I like the cell-phone-advice very much. Many people seem to see this in an other way. Once I was on a date and I got a call, as I didn't turn off my cell-phone. But I didn't answer the call. The lady asked me, why I didn't answer it, and I just said: "No, I'm here with you, I'm engaged, he can call me later." Well, she seemed rather irritated thenflattered. But I would do it this way again. It's a question of manners, I believe.
Coming from a guy, the one thing I make take slight issue with is the drinking thing. I completely agree that a woman should stay in control of herself in that department on a first date, no question there. The thing is, if you're at a classy place and the gentleman orders a nice bottle wine, it might be rude not to have a little. So unless you're a total "light weight" in the drinking department, in that case, have one glass and then you don't have to have any more if you don't want.
You are SO good to make these advice videos, -- my channel got spy-wared and deleted by a man, because I hadn't seen and DIDN'T follow the rules of this video. All my videos including yours, were lost.
So seeing you today reminded me I have to re-find your definitive version of the song -
"Sooner or Later God will Cut You Down" BRAVO YSABELLA!
i want a relationship with a girl who's funny,sexy,5 foot 9,curvy,knows how to fix a car incase we breakdown,super confident,real clever,plenty of money,buys me flowers everyday,mentally tough,good strong bak for lifting,loves to do the same things as i love,e.g cooking,cleaning,...[and stay like that till she's 80 years old] is there anyone out there? i always meet my blind date on a push bike..incase she's a hump bak troll!! a bit of advice for girls.....bake cakes!...its sooo flippin sexy!!
Depends on what your standards are. If they're healthy and reasonable, WAIT FOR IT! And in the meantime, make yourself live up to some high standards, too! :)
FINALLY-THANK YOU!! I HATE WHEN SOME FEMALES TALK ABOUT TIR EX-BF CUZ IT FEELS LIKE THIER NOT INTERESTED/DONT CARE ABOUT YOU/STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HER EX-BFs ya know((that hurts like OD bad!
3 excellent points. adding a 4th, Be a Challange. Don't be a mean/cold challenge, lol, that's not appealing, but be a challenge. if the guy actually likes you and isn't just some jerk who wants to do you know what then this will gain you tons of brownie points. people tend to appreciate things they have to work for alot more than the stuff that is just obviously there for the taking. sage advice
I am a guy and I hate it when a girl talks about other guys. Makes me so insecure and afraid. Also it makes it look like she is disinterested. Also I usually dont care and have nothing to comment on it. Good advice.
One thing that I'm not sure about but think that the guy would be fairly impressed: If he does not open the door for you, ladies, whether he's nervous and forgetful or just unthoughtful, open it for him. As far as I can figure, he'll either think it's weird and kind, or he'll be impressed. I think its safe to try it, and if he gives you a funny look, then don't try it again. But I don't know, does anyone else agree with this?
Thanks so much... this just solves my problems ... and my doubts on awkward behaviour..Sometimes I am shy to openly flirt with a guy but I got this program for my cell from bluepont, it plays music when a guy who's looking is near. Then we send texts and if it does not weird me out I meet them right then and there. It's pretty smooth, takes the awkwardness out.
thx for the advice i hope it comes in handy!! your a very good public speaker too...well youtube speaker!!! i look forward to watching your courage video!!! thx
I agree with GodsDe. If I dressed like my mom for a formal date I'd be wearing tan dress pants and a white sweater, and dark maroon lipstick and tiny gold hoop earrings. I'd look really religous or something! And I also hate the saying "little black dress worthy". Those types make my skin paler. I like color! Wahooo! thank you for the tips.
wait i don't agree with the comment 'wear only what your mother would look good in'
1. Younger people have different styles then older people
2. Some people's mother's might be a lot heavier & out of shape then they are
However, I do agree that women should keep their clothing conservative because it will give off the wrong impression, whether that's how a person really is or not
It is not about style but modesty. If an older or heavier person looks overexposed in an outfit, chances are a younger/ slimmer person does as well, and this is a good and objective judge.
I'm not and it's a very strange thing to talk about an ex-boyfriend when we have a date. Maybe some girls should control their emotions and think a little bit with there head and not their feelings.
Well that's your personality. The last comment was kind of a generalization. For all you know guys could think you're a drama queen. and speaking of dating, I'm in a pickle here. all the guys at my school are either jocks or dorks. which I don't mind either but where the hell are all the individualists like myself? what the hell! signing off, sargent pepper of the yellow submarine (see beatles songs for reference)
especially the part about clothing. that's very important cause we, guys, do seem to notice more than we should. lol.
i went to Prom a couple months ago and i my date was dressed very elegantly. some skin showing, but not to the point that she looked trashy in any way. unlike some girls who wore two threads and expected that to keep them covered.
personally, i think clothing is definitely one of the more important ideas. or at least right now that i'm in high school
My name is melissa, and i was raped before i died. I use to enjoy pain and now i inflict it upon people. I was tortured and raped untill i could no longer breathe. Those meanies now suffer and die, and those who do not repost this to 5 videos will die too. i hate this 2 but i believe
At the strike of 12AM, those who did not repost this will die a horrible death after seeing a bloody face covered with long black hair. Those who repost this will receieve a kiss from their crush
Cant we all just be ourselfs, rather than follow step by step ruels,,if people really like you for you surely they wudnt care if you wanted to bitch about sum girl with saddle bags
Omg!!!! you said all the things that we (ladies) should not do, but i did it with my bf...such as: i never turn off my phone while we are kissing and there were lots of coming calls in my phones...i could not ignore it...i guess its my habbit...sob~~ in the end we always stopped in the middle...and i realize he was a little bit sad... Now i will do your advice!!! thx alot pal!!! and i think you will be a good gf for your bf thx alot once again!!! love ya!!!muacks~~
Good advice once again. The first one is very true. So easier for a guy to keep pleasing a girl if she shows appreciation, makes him feel good. Usually if a girl likes a girl and she likes him the only thing that can ruin it is the girl being too serious, shy and not showing she's having a good time. The guy make take it as a rejection.
More than 3 points, but who's counting - it's all good advice! Thanks hon. As a guy, I can attest to all of this being good. I'm a single guy...does my opinion count? :P
As the kind of girl who gets offended when a man I don't know calls me 'honey' or 'baby' and rejects most actions taken by traditional gentlemen, this could not be more right. This is not old fashioned advice. This is the truth. You don't have to deny your feminism to be courteous.
The other night I thought I was gonna get laid but this chick talked my ear off for hours about her ex-boyfriend. Needless to say I left her house confused and dissapointed, I really didnt know what the hell to think besides that she still has some ex-boyfriend issues. I guess my point is do you think I should still put forth the effort to see what happens or kick it aside before things get more weird than they already are?
That is true, but sometimes its good to be warned. Nobody ever listens to warnings at first,
but for precautions. i think these videos are good, but its too bad they arent longer and more specific with details. she sounds very smart though. =]
@jimsottile Yes...one of the best single lines of advice I've ever gotten, from the prez of a large ad agency, was, "Nobody cares what you think, John, they care what you know." So I've learned to be acutely aware of when people standing shoulder to shoulder in the same place are giving one another advice about how to get somewhere out in the distance...when you could probably go ask the guy already standing there. There are plenty of magic bullets that explain relationships...raising kids...
@JohnVerba ...finances, and all the rest. Like...when someone "is too kind to say no," can't set boundaries, don't know that a person who doesn't act friendly is not a friend, etc...that's definitely not stuff anyone has to learn by experience. I used to think it was, then we had some kids, picked up two books, and went, "Hmmm...it appears other humans have been through this before us." And...that was really nice to know. Besides...a lot about every kind of relationship is similar.
im sorry i kno im only 15, but your a crush i got in my books :) not in a creepy way. also i have a question about teenage love, i find some girls are very immature when it comes to relationships. a couple more things wat about the girls friends they like to get in teh way and flirt.. plz comment back wat do when approaching a girl, at my age! thx good vids
haha that's great! The advice WORKS! & Ish GOOD! Thx ysabella! =) It's encouraging, to have... sorta a layout planthat u give, & I just mean... all these tips that u can have, sorta a "checklist" eer sumthin like that to go over =) NEways... thx bunches! :)
this is a topic i need as much advice as i can get ! But my problem is apparently i come off as the girl no man dare approach as hey have no chance... any advice on how to resolve that one would be much obliged :) thanks x
thank you for the advice but i already do these things, o my god ill talk to anyone lol... and i do have a group i mainly go out with but also go out with other people too...it's good advice though. Ive eard being in a large group of people doesnt help though ? Cos thats not so approachable?
Great advice. Really im not even kidding. Thank you! I've been looking a lot for something that gave half as much advice as this. I've been having boy troubles myself. Like when you talked about setting standards. I should have done that with my last boyfriend. i didnt and i regret it.
Retro comment! I think a woman should dress classy (like the man should). Moreover, the woman could wear a potato sack and attract a man, as long as she smiles. So dress like you mean it!
i once called a friend in the middle of a date to let her know that i was ok. it was a 30 second call and i excused myself beforehand. would that be considered rude?
i listened to the second video. the one on the advice for guys. shit i really hope that people are not stupid enough to need to hear this. everything that you just said its COMMON SENSE!!! let me repeat this COMMON SENSE!!! please do not let people be this idiotic to the point that they need obivious advice. i really do not look foward to the future beacuse there will be lot of stupid people around.
I am a guy, in many relationships, years,,now single, and your correct, your 100%%% correct the girls that pick that phone up, have zero,zero,zero class, ex "hi ohhh just eating out, what are you up to?" no class, insecure, they will do this during marrige,,,,,, its a new world, girls have zero idea, men also one subjects,,but the cell??? gross..
I am a guy, in many relationships, years,,now single, and your correct, your 100%%% correct the girls that pick that phone up, have zero,zero,zero class, ex "hi ohhh just eating out, what are you up to?" no class, insecure, they will do this during marrige,,,,,, its a new world, girls have zero idea, men also one subjects,,but the cell??? gross..
Great video, very straight and to the point, some of it might seem obvious, but really, a lot of women are just clueless about these things! It's about time that somebody said something. I have an additional "obvious" tip to daters out there, make sure you have fresh breath! Do you really want to be remembered as the dragon breath guy or girl? For bad breath info - causes and cures check out (blog dot therabreath dot com).
its true the mother thing she said....I got this from meet the fockers....you just gotta look at a girls mother to know what your in for....aka - thats why mtv made the show date my mom
Do people really need to be told this kind of stuff? I mean, I know we live in a society full of tards, but sheesh, gimmie a break! You are right and all that kind of stuff, but, no shit, right?
you're absolutely right on everything you stated. all i've got to say is you're freaking awesome and if all women were like you, it would almost be a perfect world. thank you for doing humanity a justice in this crazy world we live in today. thank you.
GOOD JOB! But... Although I completely agree with you about compliments addressed to women, there is a category of women who heard so many compliments that they simply cannot accept more. She'll think like that: "Ha, another sucker, he thinks that if he compliments me, he will get me into his bed. I am the most beautiful lady in the universe and he is a no one so, that cannot happen. He is a rat compared to me"
Anyways... I like you and how you presented everything and... would you marry me? :)
I know I'm ugly...but you're s'posed to love me anyway. Besides, you don't want a man that looks better than youeself anyway, right...???
That pretty boy you've been seeing, he ain't no good for you. Take my advice and get yourself a man with a face like a bullfrog and a heart of gold. That's the way to go, you'll never be sorry.
thanks for the advice! i'm glad SOMEONE on youtube decided to take dating tips seriously! by the by, has anyone ever told you you look like aly milchalka? well you do..congrats!
O agree, but the last point take alot og people to serious! My mother doesn't need to look nice in it! Just give it a thought, if I dress up to nice, the guy will be nervous or he wants to have sex with me immedeately! So my advice, dress how you feel well! And be yourself!
Ah Ysabell... the very pixels themselves are blessed to render your exquisitely beautiful and charming image! May your image be burned into millions of CRT screens that America may be made a more beautiful place.
you are a nice talker i like what you say. and i sleep very bad but listning to you makes me kalm and relexed before i get to sleep haha sounds funny but its treu. i wish i had a cd or a dvd with only this you voice taliking about nice things. go on girl. you must have your own show like oprah and tyra banks or anything like that now goodbye with love suzie
This was a very good video. Just wanted to state that I'm a guy, glade i watched long enough to see the end haha. Going to watch the other one to you have great advice, also single but waiting for one girl to treat me good.
Loved this! Especially the keep-it-possitive part. The rest I knew, such as prices and such. Usually my boyfriend likes to order the most expensive thing for himself, and insists I pick whatever I want. Still though, I keep it VERY reasonable. Thank you very much, I'll make sure to check out more!
You know it really is sad that this information is NOT common sense. If you do not already know this information, you seriously need to get yourself a female mentor that will guide you in the right direction!
i like this boy in school and we are just friends but this girl keeps on getting in the way and being mean what should i do to notice me and like me????
i love the 'watch how you are dressed' portion... so true... you want the person who you are with to see your assets without literally seeing them. you should sparkle to whoever you're with no matter what you're wearing.
this is pretty good info for 1st-date-i-have-no-clue-who-u-are-type. Ill definitely would keep it in mind. a few points: does these rules apply if you known the person for some time? and when u "go"...and cant drive... is calling a taxi a good option?
What a thoughtful, lovely and charming person. I think "YouTube" might be creating a new kind of superstar...a superstar of personality and you are definitely one of them.
Wow! I clicked on your video because I just wanted to see that pretty face with lovely brown eyes talk. I was pleasently surprised that you had a good head on your shoulders.
I suggest that the lady carries an easy-access dose of pepper spray and/or possibly a zapper of some type.
Good video! All points are great! But some things mothers dont always look nice in- you have to have that one little black dress to be in, just not a trampy one ^_~
This woman is pretty smart. You wouldn't believe how much of a killer it is for a guy when the girl talks about the ex - and by killer I mean the guy loses interest FAST
Most of your comments are very good. I particularly agree with the "leave your ex boyfriends out of it." I've had WAYYYY too many dates where the girl just starts talking about their most recent ex. It's by FAR the last thing a guy wants to hear about. Most guys HATE hearing about an ex.
sweet. i was allways sceptical about such videos and being on other side i thought "lets take a look and laugh" but lady you are sweetie :D good work, keep em coming, we need intelligent woman in world.
Your so pretty!!!:)
ImGoinYard44 1 week ago
you are very pretty
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I like the cell-phone-advice very much. Many people seem to see this in an other way. Once I was on a date and I got a call, as I didn't turn off my cell-phone. But I didn't answer the call. The lady asked me, why I didn't answer it, and I just said: "No, I'm here with you, I'm engaged, he can call me later." Well, she seemed rather irritated thenflattered. But I would do it this way again. It's a question of manners, I believe.
pocketdynamo87 4 months ago
What are the updates your life? Recent? Just want to make sure you are doing ok!
GhostDog65 5 months ago
Coming from a guy, the one thing I make take slight issue with is the drinking thing. I completely agree that a woman should stay in control of herself in that department on a first date, no question there. The thing is, if you're at a classy place and the gentleman orders a nice bottle wine, it might be rude not to have a little. So unless you're a total "light weight" in the drinking department, in that case, have one glass and then you don't have to have any more if you don't want.
minstrel1184 1 year ago
@minstrel1184
No one should 'have to' drink unless they so choose.
ysabellabravetalk 1 year ago 3
You are SO good to make these advice videos, -- my channel got spy-wared and deleted by a man, because I hadn't seen and DIDN'T follow the rules of this video. All my videos including yours, were lost.
So seeing you today reminded me I have to re-find your definitive version of the song -
"Sooner or Later God will Cut You Down" BRAVO YSABELLA!
IdaSputum 1 year ago
i want a relationship with a girl who's funny,sexy,5 foot 9,curvy,knows how to fix a car incase we breakdown,super confident,real clever,plenty of money,buys me flowers everyday,mentally tough,good strong bak for lifting,loves to do the same things as i love,e.g cooking,cleaning,...[and stay like that till she's 80 years old] is there anyone out there? i always meet my blind date on a push bike..incase she's a hump bak troll!! a bit of advice for girls.....bake cakes!...its sooo flippin sexy!!
philandgary 1 year ago
WOW
you know Men pretty good. you were Spot On , on every Point Especially the Cell phone point
CoffeehousePorcupine 1 year ago
I gotta say................. you are getting beautiful and beautiful by the year!!
luckyvidoes 1 year ago
I want to have these high standards but what if there aren't enough nice guys to go around. What if standards are too high?
melcantfindausername 1 year ago
@melcantfindausername
Depends on what your standards are. If they're healthy and reasonable, WAIT FOR IT! And in the meantime, make yourself live up to some high standards, too! :)
ysabellabravetalk 1 year ago
FINALLY-THANK YOU!! I HATE WHEN SOME FEMALES TALK ABOUT TIR EX-BF CUZ IT FEELS LIKE THIER NOT INTERESTED/DONT CARE ABOUT YOU/STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HER EX-BFs ya know((that hurts like OD bad!
thank you!!
up me!!
124reppin 1 year ago
Remarkable video!!! love you guys for sharing this info... Please dont forget to visit my videos!!! (",)
waystogetyourexback 2 years ago
This might be a little off topic but, you have a nice voice... sounds like it would be a great singing voice. Sorry if that was a bit random :)
MIRANDAISANERD 2 years ago
@MIRANDAISANERD
I am a singer :) go to channel ysabellabrave or google me.
ysabellabravetalk 1 year ago
really enjoyed the three points in this video. I'm posting this as a favorite on my channel lovein90days
xo Dr. Diana
lovein90days 2 years ago
3 excellent points. adding a 4th, Be a Challange. Don't be a mean/cold challenge, lol, that's not appealing, but be a challenge. if the guy actually likes you and isn't just some jerk who wants to do you know what then this will gain you tons of brownie points. people tend to appreciate things they have to work for alot more than the stuff that is just obviously there for the taking. sage advice
AlexHitchens860 2 years ago
I am a guy and I hate it when a girl talks about other guys. Makes me so insecure and afraid. Also it makes it look like she is disinterested. Also I usually dont care and have nothing to comment on it. Good advice.
hubomba 2 years ago
Yes, I think most of us feel that way! :)
ysabellabravetalk 2 years ago
You remind me of my Mama. And I love her so much!
TomaaatoZo 2 years ago
One thing that I'm not sure about but think that the guy would be fairly impressed: If he does not open the door for you, ladies, whether he's nervous and forgetful or just unthoughtful, open it for him. As far as I can figure, he'll either think it's weird and kind, or he'll be impressed. I think its safe to try it, and if he gives you a funny look, then don't try it again. But I don't know, does anyone else agree with this?
-Lysha-
LyshaBell 2 years ago
thank you
ralucaralush 3 years ago
GREAT advice!
Jesper
Jazzper79 3 years ago
Man the Ex-Boyfriend thing is the most annoying thing in the world, what the hell are chicks thinking. But every girl is on the rebound.
Gundam42069 3 years ago
"Be a lady," sums it up very nicely.
JulietheWriter 3 years ago 2
more women should take this advice..good video
crh2010 3 years ago 5
no touching at all?
Cocolossal 3 years ago
all great advise,thank you.
mary312008 3 years ago
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So this is the 21st century?.. you tube.. youtube... YOUTUBE!!
i'm ashamed of us
VideoRasta 3 years ago
I know so many girls who dress stylish but still modest at the same time.They look hot, not trashy.
XugaXuga88 3 years ago 11
not many girls like that in perth anymore your city is lucky to still have them
drinkyourtea 3 years ago 2
Thanks so much... this just solves my problems ... and my doubts on awkward behaviour..Sometimes I am shy to openly flirt with a guy but I got this program for my cell from bluepont, it plays music when a guy who's looking is near. Then we send texts and if it does not weird me out I meet them right then and there. It's pretty smooth, takes the awkwardness out.
jenniferspitz33 3 years ago
thx for the advice i hope it comes in handy!! your a very good public speaker too...well youtube speaker!!! i look forward to watching your courage video!!! thx
supernaturalrocks01 3 years ago
I agree with GodsDe. If I dressed like my mom for a formal date I'd be wearing tan dress pants and a white sweater, and dark maroon lipstick and tiny gold hoop earrings. I'd look really religous or something! And I also hate the saying "little black dress worthy". Those types make my skin paler. I like color! Wahooo! thank you for the tips.
CatFlashBlue 3 years ago
wait i don't agree with the comment 'wear only what your mother would look good in'
1. Younger people have different styles then older people
2. Some people's mother's might be a lot heavier & out of shape then they are
However, I do agree that women should keep their clothing conservative because it will give off the wrong impression, whether that's how a person really is or not
GodsDe 3 years ago
It is not about style but modesty. If an older or heavier person looks overexposed in an outfit, chances are a younger/ slimmer person does as well, and this is a good and objective judge.
ysabellabravetalk 3 years ago
yeah why the fuck do girls bring up there ex boyfriends
peacemaker908 3 years ago
they still love them. girls have wayyyy too much emotional attachment. I would know. I'm one of them.
CatFlashBlue 3 years ago
I'm not and it's a very strange thing to talk about an ex-boyfriend when we have a date. Maybe some girls should control their emotions and think a little bit with there head and not their feelings.
firshania 3 years ago
Well that's your personality. The last comment was kind of a generalization. For all you know guys could think you're a drama queen. and speaking of dating, I'm in a pickle here. all the guys at my school are either jocks or dorks. which I don't mind either but where the hell are all the individualists like myself? what the hell! signing off, sargent pepper of the yellow submarine (see beatles songs for reference)
CatFlashBlue 3 years ago
You are adorable miss!
XOXO
kikomarine 3 years ago
Great stuff!!
K4Norge 3 years ago
This really is fantastic advice!
It pretty much is true. I am going to check out the other videos. GOOD JOB!
coolcoolgirl258 3 years ago
this is very great advice!
especially the part about clothing. that's very important cause we, guys, do seem to notice more than we should. lol.
i went to Prom a couple months ago and i my date was dressed very elegantly. some skin showing, but not to the point that she looked trashy in any way. unlike some girls who wore two threads and expected that to keep them covered.
personally, i think clothing is definitely one of the more important ideas. or at least right now that i'm in high school
BCviolin8290 3 years ago 2
Thank you! :) This is soo right on, and things that are sometime so easy to forget.
phantasmagloria 3 years ago
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maybe u should watch how YOU dress
haaymodelchix 3 years ago
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My name is melissa, and i was raped before i died. I use to enjoy pain and now i inflict it upon people. I was tortured and raped untill i could no longer breathe. Those meanies now suffer and die, and those who do not repost this to 5 videos will die too. i hate this 2 but i believe
At the strike of 12AM, those who did not repost this will die a horrible death after seeing a bloody face covered with long black hair. Those who repost this will receieve a kiss from their crush
limegreen0694 3 years ago
hi melissa
blablawhatev1 3 years ago
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what's up with your teeth? kinda gross
sethruleznow 3 years ago
Cant we all just be ourselfs, rather than follow step by step ruels,,if people really like you for you surely they wudnt care if you wanted to bitch about sum girl with saddle bags
MagicalMoore 3 years ago
your so my new role model! your a great person and such an amazing actress/singer! i love your vids!
justanotherteenheart 3 years ago
youre soooo on point!
charmkitty101 3 years ago
Omg!!!! you said all the things that we (ladies) should not do, but i did it with my bf...such as: i never turn off my phone while we are kissing and there were lots of coming calls in my phones...i could not ignore it...i guess its my habbit...sob~~ in the end we always stopped in the middle...and i realize he was a little bit sad... Now i will do your advice!!! thx alot pal!!! and i think you will be a good gf for your bf thx alot once again!!! love ya!!!muacks~~
XxIYaoiIxX 3 years ago 4
Good advice once again. The first one is very true. So easier for a guy to keep pleasing a girl if she shows appreciation, makes him feel good. Usually if a girl likes a girl and she likes him the only thing that can ruin it is the girl being too serious, shy and not showing she's having a good time. The guy make take it as a rejection.
AmokBR 3 years ago
More than 3 points, but who's counting - it's all good advice! Thanks hon. As a guy, I can attest to all of this being good. I'm a single guy...does my opinion count? :P
thegorn 3 years ago
ur tone is calming
isaidvolley 3 years ago
You are great!!
in some ways your old fasion
and that's great.
I love all your tip's
BBQTOM007 3 years ago
As the kind of girl who gets offended when a man I don't know calls me 'honey' or 'baby' and rejects most actions taken by traditional gentlemen, this could not be more right. This is not old fashioned advice. This is the truth. You don't have to deny your feminism to be courteous.
Bridget0688 3 years ago 2
Thanx girl ! I like u
noaly22 3 years ago
your so cute thank you gods bless you
kikomarine 3 years ago
What is this woman's credentials? The best advice you can get is through experience and common sense. There is no magic bullet.
jimsottile 3 years ago
I agree.
ysabellabravetalk 3 years ago
The other night I thought I was gonna get laid but this chick talked my ear off for hours about her ex-boyfriend. Needless to say I left her house confused and dissapointed, I really didnt know what the hell to think besides that she still has some ex-boyfriend issues. I guess my point is do you think I should still put forth the effort to see what happens or kick it aside before things get more weird than they already are?
undacheese 3 years ago
That is true, but sometimes its good to be warned. Nobody ever listens to warnings at first,
but for precautions. i think these videos are good, but its too bad they arent longer and more specific with details. she sounds very smart though. =]
MiszJ3sst3r 3 years ago
@jimsottile Yes...one of the best single lines of advice I've ever gotten, from the prez of a large ad agency, was, "Nobody cares what you think, John, they care what you know." So I've learned to be acutely aware of when people standing shoulder to shoulder in the same place are giving one another advice about how to get somewhere out in the distance...when you could probably go ask the guy already standing there. There are plenty of magic bullets that explain relationships...raising kids...
JohnVerba 1 year ago
@JohnVerba ...finances, and all the rest. Like...when someone "is too kind to say no," can't set boundaries, don't know that a person who doesn't act friendly is not a friend, etc...that's definitely not stuff anyone has to learn by experience. I used to think it was, then we had some kids, picked up two books, and went, "Hmmm...it appears other humans have been through this before us." And...that was really nice to know. Besides...a lot about every kind of relationship is similar.
JohnVerba 1 year ago
next time please zoom the camera out. and turn off the sound too. actually, just turn the camera off. thnks
Jebstrosity 4 years ago
lol
ysabellabravetalk 4 years ago
I do all these things and it doesn't seem to do me any good
johnnoAnt 4 years ago
thanks maryanne!!
i love your videos, thank you for your constant advice. =) i always watch your videos when i'm feeling down, (especially about guys) and you help!
weberockinyo 4 years ago
Ohh my good, you are so sweet, Im in love :-)
thomaswahlqvist 4 years ago
Great advice!
yourtango 4 years ago
wow good points
miss23trina 4 years ago
I dont know why I watched this but im kinda glad I did! Im a single guy by the way ;D
eArtrash 4 years ago
im sorry i kno im only 15, but your a crush i got in my books :) not in a creepy way. also i have a question about teenage love, i find some girls are very immature when it comes to relationships. a couple more things wat about the girls friends they like to get in teh way and flirt.. plz comment back wat do when approaching a girl, at my age! thx good vids
Willthethrillarmstro 4 years ago
haha that's great! The advice WORKS! & Ish GOOD! Thx ysabella! =) It's encouraging, to have... sorta a layout planthat u give, & I just mean... all these tips that u can have, sorta a "checklist" eer sumthin like that to go over =) NEways... thx bunches! :)
Windchimes555 4 years ago
this is a topic i need as much advice as i can get ! But my problem is apparently i come off as the girl no man dare approach as hey have no chance... any advice on how to resolve that one would be much obliged :) thanks x
nadia8me 4 years ago
Honestly I have heard the same thing. I have no idea on that one - I try to be friendly, not sure what the deal is!
ysabellabravetalk 4 years ago
Talk to lots of people and show that your not exclusively part of one group. And try to be yourself and seem semi humble
PsychedelicSmurf 4 years ago
thank you for the advice but i already do these things, o my god ill talk to anyone lol... and i do have a group i mainly go out with but also go out with other people too...it's good advice though. Ive eard being in a large group of people doesnt help though ? Cos thats not so approachable?
nadia8me 4 years ago
Great advice. Really im not even kidding. Thank you! I've been looking a lot for something that gave half as much advice as this. I've been having boy troubles myself. Like when you talked about setting standards. I should have done that with my last boyfriend. i didnt and i regret it.
Keep up the good work and thank you!
♥
Glow
GlowEuh 4 years ago
Retro comment! I think a woman should dress classy (like the man should). Moreover, the woman could wear a potato sack and attract a man, as long as she smiles. So dress like you mean it!
MightyTrebor 4 years ago
i followed all these things and it didnt work
TVNS828 4 years ago
What didn't work?
ysabellabravetalk 4 years ago
:) I've made a few mistakes in my short short life but I gotta say that the stuff in this message is golden.
We're living in a world where a guy can easily slip drugs into a girl's drink with a lot of bad consequences afterwards.
& I've definitely learned my lessons the hardest way possible.
Y'know hon, maybe you should do a video on safety ;)
shirshitnitz 4 years ago 2
Number 3 is incorrect. If a girl is 18-25, she should not dress like her mother. That is all.
mmafan35 4 years ago
I didn't say to dress like your mother.
ysabellabravetalk 4 years ago
i once called a friend in the middle of a date to let her know that i was ok. it was a 30 second call and i excused myself beforehand. would that be considered rude?
pureintuiti0n 4 years ago 2
Not at all, good for you!
ysabellabravetalk 4 years ago
i listened to the second video. the one on the advice for guys. shit i really hope that people are not stupid enough to need to hear this. everything that you just said its COMMON SENSE!!! let me repeat this COMMON SENSE!!! please do not let people be this idiotic to the point that they need obivious advice. i really do not look foward to the future beacuse there will be lot of stupid people around.
ralekIX 4 years ago
I am a guy, in many relationships, years,,now single, and your correct, your 100%%% correct the girls that pick that phone up, have zero,zero,zero class, ex "hi ohhh just eating out, what are you up to?" no class, insecure, they will do this during marrige,,,,,, its a new world, girls have zero idea, men also one subjects,,but the cell??? gross..
stox500 4 years ago
I am a guy, in many relationships, years,,now single, and your correct, your 100%%% correct the girls that pick that phone up, have zero,zero,zero class, ex "hi ohhh just eating out, what are you up to?" no class, insecure, they will do this during marrige,,,,,, its a new world, girls have zero idea, men also one subjects,,but the cell??? gross..
stox500 4 years ago
nice advice
TheeAmazing 4 years ago
Great video, very straight and to the point, some of it might seem obvious, but really, a lot of women are just clueless about these things! It's about time that somebody said something. I have an additional "obvious" tip to daters out there, make sure you have fresh breath! Do you really want to be remembered as the dragon breath guy or girl? For bad breath info - causes and cures check out (blog dot therabreath dot com).
toothlessfairy07 4 years ago 2
totally true...lol
LetsgoClubin 4 years ago
wow i love ur tone of voice its so beautiful...it makes me want to watch more and more of ur videos...i told all
IfrahL 4 years ago
this is very good advice for girls who aren't exactly very smart on dates! this is very good!!!
sexygirdoll 4 years ago
WHOO HOO! Thank you for this! :-D
hallospacegirl1013 4 years ago
YOU LOOK LIKE AJ FROM ALLY AND AJ!
PunkKaratePrincess 4 years ago
its true the mother thing she said....I got this from meet the fockers....you just gotta look at a girls mother to know what your in for....aka - thats why mtv made the show date my mom
evil221884 4 years ago
great advices thank you!!!
pearlyflash 4 years ago
good advice...
msdrella 4 years ago
Do people really need to be told this kind of stuff? I mean, I know we live in a society full of tards, but sheesh, gimmie a break! You are right and all that kind of stuff, but, no shit, right?
Hehe, I am completely single, fyi!!!
WExXtifer 4 years ago
you're absolutely right on everything you stated. all i've got to say is you're freaking awesome and if all women were like you, it would almost be a perfect world. thank you for doing humanity a justice in this crazy world we live in today. thank you.
shuxams 4 years ago 6
Are you married?? ;)
ClassySOB 4 years ago
I wish I was!
ysabellabravetalk 4 years ago
GOOD JOB! But... Although I completely agree with you about compliments addressed to women, there is a category of women who heard so many compliments that they simply cannot accept more. She'll think like that: "Ha, another sucker, he thinks that if he compliments me, he will get me into his bed. I am the most beautiful lady in the universe and he is a no one so, that cannot happen. He is a rat compared to me"
Anyways... I like you and how you presented everything and... would you marry me? :)
razvan1t 4 years ago
Wow you are so absolutely right. Madam, you are very wise. You have such smart advice. I hope the ladies will listen to you.
junkyjuice21 4 years ago
THANK YOU SO MUCH! I am gladd that I know what to do on a date.:)
mAe1692 4 years ago
you r sooooooooooo right!! Thank you very much for the advice <3 i'll be usin them ;)
queenmonaty 4 years ago
wonderful advice, beautifully stated.
aliasdee 4 years ago
I'm single and though I've dated this one bloke exclusively for a few months already, I know I still need all the advice I can get.
BritishAirwaysGal 4 years ago
Fantastic advice! I've been happily married for a number of years, and my husband and I agree that both of your dating videos are excellent advice.
faething 4 years ago 2
i love her cheekbones!
pinkyswear51 4 years ago
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rokergrlrox 4 years ago
Aww, that was awesome. :) A lot of that advice I had taken already...but the bringing your own car is something I hadn't thought of. Thanks!
mle011 4 years ago 2
Attn: Ladies...
I know I'm ugly...but you're s'posed to love me anyway. Besides, you don't want a man that looks better than youeself anyway, right...???
That pretty boy you've been seeing, he ain't no good for you. Take my advice and get yourself a man with a face like a bullfrog and a heart of gold. That's the way to go, you'll never be sorry.
ThomasDeLello 4 years ago 7
Win.
Morkat1991 4 years ago
Sweet :D
ysabellabravetalk 4 years ago
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You're the sweet, is it ok if we chat?
ClassySOB 4 years ago
You're like the big sister I never had! You have a way of talking that just *makes* people want to listen. Keep up the great work. :)
treble473 4 years ago 2
yeah well girls dress sluty on a date it means they are looking for another guy on the date, yeah thats low
sephious159 4 years ago 3
thanks for the advice! i'm glad SOMEONE on youtube decided to take dating tips seriously! by the by, has anyone ever told you you look like aly milchalka? well you do..congrats!
princesstootsweet2 4 years ago
Great, i love it. Your amazing and beautiful :D
suffocatedsilence 4 years ago
Well Done! You would think that all of this would be common sense to most, but unfortunately, it's not. Great Advice! Cheers!
CheekyMonkeyinNY 4 years ago
Love the witty joke at the end - cool vid!
xesclub101 4 years ago
you remind me of my english teacher....
SGjammer22 4 years ago
good advice i personally dont mind a little gossip if the girl is funny not the boring usual
Chancheros 4 years ago
O agree, but the last point take alot og people to serious! My mother doesn't need to look nice in it! Just give it a thought, if I dress up to nice, the guy will be nervous or he wants to have sex with me immedeately! So my advice, dress how you feel well! And be yourself!
puppetmasterin 4 years ago
Ysabella, you rock! =)
ShyLuv3 4 years ago
i love it
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Juliana (from Brazil)
juprof 4 years ago
imma guy this is great pretty good advice
mindset36 4 years ago
wow that was suprisingly good advice. I would like to be on a date with women who kept to these points.
bigsmilefoo 4 years ago
Ah Ysabell... the very pixels themselves are blessed to render your exquisitely beautiful and charming image! May your image be burned into millions of CRT screens that America may be made a more beautiful place.
InfiniteMushroom 4 years ago
Lawd..!! you are too sweet.. how have I lived with out YouTube for so long.. :-) Love your laugh..
kindredspirit11 4 years ago
Great advice.
kevlardude 4 years ago
you are a nice talker i like what you say. and i sleep very bad but listning to you makes me kalm and relexed before i get to sleep haha sounds funny but its treu. i wish i had a cd or a dvd with only this you voice taliking about nice things. go on girl. you must have your own show like oprah and tyra banks or anything like that now goodbye with love suzie
Dsuzie 4 years ago
Great points. As a 29 year old male, I concur with all of them.
blanknot 4 years ago
This was a very good video. Just wanted to state that I'm a guy, glade i watched long enough to see the end haha. Going to watch the other one to you have great advice, also single but waiting for one girl to treat me good.
abidgamer 4 years ago
so todaly true
daisyh33 4 years ago
Loved this! Especially the keep-it-possitive part. The rest I knew, such as prices and such. Usually my boyfriend likes to order the most expensive thing for himself, and insists I pick whatever I want. Still though, I keep it VERY reasonable. Thank you very much, I'll make sure to check out more!
Tennisloverew 4 years ago
You know it really is sad that this information is NOT common sense. If you do not already know this information, you seriously need to get yourself a female mentor that will guide you in the right direction!
jswilk83 4 years ago
i like this boy in school and we are just friends but this girl keeps on getting in the way and being mean what should i do to notice me and like me????
gerardsgirl599 4 years ago
Just be yourself and don't worry about her. You are two different people, and it is not a contest.
ysabellabravetalk 4 years ago
THANK YOU!!! Ur so nice to help ppl like this!
777rock 4 years ago
i love the 'watch how you are dressed' portion... so true... you want the person who you are with to see your assets without literally seeing them. you should sparkle to whoever you're with no matter what you're wearing.
kimip00 4 years ago
I really like you, Sometimes I just come back to your videos because of your laugh.
DongleProductions 4 years ago
I really enjoyed your video. Please contnue doing more vidoes with your postive/correct view ways on dating
MssRome 4 years ago
if someone flips out because you're taking a cab, they're way too high-maintenance.
elgecko84 4 years ago
v v good advice:)
babewbrains22 4 years ago
this is pretty good info for 1st-date-i-have-no-clue-who-u-are-type. Ill definitely would keep it in mind. a few points: does these rules apply if you known the person for some time? and when u "go"...and cant drive... is calling a taxi a good option?
luvablexjoolee 4 years ago
I think once you get to know a person better, you will be a much better judge of how to treat them the way they'd like best.
ysabellabravetalk 4 years ago
Hey, is that me or she said "3 points" and she makes like 20?
Plus I quite disagree with most of them, but maybe we don't live in the same area and the culture is different here...
corseb 4 years ago
WOWW, that was actually stellar advice!!
stuntbikebabe 4 years ago
Lycanthrope029 (1 day ago)
hmm Blonde and intelligent cool....lol
blond , intelligent and hot lol
N44Bthe44P 4 years ago
yeh she is very smart
Maniac3754 4 years ago
What a thoughtful, lovely and charming person. I think "YouTube" might be creating a new kind of superstar...a superstar of personality and you are definitely one of them.
stillwantstoknow 4 years ago
i think you look like alyson Michalka
howtovideoseasy123 4 years ago
Wow! I clicked on your video because I just wanted to see that pretty face with lovely brown eyes talk. I was pleasently surprised that you had a good head on your shoulders.
I suggest that the lady carries an easy-access dose of pepper spray and/or possibly a zapper of some type.
That80sGuy1972 4 years ago
Good video! All points are great! But some things mothers dont always look nice in- you have to have that one little black dress to be in, just not a trampy one ^_~
LoveVampire 4 years ago
Wow, you're really cool... I think I'm subscribing!
jenny911 4 years ago
This woman is pretty smart. You wouldn't believe how much of a killer it is for a guy when the girl talks about the ex - and by killer I mean the guy loses interest FAST
bjduerst 4 years ago
Thanks for posting this information. All of us can use a refresher course on how to act like a true lady on a date!
tamishia77 4 years ago
You have the same sweater as I do... And I'm a guy.
Megidolaon 4 years ago
Most of your comments are very good. I particularly agree with the "leave your ex boyfriends out of it." I've had WAYYYY too many dates where the girl just starts talking about their most recent ex. It's by FAR the last thing a guy wants to hear about. Most guys HATE hearing about an ex.
frankthethief 4 years ago
sweet. i was allways sceptical about such videos and being on other side i thought "lets take a look and laugh" but lady you are sweetie :D good work, keep em coming, we need intelligent woman in world.
truethera 4 years ago
Good points, I hate when women do those annoying things..
stuntmasta3o5 4 years ago
thank you sooo much for the advice!! ;D
SorrelClaw 4 years ago
good on you for posting this video! =)
WingsOfStars 4 years ago
hmm Blonde and intelligent cool....lol
Lycanthrope029 4 years ago
Well...is it possible to tell me what to do if you want a boyfriend but your to shy to go out there and get one?
AnimeladyOMG 4 years ago
i love you!
relex109 4 years ago
Good points to remember.
Navitas2003 4 years ago
a woman of wise words! :D
x
Lucymay 4 years ago
very nice video. i like your down to earth demeanor.
keep up the good work ;)
kevb0 4 years ago
Very smart pointers. Now please help me find a man who's worthy of going out with me. :-)
crazycurlzzz 4 years ago
My god you're beautiful.
solidnem 4 years ago
Hehe~ Nice tips! And thank you for stressing a woman's safety issues, THAT tip is often overlooked ;(
I'll be sure to use your advice in the future when I start dating. =)
EndeavoredWolf 4 years ago