ok so now you tolod every man how to change them self what are you going to change about your self fool oh and as far as you saying lkooks dont matter lol lol lol lol that alopne fucked everything you sead there after as you lie
@mechan9 you need to shut your dumb down mouth for have have shit in your life your not good at and you would not like some one using them as away to slam you so shut the hell up mouth pice
@mechan9@mechan9 for what loveing him takeing care of him being there for him his hole life yes call them tell them all about your lies and when thay come and check in to him thay find a son who is loved in a good home grades in school are good and has lots of food and loves his dad see what kind of low life scum bag you are have a idea for you some day when you have a child some one can say and do this to you and you can feel what you pass out ok sick fuck let
@gekisen01 I think in an environment like a small school setting or working on something or bumping into the man often is enough for her to eventually overlook outward attributes. Also keep in mind that great inner attributes affect the outer. For example, they say that people who truly know how to listen have the best shot at being most popular.
2) Ignore all the politically correct crap taught us by women and wimpy men. Biology and psychology still take the lead when it comes to dealing with people.
3) The hot guys that get chased after don't bother to choose as they don't have to. If the woman you are interested in is unrealistic enough to chase them, let her go and ignore her complaints of there being no good men.
4) Women like sex too. If they pretend otherwise move on.
when you are contributing and helping everyone, doesn't that bring the nice guy front? I've experienced that being a mean ass is actually attractive. No kidding.
@walkingon2001 It all depends on the self-esteem and mindset of the person doing the contributing and helping. An ALPHA Male contributes and helps out of a position of strength and security...he doesn't NEED anything from anyone...the BETA Male, or the "Nice Guy" contributes and helps out of a position of weakness, insecurity, and approval/validation seeking. TWO VERY different Behaviors. "Being Mean" is NOT attractive...being STRONG, CONFIDENT, SELF-ASSURED, and having HIGH-SELF ESTEEM is.
@jarden69 Yeah, I think that's very well put. I need to work on that, I have to agree with you, CONFIDENCE is too important. It's like perfume, girls smell it.
The guys women describe do not exist. You're no different. Try making a video about how to spot games women play with men or how to separate the girl from her friends, something we can actually use.
You are exactly right HAF. Great vid, when people say be yourself it really only touches the surface. Being yourself or accepting yourself is a huge step and I think it is the key.
The comment about being good with women or not is wrong. I think you can learn to be, but what you need to do is understand how attraction works . It's not close to what you may think, forget what you may think . It's also got nothing to do with being logical.
@silbanis I agree with you for the most part. The guy who doesn't get the girl will most likely not get a girl and the guy who can easily get a girl will go through lots of them. You either get girls or you don't, there isn't much of an inbetween, except for very rare occasions.
@silbanis You are correct when you say "You cannot just tell someone with very little self-esteem to be
confident"...but where did you ever get the notion that being successful with women cannot be taught
or learned? Your premise is not accurate at all....we are talking KNOWLEDGE, SKILLS, and ABILITIES here, or what is known as COMPETENCY DEVELOPMENT, this is most definitely very real and viable....so you need to double-check your premises...it's not accurate.
@jarden69 Learning from experience and being taught in a seminar are two completely different things. Also interacting with women has so many different levels it's not like basketball or something.
@Carnuss I agree with what you're saying here and that's why the SKILLS learned in seminars and reading books MUST be put tinto practice. Isn't that the idea behind ALL skill-building classes? You learn the skills and techniques in a seminar, and then apply them. Of course, if you don't genuinely have, or build, confidence and attitude, the skills and techniques won't work. You MUST BE an Alpha Male and exhibit those personality traits and behavior. This too can be learned, and people CAN change
You should tell us more about you what's your ultimate alpha eligible male. If so what did he do to conquer you entirely if we can say that that way.. :)
@hagadaba In America that's totally true. Most other places, people just want a good shag. Thankfully, it's still cheap to fly to Latin America. No matter what this Vlogger says about dating? ...look, I can walk out of the Bogota Colombia airport and be in bed with a random chick just waiting at the bus stop--no "work" on my personality necessary, no cash spent, no introductions even. Just, "where can we go?" Not all of us want deep relationships...I'm looking for deep positions.
@hagadaba there are Billionaires who's wives have divorced them,there are average earning guys who's wives have stayed with them faithfully for 50 yrs....go figure!!!!!!!!!!!
@hagadaba if you're going for the real classy, confident, special women, then looks don't matter that much. And if a guy was everything described in the video, then they would have money.
@NudistInTheRye You are stupid. Read AGAIN my last comment. -.- I don't want to live on this planet anymore. I have never said that you are a dick. You have said that women don't need to get better because they've got pussy. And I responded by saying that Men have dicks. And by your STUPID thinking men and women are therefore perfect. Which is not true because nobody expect God is. Why am I even bothering when you are an ignorant bastard.
@NudistInTheRye To call someone a retard is dismissive. You have never met me, yet alone had an conversation with me. And you made that false assumption. A pussy can not give birth without the male semen. Dick AND pussy have the same value. Some people are just dumb not realizing it. Oh and yeah, fuck you for being rude. :)
@Philipos6 You insulted me first, you said I was stupid, so I only returned the favor. You could have simply told me that I understood you wrong. But anyways, let`s move on. Pussy and dick do NOT have the same value. Lots of dicks aren`t needed, one man can impregnate lots of women where as all pussies are needed. Women and children first is an example of this, Men are disposable, as pussy is the limiting factor in reproduction, not dicks. So pussy has a lot more worth than dick. Gynocentrism!
@NudistInTheRye I insulted you , yes. But I did not said that you are a ''fucking retard'' now did I? Oh and once one man said, take it like this, a dick is a key, and a pussy is the door, and you said that one man can impregnate lots of women, so one key can open a lot of doors, I'll say, that's one hell of a good key. And I disagree with you that a pussy is worth more then a dick, because we couldn't survive without a dick and a vagina. They have EQUAL VALUE.
@Philipos6 They do NOT have equal value in the sexual economy of it all. Think about this: A population of 100 people made up of 50 women and 50 men. If 45 women die, the population is doomed, on the other hand, if 45 men die, 5 men can impregnate the remaining 50 women and the population will be running normal by the next generation. Don`t you get what I`m trying to say at all?
18) No one woman deserves ALL of your attention UNTIL she PROVES herself to you.
19) If a woman breaks up with you, and moves on...then simply tell her "Ok...Good Lukc"...DO NOT plead and beg like a little girl...BE A MAN and move on.
MASTER these SKILLS and you with Thrive with women. Go get em Tiger!!
16) Be a MAN with a PLAN....a man who is going places...a man with a purpose...a mission...GOALS...and your attitude sgould be..."Baby, if you want to come along for a thrilling ride on MY life trajectory, then hop aboard and we can thrive TOGETHER.
17) You MUST always be a Chellenge to her...STOP being so available...youre a BUSY MAN, and she needs to know that MANY people, including other women are vying for your time and attention.
14) NEVER be the first one to let your feelings come out. NEVER tell a woman that you like her first. You MUSt keep her wondering if today is the day that you break up with her to go to into the arms of another woman. Once you tell her first...you are DONE.
15) BE the LEADER in the relationship...do not let her take the lead...if you do, then you will become a little peon for her, and that is NOT where you want to be. She will lose ALL Respect for you.
12) STOP Giving a $hit if a particular woman likes you or not. If yoiu CARE, then you will always give off an aire of DESPERATION, and women have the most powerful Desperation/Neediness/Insecurity RADAR known to man!!! STOP CARING...if she doesn;t like ro want you, then it's HER LOSS, and some other woman will come around the corner for you.
130 You MUST develop a mindset that says..."Is this woman even WORTHY of my time and energy...is she WORTHY of being in my inner circle." If NO, move on.
11) Never answer a woman's question directly...always give her a playful and joking anwer at first...like if she asks..."So, what do you do for a living"...with a smirk and smile on your face you answer..."I'm a Lion Tamer"..."I'm a Big Game Hunter"..."I'm a Test Pilot"..."I'm a Sea Captain"..."I'm an Adventurer"..."I'm a Military General,"etc. These are NOT lies...they are all metaphors for us being the Captains of our own lives, and how we sewt out to conquer our lives and the world around us.
My main problem with the whole "become a better man" thing is that you are basically trying to change who you are, which if you do it to attract someone then you are showing a false version of yourself! I'm not a confident person for example, and so if I pretend to be confident, all that comes undone when faced with having to be confident!
@tattoodfreeek Brother, in all due respect, you have NO idea just how wrong you are about this. Your mindset is such that you will NEVER become Confident, and we humans most definitely CAN change ANYTHING about our Thoughts, Personality and Behavior. This is a fact born out over a century of Psychological Research. What do you think Psychotherapy is all about? It's about purging ourselves of the thoughts and behaviors that are hurting us. That's what "Confidence-Building" is all about...
@tattoodfreeek You ARE correct when you say that "Pretending" to be confident will not work, and women will sense this a mile away. That's why they throw TESTS at us...Like the "Compliance Test"...to see if we are like a little puppy who will do anything...and the "Congruence Test"...by throwing something at us to try and shake us up to see if the confidence we are displaying is REAL. So you are right, you cannot pretend, bu we most definitely CAN BUILD CONFIDENCE for REAL. Read My other Posts
@gnarlybirdman That's the very reason WHY they are "High Demand Men." Because they exhibit the ALPHA MALE Personality Traits and Skills I outlined. They are NOT "Games"...they are behavioral traits and skills, which can be learned. Sure, there are men out there who are in high demand purely because they are extremely good-looking, or theyre obviously very wealthy...those men can easily get women....BUT they will not KEEP women if they do not posses the Alpha Male Personality & Behavior Traits.
7) SMILE a lot...people like it, and women will wonder why you're so happy all the time.
8) Generate EXCITEMENT...BE an exciting guy.
9) Don't talk about yourself too much...be more MYSTERIOUS...Don't be an open book.
10) Maintain EYE-CONTACT with women...Don't STARE, but don't look away too quickly...Give them a sexy look that says..."You and I would be good Together."
5) TEASE women constantly...They LOVE it because it's PLAYFUL. Bust their chops like they are your little sister. It shows you are not intimidated and seeking their approval and validation.
6) STOP sucking up to women and being overly NICE. Women hate it...it Creeps them out, because it's like you're trying to get something.
3) Be in total control of your emotions....Always be Calm, Cool, and Collected...Like James Bond. No one should be able to push your buttons or get you upset, especially women. If someone calls out to you, turn your head slowly in their direction and gaze at them.
4) You always have to have an outgoing, upbeat, and positive ATTITUDE. No one likes a dower faced, somber, and depressed person.
Guys, here's the formula that has worked wonders for me.
1) If you're striking out, start doing the exact opposite of what you normally and instinctively do.
2) BE Supremely CONFIDENT...walk slower, like you're walking through water, head held high, chest out, with a little swagger. Talk slower, with a deeper voice. Be like a Badass who OWNS the place. Wherever you are, THAT'S the place to be...where all the FUN happens, and you RUN the place. No Man there is more powerful than you, and NO ONE
You are the best advisor in the web. I've searched for things that you said but in the web they just repeates the same thing. yours is very different and straight forward. Thanks
"So many men don't know that the odds are actually in their favor when it comes to attracting high quality beautiful women." That's a very provoking thought right there.
Excellent values and skills that can make a man. U must have an excellent father as a role model?
SYZ 2 months ago
ok so now you tolod every man how to change them self what are you going to change about your self fool oh and as far as you saying lkooks dont matter lol lol lol lol that alopne fucked everything you sead there after as you lie
bill1224601 3 months ago
@bill1224601 Bill, you need to take a remedial reading and writing class.
mechan9 3 months ago
@mechan9 you need to shut your dumb down mouth for have have shit in your life your not good at and you would not like some one using them as away to slam you so shut the hell up mouth pice
bill1224601 3 months ago
@bill1224601 Bill I'm going to call Child Protective Services and have your son placed in a home where he'll have a fair shot at life.
mechan9 3 months ago
@mechan9 @mechan9 for what loveing him takeing care of him being there for him his hole life yes call them tell them all about your lies and when thay come and check in to him thay find a son who is loved in a good home grades in school are good and has lots of food and loves his dad see what kind of low life scum bag you are have a idea for you some day when you have a child some one can say and do this to you and you can feel what you pass out ok sick fuck let
bill1224601 3 months ago
@bill1224601 Simmer down, Mr. Greathouse.
mechan9 3 months ago
does anyone else realised that the bed behind her , is the bed she gets nailed on every wednesdays , fridays and weekends . fap fap fap
TheIofProvidence 3 months ago
lol @ all the comments from AFC's saying that only looks and money matter.
Stay in your narrow reality-tunnel and keep deluding yourself.
GPEGEMGTM3 4 months ago
those are all qualities that count only AFTER she approves of your outward attributes. ie. looks, money, social status
gekisen01 4 months ago
@gekisen01 I think in an environment like a small school setting or working on something or bumping into the man often is enough for her to eventually overlook outward attributes. Also keep in mind that great inner attributes affect the outer. For example, they say that people who truly know how to listen have the best shot at being most popular.
quitejaded 3 months ago in playlist More videos from jennelli17
The #1 way to become a better man - stop trying to attract women.
BiccusD 4 months ago 4
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BiccusD 4 months ago
Btw. You always see the comments that just say" your hot," telling that to an attractive girl does nothing.
INTPmetalfan 4 months ago
you're hot period
florinmldvn82ro 4 months ago 2
1) Learn to be happy without women.
2) Ignore all the politically correct crap taught us by women and wimpy men. Biology and psychology still take the lead when it comes to dealing with people.
3) The hot guys that get chased after don't bother to choose as they don't have to. If the woman you are interested in is unrealistic enough to chase them, let her go and ignore her complaints of there being no good men.
4) Women like sex too. If they pretend otherwise move on.
richard233 4 months ago
when you are contributing and helping everyone, doesn't that bring the nice guy front? I've experienced that being a mean ass is actually attractive. No kidding.
walkingon2001 4 months ago
@walkingon2001 Contribute bullshit.
Carnuss 4 months ago
@walkingon2001 It all depends on the self-esteem and mindset of the person doing the contributing and helping. An ALPHA Male contributes and helps out of a position of strength and security...he doesn't NEED anything from anyone...the BETA Male, or the "Nice Guy" contributes and helps out of a position of weakness, insecurity, and approval/validation seeking. TWO VERY different Behaviors. "Being Mean" is NOT attractive...being STRONG, CONFIDENT, SELF-ASSURED, and having HIGH-SELF ESTEEM is.
jarden69 4 months ago
@jarden69 Yeah, I think that's very well put. I need to work on that, I have to agree with you, CONFIDENCE is too important. It's like perfume, girls smell it.
walkingon2001 4 months ago
well, thank for the demand and supply analogy, very clear. Your stuff have more quality than quantity. Thanks and keep it up.
walkingon2001 4 months ago
BS - women slut around with a selective few alpha males. So 20% of males get over 80% of females.
mba2ceo 4 months ago
@mba2ceo That is something like what I was saying except the way you put it is ironic.
Carnuss 4 months ago
The guys women describe do not exist. You're no different. Try making a video about how to spot games women play with men or how to separate the girl from her friends, something we can actually use.
EVILERNIE01 4 months ago
You are exactly right HAF. Great vid, when people say be yourself it really only touches the surface. Being yourself or accepting yourself is a huge step and I think it is the key.
The comment about being good with women or not is wrong. I think you can learn to be, but what you need to do is understand how attraction works . It's not close to what you may think, forget what you may think . It's also got nothing to do with being logical.
INTPmetalfan 4 months ago
You are either successful with women or you're not.It cannot be taught
or learned.There are some women who will never know what its like
to be intimate with a women because they are lacking in something
(whether it be charisma,confidence,humour,a nice smile ,etc)
You cannot just tell someone with very little self-esteem to be
confident when they've been beating themselves up for years.
Some guys will just remain alone...There ISN'T someone out
there for everyone...
silbanis 4 months ago
@silbanis I agree with you for the most part. The guy who doesn't get the girl will most likely not get a girl and the guy who can easily get a girl will go through lots of them. You either get girls or you don't, there isn't much of an inbetween, except for very rare occasions.
Carnuss 4 months ago
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@silbanis That is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you think you can't, you won't bother.
krilik 4 months ago
@silbanis You are correct when you say "You cannot just tell someone with very little self-esteem to be
confident"...but where did you ever get the notion that being successful with women cannot be taught
or learned? Your premise is not accurate at all....we are talking KNOWLEDGE, SKILLS, and ABILITIES here, or what is known as COMPETENCY DEVELOPMENT, this is most definitely very real and viable....so you need to double-check your premises...it's not accurate.
jarden69 4 months ago
@jarden69 Learning from experience and being taught in a seminar are two completely different things. Also interacting with women has so many different levels it's not like basketball or something.
Carnuss 4 months ago
@Carnuss I agree with what you're saying here and that's why the SKILLS learned in seminars and reading books MUST be put tinto practice. Isn't that the idea behind ALL skill-building classes? You learn the skills and techniques in a seminar, and then apply them. Of course, if you don't genuinely have, or build, confidence and attitude, the skills and techniques won't work. You MUST BE an Alpha Male and exhibit those personality traits and behavior. This too can be learned, and people CAN change
jarden69 4 months ago
I really enjoy your videos hot alpha female, well done, from PC Internet.
Carnuss 4 months ago
Time to go commando!
Carnuss 4 months ago
You should tell us more about you what's your ultimate alpha eligible male. If so what did he do to conquer you entirely if we can say that that way.. :)
einc70 4 months ago
You must have had tons of experiences to spill out all these very good articulate advices. But you're saying makes sense though... thanks
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einc70 4 months ago
i really enjoy your videos hot alpha,well done,from London England..
onlyjoetee 4 months ago
Looks are the #1 priority when your younger... from teens to mid 20's... after that its money
hagadaba 4 months ago 15
@hagadaba In America that's totally true. Most other places, people just want a good shag. Thankfully, it's still cheap to fly to Latin America. No matter what this Vlogger says about dating? ...look, I can walk out of the Bogota Colombia airport and be in bed with a random chick just waiting at the bus stop--no "work" on my personality necessary, no cash spent, no introductions even. Just, "where can we go?" Not all of us want deep relationships...I'm looking for deep positions.
powergirl901 4 months ago
@hagadaba there are Billionaires who's wives have divorced them,there are average earning guys who's wives have stayed with them faithfully for 50 yrs....go figure!!!!!!!!!!!
onlyjoetee 4 months ago
@hagadaba if you're going for the real classy, confident, special women, then looks don't matter that much. And if a guy was everything described in the video, then they would have money.
reganam69 2 months ago
well spoken
realphase35 4 months ago
Hm, you should also make how to become a better WOMEN plan. -.-'
Philipos6 4 months ago 6
@Philipos6 WOMEN don't have problems getting men. Well not as much as the other way around.
Carnuss 4 months ago
@Carnuss bullshit, woman are always lonely even if they are in a relationship
Gescajadillo 4 months ago
@Gescajadillo Reading that statement just made my IQ drop by a point.
Carnuss 4 months ago
@Philipos6 women don`t need ti get better. They got pussy.
NudistInTheRye 2 months ago
@NudistInTheRye We've got a dick. What now? O.o -.-'
Philipos6 2 months ago
@Philipos6 Why am I a dick all of a sudden? Most men will put up with a girl whos has a bad personality as long as they get sex. Or not?
NudistInTheRye 2 months ago
@NudistInTheRye You are stupid. Read AGAIN my last comment. -.- I don't want to live on this planet anymore. I have never said that you are a dick. You have said that women don't need to get better because they've got pussy. And I responded by saying that Men have dicks. And by your STUPID thinking men and women are therefore perfect. Which is not true because nobody expect God is. Why am I even bothering when you are an ignorant bastard.
Philipos6 2 months ago
@Philipos6 You`re a fucking retard. A dick has no worth by itself, pussy does,
NudistInTheRye 2 months ago
@NudistInTheRye To call someone a retard is dismissive. You have never met me, yet alone had an conversation with me. And you made that false assumption. A pussy can not give birth without the male semen. Dick AND pussy have the same value. Some people are just dumb not realizing it. Oh and yeah, fuck you for being rude. :)
Philipos6 2 months ago
@Philipos6 You insulted me first, you said I was stupid, so I only returned the favor. You could have simply told me that I understood you wrong. But anyways, let`s move on. Pussy and dick do NOT have the same value. Lots of dicks aren`t needed, one man can impregnate lots of women where as all pussies are needed. Women and children first is an example of this, Men are disposable, as pussy is the limiting factor in reproduction, not dicks. So pussy has a lot more worth than dick. Gynocentrism!
NudistInTheRye 2 months ago
@NudistInTheRye I insulted you , yes. But I did not said that you are a ''fucking retard'' now did I? Oh and once one man said, take it like this, a dick is a key, and a pussy is the door, and you said that one man can impregnate lots of women, so one key can open a lot of doors, I'll say, that's one hell of a good key. And I disagree with you that a pussy is worth more then a dick, because we couldn't survive without a dick and a vagina. They have EQUAL VALUE.
Philipos6 2 months ago
@Philipos6 They do NOT have equal value in the sexual economy of it all. Think about this: A population of 100 people made up of 50 women and 50 men. If 45 women die, the population is doomed, on the other hand, if 45 men die, 5 men can impregnate the remaining 50 women and the population will be running normal by the next generation. Don`t you get what I`m trying to say at all?
NudistInTheRye 2 months ago
18) No one woman deserves ALL of your attention UNTIL she PROVES herself to you.
19) If a woman breaks up with you, and moves on...then simply tell her "Ok...Good Lukc"...DO NOT plead and beg like a little girl...BE A MAN and move on.
MASTER these SKILLS and you with Thrive with women. Go get em Tiger!!
jarden69 4 months ago
I think by Alpha Male.....you mean Aaron Marino of Alpha M Image Consulting.
2003SCT 4 months ago 2
OK.... ur opinions on dudes is a bit surface. Bring yo Alhpa Bf no homo... need to hear from a dude
NasalBlast 4 months ago
@NasalBlast You just heard from me Bro...read all my posts...Peace
BTW...AlphaFemale is 100% Correct in ALL of her videos...she is the BEST woman on the web.
jarden69 4 months ago
16) Be a MAN with a PLAN....a man who is going places...a man with a purpose...a mission...GOALS...and your attitude sgould be..."Baby, if you want to come along for a thrilling ride on MY life trajectory, then hop aboard and we can thrive TOGETHER.
17) You MUST always be a Chellenge to her...STOP being so available...youre a BUSY MAN, and she needs to know that MANY people, including other women are vying for your time and attention.
jarden69 4 months ago 2
14) NEVER be the first one to let your feelings come out. NEVER tell a woman that you like her first. You MUSt keep her wondering if today is the day that you break up with her to go to into the arms of another woman. Once you tell her first...you are DONE.
15) BE the LEADER in the relationship...do not let her take the lead...if you do, then you will become a little peon for her, and that is NOT where you want to be. She will lose ALL Respect for you.
jarden69 4 months ago 2
12) STOP Giving a $hit if a particular woman likes you or not. If yoiu CARE, then you will always give off an aire of DESPERATION, and women have the most powerful Desperation/Neediness/Insecurity RADAR known to man!!! STOP CARING...if she doesn;t like ro want you, then it's HER LOSS, and some other woman will come around the corner for you.
130 You MUST develop a mindset that says..."Is this woman even WORTHY of my time and energy...is she WORTHY of being in my inner circle." If NO, move on.
jarden69 4 months ago 2
11) Never answer a woman's question directly...always give her a playful and joking anwer at first...like if she asks..."So, what do you do for a living"...with a smirk and smile on your face you answer..."I'm a Lion Tamer"..."I'm a Big Game Hunter"..."I'm a Test Pilot"..."I'm a Sea Captain"..."I'm an Adventurer"..."I'm a Military General,"etc. These are NOT lies...they are all metaphors for us being the Captains of our own lives, and how we sewt out to conquer our lives and the world around us.
jarden69 4 months ago
My main problem with the whole "become a better man" thing is that you are basically trying to change who you are, which if you do it to attract someone then you are showing a false version of yourself! I'm not a confident person for example, and so if I pretend to be confident, all that comes undone when faced with having to be confident!
tattoodfreeek 4 months ago
@tattoodfreeek Brother, in all due respect, you have NO idea just how wrong you are about this. Your mindset is such that you will NEVER become Confident, and we humans most definitely CAN change ANYTHING about our Thoughts, Personality and Behavior. This is a fact born out over a century of Psychological Research. What do you think Psychotherapy is all about? It's about purging ourselves of the thoughts and behaviors that are hurting us. That's what "Confidence-Building" is all about...
jarden69 4 months ago
@tattoodfreeek You ARE correct when you say that "Pretending" to be confident will not work, and women will sense this a mile away. That's why they throw TESTS at us...Like the "Compliance Test"...to see if we are like a little puppy who will do anything...and the "Congruence Test"...by throwing something at us to try and shake us up to see if the confidence we are displaying is REAL. So you are right, you cannot pretend, bu we most definitely CAN BUILD CONFIDENCE for REAL. Read My other Posts
jarden69 4 months ago
@jarden69 How about high demand men don't play any games and don't go for any of that?
gnarlybirdman 4 months ago
@gnarlybirdman That's the very reason WHY they are "High Demand Men." Because they exhibit the ALPHA MALE Personality Traits and Skills I outlined. They are NOT "Games"...they are behavioral traits and skills, which can be learned. Sure, there are men out there who are in high demand purely because they are extremely good-looking, or theyre obviously very wealthy...those men can easily get women....BUT they will not KEEP women if they do not posses the Alpha Male Personality & Behavior Traits.
jarden69 4 months ago
7) SMILE a lot...people like it, and women will wonder why you're so happy all the time.
8) Generate EXCITEMENT...BE an exciting guy.
9) Don't talk about yourself too much...be more MYSTERIOUS...Don't be an open book.
10) Maintain EYE-CONTACT with women...Don't STARE, but don't look away too quickly...Give them a sexy look that says..."You and I would be good Together."
jarden69 4 months ago
5) TEASE women constantly...They LOVE it because it's PLAYFUL. Bust their chops like they are your little sister. It shows you are not intimidated and seeking their approval and validation.
6) STOP sucking up to women and being overly NICE. Women hate it...it Creeps them out, because it's like you're trying to get something.
jarden69 4 months ago
3) Be in total control of your emotions....Always be Calm, Cool, and Collected...Like James Bond. No one should be able to push your buttons or get you upset, especially women. If someone calls out to you, turn your head slowly in their direction and gaze at them.
4) You always have to have an outgoing, upbeat, and positive ATTITUDE. No one likes a dower faced, somber, and depressed person.
jarden69 4 months ago
Guys, here's the formula that has worked wonders for me.
1) If you're striking out, start doing the exact opposite of what you normally and instinctively do.
2) BE Supremely CONFIDENT...walk slower, like you're walking through water, head held high, chest out, with a little swagger. Talk slower, with a deeper voice. Be like a Badass who OWNS the place. Wherever you are, THAT'S the place to be...where all the FUN happens, and you RUN the place. No Man there is more powerful than you, and NO ONE
jarden69 4 months ago
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juns1992 4 months ago
hotalphafemale speaks the truth
zetsuay16 4 months ago
Church.
ellimest 4 months ago
"So many men don't know that the odds are actually in their favor when it comes to attracting high quality beautiful women." That's a very provoking thought right there.
fuzman06 4 months ago