That last question you asked, is it love or all just lust....ain't no one can answer that question for anyone else...but ourselves. It's what my Grandma would have called 'a question for the mirror."
Most guys use the L word to get in your pants, sure enough. They give guys like me a bad name. Yet, they've broken me love. In the end lust is all there is if I may be so synical.
i sooo agree with this shit.but it kinda seems to me that some asshole did ya wrong..u know, some of ur poetry ive heard on here would go good in a song.i used to write alot too untill i picked up a guitar..now im not that good but im good enough for me..sometimes..lol..
You have good ideas, but you just do not know how to communicate as an educated person. There is some work to be done wit your language, there are so many bad words that do not justify the importance of love that you are trying to communicate. I think you would get more engagement form people if you just talk more properly to the audience. Anyway you have a good idea of what love is but it needs to be improve.
You have good ideas, but you just do not know how to communicate as an educated person. There is some work to be done wit your language, there are so many bad words that do not justify the importance of love that you are trying to communicate. I think you would get more engagement form people if you just talk more properly to the audience. Anyway you have a good idea of what love is but it needs to be improve.
You have good ideas, but you just do not know how to communicate as an educated person. There is some work to be done wit your language, there are so many bad words that do not justify the importance of love that you are trying to communicate. I think you would get more engagement form people if you just talk more properly to the audience. Anyway you have a good idea of what love is but it needs to be improve.
You have good ideas, but you just do not know how to communicate as an educated person. There is some work to be done wit your language, there are so many bad words that do not justify the importance of love that you are trying to communicate. I think you would get more engagement form people if you just talk more properly to the audience. Anyway you have a good idea of what love is but it needs to be improve.
When its all said and done a man will always be a man. we cant blame it on technology... without technology we wont be able to solve any problems at all. it cant get worst than how it is. the BIBLE says every men must Eat, Drink and Enjoy himself until eternity.
I enjoyed your post and you make very good sense thank you for compiling it and putting the effort to spread good common sense out there with a deep sense of values on how constructive or damaging just words can be. You hit spot on in regards to appearance vs reality. In my perspective, if you cannot love your wife after saying I "love" you to her, the other woman, you say that to, should know exactly how low you genuine a person you are,but the sad thing is, most women fall for it!
Finally a voice of reason. I'm sure there is more of this real Love out there, but unfortunately, no one talks about it, and more people fall into Lust.
not'....LOVE...more like LUST!!......that dah...what the happen....@ this time!!......LOVE is sooooo overated!!!.........80%..fuckin' Divorce rate!!..."Beaver cleaver'....days..or generation..that was LOVE!!..."...Andy Griffith..@ that time too!!
I think that one of if not the main problem is that many people who think they are in love, really don't know the actual definition. Their thoughts on love are skewed.
I had an internet affair once. I felt kinda silly though because it turned out to be a spamming porn bot from a yahoo chat room. Technology does ruin things!
i feel ya. life taught me that love is more action than a word. u can say "i love u" to someone, but it means nothing without honesty and loyal actions. P.L.& U
Well obviously if a guy cheats on you hes not in love with you.. that answers your own question. And without love in this world nobody would give a flying fuck about you or anybody else.. so yes love is very important in this world.. Obviously you are stating the immature relationships.. I figured you would be passed that since you are what like 30?
if he comes back to you for you then how is it not love...go look in nature and let me know the % of animals that have sex with the same partner for the rest of their lives.....you combined every single person who says the word love and said all those males fuck women or "destroy" relationships....what if society has impressed this idea into your brain that you have to LOVE only ONE person, uhhh no sex does not mean love, LOVE is LOVE not sex.....figure it out
i come back to your vids sometimes when i feel confused about love and men and stuff like that cause u speak as it is, as you feel...but today :) my question is, is it love, need for affection, egoistic expression of love for the need of feeling and receiving affection, besides of course lust and sex :)? do we lie to ourselves without even knowing it until we break up and find someone else to make us feel better, after the break up...just like that...gone all we thought we felt?
Danm Girl, What happen in your past let it go, ur beautiful but u sound bitter, well that waht i get from urs vids, cmon vlog about something chill, something fun life is not always drama
Many people are incapable of even grasping the kind of love you mean let alone being capable of loving like that. They haven't been brought up like that and haven't grown themselves to be able to truly love. I would't regard it foolish to demand such dedication, but from some(read: many) people one can't even expect it.
Many people are incapable of even grasping the kind of love you mean let alone being capable of loving like that. They haven't been brought up like that and haven't grown themselves to be able to truly love. I would't regard it foolish to demand such dedication, but from some(read: many) people one can't even expect it.
Enough lust can get the shyest ball rolling. Love needs freindship, loyalty, trust and empathy to survive any lulls. It waxes and wanes like the moon and needs a lot of coaxing for the magic moments. It is its own god.
I think it's possible to love someone and cheat. It's not cool, b/c I believe in the caring type. However, I also agree that ppl use that word casually for their own motives.
For a moment there I thought I loved you. Then you reminded me what an ambiguous word 'love' is, and I thought about how I break it down to understand it. I felt a BELIEF in you. I felt no deception or lies. I TRUST you. Something tells me you are consistant in your ways. I RESPECT your perspective on this matter and found no reason to argue against it. I DESIRE to be around your kind. Straighttalking, confident & articulate.
Its not whats "wrong with the world" today, its been going on for centuries. Its just religion and public issues covering it all up.
And "people are in love for a moment"... why? Because all the crap idealizing love on TV these days is making up too much criteria for the next perfect couple. Its making things WAY too complicated while its just so simple. You love someone and that's it.
There are very few real loving people because sexual attraction is often misinterpreted for love. Too bad
Proshka, you are, perhaps unknowingly, touching on some very profound things. You stated "pretty soon, love will cease to exist." I don't know where you are in your spiritual journey, but the bible states that "God is Love" (1 John 4:8) It also tells you what love is, which can be found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. You are absolutely correct with your observation that love is used to loosely nowadays, when we look at what love really is you will understand the indictment of man. (1 Corinthians 13)
Proshka, you are, perhaps unknowingly, touching on some very profound things. You stated "pretty soon, love will cease to exist." I don't know where you are in your spiritual journey, but the bible states that "God is Love" (1 John 4:8) It also tells you what love is, which can be found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. You are absolutely correct with your observation that love is used to loosely nowadays, when we look at what love really is you will understand the indictment of man. (1 Corinthians 13)
I like the comment near the end. You find another to forget about the one you love and then end up falling in love with them and needing someone else to forget about them.. Thats classic.
Not to the end of your video yet -- yes there is an emotion I feel that I call love, but it doesn't always last and it is never unconditional. A guy might lie to his wife for various reasons - Two are:
1) he lied about love from the start and only uses the word "love" to manipulate. 2) the romantic passion has faded, he can only feel it with someone new, and he doesn't want to admit it or lose what is good in his marriage.
Did you ever lie to your parents? Did you not love them?
I am enjoying your videos, you show passion through your work.. If you had everything in the world; and I could have anything from you; I wouldn't take your money, I wouldn't take your sex, I would honestly take your spirit. Picture that =) Someone who wants your spirit.
Your opinion is based on the mainstream version of monogomous love that is shoved down our throats since we're kids. People use 'love' as a tool to manipulate each other. But love is a DIVINE feeling that is meant to be shared. What ruins it is our jealous human ego's that have a need to 'control' things and own people. Love is universal and is way too big for just one person in my opinion. How can you put conditions on love and then call it unconditional? Look up Hedonism, Tantra, & Poly.
I think the issues lies on what we were told love is. The mainstream version of 'love' is just an emotion people use to manipulate each other. We're taught 'Cindrella' and this monogomous-only concept of love. Love is a DIVINE emotion that is meant to be shared. What prevents us from experiencing the true essence of it is human ego, jealousy, and a false need to 'control' someone else. How can you put conditions on love, and then call it unconditional? " Look up Hedonism, Tantra, & Poly :)
and i would fuck with all your shit, if it wasn't for that dildo...like hello! can you explain that? like is that a lesbian thing? I don't know about you but the battery world we live in, is really a flash in the pan, fast as you can say, orgasm?
and when you fuck someone over they fuck someone over and the cycle. love or lust? ya, your being fucked over. or your fucking them over. what the fuck?
...and if it is love, then speak not of what offends thee, as love will prevail. If your hurt, then speak your sorrows, as we all have those. Few, so few, have lived with no loses and those who have never felt what life has to loose like you and I. They value not love, but power....what say you?
i saw your cunt they will say they wish i'll say follow me to my dish you will say wait i didn't invite them no worries mom Dad knows they are here he is perversed and afterall we inherited the genes that made us all so welcome everyone christain or buddhist indulge in our sins afterall no stranger will ever uncover
more than her or him it is what has made you no less than i am no more than she is so when i say i saw your cunt remember your face think of the place when you tried it and if you never did you never did this was never meant for the innocent.
Love is rare and by that very rare. But I don't think easy-available communication tools like the internet is the reason for it just the means. The reason is our out of control consumer society, ''you don't like this try another one! (sometimes with a money-back guarantee lol)''. People are no longer human-beings just ressources at work, why should it be different in couples? This western style of living is winning and love and morality are in a dark place right now. Have fun people!..idiots lol
People have ALWAYS been cheating, way before technology got injected with 'cyber spinach' and beefed up.
I feel that love is a cennection you find or have with someone whether it be big or small and no matter what happens in the future, the connection still stays with you even if you don't won't it to.
I'm glad that love isn't typically forever when it comes to dating/relationships because I look back at some of the gals I dated when I was in my teens, twenties, thirties, and they and I are not the same persons we were back then.
Shit changes and that was then and this is now. With that said, I have been married since mid 1992 and it's been a great relationship with a lot of work, etc.
Would your boyfriend have to compete with the love you have for your subs? I think people grow in and out of love but they don't always know how to deal with that. Really I don't know either, it's a lottery world and some win but to be fair most people don't seem to make enough effort. There's no less love today than there ever was, just more people around to fuck it up.
You sound jaded. I never cheat on a girlfriend (when I have one) and when we are together it's us against the world. We help each other out and work as a team. Best of friends. Any barbie doll can try to seduce me and I won't break.
Maybe your picker is broken and you are choosing the wrong guys and friends? In America where we live their is a high divorce rate but it is not like that everyone. Your good lookin, It would be easy for you to find a good guy...if you're looking for one that is...
Sounds like you have been hurt a lot. Ever considered cloning yourself ( I mean making an opposite sex version of oneself? ) Would you then F yourself over? Seriously there are true lovers in the world but yet there are much more players . But one cannot give up hope. The worlds players are like weeds in a Filed mingled in with the world lovers who could be considered wheat. We must all grow together. Love hurts yet Love heals.
Proshka, What is missing in your posting on love is commitment, devotion, consideration, attention, and focus on the other. No ideas of agape love, self sacrifice, altruism, self-denial or self-control are raised. What you say many state as love, then go off with another is actually lust. Why didn't you say that was lust? I know many people who are married or partners for 15, 30, 45, 50 or 60 years. I challenge you to interview such people online. What do they have that you don't?
Love is not what you seem to think it is. I love you Angela. But I would never say to you that you are my soulmate or my ONLY love. I love everybody. I'm such a whore. lol
What's to say the guy's the one to cheat...? I'm also sceptical of love, but out here in Havasu the girls are the ones who cheat. I think you had a bad relationship at one point in your life and you cant let it go. I have nothing against you for it. I just see a bias. Anyway peace and love. ^.^
i really like dis subject ...im got thru that rite now gyal ....i think myspace phone and other thing is what is helpen love disappear ...i know cause im going thru all of that rite now wit my bf but im not only going to play oit on the computer its also them ...
i believe theres more lust and sex nowadays back then it was more true love and more family involved. i was the victim of a lustful attitude from my own parents so i know what i mean. just better to be single until you actually think youve found "the one" but i doubt youll find that in your teens
Three things make the world go round, SEX, DRUGS and MONEY.... These are the three things that a TRULY loved by everyone..... The rest is just fuckin LUST!!!!!!!!
Hmm...perhaps you're a bit strong with this but I agree with you mostly. For myself...love is when you enjoy spending time with a guy ( or girl ) and waking up beside them in the middle of the night. "Love"....don't need a label, the word may or may not mean anything. "Love" may be temporary...but it can still be love. The answer? LUST...i like that much better myself! Lust requires no work...and also involve love so it's cool with me. Love it! :)
in my opinion, people don't want to be seen as monstrous or promiscuous, so they use ''love'' as a crafty way of getting away with breezy relationships. For example, I hate Romeo and Juliet, and it's actually very confusing to me how people can call it the greatest love story ever told. Romeo sees Juliet, and because of her beauty, alledgedly falls in ''love'' with her. More like falls in ''lust''. I agree, love is used to loosely and its innocent name has been tainted by society.
nowadays the only "love" is for money and merchandise.. mostly all of my relationships in the past were lust based... As a male I find it EXTREMELY difficult to find a reliable trustworthy female companion.. Its time for a Zeitgeist based, controlled world, so that people can focus more on love and nature, and less on money, merchandise, brand clothing, and such. In this world only the alphas survive... In a greed, monetary-based system love does not exist. my dog never fucked me over ILUVHER
I dont know if im in love with this girl i like or just obsessed with wanting to fall in love and live happily ever after with her cause i like her hhmmmm hopefully its not lust, im lost
I think LOVE has to do with communication and falling in LOVE with the other person not the body.
Thats REAL love. Falling in love because of the way someone is...not because of their good looks.
This superficial world that the media is creating as we speak is part of this phenomenon. We seek lust and are attracted by lust for the other person. Love is something that few people get to know and understand.
There are many levels of love basically due the fact we are complex feeling individuals.
I think when you make a commitment to yourself to love is when it becomes love and not lust/attraction. Love grows to different levels based on what we are exposed to. Also, I think love is to understand faults and learn to cherish qualities. But of course there is limit to how much to endure for love sake and NO one should tolerate abuse for love.
There are many levels of love basically due the fact we are complex feeling individuals.
I think when you make a commitment to yourself to love is when it becomes love and not lust/attraction. Love grows to different levels based on what we are exposed to. Also, I think love is to understand faults and learn to cherish qualities. But of course there is limit to how much to endure for love sake and NO one should tolerate abuse for love.
No problem, a little science go's along way. I also like to say that I'm vary respectful to women, I would never cheat on anyone, I know what that was like. I also would never presure a women to do anything shes not ready to do yet, like if somones not ready to go all the way I respect that! granted i'm 26 and still a virgin, not by choice or religious reasons, I jus have no luck with women. I always meet women who are taken already.
Hi Proshka, It's so easy to say those three little words "I LOVE YOU" but to prove love is divine. Actions speak louder than words. Love + Lust are the opposities !!
well man is a sexual being, its a normal biological part of are existance. With out sexual replication there would be no genetic variation, if we reproduced asexualy we woud all be copies of are selves. There is sexual selection, even in are own species, lust just happens to be a natural reaction to a persons looks before an enitial spark of a relationship. I find you really atractive, but if you dont find me attractive eather because i'm short, not strong, ect. Thats sexual selection, I'm not
but friendship is dominant so lust does not get out of hand. The friendship allows the individuals to ease their lust but not just physically but also through mutual discussion. This is why love only exist when friendship is dominant between partners.
Hey Proshka, I'd LOVE to discuss this a little deeper, more personal and more intimate with you, over some LUST if you like..? Tantalizing Woman! Lets have tantric sex...and see how much we love each other then...and how long it lasts...the simultaneous orgasm that is...oh and the love involved with that...
I LOVE my girlfriend, her unique point of view of the world feeds my sould more than anything on Earth! That's why I honour her with my loyalty and sincerity (along with so many other things only she knows hehe)!!
My biggest thing is not get jaded to love because when i find myself more and more through failed relationships i will be able to see the woman of my dreams and when im able to pick her out ill be at the state of being the man of her "dreams" so to say. But you really can't choose a perfect mate until you are the perfect mate. sometimes seems the world is just becoming a cavity instead of a growth, but i think shit can turn around. Just find you. and they will appear
So first off im a Belizean born in san ignacio lived in the jungle and in town but i could never understand the joe grind mentality and thought that it was inherent only to my culture till i came to u.s. realized that this same mentality exists. And this upsets me because i do believe in love and i do not cheat but i have been cheated on. I think people who cheat are scared and do not trust themselves and the choices they have made about their mate or what there looking for.
Great post and one many people will identify with.
Is it love or Lust? . it depends on the state of awarenes/ development of those involved.
One's love for someone can out grow their need for that person...and so your desire becomes that you both move on and grow independent from each other and cherish the time you spent together as a positive learning experience?
Great post and one many people will identify with.
Is it love or Lust? . it depends on the state of awarenes/ development of those involved.
One's love for someone can out grow their need for that person...and so your desire becomes that you both move on and grow independent from each other and cherish the time you spent together as a positive learning experience?
Remarkable well spoken. Also, you are so natural before a camera. I think that you might have a future in film. I really do. Who would ever cheat on you?
love exists, love doesn't exist, love is great, love is bullshit, what the fuck should a person ,like me understand, i think that love is when you want to give love and not just receive love, to want the other person to be happy and to be happy when the are happy , it's all about giving, but if you talk abouit the average bitch, no wonder it really doesn't exist
There are people in the world who can actually love one and only one person. It does seem to take a bit of moral strength. Men seem to have the least such strength, because they get led around by their packages. From an evolutionary standpoint, it is probably more important that wom,en be able to remain committed, because they are stuck with the task of teaching their children to be fully human. You are right about the technology . There are a lot of men lusting after you over these videos.
ohhh no no no, im purely talking about a partner here - this piece is about our lovers/husbands/wives/boyfriends/boyfriends.. u know just partners... Family is a whole different story and not inclusive in this blog
People have laid down there lives in the name of LOVE. There for I believe when you put yourself aside, and do for someone else over yourself, that is love. We are capable but we need to condition our hearts to do so. Selflessness is the path to love.
but of course i need lust and love, do you need me too
neilpaladigma 5 months ago
Make it, and exert almighty power force for my wish fulfillment and the greed sufficiency of own, and do it; it is; let do it.
自身の願望実現と欲望充足の為に全知全能全知全能力を尽くし振り絞ってするなるさせる。
wizardmori 5 months ago
LOL-Nevermind all that...see I'll never be a poet cause I think too damn much! Over-analyze I'm sayin.
Abobojo 6 months ago
That last question you asked, is it love or all just lust....ain't no one can answer that question for anyone else...but ourselves. It's what my Grandma would have called 'a question for the mirror."
Abobojo 6 months ago
Most guys use the L word to get in your pants, sure enough. They give guys like me a bad name. Yet, they've broken me love. In the end lust is all there is if I may be so synical.
RemingtonNevada 7 months ago
Omg your form Belize!!!
luis30531 7 months ago
I agree wid ya sista -3 If someone says they love you but turn around and treat you like crap..thats NOT love..
AnnaBRProductions101 8 months ago
Feminist
nightjj 8 months ago
male=construction lover=destruction making ::::::::::::::::(
lady=love, men can't say love :(
us males just let ladies rule over us, enough bloodshed yeah?
ukgreaterlondon 8 months ago
Do some porn already, youre no good for anything else
RandyPitchford 9 months ago
i sooo agree with this shit.but it kinda seems to me that some asshole did ya wrong..u know, some of ur poetry ive heard on here would go good in a song.i used to write alot too untill i picked up a guitar..now im not that good but im good enough for me..sometimes..lol..
walkersdad25 9 months ago
You have good ideas, but you just do not know how to communicate as an educated person. There is some work to be done wit your language, there are so many bad words that do not justify the importance of love that you are trying to communicate. I think you would get more engagement form people if you just talk more properly to the audience. Anyway you have a good idea of what love is but it needs to be improve.
depradal0531 10 months ago
You have good ideas, but you just do not know how to communicate as an educated person. There is some work to be done wit your language, there are so many bad words that do not justify the importance of love that you are trying to communicate. I think you would get more engagement form people if you just talk more properly to the audience. Anyway you have a good idea of what love is but it needs to be improve.
depradal0531 10 months ago
You have good ideas, but you just do not know how to communicate as an educated person. There is some work to be done wit your language, there are so many bad words that do not justify the importance of love that you are trying to communicate. I think you would get more engagement form people if you just talk more properly to the audience. Anyway you have a good idea of what love is but it needs to be improve.
depradal0531 10 months ago
You have good ideas, but you just do not know how to communicate as an educated person. There is some work to be done wit your language, there are so many bad words that do not justify the importance of love that you are trying to communicate. I think you would get more engagement form people if you just talk more properly to the audience. Anyway you have a good idea of what love is but it needs to be improve.
depradal0531 10 months ago
When its all said and done a man will always be a man. we cant blame it on technology... without technology we wont be able to solve any problems at all. it cant get worst than how it is. the BIBLE says every men must Eat, Drink and Enjoy himself until eternity.
solenarniandrews15 10 months ago
Hi Proshka,
I enjoyed your post and you make very good sense thank you for compiling it and putting the effort to spread good common sense out there with a deep sense of values on how constructive or damaging just words can be. You hit spot on in regards to appearance vs reality. In my perspective, if you cannot love your wife after saying I "love" you to her, the other woman, you say that to, should know exactly how low you genuine a person you are,but the sad thing is, most women fall for it!
stingsaintly 11 months ago
@stingsaintly why thank you doll, glad you enjoyed, XO
Proshka 10 months ago
love this video :) true love is the right combination of friendship, trust, loyalty and respect..:)
MegaPreciousLife 11 months ago
LOVE or SEX or LUST or PROSHKA
Broatch6 11 months ago
@Broatch6 Woahhhhh, thanks, LOVE IT
Proshka 10 months ago
Finally a voice of reason. I'm sure there is more of this real Love out there, but unfortunately, no one talks about it, and more people fall into Lust.
sevychan 1 year ago
I "LOVED" this video, but yeah I agreed with everything you said !
serinude 1 year ago
@serinude much appreciated friend
Proshka 10 months ago
LOVE LOVE or SEX or LUST
Broatch6 1 year ago
Search on Youtube -
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CHRISTinJAPAN3000 1 year ago
ALWAYS "him" doing the cheating, huh?
AvirtualSwitzerland 1 year ago
@sociopathiclove --> MISUNDERSTOOD.. haha love it
Proshka 1 year ago
@Proshka Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder...!!!!
solenarniandrews15 10 months ago
@mrepic84 oh baby arent you sweet.... xoxo TAHNKS *blushing*
Proshka 1 year ago
great wisdom and honesty -- in words everyone understands!
AdventureM 1 year ago
@AdventureM thanks much doll...
Proshka 1 year ago
AMEN !!!! ur right !! !NOW FIND THAT WOWEN FOR ME AND ILL STICK WITH HER FOREVER :-)
acemustang000 1 year ago
guys get cheated on too! D:
raginstudios 1 year ago
not'....LOVE...more like LUST!!......that dah...what the happen....@ this time!!......LOVE is sooooo overated!!!.........80%..fuckin' Divorce rate!!..."Beaver cleaver'....days..or generation..that was LOVE!!..."...Andy Griffith..@ that time too!!
cherokee326 1 year ago
just because some asshole cheated on you that doesn't mean love does't exist welcome to the real world confused babe
viverav 1 year ago
women do all that too
7semprfied7pen7 1 year ago
women do all that sh!t too
7semprfied7pen7 1 year ago
I think that one of if not the main problem is that many people who think they are in love, really don't know the actual definition. Their thoughts on love are skewed.
tigerofvirgo9 1 year ago
I had an internet affair once. I felt kinda silly though because it turned out to be a spamming porn bot from a yahoo chat room. Technology does ruin things!
mahidude 1 year ago
wow...totally agree
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MrThegreathawk 1 year ago
i feel ya. life taught me that love is more action than a word. u can say "i love u" to someone, but it means nothing without honesty and loyal actions. P.L.& U
mo8847 1 year ago
Great vidie!!
Markito425 1 year ago
Baby, you preaching the truth.
extendedbeautygal1 1 year ago
Well obviously if a guy cheats on you hes not in love with you.. that answers your own question. And without love in this world nobody would give a flying fuck about you or anybody else.. so yes love is very important in this world.. Obviously you are stating the immature relationships.. I figured you would be passed that since you are what like 30?
MstrMnd420 1 year ago
who cares sis
karenapuhi 1 year ago
The world has gotten a bit more corrupt hasnt it?
And yes the would love is thrown around like s*it
People rape the world love and abuse it to their ends
I have seen it wherever i go in both enemies and friends
Technology has made it easier to hurt and destroy
But in reality its our own darkness that has always been there
Many have always treated love as a tool and a toy
But some, a select few, they find true love, I have to say that to be fair
rewop777@msn.com
rewop777 1 year ago
The world has gotten a bit more corrupt hasnt it?
And yes the would love is thrown around like s*it
People rape the world love and abuse it to their ends
I have seen it wherever i go in both enemies and friends
Technolodgy has made it easier to hurt and destroy
But in reality its our own darkness that has always been there
Many have always treated love as a tool and a toy
But some, a select few, they find true love, I have to say that to be fair
rewop777@msn.com
rewop777 1 year ago
if he comes back to you for you then how is it not love...go look in nature and let me know the % of animals that have sex with the same partner for the rest of their lives.....you combined every single person who says the word love and said all those males fuck women or "destroy" relationships....what if society has impressed this idea into your brain that you have to LOVE only ONE person, uhhh no sex does not mean love, LOVE is LOVE not sex.....figure it out
misnomed 1 year ago
I feel it starts with Lust which can lead to Love but a lot of the times it does not.
billyinc1 1 year ago
Hear what you're saying and glad to know that love's not dead!
dashpoet 1 year ago
Yess ur so rite :)
tiffany2099609 1 year ago
★★★★★
SEXePAGAN 1 year ago
A world obsessed with sexual pervertion!!
bobisnohere1 1 year ago
let's chill for the time being
FunLovingCriminals77 1 year ago
you sound angry
getjustice 1 year ago
hi there
getjustice 1 year ago
Lovers love is temporary, friends love is forever.
This is from a philosopher, can't remember his name... think its aristotel
thrashednube 1 year ago
Lovers love is temporary, friends love is forever.
This is from a philosopher, can't remember his name... think its aristotel
thrashednube 1 year ago
Lovers love is temporary, friends love is forever.
This is from a philosopher, can't remember his name... think its aristotel
thrashednube 1 year ago
Lovers love is temporary, friends love is forever.
This is from a philosopher, can't remember his name... think its aristotel
thrashednube 1 year ago
i come back to your vids sometimes when i feel confused about love and men and stuff like that cause u speak as it is, as you feel...but today :) my question is, is it love, need for affection, egoistic expression of love for the need of feeling and receiving affection, besides of course lust and sex :)? do we lie to ourselves without even knowing it until we break up and find someone else to make us feel better, after the break up...just like that...gone all we thought we felt?
glamourizeu1 1 year ago
Danm Girl, What happen in your past let it go, ur beautiful but u sound bitter, well that waht i get from urs vids, cmon vlog about something chill, something fun life is not always drama
Axxex 1 year ago
To be fair, chicks never make a move until they got their next man lined up.
ShiekUrBooty 1 year ago
Many people are incapable of even grasping the kind of love you mean let alone being capable of loving like that. They haven't been brought up like that and haven't grown themselves to be able to truly love. I would't regard it foolish to demand such dedication, but from some(read: many) people one can't even expect it.
sebastianmaki 1 year ago
Many people are incapable of even grasping the kind of love you mean let alone being capable of loving like that. They haven't been brought up like that and haven't grown themselves to be able to truly love. I would't regard it foolish to demand such dedication, but from some(read: many) people one can't even expect it.
sebastianmaki 1 year ago
love is over rated these days big time!
spellgrounds 1 year ago
I dont get it either? love is over rated ! these days
hope ya find a rock'n party soon
peace*
spellgrounds 1 year ago
Enough lust can get the shyest ball rolling. Love needs freindship, loyalty, trust and empathy to survive any lulls. It waxes and wanes like the moon and needs a lot of coaxing for the magic moments. It is its own god.
Jeorney 1 year ago
i totally agree haha i like your videos, you tell it how it is, freakin LOVE it haha
BeauIdealPoetry89 1 year ago
I think it's possible to love someone and cheat. It's not cool, b/c I believe in the caring type. However, I also agree that ppl use that word casually for their own motives.
bwcarroll53 1 year ago
@bohemenmann
I too would like to know what you mean.
@Proshka
For a moment there I thought I loved you. Then you reminded me what an ambiguous word 'love' is, and I thought about how I break it down to understand it. I felt a BELIEF in you. I felt no deception or lies. I TRUST you. Something tells me you are consistant in your ways. I RESPECT your perspective on this matter and found no reason to argue against it. I DESIRE to be around your kind. Straighttalking, confident & articulate.
zenzombie72 1 year ago
I'm thinking about tits rite now
jamesarongray 1 year ago
the world is a strange place''
bye the way'' it's lust'' just you'' just 4 the time
just in the space
it's a race to keep pace.
peace
therealfrenchlicker
OrangeCountyMotorWor 2 years ago
Its not whats "wrong with the world" today, its been going on for centuries. Its just religion and public issues covering it all up.
And "people are in love for a moment"... why? Because all the crap idealizing love on TV these days is making up too much criteria for the next perfect couple. Its making things WAY too complicated while its just so simple. You love someone and that's it.
There are very few real loving people because sexual attraction is often misinterpreted for love. Too bad
lepape2 2 years ago
5 stars for a brilliant lady!
nikitejay 2 years ago
Love and Lust are completely seperate things.
The problems come in when we have false expectations that sex and love must go together.
We have sex and we want love, so we imagine love is there when it is not. Then we are at a disadvantage and get abused.
For men dealing with women there is the added issue of the woman using lust and love to get money or a baby.
The victim is the one who isn't aware or has become deluded in some way and that is almost always the MAN.
MrXSpeaks 2 years ago
Well said lady! people who say "love at first sight" is love. its not thats lust. love is commitment in my eyes!
Sharkskillyou 2 years ago
Come on? 1920s? They didn't have as many baths back then either.
ShiekUrBooty 2 years ago
12,000? Why turn your hobby into a job? I'll bet that's what Tiger is thinking right about now...and I'm not talking about womens, but golf.
ShiekUrBooty 2 years ago
My bf would never cheat on me, because I'd kill him if he did. :P
godsforgiveness1 2 years ago
Proshka, you are, perhaps unknowingly, touching on some very profound things. You stated "pretty soon, love will cease to exist." I don't know where you are in your spiritual journey, but the bible states that "God is Love" (1 John 4:8) It also tells you what love is, which can be found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. You are absolutely correct with your observation that love is used to loosely nowadays, when we look at what love really is you will understand the indictment of man. (1 Corinthians 13)
ConnorMarc 2 years ago
Proshka, you are, perhaps unknowingly, touching on some very profound things. You stated "pretty soon, love will cease to exist." I don't know where you are in your spiritual journey, but the bible states that "God is Love" (1 John 4:8) It also tells you what love is, which can be found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. You are absolutely correct with your observation that love is used to loosely nowadays, when we look at what love really is you will understand the indictment of man. (1 Corinthians 13)
ConnorMarc 2 years ago
I like the comment near the end. You find another to forget about the one you love and then end up falling in love with them and needing someone else to forget about them.. Thats classic.
No1RicanBeauty 2 years ago
I know two people who are still together - are really in love - don't cheat : My parents.
zarkoff45 2 years ago
my parents have been together for 36 years and counting.... im not speaking about ALL relationships, but A LOT...... its life!
Proshka 2 years ago
Not to the end of your video yet -- yes there is an emotion I feel that I call love, but it doesn't always last and it is never unconditional. A guy might lie to his wife for various reasons - Two are:
1) he lied about love from the start and only uses the word "love" to manipulate. 2) the romantic passion has faded, he can only feel it with someone new, and he doesn't want to admit it or lose what is good in his marriage.
Did you ever lie to your parents? Did you not love them?
zarkoff45 2 years ago
Everything is love, even lies.
bohemenmann 2 years ago
@bohemenmann very interesting statement! Why do you think everything is love, even lies?
09266432657 2 years ago
I am enjoying your videos, you show passion through your work.. If you had everything in the world; and I could have anything from you; I wouldn't take your money, I wouldn't take your sex, I would honestly take your spirit. Picture that =) Someone who wants your spirit.
bbrain14 2 years ago
Your opinion is based on the mainstream version of monogomous love that is shoved down our throats since we're kids. People use 'love' as a tool to manipulate each other. But love is a DIVINE feeling that is meant to be shared. What ruins it is our jealous human ego's that have a need to 'control' things and own people. Love is universal and is way too big for just one person in my opinion. How can you put conditions on love and then call it unconditional? Look up Hedonism, Tantra, & Poly.
apolloxtcy 2 years ago
I think the issues lies on what we were told love is. The mainstream version of 'love' is just an emotion people use to manipulate each other. We're taught 'Cindrella' and this monogomous-only concept of love. Love is a DIVINE emotion that is meant to be shared. What prevents us from experiencing the true essence of it is human ego, jealousy, and a false need to 'control' someone else. How can you put conditions on love, and then call it unconditional? " Look up Hedonism, Tantra, & Poly :)
apolloxtcy 2 years ago
hey pretty cool best 5 mins of my time cheers well said.
matttildesley 2 years ago
i had fun, thanks party goirl.
lunchHead 2 years ago
and i would fuck with all your shit, if it wasn't for that dildo...like hello! can you explain that? like is that a lesbian thing? I don't know about you but the battery world we live in, is really a flash in the pan, fast as you can say, orgasm?
lunchHead 2 years ago
and when you fuck someone over they fuck someone over and the cycle. love or lust? ya, your being fucked over. or your fucking them over. what the fuck?
lunchHead 2 years ago
...and if it is love, then speak not of what offends thee, as love will prevail. If your hurt, then speak your sorrows, as we all have those. Few, so few, have lived with no loses and those who have never felt what life has to loose like you and I. They value not love, but power....what say you?
lunchHead 2 years ago
by the way....get over it.
lunchHead 2 years ago
lunchHead 2 years ago
lunchHead 2 years ago
Love is rare and by that very rare. But I don't think easy-available communication tools like the internet is the reason for it just the means. The reason is our out of control consumer society, ''you don't like this try another one! (sometimes with a money-back guarantee lol)''. People are no longer human-beings just ressources at work, why should it be different in couples? This western style of living is winning and love and morality are in a dark place right now. Have fun people!..idiots lol
Strome88 2 years ago
it depends, if you're in love with that person it's love plus lust...but you don't feel anything about that person, it's just lust
sleeperthemadripper 2 years ago
0:00 to 155
Doesn't just happen with people in relationships, it also happens in families as well.
2:00 to 3:15
People have ALWAYS been cheating, way before technology got injected with 'cyber spinach' and beefed up.
I feel that love is a cennection you find or have with someone whether it be big or small and no matter what happens in the future, the connection still stays with you even if you don't won't it to.
sychowalker 2 years ago
It's Just Lust!
likkasto 2 years ago
Do you have to differentiate?
I mean, I love to masturbate.
But the opportunity to procreate
surpasses the need to ejaculate.
wizardeal 2 years ago
I'm glad that love isn't typically forever when it comes to dating/relationships because I look back at some of the gals I dated when I was in my teens, twenties, thirties, and they and I are not the same persons we were back then.
Shit changes and that was then and this is now. With that said, I have been married since mid 1992 and it's been a great relationship with a lot of work, etc.
ShiekUrBooty 2 years ago
Would your boyfriend have to compete with the love you have for your subs? I think people grow in and out of love but they don't always know how to deal with that. Really I don't know either, it's a lottery world and some win but to be fair most people don't seem to make enough effort. There's no less love today than there ever was, just more people around to fuck it up.
lunchHead 2 years ago
You prolly think I'm lame since I just said I 'luv ya' on your profile comments,hahah!
mindfulmusic78 2 years ago
I LOve YOU LOL ! XXX
TheKounterkulture 2 years ago
thanks ;)
Proshka 2 years ago
You sound jaded. I never cheat on a girlfriend (when I have one) and when we are together it's us against the world. We help each other out and work as a team. Best of friends. Any barbie doll can try to seduce me and I won't break.
Maybe your picker is broken and you are choosing the wrong guys and friends? In America where we live their is a high divorce rate but it is not like that everyone. Your good lookin, It would be easy for you to find a good guy...if you're looking for one that is...
TheFutureLooksGrimm 2 years ago
Sounds like you have been hurt a lot. Ever considered cloning yourself ( I mean making an opposite sex version of oneself? ) Would you then F yourself over? Seriously there are true lovers in the world but yet there are much more players . But one cannot give up hope. The worlds players are like weeds in a Filed mingled in with the world lovers who could be considered wheat. We must all grow together. Love hurts yet Love heals.
REALGREYBLUE 2 years ago
Its true shyts sooo fucked up its like damn what is a REAL bitch like us to do ?
caremel4eva 2 years ago
I'm so in Loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. I like the way you said that. How da wataa gal.
coconutpunny 2 years ago
يع عيب
mtatam99 2 years ago
Proshka, you speaks some real shit, 100% thruth!
TheGirlKill 2 years ago
Damn Straight, some people love me for it and other hate it - most people cant handle the TRUTH, bless up!!!
Proshka 2 years ago
Proshka, What is missing in your posting on love is commitment, devotion, consideration, attention, and focus on the other. No ideas of agape love, self sacrifice, altruism, self-denial or self-control are raised. What you say many state as love, then go off with another is actually lust. Why didn't you say that was lust? I know many people who are married or partners for 15, 30, 45, 50 or 60 years. I challenge you to interview such people online. What do they have that you don't?
focus30073 2 years ago 2
Love is not what you seem to think it is. I love you Angela. But I would never say to you that you are my soulmate or my ONLY love. I love everybody. I'm such a whore. lol
wizardeal 2 years ago
What's to say the guy's the one to cheat...? I'm also sceptical of love, but out here in Havasu the girls are the ones who cheat. I think you had a bad relationship at one point in your life and you cant let it go. I have nothing against you for it. I just see a bias. Anyway peace and love. ^.^
AfroSamurai92 2 years ago
i really like dis subject ...im got thru that rite now gyal ....i think myspace phone and other thing is what is helpen love disappear ...i know cause im going thru all of that rite now wit my bf but im not only going to play oit on the computer its also them ...
mishonta30 2 years ago
Love is the best thing in this world. I think.
calvin1pn 2 years ago
i believe theres more lust and sex nowadays back then it was more true love and more family involved. i was the victim of a lustful attitude from my own parents so i know what i mean. just better to be single until you actually think youve found "the one" but i doubt youll find that in your teens
alexc475 2 years ago
Three things make the world go round, SEX, DRUGS and MONEY.... These are the three things that a TRULY loved by everyone..... The rest is just fuckin LUST!!!!!!!!
SunTanSuperStudS1ice 2 years ago
I've had women cheat on me who say they love me... it's not just men that do it... I certainly dont!
patellaman 2 years ago
Hmm...perhaps you're a bit strong with this but I agree with you mostly. For myself...love is when you enjoy spending time with a guy ( or girl ) and waking up beside them in the middle of the night. "Love"....don't need a label, the word may or may not mean anything. "Love" may be temporary...but it can still be love. The answer? LUST...i like that much better myself! Lust requires no work...and also involve love so it's cool with me. Love it! :)
jdfox1 2 years ago
good question. when you say 'ilove you now, then love someone else later' is so true in many cases
spunkkymunkky 2 years ago
i agree with you with the word love is being abused.
mind you as a guy i fall in love a 1000000000000000000 times a day ...oh wait i guess it is lust....dam
klasco1991 2 years ago
she is so fucking right.
6varo9 2 years ago 3
Love this! So true! So real! You're so raw! Go' head Mama! ;o]
p8anut 2 years ago 7
in my opinion, people don't want to be seen as monstrous or promiscuous, so they use ''love'' as a crafty way of getting away with breezy relationships. For example, I hate Romeo and Juliet, and it's actually very confusing to me how people can call it the greatest love story ever told. Romeo sees Juliet, and because of her beauty, alledgedly falls in ''love'' with her. More like falls in ''lust''. I agree, love is used to loosely and its innocent name has been tainted by society.
Defianna 2 years ago
nowadays the only "love" is for money and merchandise.. mostly all of my relationships in the past were lust based... As a male I find it EXTREMELY difficult to find a reliable trustworthy female companion.. Its time for a Zeitgeist based, controlled world, so that people can focus more on love and nature, and less on money, merchandise, brand clothing, and such. In this world only the alphas survive... In a greed, monetary-based system love does not exist. my dog never fucked me over ILUVHER
stephenAZ941 2 years ago
lots of guys are horny dirtbags and once they score they move on without a care. predatory dickie boys!
acerb45666555 2 years ago
I dont know if im in love with this girl i like or just obsessed with wanting to fall in love and live happily ever after with her cause i like her hhmmmm hopefully its not lust, im lost
A2theB2theC2theD 2 years ago
I think LOVE has to do with communication and falling in LOVE with the other person not the body.
Thats REAL love. Falling in love because of the way someone is...not because of their good looks.
This superficial world that the media is creating as we speak is part of this phenomenon. We seek lust and are attracted by lust for the other person. Love is something that few people get to know and understand.
Bak3dB3an 2 years ago
There are many levels of love basically due the fact we are complex feeling individuals.
I think when you make a commitment to yourself to love is when it becomes love and not lust/attraction. Love grows to different levels based on what we are exposed to. Also, I think love is to understand faults and learn to cherish qualities. But of course there is limit to how much to endure for love sake and NO one should tolerate abuse for love.
MiNNiBLacK 2 years ago
There are many levels of love basically due the fact we are complex feeling individuals.
I think when you make a commitment to yourself to love is when it becomes love and not lust/attraction. Love grows to different levels based on what we are exposed to. Also, I think love is to understand faults and learn to cherish qualities. But of course there is limit to how much to endure for love sake and NO one should tolerate abuse for love.
MiNNiBLacK 2 years ago
No problem, a little science go's along way. I also like to say that I'm vary respectful to women, I would never cheat on anyone, I know what that was like. I also would never presure a women to do anything shes not ready to do yet, like if somones not ready to go all the way I respect that! granted i'm 26 and still a virgin, not by choice or religious reasons, I jus have no luck with women. I always meet women who are taken already.
pbrskater26 2 years ago
Hi Proshka, It's so easy to say those three little words "I LOVE YOU" but to prove love is divine. Actions speak louder than words. Love + Lust are the opposities !!
TinaM1177 2 years ago
thank you so much for your feedback
bless up
Proshka :)
Proshka 2 years ago
well man is a sexual being, its a normal biological part of are existance. With out sexual replication there would be no genetic variation, if we reproduced asexualy we woud all be copies of are selves. There is sexual selection, even in are own species, lust just happens to be a natural reaction to a persons looks before an enitial spark of a relationship. I find you really atractive, but if you dont find me attractive eather because i'm short, not strong, ect. Thats sexual selection, I'm not
pbrskater26 2 years ago
With out sexual replication there would be no genetic variation... so true no
fornication
procreation
no life....
thanks pbrskater
Proshka 2 years ago
Love no lust = You have a great couple
tubers93 2 years ago
ahhh thanks tubers93
Proshka 2 years ago
1:31 so true
misssiera311 2 years ago
thanks mucho
Proshka 2 years ago
want to have sex with me PLEASE
its lust
its love
but mostly its just sex!!! :D
shotgunwedding199 2 years ago
lol
Proshka 2 years ago
love = friendship + lust
but friendship is dominant so lust does not get out of hand. The friendship allows the individuals to ease their lust but not just physically but also through mutual discussion. This is why love only exist when friendship is dominant between partners.
speedy1088 2 years ago
wonderful analogy...
Proshka 2 years ago
Wow the topic of the century: LOVE or LUST
Hey Proshka, I'd LOVE to discuss this a little deeper, more personal and more intimate with you, over some LUST if you like..? Tantalizing Woman! Lets have tantric sex...and see how much we love each other then...and how long it lasts...the simultaneous orgasm that is...oh and the love involved with that...
Rudezeye 2 years ago
haha... i see you have been watching my other videos too
thanks ;-)
Proshka 2 years ago
I LOVE my girlfriend, her unique point of view of the world feeds my sould more than anything on Earth! That's why I honour her with my loyalty and sincerity (along with so many other things only she knows hehe)!!
vitor1271 2 years ago
as far as im concerned, love doesn't exist, people mistake love for lust all the time, they are just chemical reactions in the brain. That is all.
elastic42 3 years ago
lust lust rules
ahhhhhhhhh
KnighthawksVictory 3 years ago
lol
Proshka 3 years ago
My biggest thing is not get jaded to love because when i find myself more and more through failed relationships i will be able to see the woman of my dreams and when im able to pick her out ill be at the state of being the man of her "dreams" so to say. But you really can't choose a perfect mate until you are the perfect mate. sometimes seems the world is just becoming a cavity instead of a growth, but i think shit can turn around. Just find you. and they will appear
bennyb4 3 years ago
So first off im a Belizean born in san ignacio lived in the jungle and in town but i could never understand the joe grind mentality and thought that it was inherent only to my culture till i came to u.s. realized that this same mentality exists. And this upsets me because i do believe in love and i do not cheat but i have been cheated on. I think people who cheat are scared and do not trust themselves and the choices they have made about their mate or what there looking for.
bennyb4 3 years ago
Great comment
thanks
big up cayo!!!
Proshka 3 years ago
Great post and one many people will identify with.
Is it love or Lust? . it depends on the state of awarenes/ development of those involved.
One's love for someone can out grow their need for that person...and so your desire becomes that you both move on and grow independent from each other and cherish the time you spent together as a positive learning experience?
then again
One would like to give one "one"
oh i dont know..HAPPY NEW YEAR
I just subscribed.
InternetAndDigital 3 years ago
Great post and one many people will identify with.
Is it love or Lust? . it depends on the state of awarenes/ development of those involved.
One's love for someone can out grow their need for that person...and so your desire becomes that you both move on and grow independent from each other and cherish the time you spent together as a positive learning experience?
...then again
One would like to give one "one"
..oh.. i dont know..HAPPY NEW YEAR
..I just subscribed.
InternetAndDigital 3 years ago
thanks so much
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU TOO..
for some reason your comment jsut came into my video but i see that it was posted a month
ago, hmmm, strange... But thanks for the feedback and the sub
Bless Up
AG
Proshka 3 years ago
Remarkable well spoken. Also, you are so natural before a camera. I think that you might have a future in film. I really do. Who would ever cheat on you?
peterswoorld 3 years ago
thank for the compliments.. =)
Proshka 3 years ago
love exists, love doesn't exist, love is great, love is bullshit, what the fuck should a person ,like me understand, i think that love is when you want to give love and not just receive love, to want the other person to be happy and to be happy when the are happy , it's all about giving, but if you talk abouit the average bitch, no wonder it really doesn't exist
ancabttb 3 years ago
thank for your comment
glad i could ignite such a comment
Bless
Proshka 3 years ago
There are people in the world who can actually love one and only one person. It does seem to take a bit of moral strength. Men seem to have the least such strength, because they get led around by their packages. From an evolutionary standpoint, it is probably more important that wom,en be able to remain committed, because they are stuck with the task of teaching their children to be fully human. You are right about the technology . There are a lot of men lusting after you over these videos.
leftysergeant 3 years ago
hahahaha, your last sentence is hilarious.. LOL
but thanks, and u know that is not my intent, but as long as my messages are getting out there, then lust away :)
Proshka 3 years ago
Well, your looks do get some guys to pay attention to you who wouldn't otherwise. Use it. Some of them need to hear what you have to say.
leftysergeant 3 years ago
Nothing in this world is free. Everything has a price even love.
lascodude 3 years ago
completely concur
Proshka 3 years ago
the problem is that we live in a fallen world. We are imperfect and so is the world we live in.
Love is a complex feeling yet it is also pretty simple.
To love someone really means to do what is best for them even when it doesn't benefit you.
I noticed that you restricted you love to couples what about love in a family? Mom, dad, brother, sister, cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents?
What about friends? I know i love my friends
lascodude 3 years ago
ohhh no no no, im purely talking about a partner here - this piece is about our lovers/husbands/wives/boyfriends/boyfriends.. u know just partners... Family is a whole different story and not inclusive in this blog
thanks
Proshka 3 years ago
i came across this video by accident and i must admitt i agree. i think i'll go watch some more of you videos now :D
maxwellbr1 3 years ago
why thank you
Proshka 3 years ago
People have laid down there lives in the name of LOVE. There for I believe when you put yourself aside, and do for someone else over yourself, that is love. We are capable but we need to condition our hearts to do so. Selflessness is the path to love.
deimosianrocks 3 years ago
I have always thought that Love just isn't enough........ But GREAT comment
Proshka 3 years ago