Thank you for making this vid. I like to look up things that show how different AND the same we all are. The more difference I see The more I can understand and I don;t ever bother anyone in public about their condition but these vids help us understand. I had told my son early on that Everybody is different a\And same in one way or another and NO ONE should EVER be treated cruelly because of any differences. Glad you made this vid. So informative. Toodles~ :-D
People need to learn how to see others similarities, not differences. At the same time our differences make us special. You show strength that many people don't have.
This was a very good video. I was also born with a Radial club hand. My right arm is short, I have three fingers my thumd looks really skinny because when I was born my thumb had no bone in it so the doctors cut off my thumb and moved my index finger into the thumb position. I just wanted to thank you for creating a video.
This was a very good video. I was also born with a Radial club hand. My right arm is short, I have three fingers my thumd looks really skinny because when I was born my thumb had no bone in it so the doctors cut off my thumb and moved my index finger into the thumb position. I just wanted to thank you for creating a video.
I don't know why anyone would be mean to you about it. Idiots, maybe, I don't know. But you seem to have a fairly bright personality and you strike me as someone who in conversation could be very likeable. And that's all that ever matters, am I right?
Would you ever consider getting those robot arms I've seen? There is a paraplegic guy that can move it with just his mind. I'm asking because I've always wondered would someone with a bum leg rather have a robot one or the one he already had, things like that always made me wonder.
I do not have time to reply back to each person, I just want to say thank you for the positive fedback and such kind words/compliments! They make my day everytime I read them. GOD BLESS every one of you!
@XoThumblessWonderXo Hi, no problem if you can't reply. You are obviously a very bright, pretty and good hearted person - good on you for sharing and giving inspiration to others. A friend of my daughters has similar but only on one hand - I'd met her goodness knows how many times before I even noticed, and only because she was riding her bike only holding onto one handle bar. Like you appear, she was just such a lovely person that even when I noticed - it didn't make a difference.
@KelticWoman1 Thanks(: it takes some a while to realize mine as well, some are like you and know that it doesnt matter what a person looks like, however there are some that can be very cruel. Have a great night!!(: God Bless <3
We all have things in life we have to deal with that makes us different. I hope your arms don't interfere with functioning to much!! Keep up the good spirits. I have a debilitating case of Tourette's Syndrome. I always say "It could be worse" :)
@jaydy11 Amen to that, it could be worse and people DO have it worse! It is good that you realize that also, helps realize just how blessed you are (:
Not to be a crude teenager but you are a hell of a lot prettier than most girls I know. Please continue being brave and just having the courage to do this no matter how people comment on your video.
i'm soo sorry, i completely understand... alot of people make fun of people that have deformities but i definetely dont... its mean and i think you're very courageous to talk about your deformities... its not your fault that you are like that, you were born that way!!
Hello (Princess lol). I love your attitude. There are people in the world that having been born the same way would be always mad at the world, and from the short video I seen of you, you seem pretty well adjusted and I cant see any anger. Which means that u are prolly an awesome human being. Thanks for sharing with all here in youtube land.. Also do u ever have to, or have you ever tried using your feet to help you like someone missing their arms have too? Would it even help u to use ur feet?
Hi! I have something really simaler. I am missing have my fingers, well the top half, of my right hand. I have had this sense burth. I am 14. How it happed? In a pregnant women stomach , there are these things called 'rings' ,well something like that, and it got caught around my right hand, and it a deformed. The 'rings' (i am putting the '' because i dont know what they are called) got cought around my hand and cut the circulation off. letting it gorw around a little lower tan a average hand.
Your a very good looking natural girl and i have all respect for you, i bet you find things difficult but you look like the sort of person who is determined and that nothing can get in your way.
Yes, my little Heidi has all of her fingers stuck together as well. The Drs are perplexed by her condition. She is perfectly normal, except her hands! Her surgeries start this July. She also has to have many.
I am amazed at how she is already figuring out ways to hold toys and play! She is a little trooper like yourself!
We attend church every Sunday! Your prayers mean a lot to me. I will also pray for you!
@SarahM871 And she will keep amazing you and everyone around her:) she will find out ways to do everything on her own, if you let her. My mom always just let me do stuff on my own unless i absolutely needed help after trying, my daddy on the other hand was ALWAYS doing stuff for me lol **daddys girl**(:
If you have any questions or anything feel free to contact me! :)
Thank you for posting this video! My 4 month old daughter was born with complete complex syndactyly involving all her fingers. They expect her to lose some during surgery. I am confident that she will grow up to be a wonderful, indepenant young lady like yourself.
@SarahM871 Congrats on your baby girl! I was also born with the syndactyly and ALL of my fingers were like stuck together and it took multiple surgeries to get them seperated correctly (after trying forever to actually find someone to do it) but that was back in the way early 90's, Childrens Hospital would not operate on my hands because they didnt know how to go about doing so, my parents were actually advised to have my arms/hands amputated because they said I would never be able to use them.
@SarahM871 I will keep you and your little one in my prayers! I know from personal experience that if you have Faith then God will send miracles your way:) I myself am a medical mystery, doctors cannot wrap their minds around how I manage to do things. I wouldnt be able to do anything if it was not for God and his wonderful mercy:) I hope the best for you and your baby! God Bless!
@smexylexy321 Thank you, it took a lot of nerve to do these videos, no one likes pointing out their differences especially over the internet lol. Thats how I do the monkey bars too! :)
@XoThumblessWonderXo I have to say I can't even do the monkey bars AT ALL!!! heehee. so the fact that you can do them at all is just so amazing!!! you are just great!!!
This video is awesome! I'm a 21 year old guy with radial clubhand, and I've never really met anybody like myself. I find your ability to be so cool about your hands really inspiring. I wish I had the confidence to be so candid with people about my hand. Thanks for making this video, it really made me smile.
I have the same thing on my left arm. When I was 6, they moved my index finger where my thumb was. It's not really something I think about. I had a band for a while, and used to tinker around with bass, guitar, as well as keyboards. It's never stopped me from doing anything I want to do. It was also a good excuse for getting out of things I didn't want to do. Like sports.
I am usually very shy around people in person because of my hands. I have to make myself get out there and have fun, be myself, and not let my hands and their appearance rule my life :)
How in the world anyone say anything "mean" to you? you are angelic ! ....and cute and smart and BRAVE. Most woman take their whole lives to be as self-assured as you are ( that means you are scared to do it, but you do it anyway). Some "beautiful" woman are to scared to walk out their door and face the world w/o full make up on, you my dear glow with real beauty. I work in higher education and was a model as a teen, the world is in need of fire crackers like you!
I didn't notice anthing deformed about you till you let me see your arms. As far as your head goes, it's lovely to look at. Thanks for letting me see that side of you which shows a pretty and courageous young lady. All the best!!
Never ever let anyone tell u what you can and cannot do with a disability! I have learned that the hard way over the last few years in fighting cancer. I was a nursing instructor at a local college and professional singer when I got diagnosed with tongue cancer at age 26. This past summer they cut 80% of my tongue out and gave me a non- moving graft from my arm. I shouldn't be able to speak at all and it's been a rough recovery but I am relearning... I'm still a teacher just not a singer yet. M
I think you are very strong and I thank you for sharing. My feet are deformed and have other issues and I am wheel chair confined and just like you I always thank for what I have and for what I can do and always in the back of my head I know that there is always worst off. Again Thank you.
@haltamirano1 I ma sorry to hear that but I am glad to hear your thankful for what you do have. We have the right to be angry or make the best out of the hand we are dealt. You chose to make the best out of it, that will take you very far in life:)
@XoThumblessWonderXo Thank you for your kind words and thank you for your videos. People like you who are strong, self confident and who are at the same time disabled show people disabled or not that nothing is impossible to achieve if you really wanted bad enough. God Bless you! I hope you post more videos. :-)
I once had a music teacher in elementary who was born without any fingers on one of her hands. The other hand had all five, but short fingers. she did most everything with no problem. you both have the same attitude, you don't curse your hands, don't need pity, and just work with what you got and adapt well and that's really great. Also, in the comments you said you had webbed toes. Would you be willing to show us? pwwweeease :)
There is nothing at all wrong with being different. It is the society we live in that is the problem.
Society trains people from infancy to be shallow, and sets a false standard of accepted appearance and behavior which the majority strives to conform to.
The strongest people have no part of this, and accept themselves for who and what they are without regard for the irrelevent opinions of those too weak to be their own person despite their position in life or appearance.
i'm friends with someone whos older brother has a deformed had but he has all his finers and thum on it though but don't know what caused it. i my self have two webbed toes on both my feet :)
@XoThumblessWonderXo my parents asked when i was a baby when they found out i had webbed toes. but the doctor said at the time if i had them fixed then i'd have to have had to have them operated on more then once cos as i'd grow the scaring wouldn't of. i'm glad they are still joined cos i think they're cool
@sharky1105 dis regard everything they say and remember, they make fun of you only because they dont understand ur condition. ignorant people never go too far in the world :)
@XoThumblessWonderXo yeah you're right. the good thing is as well though is that i have a video of them uploaded to my channel and i have had a few comments from people saying either they have webbed toes too or they have a relation that has them :)
God doesn't exist. If God existed, He didn't make you with 6 fingers. One day, I dreamed being deformed ("nightmare"d). I had 4 fingers in each hand. I then had another nightmare, in another night, of having no hands. I couldn't do almost none of my hobbies! But you're a hero! YOU! CAN! DO! IT!!!!!!!!!
Hello my name is Hilda my son christopher who is know 5 was born with radial club hand and i am sooo happy to have met you even if it's not in person. I have always wanted to meet a teen with radial club hand etc.... your the best GOD BLESS YOU
i admire your optimism :) and LUV your your youtube name as well! Its waesome that you've completely embraced your "deformity"... People like u make the world a better place :)
I was born with webbed fingers on my left hand. Syndactyly. according to my research. I just want to say, Thank you for making this video. I love how you're so positive. Growing up was tough for me. Always hiding my hand. We should thank God for giving us everything else. I really don't feel ashamed anymore. You're awesome.
Those powerful forearms are built for ultimate handjobs. I'd like to see a video of that. You've got a cute face, I'm curious about the rest. Yes. Feel free to let me know if you decide to take my video suggestion. It would help me, y'know, understand what you go through and stuff. Thanks, love and peace.
@XoThumblessWonderXo Now that's just mean. Acting like sex is a dirty secret. You know your parents do it, right? No, you go ahead and see that therapist yourself, or keep making youtube videos since you just seem to want to be heard and don't really want to listen.
This is a very cool video. You are very strong. Thank you for sharing this.
I have clubbed thumbs, so have recently been researching various hand and foot deformities. Do you happen to have a web page, or somewhere where we could see some still shots? You have inspired me to further research this topic.
i just wanted to say that you are extremely courageous opening up about this world-wide. i respect you greatly for that. one question I must ask, as a guitarist myself (no webcam, cant put my songs on *epic sad*) and seeing the guitar in the background...do you play?
@XoThumblessWonderXo wow..I've only been playing 2.5 years. he must be damn epic at it! guitar hero, eh? you could kick my ass on that game..i majorly suck...oddly enough.
Whoever would be mean to you about this would be the biggest douche bag in the world. I admire u being open about it. I don't have anything like that yet I'm sooo self conscious, so my hat's off to you miss.
After she turned 1 yr. old we (I wanted to keep it on her, but societies cruel way made my decision) decided to have it removed. She now has a small "L" shape scar and its not even noticeable.
Charity, You are a really cool girl! You have a great attitude about yourself. Amazing future ahead of you!!!
My daughter Chellsie, who is now 2 years old was born with two thumbs on her right hand. Her mother and I never noticed then and neither did the nurses until hours after her birth. They came in and woke us up after we and Chellsie had a nap. They showed us and I was actually amazed. To me it was special, it means she is an angel, like you!
Omg Im so glad you did this. Youre such an inspiration. I have a deformity in both my hands where the pinkies are super short. I got badly bullied because of it and now I just hide them all the time. This videos really given me such a confidence boost. God bless.
To parents of club syndrome and to Charity: I am impressed by your video. I am a 32 year old woman born with club syndrome. Do you think there should be some sort of support group for people born like us? I would love to discuss more about this idea. Anyone else who thinks so, please send me an e-mail: burneye@ipfw.edu
You're a pretty girl. I find it inspirational that you've made lemonade out of the lemons life gave you (I'm physically normal in appearance; I just find your story interesting.)
You are so pretty.I was born with one hand just starting of fingers on the left hand so I know that sometimes things can get hard to do for me anyway.
Honestly I think that you are a beautiful young woman!! My son was born with ectrodactyly on his right hand and ulnar aplasia/ulnar club hand on the left. his right hand is similar to yours but his left only has only one digit. I guess the question I have for you what was it like growing up, and what do you suggest for me as a father to help him with this whole process? I know that i can exactly do everything for him..... thank you!
@pdrnsalazar84 Im not going to lie, it was EXTREMELY difficult. I got made fun of and everything else. It will be hard for him, but as long as he is reminded he can achieve whatever he sets his mind too, missing digits or not, HE WILL. The Grace of God and my parents are the reason I can do so much w so little, they never treated me differently than my other siblings. Jus dont try and do everything for him, let him figure out how to use his hands and he will adapt, and you will be amazed.
@XoThumblessWonderXo Yeah I almost dread the Idea that he will be made fun of.... considering im the fighting type.. but i know i cant fight his battles for him. but yeah i agree with you I need to treat him like he is normal or it will truly handicap him. hey do you have yahoo or msn messenger?? if you do, add me my screen name plus yahoo.com its my email too I would really like to keep up in touch with you!! thanks Pablo..
hey girl, my son has clubhand too, no thumb, cant bend fingers except for pinky...he also has microfacial microsomia, h'es fine , he's adapted really well, he's only 2 and a half...u are great inspiration and hope, THANK U SOOOO MUCH!
@chikana7 U are VERY welcome. Just remember, he will accomplish more than you or the Doctors ever dreamed. Just let him know that everyday, and you will see=]
im a male and for the past couple weeks i was obsessed with my wrist because they are extremelly thin , and also my ankles are thin.they both are way thinner than most women, but after listening to you and how you handle the situation i feel like a big tool. so now im gonna grow a set and live my life. you are inspiring .
my beautiful baby boy is 11 months old and was born with the vacterl association, and to which he was born with his right thumb not completely attached to his hand and missing bones in it, he is recieving surgery for this but will in turn lose a finger to create a thumb, you are an inspiration and i will be showing this video to my sweet boy when he is old enough :) thank you so much for being so BRAVE!
@marleymama420 It took a lot to get the nerve up and do it. I do these videos for people like ur precious boy and their parents. He will succeed and do GREAT things:)
@KingMushroom Thank u. U shuldnt b embarressed. I was INCREDIBLY nervous to do these videos, but I had to put aside wat others may think or say. Iam who Iam and no one can change that
ur very cute and pretty and u didnt got it bad cuz theirs a lot of so called physically normal people that didnt know what to do with their so called normal life and they end up useless to themselves and people around them and also to the society so live a kick ass life and learn taekwandoo...YYYAAA!!! ;););)
@TheIkawatay true that I have a sister and a cousin that are as useless as a turd flavored lolly pop...lol but i think this young lady will do wonderful at whatever she wants to do!
Thank you for making this vid. I like to look up things that show how different AND the same we all are. The more difference I see The more I can understand and I don;t ever bother anyone in public about their condition but these vids help us understand. I had told my son early on that Everybody is different a\And same in one way or another and NO ONE should EVER be treated cruelly because of any differences. Glad you made this vid. So informative. Toodles~ :-D
LadyShyye 14 hours ago
all i have is 2 webbed toes on both my feet, the second and third toes are the ones effected and you look pretty too :)
sharky1105 2 months ago
People need to learn how to see others similarities, not differences. At the same time our differences make us special. You show strength that many people don't have.
SuperMagnumpi 2 months ago
you're an inspiration and you're gorgeous!!
thekingofoakland 2 months ago
This was a very good video. I was also born with a Radial club hand. My right arm is short, I have three fingers my thumd looks really skinny because when I was born my thumb had no bone in it so the doctors cut off my thumb and moved my index finger into the thumb position. I just wanted to thank you for creating a video.
psaucier1 3 months ago
This was a very good video. I was also born with a Radial club hand. My right arm is short, I have three fingers my thumd looks really skinny because when I was born my thumb had no bone in it so the doctors cut off my thumb and moved my index finger into the thumb position. I just wanted to thank you for creating a video.
psaucier1 3 months ago
@psaucier1 I make these videos for YOU (: I am glad you enjoy watching! I would love to see what your hand(s) look like as well! Have a great night!
XoThumblessWonderXo 3 months ago
I don't know why anyone would be mean to you about it. Idiots, maybe, I don't know. But you seem to have a fairly bright personality and you strike me as someone who in conversation could be very likeable. And that's all that ever matters, am I right?
TheDavidReinoldBand 3 months ago
Would you ever consider getting those robot arms I've seen? There is a paraplegic guy that can move it with just his mind. I'm asking because I've always wondered would someone with a bum leg rather have a robot one or the one he already had, things like that always made me wonder.
jibberingjon 3 months ago
you are sexy.
peskysushi 4 months ago
I do not have time to reply back to each person, I just want to say thank you for the positive fedback and such kind words/compliments! They make my day everytime I read them. GOD BLESS every one of you!
XoThumblessWonderXo 4 months ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo Hi, no problem if you can't reply. You are obviously a very bright, pretty and good hearted person - good on you for sharing and giving inspiration to others. A friend of my daughters has similar but only on one hand - I'd met her goodness knows how many times before I even noticed, and only because she was riding her bike only holding onto one handle bar. Like you appear, she was just such a lovely person that even when I noticed - it didn't make a difference.
KelticWoman1 3 months ago
@KelticWoman1 Thanks(: it takes some a while to realize mine as well, some are like you and know that it doesnt matter what a person looks like, however there are some that can be very cruel. Have a great night!!(: God Bless <3
XoThumblessWonderXo 3 months ago
We all have things in life we have to deal with that makes us different. I hope your arms don't interfere with functioning to much!! Keep up the good spirits. I have a debilitating case of Tourette's Syndrome. I always say "It could be worse" :)
jaydy11 4 months ago
@jaydy11 Amen to that, it could be worse and people DO have it worse! It is good that you realize that also, helps realize just how blessed you are (:
XoThumblessWonderXo 4 months ago
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Aww you're so cute! Thank you for sharing your story with us, I wish I had as much self-esteem as you do!
WhiteLionness 4 months ago
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WhiteLionness 4 months ago
You are so pretty ,you made me cry ..
GospodinMr 4 months ago 2
@GospodinMr Thanks you(: and please dont cry lol that was not my intentions at all.
XoThumblessWonderXo 4 months ago
You're so pretty I found it hard to focus on your hands.
AlchemicThea7 5 months ago
Wow! That looks really cool!
ThereRLG2006 5 months ago
You have such amazing cheek bones! Its a makeup artists dream!
MarkMarkousian 5 months ago
dang charity im hating on your hair lol i wish my hair would look good when i roll out of bed lol
Deadkingv7 6 months ago
Not to be a crude teenager but you are a hell of a lot prettier than most girls I know. Please continue being brave and just having the courage to do this no matter how people comment on your video.
rockmuzicpwns 6 months ago
wow you are so naturally beautiful i hope and wish you luck in life nd hope you dont find people that say crap about you :)
HoRnYbLuE22 7 months ago
i'm soo sorry, i completely understand... alot of people make fun of people that have deformities but i definetely dont... its mean and i think you're very courageous to talk about your deformities... its not your fault that you are like that, you were born that way!!
CandaceDeon16 7 months ago
Hello (Princess lol). I love your attitude. There are people in the world that having been born the same way would be always mad at the world, and from the short video I seen of you, you seem pretty well adjusted and I cant see any anger. Which means that u are prolly an awesome human being. Thanks for sharing with all here in youtube land.. Also do u ever have to, or have you ever tried using your feet to help you like someone missing their arms have too? Would it even help u to use ur feet?
ericishere100 7 months ago
I'm being nice because I know how it feels
bugbug107 7 months ago
Make a nother vidio can you put on close
bugbug107 7 months ago
Can you clip your own nails?
hobolobo2 7 months ago
One of my friends in school had that. I'm really happy that you're not afraid of showing your flaws. You're very brave.
overclock16 7 months ago
omg im so sorry about your arms/hands! - your so pretty though! :)
xsumuhdihx 7 months ago
No one could be mean to u! :D
Smiley3Face 7 months ago
PM me for more detail, i cant post it ALL as 5 comments
Mrweegeeman1 8 months ago
Hi! I have something really simaler. I am missing have my fingers, well the top half, of my right hand. I have had this sense burth. I am 14. How it happed? In a pregnant women stomach , there are these things called 'rings' ,well something like that, and it got caught around my right hand, and it a deformed. The 'rings' (i am putting the '' because i dont know what they are called) got cought around my hand and cut the circulation off. letting it gorw around a little lower tan a average hand.
Mrweegeeman1 8 months ago
You’re brave young lady, the essence courage. Perhaps you have more to teach this world of ours than we can ever teach you. :))
TheInternetWanderer 8 months ago
you are so beautifull... inside and outside...
pcstudios3 8 months ago
@kathanas Aww thank you(:
XoThumblessWonderXo 8 months ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo I agree with Kathanas
IncubusKid721 8 months ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo I agree with Kathanas that you are pretty.
IncubusKid721 8 months ago
Your a very good looking natural girl and i have all respect for you, i bet you find things difficult but you look like the sort of person who is determined and that nothing can get in your way.
AmyTurnerx 9 months ago 6
@AmyTurnerx I am a very determined person!(:
XoThumblessWonderXo 8 months ago
Yes, my little Heidi has all of her fingers stuck together as well. The Drs are perplexed by her condition. She is perfectly normal, except her hands! Her surgeries start this July. She also has to have many.
I am amazed at how she is already figuring out ways to hold toys and play! She is a little trooper like yourself!
We attend church every Sunday! Your prayers mean a lot to me. I will also pray for you!
SarahM871 9 months ago
@SarahM871 And she will keep amazing you and everyone around her:) she will find out ways to do everything on her own, if you let her. My mom always just let me do stuff on my own unless i absolutely needed help after trying, my daddy on the other hand was ALWAYS doing stuff for me lol **daddys girl**(:
If you have any questions or anything feel free to contact me! :)
XoThumblessWonderXo 9 months ago
Thank you for posting this video! My 4 month old daughter was born with complete complex syndactyly involving all her fingers. They expect her to lose some during surgery. I am confident that she will grow up to be a wonderful, indepenant young lady like yourself.
SarahM871 9 months ago
@SarahM871 Congrats on your baby girl! I was also born with the syndactyly and ALL of my fingers were like stuck together and it took multiple surgeries to get them seperated correctly (after trying forever to actually find someone to do it) but that was back in the way early 90's, Childrens Hospital would not operate on my hands because they didnt know how to go about doing so, my parents were actually advised to have my arms/hands amputated because they said I would never be able to use them.
XoThumblessWonderXo 9 months ago
@SarahM871 I will keep you and your little one in my prayers! I know from personal experience that if you have Faith then God will send miracles your way:) I myself am a medical mystery, doctors cannot wrap their minds around how I manage to do things. I wouldnt be able to do anything if it was not for God and his wonderful mercy:) I hope the best for you and your baby! God Bless!
XoThumblessWonderXo 9 months ago
You're beautiful! Greetings from India. Rock on! We salute you.
Arjunsuri89 9 months ago
@Arjunsuri89 Thank you! Hello to India!!!:)
XoThumblessWonderXo 9 months ago
you're really beautiful lol. :]
WeNotoriious 10 months ago
@WeNotoriious thank u muches :)
XoThumblessWonderXo 9 months ago
You're the best !! So beautiful.... wonderful!!!
emanuelacese 10 months ago
Youre really cute, and I like listening to you talk. :)
kitsune720 10 months ago
YOU ARE INCREDIBLE AND SO BRAVE
i have a cousin who has what you have and she is amazing she has only a thumb but still does the monkey bars by wrapping her arm around the bar!!!
and you are DROP DEAD GORGEOUS!!!
smexylexy321 11 months ago
@smexylexy321 Thank you, it took a lot of nerve to do these videos, no one likes pointing out their differences especially over the internet lol. Thats how I do the monkey bars too! :)
XoThumblessWonderXo 11 months ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo I have to say I can't even do the monkey bars AT ALL!!! heehee. so the fact that you can do them at all is just so amazing!!! you are just great!!!
smexylexy321 10 months ago
Your really cute
holyguy95 11 months ago
You are a wery smart 'n young lady, and you are lucky you can do stuff. Even if it takes a bit longer time than other would'a did it, you can do it.
yonzmidget9 1 year ago
I don't want to sound insensitive but where do you buy gloves?
sabre720 1 year ago
@sabre720 I dont lol I usually go with mittens or socks :)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
Youre so pretty and brave. Thank you for sharing with us.
SweetestFatale 1 year ago
@SweetestFatale Thank you :)
your welcome ;)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
This video is awesome! I'm a 21 year old guy with radial clubhand, and I've never really met anybody like myself. I find your ability to be so cool about your hands really inspiring. I wish I had the confidence to be so candid with people about my hand. Thanks for making this video, it really made me smile.
bockbri 1 year ago
I have the same thing on my left arm. When I was 6, they moved my index finger where my thumb was. It's not really something I think about. I had a band for a while, and used to tinker around with bass, guitar, as well as keyboards. It's never stopped me from doing anything I want to do. It was also a good excuse for getting out of things I didn't want to do. Like sports.
lupton79 1 year ago
@lupton79 How are you doing now?
I used mine for exscuses to get out of things too! haha. doesnt work now that im older though ;)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo Great. Thanks for asking. I figure if your brain works, everything else falls into place.
lupton79 1 year ago
@bockbri Glad it brought a smile ;)
I am usually very shy around people in person because of my hands. I have to make myself get out there and have fun, be myself, and not let my hands and their appearance rule my life :)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
You are gorgeouss!
TheCitymonster 1 year ago
@TheCitymonster Thank you very much :)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
you are beautiful and amazing and wonderful, i love you
prudence100 1 year ago
@prudence100 thank you :)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
you are beautiful and amazing and wonderful,
i love you...
prudence100 1 year ago
How in the world anyone say anything "mean" to you? you are angelic ! ....and cute and smart and BRAVE. Most woman take their whole lives to be as self-assured as you are ( that means you are scared to do it, but you do it anyway). Some "beautiful" woman are to scared to walk out their door and face the world w/o full make up on, you my dear glow with real beauty. I work in higher education and was a model as a teen, the world is in need of fire crackers like you!
danettacordova 1 year ago
Wow you look very grown up now to then :))
BeaconofMusic 1 year ago
I didn't notice anthing deformed about you till you let me see your arms. As far as your head goes, it's lovely to look at. Thanks for letting me see that side of you which shows a pretty and courageous young lady. All the best!!
Angel19403 1 year ago
Never ever let anyone tell u what you can and cannot do with a disability! I have learned that the hard way over the last few years in fighting cancer. I was a nursing instructor at a local college and professional singer when I got diagnosed with tongue cancer at age 26. This past summer they cut 80% of my tongue out and gave me a non- moving graft from my arm. I shouldn't be able to speak at all and it's been a rough recovery but I am relearning... I'm still a teacher just not a singer yet. M
nevaeh198220 1 year ago
I think you are very strong and I thank you for sharing. My feet are deformed and have other issues and I am wheel chair confined and just like you I always thank for what I have and for what I can do and always in the back of my head I know that there is always worst off. Again Thank you.
haltamirano1 1 year ago
@haltamirano1 I ma sorry to hear that but I am glad to hear your thankful for what you do have. We have the right to be angry or make the best out of the hand we are dealt. You chose to make the best out of it, that will take you very far in life:)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo Thank you for your kind words and thank you for your videos. People like you who are strong, self confident and who are at the same time disabled show people disabled or not that nothing is impossible to achieve if you really wanted bad enough. God Bless you! I hope you post more videos. :-)
haltamirano1 1 year ago
@jamman4 Thank you:) people like you that show kindness is the reason I keep at it ;)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
I once had a music teacher in elementary who was born without any fingers on one of her hands. The other hand had all five, but short fingers. she did most everything with no problem. you both have the same attitude, you don't curse your hands, don't need pity, and just work with what you got and adapt well and that's really great. Also, in the comments you said you had webbed toes. Would you be willing to show us? pwwweeease :)
way2weird0 1 year ago
@way2weird0 I knew a lady like that! She could do everything:)
I do not have webbed toes, misunderstanding lol sorry. and Thanks:)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo
oops lol
way2weird0 1 year ago
There is nothing at all wrong with being different. It is the society we live in that is the problem.
Society trains people from infancy to be shallow, and sets a false standard of accepted appearance and behavior which the majority strives to conform to.
The strongest people have no part of this, and accept themselves for who and what they are without regard for the irrelevent opinions of those too weak to be their own person despite their position in life or appearance.
351460 1 year ago
@351460 Very well said! I couldnt of said it better myself:)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
i'm friends with someone whos older brother has a deformed had but he has all his finers and thum on it though but don't know what caused it. i my self have two webbed toes on both my feet :)
sharky1105 1 year ago
@sharky1105 Cool! Ever thought about getting them "fixed"? Get back to me!:)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo my parents asked when i was a baby when they found out i had webbed toes. but the doctor said at the time if i had them fixed then i'd have to have had to have them operated on more then once cos as i'd grow the scaring wouldn't of. i'm glad they are still joined cos i think they're cool
sharky1105 1 year ago
@sharky1105 Well that is awesome! I had mainly all my surgeries when i was younger, LOTS of scars! You seem very happy with how u are:) Dont change!
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo yep i'm happy with them :) the only thing that gets on my nerves about them is when people make inbred remarks
sharky1105 1 year ago
@sharky1105 dis regard everything they say and remember, they make fun of you only because they dont understand ur condition. ignorant people never go too far in the world :)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo yeah you're right. the good thing is as well though is that i have a video of them uploaded to my channel and i have had a few comments from people saying either they have webbed toes too or they have a relation that has them :)
sharky1105 1 year ago
@sharky1105 ya it seems like a lot of ppl have webbed toes or fingers, its getting to be more common i think
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo yeah it happens 1 in 2000-2500 births something like that. i just haven't met anyone in person with them like me
sharky1105 1 year ago
You have a good attitude. I can also tell you have a kind spirit and you see the good in others. Very good and uplifting video
4907shadow 1 year ago
@4907shadow Thank you, and thank you for watching my video and leaving feedback :))
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
hey you are beautifull, and i love your optimism XD
ludamori9 1 year ago
@ludamori9 Thank you:)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
God doesn't exist. If God existed, He didn't make you with 6 fingers. One day, I dreamed being deformed ("nightmare"d). I had 4 fingers in each hand. I then had another nightmare, in another night, of having no hands. I couldn't do almost none of my hobbies! But you're a hero! YOU! CAN! DO! IT!!!!!!!!!
TheGodoia 1 year ago
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@TheGodoia Shut up asshole!
sandynkev04 1 year ago
Hello my name is Hilda my son christopher who is know 5 was born with radial club hand and i am sooo happy to have met you even if it's not in person. I have always wanted to meet a teen with radial club hand etc.... your the best GOD BLESS YOU
hildagfigueroa 1 year ago
@hildagfigueroa I am happy you found me. How is your son doing? God Bless!
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
In reference to Turpaani and your response, right on girl!
farmallcf12 1 year ago
@farmallcf12 Just the facts :) how can we NOT believe? God is great!
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
i admire your optimism :) and LUV your your youtube name as well! Its waesome that you've completely embraced your "deformity"... People like u make the world a better place :)
Pilarress 1 year ago
@Pilarress Thanks! :)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
god doesnt exist, sup.
Turpaani 1 year ago
@Turpaani I would rather go through life believing he does and find out he doesnt, than to believe he doesnt and find out he does. I will pray for u.
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo I think Wiser words were never spoken.
WireZombie253 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo what will praying for he/she do?
AwesomeInACup 1 year ago
I was born with webbed fingers on my left hand. Syndactyly. according to my research. I just want to say, Thank you for making this video. I love how you're so positive. Growing up was tough for me. Always hiding my hand. We should thank God for giving us everything else. I really don't feel ashamed anymore. You're awesome.
MrFutbolero17 1 year ago
@MrFutbolero17 I use to feel the same. We should not be ashamed of who we are, God made everyone the way he wanted. We are special (:
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
Those powerful forearms are built for ultimate handjobs. I'd like to see a video of that. You've got a cute face, I'm curious about the rest. Yes. Feel free to let me know if you decide to take my video suggestion. It would help me, y'know, understand what you go through and stuff. Thanks, love and peace.
meldrey 1 year ago
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MrFutbolero17 1 year ago
@meldrey My suggestion to you, see a therapist (:
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo Now that's just mean. Acting like sex is a dirty secret. You know your parents do it, right? No, you go ahead and see that therapist yourself, or keep making youtube videos since you just seem to want to be heard and don't really want to listen.
meldrey 1 year ago
@meldrey No, ur a chauvinist. Instead of being like that and rude over youtube why not do something constructive? like go outside?
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
Wow, you're cute, deformity be damned.
Anomnomnomamous 1 year ago
dayummm this is hardcore.
You're cute. :D
pasionxrock 1 year ago
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AltarOfHate666 1 year ago
u have a fetus on your face?
missionauto 1 year ago
@missionauto
hey, gtfo
Aurouros 1 year ago
what odd
howesdylan78 1 year ago
This is a very cool video. You are very strong. Thank you for sharing this.
I have clubbed thumbs, so have recently been researching various hand and foot deformities. Do you happen to have a web page, or somewhere where we could see some still shots? You have inspired me to further research this topic.
JamesTylerHope 1 year ago
@JamesTylerHope i have been thinkin on making a page, not sure yet. il keep ya posted ;]
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
wow you are gorgeous, anyone that would be mean to you doesn't deserve your sympathy
fireraisr 1 year ago 2
your awsome and your very pretty
cliadan 1 year ago 2
@thecityexists it took nerve posting this, thank u=]
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
hey charity,
i just wanted to say that you are extremely courageous opening up about this world-wide. i respect you greatly for that. one question I must ask, as a guitarist myself (no webcam, cant put my songs on *epic sad*) and seeing the guitar in the background...do you play?
hope you're well, keep smiling.
mally x
mally2000 1 year ago
@mally2000 no that would be my dad, hes been playin for 38yrs=] i play guitar hero lol
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo wow..I've only been playing 2.5 years. he must be damn epic at it! guitar hero, eh? you could kick my ass on that game..i majorly suck...oddly enough.
mally2000 1 year ago
@mally2000 LOL ya im pretty good at it. My dad is amazing at playing guitar, he plays 24/7
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
Whoever would be mean to you about this would be the biggest douche bag in the world. I admire u being open about it. I don't have anything like that yet I'm sooo self conscious, so my hat's off to you miss.
handom85 1 year ago
After she turned 1 yr. old we (I wanted to keep it on her, but societies cruel way made my decision) decided to have it removed. She now has a small "L" shape scar and its not even noticeable.
crazychad2 1 year ago
Charity, You are a really cool girl! You have a great attitude about yourself. Amazing future ahead of you!!!
My daughter Chellsie, who is now 2 years old was born with two thumbs on her right hand. Her mother and I never noticed then and neither did the nurses until hours after her birth. They came in and woke us up after we and Chellsie had a nap. They showed us and I was actually amazed. To me it was special, it means she is an angel, like you!
crazychad2 1 year ago
@crazychad2 i wish you guys the best. 2 thumbs, how cool=]
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
Omg Im so glad you did this. Youre such an inspiration. I have a deformity in both my hands where the pinkies are super short. I got badly bullied because of it and now I just hide them all the time. This videos really given me such a confidence boost. God bless.
shazzqsong 1 year ago 2
@shazzqsong i do these videos for people like me, i know how hard it can be. imbrace what god has given you, you are perfectly made:)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
good for you. I post videos shuffling cards and such to prove that you can be missing 4 fingers on one hand and still do those things
BurnScarred 1 year ago
To parents of club syndrome and to Charity: I am impressed by your video. I am a 32 year old woman born with club syndrome. Do you think there should be some sort of support group for people born like us? I would love to discuss more about this idea. Anyone else who thinks so, please send me an e-mail: burneye@ipfw.edu
futureschool2011 1 year ago
my friend born with 1 finger and hi draws better than me. he is like an inspiration.
oh, almost forgotm uR pretty xD
grinreaper00 1 year ago
@grinreaper00 Good 4 him:) !
Thank u!;D
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
You're a pretty girl. I find it inspirational that you've made lemonade out of the lemons life gave you (I'm physically normal in appearance; I just find your story interesting.)
Karnydoc 1 year ago
U are beautiful...
m1nd0r 1 year ago
You are so pretty.I was born with one hand just starting of fingers on the left hand so I know that sometimes things can get hard to do for me anyway.
apostolicwoman62 1 year ago
@pdrnsalazar84 lol! cuz in the end what we do right and good with our lives is all that matter...
TheIkawatay 1 year ago
Honestly I think that you are a beautiful young woman!! My son was born with ectrodactyly on his right hand and ulnar aplasia/ulnar club hand on the left. his right hand is similar to yours but his left only has only one digit. I guess the question I have for you what was it like growing up, and what do you suggest for me as a father to help him with this whole process? I know that i can exactly do everything for him..... thank you!
pdrnsalazar84 1 year ago
@pdrnsalazar84 Im not going to lie, it was EXTREMELY difficult. I got made fun of and everything else. It will be hard for him, but as long as he is reminded he can achieve whatever he sets his mind too, missing digits or not, HE WILL. The Grace of God and my parents are the reason I can do so much w so little, they never treated me differently than my other siblings. Jus dont try and do everything for him, let him figure out how to use his hands and he will adapt, and you will be amazed.
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
@XoThumblessWonderXo Yeah I almost dread the Idea that he will be made fun of.... considering im the fighting type.. but i know i cant fight his battles for him. but yeah i agree with you I need to treat him like he is normal or it will truly handicap him. hey do you have yahoo or msn messenger?? if you do, add me my screen name plus yahoo.com its my email too I would really like to keep up in touch with you!! thanks Pablo..
pdrnsalazar84 1 year ago
hey girl, my son has clubhand too, no thumb, cant bend fingers except for pinky...he also has microfacial microsomia, h'es fine , he's adapted really well, he's only 2 and a half...u are great inspiration and hope, THANK U SOOOO MUCH!
chikana7 1 year ago
@chikana7 U are VERY welcome. Just remember, he will accomplish more than you or the Doctors ever dreamed. Just let him know that everyday, and you will see=]
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
im a male and for the past couple weeks i was obsessed with my wrist because they are extremelly thin , and also my ankles are thin.they both are way thinner than most women, but after listening to you and how you handle the situation i feel like a big tool. so now im gonna grow a set and live my life. you are inspiring .
macky765 1 year ago
@macky765 Manning up is good, lol. I hope ur wrist get to where u want them=] Im glad I can be an inspiration.
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
my beautiful baby boy is 11 months old and was born with the vacterl association, and to which he was born with his right thumb not completely attached to his hand and missing bones in it, he is recieving surgery for this but will in turn lose a finger to create a thumb, you are an inspiration and i will be showing this video to my sweet boy when he is old enough :) thank you so much for being so BRAVE!
marleymama420 1 year ago
@marleymama420 It took a lot to get the nerve up and do it. I do these videos for people like ur precious boy and their parents. He will succeed and do GREAT things:)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
mmm,she is handsome and with personality,, I like it.
az99946 1 year ago
youre very pretty :)
cussshimout 1 year ago
@cussshimout Thank u 8)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
I bet she shreds on that acoustic
Threske 1 year ago
@Threske workin on it ;)
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
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Threske 1 year ago
amen GIRLFRIEND proud of you ... support granted
mfranco 1 year ago
@mfranco I appreciate it. thank u=]
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
Your still gorgeous with a full set of fingers or not. Must have allot of courage too, im pathetically embarrassed on camera in general.
KingMushroom 1 year ago
@KingMushroom Thank u. U shuldnt b embarressed. I was INCREDIBLY nervous to do these videos, but I had to put aside wat others may think or say. Iam who Iam and no one can change that
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
When are you going to post more videos ?
bekindbud 1 year ago
@bekindbud Il try to post more SOON. Im still recovering from surgery, not able to do much at the moment. Thanks for watching!=]
XoThumblessWonderXo 1 year ago
I cant play piano.
PirateKing1256 1 year ago
ur very cute and pretty and u didnt got it bad cuz theirs a lot of so called physically normal people that didnt know what to do with their so called normal life and they end up useless to themselves and people around them and also to the society so live a kick ass life and learn taekwandoo...YYYAAA!!! ;););)
TheIkawatay 1 year ago
@TheIkawatay true that I have a sister and a cousin that are as useless as a turd flavored lolly pop...lol but i think this young lady will do wonderful at whatever she wants to do!
pdrnsalazar84 1 year ago