Can A Guy Love TS Women and Not Be Labeled A Chaser?

[TheGriffin57]

I guess that I am in awe after watching this video. I am attracted to all types of women not just transwomen. I grew up in a home that was backward and somewhat racist. People of other colors and beliefs were made fun of. I was this way untill Star Trek came along. I quickly came to think that if we were all alike, this would be a very dull and meaning less existance. What is normal is our differances, as it should be. That we become what we want is the right of life. I wish you well.

[jondavismusic]

very well said. I found your video very interesting. I am not sure if I know what a chaser is yet though... I see it very simply. If a guy is in love with a TS, then it shouldn't matter what he is being called. Ultimately the people calling names are closed-minded.

[dangoulding81]

I love your vid's. I'm currently in a "normal" relationship but know myself that I love TG women. Please help me.

[sweet96635]

I can't believe you trans women complain about "chasers". Who the hell else is going to want to date you?  At least 99.9% of men who want anything to do with trans women in a sexual or romantic way are chasers. Just because someone's a chaser doesn't mean they're not romantically interested and possibly looking for a LTR though.

And a lot of men lie, so to all you trans women out there who've got a man and don't think he's a chaser, you're probably wrong.

[parhamont1]

Yes it is possible for a guy to love a TS in a normal relationship without being a "chaser". Others may label him as a "chaser", but it is a misapplied label.

[tsloverlarry]

I AM looking for a long-term permanent relationship with a TS. If you want to call me a "chaser", then FINE, but I am looking for a RELATIONSHIP...NOT a series of one-night stands!!!!!

[LOOKING4EXCITEMENT]

your very beautiful, honest, and very right. wish you the best. and Jim also

[heloizyjhenifer]

I get it, you want (using the rhetorical you) to be loved because you're special, apart from having male dna not matching the phenotype. The thing is, if you're special, you have to prove it. Being attractive doesn't count as special in any thinkable way. There are millions of phenotypical women as attractive and more so than you.

Now, I'm attracted to all women, big or small, tall and short, genetic or not, you'd label me a chaser, be it of big bottoms, penises or boobs, depending on the case.

[sandra2011J6teq55q]

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[EazyTouches]

Are you a transgendered?

You look and sound a beautiful (natural) female.

[singchef1965]

You know that is a problem. All men are attracted to beautiful women. If they just happened to be Transgendered who cares. You can't pick who you fall in love with. You are not a chaser!

[goodBUMBLEBEEnough]

oh my god! i love the "heres a ring! lets move in and adopt!" love it! i am married to a beautiful transgirl and i love her for everything she is :)

[pretorious700]

wtf? "ts" "woman"? Hey, if you've got a cock-you're a guy!!! And wtf is a "chaser"?

People are so confused.

[tsloverlarry]

I think I need to meet Jim. It sounds like we have a lot in common...

I consider myself an "admirer" and not a "chaser", but I've been called just about every nasty name in the book.

[MrSiulsiul]

if the guy like the girl because he see her as a girl and want to have a relationship with her like he did with bio girls,he is straight

if the guy want to date the girl mostly because she is trans i think he a bit of a chaser...or just like it,like some ppl like blue eyes,red hair...i think

sorry if i said some shit XD

[MrSiulsiul]

if the guy like the girl because he see her as a girl and want to have a relationship with her like he did with bio girls,he is straight

if the guy want to date the girl mostly because she is trans i think he a bit of a chaser...or just like it,like some ppl like blue eyes,red hair...i think

sorry if i said some shit XD

[defcon636]

I'm so over the whole labeling thing. I dont care what you folks call me any more. I am engaged to a transwoman and im very proud of it. I dont care if im labeled gay because the truth is i love my partners penis and i could care less if you called me a chaser. If you would call me anything call me happy and in love. This is my first transwoman relationship and it has been the greatest experience. I love my partner dearly and i want the whole world to know that.

[carahatestrig]

@defcon636 there should be more enlightened people like you in the world!

[MandalaDesert]

As a post op TS woman, I prefer guys who like me because I'm TS, as long as it's because of what makes me who I am and not some fetish. I think some girls get weirded out because they assume it's just a fetish. Some guys just have an attraction to TS women that goes to the heart, and not the genitals.

[The123norris]

but that dream is unrealistic not mention danger .

[doralman6661]

i have to admit i have always found trans women beautiful and you are right it really does not matter whats down there

[Gia818Babe]

@Mephistophelico. You sound like a very mad tranny! Just cuz you've had bad experience's and for whatever reason's you cant get a man (maybe your not passable enough?) doesn't mean those of us who are" Passable" dont have the bad luck you do. I myself dont like tranny (cock sucker) chasers!! I want and im able to get a "Straight" all the time cuz im very passable. So..just cuz it rains on your parade doesn't mean it rains on ours.!!!! ha ha ha ha uh uh uh uh

[Q60K3]

Honesty and trust are any person's best assets. It takes courage to have honesty but honesty is the only way I know to earn someone else's trust. Meghan: here's all my love...

[christopherspeedy]

i dont care if someone calls me a chaser, im sure not looking for a relationship LOL

[CardinalRaker]

As long as the guy is chasing trannies and the trannies arent chasing guys. Laws should be passed to make it illegal for trannies to deceive straight men.

[andiGrooms]

@CardinalRaker I'm confused by your statement, please elaborate.

[Chris188228]

@CardinalRaker but they usually aren't trying to deceive anybody, Who's more guilty in that case, the straight guy who falls for a tranny or the tranny who's just living her life the way she wants to live?

[RobVSRed]

Ilike what you said about the scars.I am filled with battle scars and I see each one of them as a lesson frome the past to be rememberd(emotional or otherwise)

[MVParamount]

To me a chaser is one who loves every TS woman he sees and is constantly going after them. But that is just my opinion. I think that a man can love a TS and not be a chase yes. But extreme is a chase.

[MikeNYC11215]

I'm drawn to tg women because I suspect myself to be tg (I am a closeted one and live outwardly as a male). My problem is that I have my own gender confusion, and I seek out tgs-- but I think a passable transwoman who is attracted to heterosexual men would not be interested in a guy who harbors fantasies of being a woman himself and would resent being objectified for that reason .

[KTHREE31]

@MikeNYC11215 EYE Kan relate1 ;) PHILLY!

[zoso1234]

wow meighan you are hot!

[MsHojat]

Nice video Meghan. I didn't know about that dream you and probably many others have (well I don't know anything about you as this is the only video I've seen), but I am not too suprized either. Personally as a het guy that is my dream too, meet someone who's indistinguishable. Considering my experience and eye, that would be quite difficult though, since I think MOST people need voice surgery and/or plastic surgery to be that good. Eh I was going to say more about this but can't fit anymore lol

[jefftgl]

Nice guys are just nice guys, "Tranny Chasers," are usually jerks.

Treat ALL women the same! Then, you are not a tranny chaser.

It is a derogatory term, some gyrls, apply to ALL men. That is just a narrow minded viewpoint.

All I can say, is don't be that guy.

most TS girls, perfer men, nice men.

[mephistophelico]

I understand hating being desired because you have a penis, I understand that, but some transsexuals like to believe that most men are into us, and that's not true, the pool of men who are into trannies is incredibly small, and, ironically, I have never seen a good looking tranny chaser with a decent job. But do these T girls prefer hearing straight guys saying that it's disgusting to have sex with a tranny, or they prefer hearing that some men look for them, even if it's just a fetish?

[mephistophelico]

how many trannies can pull it off so well as to omit the fact that they are transsexuals? Let's be realistic and not delusional. Now if life has been cruel and shitty to someone for being born in the wrong body, who gives a fuck about being honest. Honest? Bullshit! If the only way to get a str8 guy and not a T-chaser is to omit, let's lie

[ecin61]

i really like femininity.ihave never been with a t-girl. ..but i really want to be.you are more of a woman, than woman.

[xXTiramisuuuXx]

@ecin61 Trannies are more of a woman than regular women? You are such a faggot.

[jkeyes1000]

Anyone who rules someone out (or in) as a lover on account of genitalia is close-minded--but trans ladies who rule out men because they presume them obsessed with their pre-op status are just as prejudiced. It is bad logic to suppose that your anatomy is the "only difference". Tss are fascinating, cool, and generlly much more fun. Most sophisticated guys don't care what it looks like--so long as it works. Few are attracted to 'frigid' women. It's the passion they want!

[Naren789]

i wish i could change my voice really good like you. lots of people never know im ts but i do worry about my voice sometime. your voice is so awesome...well done

[AgentPepsi1]

Of course he can. My husband can certainly not be considered a "chaser"... he is very much a straight guy who happened to be attracted to this girl. That girl just happened to be me.

He says what he finds really attractive about me is my femininity and that I love being a girl.

[aplied]

Intresting....and it is first time i heard of it...what is a chaser?...what is a tranny chaser?

[towerpainter28]

Some how this video got put next to mine (or mine next to this) and they are not really relevant to each other but none the less this was a new topic I have not delved into. Are you telling me that you (the maker of this video) are a man below the belt? I don't think I would have known that as you look like a pretty young lady. Anyway I wish you well and if you get a chance watch my video I don't talk as good as you but I think it is important. Be safe out there!!

[bloodandbones9]

Don't be worried about being called a chaser, my man! There are plenty of gals out there who would like you. We all have our mate(s). I personally am only interested in non-ops, and guess what? I have a lot of friends among them of my choosing. Tranny chaser is what some snobs label people just like rednecks call gays faggots. Who cares we have our own community.

[harryhillys]

interesting. For me i am bisexual and attracted to male to female trans also. I find it uncomfortable the way I could be labelled a chaser whatever that is I mean what is wrong with the way i am?

The only time it is unacceptable is like any situation when someone you don't know starts getting personal. Screw these labels I like men, I like women and i like trans women!

[elvis3700]

First, I want to say that I think you are incredibly beautiful. However, that the only thing I see when I look at you. I see a woman, who is intelligent, thoughtful, kind, giving, sometimes a little shy, and that is just a small part of what I see in you. Any man, would be blessed, to be with a charming woman such as yourself, me included.

[george20169]

God you are so beautiful. I love you. I wish I were younger, I would definitely try to see you. I would love to have a person as beautiful as you by my side.

[dollface5000]

Men are the warriors ,the fighters , the hunters. If the ones who claim their adoration of us were true to who they are and what this is we'd see more ts weddings , engagements , ts parents at the pta , and yes ts acceptance . So i apologize to your friend Jim but guys who seek tg situations need to get real , recognize whats going on and grow a pair, and girls i say as far as chasers go, give them nothing !!!!!! Now thats one to grow on.

[dollface5000]

are truly STAND UP GUYS . Defying society to tell them what an acceptable love is and who and what and how to go about doing so. IF CHASERS WOULD COME CLEAN WITH THEMSELVES AND SOMEHOW BE ABLE TO BE TRUE BEING WHO WANTED TO SHARE THE LIGHT OF TRUE LOVE THEY WOULDNT BE CALLED CHASERS. ALL the excuses in the world cant make me see otherwise. Example gay men face the same struggles and eventually come out hard and proud to live in their truth. Lesbians do it even bisexuals do.

[dollface5000]

isnt the fault of trans women yet the men who claim they "love "us for whatever reason. If they were truly the MEN they claim to be we'd see a whole lot more man vs. wild . Example they are so afraid of what people around them think, what ? If they werent living in a dream world and really just took their balls out and and put their feet down the state of trans affairs wouldnt be in such perile. The dreams of t girls who just want to live as the women they are in a normal setting with men who

[dollface5000]

the shadows disappearing and reappearing out of thin air. They are liars , delusional and dangerous . Chasers would be mortified if how much time they devote to their sneaky , tricky little craft was exposed the way they expose and exploit transwomen for 'being ' just that, tgirls not girls , trannies not women. Inside they feel like theres something wrong with what they are into on some level otherwise whats up with the stealthy behavior ? The state of ts affairs in this country and abroad

[dollface5000]

If trannie chasers were respectable guys who are to be accepted for who they are they wouldn't be called trannie chasers. They make t girls feel dirty and try to reduce t girls to no more than their naughty bits. If your friend 'Jim' has been called a trannie chaser its for a reason. Lets not reduce the t girl community to a bunch of name calling freakout artists with chips on our shoulders. Trannie chasers are venomous liars who wish not to be seen for what they truly are. They move through

[davidcrenfro]

Everyone is all hung up on sex. It's the person. Can you live and be happy every day with them? "" Oooooo, I wouldn't want him if he was attracted to me because of my dick,,, or some part of my body!!"""" That was lame. We are all attracted to the physical. Let it go. Does this person make you smile continuously? Walk a happy path. That glee will spread. Fuck man. Geez......

[amginena]

It seems like a romantic catch-22. Anyone who is OK with us must be a chaser. So we guarantee we will never let anyone close. We claim to accept ourselves, but never believe deep down any mate could accept us. Yeah, I do believe the guys who only go after pre-ops do have some issues. It's like someone wanting to play with your birth defect. I guess to each their own, but I'd steer clear. Is it just that society needs to evolve more?

[bloodandbones9]

I think a chaser is the equivalent of a womanizer, no more no less. I don't think their orientation is at all wrong, just their character. For example, I really do get offended when a woman uses me for me just for my body, I hate objectification. We are all human and we need to treat people with the respect that we expect for ourselves. Expect respect.

[dollface5000]

@bloodandbones9 trannie chaser = womanizer . i agree.

[GenieP]

You made perfect sense to me, Meghan. You are articulate, honest, forthright, attractive, and have a lovely voice. Looking forward to more of your videos. I guess I was one of the lucky TS women, I met a guy when I was 25 and he and I've been together for more than 30 years. Yep, we'll both turn 60 this year. Best to you always!

[jennykts]

I only dont like it when it's a guy who is specifically looking for a woman with a penis. When I had one, I didn't like it- so I don't want to be with someone who is attracted to me for that. but if he is interested in post op transwomen and not just fixated on the penis and "best of both worlds" scenario, and just sees me as a woman- I think it makes it easier actually. Why? I'm sick of that awkward, hard convo telling the person you're on a date with only to get dumped and brokenhearted

[micheleabutler]

I think that there is some qualifying that goes along with the label "tranny chaser." The qualifier is if that "chaser" is looking for the sexual fantasy of being with a transwoman. Now the reason that a transwoman maybe so quick to pass the label is because there are a lot of men that will only desire them for that reason. So its easier to pass someone off as a chaser. In the case of Jim, he likes a personality trait..that's not a chaser, that is something more people should learn to do..

[DomokomoNeyo]

It is a sad fact that there will always be people out there that will have to label others - purely because they are jealous of the others happiness or they can't handle the acceptance of happiness themselves (their need to punish them self).

[DarylWashingtonV4]

Totally, the trannies who think that way are retarded.

[tredeep]

Guys or women for that matter will prob never be able to shake the "chaser" label primarily because most trans women who use the term wont look past but the reality is we all chase something...better jobs, nicer cars, homes with the white picket fence so why should our mates be any different . Dosent matter if ur cis or a trans woman U will be chased on some level, kinda comes with the territory of being a woman. it takes a lil more insight & maturity to see past labels, sadly most ppl can not

[digitaltrans2]

OMG thats my dream too... I don't know about the kids though. I have two already love them but don't need two more.

[Lunaxekiese]

@nochokin COMPLETELY AGREEE! Ive dated men who only like transsexual women, and go about it the same way that I have been courted by guys that didnt know I was a TS. They are just regular guys...I preffer to date guys that want to be with transsexual because i feel like they know what they want, and also I am non op, so it makes it easier for me. The truth of the matter is that both parties are to blame...

[Lunaxekiese]

@Lunaxekiese so many guys that say they want to be with TS oversexualize us, objectify us and there for we as transsexuals have to keep our guard up...but like nochokin said, its all about the way the guy goes about trying to be with ts.

[yurei8]

I think the overcoming obstacles makes us all better than before. It gives us inner beauty, with greater courage and conviction to be happy. It's not about what you were, but who you/we, have become. People who have not always had something, tend to appreciate what they now have. So there are many positives to those that see deeper character, as the key. Physical qualities attract, but deeper things are the glue.

[ThatPunkBrent]

great video

[Erica2Lives]

As long as a person is interested in the "trans" part of a transwoman in deference to the "woman" part, then they can't avoid being labeled a "chaser." Anytime you discriminate, whether it's good or bad, you're showing a bias towards the thing you are discriminating that thing from. It's like saying you are attracted to congenitally blind women for their courage in facing the world sightless. Nobody wants to be desired specifically for a medical condition they had no say in. It's just creepy.

[Erica2Lives]

As for people attracted to "pre-op" transwomen... a "pre-op" transwoman who will eventually get the "op" would (ostensibly) no longer be attractive to these people once her anatomy is corrected,. A pre-op transwoman who does not get the op is not (IMO) a woman, she's a tranny (barring, of course, those who can't for medical reasons.)

Women do not not have penises, nor do they want them. A transsexual woman is a woman, so keeping a penis is unthinkable, and being desired for it is even worse.

[Lunaxekiese]

@Erica2Lives I dont think its that simple, everyone has prefferences...everyone! some men only like to date white women, black women, or asian women, blondes, brunnettes, redheads...etc. By you saying that women dont have penises youre basically saying that you are not a women(if you still have a penis). Everyone post op trans woman has had a penis, before she got SRS.

[Erica2Lives]

@Lunaxekiese - I was a bit harsh. There are many variables. I think what it boils down to though, is WHY does a guy want to date a transwoman specifically? The answer would be because he's interested in whatever makes a transwoman different from a ciswoman. As a transwoman, the things that make me different from a ciswoman are precisely what I dislike about myself. I don't find it appealing to be admired and found attractive by straight men who like me for the things I don't like about myself.

[podcastbard]

You're such a romantic. Also about the topic of this video, I'm still confused about the label "Chaser". I've heard it before on other videos but isn't that the whole purpose behind the game between two people who really like each other? I've never played that game, maybe that's why I'm confused. Thank you for the post and conversation.

[HRTOACTIVIST]

You should create a video about how the other trans people can discriminate against other trans people. You should talk about how and why its bad...

[6672rock]

I always thought "chasers" described men or women who simply can't commit to one person and are always looking for the next sexual conquest. I guess it depends on the person, how honest and faithful they are, how much of a fetish is behind their impulses, etc. There are so many factors, but I definitely think fidelity and honesty are the two main issues that separate chasers from non-chasers.

[Weaselheadx]

Long time no see, Meghan. I feel ya on the work thing, been overworked and overstressed myself.

[tamsin021]

Hi Megan,its nice to see you again I havent got an answer for you,but then I expect were behind the times here in uk,compared to you guys in los angelas,all best wishes Tamsin cornwall uk

[quimbyt]

That depends on how you go about it. Certain trannys are always going to consider you a chaser if your preference is a woman with a dick. Then there are trannys that just don`t care. There are also those creepy guys that act like stalkers.

[quimbyt]

Well at least your working I haven`t had a job in 2 1\2 years, and if I don`t find a job by June 1st I`m homeless.

[Eopyk]

An amazingly well spoken video Meghan :) I think your friend Jim will like your awsner very much :)

All love from me Jasmine

[SukotsutoMaki]

Meghan-san, thank you for being so honest. It means so much that you are honest, and represent the people of our community so well. In a world that can be a bit yielding at times, it is always nice to know of you and the others.

[BeautyLuvsDaBeast]

I think this is like majorly accurate :D It's not that men "can't" date trans and not be chasers; its that they don't. Guys in general are often guilty of all kinds of emotional abuse, and I genuinely feel what defines being a "chaser" is rather or not you are emotionally abusive for her being TS (treating her badly, calling her names, demeaning her, etc). Trans-women (including me) are like vulnerable and a lot of guys realize this unfortunately^_^

[nochokin]

I feel like....its not what you do it how you do it that make youa chaser....if running around just messing around with many trannies they you a chaser.....if you selective and lookin for a real relationship then you a just a regular guy...its the approach of objectifying us or oversexualizing that make you a chaser in my eye

[DaFawky]

i feel really sorry for the guys who like pre op trans women since most trans women hate being pre op, it's a bad romance as Lady Gaga would say. lol...

maybe a chaser can find a non-op transwoman who's comfortable with being pre-op...

and a pre op trans woman who hates being pre op can find a totally straight man who doesn't mind her being trans so she can get surgery and whatnot...

and well as for me i'm gay so i love gay men and being a gay man but i like the trans community xD

[Jink5]

IMO, Transwomen are more funny & humorous than Ciswomen. Just my opinion.

[johnpg1957]

i like you even thou you are trans i woud like to find a trans gf and i do not care

[redeemdangel]

Its good to see you back! =)