Friends To Lovers And Back To Friends Again...

[rachelbluesheep]

holy shit i got involved with my best friend. he and I weren't exactly dating though. we were kinda lovers. i cant explain it. but yeah, now he and i aren't involved with each other anymore. we are still best friends though. we talk about everything that we use to talk about. <3

[WeAreAll0ne1]

if youre best friends with a woman youre more than friends. whether youre dating or not the sex connections is there

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[Bobdillos]

Stop saying mature like that! 

[harlemw651]

I don't think this is about maturity. If the guy still loves her, he can't change that. Therefore, it would be hard for him to be just friends with her (at least at this point) because he still has feelings for her.

[smurfpiss666]

trust me at least 70% plus relationships fail after when trying this i mean u may find that they are some one you can hit up for a booty call which is cool but to be really good close friends like yall was before prolly aint gonna work out all that well but if it does please do post a youtube video unlike our fat bald friend who obviously is being walked all over by who ever hes with i bet he/she hits him

[backspace125673]

and everytime we do see each other or text or whatever its really akward. am i setting myself up for a disaster after summer? am i really going to be able to get her back? or did i ruin my chances already? please message me back with some kind of answer. its been driving me absolutly insane!

[backspace125673]

me and my bestfriend started dating. we were going out for about 3 months. everything was going perfect. then summer came around. she wanted to take a break because she would be very busy over summer. she wants to be just friends right now. she knows i still love her and i dont know how to treat her as just a friend. everytime i talk to her or see her i feel like if i can't call her my own then i don't want to be around her at all. so i've been trying to stay away from her this summer.

[supyallz]

holy shit bro, the exact same thing is goin on with me too

[madridcf55]

what the hell is going on

[standingpretty]

hey, i know your probably busy but i have a qeustion sorta related.... i was friends with this guy for a short time then we started going out and he dumped me and i was upset. but, we still hung out and sometimes we would hook up and i felt bad most of the time. i usually cried afterward and he would aplolgize and wait untill i was done crying to leave. but, realistically i know that he doesen't want a relationship and i can accept that but why can't he be my friend and treat me like a friend?

[Murphator]

it's because we're horny. yeah i know it's simple but it's true. and there are a lot of use who don't like the whole relationship thing, or even the friendship thing because it's a label and it implies obligation. and a lot of us, after we get it, are lazy, because we already got it

[ArizonaT]

You know what? I personally think you should stay away from him he's only looking for a blow job per say....for your own happiness and sanity i say leave him, stay away it is abvious he doesnt want you as a friend, im sorry but he's just using you. Find someone else a REAL friend or boyfriend that will treat you right and really love you and care for you. I say stop letting him waste UR time and energy. :)

[therater2008]

The friends zone blows

[mastera1993]

I love my best friend but she doesn't even like me more then a best friend...my heart is broken...once again

[Halloweenlover]

same thing with me but he liked me too nd i asked him out nd he said IDK nd then the next day it came up again and he told me he needs space to think and then he tells m theres a girl he really likes now...................</3

[mastera1993]

I'm very sorry for you :(

PS. me and her are bf and gf now.. just sayin

[Murphator]

ouch

[kmlan1]

I'm still friends with my ex-boyfriends, but we spent time away from each other before we became friends again (you know, to get over each other)

[AndyRoddick969]

Matour Matourity. i like how he enunciates the T. isnt it Mature Maturity?

[ltb702]

Hmm Well in my own opinion for a guy and a girl to be friends its hard because eventually either one feels for that person Unless there Completely not your type and when i mean completely i mean 100%

[kiploca88]

its not that easy...especially if u dated ur friend for over a year...trying to be just friends afterward is hard

[almightyaakash]

i agree... dated mine for 4 years. turned out to be a total jerk. now i cant even look at him anymore.

[chachee99]

It took you 4 years to realize he is jerk? Something doesn't add up.

[KiwiFactor]

he was my first... i was young, blind and immature... all the things that he didwell firslt i didnt know any better and secondlly i was so IN love i forgave everything he did.

and one day out of the blue... i grew up... and i saw what he was doing was wrong and i left him.

[DrCherryPie]

you misspelled "than" in the title

sorry i just happened to notice

[OHDOCTAH79]

When someone is into the other they are never really friends. because one person is just waiting to get a shot. and if they don't they move on.

[disciple21781]

from my observations and experience I'd say that in 90 percent of male, female friendships, one of the two is interested in the other...

[MrCarelo]

I disagree

[lahluv]

i agree

[MimiNirvlarva]

i disagree

[mywingsareyours]

disagreed.

[kubomon17]

matUErity? sounds funny

[wolfinside]

They can't go back to being "just friends" again, because they were never "just friends" in the first place. He was pretending to be "just a friend" so he could get with her. (possibly for years) And she was going along with it because she loved the attention. Women and men cannot be "just friends". Someone is always lurking around to "get some". (usually it's the man) Women like the delusion that these "lurkers" are "friends" because the like being sucked up to.

[lavinder11]

Ugh.. for some reason, I don't like this guy. The core of his advice is always the same (right) but he says it in a way that is not helpful at all.

Wolfinside, men and women can be friends. Your definition is kind of narrow, I think. But your comment explains partly why women tend to like gay men better.

[wolfinside]

I agree, women and men can be friends. But I don't believe they can be "just friends". Especially with men, there is a sexual attraction and more likly a hope to have sex at some point with the woman. Men will lurk around for years pretending to be "just friends" in hopes of "gettin some". (and you're right again, the exception is a gay man)

[lavinder11]

Oh, well that makes more sense. I guess I was misunderstanding you. :P

[mrdarkknight]

wooo i've been saying this for years....finally, someone agrees.

[liber8me]

im a guy and actually some of my best friends are girls. dont generalise with men, not all of us want to 'do' the women we are friends with.

[wolfinside]

You are right, I am generalizing. But I am speaking of my experience with men and women I know. Speaking of many subjects you need to generalize to discuss issues. Of course there are exceptions to every rule.

[crazyxiaoxiaomoron]

really helpful

[mrdarkknight]

"grow up, get over it and move on"

easier said than done....sigh

[bArT8472]

It's not so hard, really. Just talk it over.

[mrdarkknight]

i meant getting over it and moving on. read my comment again...

[donkeydong75402]

hey hey