep 3 weeks ago
@SuperiN2Deep lol thanks, it's arispella
MsAriella89 3 weeks ago
i am actually going through the same thing and its annoying.. my hair has grown so much from my bc that some days when im in the mirror trying to fix my hair i just get mad and stare at it lol.. but i love that messy look u just had. anyway cant wait to see what you're gonna do to your hair.
MrsNattaly 3 weeks ago
Devachan salon could probably help you attain the shape and layer it so it falls even. Charzboss here on youtube has a stretching technique so her hair is all one length, check her out and if she doesn't have a video on it send her a message. I'm sure she would be happy to help you.
xineotheoneix 3 weeks ago
@xineotheoneix yea i'm sure devachan could, but they're a little pricey, i know some great hair stylists in jersey, i'll check out Charzboss thanks mama
MsAriella89 3 weeks ago
My fro need a revamp as well. I love my length but it's at another one of those awkward stages. :/ Can't wait to see your "hair lift" ;)
ChelleAmi 3 weeks ago
my sister has the same type as hair as you with the same problem lol how about stretching the curls that you want to be a certain lifet and then using perm rods on the side that is long as well insteadd of cutting your hair. But then again its just hair! But i'm very sure what ever you decide it will still be FIRE!!
DavidLonelyman 3 weeks ago
@DavidLonelyman thanks love! yea i've tried stretching the parts i want elongated, it just looks weird lol
MsAriella89 3 weeks ago
@MsAriella89 lol yea it takes too much to get it to the pattern to match the other curls too trust me i know
DavidLonelyman 3 weeks ago
first comment Wee! i love your hair BTW
mypenutbutter 3 weeks ago
i love the mushroom look!! it fits the shape of your face very well !!! <3 <3
youplusmeislove 3 weeks ago